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DigLucky3112 · 2022-08-16T07:06:28+00:00

A study analyzed the differences between male and female behavior on Tinder. The study demonstrated the men liked 61.9% of women on Tinder and women liked a mere 4.5% of men on Tinder. This study is illustrative of the fact that women are the selectors of sexual selection

The Pareto distribution, also known as the 80-20 rule, is a “power-law probability distribution” that demonstrates how 20% of people in an economy typically accumulate 80% of the overall income. This 80-20 rule occurs across numerous domains and is widely speculated to exist in the sexual selection domain as well, and it certainly applies to Tinder.

According to a study entitled Tinder Experiments II: Guys, unless you are really hot you are probably better off not wasting your time on Tinder — a quantitative socio-economic study, “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men.” This data almost precisely matches the Pareto distribution. The study elaborates to point out the fact that this means that “the Tinder economy has more inequality than 95.1% of all the world’s national economies.” As illustrated by these two studies, if you’re a guy on Tinder, the odds are not on your side.

OrzhovPalatine · 2022-08-16T03:15:17+00:00

Simply put

Dick is cheap, plentiful and inexperienced in auditioning for Pussy.

Pussy isn't as plentiful because it runs the auditions and chooses only what it deems the top tier which most men will not fall under.

Its why I always tell guys don't play with online unless you have an amazing profile and are blessed with good looks as those are favored with online dating.

rjones416 · 2022-08-16T00:54:28+00:00

pretty simple...

women do the choosing and why would they pick average when they can get above average guys?

lefthandedaf · 2022-08-16T00:03:41+00:00

There are plenty of YouTube videos and statistics out there on this topic that break it down perfectly

rocksnstyx · 2022-08-16T02:15:19+00:00

Because women have unlimited options online and irl. They have the pussy and you don’t.

YouGotTangoed · 2022-08-16T11:53:59+00:00

Because most guys are boring af, have no hobbies, and don’t know how to take good photos. Of course you should be fairly attractive, but nowadays it’s a lot more than that, you have to be the complete package

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-08-16T13:50:59+00:00

Because girls are pickier than guys are. You gotta up your game if you want a chance.

MikeAlphaGolf · 2022-08-16T09:55:23+00:00

The Pareto principle.

MaroonNuggz1138 · 2022-08-16T13:45:03+00:00

Because the oversaturation of dating apps these days have lead to women being more picky. It's also skewed how men and women behave with each other among other factors. Unless you're in the top 10% of looks or have a good profile, it's going to be hard to get matches. Plus, a lot women aren't going on dating apps these days to date. Most want that meaningless validation they get when a guy messages or matches with them....

2022-08-16T00:01:04+00:00

Fuck I'm a dumbass. I thought you were talking about online gaming. Haha

beautifultomatillo2 · 2022-08-16T01:05:29+00:00

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grindforthegold · 2022-08-16T00:18:26+00:00

I think because women have it pretty easy and they also find it embarrassing to meet someone online so if they’re gonna have that backstory the guy needs to be top tier

since dating is easier for them they try to focus on in person guys , since then it can have their good backstory, and it’s often difficult for most random men to become a part of that unless they cold approach.

TheLegendofMikeHawk · 2022-08-16T12:08:53+00:00

Supply/Demand.

BenNewcomb1 · 2022-08-16T16:40:25+00:00

Men, in general, are in a space of scarcity and begging when it comes to women, so they have all the power in the situation.

Build an abundant social life, full of the type of women you want to date and don't date any of them. Just be the guy they can't have but that they all want.

zisehuar · 2022-08-16T03:09:46+00:00

It depends on what you are looking for. The best looking men can be very game oriented. If you want a relationship, you're rare. If you don't, then I'd say still be honest but be super clear, consistent and persistent. Stand out with great dates and court her. Women want to get laid, too, but when you're more average you gotta work a little harder to get her hot for you.

MarriedForLife · 2022-08-16T16:54:36+00:00

For women, the odds are good, but the goods are odd.

youcheekydelinquent · 2022-08-16T16:38:25+00:00

The truth is they're not even actually in the game. They think they are but they're actually NPCs.

lucasanderson24689 · 2022-08-16T19:57:25+00:00

Because 20% of the men are fucking 80% of the women. 4% of the men are fucking 64% of the women(20% of 20%) etc continuous

indrid_cold · 2022-08-16T13:40:59+00:00

Online a man has no status other than looks, he has no story or narrative for a woman to project her hopes onto. She has to think you're her "type". If you're average looking these are the things that make you more attractive. If you're a good writer you can get some of that across on a profile but it's much easier in real life.

I met my current gf doing cosplay after years of OLD. I met a woman more beautiful than any I met online by dressing up as Batman. She was hooked.

Sure-Wish3240 · 2022-08-16T17:44:12+00:00

I have plowed more woman irl during my 1st year after becoming a MD than during the 6 years online being a med student. Online only works for men If they follow the 2 rules of tinder.

Friendxx · 2022-08-17T03:02:03+00:00

haha

Zeeicemachine · 2022-08-16T14:03:42+00:00

The game of life is harder for men, accept it, then adapt and plow foward.

2022-08-16T07:07:03+00:00

It just is. Trust me bro.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-08-16T02:09:43+00:00

The power of choice

Live-Ad-6309 · 2022-08-16T10:21:41+00:00

Because it removes the approach anxiety filter than holds most men back in real life. So every woman is approached by hundreds of men per day. Supply and demand does the rest. The supply of dick average is way higher than the demand for average dick. So the value of average dick is low.

2022-08-16T11:17:06+00:00

There's no use in going through this. Just adapt to the game

Sure-Wish3240 · 2022-08-16T16:21:42+00:00

I’ve heard male friends say they swipe on many based on looks and without reading the profile. Whereas ALL my female friends that do online dating actually read the profile and swipe based on the photos and what is written in the profile. Also when sending a message don’t just send “hey” or “how’s your day?” Or “you are hot”. Actually read the profile and make a nice and interesting comment that compels the person the want to interact with you.

Think_History_5682 · 2022-08-16T22:17:21+00:00

This ensures good genes are passed on.... were all animals and online dating gives women endless choices imagine giving female wilderbeasts online selection... The same thing would happen.

The funny thing is women call this 'love' and "chemistry" hilarious! 😂

Before the internet, women could only chose from men in thir area. The idea of becoming an old maid was terrifying to them... They would lower their standards gladly... Just to avoid it....

Now they have infinite choice but the they are just the top 20s booty calls

Yours truly,

Top 20 percenter

Ps is like to add that all men despite attractiveness are some woman's top 20 percent. And that's the 49 percent you are swiping left on.

If men woke up tomorrow and were suddenly attracted to obesity. The amount of single men would go down dramatically.

Female Obesity is a huge factor in tjis disparity he discusses

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Psuedo_Pixie · 2022-08-16T23:06:32+00:00

Woman here. And while I don’t speak for all women, I’ll say this:

In general, women aren’t just looking for a “good enough” guy to fuck. If they are looking for sex, they want the guy to be different and exciting. They want it to feel like an adventure. A guy needs to stand out.

Now, this is where I diverge from some people here. To stand out, you don’t need to be the hottest guy. In fact, being another gym-going dude who dresses like everyone else will just make you blend into the pack. Being toned and well-dressed isn’t unattractive to most women, but it’s basic. It’s not going to get them to swipe right.

I would argue that an “average” looking guy who is interesting or unique is going to do better with online dating than a good-looking, bland guy. Everyone has unique characteristics, but you have to be willing to stand out and let those shine.

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