Update: Just lost my virginity

maverick1356 · 2020-07-27T03:33:02+00:00

Bravo! Have fun! Be safe!

Now when you go a year without sex, it'll feel longer than the that first 23 years.

willcb98 · 2020-07-27T04:58:58+00:00

Stories like this is why Im on this thread. Were proud of you brother

Drjohn461 · 2020-07-27T05:06:39+00:00

Nice! And you were with the right girl. She did everything to help you rise to the occasion!!! I’m guessing she is just as excited as you are to be the one that “busted your cherry”. I will bet she is still smiling...

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-07-27T04:55:59+00:00

Congrats?

Just keep in mind that sex might be a milestone for some, but it’s more like a checkpoint and should not be the end goal. Being a mature, accomplished man/person and doing right by others is the end goal. Always try to leave things (and people) better than when you found them.

kinosavy · 2020-07-27T04:26:22+00:00

Nice. Keep on taking care of yourself. Don't become complacent. Constant learning and self-improvement are key.

DeadliftsNRiffs · 2020-07-27T07:14:13+00:00

Congrats.

Wear a condom. Every time.

Kids are expensive, both in money and time.

daithi_90 · 2020-07-27T04:24:50+00:00

This reminds me of the 40 year old version - 17

Well done mate getting runs on the board :)

usedtimecapsule · 2020-07-27T15:25:13+00:00

I’m 20 (kissless virgin) and this is inspiring since you’re 23 and you just got your first time thank you.

It’s so hard being a virgin even worse kissless virgin at 20 (maybe even 18+). It’s like applying to jobs that want experience that you don’t have ugh.

shade_ghost · 2020-07-27T04:57:57+00:00

Trying to make it happen before I hit 23.

Phenxz · 2020-07-27T05:41:48+00:00

Congrats mate! I was 22 myself when I first had sex. It's great to get past that barrier of uncertainty! Good luck on your journey :)

Dwaynedibley24601 · 2020-07-27T18:30:24+00:00

Charles Bukowski did not have sex until he was 24... and he ended up SLAYING 10's all his adult life... it's worth the wait.

phwheezy · 2020-07-27T05:25:30+00:00

Hopefully you find it

grubbycoolo · 2020-07-27T06:25:23+00:00

LETS FUCKING GOOOOOO🥳

Brengle2 · 2020-07-27T17:11:11+00:00

I cant even comprehend how u go soft... If a girl pulled my pants off id probably come

ffivefootnothingg · 2020-07-27T18:43:19+00:00

CONGRATS MAN! Just remember that this doesn’t make you a Real Man™️, you’ve always been one, now you’re just one who is no longer a virgin.

BlackBirdG · 2020-07-27T05:18:28+00:00

Nice...first time is always awkward for most people but you'll get better over time.

The_Sir_Galahad · 2020-07-27T05:50:48+00:00

Is Models a good book?

I always love reading books in seduction. His title takes on a different approach to attraction than some other gurus.

itzReborn · 2020-07-27T13:30:17+00:00

Proud of you man. I’m 21 and haven’t started dating yet but stories like this make me excited to one day experience and post about my own

Staycurious1996 · 2020-07-27T19:27:38+00:00

Congratulations! Sex is normal and it can be a lot of fun! I totally understand why you would be so nervous. I grew up with a religious mother and was told to wait till marriage. I ended up losing my virginity at age 21 and then started getting panicked afterwards because I thought Jesus would hate me. (ahhhh religious guilt) But sexuality is NORMAL! It should be celebrated, your body is great and we all have sex at some point ( if we chose to). Stay safe and have fun :)

Ziggyork · 2020-07-27T14:44:18+00:00

That’s awesome! Good for you!!

BrilliantLawyer7 · 2020-07-27T17:35:05+00:00

Congratulations bro

ShyFrog · 2020-07-27T05:01:02+00:00

Congrats bro. You give me and the rest hope. Best wishes

dalelee87 · 2020-07-27T07:12:06+00:00

Congrats mate! She sounds like someone who you could learn a lot from. Make sure you return the favour in terms of head if shes into it. Don’t worry about how good you are, just ask her to tell you what feels good.

