Hot and cold, push and pull, dread game, negging, all those theories about “shit testing” and how to successfully reply to it, playing into feelings of jealousy, how to successfully reply to “the talk” so you’ll still get the cooch and how to keep leading her on, ...

It’s textbook emotional abuse. Except they sell it to insecure guys with the promise of “you’ll get laid more because this is the nature of women and this is what they like!!!”. They sell it with the fancy cover of “science” . They sell it under the guise of “facts”.

But truth is, you won’t get laid more because this is the nature of women. You’ll get laid more because you’re mentally manipulating another human being, most likely an insecure one. A woman can apply the same tactics to men, and get the same results.

Your tactics aren’t special. It’s playing into the insecurity of your sexual partner. And you are a manipulator.

Edit: English isn’t my first language, so excuse me for any mistakes ;)