38 yoa 5'8" 165 (down solid 5 due to injury) Squat 315 DL 345 BP can't do...was 295 in August pre injury. All Side bar. Multiple OYS but still retarded if I'm posting here.

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I am successful, have a prominent job where my client base is 70% female. Own my shit in and outside the house. The thing I slack on is hobbies, but we do have an active social life as a couple. Wife out earns me by 100K and is in a top position of her company.

So over the last 1-1.5 years I've moved sex from 1x every 5 days roughly to typically 3x per week lately. I don't get a lot of BJ's, but don't ask a lot unless shark week. Over a week ago I got 2 in 4 days during shark week. As long as I keep initiations down to EOD or E2D I don't get much shit and do well.

Recently went NoFap, and have pushed for BJ's in between sex days this past week. It has not gone well. Denied BJ Friday, sex Sunday, denied BJ Monday night and Tuesday AM, wife initiated sex Tue PM. Yesterday I initiated for another BJ, which caused her to blow up and come at me with the same old shit about our relationship only being about sex. I just said JFC if you keep saying no I have to keep asking, as the answer is always no if I don't ask. She talked and I left to hang with the kids for a bit and then went back to work.

Came home and I got the silent treatment. She wrote a note to herself on her phone in the middle of the night...I read it:

Making decisions on own that affect me.

Maybe I wasn't supportive but so deceitful. (this referring to when I came clean about Viagra).

Anger. Guilt. Defeated.

Needs to get T checked but dragging his feet. (she wants me to get a 2nd opinion about TRT from different doc).

Forceful/demanding.

Trust partnership us gone..all about I.

Selfish...all not abut

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What is your guys take on this? Normal resistance to the transition of power? I do care about my wife and hate to see her depressed (I know her feelings are her problem). Obviously I was hoping to have a wife that was DTF all the time without snot bubbles or a main event...is that even possible? Not near enough dread because I'm a home body? I'm trying to calibrate and not be fully retarded. I also hate she see's a fucking therapist about this shit.

My thoughts, go back to EOD or E2D for initiation, but on the off days she doesn't get my time or attention. Yes dancing monkey, but produces dread and makes me do something other than focus on my wife.

This morning I reset and shaped her breakfast in the shape of a dick. She didn't think it was that funny.

Come at me faggots.