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You never take a woman to a bar until you've fucked her first. Then everyone at the bar knows, and the chicks can tell. Meeting a woman AT a bar? Next.
/r/askMRP25/07/23 05:33 PM
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Yeah, /u/teh-voice-of-reason is quite off there. Not sure if this sub allows links, so head over to: reddit /yellowpill/wiki/male-behavioral-models Yellow pill is producerism; red and blue pills are consumerism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:03 PM
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There is no business incentive in you continuing this conversation, yet here you are. Not every discussion needs to lead to business. Actually, untrue. I do have quite a few followers and other people may come across this thread when they use the searchbar or Google, so it's important to me to continue until other parties quit. I've been using Reddit and other social networks this way for longer than most people here have been alive. I know my reasons, and they work great. I'm not advocating tot…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:34 PM
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I spend a LOT of time on reddit networking -- a LOT. Some of the subs I am on have actual high value people lurking there, connecting with others. Even famous people, especially in VC and tech. You'd be amazed at how many of those people lurk. But, they don't lurk on subs that aren't moderated well. It's simple. I may be retired, but I still continue to get income streams from reddit as I always have -- and I also look for opportunities to invest in people through Reddit. SoloTravel is important…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:51 PM
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Israël/Palestine ? How is that black and white ? Israel and Palestine have been a great way to generate useless passion in low quality men all over the world. You have to remember that the Muslims and Jews for over 1000 years were united in their hatred against Christians. It took Great Britain to fuck that up with some false stories, and now the tides have turned. There is no fucking way anyone with an IQ over 60 would pay attention to that region unless, like me, they were invested in "defense…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:38 PM
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That's a very absolute way of seeing things and that's exactly how you create societies like the one from today. I prefer absolutism. People in power absolutely should shit on those who aren't and refuse to obey. I am all about forcing structure on the miscreants in the world -- by whatever force necessary. Today's topic is feminism and people who want to talk about male suffering are perma-banned from the public debate. Feminism was designed by powerful men. It was never invented by women. Mode…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:27 PM
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I lurk on that sub actually and I would have marked it as off-topic because it is off-topic. The sub is about the act of travel, not about defining travel. I hate shit posts. I lurk there to read about solo travel, not about debating definitions. Maybe he would have gotten more love at r-grammar or something, lol. The sub there says it's for people to share experiences and stories. There's a "general chatter" thread for shitpost topics, though. Reddit should be ban-and-done for people who refuse…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:16 PM
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Doesn't matter if OP is right, it matters that he went into a subreddit that focuses on solo travel, not debating what constitutes travel. There are other subs where once can throw out posts like that, but not solo travel. That sub is about those who travel.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:46 PM
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hmm didnt see it yet
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:00 PM
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The people telling you to go back to TRP aren't mods. They're just regular users there. Your post itself was off-topic, didn't abide the rules there, and it really comes off as pretentious. The post has nothing to do with solo travel specifically, and worse: you battled everyone who told you your post was low quality. Of course you were banned. I would have banned you as well for not abiding the community standards of that sub, which gets a lot of shitty low quality posts so the mods just ban pe…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:31 PM
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If it was the post you made 12 hours ago, it really didn't meet the definition of what kinds of posts they were looking for. I can't imagine they'd ban you for TRP. I'm on more non-TRP subs than TRP subs and never once was I banned for TRP.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:24 PM
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Just move on, no big deal. GFTOW.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:26 PM
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Nothing ruins validation for a woman than a man who doesn't act like every other man does for her. Including in bed. Guys get all wigged out if they lose a boner or whatever -- don't take the blame for that shit. It's her fault, lol.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:25 PM
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Needless to say, it's extra hard to enter this institutions and to make it worse medical school is the most competitive one. Everyone wants to join in. If you can't get into the best school, you aren't going to earn the best salary -- in health care it's just as much about who you meet and network with as how smart and dedicated you are. If you have shitty grades in IT, how are you going to have great grades in medical? Laziness tells me college might not be for you.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 03:38 PM
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Drunks sometimes act like drunk people and do drunk people things.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 03:04 PM
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Most straight women have sex for the man's orgasm. I've posted here before, but if you ever bed a real HB9 (not the makeup and pushup bra fake ones), refuse to orgasm the first time you have sex with her. You will GUARANTEE that she will come back to the point of stalking you for many years to come. If you can avoid orgasm maybe 1 out of 4 times with her, she will be yours for a long time. It drives women nuts when I don't orgasm, lol. I sometimes do it on purpose (the hotter they are!) because …
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:45 PM
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You slave yourself for 10 years for as much fucking money as you can make and invest. Spend $0 on your consumer bullshit for those 10 years. Retire after. Being a doctor is being a slave to schooling -- talk to any doctor in their residency and ask them how many of their guy friends burned out with $300,000 in debt to pay and no doctorate.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:40 PM
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Go into a career you are great at that maximizes your skill set to build wealth. Don't go into a career you love.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:14 PM
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There are two main camps of thought here and both have support albeit weak support: Leftover: Human females of the distant past needed orgasm to trigger ovulation due to survival selection. This ended a very long time ago but exists in some form in similar mammals who are still under survival risk By-product: The female orgasm is triggered by the male orgasm as a quantifier of some sort but no research seems to figure out what a female orgasm values. Google: The evolution of female orgasm: adapt…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:03 PM
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Hard nexting happens all the time as a man increases value and others don't.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:58 PM
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He made choices. He hasn't come to you for help. Hard next, he will drag you down. A man is judged by the company he keeps.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:44 PM
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Hard next this person. He's no friend.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:42 PM
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It makes no sense to think a woman has sex for an orgasm. There's no rational, logistical or hormonal reason for it. There's no fertility increase between human female orgasm and ovulation -- even though scientists keep trying to prove it. A woman would rather have 30 seconds of shitty sex with a high value man than 20 orgasms from some leper omega.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:40 PM
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Schwab is my favorite because they actually have local offices if there's ever any issues. If you have $1000 to start with, PM me for my referral link. Just google these two: Schwab three fund portfolio Schwab three fund portfolio taxable You want to figure out which makes more sense for you -- I suggest both. I retired at age 41 but my savings rate was 80% of my paycheck, lol.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:36 PM
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I never once even thought about a woman's orgasm because that's not why women have sex with guys. I've been having sex longer than you've been alive, I bet, and it's never once mattered to me. I never asked. I never cared. If she wants one, she'll have one. If not, whatever.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:35 PM
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Country?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:32 PM
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Schwab. I think people who use my referral link get $100 free, too, but that $100 bonus requires $1000 minimum deposit. Schwab lets you buy your three fund portfolio stocks with no fees, no load, and in almost any amount little by little. If you can just afford $20 a week, great, it's still going to grow. if you're under 18 you may need a custodial account that your parents have to set up for you.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:32 PM
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Hard next. Stop thinking you're different or a special snowflake. It's not butthurt because you offered her the first chance to jump and she wasn't interested so you have 9 other women you're offering it to who are just as good. She's not unique, you're not unique. She told you clear as day that she thinks you're a bridge troll so move on to the other 9 women you're gaming this week.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:05 PM
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Oxytocin needs exist across mammal -- bonding isn't just intersex and intrasex but parent to child and even beta-to-alpha and alpha-to-beta. Only the omegas tend to not have that bond.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:43 AM
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Just google: three fund portfolio. Yes you can invest as little as $5 into an index fund.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:42 AM
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Don't show emotion or be butthurt.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:41 AM
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Potassium depletion?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:24 PM
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Start investing today. Get your side hustles going even if it's cleaning your neighbors' windows for $5. Starting at the age of 16, if you can invest your age x 10 in dollars a week in index funds, and do that for the next 15 years, by the time you're 31 you'll have $500,000-$1,000,000 invested.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:13 PM
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def
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:06 PM
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Guys on gear don't count. Stick around for 20 years like I have and you'll see where they end up and it's lololol city. The one gearhead from high school used to bully the fuck out of all us DYEL guys and I saw him at my 25th reunion last year and holy shit I think I almost pushed him to off himself I was so abusive. of course, guys over the age of 50 probably should consider gear at some point. I'm 44. My doctor is 86 and he started on it when he turned 65 and recommends it for guys over a cert…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:55 PM
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"In moderation" doesn't exist -- it's a phrase invented and marketed by smarter guys who know that most people can not moderate it. I'm 44, I've been doing TRP-style mentorships for almost 13 years now, and so far I have never once met a guy who drinks weekly who can get his physique beyond a 6.5/10. I'd love to be wrong, though, but I've never seen it. The guys with 8/10 physiques don't really have much of a social life after 9pm.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:48 PM
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Yeah, I stopped drinking because it didn't add to my life at all -- but I know a few decently fit guys who still drink. I just don't see the point, and if a guy wants to go from 6.5/10 physique to 8/10 physique the alcohol has to go for good. 6.5/10 is still better than most guys.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:44 PM
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She just got dumped by Chad and wants some lily-white emotional tampon to bleed on.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:40 PM
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I produce small films and community theater productions -- the writing groups I show up at are always full. Always. I also try to meet more actors and filmmakers so I volunteer for BG in a shit ton of movies -- I meet hundreds of new folks a year doing this (and a lot of cute gals). I host 2 big BBQs every summer and fall and invite lots of people -- cooking is fun, better in a group of fit and happy people. I don't know shit about board games or poker, but I bet there are tens of thousands of g…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:38 PM
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lol on seid. it's important to track alcohol calories, too. too many guys blow all their gym time because they don't track calories.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:36 PM
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What are your hobbies?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:32 PM
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yeah alcohol is fine if you substitute alcohol calories for your allowed fat calories, but don't degrade protein. cardio is NOT necessary, in fact cardio may increase stubborn belly fat on men. i gain belly fat doing cardio every time, 100% of the time. high intensity sprints on rest day are acceptable during the last 2 hours of the fast ~~ -- this is part of the protocol i'll have you on but i need some more data first (will ask later).~~ edit: shit didn't realize i confused 2 threads lol. bulk…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:28 PM
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Ok, if the lifts stagnated, I would do a cut right now -- 1/2 pound a week cut, maximize protein on rest days. Do not lose more than 4# over 8 weeks, preferably do 2 weeks of weight stasis to figure out your TDEE for the cut, then aim for just a 1500 calorie deficit a week for 8-12 weeks. I'd stick to a standard 16/8 IF platform and on rest days I would suggest 2-3 miles of slow low impact walks during the last 2 hours of your fast (hours 14-16). During cuts, you want to maximize sleep by at lea…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:16 PM
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Anger = lack of outcome independence.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:13 PM
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I won't even be friends with a guy if he can't fucking cook. A woman? It's default expectation. No cooking, no dates out of the house after 3pm, ever.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:13 PM
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Yeah I retired at 41 so part of my lifestyle has to be funded by doing things myself, including fishing. I generally take it out to deep water (because of Ciguatera fears) to get mahi-mahi or other similar deep water fish. If I catch a lot, I take it to an island and barter it out for fresh vegetables, pork, chicken, eggs, etc. If I don't catch a lot, I lose weight, lol. The last low reward cruise I just finished (see some rare photos of mine at Malört.com (you need the umlaut ö to get there) we…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:10 PM
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Get a tape measure (fabric or paper) and tell me your waist measurement and your hip measurement. https://scars1.com/CareTools/Calculators/Advanced_BMI/images/male.gif In inches if possible, I hate centimeters. I'm 5'8" also and 148# can mean a lot of things. Those are awesome lifts, by the way, are you still progressing in PRs on your 1RM or 5RM?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:02 PM
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When you talk it should be coming out so slow that you worry that you sound retarded. Most people talk too quick. When I do public speaking I do a lot of pregnant pauses to make eye contact with the audience.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:54 PM
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Watching movies is a waste of dopamine receptors and works contrary to real personal growth. Put a bullet in your TV set, it's destroying your sense of reality.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:50 PM
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I run mentorships in Chicago, SoFla and the Caribbean. I live on my sailboat in the Caribbean about 4 months out of the year, then another 3-5 months each in Chicago and SoFla. I do yellow pill FIRE cruises on my sailboat during the sailing season, but a lot of guys on those cruises came originally from TRP. I've been on TRP style forums since 1987 -- 31 years and counting.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:42 PM
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Nah, I think it just happens naturally. If I'm at home, I go on my daily "walk of my kingdom" every morning like clockwork regardless of the weather -- meet new local business owners, see what other idiots are up at 5am heading to the diner, etc. But I also try to interact with my community regularly so people know me and I know them. If I'm grocery shopping or at the farmer's market I'm definitely checking put what folks are buying and I have no issue asking them about it. If it's a fit gal or …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:10 PM
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Hit up AskMRP in fact, although not married it pertains. Read the sidebar there. Yes, she might leave you -- if she does, you dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:54 PM
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Shouldn’t my goal be aesthetics instead if I’m trying to look better? Do you want a Ferrari? If all you want is a Ferrari, should you get a $200,000 loan and then sell your ass to gay porn so you can have a Ferrari? Or would it be wiser to work at getting a $500,000 salary and saving up for a few months to pay cash? If all you care about are instant returns, you will fail. Remember that the entire bodybuilding instagram thing exists for one purpose: to get fat lazy guys to spend $500-$1000 on gy…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:28 PM
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Don't switch to hypertrophy yet. Keep cutting. 10 days is not a stall. Switch to hypertrophy only when you REALLY stall after increasing calories and not getting any stronger or aesthetic. Your goal right now is strength, not physique. Strength drives higher TDEE drives hotter body later.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:24 PM
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Ten days is NOT a plateau. Plateaus begin with the 4th weekly check-in of no weight change which means 22 days. What is happening is you are actively recomping -- you are gaining muscle/strength and to do that the body holds onto water weight during muscle recovery. As you get stronger, these stalls are more common but your whooshes will be legendary. Stay the course for a full 22 days. See if you whoosh. When you do, tag me in thanks, lol.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:57 PM
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Do you track your weekly body weight? If so, when did your weight loss "stall" happen (how long ago)?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:47 PM
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Both of my primary homes are in villages with massive park infrastructure so I just use the free public park spots (they require a reservation and I believe $50 clean-up fee?). When I'm on my boat it's a different story but that's a unique circumstance.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:40 PM
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Yep, newbie gains are real but you won't see them in a mirror. You're not fat enough to worry. Don't let the fake alphas here tell you that -- fuck them if they're not willing to post pics of their physique if they're shitting on yours. Your lifts are great, don't fucking beat up yourself. How long have you been lifting?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:35 PM
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Are you trying to increase muscle or decrease body fat? Which one is it? Post your height, weight, age. Post how long you've been on this diet/workout routine. Post your macros/calories. Post how many days a week you go to the gym (for real). Post your Big Three lift numbers (1RM or 5RM). Post how many cheat days you've had in the last 30 days.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:16 PM
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Yep, I print up postcards basically -- they're super cheap and they let me control invites so they don't get out of control, lol. I considered making them RSVP postcards for people to write their shit down on and stamp and mail to me, but I don't have a set address as much anymore so I worry they might get lost in the mail. I go out of my way to invite a LOT of people, but once the RSVPs are full, that's it. Better luck next time, I tell a lot of people who regret forgetting to RSVP on time, lol…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:50 PM
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Yep I always invite random people I meet. Still do. Cute athletic gal at Whole Foods Saturday at 9am? Here's an invite. Hilarious guy I see juggling outside of the subway station? Here's an invite. I don't do online invites but I let people RSVP via email if they're going to come.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:39 PM
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Increase as needed.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:55 PM
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So don't get butthurt. You have other shit going on, go do that for your own future. What LOD # are you at, consistently?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:51 PM
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Throw big seasonal parties, invite everyone, mandate RSVP and people who don't RSVP don't come -- and people who do RSVP and don't show up don't get invited again. My summer BBQ has been going on for over 22 years now and people I banned back in the 90s are still banned today -- and they regret it considering the shit I pull each year.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:48 PM
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Jealousy means you are a man without options. Focus on your troubles, not hers.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:45 PM
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Red pill with "white pride" and hardcore bodybuilding. The only iron piller I've ever met was a black dude with white pride. Really fucked with my head but he certainly was ripped.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:36 PM
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How many plates/ports would you say you have currently spinning ? Less than before but that's only because I am on a big sabbatical to get more writing done and women/sex can be too big of a distraction for me. I get on my sailboat solo and go out for sometimes 2-3 weeks at a time without dealing with others so I can have discipline for my goals. At age 27 I would tell you to not get into an LTR at all, unless your net worth is over $1.5MM in your portfolio/business assets and at least $500K in …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:04 PM
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I have never had ONS in my life -- and I've been fucking for 31 years. I have always had many plates, and my plates always know they are plates. Always. I've also always had an LTR in that time period and my LTRs are familiar with plate theory. I typically don't cross LTR and plates in the same city/region, though -- but I travel more than most guys so it's very easy to do. I don't even call them "plates", I call them "ports". I don't get oneitis for LTR or for plates, though. Fucking ten women …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:44 PM
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Sex and the chasing of sex does not fulfill the oxytocin needs a man may have, but if you're a fit and active man, your testosterone drive will overwhelm the oxytocin needs quite a bit. Casual sex will imbalance your oxytocin drive but it is not permanent like in women (typically). Guys who take gear may be more female than male, though, so if you're a roidhead then you may be permanently damaging your pair bonding potential for the future if you also sleep around. One thing that can help is to …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:45 PM
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The answer is oddly yes but it isn't a negative or derogatory condition for a male, actually. If anything, it actually increases frame and also builds value for females who do want to pair bond and are suitable partners for it. The one downside is that loneliness is derived from dopamine and serotonin but also oxytocin -- so it's feasible that guys who slut around too much may end up feeling lonely like an incel might, but loneliness is not a negative condition.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:29 PM
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GFTOW and initiate for logistics only when you want to see either of them again. Don't initiate to keep plates warm, initiate for logistics only.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:27 PM
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Frame is 100% derived by outcome independence -- that's it, nothing else. The person who has the most power to leave (without emotion) is the one who holds the strongest frame. If you have 10 side hustles paying more than your regular 9-5 job, you hold frame over your boss always. If you have 10 side plates giving you more sex than your regular LTR, you hold frame over her always. You don't "practice frame" -- you create options for the outcome you seek. If your goal is to do "XYZ", you should a…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:15 PM
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AskTRP
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:02 PM
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Nothing. You sent a text, she didn't respond, go text 10 other women and make plans with them instead. Her loss. Never make date plans with one woman. TRP is about outcome independence, so any time you ask a girl out, you should be asking 9 other girls out for the same timeframe and pick the one that's the least drama or whatever.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:49 PM
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You can't help people who refuse to help themselves. There is nothing red pill in this shit post. Nothing. OP is degrading to himself and instead of following the basic advice, wants to be treated like a special snowflake.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:41 PM
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It's in the sidebar reading material. A big part of preselection comes out of having confidence and charisma -- things you work on, every day, with everyone you meet, including your own family members or coworkers.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:37 PM
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It is 1 out of 10. Period. I'm 44, I have been in the TRP communities online since 1987 and in the 31 years I've been here, I have seen the ugliest guys land the hottest women solely because of Game and preselection. In addition, they land great jobs, too. Because of Game and preselection. You should be banned for asking this question and not reading the sidebar. My opinion. Game (Confidence): 2.5 out of 10 Game (Charisma): 2.5 out of 10 Preselection (Social Proof): 2 out of 10 Looks, height, ph…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:32 PM
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She's cheating. Hard next. If she is telling the truth, she still cheated by continuing a relationship with him like she was. It's hard next worthy. You are not her father. You are not her savior. You should not be her boyfriend or her friend in this case. There are amazing women in the world who don't put themselves in harm's way with guys. Don't put up with a woman who made this decision, it's a red flag she's got faults that won't get better with time.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:27 PM
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Looks are 1 out of 10 of male SMV. Women worry about THEIR looks, not a man's looks I'm of the TRP school that we should ban people who ask about looks since it's asked 10x a day. Looks don't matter, Game and preselection matters.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:25 PM
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Just stop texting her, you're too busy. But when you see her with your friends, be totally cool and high five her and treat her like your retarded younger cousin. Cocky, funny, DGAF. Don't act emo. Just stop responding to her texts and if she asks what's up just say "busy right now" and delete. I personally don't hard next people texting me. I'll say "real busy right now, come over at 9pm later" and then I don't respond at all to anything else. I gave the command, they can jump or they can be ig…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:58 PM
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Get paternity then deal with it. Until then, no contact.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:55 PM
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Do you have evidence that she's pregnant, as in a lab test from an actual doctor? If not, you're paying attention to her words, which again is against the rules and mindset of this sub. This sub isn't here for you until you're here for yourself. You posted all about her and some emotional vomit, nothing about facts or rational discourse.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:52 PM
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Even worse, you really need to just leave this sub. I'm not a mod or anything, but I'm telling you that you shouldn't be here. This sub is about the future, not digging in the trash from the past. People who are rooted in the past shouldn't get involved here.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:50 PM
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You should unsubscribe from this subreddit and delete this post. There's nothing red pill in here, there's no helping you, and you honestly shouldn't be here.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:44 PM
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Delete this post is what you should do. It's embarrassing. The rule is: listen to their actions, never their words. I've had women roll their eyes and snort at my cocky behavior just 10 minutes before they were gagging on certain body parts of mine. Actions, not words. You didn't read the sidebar enough. Delete this shit post and read the sidebar more, it's in there.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 06:56 PM
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You don't pay attention to her words. Did you even bother to read the sidebar? At all? Her actions matter, FFS. Her words are puppy growls and mews.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 06:38 PM
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So no actual dread is involved whatsoever and your wife is fucking tired of seeing you so much. This quality time with your kid is SHIT quality that your kid is internalizing already. Your kid wants to see a happy dad 100% of the time even if that's only 1 hour a day, versus a miserable dad 100% of the time if it's 10 hours a day.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 06:15 PM
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Yeah there are outliers, but in OP's case, it's not going to be this one, lol Your dentist was likely never some random skank with random decisions. She made decisions and reached goals by focusing on them.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:39 PM
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Name the last 5 times you were out of the house that weren't work or family related.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 03:52 PM
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You aren't in a place to have a girlfriend, that's for sure. If you continue a shitty relationship at your age, you will make it a habit that all future relationships will mirror. Dump her, plate 20 women over the next 2 years, focus on fixing your own shortcomings while not giving a fuck about who you sleep with.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:40 PM
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Who told you that?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:26 PM
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Put it in her butt and be thankful he can't.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:12 PM
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Great username btw
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:11 PM
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It's not murky waters at all. You refuse to put in the discipline to make your future better so you just root in your trash looking for an excuse to not progress. Hard next, no contact.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:10 PM
6

