What are your top 3 red pill truths?

bsutansalt · 2019-11-12T18:49:34+00:00

Status is king
It's just your turn
Focus on yourself

All of the above feed into 1) Lift and 2) Focusing on building your empire. Making yourself your mission rather than chasing women pays monumental dividends both immediately and later in life. But it takes work and a lot of people are lazy and won't follow through (eg Blue Pill and losers who played at being Red Pill but threw in the towel one way or another).

IF you stick to your guns and achieve your goals, then you'll set up a legacy that nobody can take away from you AND women will seek your attention instead of the other way around.

Additionally, you'll never run out of women who want to be with you, however briefly they stick around, and you'll have access to much hotter and younger women than what you'd be able to get with otherwise. See also: Hugh Hefner and Gianluca Vacchi.

Others:

They may not like it, but they will share you with other women if you follow the above
Women of all ages are The Most Responsible Teenager in the House
They'll never love you the way you want to be loved

FattiesMakeMeGag · 2019-11-12T04:45:43+00:00

She’s not yours it’s just your turn.

She will never love you like you want her to.

Never show weakness.

trancedj · 2019-11-12T07:41:18+00:00

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E9er · 2019-11-12T05:07:33+00:00

1) it’s just your turn with her at the moment. 2) personality will make pick up easier 3) women want sex too, don’t feel bad asking for it

MR_SKINNYPENIS69 · 2019-11-12T07:45:57+00:00

Men are always loved conditionally. Don't become complacent.

Women will have a much easier time getting over you than you think. Don't get blindsided by how fickle they are.

Nobody cares about your pain or your plans. Show them results.

(bonus number 4: the only exception to any of these is your mother. She is your first experience of humans and women and she will make you expect the same from other women, but don't be fooled. She is the only human being who genuinely cares about you. Don't ever expect it from any other human in life).

MotorsportEnthusiast · 2019-11-12T04:46:19+00:00

AWALT.
Get on your purpose ASAP.
Looks matter way more than you think they do.

Friendly-Casper · 2019-11-12T05:43:37+00:00

Women are Hypergamous and Men are Polygamous
80% of Men are unattractive to Women
Men are Idealists when it comes to love and Women are Opportunists when it comes to love.

botanicalroots · 2019-11-12T08:08:19+00:00

never self deprecate

never chase the girl your emotions need to be unclear

women run on emotion not on logic

LordFa9 · 2019-11-12T06:54:08+00:00

Briffault's law is real

Hypergamy doesn't care

The world is a matriarchy and we who have a Y chromosome must learn to survive in a world where the odds are stacked against us from birth

Every other idea is just a derivative

UPDATE: #4: The hamster is the only truly unstoppable force in the world but the'res only room for 3

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-11-12T05:26:46+00:00

None of these are news to anyone but...

1)Women aren't inherently loyal.

2)The game is about YOU. Prioritize yourself and what you want.

3)Focus on your purpose.

MichaelLifeLessons · 2019-11-12T05:45:03+00:00

Frame is everything: He who owns the frame owns the game. Frame is more important than almost anything else: money/looks/status etc.

Women aren't the prize/sex isn't either - you are - but you have to internalize this and actually believe/know it. Get women off the pedestal, it's not good for you psychologically, and (most) women don't want to be put on a pedestal either

Hot women (generally) aren't any more difficult to get than average women - but you might need to tailor your game/approach differently. Assume attraction always

frognads · 2019-11-12T04:41:54+00:00

Lift
Fuck
Sleep

i-am-the-prize · 2019-11-12T15:35:06+00:00

A lot has been written on awalt/she's-not-yours/ and the gender dynamics, so I will focus on the self.

Be the Prize. Being an Alpha is one way to be the prize. The 3 things I've learned that make up my definition of Alpha are: (1) Game, (2) Frame, and (3) looks.

(1) Game:

always assume attraction
unless there is an overt NO, there is a tacit YES
be exciting, different, mysterious, sexual, because you are, not because you're faking it
isloate and escalate
polarize
read body queues
kino and touch early and often
flirt, and interact with a relaxed confidence - like you do this all the time - you'd rather they think you're a player they tame than a loser they put up with
start every day with the Nice Card (game theory)
1000' of rope and your Time Attention and your Resources are your Gold, do not squander or give out like trinkets.

(2) Frame:

To me, at the tactical level Frame is established and held through:

assertiveness,
being your own mental point of origin, and
non-reactivity to others' comments/thoughts

at the strategic level, Frame is accomplished through:

Mission focus
Outcome independence, not giving a fuck attitude,
True comfort with yourself, being fully Integrated
Amused Mastery

(3) Looks

Be strong, look strong
Be lean, look healhty
Dress better, not worse, if unsure how an event's dress code
your clothes are probably too big, unfitted, fix that
hygene, hair, teeth, skin, nails, odor - they matter
Archetypes of attraction that resonate with females:
- broad shoulders, narrow waist
- [upper body] size compared to them
- eye contact during speaking
- talk slower, from the diaphragm, not quickly and whiny from the throat
take up space
do not be a puppy with head on a swivel, you are the one to be looked at, not the one gawking over others.

