She was doing this to me at the beach, does she like me?

Competitive-Bill-612 · 2022-07-07T04:01:03+00:00

Tell her that you hate sand, and that its course and rough and irritating…

hunterpua · 2022-07-07T04:36:30+00:00

She likes you.

One of the things women do when they're attracted to you is touch you a lot. Women are very sensitive to getting touched by guys and naturally avoid getting touched by guys they aren't into. Women sometimes even recoil or jerk away when a guy they aren't into touches them.

Not all women will be the ones initiating touches with you though, some will just be willing to let you touch them, it depends on the individual woman's personality.

Also, the stuff we used to do as kids when we liked someone is still a thing when we're older, it's just a little different. Her messing with you is also a good sign. In fact, messing with someone is usually a better way to flirt than making entendres & shit.

On a side note, one of the reasons she could not like having sand on her hair is because sand is much harder to deal with when you have long hair.

Dickbag4206969 · 2022-07-07T03:25:50+00:00

Should've escalated a bit more than just rubbing sand on her arms. And by that, i mean maybe sweeping her off her feet as she's about to rub sand on you and stuff like that.

But i understand, it's tough to be quick on your feet in the moment.

How about taking her to a bar some evening and planning the evening with her. Keep it as a surprise. And maybe plan another beach outing ?

Delicatestatesmen · 2022-07-07T06:25:42+00:00

what kind of sandbox shit is this?

rahhumilovedogs · 2022-07-07T04:10:31+00:00

Sounds super flirty. I would def not put sand in a girls hair though, lol. Take her more places, see how it goes.

Proper-Rub6270 · 2022-07-07T09:27:21+00:00

Uhh, it would be nice to be 14 years old again.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-07-07T03:26:32+00:00

Sounds like you missed an opportunity to escalate intimacy. You guys could've been making out on the beach but you went into a friend zone conversation about hobbies and interests

It's ok, if she really likes you you'll prob have at least one more shot to escalate with her but if you display uncertainty and weakness again she'll prob move onto the guy who is willing to grab her and kiss her and sweep her off her feet

If ever a woman is touching you and playing like that she is at least 1% interested in you sexually. Because trust me women don't touch guys by whom they're repulsed or find unsuitable. And they def don't go to the beach in a bikini with them alone

2022-07-07T09:06:45+00:00

Are you looking for a girlfriend or a lab assistant? body upgrade soon

funkmaster322 · 2022-07-07T10:03:52+00:00

I think I have a boner lol

Equivalent_Rope_8824 · 2022-07-07T12:59:01+00:00

Let her loosen up a bit. Play along. You're going to have a girlfriend this summer, mate.

My tried and proven strategy is to let her simmer in her own impatience. Women are sensitive to initiative, so they wait to see how much worth a guy is. (if you're a impulsive ONS-kind of guy, you're cheap). Past a certain amount of time, she'll notice 'you're not that type of guy', which will upgrade you instantly. She wants to feel she can loose herself with you and she wants you to give her the limits.

If you keep flirting,, the tension will remain... And rise. Women are not as apt to control their lusts as men, once they are past 'I like you more than normal.' She'll give a green light or just ignore your red light.

Be a quality guy. Show galanterie, dependability and humor and talk to her like you would to an old friend who can take all your shit talk. You'll come across as more genuine. And if she doesn't like your authenticity, then she's not the one for you. Don't talk simp.

Let her touch you and return it less than she does. Avoid erogenous zones at this point.

And if you're at the beach, do some wrestling with her. Show your masculine strength. You can feel her body and she can feel your physical power. Lift her up and pin her down and stuff. It's a great turn-on for both. Women love an able-bodied and collected guy. That could be you.

M47

incognito3107 · 2022-07-07T08:24:54+00:00

Of course, she was teasing you to get touchy and to check if you are a playful guy.

maxpossimpible · 2022-07-07T10:20:28+00:00

Obviously... Jfc that you even have to ask.

borderline_autistic1 · 2022-07-07T04:01:38+00:00

Sounds to me like you could have been in there homie

DeathRebirth · 2022-07-07T11:06:50+00:00

Lol what else do you need, for her to rip your pants off? Dude... this is either fanfiction or you need to grow up (I mean that in a positive way)

-Dr-Krieger · 2022-07-07T11:03:38+00:00

Sounds like a good sign, prolly look for another chill sesh and see where things go.

Mandynator997 · 2022-07-07T12:03:59+00:00

Yes! She does like you and is probably asking herself right now if you like her too.

floppyjabjab · 2022-07-07T13:59:36+00:00

buddy that's called kino, they find excuses to keep touching.
lemme tell ya, they wouldn't touch shit they hate

RepulsiveWaltz5982 · 2022-07-07T09:17:57+00:00

Wtf is this. Just tell her to stop rubbing sand on your big head with a smirk and kiss her if she insists - cause she will

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-07-07T03:30:06+00:00

She might have liked you but since you acted like a brother maybe she friendzoned you.

ClavasClub · 2022-07-07T11:33:37+00:00

Yeah, she's into you.

Nefertiti2021 · 2022-07-07T13:31:58+00:00

What a virgin lol

catniagara · 2022-07-07T11:23:10+00:00

Yes she likes you. If you’re a kid. If you’re over 25 she’s just incredibly immature and may have a delay of some sort. She probably still likes you, it’s just a weird way to hit on someone at that age.

life_long_learnerabc · 2022-07-07T11:51:27+00:00

Should have made a move!!

boxmail2800 · 2022-07-07T14:49:38+00:00

Just would like to point out to any women reading this- guys really don’t have a clue as to intent these days and need to be hit over the head sometimes to get the hint. Dr Drew said it decently… “ women look for red flags, men look for green lights”

n0wmhat · 2022-07-07T14:53:52+00:00

dude its so obvious this is painful to read

Title	She was doing this to me at the beach, does she like me?
Author	151-PoKeMoN
Upvotes	150
Comments	51
Date	July 7, 2022 3:12 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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