2020-07-27T05:06:46+00:00

FUCKKKK YEA

Ey_you · 2020-07-27T12:55:19+00:00

Im a girl and i finally lost mine this year too to a virgin guy who's 19. Its a really fun experience and does make you feel like an adult. Congrats bro.

pilipinonguci11 · 2020-07-27T17:22:11+00:00

Congrats but realize that sex and losing your virginity isn't the end-all and be-all of life. Sex is one aspect of a healthy lifestyle, that includes other aspects such as fitness, being productive, and motivating/inspiring others

CuteNeanderthalGF · 2020-07-27T05:23:50+00:00

Nice, this is the stuff of dreams tbh, even though you’re a late bloomer. I’m 18 and this is going to be me next year.

2020-07-27T05:32:57+00:00

Ahhh. I love a success story

Frankcastle0117 · 2020-07-27T15:00:49+00:00

Good job lad!

Max-hex · 2020-07-27T17:39:40+00:00

Well done bro!

xenon_breather · 2020-07-27T17:51:05+00:00

Three cheers for my boy!!

The_Magician_C-96 · 2020-07-27T18:01:35+00:00

I have a very similar story to yours when I lost my virginity. Same age and everything. Good luck to you in the future!

Dwaynedibley24601 · 2020-07-27T18:29:38+00:00

you are in competition with no one but yourself

mystikalmix · 2020-07-27T21:17:48+00:00

This is why...always start off with a BJ. Never fails to get the blood flowing in the right areas.

FunkyCircles · 2020-07-27T23:38:24+00:00

Congratulations bud

f____society · 2020-07-27T23:59:18+00:00

im proud of you dude you are awesome. i am soon to be 23 i hope i will achieve this sex-thing soon :D

LilUziSkrrt1 · 2020-07-28T00:00:16+00:00

Wait so just to confirm: it was brief because u finished quick right? Cause if that’s the case she’s probably pretty happy with herself! Congratulations my brother! Looking forward to my first time as well

SaltyStrawbrry · 2020-07-28T01:45:46+00:00

This was motivational. I'm 25 and my life is starting to pick up again. I'm finally gonna graduate from my engineering degree and come from a more financially difficult background. Aside from doing what Masons in Models mentions, any tips guys? Wouls be appreciated.

Tweak48 · 2020-07-29T01:49:01+00:00

Sincere congratulations buddy. For me, losing my virginity was like getting out of jail!

GhzU · 2020-07-27T05:25:48+00:00

LMAOOOOOO BRO I FUCKING DIED WHEN YOU SAID YOU NEVER HAD SEX THEN SHE JUST GAWBOL GAWBOL UP But congrats dude

JAB1523 · 2020-07-27T05:56:44+00:00

Atta boy! Congratulations dude🤙🏻

ZlatanAgrees · 2020-07-27T06:05:33+00:00

Stories like this give me hope haha. Wp

Shortblaq_rod · 2020-07-27T06:19:53+00:00

I smiled the entire time i was reading this. Super proud of you son

misunderstood0 · 2020-07-27T06:21:06+00:00

Congrats!

As an older virgin here I gotta ask, what did you change about yourself or what did Models help you realize? I feel like I know what I should do and how I should shift my mentality and everything but I still can't seem to get anywhere.

yurifca · 2020-07-27T13:23:02+00:00

There's some salty motherfucker here downvoting every comment in this post.

Which mean you lost your virginity and pissed of a incel at the same time, OP.

Huge success!

Undercovermother19 · 2020-07-27T05:47:53+00:00

Yaaaaaaaaay

blazzer2345 · 2020-07-27T06:08:53+00:00

Good job man!

callmemrsunshine · 2020-07-27T07:43:06+00:00

Atta boy! Congratulations

HeavenPiercingMan · 2020-07-27T10:23:44+00:00

I owe thanks to some of the posts in this sub and Models by Mark Manson for helping me get to this point.

