I’ve given up on searching for hookups and getting laid because it is so damn hard. Instead I’ll be going to brothels from now on lol

BuckFuddy82 · 2021-04-28T11:57:32+00:00

Well. The women at the brothel won't ghost you so I guess you win. 🤷🏿

Twobithatter · 2021-04-28T09:00:17+00:00

Nothing wrong with it. Its cheaper in the long run and you can really work on yourself.

Captain_w00t · 2021-04-28T09:17:29+00:00

Even if I’ve never been into the concept of “paying for sex”, I admire your maturity and consciousness about it.

At least, you found a practical solution to your needs.

nottawombman · 2021-04-28T12:37:46+00:00

I mean if all you care about is sex then it makes sense to leave the dating game …since you don’t want to date lol

plaze6288 · 2021-04-28T12:15:33+00:00

I wish that was an option where I live. I'd actually get laid and I wouldn't mind just knowing what to expect the night to cost

WanyCaleb · 2021-04-28T12:19:03+00:00

Cheers mate. No point in beating up a dead horse, am I right?

Genie_SA · 2021-04-28T12:26:10+00:00

Remember to Condomize..

MrColfax · 2021-04-28T11:49:38+00:00

What about aspects of paid sex that isn't as great as sex without paying, ie. BJs? Not sure if prostitutes let you eat them out, etc either.

Devastated07 · 2021-04-28T11:54:01+00:00

Why not do both ?

nikgos · 2021-04-28T11:18:44+00:00

I understand where you're coming from but I doubt that sex is all you'll ever want for the rest of your life. It's extremely likely that at a certain point you'd want to get into a relationship. Sure in the short term you'll get the sex that you want but in the long run, you wouldn't have the same motivation and drive to improve your interactions with women that you're attracted to. And when you eventually decide that you've had all the sex that you wanted to have you're gonna find it a lot harder to find a partner that you are satisfied with because you haven't put in as much work as you could've had if you took sex out of the equation. And even if you do get a partner that you are satisfied with the chances of the relationship working out are gonna be much higher if you have the confidence that you'll be able to attract an equally amazing partner if things don't work out for whatever reason.

I don't know what your situation is and I don't claim to be right but this might be something to think about.

Jimmy281 · 2021-04-28T12:47:56+00:00

Since when did dating become rocket science or chess? Props to you brother. Straigt to the point. We pay for sex anyways, a teacher once said "Valentines day is the day of prostitution."

Deep-Advice7587 · 2021-04-28T11:56:02+00:00

Nothing wrong with it, I hope all the guys wanting Sex just skip the dating phase if that's what they want. Rather than confusing and lying about themselves.

Rooster1981 · 2021-04-28T12:01:32+00:00

You may find sex that you paid for extremely disappointing and quite unsatisfactory.

ordi25 · 2021-04-28T12:12:44+00:00

Is it legal where you are? If not, how do you find decent services around you? Also, aren’t you worried about possible std’s? I’m not trying to judge at all, just genuine curiosity

foursquad1 · 2021-04-28T11:54:14+00:00

You've made a good choice. It can be quite disappointing after having sex to realise that you are now stuck in a commitment which you don't want to go ahead with. You would have been wasting your partner's time and yours as well. You are a mature person and I wish you good luck with your road ahead. May you get sex now and a partner in the future when you're ready to go in a commitment.

ShmoopyMoopy · 2021-04-28T12:32:03+00:00

I’ve explained to many a dude that what they were looking for was a prostitute and not a date. I’m glad you were able to actually recognize this.

MisterMolby · 2021-04-28T13:09:50+00:00

go to brothels, but also do dating. It's easier to hook up once your me getting laid tbh

DJGammaRabbit · 2021-04-28T13:06:02+00:00

Counter-intuitively this kind of self awareness and honesty and whatever is what makes you gain a relationship.

Paltenburg · 2021-04-28T12:20:32+00:00

Tinder didn't work for you?

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2021-04-28T13:18:12+00:00

I respect your choice and wish you well.

I also hope you keep working on yourself along the way. The self-improvement that we push for is about way more than just girls.

yuyo874 · 2021-04-28T13:27:30+00:00

I want to hear about that post nut clarity.