SemiLoquacious · 2019-11-12T10:50:53+00:00

Girls would rather share an alpha over having a beta all to themselves
Never apologize
The best way to increase your value in anyone's eyes is to decrease your availability

cdh1003 · 2019-11-12T08:55:16+00:00

TRP is about inner change, not tactics. (Thus making it about much more about personal development, not just Game)
I should be the prize. (Don't put women on a pedestal; increase my own SMV)
We live in a Matriarchy, which preferences women (and whose core strategy is to constantly present women as oppressed, in order to impose controls on male behaviour.)

mustache_ride_ · 2019-11-12T10:54:19+00:00

Men are inherently evil monkeys. Given that, women can never truly love us without resentment.
You're not "conquering women" with your aggressive negging playa-shit, you're only validating their secret misandrism so they can mind-fuck you later without feeling remorse.
Want peace of mind? Get your nut off, then get a dog. Never buy the cow.

Megafayce · 2019-11-12T11:35:44+00:00

The world is not ours, nor the environment. We belong to the planet and it will continue without us easily. (This is why I don’t like when they say “the world is in crisis”. The planet is fine, it’s just humans that are fighting)
We do not have separate lives nor are separate to what’s going on in any way. There is one life and we’re all sharing it and are completely interdependent. (Think about it, what use are your lungs without trees etc. to create the oxygen to breathe? How good is your medical doctorate without someone to grow and provide food for you?)
Unconscious desire and a feudalism drives 90% (not exact percentage) of people and most spend their lives asleep, chasing the next thrill or thing and don’t realise we don’t need the majority of what we have. We are idle survivalists, still looking for something (it used to be food and shelter) and now we’re being fed bullshit because we don’t know that our instincts drive our species. We’re after sex, security and shelter, that is all. We’re still primates that think we’re special but we’re just other living organisms driven by fear and lust

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-11-12T06:40:42+00:00

Being red pilled means looking at situations-- any situation-- as it is and without the clouded screeen of your conditioning.

We are animals. AWALT just means all women are female human primates. Same with men. AWALT just refers to the firmware we're running on.

Be the prize (No, not you ARE the prize... BE the prize). Or, live for your FUCKING self. Everything else must follow that. This is all intertwined with frame, mission, and being the best man you can.

leftajar · 2019-11-12T08:06:38+00:00

In order of depth down the rabbit-hole:

Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Women conceal ovulation specifically to enable a cuckoldry mating strategy.
Women are less competent and generally make poorer choices than men.
The elites know that, and Women's Lib is a part of a larger plan to destroy the West.

Cleopatrus · 2019-11-12T15:45:46+00:00

In 2019, Looks/race + confidence (low inhibition) >>> everything else
AF/BB. It’s both sad and funny how oblivious most dudes are to this. Probably because they think they have no other way
80/20 is now 95/5 in any major US metropolitan area, due in major part to women having gotten fatter

PB0034 · 2019-11-12T05:21:55+00:00

This sub is a joke most of the time.
You’ll die alone and for the most part live alone too.
90% of people here don’t take action it’s all mental masturbation.

youcantstopmyzed · 2019-11-12T12:38:09+00:00

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Crixusgannicus · 2019-11-12T13:28:16+00:00

1) I am number 1. ALWAYS

2)Keep moving forward.

3)NEVER listen to what a woman or man for that matter says. Watch what they do or don't do.

GayLubeOil · 2019-11-12T05:39:24+00:00

If your looking for summaries you are looking for shortcuts which means long term you are fucked

mickenrorty · 2019-11-12T08:05:37+00:00

She not yours it’s just your turn.

AWALT

If you want loyalty, get a dog

-ThePathIsTheGoal- · 2019-11-12T10:58:29+00:00

FRAME is everything.
She can never love you the way you want her to.
She’s not yours, it’s just your turn - “the glass of already broken”. Paradoxically, internalizing this principle has increased my relationships with women across the board. The healthy detachment on my end makes them constantly chase.

vodkalimesoda1 · 2019-11-12T04:53:34+00:00

Purpose
Everything else

paul_ernst · 2019-11-12T13:53:23+00:00

The quality of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts and actions.
To that end: stop moralising. Stop thinking what others should think, say or do. It's the last moral lesson anyone needs to set himself free.
Also to that end: engage yourself in the ecosystem around you. If you do the same gym routine since last month, your mind is not stimulated anymore. Lift, but more importantly, find at least one sport in which your can build skill and mastery. Stimulate your neural connections in every way possible (sport, music, academics, engineering... But also just don't take the same road too often). You don't have to be a master in everything. But enriching your basic skill set is setting yourself up for a life of quality.

