Do we all just ignore the hypocrisy?

Jack26918 · 2026-03-23T10:32:42+00:00

WTF are you raving about???

shortidiva21 · 2026-03-23T10:21:51+00:00

Because the main way to abundance is believing it is in alignment with who you are and who you are becoming. However, I can understand why it seems contradictory, and I agree that social status isn't everything. I also agree that the machismo stuff is foolishness & a waste of energy.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-03-23T13:56:20+00:00

Limiting beliefs are a negative beliefs you have about yourself that are NOT based on fact.

If you have a negative belief related to that, which is based on the reality that social status matters for dating, then you have a correct world-view.

Social status impacting attraction is real. But not absolute. It plays a role, but you can still get laid with low social status. Provided you have other attractive qualities. Social status is just one variable impacting attraction out of thousands of factors. So it's the total package that matters. Not just one variable, like social status.

Example to illustrate:

Limiting belief: Because I'm broke, getting laid is impossible.

Correct worldview: Because I'm broke, it will probably be more difficult to get laid - so I will need to let my other attractive qualities shine instead.

See the difference?

As for social status: It is the combined opinion of how most people see you compared to other people. Career is very strong here. For example, a CEO of a large corporation will usually have higher social status than a delivery driver. But it is also dependent on the setting. Maybe they both attend a stand-up workshop and the delivery driver is way funnier than the CEO. Then in that setting where humor is valued the most - the delivery driver will have higher social status than the CEO.

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-03-23T11:03:55+00:00

No limiting beliefs in bettering yourself.

Not “limiting beliefs in thinking there should be no castes in society.”

This is what happens when you only get a catchphrase here and there, without digging deeper what it actually means. Just like the lingo “negging” for example, a lot of guys think it means to be a jerk to a woman or to throw an insult at her.

LofiStarforge · 2026-03-23T12:44:51+00:00

I’ve always found most inner game stuff to be incredibly idiotic and vague enough that’s it’s useful to make a lot of money off of. I also find people love inner game because they treat it as a magic trick instead of putting in real work. This was true in my athletic career aswell.

The game is the game. Some things matter some things don’t. Whether they are arbitrary or not is simply mental masturbation and will be biased by one owns circumstances.

ChicoBrillo · 2026-03-23T16:21:33+00:00

First mistake is taking anything on here as authoritative

neverTouchedWomen · 2026-03-23T10:56:05+00:00

I agree. In reality nobody gives AF, just do what you want to do. Talk to people because you want to, not because you think you've reached a certain social status.

Dandys3107 · 2026-03-23T12:43:25+00:00

Rules are just for you to begin with some startup of a mindset. Your seduction game should base on your own actual experience and you should steer it by your own feeling. There are no perfect answers with life, but you are the one that knows your perspective the best.

tajbinjohn · 2026-03-23T13:25:35+00:00

You're misunderstanding social status.

In nightlife your last name or BMI or net worth or career don't mean shit to people that you're trying to vibe with.

In your belief framework: you deadass believe that a completely boring imbecile is more "high status" than you if they have a better career or net worth than you. That's not the case.

Trip_seize · 2026-03-23T15:55:39+00:00

I'm gonna go buy a new car just so I can be better than...THIS guy...

Matter_Still · 2026-03-23T17:03:49+00:00

I think the hypocrisy is a much more pernicious kind: you have numerous self-declared pickup gurus telling you about their body count, how they “smashed” an Emirates flight attendant while in Paris, and how they are juggling four Circassian Lezginka dancers. And, of course they have personally helped THOUSANDS of clients when they can’t even provide proof they’ve helped themselves.

OpinionThink481 · 2026-03-23T17:33:27+00:00

- sounds like rules for thee, not for me imo.

People don't have any legal obligation or duty to not be hypocritical and there are no rules in social dynamics or dating, so you should not expect people to be coherent or to adapt to your script of how people should behave.

- why is it one of the core foundations of game is "No limiting beliefs" then you go around preaching this "social status" garbage?

It's different people saying those things. It's not the exact same person saying "have no limiting beliefs and also have social status". It's one sector saying one thing, and another sector saying the other thing. Why? Because they are opinions, they are not absolute unquestionable truths because social dynamics are not exact like mathematics.

- how the hell is someone who's obviously a high-school dropout better than us because he has a new car?

There is no cosmic entity that says he is better than you because he has a new car. It's just an opinion, not a physics law. It's all subjective, and it all depends on the story you are telling yourself, not what a collective of people think.

- why should a lawyer be treated better than a mechanic?

Nobody is saying that and even if they did, it would be meaningless because it's just an opinion of that individual. Not an unquestionable universal law.

Seems like u struggle with understanding that people have "freedom". And freedom includes refusing to be coherent, refusing to be likable, refusing to get ur approval, refusing to follow ur moral values, refusing to follow social norms, and refusing to do what's expected or to adapt to what u consider "good behavior" and refusing to hold the same beliefs as others.

Pedro_Moona · 2026-03-24T02:58:56+00:00

Because social status isn't just tied to job is tired to social ability and confidence conveys that.

bigolboooom · 2026-03-23T16:13:44+00:00

This is the realest post I've ever seen on this sub. OP is on the next level with this. Getting my popcorn

Terrible_Assist_1345 · 2026-03-23T10:23:08+00:00

social status is a part of status. status is buildup from multiple area's in life. social status has nothing to do with your job.

Calling it made up nonsense is a limiting belief. You clearly don't understand the way this works.

I can explain it to you but you have to be open for other perceptions.

Title	Do we all just ignore the hypocrisy?
Author	Punch-SideIron
Upvotes	9
Comments	45
Date	March 23, 2026 10:07 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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