Long story short I feel like my girlfriend requires as much effort to take care of as myself plus another half of me (at LEAST). And what does she contribute? Companionship and sex.

I looked back at other girls I've known and I feel like two of them may have contributed a fair amount to their husbands. My grandma worked a lot at home, but if my grandpa weren't married wouldn't his life have been a heck of a lot easier in the first place? So she was nullified because she is the reason he had to work two jobs and have a fancy house which required work.

And my stepmom was a pediatrician. She made more money than my dad. Honestly seems like my dad came out ahead from that marriage (she passed away). He still had to deal with the pain of losing the love of his life... But over all I'd say that was beneficial for him.

All of my other girlfriends and the women in my life are good people, but it seems like they also require more effort than the value they provide. But since the universe is masculine and feminine BOTH, I have a hard time accepting women are completely useless.

So are most women really like this, where they'll let the man do the bulk of the work while they do their emotion stuff? Do they provide other benefits I'm missing? I'm genuinely trying to get both sides of the story by asking both Blue Pill and TRP.