A few years ago I saw a video clip of Mystery teaching technique at a boot camp. He made the comment that when you are ready to fuck, it's important to literally tell your girl to spread her legs. "She wants you to say it" he said.

I have indeed done this with a few girlfriends since watching this, and the response has been overwhelmingly positive. Specifically, in the bedroom and after an adequate time of verbal seduction and kino and I can tell she's ready, I will undress her and then give her the command. I've seen wry smiles, eye's light up, heard "Yes sir", and more, all followed by her spreading her legs.

Variations I've used include:

"Go lay down on the bed and spread your legs" (if we're standing or on the couch)

"I'll be right back (going to bathroom), when I return I want to see you on the bed with your legs spread."

(lying on her stomach kissing her neck) "Roll over, lay on your back and spread your legs for me"

Why is this so well received? Is there other similar bedroom behavior (excluding dirty talk) that women like.

Also, should I xpost to Askwomen, I would love to hear their feedback as well.