"Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world."

kits2406 · 2020-07-03T07:42:35+00:00

do you mean that me being rubbish and knowing it is attractive to women

FinalPush · 2020-07-03T07:53:04+00:00

You have to know your self value before you find out your value to the world. When you know you’re a king, your actions and accomplishments will show it.

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-07-03T08:08:33+00:00

While this can be a good, uplifting message, it can turn into a delusional mindset pretty quickly.

lajos93 · 2020-07-03T08:49:30+00:00

Nobody just knows it, its developed through making decisions and being aware of your innate talents

docent3434 · 2020-07-03T08:36:18+00:00

Woman would rather share a succesfull man than date a faithfull loser.

tonyohhmg · 2020-07-03T10:51:20+00:00

Just started dating a real woman, she has mentioned multiple times how attracted she is to my self-awareness and thoughtfulness.

My take on her attraction to my physical appearance and “having my shit together” feels secondary.

I’m thinking this may shed some light on women these days. They want emotional strength and intelligence. Money, good looks, etc is a bonus to a real woman, not her primary objective.

qantuum · 2020-07-03T09:32:23+00:00

what I take from this is, if I know and use my value, I'll claim the exact privilege that comes with it, no more no less.

This makes sense. It will make me happy and I won't try to overclass, nor let anyone to underclass.

But still, one should bear in mind that value fluctuates with time.

siddharthsingh_7 · 2020-07-03T13:37:40+00:00

In terms of value I have no value

FinalPush · 2020-07-03T07:56:00+00:00

Also thanks for the positive message. When you know your worth, truly know it and feel it, I think women become secondary. Your dreams and aspirations are always first, king.

throwawaypizza63 · 2020-07-03T12:28:34+00:00

Not threatening at all... I just think, "Good for him."

There are more attractive things in a man to me. Of course he has to have a healthy sense of self esteem. That's important for everyone. But, how does he treat other people? What are his goals in life? Is he interested in settling down? Is he loyal? Those things are far more attractive.

alleax · 2020-07-03T09:15:46+00:00

And those same women (not all obv but definitely the majority) still expect the man, the "king", to make the first move, initiate, chase and not falter.

There's no use being a king if you have to act like a peasant to get anything anyway.

TheBigBadBlackKnight · 2020-07-03T10:08:54+00:00

Is knowing you have no value to women and to the world attractive? 'cos if it does, I am the most attractive man in the world.

Spider_Full_Love · 2020-07-03T10:10:54+00:00

Can be a turn off to the smarter ladies. Value to women, and value to the world? It depends on how a man plans to display his value to women. Maybe if you just had “value to the world”, that alone could be a lot more appealing.

Entrepreneur1998 · 2020-07-03T22:08:30+00:00

So what is actionable advice that can make this happen?

rtrain__ · 2020-07-03T15:17:29+00:00

but how do I find out what my value is?

Warlordbert1 · 2020-07-03T17:32:06+00:00

Hahaha fucking zero

FaithInStrangers94 · 2020-07-03T10:03:12+00:00

There’s a not so fine line between self assurance and arrogance - the latter isn’t based on self worth it’s quite the opposite so we all need to remember that

Traswen · 2020-07-03T09:23:42+00:00

So you're saying if I'm a rich asshole, I just gotta be a rich asshole?

Chrissy62182 · 2020-07-03T11:54:36+00:00

But working with a high confident, cocky man can really suck!

CigarFrog · 2020-07-04T00:28:22+00:00

When you realize your worth, you realize about 95% of Women have nothing to offer besides a Fuck Hole. The New challenge for you is to find that other 5%!

Not_the_fc · 2020-07-04T01:13:42+00:00

I think that really depends on the value.

njugiste · 2020-07-03T09:47:37+00:00

It doesn't work for everybody. My existence is a bane to many.

theLeastUsedEmoji · 2020-07-03T10:10:53+00:00

I know my worth. How do i show that?

kindnessAboveAll · 2020-07-03T16:24:10+00:00

To me, it seems like many young women have values that are totally unreasonable, superficial, childing and not wise in the long term. From my experience, this applies to pretty women the most because of simps who made them understand that being pretty is enough and they will be their slaves just for that. I'm not willing to try to conform to these ridiculous values. Not all women are like this, of course.

pungwop · 2020-07-03T07:27:30+00:00

I’m tryna understand wym king but wud u mind explaining?

Title	"Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world."
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Date	July 3, 2020 6:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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