... To get perma-banned from all the fake feminist spaces.

I realized today that most of the sub-reddits regarding feminism are moderated by misogynistic men. I thought they were pickmeishas, but i subscribe to both misogynistic sub-reddits to keep an eye on the enemy and the content and comments on these and the so-called feminist sub-reddits were oddly similar. I've gotten myself perma-banned by finally stepping in to say "no, it doesn't go both ways" and "yes, saying you hate feminism because you're an egalitarian is in fact idiotic".

Someone claiming feminism is bad because women have proven to "do the exact same as men have the second they get power" wasn't even removed from the thread, but someone suggesting this sub-reddit along with WitchesAgainstPatriarchy was removed with the reasoning that they could never support the views we share here and there. The view that.. I guess, egalitarianism is a hoax? That feminism isn't about men primarily, and that women should be happy? Several comments saying feminism is toxic, inside a feminist sub-reddit, was kept alive while actual helpful suggestions in the thread was banned and i realize that this sub is probably the only popular sub-reddit moderated for and by women.

Spring-cleaning involving removing tokens and people who bring nothing but negative nostalgia and anything but quality and happiness in your life is one of the strongest act of self-love you can do for yourself. I want you all to know how important you are for making this space for women, and that most feminist sub-reddits are really just male-dominated spaces meant to confuse the pickmeishas. We won't be fooled and we won't be stuck in old toxic patterns of fake feminism or toxic relations.

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Stay amazing and remember to do a real cleanup in your life if you feel this would boost your further growth! I sure do.