You just went from beta to omega with the update. Holy fuck why are you even posting here when you haven't even started to read the sidebar, work through it, internalize the truths and move forward? You didn't plate her, she plated you as a tampon. If you aren't actively fucking other women (plural) you don't have any plates. It's a plural thing. Many women = plates. 1 woman "plate" = oneitis. Hard next her. No contact forever. You can't do this to yourself. Also, take your video games and throw…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:04 PM
5

Why did you meet up with the ex? You just became her emotional tampon plate.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:56 PM
30

Tag me in 1 year when you see her again and her hot body turned into the Cookie Monster's loose wrinkly pleather pouch.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:50 PM
3

There's this one girl? The answer is literally under the "FAQ" section in the sidebar -- the first link.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:03 PM
1

logistics only, wtf are you doing? there's a great blue pill sub for those who refuse to text for logistics only. go there. maybe order her flowers.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:38 PM
50

Move on because your entire future only gets better while she's taking each step closer to The Wall. How is your entire future defined by a wet hole?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:36 PM
4

Don't trust a woman to act like a man. You probably can't even trust yourself and you're worried about what others think? Shit, I'm probably twice your age or more and I still have moments where I don't trust myself -- work on that first.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:10 PM
3

appreciate that, dude. means a lot to me, no bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 11:46 AM
1

It isn't energy, it's discipline.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:35 AM
3

GFTOW.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:26 PM
3

How often do you have actual real in-life sex with her?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:11 PM
2

"Go Fuck Ten Other Women" -- it means stop texting oneitis, don't create 10 new oneitis targets, get out and actually have sex with 10 new women. Then see if oneitis matters. If so, GFTOW again.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:10 PM
2

Texting apps are for logistics only. Stop being an emotional tampon. GFTOW.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:06 PM
1

Bottling up emotions over what? Sounds like you need to learn "outcome independence" and focus on your many options and develop more and stop giving a fuck about what other people do or don't do.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:41 PM
3

If you dumped her, yes. If she dumped you, not really. Hate fucks and revenge fucks are weak frame usually.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:32 PM
1

Acute depression is normal in times of high stress -- but if you get crippling depression often, it's not a sign of normal human response. When was the last time you dealt with something so crippling before? Many years ago? Last month?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:26 PM
1

Acute depression is normal in times of high stress -- but if you get crippling depression often, it's not a sign of normal human response. When was the last time you dealt with something so crippling before? Many years ago? Last month?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:26 PM
1

Are you blaming yourself because you feel like you are powerless, or are you blaming yourself because you think you could be powerful but failed in some way leaving you unable to help?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:15 PM
1

What personal issues?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:04 PM
1

I'm telling YOU to drop your ego. You're worried about something you can not control that only accounts for less than 0.001% of SMV total. Do you worry about the squirrel that slowly crossed the street causing you to have to slow down for the 5 seconds delay on your road trip from NYC to LA? No, of course not, it's not important. The shitpost is not important. Your other attributes that you can control ARE important, because women subconsciously judge a man for his self control, not his belt buc…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:38 PM
1

Game = confidence + charisma, nothing else. Zero else. My self studies on confidence and charisma are unfortunately not 100% compatible with TRP so I don't push them out here -- TRP's rules on learning confidence and charisma is to read the sidebar and start internalizing. There's some great resources in the sidebar. Read it, practice it, internalize it.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:13 PM
1

You know who you're replying to? You're telling me of all people that I am unaware of male hormones? Lol. Fuck off.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:11 PM
1

It's irrelevant. Game is not measured in hair growing ability or lack there of. Game + Preselection = 9 SMV points out of 10. Ability to grow hair or not = 0.0001 SMV points out of 10.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:42 PM
3

No. Women don't give two fucks about looks as much as Game + preselection. Stop posting sissy mongrel idiocy here. Learn Game and ignore the cosmetic fuckery you are worried about.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:35 PM
4

lol bitch go away. google: RooshV hairy
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:07 PM
1

redpillhandbook!com/The%20Red%20Pill%20Handbook%202nd%20Ed.pdf maybe
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:38 PM
1

Yeah I know about mass psychology because I use it myself. I spent thousands of dollars advertising on reddit, facebook, google, etc -- not to sell a product or service, but to corrupt the mind of mental midget consumers. It worked brilliantly every time I did it.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 01:34 PM
26

I have a family member (second cousin?) who is somewhat "famous" and the only reason he's famous is he gave $50,000 to a PR company in his early 20s and let them roll with it. He was on magazine covers (not huge ones but industry related and popular), had interviews, etc. In his late 20s he started to pull the "wow she broke my heart badly" meme in some interviews over public relationships that had ended. He's not famous enough that you'd stop on the street and stare but his name is recognizable…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 12:55 PM
1

Red pill as a theory started in the 1930s. go to this thread comment: asktrp/comments/5v56m4/who_started_trp_and_why/ddza78f Your anger issues are hilarious, btw. I bet you peed your bed until you were 13, right? Mom's boyfriends all beat you senselessly?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:51 PM
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He got that interview because his PR team did it -- it cost him a lot of money on PR. He did this interview for 100% business purposes -- it's a distraction, not a glimpse of reality. With women becoming the bigger stock market investors over men, and growing every paycheck, it makes sense for him to do a PR circuit with something women can feel touchy feely about. Brilliant move and play.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 12:50 PM
3

My current girlfriend was openly a plate for 3 years, maybe 4. She had no problems waiting it out with my previous ex, who was also a plate for 1-2 years even though her friends and family begged her to find a better guy. Red pill women have a better concept of being a plate than blue pill women do. Red pill women know it's normal for a high value man to play the field. Ask your grandmother about your grandfather, she will brag that he had 50 girlfriends before her.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:35 PM
1

I retired at age 41 and have dedicated the rest of my life to helping guys become winners -- but not all guys. Guys with anger issues can't be helped until they address those first. I've been in the TRP community as a whole since 1987 -- you're fucking with the wrong guy here. Stop being a mutt, your anger issues are evident on reddit and you need to deal with those, not women.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:34 PM
7

your entire TRP post history is 100% anger mode omega. hating people so much, especially women, is an omega trait. even betas do better than this.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:26 PM
11

No way to find it now but a long time ago I posted my list of 100 or so red flags on the 5-10 minute instant coffee date. I use them well to vet partners -- my LTRs for the past 14+ years have always been amazing, even the break-ups are relatively drama-free. The key element to LTR is to plate a bunch and don't LTR anyone for at least a year so you can see her all 4 seasons. Some women are amazing in summer but become depressed fascists in winter. And vice versa. Plate 5 women, drop the low hang…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:25 PM
13

First practice demanding an apology from a puppy or a kitten and get back to us on how well that works. After that, try getting a pencil to apologize to you. If you can get all 3 to apologize, then demand the plate do it.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:20 PM
2

Go to youtube and search for altering t-shirt and do that. Costs almost nothing once you get the thread and needle.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:07 PM
3

Don't ask what a beta is on this sub because Reddit is confused what it is. In nature, a beta is the second in command to the alpha. An omega is the loser. Type into google: male-behavioral-models (with the hyphens) to see my theory chart on the breakdown for a better understanding of the differences. TRP is for any male who wants to consume/build reputation.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:42 AM
1

Dysfunction is your fault not theirs. People will mimic and mirror you when you take control of your own life, not theirs!
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:36 AM
1

Only approved posters can make new posts but comments wise it's open season
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:36 AM
2

We as a sub have decided to refuse to answer this shitpost question as it's been answered before. Please use the searchbar. And uninstall facebook and instagram.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:42 PM
3

Yeah if she's into you, take control there.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:20 PM
4

I wouldn't chase the out of towner but I've plated women in my social circle, never had an issue. If it comes up, I say "it's casual, we're all adults, you jealous?" and move on.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:13 PM
7

How many other plates do you have right now? Active plates you're actively having sex with.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:10 PM
3

Child support for 18 years would be a magical lesson for you.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:56 PM
6

Wow, it's almost as if one should never put their dick into crazy.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:48 PM
3

D I V O R C E
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 05:18 PM
7

You fix yourself by stopping your blame in others and ignore them entirely -- you can not help anyone if your own life is a shitstorm of loserdom. Every action you've taken in adulthood is a step towards being a loser. EVERY STEP IS YOUR FUCKING FAULT. Stop blaming others. Society did not do it. Your parents and grandparents did not do it. You did it. Stop buying poverty and buying loserdom. Stop today.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:01 PM
2

Slavery is a choice. Look at Marie Laveau's dad -- a black man, in the south, before she was born in 1800. He was a merchant, a profitable one. He made a choice. Read up on dahomey and see how the lords of Benin made their wealth by trading in lives. They made a choice. My family came out of slavery in the 1600s -- they took off, started a business and we have over 400 years of family tree history to show for it today. I'm not black but slavery isn't a race issue, it's a culture issue. You sure …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:18 PM
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Nobody turns alpha overnight in the midst of an LTR. She's going to push back, shit test, comfort test, whine, bring drama in -- she does this in order to prove you're not alpha. And she will likely win. If you aren't happy in the LTR, break up, go spin plates. GFTOW. Your text wasn't alpha at all, it was full on omega blue pill. You can't negotiate desire. Google: 12 levels of dread and start working through it. This relationship is probably already over, she's already branch swinging or riding…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:45 PM
2

yeah, RUBORD is like nofap for everything, lol. this week we're discussing breaking the digital streaming addiction -- including music.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:35 PM
2

Towards who? My parents? They're great. Part of the reason I wanted to retire young was so I could spend more time with them in their last years.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:35 PM
6

Game improves as your outcome independence improves. You beat shit tests buy outcome independence (DGAF). You become smoother because of it. You stop analyzing because of it. If you are gaming 1 gal, you're too dependent. Shit goes sideways. Game 100 gals and you don't give a fuck which one say "kk".
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:03 PM
3

Potential LTR = she was a plate for at least 12 months, and you had other plates in that time frame.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:50 PM
2

nah my parents are boring as hell. dunno if mom ever saw a porn in her life, she'd be shocked haha
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:49 AM
2

The opposite of motivation is dopamine. Maybe you've got too many distractions going on. Digital ones, perhaps.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:48 AM
1

I've never seen a single episode of that show except for the star wars one lol
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:20 AM
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It's all in the sidebar, honestly, but some of it is outdated or not very clear. You're asking for a lot of holy grail stuff but in truth if you aren't failing constantly you aren't trying hard enough!
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:20 AM
1

I 100% retired at 41. It's been almost 3 years now of living the RE lifestyle. It's fucking awesome but it took so much work to get here. Romantic dates just sound exhausting to me. I do light banter and tease at my house and it's awesome. Hell, I've taken women to my mom's or dad's house in recent years just for kicks. I like putting pressure on dates sometimes, it's fun as hell. I've posted this here before but a long time ago. It's fun to do. I met a gal who was easily 10 times out of my fina…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:18 AM
1

Yeah, you don't need money or a job or your own apartment to get women interested. You need value. Social proof, preselection, charisma, confidence. That's it. No money or height or looks will beat those 4 things. Join a shitty local band that plays dive bars and you'll knock out all 4 after your first 2 opening gigs.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:49 AM
1

I'm 44 and I am not sure I've ever gone on a real date. It sounds horrifying to me. Most dates are a guy taking a girl out somewhere to show off...another guy. Why would I ever fucking do that? Women hang out with me while I show myself off. Not to them, to myself. Fuck yeah. If they're bored, fuck 'em, I'm having a blast. If a girl wants dinner I'm cooking it. If she wants excitement she's getting her ass up at 4am for dawn patrol with me -- and she's running off to work after at 8am with her e…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:44 AM
2

HB4, HB9, who cares. Don't get oneitis. Swipe right on more and hit them up. Get 10 numbers, 8 will flake, 2 will show up, 1 will notch. I once asked out 10 women a day for over 6 months (like 1800 women) and I believe I went out with maybe 60 of them on a second "first" date, lol.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:11 AM
2

Many many years ago as a joke I bought an ad on a bus stop bench -- not sure if you're familiar with those. It was just my ugly mug and some random words. The bench was in a horrible part of town but it was DIRT CHEAP. The ad was pointless. That fucking ad got me laid for YEARS after. That's because my ad expired after 90 days but nobody replaced it so the bench ad stayed up even as it was fraying. For years. People asking me if I was the guy in the TV commercials (nope, just a ghetto ad bench).…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:09 AM
5

I love cuffing season because you can literally spin 10 plates for those cold months and never once have to go out, text them, or even acknowledge they're next to you. So good.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:06 AM
5

Yeah it's all good, just be aware not to expect any relationship that starts in November to outlast May. Ever. No matter how alpha you are, it's a trap.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:12 AM
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Girls look to lock a guy down when cold winter is about to hit. They'll accept ANY guy for that. But once the smell of spring hits, she's texting one of her ex-alphas or two to see what's up. It's called the "heyyy" rule -- the number of y's = how much she wants to bang. Every April/May it happens like clockwork.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:39 AM
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Zero. Uber is the shit. I bike everywhere now if I can (I own a BMW too) and I meet more cute athletic women on THEIR bikes. Everywhere. Constantly. DAILY.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:14 AM
2

lol get the fuck out of here you fat omega vegan. i just saw your post history. vegans should choke on their own rabbit food. lololol.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:52 PM
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It's spring -- all the HBs and cute gals and fatties are dumping their cold weather boyfriends and hitting up the guys who are more laid back. Expect to get dozens of these texts each spring when you're older. I like to reply with something shocking and then back off to laid back. "oh hey you im getting married" and then when they freak out you zing em and invite them over to catch up while you do laundry.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:22 PM
1

Saturated fat is the healthiest and ,ost shelf stable fat there is. Cholesterol powers the brain. You are absolutely what is wrong with men in the world -- bad diet programmed by big agra.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:15 PM
1

What's wrong with steaks fried in butter? As long as the n3:n6 ratio is good, it's fine. If you eat shitty vegetable oils you're looking for pain. There are no health benefits to it and in your case it honestly sounds quite unhealthy Oh fuck off. Intermittent fasting is WAY healthier than eating all the time. Autophagy? Reduction of blood glucose both fasting and postprandial? Better sleep? Higher testosterone? More mental clarity even in aged adults? Higher sex drive? Better gym performance? Be…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:45 PM
1

lol i love the pregnant gut actually. i jam food for fuel, not pleasure, so i think it's easier to habituate diet than change it up. if i am bulking i just create a set menu, eat it for 12 weeks. good enough. i'm old so eating is key to not catabolizing away. i dunno how much stronger or bulkier i can really get, but if i can prevent wasting away, i'm happy. my fucking problem is i am super active. 1 hour in the gym means jack shit when i spend say 12 hours on a sailboat. i think this season (se…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:42 PM
1

It will be very difficult getting the calories you need to bulk within a 4-6 hour eating window. 44 year old male here, I can eat 5000 calories in 6-8 hours no problem during my bulk cycles. It's not EASY but it isn't impossible. I've been doing IF for over 10 years, though. Most guys have a caloric goal during bulks of half mine, so getting 2500 calories in 8 hours is not an issue.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:52 PM
1

16/8 = standard daily intermittent fasting protocol for a male = 16 hours fully fasted, 8 hours fed. There's a peak window of catecholamine production in males, starting around hour 14 but typically at hour 16 and then generating peak catecholamines for a few hours after -- but not 24 hours. During catecholamine production, the body is attempting to reduce cortisol and other stress responses and increase speed and mental focus for a singular purpose (hunt for food) but it's risking higher cortis…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:51 PM
1

There's no real benefit to extending a fast beyond the daily cycle in terms of fat loss or muscle gains. I do longer than 16 hour fasts only to reduce the effects of jet lag. Otherwise, it's 16/8 for me, or 18/6 at most.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:38 PM
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A man is judged by the company he keeps. Instead of lifting up your beta/omega friends, they will drag you down to their level. You can lead a horse to water, you can't force it to drink. Start focusing 100% on your own life and ignore others around you until you are in a place you can help those who ask for help first.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:02 PM
2

When I think of the 20% I think of Elon Musk, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Trump. You know those guys pay more money in PR than you would make in 10 years? There's a reason you never heard of omar hamoui or steve blank -- because they don't pay for PR. If you've seen someone in the headlines, they pay for PR or they've committed a big crime, lol. Not being bitter but sometimes I think that 20% are the lucky minority that had a financial boost from their family and the brains to make their dreams happ…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:06 PM
2

Go for a walk at 4am some morning from your house to city center and see which business owners are up that early getting started with their days -- volunteer to pitch in to learn some skills and hit them up for advice. If you like the gym, ask the gym owner if you can help out before they open or after close and drill him for advice. Mentors won't find you, they don't give a fuck about complainers and daydreamers.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 05:09 PM
2

What country are you in? Do you take any prescription drugs -- legally or otherwise? If you stopped taking them, which ones were they and how long were you taking them for and when did you stop? I'd say you definitely want to look for a mentor -- at least someone who can kick your ass and step on your throat when necessary.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:35 PM
1

3 weeks is not "quitting" -- it's a great start, but it isn't locked in until you've outlasted at half as long as you were addicted. Why don't you have a job? Why aren't you still side hustling on the internet? Why aren't you going door to door to elderly neighbors to make $10 here and $20 there helping them with shit?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:27 PM
1

Actually, 80% of males in any society get shat on by the 20% who lead society. Transitioning from the bottom 80% to the top 20% requires a bit more than red pill alone -- red pill generally is a focus on the consumption of reputation versus the purple-pill consumption of love versus the blue-pill consumption of belonging. Google "male-behavioral-models" with the quotes to see my breakdown chart from 2+ years ago.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:03 PM
1

Sounds like you're literally in the best position a guy your age can be in. Do you have a job? How long ago did you back away from addictions?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:00 PM
1

It kinda does but not really. I know some pretty high SMV guys (one's a semi-famous musician, the other is a semi-famous actor) and both say that ASD is just as bad as it was when they were nobodies. ASD happens for one reason: outcome dependence. The fact is, the minute that the walls go up, it's no longer relevant to push through it if you have many other options. If you don't have a booty call who arrives on demand, you need a few of those. That way, if ASD comes up too strongly you just poin…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:55 PM
1

Sounds pretty good to me actually. Having no distractions put you ahead of 90% of other guys your age, actually Unless you misspoke... Do you spend a lot of time with video games, drugs, daydreaming, movies, music, porn, etc?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:48 PM
3

What's your biggest distraction lately?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:37 PM
3

This has always been one of my problems, when I am in social settings I become so introverted and closed off. That's because you've never had a social mentor who opens doors for you in these discussions so you can learn to open them yourself. This is a major problem with red pill in general, actually -- it's too much solitude and ignorance of bro culture being a thing. They talk sports, I have nothing to add. They talk women, I have nothing to add. They talk music, I have nothing to add. They ta…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:25 PM
3

