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IntroMystique · 2021-10-23T10:31:23+00:00

Leave it dude.

Never worth it. Just take it as playfulness and keep it moving.

Jay-Ames · 2021-10-23T12:17:56+00:00

Dont go into it.

I don't like relationships at work. People can have the best of intensions. But if something goes wrong there is no way of avoiding each other.

Here is another reason. If you start exploring it and she gets exposed she is gonna say that you are harassing her even though she is doing the same. And then they will believe her just because she is a woman.

Just don't.

DakiAge · 2021-10-23T09:04:12+00:00

Don't.

tnpersona · 2021-10-23T14:47:59+00:00

I think I’ve experienced something similar before. Some girls are just like that- they seem to only know how to flirt. Doesn’t necessarily mean she’s into you, and even if she is, like many others say, don’t get involved. You don’t want to tarnish your reputation by ruining a relationship

Youthful25 · 2021-10-23T09:56:45+00:00

Dude, don’t be a home wrecker so in the future you won’t get bad karma and your wife will get fucked by another guy while you’re babysitting your kid. Find other girls instead and keep it strictly professional

Just_Go_Full_Tilt · 2021-10-23T12:30:02+00:00

Probably not a good move to get involved with her if she’s in that position. The easiest way to stop her having any feelings for you would be to fuck her dad.

Just my 2 cents

Savaaage · 2021-10-23T12:31:55+00:00

As someone who also made the dumb mistake of going after someone at work, don't do it. It's not worth the extra drama especially gossip. I learned the hard way.

Radio_Unique · 2021-10-23T14:50:52+00:00

Some girls are just flirtatious, but no intentions

Andrew54321 · 2021-10-23T17:00:05+00:00

No shit where eat

Hesediel- · 2021-10-23T15:25:11+00:00

she has a kid and a boyfriend that’s the dad.

she has a kid and a boyfriend that’s the dad

she has a kid and a boyfriend that’s the dad.

And your are asking?

Bruucex · 2021-10-23T09:34:23+00:00

Dude are u dumb?

bigm5995 · 2021-10-23T13:44:28+00:00

Do not do it. do not pass go. do not collect whatever she is trying to give you man. just don't man better for your health

Altokation · 2021-10-23T13:33:56+00:00

Yo dont do it. Ive been involved with bfs before but its not something I do anymore; ESPECIALLY IF A KID IS INVOLVED! Its not worth it

shivax4 · 2021-10-23T16:10:20+00:00

Man really wtf? Why are you even asking this, you are a grown man, show your decency and values.

tryingmybestatm · 2021-10-23T16:50:58+00:00

u dont play with a man's girl, what goes around comes around isn't a joke

GEEZUS_956 · 2021-10-23T16:51:11+00:00

I was about to say bite the hook, but yeah, no. That worm is rotten.

Ramen-4-breakfast · 2021-10-23T17:52:24+00:00

Use the attention and validation she gives you to pursue other girls, use this as confirmation that you are attractive and pursue relationships outside of the work place

TempAcc64 · 2021-10-23T11:10:17+00:00

Firstly don't.

If not, anal only.

/shrug

Jdaddyk07 · 2021-10-23T22:30:50+00:00

Flirt if you want but it sounds like you'd be baby daddy number two lol

mmmkaaaayyy · 2021-10-23T15:51:34+00:00

i wouldn't as you work with her, she has obligations and on top of that this could go really really sideways in the long run. wouldn't.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-10-23T17:39:55+00:00

She’s using for attention. She also see you as a mark. Don’t feed into it

L4V1 · 2021-10-23T18:21:27+00:00

She wants attention and thinks you’re gonna give it. She probably regrets decisions and wants to feel that spark and wildness.

Leave it man. Don’t do it. Work on yourself bro. Use it for your confidence but leave it at that.

AliensDid911Bro · 2021-10-23T19:39:16+00:00

If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. Just keep that in the back of your mind and proceed with caution.

CustomAlpha · 2021-10-23T20:00:22+00:00

I’ve had a girl get “touchy” and then slept with another guy. Might be using you to get her hormones built up for better sex with someone else.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-10-23T10:16:33+00:00

Ask if she's in an open relationship

AruiMD · 2021-10-23T14:58:50+00:00

Ok, ask her out. Edit: nvmnd, read comments and see she’s cheating.

Agree, don’t be a jerk. Move on.

hitmanwitda23 · 2021-10-23T14:10:04+00:00

man listen fuck what these niggas talkin bout get yo shit off bro 😂 women are for everybody you’re not a home wrecker for returning energy, she was gonna do that anyway, you or another at work lol idk what these niggas all upset about but if you not friends with her boyfriend and don’t know him i don’t see wtf the problem is

2udaylatif · 2021-10-23T16:52:39+00:00

She may be into you or she may be just work flirting. Lots of people have "work spouses" or best friends and flirt partners at work but it stops when they go home from work. Married people do this a lot at work.

She is definitely flirting but the only way to tell if it is real or just a work thing is to ask her out. If she hangs out with you then she might actually be interested in you.

Dear_Tomato · 2021-10-24T09:00:47+00:00

Is she in an open relationship

winning2323 · 2021-10-23T14:41:04+00:00

Go ballz deep bro.

Revolutionary_Wind_8 · 2021-10-23T13:34:13+00:00

Bro.