ThenIJizzedInMyPants · 2021-04-28T13:46:37+00:00

I have no idea what value this adds to the sub, but OK have fun with that

beatituplikeag · 2021-04-28T13:46:48+00:00

It’s all cool and game until post nut clarity hit you up and you asking yourself wtf you doing with that girl in your room that you don’t even care about and start regretting the money that you just spent, and feel miserable for the next to hour or so I’ve been told.

Ashtarr · 2021-04-28T11:23:16+00:00

I'm not sure why everyone is saying this is a good idea. Even if you want only sex right now, one day you'll want more.

And then what will you do? Give up again because things aren't going well? That's a loser's mentality imo.

anoyingprophet · 2021-04-28T12:50:18+00:00

Nothing against brothels..not my thing tho. But you need to improve yourself. If you get used to hookers, you'll get complacent. Also, look for connections instead of hookups, and the sex will come along with it. When you go out, think of finding a girl you can have amazing conversations with that come easy and I promise it's easy money from there. When sex is on your mind, women can really read that and it comes off as lame and creepy. When you are a guy who's looking for genuine convos, you stand out from the pack. Girls will see you as someone with strong character and will actually chase you. Fuck hookers if you like, just make sure it's not from a place of giving up. Continue to improve yourself and change your mentality and I promise you'll no only get the results you wanted, but they'll be way better. Nothing better than a connection.

Personal-Brain428 · 2021-04-28T09:35:37+00:00

nothing wrong with it, tbh. If it was super cheap, i'm sure basically all guys would do it all the time lol (where i live you can bang these teenage Eastern European girls who are hotter than any girl one could get from cold approach! e.g very young and hot who would reject everyone except teh very best looking dudes)

mr_Tobbor · 2021-04-28T10:57:06+00:00

Who is the man that get pussy? It's the upper 10% man. Or it is is the man who decided to sell committement for sex. He gets married etc etc. TBH brothels are mainstream for the straight, non upper 10% man.

SpookyKG · 2021-04-28T11:22:16+00:00

OP and all commenters are myopic. This isn't just about sex, seduction is the art of making people like you. You can't get by paying people to like you forever.

Sure, sex is great, but y'all are joking if it's the main point of seduction or dating.

This is the most incel post I've seen in a while.

HandsumSquidwerd · 2021-04-28T13:14:23+00:00

Going to sex workers surprisingly helped me improve with women

fernandoteruo · 2021-04-28T11:26:04+00:00

I do the same. I don't pay for sex. I pay so the woman dress up and walk away. The bureaucracy of flirting and seduction wastes my time and energy and I may lose money eating out as well. Let's cut to the chase.

I've now some good girl friends whom I pay occasionally for sex. Some of them make a profit online by selling pics and videos and online cams.

Alin-kun · 2021-04-28T12:37:47+00:00

You dropped your crown king👑

2021-04-28T11:04:10+00:00

Smart man!!

mugatucrazypills · 2021-04-28T12:55:05+00:00

damn your rationality

ChristinaVicky · 2021-04-28T08:40:43+00:00

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2021-04-28T13:18:53+00:00

Been down that same alley, not the same.

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yardapesbb · 2021-04-28T13:27:17+00:00

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doyouthinkimawhore · 2021-04-28T13:48:58+00:00

Have fun!!

TheRealAlkemyst · 2021-04-28T14:12:59+00:00

A lot of wealthy men do this. It's concealed in allowing their mistress to use a vehicle, condo, etc, but at the end of the day they know they are 'on-call' for their benefactors sexual desires. When I was back dating between 40-44 and then again around 48-recently, I met a lot of 'separated' women that told me after a few dates they were still married, but their husbands have too many girlfriends and it was time they enjoyed the same. It was cool with me since at those times I was looking for no-strings-attached fun and not looking to get serious since I was just coming out of another long term relationship.

thembaguy · 2021-04-28T13:37:19+00:00

I definitely recommend this. I go tried of just swiping and then getting no results. Seeking arrangement is super amazing if you have money. Young girls ready to do whatever you want just for some dollars.

Title	I’ve given up on searching for hookups and getting laid because it is so damn hard. Instead I’ll be going to brothels from now on lol
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Date	April 28, 2021 8:37 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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