If you have never lifted before, "newb gains" are real -- the only time in your life you can cut calories but gain muscle. That being said, nothing is going to help your fat fucking ass if you have any fuckarounditis. Super harsh cuts are easier to fall into fuckarounditis than 10-30% cuts.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:12 PM
1

So why would you go out of your way to help me? what are you gaining from this? I want to be totally real here, what's the situation here? It's easy: I'm retired now and my goal isn't to make a better world, it's to make my world better. I find the best colleagues and peers come from helping people get there -- most of my best guy friends either mentored to me or I mentored to them over something. I am on reddit specifically to build my network better and stronger. I spent about 30 days on the C…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:09 PM
2

I was 13 -- but I had my own business at that point, and I had some facial hair coming out so I had a lot of social proof. I was buying liquor for guys 6 years older than me because I could walk into 7-Eleven and they didn't care me. The gal was 19 but she thought I was in college, lolololol.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 02:28 PM
1

I can travel, though. I adjust my flights to include stops along the way -- meeting one guy in Kansas on a San Diego destination, just changed my trip to include a layover in Kansas for 23 hours lol. That shit is easy. A few clarifications Answers below living in mom's basement, how is that the best thing a guy can do to rebuild? Free/cheap rent/utilities/food options -- and you don't want to be there much so you just sleep there and get your ass out of the basement to be productive Why is degre…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 02:27 PM
7

Wrong sub -- AskTRP for these shitposts. GFTOW helps 100% of the time with oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 02:22 PM
3

Preselection is effective, the question is did do you get the initial hot girl on your arm? Surely preselection is not the only thing in your game I think it's all preselection/social proof in my case. I've been sexually active for 31 years now, and I've been single for 8 hours at the longest. Even when I walked out on my (ex-) wife, I had 2 plates before night fell. Because I tend to be pretty public with my dating/plating and not worried about what the fuck family, friends, clients or neighbor…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 02:20 PM
2

If you saw me smile, I'd be a 3/10 lol. It does't bother me; the minute a hot gal is on my arm, I go up to 8.5/10 almost always. My old Tinder profile tests proved that. Same with the old "hotornot" days -- I was 3/10 being myself, I was 8-9/10 when I had cute gals sitting on my lap and shit. Women are too easy to dupe.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:36 PM
2

I'm sure I have a PDF but fml if I can remember which google drive account it's under. I have a hectic week (just got home from a fuckton of months in the Caribbean) and I only have 1GB of mobile data so it'll have to wait until I catch up and can sit down at my cafe and browse the accounts. I know it's out there, I know I had it, I don't know if I still have it.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 01:29 PM
0

Not kidding, I have an open door policy. I rotate between Chicago, SoFla and the Caribbean. Living in mom's basement is actually one of the best things a guy can do to rebuild. The degree is meh. Retail is a great job if you play your cards right.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:21 PM
1

Come visit me at some point and I'll put you through my 3 day confidence builder. No charge, ever, of course, but a lot of guys leave crying after 12 hours, lol.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 03:23 PM
2

The best way to get it is to have a mentor in that skill. That's it. No skill is best learned in solitude -- including confidence, including charisma. A man is judged by the company he keeps. If you don't keep company with confident guys, how will you ever pick up all the skills?
/r/askTRP05/05/18 03:22 PM
2

Oh I don't hang out with losers. A man is judged by the company he keeps. I firmly believe in objectifying everyone to decide if they're worth my time. Doesn't mean I don't approve of the goals of feminism: lock down other men means I am more powerful in the SMP. Feminism was created by top alphas to control both women and men.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 02:20 PM
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TRP isn't split, it's full of incels who want to blame their looks on their lack of pussy. The guys who shitpost on TRP about how looks matter are guys who I guarantee are posting daydreams and fantasy FRs. I've been in the TRP community for over 30 years and I've met a LOT of guys who have found success -- they're all ugly to average at best, but get tons of pussy. But in 30+ years of being on TRP forums, never once in my life has a supposedly "hot successful" guy met up with me. That's because…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:18 PM
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Looks account for about 1 out of 10 SMV points for the average man and average woman. There are a lot of very attractive, very fit, very strong bodybuilder dudes with 6% body fat who can't get laid because their game sucks ass. Lookism is a virus in TRP, it is part of the feminine imperative to fuck up TRP with female traits. Women care about their looks. Men care about confidence and charisma. If you are ugly, you can get laid more than your best looking friend if your game is strong and his is…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:57 PM
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any word with "-ism" in it reflects poorly on the person saying it. It means they believe in groupthink, and groupthink was developed solely to profit from. So make money on people who use the word lookism, or ignore it otherwise. All -ism groups are profit centers for someone smart and patient.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:51 PM
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The "seek protector" idea is a myth, actually. It's based on faulty research where they asked women what they like. Lol. Good luck asking a woman anything and getting the truth out. The truth is, women abuse big men as much as little guys. My ex-wife (96 pounds) tried to kill me twice. So I started an abused guy's group at a local church and guess what? 3 of the guys who came were guys on two of the Chicago teams (football and basketball) -- one was recently retired. These were HUGE guys and yet…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:52 PM
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Not the cockiness -- the DGAF attitude. I still DGAF today but at age 31 it was massive. Today I care about some things, back then it was nothing.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:46 PM
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Men like beauty, don't assume women care about it as much. Being cute on Tinder helps you get women there, if you want to waste time doing that. Women might SAY they think a guy is hot because of his physique, but honestly spend ANY amount of time in the bodybuilding forums ANYWHERE (or at the gym) and see how many of those guys are practically incel. Hot bodies, no game.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:27 PM
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Same shit for plates or ONS. Fat guy on stage telling jokes will get more pussy than hot guy with no game. Shrimpy DYEL with tons of social proof because he's the bartender will get more pussy than the hottest guy paying for drinks and not making anyone laugh. Game is powerful, more powerful than athletic builds, than 6 packs, than any amount of strength. Yes, the hottest guy in the bar will get the most IOIs, the most potential, no doubt -- but in life? Probably not so much. I have too many hot…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:25 PM
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Confidence (2.5 out of 10) Charisma (2.5 out of 10) Social Proof (2 out of 10) the rest is in the remaining 3 out of 10. body type is definitely 1 out of 10 or less, otherwise hit women would LTR hot guys, but they generally don't. Generally. The majority of famous hot women (models, celebrities, etc) actually date ugly guys -- the only times you hear about them dating a guy is when the tabloids can sell a hot guy relationship, which is exceedingly rare. If you want to be hot for your own sakes,…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:17 PM
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You hear women talking? Talking, you tell me? Stop listening to their words, pay attention to their action. Every woman wants to go home with the hottest guy in the bar. Stay sober at a club one night -- totally sober. Wait until last call. See what the HB8s and HB9s actually go home with. It's rarely the hot guys... Fit, clean cut, successful business doesn't mean shit in SMV fact -- all of those things account for less than: Confidence (2.5 out of 10) Charisma (2.5 out of 10) Social Proof (2 o…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:16 PM
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Women prefer confidence and charisma more than anything. Game is confidence and charisma, together they account for 50% of your SMV. Your body type is maybe 10% of your SMV, maybe. The highest my SMV was in my life was when I was actually borderline obese -- my SMV was insanely high. Even today it's high (age 44, 6 pack), but nowhere near when I was the cockiest of my life. Downside is my high SMV attracted too many loser women, lol. I'm pickier today.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:12 PM
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Don't respect me for working with autistic guys -- I find they're just the most profitable people to get into business with if you can change their omega mindset into a producer mindset. Autistics = moneymakers, if they find out how. I don't do it selflessly, lol.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:25 PM
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The thing is, I actually can appreciate that the autistic guys on reddit are coming to TRP because I prefer to work with guys with autism than guys with abuse and neglect issues. I just don't like them spewing autistic ideologies as posts when they still have a lot to learn.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:16 PM
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Bingo. Funny thing is I actually DID meet a woman on Tinder, by mistake. I had no idea what Tinder was, someone told me it was like LinkedIn so I signed up, added a photo, swiped through a few faces and said "fuck this is hot or not what a useless place". One of the gals I swiped on messaged me, we had mutual friends, she had just signed up that day so we met up and ended up plating her for a few years. But I uninstalled the app instantly. LinkedIn is actually the best dating app online. If you'…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:10 PM
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physique is 1/10th smv size matters for even less
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:03 PM
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You definitely will never actually get laid in your life if you believe this useless wreckage. This isn't red pill at all. Not even close. Good luck trolling though, maybe the mods will let this shitpost slip.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:02 PM
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holy fuck your entire comment is ban worthy. good thing i'm not a mod here. To those who reading this loser's tirade and need to know some truths: women fuck for pleasure because a guy turns them on. This is not why women fuck. men decline with every day after 25 and women's SMV isn't affected because most men are thristy af. Both of these are full on blue pill omega mindsets. Getting laid is mostly about looks and social circles and the older you get the more your social and sexual value drops …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:00 PM
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jfl if you think anyone used this shit. tinder is revolutionary due to accesibility, range and easy to use. And? I don't meet women on tinder -- women on tinder are actually losers. Work through that thought process for a few days to figure out why that's the case. so women ask for you number? No, if I meet a cute gal when I'm out doing something, I ask her out to coffee immediately, then and there, for 5-10 minutes. If she doesn't red flag herself, I invite her to join me in some morning fun be…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:54 PM
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Jesus you need to read the sidebar material and immerse yourself a lot more. The female orgasm isn't a goal for women. It's not. Women fuck high status men to keep those high status men from fucking the woman's best friends. That's it. It's weaponizing sex because if she doesn't give him what HE wants, he will get it elsewhere, and men have it easier than women do when it comes to their growing chance of getting laid. Every day a man ages, his chance of getting laid gets better. Every day a woma…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:51 PM
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tinder, facebook, smarthphones, free the nipple etc. This shit has existed since before I was a teenager -- go to youtube and type in VHS dating -- and yes, people did this all the time. There used to be entire "magazines" of singles submitting photos and you could call them up and talk to them on a "chat line". Hell, we had chat lines where you'd call a phone number and there'd be 5 other people shooting game at each other, lol. how do they get ahold of you? do they send their astral projection…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:47 PM
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women are just as horny as men are and they lack inhibition perhaps even more than guys. playing around is counterproductive. This proves to me you don't know what you're talking about. Women don't have sex for the orgasm -- that's a masculine goal. Women have sex as a weapon. If you think a girl cares about orgasms, you haven't gotten to the point where you understand why a girl has sex. You'll get there in time.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:42 PM
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Nothing has changed in the last 10 years. NOTHING. I don't date women anywhere near my age because they're not interesting. I've dated women in their early 20s and they are no different than women in their early 20s 10 years ago, 20 years ago. AWALT is AWALT. I don't text women. Ever. I don't initiate over text, ever. If they want to see me, or they're thinking about me, they get ahold of me and I invite them over. women can still be attractive in their 40s Name one. And before you do, google he…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:41 PM
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Social circles aren't for serious conversations. Act ignorant of idiocy. "Are you a feminist?" // "I guess I am, sure, why not. Let's fuck."
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:33 PM
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I don't text women and I don't chase women, ever. If they want to see me, they let me know. If they're being unclear, I call them out on it and tell them to shit or get off the pot. I truly do not give a fuck, and never ONCE in my 31 years of fucking have I had to chase a woman. Ever. So what if 50 idiots are texting her? They're boring. They have no social proof. They're unconfident louts with no charisma. If she isn't interested in me, who cares? She's already 10 breathes closer to The Wall.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:32 PM
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Lol. I fuck my LTR the way I want to have sex; I don't really care about anything else. I don't fuck her like I just got out of jail thinking "oh if I give an orgasm I will win." Never cared about a woman's orgasm. Wish I was a 3 pump chump, to be honest. My LTR fucks me like I just walked off from taking a photo with a winning lottery ticket because she knows if she doesn't fuck me that way, her friends and coworkers and neighbors will. Sex is her weapon, not mine. I don't give a shit about her…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/18 03:27 PM
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lol you know I was being sarcastic, although I am thankful for dopes like this guy in your post.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:08 PM
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Wrong -- you WANT other guys to be that guy so that someone can be the emotional tampon for your plates so you don't have to.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:00 PM
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Well, I post on red pill forums publicly under my real name, and have for almost 30 years of posting on men's forums. Women I date, plate, worked with, meet randomly google me and come across this shit and all of them will ask me about it point blank. I always use the bra and makeup response, always. "Red pill is for men what make-up is for women: tools we can use to put our best selves forward." Never had a single person call me out on it. Most of my LTRs used the same line to their family and …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:41 PM
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It's a great book. "That's the book that dad used to meet mom and I'm interested because they're still an amazing married couple." If she pushes, say "hey, this stuff is like makeup and push-up bras for men. Don't tell me you wear makeup or push-up bras."
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:11 PM
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TRP as an idea has been around since the 1930s -- psychotherapist Al Ellis used to do PUA in the Bronx back then. Ellis wrote "The art of erotic seduction" back in the 1960s. That book is in PDF form if you rabbit hole enough. Interesting to read and see it's all the same shit from 80 years ago, lol. The big movement really kicked off with Eric Weber in 1970 when he released "How to pick up girls". Read that, same shit as today. The first "TRP" type community I found was on Compuserve in 1987 --…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 01:58 PM
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I've been involved with TRP style communities online since 1987. Over 30 years. Freakish actually. FIRE since 2005. I actually don't do fatFIRE but more leanFIRE but people think I do fatFIRE because I own multiple homes, a string of Rolex watches and 2 sailboats in the Caribbean. I do those frugal-style, though -- I can't afford cable TV or broadband at home, lol.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 12:50 PM
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Because you don't reach out to women just 30 days of no contact after you fucked yourself by being an emo fgt. You wait it out, if they hit you up in a year or two, it means they're DTF.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:42 PM
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She wasn't an ex if it only lasted 3 months. 3 months is closer to a one night stand than an actual relationship. Stop texting her. Stop. You can not be friends. You can not win her back unless you actually GFTOW but it's too late, you didn't do that. It's over.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:37 PM
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Wow I am really triggered. Why are these shitlords only allowing cisgenders into the Scouts? What about the genderless? What about pangendereds and the Hijras and Ambonecs and Ceterofluid people? This is sickening, we need the Heliogender Scouts, too.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 09:46 PM
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This is a really great question and this is the kind of stuff I love seeing here. I can't say much about 2008 because I was so transitionary that year that I really missed out on the SMP moreso than other years. Recessions are a great time to acquire more assets, so I was busy doing that, lol.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:42 PM
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You still haven't brought up one single red pill perspective. What do YOU want to do with your future.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:26 PM
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I'm active on both married red pill subs. I am not against marriage under the right conditions and with the right goals and mindset. Why do you want to get married specifically? Religion? Mother annoying you?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:16 PM
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There is nothing in red pill theory saying not to get married. Or not to have kids.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:10 PM
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lol banned
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:02 PM
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Go to a man's tailor and ask. They'll show you the problems. The fit of your clothes is affected by what you do. For example, I sail so I want shirtsleeves that let my arms go over my head easily. If you're a runner, you need the chest and back to have different sew patterns (like darts for women).
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 06:15 PM
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A kid I mentored that I met on here answered it once by grabbing some of his old dice from his dungeons and dragons days and rolling them and say "319" to her. Lol.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:22 PM
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Go back to Hyderabad, Patel.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 03:37 PM
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No sure what /u/fnordsnord would say but I never talk to women about sex. I see no point in the discussion. Women talk too much as it is, and the more they talk, the faster I have to red flag them. I don't want conversation with women. I'm not a woman.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:18 PM
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Don't move for a woman -- move to the city that offers you the most potential to invest the most money for the next 10 years. There is no chance that the city she lives in is that city.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:06 PM
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Share a hobby and offer them value to know who you are. I sail, so I meet a lot of CEOs at the marina. They know me not because I have the smallest boat there but because I have a kick ass dedication to getting out as early as possible. I rent a product I owe (watches) to Hollywood productions and hand-deliver it, so quite a few actors that have used this product I rent know me by name -- I've even been invited to wrap parties by them, invited to other sets, etc. By offering value to others, the…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:14 PM
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This isn't beta -- this is full on omega shit. Stop it.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:59 PM
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There's no "we" here. Her alpha cock dumped her ass and she immediately looked to her old standby emotional tampon. Just be clear: "when you get to town, hit me up" and then stop replying to her. If she reinitiates in the future, ask "u in town?" and if she says no, don't reply at all.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:58 PM
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Texting is for logistics only, dipshit. Stop it. If she texts you say "you in town?" and she said "well no" then reply "text me when you get in" and fade her. Now take your god damned phone and smack yourself in the face with it 3 times.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:56 PM
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Do you want me to beat you with your phone or will you do it yourself? Texting is for logistics only.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:54 PM
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Talking nonsense to your face or your cell phone screen?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:53 PM
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"I've been with more women than you have." I never really had this question asked of me often, not even 3 decades ago in high school, because women knew I was desirable. On rare occasion they did ask I would be cocky and change subjects. "Zero, today." or "Ask me tomorrow, the number might change tonight."
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:50 PM
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One ass that makes you howl is still oneitis. GFTOW.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:49 PM
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Of course not. Women love treasure seeking but they hate finding the treasure.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:47 PM
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Is this the same person you just wrote about who went on the travel gang bang? Your post history tells me you are fantasizing and daydreaming about TRP but have not applied it. Ever. Stop shitposting. Stop. Your questions are meaningless and obvious lies based on bullshit. Read the sidebar and start applying it.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:42 AM
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Yeah I never show off another man's talents. That's weird to me that other guys do. Do you have a guitar? Do you know her approximate age? If so, strum and sing the songs from the popular Disney movie that came out when she was 12-13. Instant wet panties. For you, not some make-up wearing fgt celeb musician autotuned rapper.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:39 AM
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Yeah it's important to remember that sex is a game for women, so if you game it, their hamsters blow out. Almost no guy does this. Being unique in bed has massive benefits.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:29 AM
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It doesn't matter what it's about. I am not conversing to share information; I'm conversing to build a connection. It's not about being equals or having anything in common, it's about people remembering me. Ever witness a politician stumping?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:27 AM
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That's too bad. Watching youtube for an hour a day is more like daydreaming. Don't do that. Watch youtube for 30 minutes one day a week, then spend 6.5 hours outside applying it for the rest of the week.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:25 AM
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JFC you single mom raised you and you demand more from her? Shitty dude. Apologize to her. I would. I'm not saying she's not there for you but seriously, don't be a shit to your mom unless she's physically abusing you or stealing your credit. Next, what are your distractions with your free time, meaning what do you absorb yourself into when you aren't making money?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:58 PM
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It varies but it has to be something that might get a laugh or smile out of them. Opening lines don't matter -- your confidence and charisma and bod language matters. I could walk up to someone working the Target checkout and say "do I have a huge booger snot somewhere on my face?" and they'd laugh. Or I'd say "Do I look presentable to my mom because I'm going to see her in 15 minutes and she still scares the shit out of me" and they'd laugh. Don't matter what you say, matters how you say it and…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:11 PM
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It means you don't have the look 10/10 if everyone else beneath you looks 1/10. The bum with a pair of matching shoes is the best dressed in the alley.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 08:39 PM
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Just remember that her goals generally oppose your goals, her needs are nowhere close to your needs. You want pretty, she wants confident. You want a follower, she wants a leader. You want facts, she wants mystery. You want to get to the finish line, she wants to hear there is a finish line but never wants to get there.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:32 PM
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Not the weather. Not shit external to you. Has to be something fast enough that you can break off and she'll still barely remember you next time. Maybe you're both wearing Converse kicks, or maybe you're both wearing a pink shirt. You practice talking to EVERYONE so that you become a natural at story-making. You can use the same opener over and over, too. All you need to do is become recognized again in the future, but not intimately. Just a "oh I've met this customer/guy before" thing. People a…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:18 PM
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Women have a goal to shit test men to prove they're not high SMV. That's it. When they actually meet a high SMV guy, their hamsters go insane for them. It's great.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:08 PM
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Their place, my place, my neighbor's place, the beach, who cares. It's not an issue. Your game should be solid anywhere, at any time.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:08 PM
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Open everyone with "Hey, I think we met before" or "That thing you just did with the quarters and your knuckles, that was cool, can I see that again?" or shit like that. Take what they're doing and amplify it and get to know them. If they're a 93 year old obese grandma, get to know her, too.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:07 PM
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Yeah just remember that "winning" at sex or relationships has nothing to do with challenging another guy. It's totally different when you're trying to win with women -- they do not have the same goals you do.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:02 PM
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Lol nice try, numb nuts. If you think you're too cool for school, cross the line I drew in the sand in my previous comment. You won't though, because like everything on reddit, you aren't who you say you are but you just met a guy who is. And you're too weak to defend your angle. But keep trying. Maybe some day someone will believe you. lolololol.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:01 PM
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I've met women at the gym. I like meeting women at Whole Foods at 9am on a Saturday since they're not likely hungover. Or at the farmer's market Sunday morning early. Or paddleboarding at the lagoon. Or at coed beach volleyball. I host some really fun BBQs that are alcohol-free. Some folks show up and are bored, others stick around because it's fun -- and a lot of cute girls pass the word around that it isn't a drunk fratboy party.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:00 PM
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There's no winning in sex. The average neckbeard posting fake field reports here have "sex god method" makes you think that women have sex to reach an orgasm. Ignore that bullshit. Take it from a guy who has been having sex for over 31 years: women sleep with you as a side effect to everything else you're about. They don't fuck you for the orgasm or the sex, they fuck you because they like your attitude, your confidence, your charm -- and if they don't fuck you, all their friends will. Women use…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:58 PM
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I don't need my ego pumped. Sex is about having fun, not just about orgasm. I never cared about a woman's orgasm, why always focus on my own? I've never once had anger towards women. Ever. I love women -- and I find that some of them like the dominance of a man in bed who refuses to orgasm. It's fun for me, and they love the challenge so they come back for more and more. Don't call me son. I'm 44. I've been on red pill type forums since 1987 -- and I've always posted on them like I do here under…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:56 PM
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The first time I had sex in my early teen years, I couldn't orgasm at all. The (older teen) gal was shocked. The second time we banged I finishd in -15 seconds, haha. It's all in your head. Sex should be fun, not about reaching the goal.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:54 PM
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Nah, you can start doing that once you're bored. If you have 10 plates already, what's wrong with playing head games with the hottest one? It's fun and a good use of time, really.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:44 PM
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Nothing makes an HB9 come back over and over and over again than a guy who doesn't orgasm with her. It's almost fun to do on purpose, you should try it. If you get to the point you can bang an HB9 for an hour or two and not get off, she will absolutely flip her hamster shit all over the place and blame herself and return many nights to try to fix it. It's so much fun I have done it for months on end with some egotistical gals. "I dunno babe, never happened before" lolololol.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:34 PM
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Being broke only means something if it is a reason you aren't positive, cocky and outcome independent. It has no effect on women -- your attitude about money does, though. Guys who cry "I am so poor and so sad" will not do well with women. At one point in my life, I was so poor I had no electricity at home -- no fridge, no hot water, no lights, no A/C. I actually dated more successfully that summer than at any time before or since. 6 months of no electricity because I was that poor, eating sardi…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 06:26 PM
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Girl for one month = plate, as long as you're seeing other girls, too. She's not a girlfriend, so she is welcome to see other dudes. You should be seeing other women and dropping the low quality ones.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:45 PM
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If you are confident in yourself, it will show to others. Some guys get a haircut and all of a sudden 100 HB10 virgins pop up out of nowhere already naked. They want to shitpost and say "get a good haircut, it makes a difference" but the real difference is that he felt more confident for whatever reason and the haircut wasn't even seen by the gang of new HBs chasing him. I used to tell guys if they wanted to score tonight to go out and get their car washed before heading out. Why? A man with a f…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:41 PM
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I would have posted in the correct sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 04:24 PM
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Yet another "looks > game" shit post here. The alpha guy isn't perceived that way by women because of his looks on a hotornot scale. Your shit posts are fucking boring and tired. Stop it. Learn Game and stop worrying about your muscle, height or facial structure for now. Game > everything else you can change It's funny that one of the "hottest" actors in Hollywood is not muscular, not handsome, has a VERY assymetrical face that most people would say is "boyish" and "cute" at best, and women soak…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:21 PM
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Yeah, I don't dress to look sexy, I dress because I want clothes that are comfortable, fit well, hold up to my active lifestyle and also match my active lifestyle. I can go from the backyard to the sailboat deck to a last minute weekend flight to Europe and the clothes better fucking work for me in all cases.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 03:31 PM
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Three things to note: Style/fashion doesn't matter if your clothes are tailored/altered to fit you properly. Go buy the absolutely WORST looking shirt and pants from Goodwill/SalVal and take it to an oriental dry cleaner and ask them to alter it to fit you perfectly. You will look hotter and more fit than in your $500 Armani clothes that don't fit perfectly. The best looking clothes or jewelry on a man is a cute gal clinging to him afraid to lose him The best fashion advice I ever received in my…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 03:11 PM
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Not long enough to vet an LTR. Nowhere close. How many other women are you actively dating/plating at the moment? Active meaning sleeping with.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:04 PM
2