CLAP THEM CHEEKS WTF ARE YOU DOING

szm1105 · 2021-10-24T08:07:03+00:00

Not wise to dip your pen in the office ink 😋

Cosmic_noise_2991 · 2021-10-23T21:05:38+00:00

Let her be playful with you but dont pursue this trainwreck waiting to happen.

1, dont shit where you eat. If it hits the fan, the place where you grind for your bread will become toxic.

2, she has a kid and the dad is the boyfriend? Fuck that. Theres pussy out there with less stress and strings attached.

3, dont have a kid. Potentially being the one to take care of her kid if things did get serious is the same as 'having a kid'. Take it from someone who has experience with the little demons. They suck. You lose your life and you cant ever do what you want without first feeding, bathing, clothing, and dragging around this little mess monster. Your relationship will lose all spontaneity. If you think you want to make one, look up how stressful they are. If you can, request to take care of a baby of a family member so you can see what it's like. I'd say stay with them for a whole 24 to 48 hours and wake when that little demon screams his fucking head off because his stomach is empty. Wish I did a trial run before getting her pregnant.

Take what I say and either use it or throw it out the window.

not tryna read comments of triggered marshmallows. Save it

Cosmic_noise_2991 · 2021-10-23T21:09:33+00:00

Just read all the comments and I completely forgot to mention that she has a boyfriend and is showing you that type of energy, inviting you into her space while hes at home with the fucking kid??! Fuck that whore

Scratch that, do NOT fuck that whore.

Cosmic_noise_2991 · 2021-10-23T21:11:15+00:00

I'd nip this shit in the bud and tell her straight up you have a boyfriend and you're being a shitty partner. Might blow up so dont take my advice idk , I'm just a reddit dude.

MissMabeliita · 2021-10-23T21:30:35+00:00

Maybe she’s born with it, maybe is maybelline… sorry I had to, maybe she’s into you or maybe she’s one of those people who like to do the double entendre jokes?? In any case, she off limits because she do have a partner, stay away from that because you’re the only one who will lose in this situation, be very cautious and if she makes a more solid move, you run.

helppleasemeplease · 2021-10-24T04:09:29+00:00

She’s using you for attention, and she already has a boyfriend so not a good move lol

darkved · 2021-10-24T04:55:36+00:00

Even if you were bi and the husband was down i would still say not too because its too annoying stepping on toys on the carpet.

almighty_nsa · 2021-10-24T08:17:28+00:00

She isn’t. Look for girls that are friggin single. All the others are either playing you, using you for attention or not interested at all.

HughBeaumont500 · 2021-10-23T15:07:46+00:00

Give her kid #2

Pay child support for next 18+ years

Wait... Don't even need to. In my state if you marry a lady with a kid (not yours) and for whatever reason you divorce (she's banging the Amazon delivery guy when you come home) you still will be legally required to pay child support for the kid she already had.

Let that sink in. Kids not yours. FUPM

Thus the old saying cheaper to keep her

lameboigenie · 2021-10-23T16:33:11+00:00

Enjoy the little flirting and save that energy for other grils

7asas · 2021-10-23T16:34:43+00:00

Dude! What the hell! Do you even have to think about this? Don't ever be a home wrecker. Never do this! If she divorces the guy, is a single women, then you can do it. But not now. Would you like someone to be trying to hookup with your girl while she is at work? I think not.

Chrislongman93 · 2021-10-23T17:11:36+00:00

You even think about getting your d wet in that, you might get your jaw jacked. Leave that alone!

SplashOfBlack2020 · 2021-10-23T17:31:13+00:00

Well obviously she's missing something. If she's flirting/playing, she wants something. Invite her to sit down for a coffee and talk about it. Don't assume anything. Have her confirm it all face to face.

verdant11 · 2021-10-23T17:31:19+00:00

She may have given you a look because you were in a coffee line but thirsty for water.

ElToreroo · 2021-10-23T17:52:38+00:00

Don't give it any thought. As the other people here have mentioned, leave it, let it be. She has a kid, do you want a kid? she has a bf who is the dad. Do you really want to get involved with that life?

nateoak10 · 2021-10-23T17:55:05+00:00

Don’t do it. Trust me. Been there before. Don’t do it. If you or her get different jobs then go for it.

rocker5x · 2021-10-23T18:29:25+00:00

Just don’t

Steelquill · 2021-10-23T18:59:48+00:00

Up until you mentioned the kid and boyfriend, I would have said go for it or she’s absolutely into you.

With that information, I’d suggest you let her down gently or just don’t reciprocate.

MisterSisterFister12 · 2021-10-23T20:37:25+00:00

Fuck her, then tell the boyfriend

2021-10-24T00:12:18+00:00

Stay on the grind

Jetfire-48 · 2021-10-24T00:53:47+00:00

Honestly had something somewhat similar and they look fit and you’ll love the attention they give you but best look the other way really not worth it

itsrainingidiots · 2021-10-24T02:48:14+00:00

Definitely not worth it.

choiaera · 2021-10-24T02:50:24+00:00

Set your boundaries

Leviathansplunge · 2021-10-24T03:17:12+00:00

She probably wants u as the guy on the side. It is far better to be "the other guy" than the person that is being cheated on. I would normally say just get into something casual with her, but not in this situation because you work with her and will be forced to keep being around her if u both still want a paycheck.

MOProG2 · 2021-10-26T12:27:10+00:00

If she cheats on BF to be with you what do you think she will do to you if things go south? There are things more important than sex.

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