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Helmet_Icicle · 2019-08-04T13:29:28+00:00

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LolsandBalls69 · 2019-08-04T20:35:59+00:00

I want to add something. If we touch you, we want you to make a move. Every touch is completely 10000% intentional. We will NOT touch anyone we won't like. I mean on the arm, shoulder, hand, leg, whatever.

PachymuNyet · 2019-08-04T17:02:36+00:00

AND... their "game" is probably terrible as well. You know, I've flatly rejected many, many, many hot girls before because I simply didn't know what to do. And it saved my ego the embarrassment of not knowing what to do to just act aloof and assholish, and just avoid/shutdown the situation -- just being real. If they had somehow taken me by the hand, it would have happened. I bet some of them were really amazing women.

It's an interesting thought, maybe some compassion is due, something like "Don't worry, I'm nervous meeting new people too. =)" combined with a high-value frame could be useful for everybody involved.

edit: Damn. Thanks for triggering this train of thought. It is sobering and humbling -- and empowering.

lavenderthreads · 2019-08-04T17:47:45+00:00

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youni89 · 2019-08-04T20:29:37+00:00

Is it fair for me to substitute the word girl in this post to guy?

Why do guys have to make the moves all the time? If I'm standing there alone then make a move on me. I'm DESPERATELY waiting.

d3l4 · 2019-08-04T18:27:17+00:00

Girls are cute goofy insecure dolls?
How about " girls, just like guys, want to feel desired and know that they are attractive"

EarthWarping · 2019-08-04T18:01:59+00:00

Well the single ones... yes

itzReborn · 2019-08-04T18:49:48+00:00

So what do you guys say to open a conversation? Just “hi I’m etc” or start with a compliment to her? What do you say to start?

bumblebritches57 · 2019-08-04T18:02:26+00:00

It's honestly kinda ridiculous, but it's completely true.

loveopenly · 2019-08-04T22:25:33+00:00

Girls want you to take action

*Some. Many women are not waiting. They are indifferent or undecided. Either way, action works well for both you and them (within reason). Some, already decided they want you to leave them alone. Acknowledge that when you see it and respect it.

girls are just cute, goofy, insecure dolls

Please don't paint all women like this. If you view them as insecure, you might think they need saving and this will not result in a healthy male to female dynamic down the road. Women, just like men are diverse in personality. Some women will like you, some won't. But we can all learn and grow from each other. So embrace that.

RataMata13 · 2019-08-04T17:35:23+00:00

So true. Been talking to this female for weeks and hanged out 3 times already. Lately the only physical we gotten was just touching our faces/body until the 3rd hang out. I made a move in my car and she responded back. If I wouldn’t have taken action, nothing would have happen.

redpill_scientist92 · 2019-08-05T03:23:29+00:00

This is the absolute truth

Phuffu · 2019-08-04T21:56:35+00:00

Tbh the only post this sub needs

2019-08-05T05:41:23+00:00

For once i want a girl to make a solid move on me .

E3Lman · 2019-08-05T07:23:50+00:00

Great post bro. Simple but powerful

lilfeetsies · 2019-08-04T19:10:13+00:00

YUS. I think it depends on the situation and girl, too!

whoscodex · 2019-08-05T02:22:00+00:00

thanks broo i can never be 100% with tryna talk to females like ill meet a girl get her name and a little small talk but then the next few days ill be like "should i say hi (name)" and i always think whats the right time to say hi or talk to a girl

its annyoing

business2690 · 2019-08-05T12:12:26+00:00

this is the correct answer

farachun · 2019-08-06T06:28:19+00:00

This is true. Too nice is boring nowadays lol give us the action.

sa-mondi · 2019-08-04T20:45:41+00:00

As a girl I have to let you all guys know that this is very inaccurate and not at all what girls want. 'Insecure dolls'???? wtf. and I wouldnt be surprised if a girl is completely uninterested in a guy that has this misogynistic mindset. It's not because she isn't available or she is playinghard to get, she is just simply not interested in you. Respect her decision and don't make her uncomfortable and move on.

trustfundyolo · 2019-08-05T00:04:48+00:00

Blue pilled cringe

The-Chiefs-Son · 2019-08-04T18:10:53+00:00

Just take what's yours, the Dothraki way! Lol

Webby915 · 2019-08-04T23:48:01+00:00

Awful post.

I can guarentee you make at least 4 women a day uncomfortable.

goldenshoelace8 · 2019-08-04T14:37:45+00:00

I don’t understand how to do this though. I went up to a girl at a bar and introduced myself and asked her a couple things and then grabbed her hip and she took my hand and shoved it off and gave me a weird look. If girls want to be escalated then why did this happen...

2019-08-05T06:03:11+00:00

girls are just cute, goofy, insecure dolls

Or y'know, people...

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