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[–]Daunt02 164 points165 points166 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Don't chase women especially if they don't respect your time.
[–]MInconspicuous 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. 👆👆👆👆
[–]Mundane-Currency5088 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't spend time with anyone who doesn't respect your time even friends.
[–]Daunt02 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I learned a long time ago that if it works for game it works in all aspects of your life. Women can be interchanged with, family, job, even things like government. Who cares. Value your shit and fuck chasing things that don't align with you.
[–]Mundane-Currency5088 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. Boundaries are Boundaries, they don't dissappear because you are getting head.
[–]EdUNC- 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
proud of you, you have awaken the inner chad in you
[–]jam-unam 85 points86 points87 points 4 years ago* (139 children) | Copy Link
Ye don’t message her make her think you left with someone else lol let her imagination drift-
[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (136 children) | Copy Link
So how in the fuck do you convert that to action?
Sounds like a great way to not go home with anyone
[–]Daunt02 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Message her if you want and try to turn it into something like a later date. Sometimes your self respect and boundaries are better than trying to make a chick that's lukewarm into you into something.
This is where having plates and other women you're talking becomes important.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Message her, but also don't message her, because that's desperate
Got it
I'm always the one who has to initiate those convos
[–]Daunt02 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do what you want. Dont expect that there's a right way for situations when you're dealing with random women. Your intentions and self worth is more important than believing that there is something you're supposed to do.
[–]willgo-waggins 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait until later that day. Then return the message in a manner that implies you didn’t get hers until then (it needs to be like LATE afternoon - 3-4 or later) and that you were just waking up from last night because it was “crazy”. Imply but do not be specific. Let her wonder if you went home with someone else but do not state that or deny it just work around if the question comes up. “We went to some other friends place and partied there with a bunch of people, I can barely remember because we were drinking a lot” type of thing. Use what you know works best for you and with her.
Don’t send a bunch of messages or continuously reply. One response. Let her wig out and send you a few before you respond again - later not immediately.
Make her come to you and prove her seriousness and not allow yourself to be treated like option B or C or whatever. Let her think that is where she is.
Also this behavior makes me ask - what makes her a 10/10 girl? Because that crap with me puts her automatically down the scale as my scale is NOT at all based simply I’m looks/body, but also who she is across the board. It is subjective. We can obviously all agree on basic beauty factors with a truly knockout looks girl. But my 10/10 and yours can be two very different things based in what we each find attractive qualities beyond the looks.
[–]razama 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The larger point is why you make your decision. Nothing inherently wrong with messaging back or not, its where your priorities are.
If you are validation seeking, or forgetting an abundance mindset, you'll be doomed with either choice.
OP could still message back, but they are doing it with self respect and their priorities correct.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why does that ultimately change anything though?
If you have your priorities correct, and you message back and she leaves you on read... the outcome wasn't any different.
The point you're making doesn't make any sense.
[–]razama 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Because despite your best efforts, incongruity in who you are and how you act will show through to people.
Subtext is everything, and unless you are some high level actor or a sociopath, your attitudes are detectable and change how your actions are precieved by others (even in text).
Someone who does or doesn't message back but is not stressing about the situation will be ok.
Someone who is stressing will only succeed in spite of themselves no matter their choice, because people notice when you reek of an attention seeking mentality and self doubt. If not immediately, at some point they will. That inner game is the deciding factor, not your play.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The deciding factor? How so?
[–]Moxiecodone 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It’s not about contradicting statements, it’s about the context and order in which you do these things that spells out what you’re about.
What is the context and order? And how does that actually change the outcome?
[–]Moxiecodone 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The context is she flaked on him (wasted his time), then ‘hung out’ for 5 minutes, and then had the audacity to hit him up at 6am asking where he was. She is just using him when she feels like it instead of committing to spending any time with him. It sounded as if they were going to hang out, but she clearly didn’t care. He is just a source of attention when she beckons. So, him not responding and moving on with his life - talking to other people, going to another party, etc.. is letting her know that he is not going to play along. It sets a boundary because what you respond to, you’re validating. He is not waiting for sex, he is not hoping she comes around, he has detached from what she was doing and left her alone. The intent is not for her to now come around and them to have sex now, because that’s not someone IN GENERAL that is worth his undivided attention and time. However, because it is a message that says ‘I respect myself and my time more than this’ - it could make him more appealing to her. It may not, she may just drop it, but that doesn’t matter because that’s not why you act this way. So, this interaction isn’t about increasing his odds of having sex although it might. It’s about increasing his self respect and that is something that will eventually gain respect from others, including women he will want to be with.