AUALT -- all universes are like that.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:41 PM
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How long have you been seeing her, exactly?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:35 PM
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You be cool to her and treat her like the retarded cousin at family dinner. Be cool to everyone. When you're in a crowd, you make everyone feel special and not special both, lol.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:39 PM
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Don't reply to texts that aren't about what your plans are. An apology is never made over a text, so ignore that useless text. Reply when she's talking about you, or what she's going to do with you, or stuff like that -- logistics only. Apologies aren't logistics.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:17 PM
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Tap the 3 dots at the top right of your mobile screen and see "view sidebar". Then read it all. One of the rules is to first start posting in the own your shit thread before posting a question to AskMRP before posting your story to MarriedRedPill. You are not going to get a single person here to hold your hand. Your wife is nagging you because you're a shitty leader. You don't take care of yourself, you don't take care of your responsibilities, and you're obviously not taking care of her by doin…
/r/askMRP02/05/18 12:15 PM
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Read the sidebar before shitposting.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 12:04 PM
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Just don't shitpost over at AskMRP before reading the sidebar there.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/18 12:03 PM
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This is truly an autistic shitpost.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:55 AM
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She's reflecting your poor leadership. Sounds like someone doesn't own his shit. Sidebar Searchbar: nagging Own your shit
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/18 11:49 AM
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One of the best things a guy of any age can do is get a job in fast food. I would do it again in a heartbeat. You are going to get the chance to "be friendly" with everyone -- the kind of friendly that is actually flirty but you're going to work on confidence everywhere. Be the guy that opens a random employee first every day, doesn't matter the gender. Be that guy. You walk in a room and you know someone so you open them and be the guy that others look up to even if you're the french fry guy. D…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:49 AM
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RedPillBot says: OI GFTOW
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:46 AM
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"If I was a woman" -- you're not a woman. You're a guy who seeks beauty, so you are confused about what women want.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:41 AM
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It's not really too late but if you wait until age 23, you've already lost out on close to $350,000 in net worth by age 40. It's not a lot, but that's the amount you'd have MORE if you started off early, properly. Google: three fund portfolio and three fund portfolio taxable. Read for 14 days. Come back and ask questions. 3FP is more important than video games, beer outings, new clothes, new wireless headphones, new iPhone, new car, new sneakers, new Avengers movie, new football jersey, new 420 …
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:45 PM
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I've lost my endorsement here more than anyone else, haha.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:40 PM
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Most jobs are just about pushing paperwork and dancing around bureacratic stupidity. Yes, and boys voluntarily put themselves in that position without questioning the premises. Red Pill is amoral: we don't give a fuck about the bottom 80% of society and it isn't our job to give a fuck about them until such time that we ourselves are individually successful and can do mentorship for some young men. I'm still not convinced that depression is an illusion that you can burst through through sheer wil…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:40 PM
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I always plan my lifts but I have options and contingencies for that. That way, any one of my plans for day happen, my progress is furthered, no harm, no foul. The guy with no options for a positive gym day or a positive reaction from gaming the wife is the guy who will sulk and join the cult of "anxiety and depression" folks. Being outcome dependent on anything is not a good position. Having options means not being tied to one result.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 09:08 PM
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Most posts don't even need an entire read once you point out the many TRP errors to beginwith.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:06 PM
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Good to hear -- it's a common error that guys make. If you keep a gal too long for your own good, she might hate you for it. It's weird but if you're happy, she's happy; if you're starting to get unhappy, you need to pivot out of that quickly or she will judge you for it.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:52 PM
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How many girls are you asking out for that week, total?
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:45 PM
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What would you tell someone who had too much love and care from his mother, an okay father (like described in the Lost Boys article from Illimitable Man) and overall a not so difficult chidlhood except for the introversion, quietness and difficulties to just fucking enjoy life ? I would tell him to engage himself in masculine wisdom on a limited basis according to how much he applies himself to said wisdom. I don't suggest "reading" for guys who are supposed "lost boy victims" to poor parenting,…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:40 PM
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Let's review this black pill PUA cockamamie bullshit shitpost: 5'8" -- height has nothing to do with SMV but maybe 1-2%. Small frame -- physique has little to do with SMV but maybe 1-2%. Skinny - same issue Lack of being handsome -- beauty is part of feminine SMV not masculine SMV Not rich -- money is not part of masculine SMV This "6/10 beta" has Game, and Game is 50% of male SMV but 0% of female SMV. You want your sister to be with a bitch, not a dude. Can't wait for the day that mods ban thes…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 07:56 PM
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Kurt Cobain? The guy who made millions off of selling pop music to millions of angsty teenagers? Do you even know who did PR for him? I don't believe he offed himself. I do believe he learned young how to play emo for pity and attention, though. His upbringing is just more of the same sad poor me story: "I was ignored, I needed to find a way to get attention from others." Sidenote: it's why I tell guys who have never gotten any attention to start a band even if you suck at it. Nirvana's music su…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 07:55 PM
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The best way for me to describe this guy is that he's an attention whore dramatic who decided to allow bias into his life from where his family's wealth comes from. I don't play well with "poor me" displays of attention whoring in males. Not at all. There is one major honest point to make though: some men are so beyond help that there's no point in attempting it. Life accepts that 20% of men are destined for nothing but the early grave so I don't try to help them. There are moments in social his…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 07:26 PM
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It applies to all relationships and all goals. A man is "outcome independent" which means he's not laser focused on just one goal but many contingencies. It's not about demanding your way, it's about having options if things don't go just the Plan A way. You don't GAF because you have options, in every relationship, for where you spend your time and energy.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 06:47 PM
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You can prove diabetes in a corpse; you can't prove depression in a corpse. Szasz's perspective on depression doesn't go as far as mine does because I have seen many many many men over the past 20+ years climb out of the cult of psychology and finally accept that they had succumbed to serious blue pill "poor me" groupthink. It's no different than all of the men I know who accepted their failure in paying attention to politics, lol. Depression is as much a trait of women as politics is. It's not …
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:02 PM
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Money itself isn't negative or positive - this is not an absolute issue - it's how you use your money. I agree, but defending Zuck as if he actually alpha'd a bunch of VC firms for the money is way off target. It's easy to assume he dove into VC with his own confidence but if you're familiar with his childhood home network, you'll see this is far from the truth. His dad did bail him out financially, and his upbringing led him to already know a lot of close contacts in the VC community. Chasing m…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:53 PM
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The entitled cunts still hated me at the end because I refused to keep doing it when they didn't appreciate it or value me for it. I'd consider reflecting on this a bit more to see if you're exiting relationships too late. It might be a reflection on you getting too comfortable with lowering your standards of needs being met. It might also not be, but I do see it way too often.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 05:47 PM
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You don't think depression exists as a mental illness ? Of course not. It's not a mental illness and it's not a disease. See Thomas Szasz (R.I.P.) on the topic -- he was by far the most red pill psychiatrist in human history. He used to shit on SJWs before people ever heard the term -- and "depression" is the blue pill attempt to tell folks they are troubled and "need help" and "need support" and "need medication". Depression, anxiety, attention deficit, lack of motivation, lack of energy = thes…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 05:41 PM
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I don't really aim to stay in contact with anyone I'm not actively in a relationship with -- same with ex-business partners or ex-surfing buddies. Once the relationship is over, I'm not depressed or angry over it. It's just over, but I'll definitely tell folks to stay in touch and look me up if they're nearby. Exes will send birthday cards and Christmas cards sometimes for years. They'll invite me for coffee if they're in my town, etc. When a relationship is over, it's not like I'm shitting on t…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 05:18 PM
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I've done my share of VC in the past and have met a lot of very very wealthy men. Only about 3% of mega-wealthy men are natural alphas, just like in the general society percentages. For you to say "next" shows that you understand little to nothing about how these issues work. I've very publicly invested in many startups -- just not tech Bay Area bullshit. You picked 3 alpha VCs but you forgout about the biggest blue pill company in the bay area: Kleiner Perkins Caufield & Byers Can you name ONE …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:01 PM
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Yep, but "do better" means he gives a fuck about outcome. TRP = Outcome Independence
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:58 PM
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It's no responsibility of any man to leave a woman in a better condition than he found her. It isn't a responsibility. I never said that. A man's time spent is an investment for the future. Either a man is producing or he's consuming. Consumption is a feminine trait, so a man who consumes women is doing a feminine behavior (women consume men). A man who invests in his future knows that every relationship he has, even one night stands are positive investments into his future or negative consumpti…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:57 PM
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You work out for your own reasons, not for women. Fat guys with Game do better than fit guys with no Game. The gym has nothing to do with women. It has everything to do with you sticking to your goals for your own self validation.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:18 PM
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I stand by what i said.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:18 PM
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lol ok then. tagged you so i won't try to offer help again in the future. carry on
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:17 PM
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Your comment is a shit post on top of your original shit post. You don't get low body fat for women. Ever. You don't make money for women. Ever. Your parents coddle you, it's no wonder you're confused about TRP. TRP has nothing to do with women at all. Zero. Women are a side effect for TRP. You have no future because you have no sense of self. Your entire post and comments are about other people, nothing about you. You are basically nobody, so you want validation from others. Change all that.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:14 PM
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Yeah you just get hypomanic, it's cool. I have the same issue in crowds -- hypomania, not mania. You're not retarded or bipolar you just get overenergized. This isn't nervousness, per se, it's more just an aggressive "anxiety" of sorts. I'd still own it. Don't let people tell you that you're the abnormal one, make them feel abnormal, lol. Try to get THEM hypomanic as well.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:12 PM
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"The kids are worth investing in" if they actually ARE worth investing in. If they are shitty rebellious students who don't give a fuck about studying, they're not worth investing in right now. You justify the costs of both by cutting other expenses down. For example, how much did you spend on dining out and cable TV and netflix and frappuccinos last month?
/r/askMRP01/05/18 04:09 PM
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Times haven't changed in 3000 years according to the holy books of history. Women have changed in 60,000 years. If you leave a woman in a worse condition, you're a shitty leader. You're more "Alpha Sucks" than "Alpha Fucks" there.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:06 PM
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You have no reason to be worrying about what women think about your body fat. Body fat is less than 1% of total SMV to beginwith in a male. It's about 30% of SMV in a female. Why are you acting like a bitch instead of a stallion? 3FP = 3 fund portfolio, which is way the fuck more important. At 23 it's almost too late for you so maybe you should focus on body fat.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:05 PM
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Either you define success or Costco does.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:04 PM
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Own your negative traits and market to your viewers that they're positive traits. If you find yourself getting nervous, focus on the nervous response you don't like and own it. If you stutter just say "h-h-h-h-h-old on a m-m-m-m-oment, i get this damned stutter whenever i g-g-g-et nerves" and then move on. My buddy with a terrifying stutter lifts a finger to tell people to pause while he busts out a 30 second stutter and then says "fucking brain damage" and moves on like nothing happened. If you…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:01 PM
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How much money do you make from your side hustles and how old are you? How much is actually invested in your 3FP? Before we can answer your question, you have to answer these 3 questions.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:58 PM
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Go to Mexico (Q.Roo is great) for your teeth unless India is closer. Are the kids great at school to the point they're worth investing in like that? Do they actually want to go there?
/r/askMRP01/05/18 03:57 PM
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What's wrong with being nervous? Ever consider just owning it and being confident about it? Nervous doesn't mean a negative thing. BTW, do you smoke weed every week?
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:55 PM
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5 years ago I started a business with an ex and her husband that paid me out over $85,000 profit in just 14 months. 10 years ago I bought a lake yacht with an ex's husband that we owed together for 3 years. Great guy. Last year one of my ex's introduced me to a famous VC angel she now works for. I love my exes, all but maybe 2. My exes are great women, I left them better than I found them. Do you shit on women so they hate you when the relationship expires? What a waste of time.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:34 PM
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Love what you have to cultivate consideration for what you want. The more you love yourself at your worst, really love yourself, the more people will look to you for support even if they have more.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:31 PM
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What do you get paid at other gigs? If $30, then no. If $15, then yes. Pride is the enemy of success. Embarrassment is the enemy of decision. The successful enjoy pride more than those who never take a risk. The deciders are the ones who change society's views on what is embarrassing.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:29 PM
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You are close. The fact is, it's not the lack of dopamine that is the problem, it's the excess of easy dopamine that leads to dopamine insensitivity. My low reward platform addresses this, but it isn't as easy as just blaming dopamine -- there are different forms of dopamine and different interactions with other neurotransmitters. Depression and anxiety are bullshit phantoms invented by therapy cults. Stop looking at life as depression -- that's blue pill thinking. Insecurities are also blue pil…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:26 PM
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Your frame is friendly-DGAF. Remember: it is always good to see exes. Always. Because you've only gotten better, happier, more cheery, less stressed. I always ask for high-fives from random ex encounters. Lots of smiles and winks as if we share inside secrets.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 02:38 PM
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Better to make contingency plans than goals. A man who wins is a man with many options, not singular goals. If you set strict goals, it means you GAF, and it'll set you up for heartbreak. The worst goal to set is one that other people are aware of. Never share your goals or tell others what you're up to.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 01:31 PM
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She's bullshitting you. You and her other boyfriend were the only guys who dumped her ass. Women hate being single -- they only want to branch swing and you didn't give her the option. Next her. Don't go celibate, just wear a fscking condom FFC. You are not a douchebag, she took a bigger stupid risk than you.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 01:20 PM
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I'd say his status is now negatively portrayed but his social proof is still strong. There are a ton of people who want to meet him still. Women are still curious about him. Social proof just means...the masses are engaged with you. It doesn't mean you specifically have status with them, but they're engaged with you. Reading the Wiki on social proof isn't too bad -- it's weak and somewhat blue pill but honestly the stuff about 'ghost followers' and 'canned laughter' as well as the muzafer sharif…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:44 PM
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This is edging on NAWALT so I'll give you a warning from a much older guy -- all women are like that. Your problem is that your texts have no value. You're probably just a boring guy. It has nothing to do with being in high school. What are you doing to add value to your reputation? Are you active in anything that others want to be a part of?
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:42 PM
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That's all it takes: Game = Confidence + Charisma. Confidence = you have balls Charisma = you don't act "creepy"
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 12:13 PM
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That's why I post reminders here -- newbies get so disheartened when some moron shitposts that "looks are everything!!!!!! OMG GET PLASTIC SURGERY AND PENIS ENLARGEMENT SURGERY!!!" Newbies need to know that's not the case. Not at all.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 12:06 PM
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Men get fucked over because we are competitive and we want to hold down other men. I love feminism. I love it because it was created by powerful men to lock down weak men. It has nothing to do with women and today it still has nothing to do with women. The school system is designed to molest young minds into commercialism and FOMO. "If you don't get good grades you won't get into Harvard and become President!" It's all about rape. No education should be so scheduled that 30 people are "learning"…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:02 PM
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Ever take a woman to a bar? Are you showing off your talents or another man's? Ever take someone to a restaurant? Are you showing off your talents or another man's? Ever go to a concert? Showing off whose talents?
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:00 PM
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Hmm, let me ask a question and see if it clicks or not with you. If it doesn't click, let me know. Do you think Harvey Weinstein, today, has social proof or social status or both or neither?
/r/askTRP01/05/18 11:59 AM
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Previous mods banned me a lot for shitting on the PUA direction they were taking. "Sex is everything".
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 11:57 AM
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Yep, a man SHOULD maximize his looks, for certain. But it shouldn't be the thing he's most worried about, by any means.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 11:55 AM
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Yeah, Zuckerberg, so alpha. Next.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 11:50 AM
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The problem here is you're listening to her words instead of only paying attention to her actions. Don't respond to her on snap; text is for logistics only.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 09:39 PM
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Looks are what make WOMEN attractive. Looks are cosmetic in nature. Women are cosmetic. Women are jewelry and toys. Looks are not TRP. Wealth are what make beta bucks attractive. A woman should never have access to a man's wealth -- she's not eating at the dinner table, she gets crumbs that fall over. Wealth is not TRP. Social Status is not TRP either but it hints at social proof. Social proof IS TRP but social status isn't what matters. You can be a drug lord and be hated by society but the soc…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 08:35 PM
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lol. oneitis. read the sidebar, first link in the FAQ section.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:20 PM
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Never heard it but I support it. Always always always leave a plate better than you found her. She will return again.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:17 PM
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Don't be an artist, be someone producing art for consumption. That doesn't need talent, it needs PR.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:17 PM
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Don't market what another man produces; produce your own shit to market to apes. When I used to own a print shop that focused on comicon artists (we sold their comic book designs on t-shirts and posters and shit) I would often deliver orders to comicon. The artists looked like fat omegas but they cleaned up house with the cosplay models. Make your own art and wear it. Sell it to apes at comicon.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 06:05 PM
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Nobody trained you without your explicit approval in advance. You control what enters your brain -- stop letting political chaos enter it. A man who can't control his consumption can't control his future. Women consume; men produce.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:48 PM
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They're always going to hamster a reason why it's still okay to bang you. "We haven't had the conversation about being exclusive yet." Etc. This is why I love the hamster, why I love hypergamy.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:45 PM
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Men aren't made to love, men are made to conquer. If you're driven by love you've had your entire hormonal nature flipped upside down.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:44 PM
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Your reply is an entire post. Lol, it's true. But I do have a lot of followers here who read some of my comments and it's important to me to try to help them understand why I reply to things. How do young men overcome learned helplessness? By disconnecting from the social marketing that men are helpless. Men are hormonally the most powerful creatures on earth. Even low value omega men still have room to improve their valuable nature. What does it mean to provide value with no expectation of rewa…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:42 PM
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Of course it's gay shit. Why would you want to sell something to guys? I got one of the neighborhood kids a job at Sephora for Christmas because he wanted to buy his first condo by age 21 and was falling short on his savings goals. He actually quit his regular job a month ago because they're training him to be a fscking stylist. There are ZERO men stylists in his district and they see him as valuable. His lifetime notches tripled in 6 months and he said it's like stealing candy from a baby now. …
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:25 PM
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Who cares if you did it, blame them for not being more involved, lol. Flip the script. Women forget drama in 6 days when new drama comes up.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:05 PM
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These young men have it easier than I do. The amount of shit a young dude can do today to build value for others is staggering compared to when I was 18 or 25. A good young pal of mine tears it up by offering free paddleboard yoga classes in the pond every weekend in summer. It's ALL young women. He puts up pretty yoga flyers in the coffee houses' "community wall" and lets people register on some website forum and show up. It's stunning to me. Costs him nothing, he meets tons of new cute gals ev…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:04 PM
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Yeah I'd laugh it off. "You now how I get when you pour so much liquor in me. You must have done it on purpose! Can't wait for next week's party, maybe I'll wear my underwear on my head."
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:57 PM
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You lost frame to alcohol. There's no fixing this with apologies. I'd laugh it off as a drunken play. Blame them for letting you get so drunk. Yeah, it's almost gaslighting but honestly you can't fix alcoholism with apologies.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:55 PM
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Good looks + game > ugly looks + game This was not the topic of the discussion or the title of this shitpost thread. This thread was about "focus on looks" and the shitpost actually says to ignore game. Re-read the OP's shitpost again. The OP posted: Firstly I will say my game is below average followed with: I have no game as I said. and then: I put no effort into game or kino finishing with: Don't think game is everything The OP is a liar and people are defending his game poverty thinking that …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:54 PM
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Yeah I agree to a point with this, but I see too many losers at the gym thinking that women will love them once they build muscle. It shocks me at how many guys over at the bodybuilder sub are incels but smoking ripped.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:44 PM
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I'm sure there's a minimum threshold, yes. But in all honesty, that threshold is hard to pin down in a guy because regardless of his looks at 15 or 25 or 35, he's improving in every other area and a man's looks tend to improve with time as he improves the masculine aspects of his character.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:39 PM
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I called you a coward because you're acting like a tough guy in a room but nobody can vet you. They can vet me. If you think I am insecure, look at who is posting publicly without hiding himself and look who is literally a coward that nobody can vet. Nobody can look you up and see you stand by what you write. You're fantasizing in your words here. Nobody can back it up because it's bullshit pure and simple. 100% of guys who shitpost like OP did about "looks matter" and "get hotter" are ugly in r…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:35 PM
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I don't post here because of past disagreements with past mods and my propensity to getting banned, lol. I strictly comment.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:28 PM
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Acting like a child? Someone has to put their foot down on the wreckage that reddit's TRP has turned into over the last 3 years. It's really disheartening to new guys coming to read all of these shitposts on things they can't easily change -- and more disheartening when they do invest all that time to change things and nothing happens to their dating life at all. OP is shitposting. It's a lie. When I was a kid we had "Penthouse Forums" where losers like OP would post fake FRs. Look at OP's comme…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:25 PM
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You meet women doing the things you love doing -- the things that don't label you as some low quality grunt consumer of another man's profitable product. I meet women at Whole Foods at 9am on a Saturday -- or at the farmer's market at 10am on a Sunday. Chances are they weren't getting shitfaced the night before. I met women paddleboarding dawn patrol (or if I'm blessed with location, surfing dawn patrol). I meet tons of cute women doing BG gigs for shit pay -- but unlimited networking potential.…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:22 PM
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You can try to out alpha me but the fact remains: I post on TRP forums under my real name while you hide behind your cowardice. I've been posting on TRP type forums since the 1980s -- under my real name, always. Why? Because I am not ashamed or afraid of the truth. A coward is afraid of the judgment of others because that coward does not have faith in reality. TRP is for men like makeup alley is for women. TRP is amoral, it isn't about trying to fix something you can't fix, it's about working on…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:10 PM
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Children coming here with no father figure need to be treated like children.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:05 PM
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Because I knew early on that Game just means "confidence and charisma" and that's it. Yes, women will look at the hottest tallest most fit guy in the room first but 40 girls can't get 1 guy. The most he can handle is 4 women at once. So I have 36 women who are going to be flocking to the guy who is the most charismatic and confident. If you take no shit, there will be no shit to give you. If you worry about your looks or height or hair pattern, you're worrying about the wrong thing. Men who focu…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:55 PM
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Of course my tone is necessary, the shitfest of "looks mean everything" has cluttered this sub for too long.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:50 PM
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I'm an ugly dude. An ugly old dude. An ugly old biracial dude missing teeth and with nasty moles on my face. I've also plated and dated some of the most beautiful women imaginable -- far and away hotter and more laid back than ANY of my tall handsome friends with BB bodies. Consistently and constantly throughout my dating life. I've been dating and plating for 31 years and I consistently have hotter less dramatic women than all of my hot guy friends combined. Because my Game is 15/10, easily. My…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:43 PM
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TRP doesn't define how women should act -- TRP is amoral. TRP defines how a man should act depending on what his goals are for his own future. There is no set rule for even that. I don't go to bars because I don't typically drink. I think guys who get drunk are losers and I love them because I ran businesses that sold to bars and alcohol distillers. I still plated women -- young, healthy, fit, active women who didn't go to bars to get drunk, either.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:25 PM
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fuck of with that noise. you must be a fat fucking loser to think that -- fat fucking losers think that if only they were more handsome or taller or more fit, they'd get laid. Fat bald DYEL acne-faced guys with game will score more than a tall handsome chiseled body guy with zero game. It's too bad TRP on Reddit is full of PUA autistic retards like you.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:08 PM
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Should be said that some plates will break temporarily when you disclose that you're the sunshine and not a cold depressing dose of reality -- but many of them will return after they experience that boring Joe they bounced to. I can't tell you how many plates re-engage months or years later when they miss that warm glow of a guy who doesn't give a fuck and doesn't get depressed or emotional over anything. It's sometimes relentless. I hate April because I am guaranteed to get a bunch of "heyyyy" …
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:07 PM
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Wow, so you deny the existence of Islamism? Stop being a fucking autistic. Seriously. I could move to the most conservative Islamic country in the world and find HB8 plates and make a million selling gold leaf Korans to the masses. Every generation there's a new bogeyman for the moron autists to freak out over. Stop worrying about the other guys, focus on your own shitty depressing loser life and future.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:03 PM
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This has happened to me so many times that it's just the nature of the beast. I've always found that brutal honesty works the best, because it's the truth and it acclimates the plate to your DGAF lifestyle. But the brutal honesty is only relevant if you hold "plate frame" and not "blue pill jealousy frame". If you're jealous, she's not just a plate. The basic foundation here is what defines the relationship: you guys are having fun away from reality, but when reality creeps in, it puts a pause o…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:55 PM
4