Some posters are really gonna get butthurt and might tell you you're still a virgin and/or that they fuck more women than you. Ignore the noise.

miyagikai91 · 2020-07-27T06:26:19+00:00

:). I’m 28 and haven’t made close to as far as you. Hope it lasts with her.

archie2012 · 2020-07-27T08:49:08+00:00

Great to hear, I'm almost thirty and never had sex.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-07-27T11:23:28+00:00

Over 700 likes from no brainers

Sanjono1 · 2020-07-27T23:02:09+00:00

CONGRATS HOMIE! THE FUTURE OF GIRLS AWAIT YOUR APPROVAL!

tr0w_way · 2020-07-27T05:10:28+00:00

Virginity is cool 😎 especially in this day and age in this hypersexualized society

ongelukje · 2020-07-27T12:21:06+00:00

What is the best information from the book Models for you to get to this point?

beDeadOrBeQuick · 2020-07-27T13:16:19+00:00

Insightful comments! Nice to hear. Being virgin has become a stupid stereotype. I guess the reason is deeper... People make it seem like a goal. Losing your virginity is just something that happens. A man can be tested outside of bed and for more important things. End of rant.

Darkstar_010 · 2020-07-27T17:21:39+00:00

Wait, can a person really cry when it doesn't happen?

Goruto1334 · 2020-07-27T20:11:11+00:00

True story: I had no problems getting it up my first time but I didn’t even finish because it was so awkward and bad. Glad your experience was better than mine!

ordinaryeeguy · 2020-07-27T20:17:57+00:00

How did it feel? The sex?

light5577 · 2020-07-27T21:22:50+00:00

Noice! ggwp! now you will know that it aint that much ...

yellowbellybastard · 2020-07-27T21:30:50+00:00

proud of ya

GEEZUS00 · 2020-07-28T00:38:17+00:00

Damn bro. You’re lucky to have done it with your girlfriend. I just went and hired a escort same day lost it.

lukak2002 · 2020-07-28T00:56:46+00:00

You're a little late to the game at 23, most people say I was late at 17. But honestly, the age you lose it at doesn't matter.

I'm glad you're finally getting you some. Sex is great. Nothing makes me happier than hearing about a homie finally getting lucky for the first time. You're officially a man now.

I don't know exactly what kind if connection you two have, but for the most part, the first couple times having sex is kinda awkward and a bit overwhelming.

Once you finally get more comfortable, it gets much better from then on.

Props to you bro, just remember that catching feelings for the wrong person isn't a good idea. I don't know if you two are bf/gf or just fwb, but just know that you're a man and your happiness is most important.

sleepmastaD · 2020-07-28T00:57:26+00:00

Eyyyyyyy SLAP HANDS!!!

uffe008 · 2020-07-28T00:57:32+00:00

Wp my dude

SnooSketches6124 · 2020-07-28T01:02:50+00:00

Congrats but Let’s just hope you didn’t get her pregnant!

My friend lost his virginity at age 24 in December. In February she told him she was pregnant and decided to keep it. He wore a condom and had a DNA test done and it is his. He’s depressed now that a chick he had a one night stand with, his first sexual experience is leading to a little shit.

MrColfax · 2020-07-28T01:53:33+00:00

Awesome work man

Virgin here also. I have often wondered about the whole sex more than once per night, but I just assumed it was only capable mostly from those who are more experienced. Was it easy?

lilpunkboy · 2020-07-28T02:18:38+00:00

congrats dude!

arvid1328 · 2020-07-28T03:33:40+00:00

Finally found someone who benefitted from Models, I want to read it but I doubted I could just waste my time, congrats bro

arvid1328 · 2020-07-28T03:41:58+00:00

After a while of trying, we give up and she turns away and starts crying, asking why I don't want to have sex with her

Most girls who give me 'hints' think that I rejected them while I'm just shy asf

xccoach4ever · 2020-07-29T21:57:16+00:00

Way to go! Great success story.

UncommonSense89 · 2020-08-02T12:53:15+00:00

Well done my man!!! Same sort of thing happened to me, except when I told her I was a virgin she cried cos she thought it was her fault that I couldn't be 100% honest (she was totally sold on my personality). We talked it out and I suggested we lay in bed naked and just relax with each other. Lo and behold the relaxed mood shifted everything and got rid of my nervousness and we smashed for 5hrs total. She called me back the next day to tell me she couldn't walk. Felt like a king

Black_Knight03 · 2020-08-04T17:33:06+00:00

When will my turn come :{ I would be 22 next January.