Whitefarmer · 2019-11-12T14:15:11+00:00

Red pill is reality. The closer you are to it the better life will be. Lot of comments about women because that is where we are the farthest from reality. 1 truth 2 DGAF 3 AWALT

Milk_moustache · 2019-11-12T18:36:43+00:00

If you have a partner be their rock but find your own support elsewhere

Prettier the woman the more you’ll have to take Instagram shots

Being ugly is fixable by being strong

TigerXtrm · 2019-11-12T20:08:17+00:00

Agree & amplify is something I get to use on an almost daily basis. It's done so incredibly much for my social standing with men and women, co-workers and friends alike. It turns a potential awkward situation into a light hearted joke and turns the tables on people making fun of you.
Every day interactions with women, both first and second hand (hearing the stories on radio and TV, etc.) clearly show how much they care about status over good intentions. Nice guys finish last, always. You have to bring something else to the table other than your nice guy attitude. I don't believe in AWALT as a literal thing, there are exceptions to every rule and TRP deals with a very specific kind of woman. But in general there's definite truth there.
Don't give a fuck. Live for yourself, please yourself before you try to please others.

SpinPlates · 2019-11-12T05:08:46+00:00

She's not yours, it's just your turn.
Women value looks more so than men do/Physically appearance is 70% of game.
You can't fake confidence. It must be built organically.

Nomfwic · 2019-11-12T06:10:55+00:00

80/20

Its just your turn

Awalt

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-11-12T06:55:24+00:00

What are yours?

pragmaticminimalist · 2019-11-12T14:26:23+00:00

These are tenants I embrace at work and in life-

My TRP truths in my own speak:

The ego is not your amigo

In an uncontrolable environment, control what you CAN control

There is no safety, just less dangerous decisions/choices available to us.

Bonus- mother nature bats last- there's no extra innings and she's often fond of hitting a walk off in the bottom of the ninth....operate accordingly.

Bone_Coat · 2019-11-12T15:20:20+00:00

mission is first

always assume attraction

never be needy

*bonus: she only loves you rigth now

PickUpScientist · 2019-11-12T15:55:48+00:00

embrace your narcis... be confident, well-groomed/dressed. LIFT!
master machiav... be ambitious, successful, a leader of men
find your inner psychopa... risk-taker. be spontaneous. demonstrate high "emotional intelligence"

bojack_horsemam · 2019-11-12T18:29:30+00:00

I'm reading "The laws of human nature" by Robert Greene. Definitely recommend to everyone in this sub.

So far, my 3 favorite truths:

1- People make decisions based on their mood and current emotions. We're not as rational as we like to think.

2- Even when we make a rational decision, it's mostly based on our own experience of past situations and whether or not we learned from it.

3- Technology and social media has only fed other narcissistic impulses. People we know serve to feed us that hit of dopamine by liking our pictures, posts etc. We don't go out and "really" socialize as much as our ancestors did.

mrrooftops · 2019-11-12T15:42:19+00:00

Read
The
Sidebar

sukhera95 · 2019-11-12T09:19:06+00:00

Where do I find these truths?

TFWnoLTR · 2019-11-12T14:15:10+00:00

1) Its your own responsibility to motivate yourself.

2) Nice guys really do finish last.

3) Never flinch.

boy_named_su · 2019-11-12T16:56:04+00:00

Looks uber alles
Don't try to please her
Talk to everybody

Truedemocracy5 · 2019-11-12T21:18:22+00:00

My 3 were some of the toughest to swallow for me but also the most important. Many are counter-intuitive, but have been proven correct time and time again based on my experience

AWALT - common critique of TRP is it only works on damaged women. I’ve used it to sleep with feminists, church girls with low n counts (or so they claim), college athletes, former models, doctors, college cheerleaders, lawyers etc. It applies to everyone.
Men love women, women love children, children love puppies. Basically encompasses that love flows downward respect goes upward. You will love her like she loves a child. She comes home in tears from a hard day you’ll hold her and support her. You come home in tears from a hard day she will look for a new man. Similarly, if a mom came home to her kid crying the kid would be disturbed as well
Shit tests, and how to pass them. In the age of women’s rights and feminism recognizing that all of it is just a shit test to filter out weak men is key.

XT3M3 · 2019-11-12T21:31:19+00:00

dont argue with women.

this helped me alot since i used to always try to come out on top and get mad and frustrated over women trying to bicker with me. since i stopped giving them that pointless attention , my life has improved alot . seriously. when you argue, only she wins. there is no reasoning with someone who feels shes right.

live for you ( dont set your self on fire to warm up others)

this is one point alot of nice giys need to hear since these dudes be out there sacrificing theyre happiness for others trying to appease them but not themselves.

shes not yours , its just your turn.

dont get so attached. shes in it for now. even your unicorn can go thru this

HellSpeed · 2019-11-13T02:02:57+00:00

Survive

Replicate

Enjoy your existence

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2019-11-13T03:21:42+00:00

Never settle. Never apologize. Never give a fuck

____Weabooo_V2 · 2020-04-21T11:59:39+00:00

SUFFER IN SILENCE

Ohmyqueef · 2019-11-12T09:16:04+00:00

All women are whores.

Stay on your purpose.

Enjoy your turn.

Title	What are your top 3 red pill truths?
Author	MichaelLifeLessons
Upvotes	258
Comments	202
Date	November 12, 2019 4:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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Status is king

It's just your turn

Focus on yourself