A&A
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:42 PM
2

This entire post tells me that you want to be a follower, not a leader. The news on religion is designed to keep you afraid and down. In every country in the world, including the piss poor ones, there are opportunities for men to excel and profit and build wealth. You want to focus on what the media sells you. What a fucking chump.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:40 PM
5

Don't confuse the autism of Reddit's flavor of TRP with TRP in general. There are no "barbarians at the gate" and there are no enemies of masculine freedom in the world. Turn off your fucking TV set.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:03 PM
30

Tinder dates aren't real life. Game is vastly superior to looks and physique in real life. If your game is strong, you will meet and date and plate women everywhere -- the cute Target checkout gal, the cute barista, the cute waitress, the cute gal waiting for the train, the cute gal at the gym. Game > Looks
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 01:30 PM
11

The woman's mind path isn't that tricky: She sends you a text, you ignore it. She first things you're butthurt for maybe a few hours but then she realizes you didn't reply yet. You waited 2 days, solid. She writes back and wants to act like it was nothing, she was just being polite (lol) You don't respond to this again -- she didn't engage you, no need to engage her She thinks you're butthurt but she's the hottest thing ever in her mind so she knows you'll reply Eventually you won't reply so she…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:01 PM
4

There was a really good thread on the main TRP sub within the past week, let me see if I can find it.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:23 PM
7

It doesn't matter what they are, the only thing that matters is they are not good for anything but ONS or plating. Understand that human genetics accounts for two genders whose sole purpose is to procreate with the opposite gender. Any variance from this genetic reality is a sign of a damaged brain. It's not politically correct to say this but if you read the actual science on gender and sexuality, you will see how big of a red flag bisexuality is for anything but ONS or plating -- I wouldn't pl…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:05 AM
3

As /u/SirKolbath said, the answer is in that article. Yes, you have oneitis.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:00 AM
2

I put the easy directions on this one girl in the sidebar FAQ section under "there's this one girl..." Read that and apply it.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:37 AM
110

All women are aware of The Wall -- even if it's just subconscious knowledge. The Wall for men is totally different and not based on looks or body. A woman's version of the Wall is entirely looks, body and attitude. Once she loses that stuff, it's over. No amount of "self help" or structured living will fix it. So a man has every opportunity to make tomorrow better by bettering himself, while a woman has to deal with nature's wrath. When she's 16-22, she's peaked. That's it. There's no "better" t…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:27 AM
8

Not turning over your ATM accounts and social networking passwords is the the new definition of abuse. Why are you talking to women about their exes?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:25 AM
14

My two week self study on this topic starts with turning off ALL notifications on ALL apps other than the work contacts who are in your VIP group. Social media is far less distracting if you turn off notifications entirely on those apps, or better yet remove the apps and only browse their mobile browser versions.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:47 PM
1

I lived on my sailboat in the Caribbean all season long from about September until a week ago. I have absolutely no idea what consumer miscreants are fapping about but I know you're a fucking loser if it's a video game or something similar. Do tell me what it is and I can shit on it and tell you how to make money from it versus fapping about it on reddit.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:45 PM
3

Istanbul is a favorite living spot for me 2 months out of the year. I'll be there this year as well when I learn to sail the Med -- the Sea of Marmara is supposed to be a real fantastic lesson on storm handling.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:42 PM
1

I have no idea what either of those two things are. I assume they're video games. You'd have to be a total moron to know what these titles are.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:41 PM
2

Yeah I love Turkish gals but forget it, the guys are taught to be red pill types by their fathers. I once watched an American hit on some Turkish girl in a cafe and one of her neighbors comes in, sees her and hits her in the face with a broom stick or something. She got instantly wet for the guy, lol. How do you compete with that? I would probably shit my pants before smacking someone with a broomstick handle.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:35 PM
7

who cares, it's only one girl.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:21 PM
2

Why would I make a beta impression? Alpha has nothing to do with looks or money, it has everything to do with confidence and charisma.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:14 PM
3

I always befriend Chad because Chad is a provider for my financial wealth. The more I learn about Chad, the better my market returns are in 5 years. Chad doesn't know this. Chad just thinks I'm a superstar because I can talk to anyone and seem smart. Chad likes having me around because I can roll my eyes at the HB10 that's approaching him and most guys just become instant boner compasses with HB10 being direction north. Chad likes me because I'm not talking about beer and sluts but asking him ab…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:09 PM
4

Oh you said "company". I would befriend Chad every time. Chad attracts 50 women but can only handle 3 or 4 at a time, leaving me with 46. The game is in my favor when Chad is my pal.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:01 PM
-1

Stop shitting where you eat and sleep and you won't stress about Chad at work anymore.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 05:45 PM
3

Moving to a new city means you have to first settle your foundation before worrying about sex. ONS is going to be the name of the game until you get your foundation settled. How do you display value? What are your avenues for social proof?
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:55 PM
2

Let? Ask? What?
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:40 PM
1

Budget first, emergency fund second, three fund portfolio third, then spend money on beer and video games.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:39 PM
4

Oneitis. Read the sidebar. It's the first link in the FAQ section.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:39 PM
1

UK is a bit trickier since a lot of mentors are going to be US-centric. To start, your best first step is to google: UK three fund portfolio and open an account and start targeting that for the next 3 years. If you don't have a budget, that's actually #1. If you don't have an emergency fund for a minimum of 4 months expenses+debts, that's #2. #3 is to max out your 3 fund portfolio to any legal limits or employer matches. Step #4 is everything else.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:26 PM
2

Visit AskMRP and read the sidebar, it applies to you.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:23 PM
4

Yeah, and I don't even like overly curvy women. My jam was the fit slender lanky Colombian women who were considered "grotesquely ugly" by Colombian men but were exactly the kind of gal I like to overhead press and toss into the ocean and then chase after. Colombian was practically utopia for me in my 20s if you consider that the hottest women to me were considered the ugliest to Colombians. The only real problem with having any kind of public relationship with a Colombian is that they have 15 b…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:22 PM
3

God Colombian women were my trigger for a decade. Thankfully I had consulting work in Colombia but holy shit did they always pull at my heart through my crotch. I am thankful that I had a gay Colombian friend who was practically a mentor to me about Colombian women. His mother lives in Chicago and she told me the same shit: treat them like you're a gangster and they will service 100% of your wants and needs. Treat them like you're an ATM and they will eat you up, shit you out and bury you in the…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:11 PM
7

It bugs me because I feel like it was all my fault because I said let’s be exclusive. This is the only sentence that matters. Edit your post, delete every other sentence and you will have your answer. You put a relationship ahead of yourself. Are you already a self made millionaire who only works because he has a passion for his industry? Do you own multiple properties that generate a passive income? Is your stock portfolio well balanced? No? You put some temporarily relationship ahead of your o…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:03 PM
10

Wow this brings back memories from 25 years ago for me. Same shit happened. I played it better though... "I didn't kiss Tracy, Tracy kissed me. You know how she is, she would kiss a dying horse" and then I kissed her.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:26 PM
11

It's not different "this time", it's identical to every friendzone oneitis situation. IDENTICAL. Hard next her and GFTOW.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:22 PM
2

You shouldn't be on this sub at all. This post has nothing to do with TRP and you're trolling.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 04:46 PM
1

skinny bones is a myth. women don't want you because you're skinny. they're not attracted to you because you have no game. being physically attractive (fit and pretty) is important for a woman's SMV -- a woman's SMV is almost entirely her looks. for a man, it's barely 10% of your SMV (1 out of 10 points). Work on game, you won't worry about your body or looks once you're solid on game.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 04:41 PM
0

I brought girls home to my parents' homes since I was 13. Never was a problem. My parents booted me out of the house when I was 15 and I still continued to bring gals over. Who cares? I brought a gal over to my dad's house in my mid-20s mostly because my place was gutted and being rehabbed. I introduced her, went to the guest room, whatever. All good. Women don't get wet just because a guy has his own place. She gets wet because a guy is his own man and doesn't give a fuck about social norms.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:36 PM
1

A man isn't defined by his residence.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:29 PM
-1

Abusive is what all young folks say about their parents. It's blue pill if you don't do the math and see what is worth it to your future. Living on your own sounds like heaven until you do the math.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:22 PM
2

Maybe get a good book on English spelling?
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:18 PM
4

Read the sidebar one link at a time.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:43 PM
2

Why do you need to move away from your parents? That's the #1 reasons a lot of young guys don't build wealth, actually. Living at home rent, utility and food-costing free means you can accumulate wealth at such a rapid pace early that $1 million in net worth isn't that far away.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:07 PM
1

No fat, poorly dressed, poorly groomed man is going to be high SMV regardless of any confidence or charisma. lol there's a man who lives in the white house with high SMV all his life who fits the description of your last sentence. looks matter for maybe 10% of SMV only.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:03 PM
3

Why would you answer? She already told you to fuck off. At best, you might say "busy now, come over at 8pm tonight" and that's that.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:47 PM
1

You are in the wrong sub if you think you can look at a photo of a straight guy and gauge his SMV. SMV has nothing to do with a photo. You can't easily put confidence and charisma and outcome independence in a photo, can you?
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:46 PM
2

Fear Of Missing Out
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:23 PM
1

So what you're saying is she's a unicorn, right? Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:16 PM
14

You can safely have children by building your foundational wealth early and using an estate lawyer to design a nearly bulletproof financial foundation -- including trust funds for the cost of raising children. Then have children either out of wedlock or with an individual who has a much higher personal net worth and personal income than you do, so in the event of child custody concerns, you will end up getting a net income out of child support. In addition, all child care and rearing activities …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 02:38 PM
78

Switch to Lyft, the women there are less likely to stalk you I hear.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:54 PM
24

"Future" isn't in the vocabulary. FOMO is way way way too important.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:47 PM
8

She doesn't love you, she loves the way you made her feel. You shitting on her and her eating it up means she would be a horrible LTR for you. I'm assuming her dad screwed with her head, too?
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:16 PM
6

I watched someone a few years ago get full custody from some crazy bitch. When the insane one invited her family to the court to be a witness to her behavior, they actually told the judge that she was in fact crazy. It shocked the guy I know because the family always defended her as "the mother knows best" but once they got to court they couldn't back that up at all. He's likely to retain custody as the mother can't keep a dime in her fingers for more than 5 minutes, so she will never be able to…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:59 AM
11

Talk to a lawyer. Keep a VERY SECRET PRIVATE LOG of all the child care you do and everything she does that is insane. Then go for 100% child custody and sue her for child support. Get her out of your life and your child's life. You have to log this stuff.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:36 AM
6

Agree and amplify everything = "House" schtick
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:45 PM
4

At your age you should do as much work as you can at any rate people will pay you -- and build a portfolio of references so you can get paid better as your skill level AND customer base increases. Go mow lawns, clean gutters, empty out garages for lazy fat dadbods. At your age, with the right amount of drive and diligence, you can be worth $1 million before age 30 without every having a college degree or a 9-5 job. All if you start doing it hardcore today.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:32 PM
3

Why would you ever lose frame? Doesn't make sense. The only time a man loses frame is when he's overinvested in one outcome. TRP's base foundations are on 3 things: Confidence Charisma Outcome Independence Nothing else. Not "go lift" or "dress better" or "fuck HB10s" or any of that useless noise. The 3 things I listed are the default foundations of TRP and every version and variety of it. If you lost frame, you violated #3.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:17 PM
1

What game are you worrying about, exactly?
/r/askTRP26/04/18 07:11 PM
7

why are you posting on this sub? there is not a hint of TRP here at all. zero. go to the rest of reddit if you want to act like the rest of reddit. you're in the wrong place.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 07:09 PM
6

Talking with her how? Face to face?
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:59 PM
11

WTF are nudes good for? Get them to your house to get naked for you. You know they send the same nudes to 500 thirsty guys, right?
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:52 PM
1

I am not replying to you. No one is going to reply to you.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:12 PM
1

So I met this girl at a trip to Africa. I stopped reading here. Read. The. Fucking. Sidebar. It's the first FAQ link, FFS.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:09 PM
2

I love shit tests. It is possible that I thrive on them. I sometimes think I go out of my way to try to encourage more of them, which has the bullshit negative response of getting less of them. My sister shit tested me too much for an entire month so I nexted her for an entire year and then showed up again like nothing happened. She's really sweet to me now.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 02:26 PM
5

Fuck me, I honestly didn't see that part. OP if she's a unicorn, ignore my advice. I would put the title of all your assets in her name, give her your ATM pin and maybe sign your paychecks over to her. That will get her to fall in love with you, since she's a unicorn.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:57 PM
3

Shit tests happen in any relationship between a man and a woman. Your wife, your girlfriend, your plate, your mother, your daughter, your female boss. Women have to shit test. Shit tests are beautiful, in fact, because only 5% of guys know they exist and only 2% of guys can pass them.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:57 PM
4

