The consequences of marrying a slut

aanarchist · 2017-03-15T09:59:59+00:00

at the end of the day dude most women are kinky, just find the ones who respect themselves enough to share that with one man. sluts are government property, public toilets. the best relationships are kept private and the woman will keep her sexuality within the confines of a relationship she is committed to. the others are just permanently unhappy and will suck your energy dry no matter what you do. alphas don't ltr sluts because anything more than a pump and dump with them is unhealthy for a man, and they have better things to do than be host to a leech.

Paladin2903 · 2017-03-15T10:16:57+00:00

To be fair, she was faithful as long as we were together (3 years).

My good man, no offense, but how the fuck do you know that she was faithful?

Stythe · 2017-03-15T13:25:38+00:00

I dated a slut for a year. I had a beta mindset and put everyone before myself. In fact, I'd never given serious thought to what I wanted at the time. It was all childish daydreams. She became my one because she kind of sort of fit my childish idea of an ideal girl. She had also fucked over 30 guys in the span of maybe 4 years, had stories of gangbangs, getting so trashed at clubs she puked in public, she took a shit in a field early on in our relationship, she had a drug problem which took all of her money, and mine via my boundary issues, she never held down a job for long, she never followed through with anything, she posted on and on about every aspect of our life on facebook from her unhappiness to our sexual exploits, she'd tell strangers about her sexual escapades, she's gaslight me when I told her to show restraint, she flip out on me about things like baking pies, or how my mother asked asked if she could dye her hair a more natural colour for a family members conservative wedding, or about how I was controlling..... I mean I could go on for days. This is the kind of life you probably would have been in for. I can't express to you how worthwhile it was when we broke up. After the initial wtf phase passed, I paid off the accumulated debt and got through the apartment lease I could barely afford, tried a few different jobs and decided to get into the trades, got in great shape, learned to play guitar, am finishing up a pre apprenticeship course, will have a car in a few months and be ready to actually start my life on a solid foundation before too long.

You didnt just dodge a bullet, you moved the country that holds the nukes. Now never immigrate to slut-land again.

victor_knight · 2017-03-15T10:26:04+00:00

I've slept with married women so yeah...

postreformedpua · 2017-03-15T12:00:45+00:00

Guys of TRP, who married sluts, how did it eventually turn out?

After seven years together she fucked a friend and co-worker. Almost ruined me. Took our dogs.

Looking back there was periods of her acting shady so probably cheating a lot generally.

In short, bullet dodged, never marry - least of all a self confessed slut.

disusernameisnttaken · 2017-03-15T08:21:42+00:00

So she is a slut but "she was faithful as long as we were together (3 years )."

Aha.

gsd7788 · 2017-03-15T15:44:28+00:00

I know my soon to be ex wife (still in divorce process) was a slut when I got with her. I was 20, her 19. Crazy though, I was alpha as fuck and she got latch on to me. The bitch knew my "purpose" came before her and she "love" me for that! Why I'm getting a divorce? You see once a females believe you lost your "purpose" in life, then its time to move on.

No one, ever said the pill will be easy to swallow.

Mangoinhand · 2017-03-15T07:36:24+00:00

You dodged a fucking bullet. Don't second guess yourself

Sensei_Hensei · 2017-03-15T10:49:27+00:00

Faithful for 3 years and she's a former slut? You know this how? She told you?Tigers don't change their stripes.

281threethreeoh8004 · 2017-03-15T17:50:48+00:00

I slept with a married woman whose man still has no idea. She travels for work and has a different guy in the cities she travels to most regularly. I would be kidding myself if I thought I was her only one even in my own city.

They're on a path to divorce because she loathes how little of a man he truly is, but he still believes she's been faithful - outside of the time he found her in bed with her friend (another woman).

This woman is a freak. She sounds a lot like the girl you almost wife'd.

Sdom1 · 2017-03-15T19:21:01+00:00

First off, three years is nothing. The first hump comes around 7 years -- yes, there's truth to the 7 year itch -- and another probably 15-20 years in, depending on how early you married.

Also, the more partners a woman has had, the more her chances of divorce rise. If your ex was a slut, your chances of divorce were very, very high. Something I've learned with age is to never assume that you're the exception to the rule. Just by the way the stats work, chances are you ain't. The more partners a woman's had, the less capable of pair bonding she is, and her chances of alpha widowhood rise as well.

bmunny1963 · 2017-03-15T17:13:17+00:00

Depends on the woman. My wife rode the carousel pretty hard until I met her at 26 (wifed her up at 30). To hear her tell it, she kinda got it out of her system. We've been married 25 years, never a whiff of infidelity on her part (but who really knows, right?), and she does any kinky, nasty shit I can imagine.

booty_boy · 2017-03-15T16:32:32+00:00

Yeah pats on the back to the circle jerkers, great job guys! A lot of us have slept with wives, and we can't know for sure if she was faithful or not. OP, you would know best if she was unfaithful or not, but the REAL point is, it's hard for a man to feel any kind of security in a marriage/LTR with a woman with that kind of sexual appetite. You made the right decision for you. Don't look back.

0kool74 · 2017-03-15T12:59:25+00:00

To be fair, she was faithful as long as we were together (3 years ).

So she got railed before you, got railed after you.....and you think you were the magical one??? Bwahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!

Level_Dreaded · 2017-03-16T03:20:22+00:00

Red pill men dont marry sluts. They weigh the options long before they consider it. It is not your girl. Just your turn, see also:

read the sidebar.

yomo86 · 2017-03-15T11:42:34+00:00

I won't shame. Considering the probabilities you most likely dodged a bullet.

