Friendly tip. If she doesn’t do this when you offer up a day to do something she’s just not interested. Move on. Women will offer up alternatives if they can’t when you ask them out

PopeIzalith · 2019-10-03T01:41:55+00:00

This is great advice, especially for guys just starting out.

Flakiness is a natural reaction for people if their interest is low, especially women. This method helps filter out women with low attraction because if she really wants to see you she will reschedule or offer an alternative.

No fence sitters! You have to view your time as a valuable resource Spend your time with people who appreciate that value. If someone wastes your time, they don’t appreciate its value.

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Mark_Blanks · 2019-10-03T01:28:40+00:00

Once a girl I was talking to left to be with her friends and I thought that was it and she came back and asked for my number . Then we texted for a while I set up a date, she ghosted for about a week then popped back up and that continued for 2 months.

PapiLion81 · 2019-10-03T01:18:00+00:00

"Women open doors...men just have to walk through them."

2019-10-03T01:45:02+00:00

That is true. I do this. Easy way to find out even if roles are reversed. I suppose the bottom line is, if someone is truly interested they will make time for you!

Deez05 · 2019-10-03T01:28:30+00:00

Idk I’ve had this happen before where they responded like that and we set plans, and they flaked literally on the day of whatever we were doing

TuxedoCatsParty_Hard · 2019-10-03T05:00:00+00:00

I find it best to transition to the date setting after establishing a good rapport, she's laughing, vibing, and genuinely happy. Shoot your shot then.

Lancebanks · 2019-10-03T05:25:24+00:00

I truly believe this. I don’t chase anyone no matter how attractive they’re now. This girl I was interested in, said she “might” be able to come to my birthday party next week and didn’t really offer any other alternative solution to hangout and I just left her on read.

It’s important to reach a point where you aren’t overly exerting yourself while the other person shows little interest. If they’re interested great if they don’t seem like they’re drop it

RaffNFreddy · 2019-10-03T03:37:55+00:00

Lol, it would be great to receive a text like that! The last girl told me she was “getting furniture delivered and won’t be available”

Offered no alternative. It was pretty clear then lol but figured I’d at least suggest some time the following week.

Crickets.

No worries! Honestly wasn’t my best performance on our date - it was my first since becoming single again.

ModernWolfStrategies · 2019-10-03T03:01:23+00:00

I don’t really think that’s fair to say. If a girl reacts the way you’ve shown here it’s basically a slam dunk. There are definitely a lot of situations where you won’t get that level of enthusiasm, but a little persistence can pay off big time. I’ve met tons of women who work and have lives and don’t always have a day to immediately offer. People just need to not take this shit so personally. Sure, don’t waste your time but you don’t need to discard the connection. Leave the lines of communication open.

2019-10-02T23:57:13+00:00

Absolute truth right here. I even do this with friends.

Cybralisk · 2019-10-03T03:47:37+00:00

Yea you date a while then you learn this stuff pretty quick, I just had a girl decline a date and not offer an alternative this past week, never said another word to her. If they don't accept your first date offer enthusiastically then things are usually over at that point.

Khower · 2019-10-03T04:11:32+00:00

Damn that’s some hella gaps between those texts lol

rushdbeisisjeiwksj · 2019-10-03T07:09:23+00:00

I think it really depends what you’re going for. If she does this but its for Casual/hookup? Backburner. For an LTR? Drop her

sanepanda · 2019-10-03T07:23:44+00:00

Not really, you mostly game maybe girls.

Sostuok · 2019-10-03T08:54:57+00:00

Harsh but true

bakour53 · 2019-10-03T11:33:08+00:00

I think you are right. Maybe you could ask if she's available some other day or specially if she has a genuine excuse. But don't persist it too much after that it's just a lost case. But if you leave it open without persisting too much and annoying her or ending it completely, maybe in the future you encounter her again (maybe a comment on a photo or randomly on the streets), by then a lot of things could have changed and you can go after her again...

Rebstrike · 2019-10-03T12:34:21+00:00

Rarely does anyone offer an alternative, even my guy friends. (I’m a male.) Any explanation for this?

Fun2badult · 2019-10-03T14:33:20+00:00

This is true. If she doesn’t offer any alternative option, then she’s not that interested. Find a girl that is excited to see you and WANTS to be with you

2019-10-03T15:21:56+00:00

Truth! If she doesn't just take the hint and move on.

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blockfuture · 2019-10-03T10:51:25+00:00

Terrible advice. Generally the more value the girl has, the more you need to prove yourself to get a date; Its likely you need to be more confident, persistent and interesting than the other men trying to make something happen. If you listen to this kind of advice you might miss catching a really good woman because you didn't try hard enough.

GodSlayer_0 · 2019-10-03T14:16:50+00:00

I stopped reading at the lol

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