Check out AskMRP and read the sidebar there.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:28 PM
1

Going to the gym every day is probably a poor method for working out -- be cautious with overtraining. If you're making progress, keep at it. Taking 10 days off of training will have no effect on you long term as long as you maintain proper diet. Use the 10 days off for fasted sprints to manage stubborn fat.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:01 PM
1

Bodyweight workouts are pretty useless, to be honest. If you travel for work there are a few things you can do: Use local gym guest passes. I did this for years when I traveled for work If you visit the same area repeatedly, just get a basic gym membership. Don't sign contracts if you can negotiate to not to. Explain you travel for work. Some gyms have national reach. Perform due diligence to find which gyms are in your most common areas. I never once had any problems finding gyms to work out in…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:33 PM
2

I've written about my dating style here many times before and it surprises a lot of guys. I never do first dates, I always do "coffee, right now." If she can't take 5-10 minutes of time right now to have coffee with me, hard next. I don't ask for phone numbers or snap names or anything. "Have coffee with me" is enough. If coffee goes well, I set up the plan for the next date: "Let's get together soon before work." Always sets up a good prospect for what she's about. If a woman is willing to meet…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:47 AM
8

lol bitch please
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:34 AM
3

Yep, they pretend like they dropped him. Women do that with any guy who drops them. Women are more scared to death of being single than of going out with a possible rapist. It's also why the guy who dumps the women is the guy who gets ex-sex for life, while the guy who waits til she dumps him gets nothing. Always be the one to walk away.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:30 AM
2

I am pro-having children but I don't have any yet. My dad had kids into his 50s, great grandpa into his 60s. I'm a few years away from being ready to really raise a kid. Since I don't have direct experience with kids, I can't really comment on it. The happiest kids I know are those with the happiest dads who are somewhat active, instead of unhappy dads who are always there but not active at all.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:29 AM
1

If it bugs you pick someone who doesn't do that shit. Learn from each experience and don't let relationships stress you. Relationships are for your pleasure, not to add anxiety and stress to your life.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:57 PM
5

When in doubt, A&A.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:35 PM
1

Google: Rollo Girls Night Out and read TRM article on it. Then start looking for better quality women if you are ready for a real LTR.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:32 PM
17

I paid my wife to leave, it was called a divorce settlement.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:23 PM
1

It's just performance anxiety but try the deep inhaling method. It will truly blow your mind how fast the little fella response to oxygen flowing past the blood-brain barrier.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:03 PM
5

Here's the ten step process: GFTOW through 10. see step 1
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:19 PM
1

Treat the relationship in the ways it has treated you in the recent past. Don't treat the relationship in the way you want to be treated later. If she acts like an FWB, she's an FWB tomorrow. If she acts like a girlfriend, she's a girlfriend tomorrow. All of this negative shit about her reflects poorly on you -- you sound like you've fucked up your leadership skills and haven't incorporated dread properly, so naturally she's lost interest in you. You focused on a woman's orgasm as if that's what…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:27 PM
3

As you persevere you will learn the tropes are true. It's amazing to witness, you can't actually see the forest for the trees until you're out of the woods completely, it seems.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 06:21 PM
1

Probably can find a bootleg PDF if you look for it.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 05:57 PM
6

What does any of this have to do with you doing your job, building skills and networking for a better paying job?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:44 PM
6

Teeth don't matter. If a woman asks me why I don't fix my teeth, I say "I grew up poor, I like the reminder." I'm sure some women denied me because I'm ugly. So what? Why do I fucking care? I asked out some cashier at Target once and she shunned me, she actually said "eww, no way" but 3 minutes later the gal in line behind me approaches me at my car while I was loading crap and she said "hey, I'd take you up on that coffee" -- and she was way cuter, too. So we had coffee. She told me she liked t…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:33 PM
6

If it's through text and she says no, soft next. Don't say anything. You're too busy to reply to negative shit. If she somehow reinitiates, invite her over. Be stuck on repeat: she initiates, you invite her over. She denies you, you go cold instantly. GFTOW.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:24 PM
6

I suggest getting on Amazon and buying "Healing Back Pain" by Dr. Sarno. Read it. Thank me in 2 days and then thank me every few years for the rest of your life. Lots of other people do that, lol.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 04:20 PM
2

It's normal, don't sweat it. I turned 44 this year and I can't believe how much better it's been than even 43. I am consistently shocked and surprised by it. And I mentor guys for a hobby and I still can't believe it's getting better when it really shouldn't be per what the media advertises. This morning I was hanging out with a "female hero" of mine (she's a relatively famous sailor and captain and owner of a fleet of charters). She's late 30s, hot as hell for her age and we were discussing agi…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 04:09 PM
2

I'm an explainer WISNIFG. Re-read it. Also, seemingly off topic, do you have recurring back pain or "sciatica"?
/r/askMRP25/04/18 03:58 PM
11

When you get rejected, you don't have to say anything. Smile and nod and wink at her and go do your thing without her. You're the prize, not her. The prize doesn't explain itself.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:54 PM
2

Why would you need to say anything? Is it because the old beta you had to defend every action? You own yourself. You own your shit. You don't defend your actions. Your actions define you, not your relationship. Let her judge you on your actions. You should only judge yourself on your actions, anyway.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 03:52 PM
6

Maybe you're looking for women in the wrong places. For years guys would ask me how I manage to date and plate such conservative calm drama-free women. My secret was I was meeting women at Whole Foods at 9am on a Saturday, or paddleboarding the lake at 7am on a Sunday. These are not women who were out til 3am getting drunk. I stay away from women with tattoos and alcoholism, too. More conservative has been less drama, but the sex is just as good (if not better). I don't really get pleasure out o…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:51 PM
6

No, sugar daddies don't give women money in hopes they get sex. It doesn't work that way at all. They get sex from women and sponsor after. If the sex is poor, it's a one and done deal. If there's no sex, there's no sponsorship. If the sex is awesome AND there's no dangling drama or demands, they're invited again. You're confusing paying for a burger up front and not getting a burger with getting a burger and deciding if you should pay for it or never go to that restaurant again and let the bill…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:37 PM
5

I know, tofu can never be erased from your mind's eye :(
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:35 PM
6

I'm ugly, too. So what? My face is a 3 (missing teeth, ugly moles, busted symmetry, scars, I have the Forrest Whittaker stroke eye 24/7, etc). Never once in my entire life has it affected the quality of women attracted to me. Zero. If I walk into a room, they look. Not because I'm handsome. It's because I have so much social proof it oozes out of me, AND because I have more confidence than Brad fucking Pitt. And they can sense it. I wish my face was a 1 so I could prove that looks don't mean fuc…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:34 PM
4

lol, I think you might be right about this. I may actually have ended things with a great plate because of a tofu incident. I feel like I've mentally blocked the full story though. I like to think it was because she had a gang bang with the entire Chicago Bears team in my bed when I had a terrible flu and was sleeping on the couch, but in reality I think it was that she brought over tofu. Either way, couldn't forgive her. At least if it was a gang bang I could clean the sheets. Can't get tofu ou…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:28 PM
13

God the last thing I want to do is have my GF or plate contribute anything to my goals for the day. I cook because I love healthy food and I want it to taste amazing. If she cooks and fucks it up, my day sucks. I don't want her thinking she is better than me at cooking, either. She's not. I'm going to the beach today because I want to have fun in the surf. I'll paddleboard some, maybe I'll get my tan on and hopefully the Swede tourists are playing volleyball like they were yesterday. If she join…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:20 PM
8

It's too early for you to taste victory. WAY to early. You have to realize that if you have slightly fewer bitchfaces and slightly more happy faces, you've already won. Her frame is breaking down. The shit tests are going to come at you at a rapid pace the more she realizes this. The more her friends realize it. She will start to defend the old normal and if anything, you eventually will find it hilarious as she engages you negatively to try to retake the crown. It's fucking hilarious to watch w…
/r/askMRP25/04/18 03:05 PM
3

Yeah it's so weird that guys focus on what it costs in dollar amounts. "I would never pay $1000 for a hot dog!" Yeah, what if I asked if you would pay 1/1000th of your net worth for a hot dog? What's that worth now? Most guys here ARE paying 1/1000th of their net worth for a fucking hot dog, but they're bitching about a guy who considers sex to be less useful than a great hot dog, and we're not talking about them spending 1/1000th of their net worth on sex, lol. As for mute girls, it's the close…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:58 PM
3

That's her actions. Pay attention to those, within reason. Especially pay attention to positive actions and reinforce them Pavlovian style as described in the reading material.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 02:44 PM
3

Anxiety is temporary stress and it's normal. Don't sweat it. It goes away once you realize that it's normal to be stressed. Once you stop putting so much into the outcome, you stop having this issue. One little secret that works for a lot of guys (I learned this from 2 famous porn stars back when I worked in the AVN field for a short period of time) is to breath deeply through your nose not your mouth. It can have a direct effect on your boner. It's really amazing to experience. If you feel your…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:42 PM
8

Remember: pay attention to her actions, not her words. Her actions will prove your value; her words are only about her value.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 02:37 PM
2

Good point -- too many guys go to the gym because they equate it with "will get me laid". And that's a beta mindset. Great point, in fact.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:29 PM
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Symmetry correlates strongly to mating attractiveness for both genders, absolutely. As such, men who are more symmetrical will obviously get more IOIs from women, especially if they're just before their periods. But, IOIs are not enough to close the deal. I'm very asymmetrical in my face and I definitely get fewer IOIs in a neutral situation, but once I do connect I tend to close more than any of my handsome friends. Put me in a non-neutral situation with standard social proof and my looks mean …
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:08 PM
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Lately seen an influx of people equating TRP as PUA and forgetting that TRP is about improving oneself. Thanks for this. I need to see this because I forget. I have my own bias because the guys in real life I point to askTRP aren't coming to learn how to have sex. They're coming because their lives are out of control and they ask me how I can be so stoic. Sex is just one aspect of TRP, hell I'd even say it's a side benefit of TRP and not the main core of it. I've been saying it on TRP forums sin…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:00 PM
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2 weeks ago? She's defending her old territory. Read the sidebar more. Again.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 01:52 PM
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f the man has a red pill mindset but just doesn't want to take the extra steps to regularly game women that's not necessarily bad but he might have beta tendencies. No, it has nothing to do with alpha or beta. It has to do with how much he values himself and his time and how he spends his energy and what he allows in his life. Paying for something is neither alpha nor beta. Getting shit for "free" meaning no money changes hands is neither alpha nor beta -- and free (no financial cost) is not tru…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 01:48 PM
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I mean first off in terms of the boat analogy, you can just turn your phone off. Can you? Ever tried to? An alpha is someone who is top of the social hierarchy. They don’t need to pay hot women to have sex with them, as hot women will do it for free....because they actually enjoy it. The first sentence is correct. The second sentence is full retard which proves to me you've never been the guy that has to beat them off with a stick. Having a contractual relationship for a throwaway useless need i…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 01:31 PM
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The payment is quite clearly for sex. You're conflating things, unfortunately. it's common with worthless guys -- and by worthless I mean "has no net worth". If your net worth is $0 or less, you can't comprehend what money is. Money is just time saved. It's what defines money. We make money because we save other people time. We spend money in order to save time. If you have no net worth, you've saved no one anything, so you're a time waster. Naturally, worthless people can't envision what define…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 01:16 PM
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Explain.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:50 PM
2

Yep, read the ZMA reviews on Amazon. They're stellar. No addiction there because it's not a drug or hormone, just zinc + magnesium + b-vitamin. Simple stuff. Sleep deprivation will destroy you sexually for biological reasons. The body refuses to procreate in times of high stress.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:38 PM
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No, it isn't beta. You're confused about what alpha and beta means. Giving money to a woman up front in hopes of getting sex = beta. It means you put her needs first. Getting sex from a woman and then paying her to leave = can be alpha because your needs are met up front. The act of paying for sex is neither beta nor alpha.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:37 PM
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Sugar daddies aren't paying for sex. They're paying for the girl to leave. It's not about alpha/beta. It's about the man having a plan, a path, a goal, and not wanting to take anyone else's needs into the decision. I've never paid a hooker myself. I've never really considered it because I tend to prefer LTRs+plates. But the guys I know who do pay for hookers, or who have sugar babies, they're guys who own their shit 100% and don't want to deal with a girlfriend. Or a plate. It's a good quid pro …
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:30 PM
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why do you believe those 3 guys? One is relatively famous (not like TV celebrity famous) and has done the sugar daddy thing for maybe 15 years. He's pretty open about it -- you pay a hooker to leave, not to have sex. One is a guy I travel with pretty regularly and he always brings his coed-of-the-month club sugar baby and I know they're banging. He laughs about how they resort to all sorts of rationalizing about it but SBs are all temporary in nature. For every John there are 10 hookers, so it's…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:16 PM
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I'd suggest working on sleep for the next 30 days. ZMA is cheap on Amazon or locally and it's non-addictive or reinforcing so that one is easy (first 3 days are going to shock you with sleep quality and dreams). Even at your young age, sleep correlates very closely to cortisol. High cortisol actually narrows arteries and restricts blood flow during times of increased stress. Sex will be the first thing the body shuts down during those periods (both for men and women). So I'd suggest finding some…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:11 PM
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Good deal on drug use and alcohol. I assume you had no ADD meds used in the past 5 years? Let's try a few more things: namely, get more sleep, add ZMA to your nighttime (30 minutes before bed, 3 capsules). Are you exhausted most mornings? Do you stay up late watching TV or gaming?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:50 AM
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I know at least 3 guys who are sugar daddy types and I'll tell you point blank that in no cases were any women "no contact" but bragged to friends that they were -- and the reason the women lost the sugar daddy is he found someone more flexible like an acrobat and nuked the one who started to get demanding. Basically, women lie to protect their reputations. This gal was banging away and when she got boring, she got nuked and came up with "reasoning" that would make sense.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:49 AM
2

In 3 sentences or less, explain your use or reliance on any drugs, legal or otherwise -- especially ADD type meds. Also, your age.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:45 AM
2

Thanks for that. The most sex I've had with the "hottest babes" in my life was when I was 31 years old. I've written about it here. 2 years prior I was married to an actual model (cokehead, model friends at the house, etc) living in 4 floor Victorian with 2 vacation homes, a yacht and fancy cars. At 31 I was broke -- negative $200,000 in value. I was living in a basement studio apartment with no electricity for 6 months. No fridge, no hot water, no lighting, no A/C. Eating food out of a can by c…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 11:28 AM
2

I don't do dates that cost money until she's cooked for me at least 2 or 3 times. Which usually means like 3 or 4 months in.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 11:48 PM
2

Become an indie filmmaker. Hot chicks love to act.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:57 PM
2

Shitty towns are the best. Throw your own BBQ parties, charge $5-$10 per head. Invite hot girls and women who know hot girls.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:46 PM
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You're a DJ? Go to any club of any size and ask the house DJ if you can fill in when they take shitter breaks. Volunteer at first. Get to know the club manager/owner/bartender. Try to get a DJ gig on a very slow night and spin eclectic tunes. DJs get laid more than the top alpha in any club. That's because the 10 HB8s waiting for the 1 top alpha have no one to turn to at 2am last call so they hook up with the bartender first, the bouncer second, the manager third and now you have 6 HB8s to pick …
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:36 PM
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Don't get involved. Be a passive listener.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:32 PM
1

delete this shitpost and post to asktrp before the mods ban you
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 10:26 PM
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This entire post is full on retard. Who cares if she fucks a lot of guys? She's a young woman -- if she was HB3 she would still fuck more people than you. If she was HB1 with crossed eyes and missing legs and smelled of rotting corpse she'd fuck more people than you. You can only get better with every breath while every one she takes is a step closer to the wall at rapid speed. Ignore her. Hard next, block her, focus on your studies and future.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:23 PM
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I tell her that my biggest turn of is clinginess, neediness, girls that can't take the hint etc. There is no way you've been reading TRP for a year if you still won't accept that texting is for logistics only. having conversations on tinder = not TRP
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 06:09 PM
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So play loud music and lock the door. Easy peasy answer.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:31 PM
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I brought girlfriends home to my parents' homes when I was in junior high school. Tell mom "We're going to listen to music", turn up the music, lock the door.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:29 PM
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Looks has very very little to do with Game. If you aren't charismatic, you won't get invited to parties. Ugly + Charisma = invited Handsome + No Charisma = no invite
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:06 PM
1

Start a modern tech company like SpaceX or Tesla Spend $25,000 a week on public relations Say hello to 80% of women on the street or instagram Have sex
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:57 PM
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My old bodyguard was an oriental girl who was less than 105 pounds and she beat the living fuck out of MMA-type guys 3x her bodyweight twice in our business relationship. You have anger issues which make you a pussy. I'm actually starting to think that 100% of guys who do MMA are pussies because all they're thinking about is escalation. Stop with the MMA shit, it's fucking your brain up seriously if you think you can escalate with a guy and win just because you can dance in a ring. You are safer…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:39 PM
1

You would fuck up a guy who yelled at you? I think the first thing you should do is figure out WTF is going on with you that the initial response you have is to beat guys up and be afraid of women.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:27 PM
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Why would you be afraid if someone yells at you? Doesn't the fact that a crazy person actually proved they were crazy not make you want to talk to more women to find the ones who aren't as crazy as the yeller?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:23 PM
4

Google: 12 levels of dread -- it includes a great reading list for each step
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:21 PM
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Texting is for logistics only. Even if it's your wife.
/r/askMRP24/04/18 02:54 PM
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Says she requires a man who wears shoes to mall, will easily go for the tech millionaire who wears flip flops to boardroom meetings. I'm the asshole at the mall wearing flip flops. I'm also the asshole at the fancy restaurant wearing shorts and a tank top, along with the flip flops, if I wish to. Fuck everyone who thinks that style comes from the cover of GQ.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 02:46 PM
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Will you stop shitposting links to relationships? Are you a mental mongrel or something?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:42 PM
1

Interesting stuff but I'm still sort of confused. What does the body do when, say, you down a magnesium supplement with a glass of milk? Which is metabolized first? There's no way to know because the process in which the body will utilize minerals (etc) varies based on the body's need for those minerals as well as the ratio in which they're taken in. Magnesium can be utilized not just through the digestive system -- you can apply magnesium directly to the skin. Calcium generally gets absorbed th…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:35 PM
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I don't know why, but what she said resonated with me. That's unfortunate because you're listening to her words, which is a useless thing to do. I have come to the conclusion that us guys continuously misjudge what girls expectations are. You surely have if you're actually pondering what comes out of her mouth.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 02:26 PM
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Do you have any thoughts on this? how many men at your reunion were fit/'high value' Your physique is maybe 1/10th of SMV, so honestly it doesn't matter as much to women as Reddit's version of TRP tells guys. I'd say the highest value guy at my reunion was a fat bald fuck but he had serious charm. Thick as motor oil on a winter morning. And you could tell the women were eating it up -- not even the alumni but the waitresses and bartender at the shindig. Male SMV is 5/10 charisma+confidence, thin…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 11:30 AM
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What's the question? You shitposted that you love drama, so I assume you're getting things the way you prefer them? Congrats?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:09 PM
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Magnesium and calcium chase the same metabolic paths. One of the reasons why guys have prostate issues and women have migraines is magnesium deficiency from taking too much calcium. What happens is the body will precipitate calcium out of the blood and into your head or prostate causing symptoms of pain. So if you do eat dairy or calcium in food, wait 2 hours before taking ZMA. Possibly true with some protein powders, too -- I don't take dairy protein anymore so I have no person results there.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 09:00 PM
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Yep you already fucked up. Google: 12 levels of dread and get back to reading the sidebar instead of shitposting oneitis.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:31 PM
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These kinds of issues don't happen when a guy internalizing Game. Is this your first girlfriend? Tenth? 100th girlfriend? You don't value yourself, you value her meaning "oneitis" her. If you saw how much value you had to people/women, you wouldn't sweat these conversations. I don't make a woman my girlfriend until 1-2 years of dating. My current girlfriend stuck around as a plate willingly for 3+ years before I let her into that position in my social life. Sounds like you didn't vet this one. T…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 07:50 PM
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I stopped reading after the first 5 words. You violated one of the top 5 rules of red pill: don't listen to her words, pay attention to her actions. What's worse than you actually wasting time paying attention to her words is that there's an actual sidebar link in dealing with this shit -- "handling the talk" right there in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:49 PM
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People just have their priorities so out of wack. Be thankful. The more useless crap you can invest in to sell to mental midgets watching CNN and Game of Thrones, the more wealth transfer occurs from you to them. Remember that 80% of the population (per Pareto) will slave their entire lives for $0 net worth at the end of it. That means that 80% of the mongrels of the world are slaving for someone else, voluntarily. Take advantage of this. Promote all of the crap you would never spend a dime on, …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 06:18 PM
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ZMA is the shit when you're over age 33. 3 capsules 30 minutes before sleep but 2 hours after any dairy or calcium.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:15 PM
2

