Just a reminder to not simp

LandscapeClear1630 · 2022-03-30T15:15:11+00:00

So many simps defending him and his wife in the comments lmao

RProgrammerMan · 2022-03-30T18:08:25+00:00

I think him slapping Chris Rock shows he’s not in control of his emotions. I would think women want a calm, centered man to make them feel safe. Not an emotional, out of control man that might hurt them or make poor decisions.

GalacticGoldFish · 2022-03-30T15:31:23+00:00

His “wife” really be trying to use that “open marriage” bullshit to do him dirty as fuck that’s what I think lol. What they have isn’t love.

Forcing your “partner” to fight in a losing battle over and over again and not even throwing them a BONE for taking you up on your bullshit and fighting like Hell is not love.

I just hope he finds someone else eventually but there’s that part of the guy (I won’t speak for all guys but I’ll speak through my experience) that tries making everything work regardless of what he goes through because that’s just what a leader does.

mikeamendola2236 · 2022-03-30T14:12:55+00:00

He’s a super simp

kathruins · 2022-03-30T14:53:03+00:00

in an open relationship both people are allowed to have sex with others.

as far as simp behavior, if i care about someone and find out that they are hurting, it can can cause me to reinterpret a situation. this is an incredibly normal human behavior. what's not so normal is being totally unbothered by your partner's turmoil. Im not saying it was a great reaction, but if the other suggestion is to keep laughing at the joke while your wife is clearly in pain, that aint it.

BakerCakeMaker · 2022-03-30T16:32:17+00:00

I'll say this here because I know it'll get dogpiled in other subs... Will Smith is almost certainly gay. I don't expect anyone to believe this but I heard it from a very close friend whom I trust who has a lot of connections in Hollywood. He also just strikes me as closeted. I don't know if Jada has always been a beard(since they obviously have kids), but it would definitely explain why he was so ok with getting cucked. With his status in Hollywood, especially with how homophobic portions of his audience can be, he definitely wouldn't be getting the same casting opportunities if he came out. I don't think the slap was staged but either way it was a good opportunity to solidify his straight, tough husband image.

ur_notmytype · 2022-03-30T14:34:29+00:00

They had an open relationship. They both was sleeping around

Megas_XLT · 2022-03-30T17:00:24+00:00

Honestly I feel bad for him because if he tried to divorce her she would take the kids and have his money I'm pretty sure he didn't smack Chris Rock for the joke I think it's all the frustration of people making fun of him behind his back... that's why I heard

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-03-30T15:36:13+00:00

I'm just laughing my ass off at the idea of a hundred millionaire supserstar chilling on his yacht, drinking a finely aged wine, eating a meal worth more than your car, and reading some random guy on Reddit calling him a simp.

The lesson from this incident isn't "don't be a simp." The lesson is raise your social value so high that when you want to defend the honor of your loved ones, you can get away with it, even if it is assaulting someone on live television.

schebobo180 · 2022-03-30T18:49:22+00:00

Tbh I don't 100% think his reaction was just because of the Joke.

From the quivering in his voice to the rambling speech talking about disrespect and people hurting him, its clear that he has had a lot of internal struggles related to people piling on him constantly for the past couple of years over his wifes entanglement, and it just reached the boiling point and he snapped. It wasn't about her, it was really about him trying to hold on to a shred of his dignity.

But Yes, I still feel he is a simp, because I don't know what self respecting man that still has his balls, would tolerate his wife fucking around like that WITH HIS SONS DRUG ADDICTED FRIEND regardless of their 'separation'. And then on that embarrassing red table talk she threw it right back at him, and talked about how much of a healing process cheating on him was, and how unhappy she had been in the marriage, basically taking ZERO accountability for the cheating that CLEARLY upset her husband.

I do not know how a man sees all this in a woman and decides to stay with her. UNLESS she has some filthy dirt on him that she is using against him.

Either way she is an awful person.

And what I say now to everyone that defends him going back to her, or him standing up for her is this: "I pray the men in your life (i.e. brother/son) end up with women like Jada that will embarrass them to the entire world. Say Amen!" They usually don't say amen which means they know she did him foul but are not ready to admit it. Lol

LakeShow-2_8_24 · 2022-03-30T19:20:11+00:00

I had a similar thought about this. Like if she wants an open marriage fine. If he's cool with it whatever, but given who he is he can likely find other women to see too, but I do wonder if he is. Like the dude is Will fucking Smith. All he should do is be a bad mofo like Samuel L Jackson, and that slap wasn't it

m2niles · 2022-03-30T20:02:23+00:00

As soon as it came out publicly that she was fucking her sons friend she should’ve been tossed to the streets where she belongs. That household seems like a whack joke.

KimJongUhn · 2022-03-30T14:27:39+00:00

Jada controls him, he is the celebrity simp

mozart357 · 2022-03-30T17:24:07+00:00

You ever find yourself half-paying attention to someone, and you laugh because everyone else is laughing...then you realize what was said? That moment when you stop laughing and ask, "Wait, what?"

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-03-30T14:36:42+00:00

Here's a thought... Maybe don't pretend you have all of the answers about people you've never even met?

Also, /r/nonmonogamy is a thing. Try not to be so closed-minded.

scumby_dumb · 2022-03-30T15:07:57+00:00

If getting pissed off when people hurt your partner is simp behavior, I’d rather be a simp. What’s the alternative? Sitting there uselessly? Not giving a shit? Laughing at her pain?

They opened up their relationship, but not everybody can or should. Why should an open relationship threatens your masculinity? Sounds like a self-confidence problem.