If he decides to respond later, it’s just treated as another conversation without a specific intent and if she acts differently that time because of his behavior previously - the opportunity to fuck could open up again..
Saying and doing things that increase YOUR self respect, like setting boundaries or not responding to bullshit, makes your entire life better and increases how attractive you are IN GENERAL. The intent isn’t that you will always line up a sexual experience with someone. It’s about creating a relationship with the opposite sex where you are valuable in your own eyes, so you don’t simp for some hot piece of ass which won’t get you laid anyways.
There’s no guarantee you’ll always get sex, but increasing your odds comes secondary when you increase your value and standing in your own eyes.
The alternative is he could have immediately responded and been like, ‘omg I’m so sorry I missed your text. I thought you didn’t want to hang out because you came by for 5 minutes and then just left. What are you up to?!’
Or whatever, the reason is any moves except moving on was him accepting her flakey and superficial behavior.
Don’t text her back NOW because she didn’t act right.
Text her, MAYBE, if you even care to, LATER.. at no predetermined time - just to chat. If she acts differently, for example apologizing, then an opportunity reopens. But you don’t put stock in her now.
So the context and the order does matter. It’s not about gaming every single interaction to get laid and timing it out so it 100% happens.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for all of this, it does make perfect sense. I can understand how it makes your self respect and boundaries increase your confidence.
Thanks for also saying it's never a guarantee that you'll get sex, because there's zero expectations in the interactions you have with anyone.
[–]SentientCouch 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Not going home with anyone is fine.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Except we're in the seduction sub, and I'm a 23 year old virgin who always goes home alone
[–]Foxsundance 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Im 22 and a Virgin, almost every person I know as lost their virginity, and they constantly brag about it, but thats it, its the only thing they have going for them, nothing else. I can tell you for a fact they are more miserable than me.
[–]willgo-waggins 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have a healthy and remarkably mature attitude for both your age and your status.
Hold onto that because it will be an enormous aid in you knowing your own value.
[–]Moxiecodone 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah once you have sex, it’s not really that big of a deal. Your hormones make it one. Your biological drive makes it important, but once you do it - you’re not part of some special club.. it’s a huge club and you can be the ugliest, dumb motherfucker on planet earth yet still be part of it.
Raise your status and build your self up so you can conquer the world, not just a woman in bed.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm glad you're happy with it
[–]chemicalmamba 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (103 children) | Copy Link
I think its more about self respect than getting action. If you don't have self respect it sabatoges u
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (102 children) | Copy Link
So you just wait around for months for someone who is so into you they can't stop texting you?
What makes you so sure that's gonna happen at all?
[–]immatonton 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago* (97 children) | Copy Link
You’ll eventually meet girls who make it a little (lot) easier. Some go a little too far with the cat and mouse act, I think.
If I express intent and pushing things forward and you keep pulling back, I’m going to look elsewhere, because you have it twisted in thinking that I’m not the prize, because I am, or at least that’s how I feel.
You have to look at yourself as someone who is worthwhile to be around and girls should be happy that you’re talking to them. I posted it here a week or so ago, but “confidence is attractiveness.” If you believe it, so will they, and, if not, move on, because other people gladly will.
Someone in your case, it’ll help for you to act like you’re not a virgin and that you have a selection of girls to choose from/you have no trouble getting women, because then they’ll believe that is the case too. It’s a thing called pre-selection, implying to women that “oh, he gets girls, so there must be something good about him, let me find out too.”
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (96 children) | Copy Link
When is that "eventually" gonna happen?
I made it all the way through college without "eventually" happening.
