The Queen behind TinderTranslators gets it. Absolute gold.

spicyspa · 2022-02-11T04:20:46+00:00

You can't possibly know if you wouldn't like to be choked out if you haven't tried it, right? How can you even have an opinion about it?

sleutherino · 2022-02-11T01:08:38+00:00

"maybe you just haven't explored with the right person yet" 🤢🤢🤢🤢

I'm so, so sick of men having the entitled attitude that they are different, and they deserve a chance to ultimately disappoint us and confirm again what we already knew.

Is it so much to ask for a man to accept our answer when we say, "No, I'm really not into kinks, or reenacting porn", without them trying to turn it into a debate? As if our judgement isn't good enough to have preferences of our own?

If I get a whiff of this shit, I'm already done talking to them. If they can't respect my preferences in regards to something as vulnerable and risky as sex, the entire relationship is going to be them constantly pushing my boundaries. No thanks.

PlumHot7169 · 2022-02-11T04:06:09+00:00

So true. Their idea of kinky is dehumanizing and debasing women while being offended that they aren’t enjoying it.

Jinxhourglass · 2022-02-11T05:31:59+00:00

Spot on. Guys like this are so lame. There’s kink-centered dating sites they can go on to find kinkmeishas that would actually be interested in it , but they’re more excited by the thought of ‘convincing’(Re: coercing) different women into ‘trying’ it out in the wild.

IAteTheDragon · 2022-02-11T15:02:59+00:00

It's aaalways the same fcking talk about anal. When I said "I don't like it, period!", they were like "Oooh but if it's done correctly and with preparation before, it's really awesome🤠"

Preparation from whom, mf? Oh you mean I gotta PREPARE MYSELF for hours before I do something I don't even like?? GTFO of here 💨

basicbiddy · 2022-02-11T11:23:38+00:00

I don’t get why good old PIV and BJs aren’t enough anymore. Those things have been staples for a while for a reason. It’s not good enough for these men anymore?

katiekat0214 · 2022-02-11T15:38:28+00:00

All of this: power, dominance, control, objectification. The MOMENT someone doesn't respect your preferences, your boundaries, NOPE THE HELL OUT! Dump right then and there! The moment any scrote gets butthurt that you did something once with some other man, didn't like it, and he then thinks you should do this with him, THAT IS OBJECTIFICATION. You're not seen as human, or as having needs or wants, or that those needs or wants matter. You're seen as a series of holes that need to be filled. You're seen as a series of objections that need to be overcome in whatever way meets his goal. You are not seen as human, with agency. Nope the hell OUT.

askmeabouttheforest · 2022-02-11T03:34:33+00:00

Ooof that guy can. not. afford. to be this cocky...

And what's with his face in the last one? What is that?

Title	The Queen behind TinderTranslators gets it. Absolute gold.
Author	juliana_san
Upvotes	456
Comments	33
Date	February 11, 2022 12:45 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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