I'm confused, 6 figures on cable + internet in a decade? That's like 850 a month for 10 years, what? Math is up at poor-me (dot com) using the 173X rule. Average cable bill in the US is $105 per month but you have to analyze that yourself. $105 x 173 = $18,165 in a decade. Average broadband internet bill in the US is $61 per month. $61 x 173 = $10,552 in a decade Average dude spends money on Netflix, Spotify and Hulu for some strange reason. $30 a month x 173 = $5190 So for the average person in…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 05:59 PM
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Well, 12 years was the old limit on frozen sperm but newer techniques is expanding that to 24+ years and I've heard rumors of 50+ years are right around the corner. I figure if I have 44 years left of life, I can hope for 50+44 = 94 years of little fascist bastards running around.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 05:17 PM
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Don't lie, just make sure to network with people and get their positive references later on. Networking is just as important as skill-building.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:55 PM
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It's in the sidebar, read it.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:54 PM
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No. The shorter you are the more important social proof will be for IOIs. That's it. The amount of IOIs a man gets naturally without social proof correlates to height. So the shorter you are, the more social proof you need. It's not difficult.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:51 PM
2

Get photos of her mom at the girl's current age and her mom right now.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:48 PM
2

Well I plan to have some statues in my honor, and my sperm will impregnate women for the next 100 years.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 04:43 PM
1

OP is such a numbskull that he posted this to "askwomenadvice" too.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:49 PM
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My old stock broker got into his career maybe 10-12 years ago by working as a bank teller. He hated it. But he did that and the bank actually paid for him to get some certifications or licenses as he moved up the chain. He showd aptitude, showed that he would always come to work on time and not call in sick due to hangovers, etc. He showed value, so employers valued him. If you don't show value at the shitty jobs, you won't get a chance to move up. One of my buddies is a bartender -- he retired …
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:40 PM
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I just can't think of any job I'd enjoy doing or could see myself doing so I have to dig really deep into my discipline any time I do any of this job research because all I'm doing it for is money. Never once in my life did I work a job in a passion field of mine. Ever. I hated all my jobs but I did them because I was awesome at them and I got paid great for the work I did. Now that I'm retired young, I can focus on my passions 100% -- but for income I did what I had the skills for and what I co…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:26 PM
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holy fuck wall of oneitis text i didn't read it, no one else is reading it, you should read the sidebar about oneitis -- FIRST LINK in the "FAQ" section
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:23 PM
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Anger phase isn't anger at women, it's anger at your own low value that women can sense from a mile away. What are you doing to raise your value -- not for women, but for your own purposes and future?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:11 PM
3

Meh, it's a risk factor if you have a lot of sex with a lot of people. As far as I know I haven't gotten it yet (31 years of having sex) but you can't know 100%. And after a certain age the majority of adults have HSV2 or HSV1 -- really no way to completely protect yourself. That being said, I wouldn't go out of my way to sleep with someone with risk factors, lol. My buddy is a fairly recognizable musician and got HSV1 on his wang from a blowjob from a groupie. He was pretty pissed because he do…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:29 PM
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Yeah, it actually isn't mandated that it comes from herpes, of course. But it comes from herpes. I actually learned this from my dad when I was 15 and told him about this hot piece I met at the arcade who could only half smile and he said "herpes, kid, herpes" and that was that. Just next her. Not because of this, but because she's definitely lower value than she was.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:19 PM
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Lots of famous actors and actresses with half their face paralyzed are that way because of herpes. Just block this one, the Wall has hit her and she's scratching for attention. Bet she's hit up 50 other guys she's flaked on.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:12 PM
1

The opposite of charisma is whininess.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:21 PM
3

How would the last 4 years of your 20s be shit if u have bank, car and hb ? Because you have all of these things that Kanye tells you to get in some low IQ English song and they all require constant care, upkeep, maintenance, insurance, attention, etc...and you don't feel like you're really better off. You got this and then you realize "holy shit all that work and this bullshit requires MORE work?? Age 29 sucks for a male -- a successful one or a failure. Either way, you almost 30 and you're loo…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:18 PM
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did running/starting a nightclub provide your financial independence No, saving more than I earned in everything I did provided that. I lost money on 4 out of 5 businesses I was an investor in, but I made enough in the 20% that I could save more than I spent. I'm 44 and retired but I don't have cable or broadband at home because I can't afford it. Well, I could afford it if I found value in it, but honestly blowing 6 figures on cable and broadband in a decade is stupid. Other people do it every …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:16 PM
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Yeah, don't do it, lol. Everyone steals from you -- employees, customers, suppliers, friends. If you aren't watching, you're getting robbed. I made money for one reason: I got in when the neighborhood was gross and dangerous and 6 months later white kids moved into it. Gentrification is a huge piece of luck but it's the reason a lot of bars and restaurants do better than others. Once the rents go up, you're screwed. Also, there are payoffs to make at every level of government and nefarious third…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:13 PM
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I think it's important to remember, however, that you need to capitalize on all that 20s knowledge in order to make your 30s amazing. It doesn't just magically happen - if you were fat and ugly in your 20s, and stay that way in your 30s, you're not going to see that much improvement. Granted, but if you're actively reading TRP and giving it some effort, it does start to clarify better in your 30s even if you end up doing a piss poor job with not the right effort in your 20s. I've been active in …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 01:24 AM
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Go shit in your bed and on your dining table and leave it there for 4 weeks and report back. Why are you snapping a woman you can't have sex with? Even if you can sex her up, snapping and texting is for logistics only. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:37 AM
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Why? Do women not take us seriously before that or what? is it money, status, looks, maturity, or what? Well, women don't take money, status, looks or maturity seriously anyway. If you interview them they'll say these are important things but that's their rational brain attempting to communicate, and hypergamy isn't about being rational. Women admire men who are confident and charismatic. That's Game. That's TRP. There is evidence that men become more confident after 30 -- especially with TRP fo…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:31 AM
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You need to get some reflection in you. It isn't well supported on Reddit's TRP community but I suggest you take a break from the gym for 2 weeks and spend some time with a bunch of disabled dudes. Volunteer at a wheelchair basketball camp in summer or something. Check it out. Don't do this as charity, do this as self reflection. As for career/financial independence, you need to write a budget down in a spreadsheet and maintain it weekly. My budget program requires a 12 month reverse budget but …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 11:58 PM
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Who knows why a man's initial peak starts at 31 but almost every guy over 31 will tell you it all starts at 31. Maybe it's that every guy freaks out about 30 and it affects him negatively? Maybe it's some hormonal thing, who know. All my closest guy friends are successful to megasuccessful and everyone agrees it all clarified at 31. My dad's in his 70s and he says the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 11:38 PM
2

You have to learn the difference between "being friendly to everyone" and "befriending everyone". I vet people for a long time before I consider them a friend, but a lot of people think I'm their friend because I'm friendly to them.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:11 PM
-4

Oh man the videos are going so well this past week. I hired a new DP here in the islands to make me look like less of a molester, lol.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 08:31 PM
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As a 20 year old, you are in a position to maximize wealth right now, forevermore. That's because you are literally in the most magical point of the consumer vs producer life: almost all of your friends are totally captured by marketing. True story: Last summer (2017) I got a bunch of red pill losers to join me at a beach for a photoshoot I was doing for one of my brands. I hired 2 hot models for $150 each for the entire day, string bikinis, fake tits, all that crap. So I had these 5 losers give…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 08:26 PM
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Join a band or two.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:46 PM
1

Real men don't drink their calories. This includes alcohol, lol.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:15 PM
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Well, let me shit on your parade, too, lol. First of all, fuck you for living in a shitty country. Do you have any idea how god damned difficult it is to live in the land of opportunity where every monkey and his mom's boyfriends can eat for nothing and get jobs every 10 feet? I DREAM of having grown up in a shithole country where only those who struggle will succeed and control the 99%. I wish I was born in Nigeria, I would be a prince with billions made on the back of the miscreant populace. S…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 07:11 PM
1

Women always text exes in April -- sometimes in March if spring comes early. This is like clockwork. My record is 14 years. Dated when I was 26-27 and she was 19-21, broke up, no contact, 14 years later she texts me out of nowhere (I'm 41 she's 35) so we get together and she's probably hotter in terms of age-related SMV than before so plated her for many years. She admitted she "stalked" me online almost the entire 14 years, lol. I called her on it and she actually brought up a bunch of shit I e…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 06:55 PM
5

I'm 5'8". There is no rational reason an 18 year old should eat only 2200 calories a day unless he's 4'9".
/r/askTRP22/04/18 06:03 PM
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As you get older, you will hear these stories directly more and more over time. I remember when I was getting out of my marriage and honestly all my guy friends and most of my female colleagues said even if my wife was batshit insane coke head with a $15,000/month spending budget, I wouldn't do better than her. Lol. Now all I see are my buddy's ex-wives dropping the kids off who are so super excite to hang out with "happy dad and his girlfriend who is half his age" and the exes look like a moldy…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:56 PM
6

I'm an older dude and I don't watch movies with women. Period. Haven't in probably 15+ years. I am not big into movies to beginwith but if I want to watch something, I do it alone. Or with my guy friends. Watching a movie with a woman doesn't add to the experience, so why waste time inviting her?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:18 PM
7

How you spend your money is 100% about frame. Every time. You're correct. I don't spend money on women, I spend money on myself and my goals and pleasures. If I want a woman to join me as jewelry, I may spend money for her to join me, but if she doesn't work out for the reason I invited her, she's out and someone else will get a chance next time. Beta bucks definitely means "spending money in a woman's frame" -- you don't have to be rich to be beta bucks.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:05 PM
10

As you progress in life and increase value, you will find that your old friends are no longer compatible with your path. Unfortunately, you will lose a lot of friends in the process. If your own shit isn't together, stressing about another guy is hurting your path and potential.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:03 PM
4

Yeah I would next this one for now. Reply with 'hey busy rn' and go cold until summer. Add her to the mass text group of the soft nexted. If someone is shitty about this shit, I will treat them like meat and only text them at 11pm when I get home and want company.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:41 PM
4

µPenis™ is available for licensing if you'd prefer to use the official Hollywood term.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:29 PM
7

18 years old and only 2200 calories? You're not eating enough. I am 44 years old and I have days where I eat at 3500 calories and I lose muscle. During bulk season I have to eat about 5000 calories a day to gain weight, lol. And I am not ripped and super strong, either. Eat more, way more, lots more.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:09 PM
14

Hey I wanted to let you know I'm running a new kickstarter for the Red Pill Dick Ruler. It's printed from 0-3 inches and then immediately starts at 7 inches and goes up to 16 inches. So when you hold it against your dick you are guaranteed to be at least 7 inches long.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:07 PM
2

Could you tell me why you rate them as highly as you do in this context? Women are a side effect, not a goal. Women aren't like baiting a hook to catch fish. Women are attracted to high value men naturally, without the high value man having to play games to get their attention. If you have to work to get a woman's attention, you're low value and she knows it.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:00 PM
11

How to respond in a way that does not validate her with attention or makes me look like I am butthurt about something this insignificant? This question is unanswerable because you didn't give us the most important data. Before this flake, were you already answering her texts instantly? If so, you've already fucked up. Never respond to women via text instantly. Doesn't matter who they are, your plate, your wife, your sister, your mother -- everyone gets to wait for a response. You train them that…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:59 PM
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Could you point me in the right direction for getting better at being more outcome independent? For women, GFTOW is one method. I prefer to focus on rational change versus emotional change. Focus on the areas of your life today that will show a benefit tomorrow if you improve them. For example: Do you live on your job income or your passive income? If it's the first, you shouldn't be worried about what some depreciating skank thinks about you. Are you the healthiest you've ever been in your life…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:45 PM
4

can't exactly just "choose" to not feel emotionally wounded in the same way as the other cases. Sure you can. Outcome independence is even more important with women. I'm probably twice your age and even now I know from history that women are more plentiful in the world than anything else you may value. At my age there are still endless pretty women I can and do meet. So if I meet a cute gal and she shuts me down, who cares? Stop focusing with just 3 degrees of vision and turn to see the other 35…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:09 PM
10

You aren't red pilled if you aren't outcome independent.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:00 PM
5

I didn't even know it was a thing until it was banned and people freaked the fuck out. Anyone who circlejerks hate is just an omega loser. Not sure why anyone would want to spend time on subs like that.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:09 PM
8

Google is your friend. Search: why was reddit incels banned?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:00 PM
8

I'm a big fan of American Express cards because you can give them to "authorized users" but set a specific credit limit to every user. So if you want to give your wife a rewards card but limit her to a certain budget, it's easy to do. In addition, authorized users can log in and see what they have spent but they can't see what the primary user spends at all. Give her two cards -- one card is for family expenses (groceries, etc) and one for personal luxuries (makeup, clothes, etc). Don't set a li…
/r/askMRP21/04/18 03:09 PM
2

Oneitis. GFTOW, after reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 02:08 PM
1

Oneitis gets easier when you have options. The answer to oneitis is GFTOW and that works really well. I don't get "real" oneitis, but if I meet a cute gal who doesn't look like the 90% of potato shaped women out there and isn't tattooed and doesn't get drunk or high and she's batting those fucking eyelashes at me, my appendages can still leap a bit. But then I remember she's just another one of millions out there. Having sex with women is easy. Getting women to commit to you is easy. Just gettin…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:52 PM
1

Yep. It's normal and natural. I've been on TRP forums online since 1987 and hell I can still catch it from time to time because that ass. No worries.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:43 PM
3

A happy father with options turns out the best kids, wives, customers and neighbors.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 09:01 PM
3

Logistics meaning read the sidebar and figure it out.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:48 PM
2

You're saying that being shredded doesn't matter, but gaining just 15 pounds of muscle made a big difference for me. Naturally if you have better posture and muscle you will increase your SMV but not by much more than a point. A lot of girls were checking me out after that, and I had no issue getting laid. Checking you out is an IOI, not SMV. Getting laid comes from what you do after the IOI. If you spend any amount of time on any bodybuilder forum, you will see without a doubt that most of them…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:45 PM
5

Sexual tension on snap? Lol. Snapchat is for logistics only.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:42 PM
2

Well if you're addicted to the rush, then you're probably going to find that patiently taking long term risks for real rewards is boring and you won't find the motivation for it. I'd suggest finding your skills that give you value. Join a band. Wait tables at a bar and learn to be a bartender. Start a small business with whatever skills you have. Most of all, be reliable to those who value you in some ways.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:05 PM
5

Men build value, from the day they accept manhood. Before that they're still boys. OP can stay a boy forever, most guys do. But life doesn't mandate that a person has value, no matter what the lefties want to believe.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:02 PM
5

Most young people are, yeah. When I was 13, I started a business. In 1987. I was valuable to a lot of teenagers for my teen years. When I turned 21, I put money into a nightclub. I was valuable. In my 30s, I started volunteering with young guys with autism to help them find jobs or skills. I was valuable. I'm 44 and retired now but I have a big sailboat and a network of angel investors I sail with so I'm still valuable. I can't recall when in my life I wasn't valuable. I wasn't doing stupid shit…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:58 PM
7

You become valuable when people value you for something. Why do people value a DJ? Because he can spin music. Why do people value a taxi driver? Why do people value a landscaper?
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:54 PM
19

Mom cut off his internet again. He'll be back soon!
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:53 PM
18

It's called "projection" and it's common in people with no value to others. Nobody values you so you don't value yourself and blame otehrs for it.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:48 PM
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Facial aesthetics don't matter Being shredded doesn't matter Women have SMVs based on beauty and fitness. Men have SMV based on masculine traits like confidence and charisma. Yes, strength helps, but it's maybe 1 out of 10 SMV points. Confidence and Charisma together are 5 out of 10 SMV points. You're banging 6s because you're a 5 or a 6 yourself. Maybe a 7 on good days.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:55 PM
5

Saying "I don't have oneitis" doesn't mean this isn't oneitis. The fscking sidebar link titled "there's this one girl..." is at the top of the FAQ in the sidebar for a reason. It's bold, for a reason. Go land the troops at 10 other Normandys.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:50 PM
1

It's all good. It's a common question, hence why it's answered so well in that link.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:23 PM
3

Did you read the fscking sidebar? Because "The Talk" is a link in the sidebar. Read the sidebar before posting.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:16 PM
7

I would next guy friends for being too emotional.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:01 PM
10

All men are at least a 4 on the lazy scale. The lazier the guy is, the crazier his plates and dates are. When you become the prize, the craziness level abates a lot.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:53 PM
5

Whole Foods, 9am, Saturday morning. If there's a cute gal looking at butcher cuts, chances are she's not an alcoholic AND she cares about her fitness.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 11:57 AM
2

I don't think it's 0.01% at all. One of the gyms in my home town is very popular with fit women. The entire high school cheerleader team worksouts there and there isn't a treadmill or yoga ball in the entire place, just barbells and dumbbells and cables. A lot of cute 20 and 30 somethings are pushing heavy weights, too. Some sexy retirees, FFS. The number of women who lift heavy has grown faster than the number of guys who actually lift heavy, versus just talk about it. I wouldn't date or plate …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 11:56 AM
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Yeah I can dig what you're saying. I'm re-reading the post again one more time through. The 4 gyms I'm a part time member of are all barbell gyms so there are a LOT of couples who go together and they're all strong and sexy couples. I don't go to gyms where they give free bagels and set of alarms if you grunt. Most of my close guys friends work out with their plates or girlfriends or wives because there's a strong bond that can be had from the endorphins of working out together -- but it doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 10:00 PM
13

The gal I'm dating now is a size 00 and can squat 270x5. Not sure why it's wrong for me to let her use my home gym when she comes over before she leaves in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 09:50 PM
2

What's your net worth as of today?
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:37 PM
4

If she calls you on it say "Just remember it's easier to love something than like it." Leave her confused, lol.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 07:14 PM
7

How do you bring up the guest agreement? "Hey, you've been crashing here a lot lately. It's important for me that my insurance covers you as more than just a casual guest -- if you think you're going to spend this much time or more here, I need to make you official on my paperwork legally. Also, if you agree to this and you lose your iPhone, you can get it replaced for like $100."
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 05:56 PM
5

First, why would you want an estate lawyer handling that? If you have an estate, you should have a lawyer at least meeting with you once a year to discuss changes and directions. Since most people are below worthless (meaning, less than $0 net worth), there's no point in explaining this to them as they would likely gain something out of getting fucked by a partner with a positive net worth. Second, what do you mean by "standard" guest contract? Lawyers typically create their own contracts depend…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 05:54 PM
1

I'm retired now but when I worked, I would say "google it or ask my mom." I spent a lot of time investing in startups so my name was associated with something else every 6 months, lol. My mom thinks I'm a gun smuggler and used to tell girls that. My mom is a Polish blonde woman missing a few screws, though. Great woman, she boosted my SMV with every fresh off the boat Polish girl she met.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:28 PM
1

I just find it odd how a guy can shit on a woman for her past when his own future is a blurry mess. I don't judge a woman for moving in with a guy just because she lived with a guy. To me that's probably a GOOD signal -- it means she might want a leader and someone to pick the direction to head in. The other red flags woman broadcast are way more important to me. Oh, she has tattoos and likes 420? Next.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:25 PM
1

Wrong sub, post in askTRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 10:17 PM
4

Jealousy is fear of losing something you have to someone better. Envy is desire for what another man has. Neither of these are red pill or blue pill or anything. They're just mindsets. The subject of this post doesn't sound very self secure, which is obviously a blue pill omega aspect in a lot of guys.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:49 PM
3

So you have all your shit together already and would consider yourself a quality leader and provider and father?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:46 PM
4

The slow clap is one of the best A&A you can do, period. Practice it with your retarded cousins.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:11 PM
1

If there was an SMV discrepancy and he led the relationship well, she'd be working on her own shit to raise her SMV. My current girlfriend was a plate -- and she knew it -- when we first met. I even told her "no sex" early on, lol. So what did she do? She didn't stalk me or threaten to stop seeing me. She got on a better diet, starting working out, cut her hair better, learned to apply makeup better, stopped drinking (she was never a drunk though), gave up smoking, and learned to cook. Eventuall…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:20 PM
1

It's not a legally defined charity. It's my direct investments. I would never give money to a loser who wants to continue to be a loser and shit "poor me" at society. I want to invest in people with ideas but who can't do it through normal methods. To me, investments can be charitable or they can be profitable. I might make a profit on these, but I expect not to. My profit will be non-financial.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 06:27 PM
2