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2022-03-30T17:11:17+00:00

Wtf. They’re married and Smith grew up watching his mom be abused by his father. This why the whole simp concept is stupid. Acting like dudes being good to their woman is a sign of weakness is precisely why so many men end up mistreating women.

cronasminate · 2022-03-30T19:41:52+00:00

People have so many opinions on this with zero facts

Will Smith is one the highest paid actors last year
Hollywood is dying and so are award shows
Will Smith gets the Oscar
He is in an open relationship (they both sleep around). He doesn't care what his kids do as long as they are happy. Why would he need to do this for anything regarding his wife?
New celebrities are made on the internet through controversy
Chris Rock didn't charge Will Smith. Why?
Last year Golden Globe did a similar "controversial" show which resulted in many eyes on them.
MTV music award did the same thing with Eminem and Bruno

What does this mean? It a publicity stunt to stay relevant. They are getting old and new stars are superseding old ones. This dude has been living in the limelight all his life, he's been pushing to be more relevant recently he wouldn't slap a dude if he didn't think it would amount to money.

Seriously guys. It's the only marketing tool these award shows have and an award show having a controversy that makes you pay attention to it more is pretty much expected. Seriously though, are you all dumb or what?

StarSmink · 2022-03-30T17:50:29+00:00

One certainly shouldn’t simp, but the definition of what a simp is has become very muddled. It means to treat yourself as lesser than, to debase yourself for someone who doesn’t respect you just for the chance that they might throw you a morsel of attention.

Loving, caring for, and respecting women isn’t simping. Neither is basic politeness.

Is Will Smith a simp? We don’t have enough information to know. How could we? Maybe his wife is a dedicated and loving partner to him. Maybe despite whatever problems they might have, she’s earned his devotion. Having an open relationship might not be for you, but it doesn’t automatically make one a simp, either.

Snakehead004 · 2022-03-30T15:12:23+00:00

Hahah haha sure bro.. If will is a simp.. Maybe it's a stupid word/idea and anyone who thinks about it is probably a beta bitch deep down 🤷🏻‍♂️

Will has fucked more than you ever will. Guarantee.

DifferentImplement27 · 2022-03-30T19:18:46+00:00

Will is a cuck. She has him by the balls. She couldn’t even admit to her affair with august her sons friend and went on some bizarre entanglement excuse. Will should’ve dumped that hoe on the curb and levelled up.

Copperstoner · 2022-03-30T16:13:27+00:00

God this sub is just cringe… Grow up and touch some grass…

MattPruga · 2022-03-30T15:01:36+00:00

if you respect your wife and her opinion, you will stand up for her at all times

StrivingBetterMe · 2022-03-30T15:53:47+00:00

It was his wife? If you don’t simp for your wife, that’s actually pretty sad. When I finally find and marry the girl of my dreams, your damn right ima simp for her. Maybe that’s just me though

Toys_before_boys · 2022-03-30T16:20:43+00:00

Using simp as an insult is so damn cringe

Carpsonian22 · 2022-03-30T17:38:29+00:00

Wtf? As a woman, I would LOVE to have a man stick up for me like that. Why would I want to be with someone who allows another person to publicly humiliate me, especially about something that is deeply personal. Fuck Chris Rock, he should know better than to go there. Will smith did what most men should do in that situation and I 100% guarantee you most women would fall hard for any man who defends their pride. This post is the reason why men should not always take other mens dating advice about women. Especially when they have obviously never been in a relationship.

Macca2089 · 2022-03-30T17:33:20+00:00

I’m not sure what did it, but this post pushed me over the edge. I’ve been finding this sub full of a bunch of the toxic behavior that makes people need a sub like this to begin with.

Frankly, it’s not the subject matter of this post that I care about, it’s just this weird circle jerking of taking the idea of getting laid or getting a girlfriend way too seriously. It becomes so much a part of the majority of the lives of people on this sub. It’s just weird. Like, everything is so unnatural, including the getting of hobbies for the end goal of getting laid (and I know this sub says they do it for themselves, but let’s be honest with ourselves).

I’m not going in on anybody, and I hope I’m not causing offense. I remember when I used to get on this sub years ago, when I had low self esteem and the circle jerking helped me a little bit, maybe. So I wish you all the best. I will say, since high school ended (when I first joined this sub), I have had an incredible amount of luck with women when I decided to literally give not a single fuck about what I said or did and decided to just be myself, and not give one single shit about what anybody thought of me. Since then, I’ve had some of the most beautiful girls in the world (I’m not kidding, I live in Los Angeles), and things have been great.

So I appreciate the time to read this post. Good luck to you all. And I pray that the toxicity in this sub goes down a bit. It would help achieve the end goal of this sub if it did. Much love to you all.

See ya. Unsubscribing.

Turbopuschel · 2022-03-30T19:02:58+00:00

What is wrong with your brain, dude? I assume Will Smith loves his wife. Not that I condone violence but would you ignore it if someone insults a person you love? And you call that simping? Which is in itself a stupid concept by incels btw.

Please get checked.

-xstatic- · 2022-03-30T18:47:37+00:00

It definitely shows she has him by the balls

Illustrious-Taste196 · 2022-03-30T18:58:23+00:00

Will Smith needs some sort of awakening to understand the situation he's in instead of being infatuated with a wife that cheated on him with a younger guy. He's lost that masculine edge and he's simply failing himself mostly by not handling such situations properly. And so he goes ahead to slap someone making a joke he was supposed to find funny in the first place.

vinnievu141 · 2022-03-30T19:44:01+00:00

I think he chose to hit Chris Rock to save face with his wife over the future nights of nagging from the wife.

Title	Just a reminder to not simp
Author	DoctorForesight
Upvotes	237
Comments	118
Date	March 30, 2022 2:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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