Demanter · 2020-08-10T01:39:00+00:00

mancozbi · 2020-08-26T13:31:47+00:00

Truth game. Works every time. It goes like this: tell the truth and you gain respect. Simple.

Elephant-1n-The-Room · 2020-08-26T21:40:31+00:00

How does one bust 3 times in a night??? And we’re you able to get her to climax 3 times. Hats off to you for doing it first time.

pierfishmarket · 2020-10-14T00:25:33+00:00

Ah the old blow job trick, works every time...

sushantarsenal · 2020-07-27T05:49:28+00:00

Enjoy brother. Proud of you.

TheQlymaX · 2020-07-27T07:13:02+00:00

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xgonnagetem · 2020-07-27T07:19:03+00:00

Congratulations! No one can ever say to you again, "you ain't had pussy since pussy had you".

trustmeiminnocent · 2020-07-27T08:01:46+00:00

Just over 25 for me! Now shes my gf. Just working on myself and focusing. Good stuff for us kings! This year our year.

My first time nerves hit me too and I just focused on making her night special :)

2020-07-27T08:27:49+00:00

My man!

_-__-__-__-__-_-_-__ · 2020-07-27T09:08:07+00:00

Nice

jamesatom25 · 2020-07-27T09:22:47+00:00

That´s inspiring, however I can´t even get a match on dating apps ( sometimes it shows I have but I have to pay to see who matched with me) and I´m not fucking gonna pay for that.

melon_master · 2020-07-27T11:30:42+00:00

Nice going dude.

cinsolidarity · 2020-07-27T12:02:33+00:00

Models is a very helpful book. I recommend it

yurifca · 2020-07-27T12:17:34+00:00

Feels really good the first time, it's like removing a huge weight from your shoulders.

Don't stop now tho, unless you gf this girl, there is a lot more to learn and you're still young

Sid_Insidious · 2020-07-27T18:54:52+00:00

Good news, I suppose. But how she reacted to your flaccid penis is a huge red flag. Her self-esteem and self-worth is closely tied to HER ability to give YOU an erection and have YOU perform sexually. Women who take male sexually performance issues personally have serious issues of their own. Notice her feelings about sex are all about her and have nothing to do with what's going on with you. Most of that is just natural female solipsism.

Why did she only try to use oral on you after you told her you were a virgin? Maybe you were stressed out from work, or tired.

Imagine as a man feeling like you're a sexual failure and ugly because your female partners vagina didn't get wet enough and you needed to use a lubricant.

Just saying. You're in the afterglow of using your virginity - but don't forget to watch for signs.

bobbylewis222 · 2020-07-27T04:56:01+00:00

Wear a mask! (and a rubber!)

Vallerta21 · 2020-07-27T04:55:55+00:00

She instantly saw you as a conquest.

Who doesn't want to take someone's virginity?

mr_Tobbor · 2020-07-27T08:31:11+00:00

Sorry but this is fake!

Why you go on dates for 2 weeks and then she fucks you? It doesn't make sense. It is a proccess. You two begin to make out some day, soon after first date. Then you go to more make out and eventually fuck.

How this is done now? You are just dating for 2 weeks and suddenly she fucks you. Not buy it. Even if you make an older post on seddit as your link goes. It seems faker..

GetNifty · 2020-07-27T08:26:14+00:00

Haram, you should have waited until marriage.

serious-daddy-issues · 2020-07-27T21:51:07+00:00

No one cares lmao. You’re not special

JohnsHeadDemons · 2020-07-27T05:01:27+00:00

Haven’t had sex for 5 days I miss my woman and making love ://

EstebanVenti · 2020-07-27T05:09:41+00:00

Wait how old are you now?! By the way i read great book too. Where did you meet her? Also, I’d just save up money to fly to Nevada and fuck those hookers so that it’s guaranteed... 23 fuckin years... fuckin hell

Title	Update: Just lost my virginity
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Date	July 27, 2020 3:29 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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