“are you gonna murder/kill me?”

Wean1eHu11 · 2024-07-21T05:05:32+00:00

It’s just a shit test, joke it off as you’re doing and don’t overthink it. as with all shit tests, she’s doing it unconsciously and you fail by making a big deal out of it.

I’d just say “only a little bit, but we can meet up somewhere else if you’d prefer”

-Twyptophan- · 2024-07-21T06:26:10+00:00

I steal the line from Alex PWF- I gave up killing for lent/my new years resolution/etc

Quick-Supermarket671 · 2024-07-21T06:52:29+00:00

yesterday I met a girl in the street and 2 hours after we went to my place and she said the same thing so I responded :

Nope, I just finished watching all the murder mysteries on netflix, I need a break

She laughed and came to my place

Dandys3107 · 2024-07-21T05:27:55+00:00

You are overthinking, they just need you to solve their last doubts and loosen up the mood. Your response is fine.

NoMoassNeverWas · 2024-07-21T06:52:06+00:00

I've had this come up. Don't take offense, women are scared of what media writes about online dating.

I tell the girl to take pic of my driver's license and send to a friend. Or share the address.

The safer you make her feel, the sooner you will get laid. Comfort and safety are paramount to women agreeing to sex.

Doing goofy serial killer jokes doesn't seem like it work on all girls in my opinion. One of those times where you're genuine and honest about her fears.

kaamkerr · 2024-07-21T05:03:42+00:00

“If you’re lucky you’ll get your own episode on my Netflix true crime miniseries”

ddl_smurf · 2024-07-21T15:53:48+00:00

"I guess that if I answered yes you'd start struggling a lot more, so no"

didsomebodysaymyname · 2024-07-21T04:12:17+00:00

“i won’t if you won’t.”

I think that's funny, but you can always find someone who won't like it.

I would worry about it unless they are refusing or getting mad after you do, it's kind of a dumb/joke question anyway.

You think Ted Bundy's gonna be like "yeah, I am gonna murder you, you were smart to ask first"?

rectoid · 2024-07-21T14:51:08+00:00

Nah, basement's full already

Silly_Randy · 2024-07-21T08:39:03+00:00

"no I'm sober, no more killing for me. You?...let's meet in public".

zebekias · 2024-07-21T13:20:31+00:00

If you get such objections often, that's your clue that you need more "comfort" to demonstrate that you are a real, normal, yet cool guy. At some point during game introduce DHVs that do that. Things that come to mind: integrate topic(s) that allow you to pull your phone and show photos of you when traveling, photos with family, photos with friends, with animals, perhaps a cool video.

If you sense that she is super into you and just messing with you: "You are so damn sexy, of course I want to do baaaaad things to you, and afterwards I can introduce you to the other 47 girls I have chained in the basement." If she laughs, good, if she kind of objects to the basement thing, you can always say "never mind about the basement thing, haha, but you are definitely beautiful & sexy (pause) and I can't help it".

malcolypse · 2024-07-21T15:01:17+00:00

Not on a TUESDAY!

aka make a joke of it. or just say no. i also like your "I won't if you won't"

GaryOak7 · 2024-07-21T19:58:46+00:00

“I was gonna ask you the same thing!”

jusmcmillan · 2024-07-21T06:25:40+00:00

It was always very common to hear this in the PUA community as a common refrain women would say as a kind of LMR tactic. The PUA would always put the onus back on the girl to shift the power dynamic (as the OP did) saying something like "I'm more worried about YOU, if anything... Crazy girl.."

The one I use to joke I would get from girls on dating apps when I would invite them over was "are you gonna chop me up and put me in your freezer?!" Like Jesus how often is this happening that it's a real concern 🤔 Only one Robert Picton as far as I know 🤣

McPigg · 2024-07-21T07:35:11+00:00

Your response is perfect dont worry

toyrph · 2024-07-21T07:35:30+00:00

You: “Will I wake up tomorrow with all both of my kidneys?” Her: somewhere along the lines of “Yeah…? But you still didn’t answer my question?” You: “Well, so long as you don’t harvest my organs, I guess you have nothing to worry about”

MightyMagicz · 2024-07-21T09:25:27+00:00

Tell her your a saint and wink at her like the devil.

FormerBTfan · 2024-07-21T11:14:56+00:00

I would just chuckle smile and say naw I only want one kidney.

MouseAware809 · 2024-07-21T11:30:39+00:00

Firstly accept some people choose to live in fear.

Secondly, it seems you are asking them over too soon. You need to make them feel comfortable around you. As for how to do that, well.... choose your Guru and learn their method, as you are obviously not doing it yourself and some help is needed.

BarryBold8 · 2024-07-21T12:24:59+00:00

“Only if you ask nicely “

This a very grey area and would need to be pulled off perfectly but if you know you know

Theboynextdoor09 · 2024-07-21T12:47:58+00:00

It lets you know their fear deep inside, communication and trust around you but said in a joking way so fix it

ashwellick · 2024-07-21T14:34:52+00:00

say,you will never feel before if i was Dahmer,if you know Dahmer

StonerGuy19 · 2024-07-21T14:37:01+00:00

I joke about how I tried my best to avoid prison in my younger years of degeneracy and getting after it. I don't think the reason I wanna go is for killing the nice and pretty woman of all things

ironmanalex123 · 2024-07-21T14:50:40+00:00

women are naturally cautious, for good reasons historically. you can just make a joke like 'I was the one who was actually afraid of getting kidnapped, you copycat'

Plebe-Uchiha · 2024-07-21T14:54:53+00:00

You’re response is fine. It’s good.

Just keep it lighthearted. If, IF, it’s serious, she’ll let you know. But, a majority of the time, it’s a shit test. Other guys shared their own personal response. Again, just keep it lighthearted.

Now, are you overthinking it? Maybe. It’s probably just a shit test, but if you feel like this question comes up too often, you might be inviting them over too soon. [+]

IamWisdom · 2024-07-21T15:26:20+00:00

It means they feel comfortable with you at least, and they want to tell you their worries. I usually just laugh when they say that and roll my eyes and make them feel dumb for even asking.

Sapper501 · 2024-07-21T15:57:21+00:00

I'm all about "till death do us part", but if you have an appointment or something you can go. Just give me your number before you leave okay?

Big_Accountant8489 · 2024-07-21T18:52:44+00:00

Im glad OP was able to experience this

This is exactly the type of fun conversation women love to engage in. Been telling you guys this forever.

None of the boring questions yall be asking them

Y’all gotta learn how to create these scenarios and play along with her.

Women live in their imagination. You gotta master the ability to take her there and away from her real world

FurrowBeard · 2024-07-22T12:51:17+00:00

"Nice try FBI"

Booty_Madness · 2024-07-21T07:28:26+00:00

You are worth MUCH more to me alive

BadSealOfficial · 2024-07-21T04:03:02+00:00

How early are you asking them over? You aren’t overthinking it, but it seems you aren’t building enough trust. If you are asking them to your place for a first date, that’s the problem. First date meetup should always be in public.

invaderjif · 2024-07-21T04:26:15+00:00

Is...it normal for them to ask this question? What is prompting it?

Title	“are you gonna murder/kill me?”
Author	DarkMoonGOT
Upvotes	25
Comments	40
Date	July 21, 2024 3:33 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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