Okay cool. I will have to pretend like I have sex despite not being someone who has sex
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (85 children) | Copy Link
Dude ... Just work on yourself and your confidence will come. The point of this post is to show that you have inherient value as a man, and that you demonstrate it by showing that you don't roll over for every girl who shows a tiny bit of interest. You pull away when she shows disinterest (whether she means to or not) or when she pulls away. The whole point is that you show that your okay with whatever does or doesn't happen and you're not anchored to some kind of outcome (e.g. having sex with someone at the end of the night).
[+][deleted] -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (84 children) | Copy Link
Oh yeah... do this really vague undescriptive thing, then my confidence will come, I'll magically start pulling girls out of thin air, and someone will teleport into bed with me.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (75 children) | Copy Link
Jesus Christ you're an incel
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (74 children) | Copy Link
You're not saying anything that makes sense!
Keep leaving girls on read that don't put effort into you.
Trouble is, there's a shit ton of girls that would never put effort into you. No girl ever starts text convos with me. So... it could never happen.
But working on myself is magically gonna fix all that, huh?
[–]Moxiecodone -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Start weight lifting and cardio immediately, stop masturbating to porn, don’t drink or use drugs, and TALK to women. Just ask questions about random shit. Go to a strip club and just talk to the strippers. Pay for an escort to talk to and have sex. Stop over complicating shit. Lower your bar. Lower your standard if you aren’t achieving. Then move it back up.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Lmao.
I had normal conversations with over a hundred girls at my college last semester. None of them worked out.
What will make the next hundred work out anyway?
[–]merchant_of_mirrors 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
It's not going to fall on your lap. You have to talk to the women first. Yes it sucks but that's part of being a man. You can demonstrate high value in a lot of ways, the way you carry yourself when you walk, the way you dress, the way you talk to people. You don't have to directly convey that you get girls at all. You just have to look like you got your shit together, they'll assume that getting girls is part of that.
[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, it's not gonna fucking fall in my lap. I got rejected over a hundred times last semester.
They might or might not even care that getting girls is part of that. And the way you talk to people has to be perfect to seduce someone, like walking on eggshells.
[–]merchant_of_mirrors 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It doesnt actually, not at all. If she finds you attractive you can talk about anything and she'll be all over you. If she doesn't, nothing you say will make her like you. If you've been rejected over a hundred times in a row that's a failure on your part. You are the common denominator. Either you act very low value or you don't put enough effort into your appearance. Based on your attitude I'd say it's the former.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Okay sure.
How do you act high value, and how does it show through in your conversations
[–]Moxiecodone -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If the sex point is really messing with you, go pay for an escort. There’s no shame. It’s better than devolving into an incel. If you don’t just get this shit out of the way your mind might become deranged. Talk to any girl you can. Fuck whoever will fuck you. Like I said, worst come to worse, pay an escort. Remove your roadblock.
How do I find out if someone will want to fuck me?
According to everyone in this sub that's not how it works.
I'm not gonna go buy a hooker if you're telling me it's as easy as "go talk to a girl, and just fuck her if she wants to fuck"
I'm fine offing myself before too long. I've tried too many things too many times.
[–]chemicalmamba 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe it won't happen but I've definitely lost the interest of a few girls who were otherwise into me because I seemed too desperate.
Things not working out will also not bother you as much. I'm not saying you should be aloof and stuff but in the original post it was kind of an extreme case of someone not valuing OP. Being a doormat and a lapdog won't guarantee action either.
[–]LevelUp84 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Key issue here is, "wait". You don't do that man.
What are you even talking about
He left this girl on read... that's the definition of waiting.
[–]Moxiecodone -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t wait. Move on to the next one. You can still chat with any number of them but don’t put all your energy on one woman, unless you found one you’re going to marry. Talk to them all. Prospect the planet. Become social. Just do the numbers and you will figure out your problem. You have to put yourself out there and fail where you need to learn.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She keeps escalating, gets more desperate, finds excuses to come see him at work and go to his house, etc
If you do this with women who waste your time they’ll often orbit you for a while which if nothing else can boost your self esteem. Makes you feel like you have options even though you know they’re just desperate to confirm you still like them.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don't know where I'll find someone like that but I'll keep trying
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
They’re all like that. You just have to listen to your instincts. You know how when a girl texts you sometimes you get anxiety thinking of a good response?
