An ex coworker of mine recently posted on social media detailed instructions on how to take care of their new born daughter for her boyfriend (the baby's father) because she has to go back to work. She posted it like it was cute and funny. At first i thought it was for the babysitter, but nope....it was for the baby's father that lives with them! He also quit his job to be a full time caretaker now...

This isn't cute or funny. This is embarrassing for both of them. Embarrassing for her for picking a bum partner and then for him for being a complete moron on how to take care of his own child that he already lives with.

She's 22 years old with a bachelor's degree. He's 29 and he used to work part time by choice. She has worked hard at her retail job and now has a management position. He had been working part time (since before the baby was born) just because he "doesn't like working full time." (Who does, fucker?!) He is also always broke, has multiple evictions for unpaid rent, unpaid car registration, terrible credit, but he's "nice" and doesn't hit her. The bar is so low for men that some women will praise a man that's not physically abusive or a rapist. That's bare minimum for being a decent human being!

In this situation, she should have a picked a better partner. This guy doesn't cook or clean either. (I know because she complained about him before). Now her life is going to be: work full time, pay all of the bills, come home to do all the chores, and childcare once she's home. This doesn't have to be your life if you choose the father wisely. Be smart and vet hard!