Guys I fucking did it.

relentless_pma · 2020-09-03T16:42:20+00:00

So how did you do it and how much time did it took to grow?

Congratz and good luck on your date

Luvdashakey · 2020-09-03T23:56:44+00:00

Folks, why knock the guy? Do any of you that are tagging on him really KNOW him? And all the “he’s just a PUA” junk! Really? How about giving the man some credit that he saw some faults in his character that he felt he needed to fix and he acted to fix them. Is that not good enough? You know some people just really take the friggin cake! They can’t stand it that someone, who just wants some love and attention like all people deserve, do something to be more genuine and it works. It’s like you’ve got to drag him down to your level so you can feel good about your own snobbishness. Give him a break and get off his ass!

joslat92 · 2020-09-03T17:38:53+00:00

Mannn give me the story, how she asked you out?

MentalCelOmega · 2020-09-03T19:28:41+00:00

Congratulations man. What sources did you that found helped you out the most?

2dice1hand · 2020-09-04T00:40:59+00:00

Big dick energy baby she couldn’t resist! Good job man!

BukarooJones · 2020-09-04T00:42:19+00:00

You were always a real man for as long as you were willing to grow.

InsaneKing1 · 2020-09-03T21:46:13+00:00

Holy shit man,congratulations and good luck

autisticspymaster1 · 2020-09-04T00:23:47+00:00

Congratulations. I wish you success and happiness. You earned it!

RobotGrapes · 2020-09-04T00:53:18+00:00

Now imagine this but once you ask her out, she instantly stops talking to you and asks for a "break" in your friendship. Then 6 months later when you try to reach out, she continues to ignore any talking points on the matter and treats you like the last year and half of friendship never happened. I'm happy for you chief, I'm just jealous yours worked out lmfao

PERCping · 2020-09-03T20:02:28+00:00

Nah mate duck that, if you are a real man then you shouldn't care whatever someone thinks, an achievement for you is an achievement and you should be happy about it and not giving a duck about what others think

Tnthomas88 · 2020-09-04T00:43:00+00:00

In the words of a great scholar. "Yo da man"

BurdenofPain · 2020-09-04T00:28:14+00:00

You're a real man regardless. The woman doesn't make you, your confidence makes you.

DestinyChitChat · 2020-09-03T19:25:16+00:00

Dude, I totally get it.

I knew a girl back in high school that we were on and off as a couple AND as friends. Lots of drama. Never went all the way.

Fast forward about 10 years later and I'm in my first year of studying PUA and we get back in touch. I decide to use what I learned to finally do what I couldn't do back in high school.

Took me about 2 weeks to do what I couldn't for years back then. And it only took that long because we could only meet up on the weekend.

I told my best friend afterwards, who also went to school with us, and his reaction was"No f**ing way dude!"

Yea I was pretty hype. So I definitely know the feeling.

captainhealth · 2020-09-04T00:38:36+00:00

You were always a man

lxwxs420 · 2020-09-04T00:39:36+00:00

Links to where you improved?

mukeshgates · 2020-09-03T17:44:12+00:00

Wow, good for you. I'd like to hear the update.

Le-Patron · 2020-09-04T01:37:10+00:00

Congratulations! That's great to hear. It takes a lot to transform up to a point that the dynamics change, especially to this level. Hope everything works out! But if it doesn't, remember the man that you've become and don't lose your self-value!

GoldSmith64 · 2020-09-04T01:44:06+00:00

How did you work on becoming non-needy/desperate I really really struggle with that. That and just finding a general direction in life. I want to become a carpenter for example. How do you ignore the neediness and longing for social connection and affection and just do your own work?

WTTT · 2020-09-04T01:53:03+00:00

So what is the material you read and used to change?

Rooke33 · 2020-09-04T02:04:32+00:00

Awesome!!!

ecphotoman · 2020-09-04T04:02:21+00:00

That's good man, we're all trying to work on things for the better.

TheJoeyJoeJoe · 2020-09-04T06:01:42+00:00

Congrats man, but what did you 'do'?

You titled the post 'I did it' but she asked you out?

A few commenters have asked what you actually 'did' to get the girl...

I wonder if she liked you all along, but never liked yourself enough to make a move. So, eventually she got impatient and asked you herself.

I hear a lot of stories about relationships that start this way.

Guys, she's not "out of your league" unless you decide she is.

See for yourself by asking her out...

The bravery to do this directly - instead of being a SIMP Mr Nice Guy Orbiter - will put you ahead of a lot of guys.

SteveSan82 · 2020-09-04T08:51:20+00:00

Cringe

Artist1948 · 2020-09-04T20:52:56+00:00

Congratulations. I hope that it works out well for both of you.

VDKay · 2020-09-03T20:25:55+00:00

OK, but what did you DO?

Stoner_skateboarder · 2020-09-03T19:20:15+00:00

MY MAN!

TheC47 · 2020-09-03T21:57:21+00:00

Hey dude, can you tell me what books you've read?

BlackGokussjrose · 2020-09-04T03:10:15+00:00

Hey that's great all the best for the date !

crystalcastles · 2020-09-04T04:43:19+00:00

Can you share some of the useful topics you read?

2020-09-04T06:15:59+00:00

After reading a bunch of topics about how to become a man

She just asked me on DATE

For those people who don'k like this post I'm sorry.

BEING SIMP IS WORST.

CodeineKrazy · 2020-09-04T07:59:02+00:00

Congrats bro! I hope I will be in the same situation 1 day.

thisisallanqallan · 2020-09-04T08:28:05+00:00

Congratulations !!

leonnarcchione · 2020-09-04T09:05:48+00:00

Congratulations!

2020-09-04T09:28:15+00:00

Very happy for you mate. Being needy and desperate is one chink in my armour. But I am working on it. Hope the best for you man! Keep rocking.

dibbsa · 2020-09-04T05:56:04+00:00

Did you're still incredibly insecure and manipulative.

I sincerely wish all the best for you, but until you become genuine, no technique is gonna hide that in the long term. You will end up messing up with her or any other girl big time.

Also, are you ready to escalate? You're acting all manly over text but will you close it out?

There's also no point in saying that you aren't needy or insecure if you truly aren't. You still are needy and insecure and it is obvious. That's why dropping PUA techniques and working on your genuine self is more important.

StopPlayingTheGame · 2020-09-04T02:25:19+00:00

How can you say “being simp is worst” and then simp for awards on the next line? SMH 😂😂

Title	Guys I fucking did it.
Author	Educational-Tie5732
Upvotes	887
Comments	97
Date	September 3, 2020 3:48 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ilvz0u/guys_i_fucking_did_it/
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