Just don’t respond if you feel that. Doesn’t matter if she did anything to warrant being left on read. You feel the anxiety, take the easy way out and just drop the conversation right there.
The first time you do this it feels crazy and self destructive but when you see the results you’ll realize some things about women.
Oh my god dude. My instincts are constantly wrong, I didn't grow up learning about sex.
You're guaranteeing that she's gonna just start getting all over your case if you leave her on read?
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nope. Expect probably half to never text you again.
Risking that loss is where you get your power. In my personal experience it’s like 1 out of 5 that will actually give up, the rest will start coming after you harder. But I expect every one of them to go away for ever. They just don’t.
Also only do that with women who are wasting your time.. the ones who genuinely like you and aren’t playing games you’ll feel less anxiety with. No need to screw up a good thing for no reason.
Ok I need to start leaving people on read. Will post whether that works for me.
Thanks!
He already went home, and he's suddenly less interested in chasing her. She'll pick up on this almost right away. If she's interested even a little bit, it will make her reconsider. She might even double text him. At that point the ball is in his court and he can try to set up a one on one date. This is where he's most likely to succeed
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That's a big "if" and he might not get the ball back
She has a lot of other people to talk to who aren't him
[–]Daunt02 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
He's not desperate which adds to his innate attractiveness.
Surprise... she didn't get back to him
So it doesn't matter
Seems like you're the only one that gives a fuck while he's talking to other women.
All I know is that in my own experience I've been rejected hundreds of times, and there's no controlling what someone says
[–]willgo-waggins 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I noted that to.
The “groups” thing is only useful for unknown cold pick up. When you have a nice mixed group of girls and guys you look very high value. They are with you. They enjoy and appreciate your company. You are desired and valued.
But a get together to go to a club you with your partner and her with her girlfriends? That’s a recipe for disaster unless you are already hooked up and plan to leave together.
[–]jam-unam 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every one likes to play games right? I’m just saying she can let her imagination go with whatever if he doesn’t want to respond to her. I wouldn’t she bailed.
[–][deleted] 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]jam-unam 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean she wasn’t that cool so her imagination can drift while he doesn’t respond to her. Girls like to play games? So can dudes lol
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 72 points73 points74 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cool story bro
[–]Foxsundance 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man!
[–]funkduder 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She's not a 10/10 if she treats you that way. Always carry your own self-respect
[–]Foxsundance 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, yeah ur right, she was a 10/10, but well... not anymore.
[–][deleted] 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
King shit
[–]insomniac_321 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👑
[–]loofyd 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well done
now move on to the next girl
[–][deleted] 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good. Now talk to other girls.
And if she texts you, go straight for the fuck. Then leave.
[–]educatedmedusa22 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what a wise advice
[–]Dwaynedibley24601 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She's young and hot and does not live in a world that does not revolve around her.. proud of you... shes not worth it
[–]Foxsundance 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just another girl with an inflated ego.
[–]Woujo 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah you need to completely next this woman. She is treating you like shit.
[–]Foxsundance 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just another girl with an inflated ego from all the simps, simping at her at any chance they see.
[–]Electric_kundalini 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She expected you to simp over her
[–]Psychological-Level9 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe I’m the minority opinion but I don’t think you’re exactly in the right based off what you said in this post. 1) it was clear from the get go that she was going out with a bunch of her friends to a nightclub. She messaged you and was obviously drunk. This was never a date or suppose to be one on one time. This is her going out with friends…your time was not disrespected because you decided to go 2) she danced with you so there was obviously interest. Again, she was out with friends in a night club and she doesn’t know you romantically. Of course she didn’t keep dancing with you…she was probably just moving with her friends 3) it is up to you as the guy to escalate- you obviously didn’t do that and now for whatever reason you feel disrespected.
I think you’re wasting an opportunity- I’d personally go out with her….but if you’re going to blow it because you had a false perception of what last night was going to be about, go for it.
