any advice on how to better my chances with white women?

ContWord2346 · 2022-07-07T07:35:42+00:00

Op, Starbucks around 2pm.

hussan546 · 2022-07-07T06:12:09+00:00

Be a human, talk to white women

Odd-Assistance-4275 · 2022-07-07T07:51:31+00:00

Offer them a hot beverage

GanjaNative · 2022-07-07T06:14:22+00:00

Go to a club/bar/casino/outside

iamethgod · 2022-07-07T11:06:42+00:00

Bro you dont need to change your game for white women every women is different just do what you would normally do

lekkerlad9 · 2022-07-07T06:27:57+00:00

Just flirt and spike their emotions like you would to anyone (and the other steps to seduce anyone). Then it’s just if they like you or not, if they do, act on it like you normally would.

neveragainmane · 2022-07-07T12:49:52+00:00

White women are by far the most hit or miss of all. Don’t listen to these other guys. Grew up around TONS of white girls. They are all difficult even if they like you. They are also very privileged so they won’t acknowledge and respect the struggles you’ve been through. IMO waste of time. They want a Disney prince. Don’t be that. ALL other races treat their men MUCH better than white women.

InvisibleDeity · 2022-07-07T07:40:07+00:00

I feel like it's sorta random, people usually have a type that they tend to attract. I'm black and I tend to attract white, middle eastern & south asian women. Black women tend to avoid me oddly enough, same with hispanic women.

Imo, if you're black, you need a bit more "social proof" to get other races to open up to you more. Which tends to mean, you probably need to be in more group settings when you go out. As for me, I tend to attract the most attention when I'm not really doing anything, usually when I'm at work or in class.

heyyou11 · 2022-07-07T11:38:44+00:00

The fact that you notice a disparity means either (or combination of) two things: *some (honestly it’s probably more than this thread is admitting) white girls can just be racist *your frame is different with them

Just don’t let the former affect the latter. Assume the former isn’t true until you get shut down, don’t take it personally, and move to the next. Numbers game and confidence.

rpatters2468 · 2022-07-07T12:18:37+00:00

Yeesh,I know that feel. I'm black myself and most attention on me is by black women but not super attracted to them (I think alot of them are pretty, just never tried to date one,out of my comfort zone and hate wasting people's time). I mostly am attracted to white/asian women.

Zhai · 2022-07-07T12:17:17+00:00

In eastern Europe you being black will either veeeery help you or will make it impossible. Just go through numbers and it will happen.

MsJenX · 2022-07-07T10:59:46+00:00

Offer them pumpkin spice lattes in the fall

Chipster339 · 2022-07-07T13:41:55+00:00

Since this is a real issue, and I myself prefer white women over women of color. I’d say my number 1 reason for that is that sometimes they are overly aggressive let it be in communication or “personal space invasion” when we are talking. It feels intimidating to talk to them or be with them. I’m not saying every woman of color is like that I’m not racist. That’s just my experience.

hazrat_unmad · 2022-07-07T12:50:36+00:00

As a non-white man, I never get the appeal of North American white and Asian women. These are the two lowest quality of demography of women in my experience. I understand why white men like Asian women, because Asian women worship white men. But why non-white men fawn over white women is beyond me.

serialkiller_mne · 2022-07-07T11:52:03+00:00

I think some research showed that most people prefer dating their own race, so it makes your attempts harder, not impossible. Some could say this is racism ingrained in human brain or whatever, but I think it could be true. 90% of people I talked with this about told me they would never date someone or have kids with that aren't their own race. Might get downvoted to hell for this, but it is a cold fact that I noticed

But it ain't impossible, keep trying and do what you do with black or any woman. Also man, why so obsessed with getting a white one, it's just a skin color, get on with any girl that you can and like. Fetishizing other races is weird to me

Flairtor · 2022-07-07T10:54:06+00:00

You just gotta interact with them more y'know? Some will like you, some won't, a lot won't find you to be their "type". Its really just luck of the draw. This works for all women not just white women, but there's a certain archetype of person that'll be attracted to the archetype of person you are, find them and home in on them.

You'll find out that they hang out at certain places, go to certain places etc etc so start frequenting those types of areas with those types of people and your chances should drastically improve.

LeftistYankee · 2022-07-07T12:24:06+00:00

Listen to rock music

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-07-07T13:37:47+00:00

White people love pumpkin patches, farmer’s markets, seasonal coffee, dogs, brunch, avocado toast. Not really useful in seducing women, just an observation

Ok_Visit_1968 · 2022-07-07T08:40:55+00:00

Be kind . Be genuine. Don't push .

GordonGecko69 · 2022-07-07T14:37:32+00:00

What nationality are you? Because if you are black and can’t pull a white girl you are doing something wrong.

Scared-Opening-5404 · 2022-07-07T15:27:27+00:00

Black immigrant

catniagara · 2022-07-07T11:24:22+00:00

Don’t be a racist. White women hate that.

GerinX · 2022-07-07T08:59:10+00:00

Watch a lot of bill burr standup and quote his bits.

How confident are you in approaching white women? Also, work on yourself and show that you care about your appearance

TheMaslankaDude · 2022-07-07T13:52:00+00:00

Everyone here is also forgetting two key things here…. Money and looks

Scared-Opening-5404 · 2022-07-07T06:33:50+00:00

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No-Ad980 · 2022-07-07T12:09:41+00:00

Context needed, what race are you? What country are you in and are you an immigrant?

El_Beasg · 2022-07-07T13:54:18+00:00

Dont treat them any different. Treat then like a male but with a Vajay Jay and bring them sunsxreen eveeytume she goes outside

knueverl17 · 2022-07-07T14:21:23+00:00

Did you (OP) make a Reddit account just to post this?

amlextex · 2022-07-07T14:48:36+00:00

Talk to the white women.

Scared-Opening-5404 · 2022-07-07T15:02:24+00:00

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Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-07-07T15:30:08+00:00

First things first, how many white women have you actually approached and stated your intentions to in the last 6 months?

Minute-Lie-2287 · 2022-07-07T15:47:56+00:00

Whatever you do with black women, tone that down some, try it in degrees til you hit the sweet spot. What I've seen work with black women comes off really forward,cheesy and rehearsed to most white women. Also let's be honest, a little bit of code switching doesn't hurt, the amount of slang that's considered acceptable varies with age and race.

cancertable · 2022-07-07T17:02:21+00:00

Have as many white female friends as you can. You’ll learn to connect with or relate to them and understand their culture better.

Work on yourself to make the transition from white guys to you as easy as possible. That might mean working on your accent if you’re an immigrant. Also dressing up the way cool guys in your country dress. If you have a foreign name, try to get a nickname that is better suited to the language. Also learn the customs of the people of the country so that you won’t run into any awkward situations.

Not saying you should totally not own your culture. I think it’s better if you introduce her to your culture from her culture’s point of view. Be a cool guy in the eyes of her culture and it will make her more open to your culture.

Title	any advice on how to better my chances with white women?
Author	Scared-Opening-5404
Upvotes	19
Comments	134
Date	July 7, 2022 6:01 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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