Eye contact is literally everything.

555x · 2015-09-18T07:33:04+00:00

Eye contact is literally everything.

If this were true, Germans would be the best PUAs in the world, but they aren't, and so it isn't. Eye contact is pretty important though.

Edit By the way, don't stare anyone down in the ghetto, unless you think the world has too many aspiring PUAs.

Not2original · 2015-09-18T13:24:12+00:00

EDIT:

Eye contact and a smile! be friendly, not creepy.

Hyperion_Dark · 2015-09-18T07:17:35+00:00

This is the one thing I always work on and always forget. Its basically the only "body language" type thing I try to actively monitor along with maybe posture.

How has improving your eye contact helped you OP?

cole199910 · 2015-09-18T08:46:37+00:00

I have to work on not being such a bitch about this. I can't keep eye contact with anyone

ok_heh · 2015-09-18T15:02:21+00:00

This reminds me of a PUA guy I was introduced to in real life and who musta read the same thing somewhere. He would never. break. eye. contact. ever. Groups of girls just thought he was fucking weird because he did zero calibration with it/had no social awareness to tamper it down. He would be in the way of the bar service staff but because PUA would hold his ground and eye contact. Ended up going back to his ex that cheated on him.

btao · 2015-09-18T11:25:19+00:00

So is learning what the word literally means.

wedembrownies · 2015-09-18T13:37:06+00:00

I don't know how to do strong eye contact without coming off as creepy :/

happyself · 2015-09-18T13:56:59+00:00

What if two people read this then make eye contact with each other out in the wild? Staring contest?

Smigg_e · 2015-09-18T16:06:51+00:00

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philosarapter · 2015-09-18T15:48:22+00:00

Eye contact isn't LITERALLY everything. Everything is literally everything.

But yeah eye contact with girls is important to establishing a connection.

Turlast · 2015-09-18T18:23:41+00:00

My eye contact is terrible.

Kaeko · 2015-09-18T17:26:25+00:00

I struggle with it and always have, because of my anxiety. Besides my family members, I can't look at a person's eyes for more than a few seconds.
So I look at other parts of their face.

HilarityEnsuez · 2015-09-18T20:41:51+00:00

Eye contact and touch a few times briefly. But seriously, since I started /r/NoFap, really good connection via eye contact gets pretty fucking intense and arousing. No wonder it works on women.

AtticusWarhol · 2015-09-18T21:14:41+00:00

Honestly what is this?

You can't just have a text post without evidence to back it up. I get that it's important but where the why behind it? The science that proves it.

Seriously the amount of up votes that this got just shows the condition of this sub.

There's no tips like eye triangulation. Or how you stare into the left eye (your right side) to appeal to emotion and the right eye ( your left side) to appeal to logic because of which side of the brain they're connect to.

There needs to be more content then "eye contact is everything" to be considered 100+ upvote worthy.

Insanity_-_Wolf · 2015-09-18T23:56:17+00:00

Once you focus on the eyes, you are in full view of a myriad of sub-concious facial expressions.

DeltaDiezel · 2015-09-19T00:38:29+00:00

Whipping the ole hammer out will also help you with declaring that dominance.

Not_Reddit · 2015-09-19T01:34:18+00:00

Who you looking at ?!

yokhai · 2015-09-18T19:31:54+00:00

"Eye contact is metaphorically very important"

grass_cutter · 2015-09-18T21:32:17+00:00

Disagree. This is "weirdo PUA" training.

Some men get pissed or threatened or alarmed if you make strong eye contact them walking down the street (I live in Chicago, plenty of thugs and murderers).

My question is WHY do you want to assert your dominance, or "alpha dog it" when walking down the street to strange men? With attractive women, sure, but a loser fucktard minimum wage worker, who's pissed at the world? He's WAITING to get into fisticuffs with everyone and anyone. And you're going to "assert dominance" by staring him down?

Nah, you assert dominance by ignoring people who you have zero interest in whatsoever. When I walk down the street, I'll make eye contact naturally, or with a lady who interests me, or maybe an interesting gentleman ... I'm not interested or concerned with every last fucktard that crosses my path. The majority of them are chimpanzees, with nothing to lose, no ambition to gain, and I don't have the time or inclination to "eye fuck" as I'm going about my day. They aren't worth my attention. You think POTUS or Trump makes eye contact with everyone in their path?

Title	Eye contact is literally everything.
Author	jakepenning
Upvotes	164
Comments	79
Date	September 18, 2015 6:41 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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