[–]Foxsundance 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You might actually have a point.
Except she wasnt drunk at 9 pm.
The key difference her would have been getting in with her friends.
That would have drawn you into the group and allowed for continued contact and escalation with her.
No question she is interested but you will need to find an isolation opportunity if you pursue this.
[–]daring_innovator 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Never tolerate women that don’t respect your time king. Communicate your boundaries and what you won’t tolerate the very second she fucks up. If she isn’t with it then that’s cool too because we got 5 other 10s lined up to replace her.
Never chase, let it be known that you’re a man with integrity/options and be willing to walk away from her without hesitation. Anyway, she might be a 10 but at the end of the day you’re still the decision maker; The Man & you hold more power than she does. 👑
[–]immatonton 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Someone told me once, I just think it’s funny, but totally relevant:
“Show her you’re a king, leave her on seen.”
[–]PondScum420 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is she latina? Sounds like my endeavors trying to date in Mexico, people stay up partying so late here, I can never keep up lol
[–]Foxsundance 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dont really know, the club closes at 5 am, im not sure what she was thinking when she texted me that at that time, not a chance I was waiting for her lmao.
[–]merchant_of_mirrors 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Your mistake is going out in a group. Too many distractions and too many cockblocks. you absolutely did the right thing by leaving to do your own thing though, she clearly wasn't respecting your time. Wait a few days, then hit her up to hang out one on one. If she tries to set up another group hangout, tell her you're not interested in being her friend and that you only want to hang out one on one. If she says no tell her to have a good night and go on with your day.
[–]Foxsundance 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hitting her up again isn't on my mind
[–]merchant_of_mirrors 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good that's the right mindset. I get the feeling she'll hit you up though. Likely within the week. Just don't take her behavior personally. She's sounds like the hot party girl type. Those girls are notoriously hard to make plans with and they got simps all over them 24/7.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Next
[–]aidsjohnson 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good. Fuck her. Don't let women waste your mf time.
[–]eckzotic 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Props to ya
[–]creative_i_am_not 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah you don't care to a point where you made a fucking reddit post about it lol
[–]aidsjohnson 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but it's for the benefit of us kings lol 👑👑👑
[–]Foxsundance 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too bad, suck it up.
[–]maggoznem -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro..SHE approached you?!? What did you expect if nothing comes from you? You are the male and have to lead. Wake the shit up and get going #nomoreexcuses
[–]Psychological-Level9 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, this is a weak post. He invited himself to her night out, she came up to him, and now he feels disrespected lol
[–]Shawager -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Também sou Português. Sei o quão confusas podem ser as gajas de cá, mas provavelmente só dava like na mensagem ou mandava-lhe algo que demonstre que te estás a cagar tipo "Só vi agora kk"
[–]hudsonv11 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think this is yours 👑
[–]cyrusol -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
"This girl left me on read irl so I left her on read in the virtual world. I really showed her, ha!"
[–]Foxsundance -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How do you leave on read irl?
[–]cyrusol -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
hey decided to leave us to dance with other people without saying anything or inviting us
You blind or what mate?
[–]Foxsundance -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That isnt leaving on read, leaving on read is to see a message written and not reply to it.
[–]cyrusol -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, sure, keep telling yourself myths, mate.
[–]Foxsundance -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sure, she "leaves me on read irl" whatever that is, and later decides to text me. Yeah whatever man.
[–]cyrusol 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She was really interested in you when she was dancing with that other dude!
[+][deleted] -24 points-23 points-22 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It sounds like you two are having two completely different relationships. Y’all need to talk, for real.
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No he doesn't. He barely knows her, and she outright disrespected him.
[–]Global-Bridge-6787 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What relationship lmfao? They’re not dating and this isn’t 1921.
[+][deleted] -11 points-10 points-9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Honestly don’t care. No skin off my back either way.
[–]SentientCouch 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It sounds like you and the guy you just responded to are having completely different relationships. You should talk it out.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m open to it.
[–]aStonedPanda94 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You did the right thing, she treated you like a back up option
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