Do people who engage in casual sex usually only do so with strangers (bars, nightclubs, pubs etc…) or is it just as commonly done between friends and people who know each other?

ilovefootball49 · 2022-09-06T21:50:08+00:00

They try with strangers first because usually it ruins relationships with people close to them. Then they ruin relationships with people close to them.

TalkShit247 · 2022-09-06T22:42:38+00:00

um yeah .

one night stands are new found friends .. friends with benefits are actual friends that has no problem having sex with each other … so yeah both strangers and close acquaintances are having sex on a regular basis

Initial-Laugh1442 · 2022-09-06T21:44:18+00:00

Both. Promiscuous people shag each other, often they don't know each other before, then, once they made an acquaintance, they continue ... now knowing each other.

GlitteringPause8 · 2022-09-07T05:16:50+00:00

I’ve only had casual sex with people I know - coworkers, friends, friends of friends. It’s better that way for me because at least I trust them more than a total stranger but I know I don’t want to date them

CometAzur42069 · 2022-09-07T06:45:34+00:00

i've done casual sex with both.

friends, strangers, coworkers a few times (don't recommend but I got lucky)

yo_saturnalia · 2022-09-07T04:32:12+00:00

Mostly someone you don’t see again

BitchLetEmKnow · 2022-09-07T13:20:08+00:00

Id rather not fuck my friends. Makes things complicated.

I prefer OLD and fucking the ones who stick around as fwb

montanalombardy · 2022-09-07T07:30:05+00:00

From what I see it's like 90% with friends or other people they know from social circles. Very rare to do it with a total stranger.

(But then again maybe people don't talk often about their stranger escapades)

LordPoopyIV · 2022-09-07T09:52:25+00:00

The key is that you can't often just make friends and then change the relation type to sexual.

You start out befriending someone while showing your interest and using kino, but perhaps waiting for them to finish up with their current fling before you take further steps with them.

Mitchmac21 · 2022-09-07T18:33:41+00:00

From my experience, the best hook ups are friends of friends. It’s a often a new connection who feels comfortable around you because of the social proof created by having a good mutual friend. If I hit it off with a friend of a friend I usually flirt a bit then grab there number and set up a date at a later time unless it’s at a party or bar and you have the option to escalate to the bedroom or your place.

Strangers I find extremely hard to pull from bars and night clubs because they don’t really know you and don’t know if you’re actually a safe guy.

Friends. Just recently made this mistake again when I started hooking up with but going for a relationship with one of my friends of about 6 years. Switching the dynamic from friends to something more made our friend group awkward because they knew but we were hiding it. We both had feelings but there were a few things like the distance between where we live that made things more complicated so we mutually decided to stop and go back to being friends. It’s been a couple weeks and everything is going back to normal. Maybe we hook up in the future maybe we don’t. I wouldn’t go this route as it’s tough to work into a group friendship but I have had a relationship start this way before. It’s also very hard to recover a friendship if things go south.

kathruins · 2022-09-07T13:31:01+00:00

it's much less risky and more enjoyable to do it with friends. sex gets better the more two people do it.

V-Future · 2022-09-06T22:47:26+00:00

I had a couple of female friends who I had sex with. It was fantastic. That reinforced our friendship. We had sex for a long time. Now they are in other cities living their lives but it was beautiful while it lasted.

There are 3 types of men who have female friends:

The coward who is hiding his intentions.
The guy who loves her is like his sister and doesn't feel attracted to her.
The guy who is a Chad and she would bang without any doubt.

Kobe_curry24 · 2022-09-07T06:48:37+00:00

I’ve done both I’ve actually had more friendships ruin with trying to be in a relationship than just having sex

surferguy999 · 2022-09-07T15:26:17+00:00

You have 3 main options:

hookup apps - you can be direct, pre-screen / text
bars / nightclubs - pickup a stranger, much harder to approach someone IMO
friends / coworkers - harder to keep discreet

I used hook up apps, and just befriended the other person. Sometimes it just was booty call stuff, but most of the time they became friends. So now you have a chill friend who you also can also sleep with.

Cultural-Wafer-378 · 2022-09-07T15:34:05+00:00

Typically I know them in some capacity…my casual sexual encounters were mostly with other students at university…after college I hooked up with a coworker & it transitioned into a relationship. Other than that, not really into casual sex with strangers

Kedrith · 2022-09-07T07:12:08+00:00

In general, it's a free for all between people with the same large group. I know alot of people who know each other. We fuck each other all the time.

In general there is no strict rule. Sometimes a girl just want to have casual sex with someone she knows without wanting a lasting relationship. Somtimes it clicks and a relationship start.

Genderneutral_Bird · 2022-09-07T06:06:51+00:00

That’s what friends with benefits are for. I’d never have random sex with a stranger, I need a form of trust before. I do have 2 friends with benefits, though I also have a partner now so I rarely see them anymore (my partner knows and is 100% okay with it btw, I’m not cheating lol)

Icy-Spinach3668 · 2022-09-07T12:24:09+00:00

I remember having these encounters alot when I was younger. I'd say with monkey pox and aids on the rise. Don't do it.

Wise_man6009 · 2022-09-07T08:16:15+00:00

I really wonder how they did it, I am sort of envy them very much.

Disastrous_Schedule8 · 2022-09-07T16:18:37+00:00

The Old Maxim of pickup "Don't $#!+ where you eat".

When you are new you will mess up a lot and probably send mix signals to a lot of women. You don't want to do that to friends because things can get messy very quickly and your circle might just assume you are being manipulative. Which is one of the worst reputations you can get in a circle group or if your PUA tactics get sussed out you are branded as pathetic which is the second worse reputation you can have. Build your skills to the point where you are almost a natural so if you decide to run Game on a warm contact it feels like it's just something that happened and it's no big deal. Which allows it's all to stay casual without hurting peoples feelings.

puma085 · 2022-09-07T07:01:46+00:00

Interesting question. In that regard I am total noob though and cannot answer it. The only sex I had so far was with my long term girlfriends. Have to admit though that getting hook ups on the fly is a skill I want to learn though.

Why do you want to know this op? Are you planning to try it for yourself or what? If that's the case I would recommend to start with people you do not know. Doing it with people you know could be embarrasing because you are going to see this people again and again.

atomant88 · 2022-09-07T07:11:27+00:00

im about a 50/50 split. but it depends on your friend group and how much time youre putting into game

Horizon-seeker2 · 2022-09-07T07:32:29+00:00

Friends?! That would be super weird honestly.. friends of friends yes, acquaintances of friends yes, even the strangers are persons who usually orbit around your social circle or work station

Jasonhardon · 2022-09-07T11:32:07+00:00

Random strange

videogames_ · 2022-09-07T13:44:38+00:00

I think majority are acquaintances especially in college settings.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-09-07T16:33:49+00:00

Normally girls from OLD, sometimes strangers in bars though. Rarely friends or acquaintances.

Delicatestatesmen · 2022-09-07T23:43:49+00:00

what ever happens happens who gives a fuk about the logistics.

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