The 'bff'-girlfriends can keep their nature and nurture only so much in check until the guy has been trapped. This behaviour has been constantly trained as she kept her orbiters close, of which she had many I suppose. The relationship sub is full of semi-alphas who thought they married the best girl on this god-forsaken planet only to find out that she either got fat or a dead bed-room happend or both.

Mudpielol · 2017-03-15T15:26:27+00:00

I know a guy who married a stripper. They seem to be happy. They have a kid together. This dude was slaying pussy left and right. I don't know more details. I would bet he's still slaying pussy left and right.

BestSC86 · 2017-03-16T13:38:19+00:00

Let's just say that you have to understand fanatically following the hardcore TRP guidelines for plating chicks is going to GUARANTEE that your pool of possible LTR candidates are in fact sluts....

Look you can't decide to follow a philosophy that dictates that a girl fucks you on the first or second meeting and without any sort of commitment from you, emotional or financial or otherwise, without knowing that you are screening all but exactly the type of very high n-count sluts which you are trying to avoid.

Hell, one of the highest up voted posts on TRP in the past week, is a call to TRPers to NOT ask the girl to do any outside activity or date but give her the option to either come over on the very 1st meeting to your place for a fuck or get a hard next for her as a "time waster".

You can do that, as is your right, but know going in that the women who accept are in fact sluts who have NO chance of being LTR material.

TRP is a great philosophy for dudes to find the pool of easy fucks in their communities and it certainly explains a host of masculine traits which women find attractive BUT the ones who find it most successful are those who quickly learn calibration and adapting it to not pre-rejecting the type of women who would make good LTR potential.

You know the ones who, in fact, have other shit going on in their lives to where they are not hanging out down by the government services building every day scoping out which dude they are going to fuck that evening or spending 4 days a week wading up to the bar at the local pub\watering hole\dance club. The ones who have nothing else to do with their day but the drama involved in being the fucktoy\plate of a host of dicks in the neighborhood.

Smakane · 2017-03-15T11:07:56+00:00

Marriage is a social trap.... Don't fall in it.

ransay3277 · 2017-03-15T13:42:47+00:00

You dodged a major bullet. You just haven't figured it out yet.

AbdoulReborn · 2017-03-16T05:36:31+00:00

As soon as i read she was faithful as long as we were together I broke out it laughter. That Shit right there. Golden.

Kommanderdude · 2017-03-15T12:39:36+00:00

My best friend married a slut. She cheated with for different dudes at the same time. Gave him herpes. His blue pill mind told him it was somehow his fault and he tried to make it work. A year later she did it again. Then he tried open marriage. Didn't work. Now they are separated and he is slowly starting to swallow the redpill

imurhckleberry · 2017-03-15T19:55:33+00:00

you can turn a whore into a housewife if you want to, but they eventually turn back into whores.

helldiverharold · 2017-03-16T02:34:18+00:00

I met a slut, talked her up and we dived right in. She was very receptive to me at first. "This is great!" I thought. Things were flowing. Went out on two dates, made out in the first, sex the second. Bought her over, made the move, the sex was AMAZING. She was perfect, did everything I wanted. "She's a keeper!" I thought. Then it went downhill. I started to ask about her past. She wouldn't tell me the number of guys she slept with. She told me that guys before me would break up with her when she told them. "Np" I thought. But it made me very suspicious. So as stories were shared, not only did I learn that she still hung out with many of these people, but in some cases she would talk about them in a very positive way.

That and she was a pothead loser who lived with her parents and had like no aspirations. I was ready to accept that lol, but it's funny how the slut side is what killed it. Chick broke my heart, looking back though, I realize not only was it me being beta, but it just wouldn't work because she was using me for a kid (she was 29).

ecosci · 2017-03-18T02:13:02+00:00

They start out kinky to control you its not about pleasure and once she has her claws in you she closes shop now women are naturally submissive to alphas and will allow him to direct her and dominate her in bed she will seem like a virgin and is willing to follow his lead, a big diffrence.

abstractplebbit · 2017-03-15T12:13:42+00:00

This belongs on AskTRP

Read the rules before posting please. The main sub is for posts are for sharing knowledge and especially actionable lessons

max_peenor · 2017-03-15T17:14:14+00:00

ask trp

All women are sluts. We love them for it. It is just the degree of opportunity, safety and available suitable cocks that determine if they act on it. Given there are virtually NO consequences for a woman to fuck around while married, other than maybe, just maybe, losing their sweetie, you pretty much have to assume they are all going to do it. And realize they won't be too cut up about losing the sweetie in the long run either.

Assume every hand grenade is going to blow... and so will your blushing bride on Chad 8" trouser beast.

Docbear64 · 2017-03-15T08:44:38+00:00

I think one advantage of being in a relationship with a slut is that if you cater to her kinks, which can only be done by becoming very intimate and having tons of sex, even if she cheats on you, shell still come back because sex is a priority for her and you provide a fix. FYI I don't believe that humans are monogamous by nature.

Westernhagen · 2017-03-15T13:15:20+00:00

You are clearly lacking in abundance mentality. There are PLENTY of women out there. Why are you even brooding about this slut when you should be focusing your attention on less-slutty women, of which there are plenty?

masturbates2Dragons · 2017-03-16T02:58:43+00:00

I find sluts are the ones who really commit. Their sluttyness is a quest to find a man. If you loved her, you might of fucked up.

Title	The consequences of marrying a slut
Author	seduction_reaction
Upvotes	72
Comments	140
Date	March 15, 2017 7:16 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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