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RolandMurdoc · 2022-09-23T05:18:43+00:00

Congrats my dude, once I overcome my anxiety I'll ask the girl i like out.

hairlossthrow4w4y · 2022-09-23T09:20:13+00:00

wtf, we just give advice as a joke. it's not meant to work

Practical-Cause2896 · 2022-09-23T03:51:07+00:00

Congratulations man! Finally a success story! 🙌

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-09-23T03:48:38+00:00

this is the first success story i've been happy to read. i am stoked with literally all of this. congrats homie.

SDdude81 · 2022-09-23T13:14:51+00:00

Congrats on getting lucky!

Personally I've asked out about 20 female friends and they all turned me down with some form of, "I don't like you that way."

Lets be honest here, if being friends first and then asking her out had a good chance of success this sub would not exist nor would the whole concept of seduction.

curisax · 2022-09-23T07:00:46+00:00

good job. It's not too hard, right. Just keep shooting your shot

Ploikblah · 2022-09-23T07:14:00+00:00

Glad you've found it easy, I've been doing this shit for 10 years and have yet to get a date.

Luckygodesc · 2022-09-23T13:45:20+00:00

I'm glad this post friend

Neo-Rio · 2022-09-23T06:32:41+00:00

Easy enough to be friends with a girl and ask her out.

Something else entirely to go from that into sex however.
Although if you got that far with little issue then congrats.

EmbeddedAssets · 2022-09-23T15:25:04+00:00

Hmm not everyone has the same starting point. Let’s take Skippy the virgin for example. He has a LOT of work to do on himself first. Losing the weight, getting new clothes to have average style, and the weird factor also needs to go away with his behavior and learn to be more normal, not a player but just normal. He needs to get a job and move out of his parents home at his age. And get hobbies that are more mainstream and have women in them that’s not belly button lint collecting. That’s just the baseline he needs to do to be average.

If you start from average, then with your friends first strategy you need to start learning how to cut the small talk and really connect with a person in 20 min or so and give them a reason to hang out with you. Maybe you do this naturally with a shared interest. Then you need to have the courage to ask her out and not end up being too comfortable and friendly and actually be attractive so that you don’t end up in the friend zone. It’s not that hard if you start from average and you’re going for 6’s in attractiveness.

nicoleganda123 · 2022-09-23T17:26:39+00:00

congrats dude

Demmitri · 2022-09-23T22:30:28+00:00

lmao the salty comments

zertsetzung · 2022-09-23T14:05:06+00:00

"I feel like once you do it once you just look back and think “damn that’s all I had to do?” Don’t overcomplicate it guys"

I feel like you don't really have jack shit figured out.

That was either blind luck or you are just a natural at approaching who needed to push yourself a bit.

Congrats but that doesn't help those in the sub who need help with anything.

lifeintraining · 2022-09-23T15:28:05+00:00

Lol, this is not correct. She was just into you already, but congratulations on securing a girlfriend.

zertsetzung · 2022-09-23T14:02:50+00:00

If you don't need the advice then don't waste time posting.

greenlight144000 · 2022-09-23T14:07:33+00:00

That was just luck

Contango6969 · 2022-09-23T06:45:27+00:00

Friends first is so beta

eszibit · 2022-09-23T09:41:28+00:00

If she likes you it's that easy, if she doesn't like you there's nothing you can do about it, but if she's on the fence about you, that's where seduction comes into play. But nice job

No-Historian-6391 · 2022-09-23T12:40:28+00:00

But but but…. What if you’re short? What if you aren’t rich? What if one time someone called you ugly? What if your job sucks? What if you’ve been rejected?????

Edit: this is (what I thought to be) obvious sarcasm

Blauwpetje · 2022-09-23T16:08:42+00:00

It means that sometimes CAN work. Yes, that’s true. But it’s no panacea for all situations.

IceMysterious4265 · 2022-09-23T16:38:10+00:00

For the love of Christ. Dude please don't be one of "those" guys. The guys who will get early and easy success and then decide oh it's easy. I don't know why I sweated it so hard.

No. It's early success. What happens when you gotta do it again? You might not be so lucky.

Skizznitt · 2022-09-23T16:53:15+00:00

One of the things you said is huge. DON'T OVERCOMPLICATE THIS! It's easy to get stuck in your head and think about all the reasons you will fail and think yourself out of going for it... 99% of the time even if your attempt doesn't get the results you wanted, you'll be in no worse situation after than when you started, in fact chances are you'll be in a better place, you'll have more experience to bring on to the next attempt. Life is too short to worry about outcomes that haven't even happened yet, you have to put forth effort and push yourself outside your comfort zone to get what you want in life.

StrongWilledSky · 2022-09-23T18:54:40+00:00

Ayyye atta boy

grizzled083 · 2022-09-23T19:02:30+00:00

How do you befriend a girl?

MarkFin1 · 2022-09-23T23:15:02+00:00

Be friends 1st? Really? 😳 Never worked for me, always rejected. ”What? You wanna date me? But we are friends, I won’t date friends, ever”. Been heard that same thing from several women.

Woujo · 2022-09-24T01:01:02+00:00

First of all, no, this shit is not easy. It may be easy for you, but it is not easy for a lot of guys.

Second, your advice of "all you gotta do is be friends with her then ask her out" is horrible advice because that is what leads to being friendzoned. Also pretending to be a girl's friend when you really want to fuck her is lying, manipulative behavior.

Horrible post.

conker1264 · 2022-09-24T02:27:12+00:00

Well some girls have no intention of even being friends sadly

Tall_Piece_8714 · 2022-09-24T03:05:12+00:00

I keep telling people this is not that hard. Bruhh.

Charge36 · 2022-10-21T17:15:28+00:00

Eh yeah. Can be that easy. I've also asked out plenty of lady friends and it either went nowhere or I got curved into oblivion

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