The immediate demand is nothing but a reflection on OP's failure to be the leader in the relationship. As the de facto leader of the relationship, the man has to understand the woman's needs -- not based on her words but on her actions. When a woman moves to a controlling position, it's usually too late. OP should be thankful he's not married to this one, doesn't have kids with this one. OP can learn from his fuck-up and make sure he doesn't fuck up the next one with similar laziness. A strong l…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:32 PM
12

Well, a quick Google search (YMMV) says: "In order for a couple to have common-law standing in Ontario and Manitoba, they must be living together in a conjugal relationship for three years or more, or one year with a child." Wikipedia has an entire section on common law relationships in Canada. Quebec has "conjoints de fait" (de facto unions) defined. My old divorce attorney is the guy I rely on now to protect my assets. I am very, very careful with my assets -- no amount of sex with no amount o…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 05:29 PM
7

I just saw your new shitpost on this sub. You're going to be a shitposter until you actually read the sidebar material and start applying and internalizing it. Whenever I A&A, other people laugh at the person I am A&Aing. It happens every time. 100% of the time. Someone tries to taunt or bully me in a group of people, I A&A and everyone laughs at the wannabe bully. When a man flat-out disrespects you, he's correct in doing so -- you allowed into your circle someone who is not a good match for th…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:26 PM
2

I have had a girl that was so entirely insane that she went into my brothers computer on our network to get ALL of my passwords so she could snoop through ALL of my shit. You sound like a loser omega who LTRd some daddy's damaged baby. What do you do with your free time? Just curious. OP here used the word "girlfriend" so I have to assume OP followed red pill rules and vetted her for a year as a plate before he upgraded her to LTR status. If OP didn't, then OP violated the rules by LTRing anothe…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:24 PM
4

Women will snoop when they're bored. OP fucked up, the woman did nothing wrong. If you have a girlfriend who has time to think about reasons for nexting you or controlling you, you've fucked up. A woman who is happy is a woman who isn't thinking about nexting you or controlling you, she's worried about if she's skinny enough or if she gives great head or if she's better than her girlfriends who will pounce on you if she fucks up herself. Stop acting like a clueless videogamer and read the sideba…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:20 PM
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I've never had a girlfriend in 13 years bring up my phone or my passwords. That's because they're ecstatic with me, they're RETARDED for me. They don't think about me cheating on them because I am fulfilling their needs in always giving them a treasure to seek. I haven't had a girlfriend since 2001 that knew what I did for a living. Even my current girlfriend has no idea how I retired young. She doesn't care -- she's ecstatic that she gets to be with a guy like me. You have to be a real loser pi…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:18 PM
3

They win? You haven't read the sidebar. Read up on agree-and-amplify. A&A is reframing it so that YOU are the winner.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:10 PM
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I'm surprised that any guy over the age of 28 doesn't already do this. All my girlfriends in the past 12 years have signed a guest agreement if they spend more than a few nights a month at my place. Your estate lawyer should already have these standard contracts ready to give you. I never use my Illinois contract for my Florida property, though. Different address, different contract.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 04:56 PM
2

Just repeat what your first 5 words of this comment are and you're there. It is true. Confidence = 2.5 points out of 10. Charisma = 2.5 points out of 10. 5/10 just for being confidence and charismatic. But you loser grunts are so fucking lost in Hollywood and MTV that you can't see reality. So you live in your blue pill "poor me I am so alone" world.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 04:50 PM
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I never take idiots seriously. I agree and amplify if they're disrespectful and basically bully them back that way.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:59 PM
14

Women don't mirror friends, they mirror their guys. Women love to search for buried treasure; but they hate finding it. Women love to shop; they hate their purchases. Women love pretty food on a plate; they hate eating it. Women love diamonds in a glass case sparkling under artificial light; they're bored with rings on their fingers in natural light when purchased. OP fucked up because he is no longer buried treasure, he's no longer a powershopping experience, he's no longer pretty food on a pla…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:40 PM
3

Great comments and I agree across the board. OP fucked up badly. Now OP wants to fix it, maybe a Hello Kitty band-aid will do it? Or maybe buy her flowers, yeah, that will fix it, right?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:30 PM
1

She works with you, or she was a customer?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:17 PM
8

A woman reflects the behaviors of the man she's with. This is 100% on him. It has nothing to do with her.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:08 PM
8

Why do guys like teasing girls with relationships when they only want a one night stand? Men want sex, women want commitment. Each gender puts their carrot on a stick to get what they want.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:34 PM
7

A man's SMV has very little to do with how he looks. 5 of the 10 SMV points are for just confidence and charisma. Lock those in and you'll never be lower than a 5/10. Reputation (pre-selection, social proof) is another 2/10 -- so if you lock in confidence, charisma, and reputation you'll be no less than a 7/10 even if you're a fat bald slob who is 5'5" (see: Danny DeVito). The other 3/10 are things like fashion, cosmetic features like facial hair or hair cut, physique, race, age, wealth, etc. 2/…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:00 PM
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Yep. Nexting her isn't going to resolve this issue because you will do the same thing with the next girlfriend. And the one after that. You need to next your old self. The mystery about who you are and what you do is gone. She has no more treasure to seek, now she is annoyed by what she found. Fix that.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:35 PM
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This isn't a red flag on her, it's a red flag on you. You're failing yourself, so you are failing her. She's mirroring you, reflecting you. Back to the sidebar for you. 12 levels of dread. If you don't practice this, you will fail your girlfriend(s) because you will fail yourself. She doesn't fear losing you, she fears losing control of you. Now that she tastes that control, she wants more power. This is human nature, not AWALT.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:30 PM
5

Whenever I hear "small town" I think of the BBQs I've been to. More hot women every 10 square meters than any bar or club. Every time.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:01 PM
9

Throw the mega BBQ party at your place every Saturday. Invite only.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:21 AM
1

Yeah I've played with the iPhone with a DP in the Bahamas and it's stellar, especially with some of the newer lens options. One of my local charities I own is a production company with fairly high end video equipment since I use my charitable portion of my net worth to fund indie filmmakers. So I have some stellar equipment but unfortunately it takes 2-3 people to run it, lol. I figure why not aim a little higher, it's my equipment and I've never used it. The guy I worked with for some early wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 09:47 PM
5

I feel like I just lost 40 IQ points listening to that. What really amazes me is that there are 5 or 6 songwriters who made it.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:45 PM
18

Plates can't cheat, there's no sense to believing they can.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:38 PM
5

You're using an app tailored to beauty, not game. Game = confidence and charisma. Online "dating" is for women, not for men. Men use daygame because most women are too shy to approach a guy.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:31 PM
1

Tinder isn't a hookup app either.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:57 PM
8

Two things work way better than lifts with low quality club whores: Motorcycle helmet Guitar
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:53 PM
8

Tinder isn't a dating app but yet you use it for dating.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:52 PM
12

Burn your comic books and stop watching x-men movies.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:19 PM
3

If I saw "Mom Calling" I might never answer.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:05 PM
2

Yeah I will be hopefully bonding with some directors and DPs around the country since it's easier to ship my equipment than my labor/help, haha. We'll see how the first runs go when I get back to Chicago in a week or two.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 06:04 PM
5

Yeah I never save numbers anyway. Whenever my mom calls me I answer with "who is this?" every time. She gets angry and I lololololol. My phone's "inbox" is all phone numbers, not contacts. It's great.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:52 PM
3

Are you using them as a sales funnel, a project of love, or are they the business model? No, no and no. The intent is to help guys develop their own abilities. All of the content is being promoted as a conspiracy/cult of sorts -- I want guys to learn from a particular topic and then literally "steal" the content, remake it themselves and promote it downline. All 730 topics will be on their own single page domains and I am going to try hard to make them impossible to find on search engines. The o…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 04:47 PM
3

Yeah it should be really fun and I'm hoping to meet a lot of dudes based on it. I hate being in front of a camera, though, but maybe it'll teach me some new skills.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 04:35 PM
5

Why would you even remember who responded to you and didn't? I honestly have NO CLUE if a gal responded to me, ignored me, gave me an excuse or whatever -- you're texting like 20 gals when you have plans to do something fun, and whichever one is the highest value to you is the one you invite over/out, right? So if 19 other gals weren't high value enough to get the invite and accept, who cares how they responded, or if they responded. The next time you see her is like the first time for you -- sh…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:28 PM
2

I just got my expensive camera lens last month so I'll be working with my DP and soon will have my ugly mug on a free video series. I have 730 topics to videotape and have written 290 scripts so far. Now I just need to hire the director and DP to start knocking them out. Should be pretty awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 03:54 PM
5

Thanks for the props. Keep in mind that if you look at blowjobs-from-wife as fulfilling her needs, it's actually low reward, not high reward. You're giving up the dopamine rush for the oxytocin rush in you and she gets a dopamine rush because she needs to give you head. If she doesn't need to give you head often, see the sidebar, lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 03:02 PM
21

She suffers from depression, anxiety and low self esteem. I stopped reading here. Next. Hard next. Run and change your name next.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:17 PM
3

I wouldn't react at all. I would have invited a friend to join me in my outing and if they didn't show, I would have gone and had a great time regardless. If a friend is a repeat no-show to outings, I stop inviting them to the good ones and keep them as "plate" friends -- backups only.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:22 PM
1

Keto flu isn't necessary. If you get your electrolytes, you won't get the keto flu. As for bulking on keto, it's no different than any other bulk, honestly. Carbs can help with strength gains more than mass gains, but most people fail on any diet because of fuckarounditis.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 05:16 PM
1

Sorry for the late response, am on my boat in the Caribbean and internet can suck for getting notifications. I use the sous vide method 90%. It saves me 50-80% on food budget, and the food is precooked and frozen and can be served up to a year with zero cleanup!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 05:13 PM
1

Day game, during the day, doing whatever it is I'm doing. Grocery store, gym, beach, social sports.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:01 PM
15

I don't do it anymore, but I am invested in making sure other people drink heavily. There's so much living I'm doing being sober that I can't imagine going back. I'll have the odd glass of wine here or there when there's something I'm truly celebrating but I'm the guy who has half the glass and leaves the rest behind. If you're drinking 4 nights a week, calculate your cost basis. Let's assuming it takes 3 hours a night which is 12 hours a week lost (not including lethargy and hangover time the n…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:19 PM
7

There is no limit, no. GAF = you only have one outcome planed DGAF = you have more than one outcome planned (options, contingencies) I am a pretty cold bastard until a person shows value to me. Once they show value, I warm up. I'll be charming to the anonymous masses but otherwise I DGAF. Even if someone proves value, I don't consider it permanent. Everyone has "The Wall" in the future based on their value to society today and if they maintain it, grow it, or let it erode/degrade. Why is it self…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:36 PM
1

Wait, guys still wear pants? Slacks are restricting and lower sperm count and motility, plus they describe a person who is a blue collar laborer. Jeans are low caste pants, for sure. I only wear kilts and fly commando.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:38 PM
1

Chances are someone is already finding some of the domains I've seeded and is throwing it together into an ebook format, but since each subchapter is intended to be updated with time and more n=1 self studies reports, it is organic in nature. Plus I found that e-book readers tend to focus too much on the reading and not enough on separating each training instance and focusing on the doing.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:33 PM
2

It's mostly coming out in drips and drabs slowly but consistently. Instead of a book I am throwing it up on 730 different domain names as subchapters for people to come across randomly and share with others. I just started my low reward cruises on my sailboat last year and am very close to getting the right insurance to open it up to everyone. I did a few "confidence" cruises this year (Jan to Mar) out of FLL to the Bahamas and back that should get some great reviews eventually (I force passenge…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:25 PM
4

RP theory doesn't have anything to do with looks. RP = Game = Confidence + Charisma. I am ugly. 3/10 maybe. Lots of people think I'm hot now because I have crazy crazy crazy strong confidence + charisma. I'm 44, short, ugly, etc, but I get cute to beautiful women because I am strong in Game. If you focus on your looks, you fail. You focus on your strengths and making them stronger. You focus on what you can change FOR FREE and make those stronger. Being fat doesn't matter. Being ugly doesn't mat…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:17 PM
1

This weekend go out to the bars and drink soda and water every night. If you can't avoid alcohol at the bars, you can't handle alcohol at all and it's fucking you up emotionally.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:13 PM
15

If a man has to vent, it means he's failed his masculine path. "Venting" means relieving pressure. Venting about the past means you have no future and are blowing anxiety out backwards in time. The masculine path exists only if there are options and contingencies planned for all forks you can choose from in your road ahead. Read that bold sentence three times. If you set a goal for yourself, you also set contingency plans along the path to the goal. Your many exits allow you to "vent" moving for…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:46 PM
1

Given that we're already on TRP, and getting off topic, if we put two autists side by side, one ripped and one janky looking motherfucker, and place 5 women of variety beside them and force an interaction, what do you think will happen? The ripped motherfucker will get IOIs, but if he has no game skills, the janky looking motherfucker will walk away with the women. I remember running into this autistic guy a bunch of years ago at an LA party. He actually was autistic I found out later. For some …
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:24 PM
3

I have a 6 pack. I have decent biceps and chest for a 44 year old guy. I've been writing in the TRP community online since 1987, mind you, and a lot of guys who say "go lift" are actually lying about their own physique and Game skills because they're dreaming here. The reality is that lifting is less than 10% of SMV, otherwise every popular male in the world would be ripped, and guys on EVERY workout forum wouldn't be complaining constantly about being lonely and single. Your physique is less th…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:14 PM
7

Lifting is everything for your SMV. A guy who can't lift a girl into the air but can make her laugh will have a high SMV. A guy who can lift a girl into the air but has no Game will be called creepy. You are confusing IOI and SMV. IOI helps to bring her to you to open, but if you have no game, IOIs just make you creepy. Game = confidence + charisma Game != strength or physique There are tons of social autists at the BB sub here who can't get laid to save their lives. They have hotter bodies than…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:02 PM
6

Lifting has nothing to do with SMV or women. It's not about women. Lifting is about yourself. Lifting is something you can do to challenge yourself. It's something you can do with your spare time versus video games or drugs. Lifting is something that you can do to increase your skill set, or become more valuable to other guys (this is certainly true in the world of sailing, actually). Lifting is not about SMV or women. Yes, the fact that I can pick my girlfriend up CAN give her tingles, but if I…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:58 PM
-1

You're confusing IOIs for SMV. That's a common error made here. IOIs have nothing to do with SMV, they're just initial points of interest, not attraction. Attraction comes from SMV comes from interactions.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:54 PM
-9

Your physique is less than 10% of your maximum SMV. Focus on the other 90% of SMV when it comes to attraction. Focus on your physique for your own reasons, not for women.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:06 PM
13

I've never told a woman what I do for a living. Ever. My mother and sister never knew what I did for work.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:31 PM
2

But we should remember that wealth cam be used as a means to increase your SMV. This is goofy to say. Does Mark Zuckerberg have high SMV? Of course not. Wealth is the tiniest part of SMV along with the other subcategories I listed. Wealth doesn't guarantee SMV; having zero wealth doesn't guarantee low SMV. Having confidence plus charisma guarantees a higher SMV every time, even if you're poor, fat, short and stutter. Having social proof guarantees a higher SMV every time. The categories I listed…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:23 PM
8

She's a plate, not your concern. But she's a bad candidate for future upgrade.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:53 PM
8

If she's worthy of an LTR without red flags, sure. Sex is a side effect, not a goal. I don't judge someone's relationship potential based on positive sex responses. Red flags are based on negative correlations from behaviors, not positive ones.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:47 PM
1

I never even looked at a gal as LTR worthy until she was a plate for at least a year. No way can anyone answer this question.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:40 PM
3

You need to read Pareto (translated into English). The world is no better or worse than it has ever been. If you want to continue to live among the bottom 80% of the world, you will always fear the future. Stop living with grunting knuckledraggers and you'll see we live in a world of endless opportunity and excellent people -- if you ignore the bottom 80%, who don't matter anyway.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 05:39 PM
0

The most charismatic people I know are musicians with $0 to their names. I produced bands for about 8 years and never met a musician who had more than $50 in the bank, but they were crazy charismatic. The most confidence people I know are athletes of one sort or another. Also had no money to speak of, generally. We're not talking pro athletes here, just people who love a sport with a passion. Social proof has nothing to do with being a celebrity, that is bullshit. I owned a small share in a popu…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:28 PM
7

He's way too young for her, if she's from Argentina.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 03:59 PM
4

#4 is such a tiny portion of SMV that you should really only work on those things AFTER you conquered the first 3. The first 3 are all self-derived.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:55 PM
22

Wealth is <1 point of SMV out of 10 possible points: Male SMV factors Charisma (0-2.5 points) Confidence (0-2.5 points) Reputation/social proof (0-2 points) Physique, age, height, weight, wealth, strength, dick size, race, hair cut, fashion, car, home, job (0-3 points total)
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:27 PM
87

"I am so thankful you and I have something in common!"
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:04 PM
2

But I don't understand if trying to reach a goal isn't going to happen because of reliance of dopamine, then how can we reach that goal? Detachment from the outcome ? Dopamine reliant people are fixated on the next dopamine high. Something as simple as "chasing Facebook likes" or "playing my favorite playlist on Spotify" can be an instant immediate dopamine high. When the brain becomes accustomed to instant dopamine highs, it is very hard to be motivated. Dopamine is anti-motivational. It's this…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:54 PM
8

I don't need to see it. It's oneitis and there's no hope for that one.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 10:47 PM
3

"Yeah? Perfect! Invite him out and I'll invite this gal I'm seeing casually and maybe we can both get rid of them so there's no guilt. If not, just come over, but you have to promise to be a good girl."
/r/askTRP28/03/18 10:46 PM
3

Umm, what did your beautiful message say exactly?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 10:19 PM
10

If she asks, you say "how old do I look?" and if they say "30!" you say "wrong, you can guess again in 30 days" and move on and reframe.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:30 PM
2

I started my "low reward living" journey at 28 and over the past 16 years have written a shit ton about it. If you are dopamine reliant in your activities and behaviors, you are reliant on what I call the anti-motivation neurotransmitter. So trying to reach a goal of changing something isn't going to happen. Risk of failure is close to 96% in the dopamine reliant. I have a shitlord of a doctor -- been going to him since I was 15. He's very red/yellow pill. He won't work with people who are overw…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:36 PM
2

Yep, I had a shitty diet growing up because poor immigrant parents. Not their fault. My brother born 6 years after me is 6'3". My dad was 6'3" at his tallest. I made a massive dietary change at 28. Also started working out.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:24 PM
5

My threesome experiences in my life generally seem to be with an ex and a current plate or girlfriend. Not sure why that is but you know how competitive women can be.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:41 PM
4

We can ignore a lot of the emo shit in your post and focus on the following: Make a budget you can actually live by. Start an emergency fund -- 6 months minimum, including your budget and whatever minimum debt payments you make in this fun Start a retirement fund -- minimum 10% of your paycheck goes here but at your age it should be closer to 15% - google three fund portfolio. If your employer has a retirement plan they match into, max that match out. Live at the bare minimum for 6 months and se…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:11 PM
27

Threesome.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:36 PM
-1

You don't need to supplement testosterone unless you're over 60 or have an actual pituitary problem (you don't). Dopamine and testosterone have a bidirectional relationship. If you are dopamine dependent on high reward activities, your testosterone will likely lack significantly -- especially at a young age. The Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Gonadal axis affects testosterone production and will limit it in a conditioned system that is dopamine insensitive due to over-reliance on dopamine stimulated act…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:21 AM
7

Game just means confidence and charisma. So you're always gaming everyone, really. Because you're a cocky motherfucker.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:14 AM
2

Yeah, none of that works for me. The network effect for bitcoin is too strong to overcome still, and there are too many very very powerful parties involved in bitcoin -- not just governments and banks but also revolutionary groups and the like. I also like the ability for criminal elements to prosper and too many altcoins are anti-crime. I'm sure there's money to be made on other alts, but I buy bitcoin for more than money. Currencies aren't for profit, they're for transaction purposes. I buy bi…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:08 AM
2

Also I keep 3-5% of my net worth in gold and silver and always have. Never hurts to have that small hedge! I don't do altcoins, I'm an bitcoin maximalist and likely always will be.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:52 AM
2

I always dollar cost average every week into my entire portfolio, buying based on the rebalancing goals of my portfolio. I'm retired (I retired at 41, am 44 now) and if one part of portfolio is a bit low based on my balancing goals, I'll buy more of that the rest. I reinvest $1000-$2000 per week. Dollar cost averaging into bitcoin has been really useful for me. If it ever breaks 12% of my net worth, I just sell down to 6% and keep dollar cost averaging from there, every week. If it drops below 6…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:48 AM
2

NoItsNotAFactorial
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:37 AM
2

My rule is to never sell anything unless that particular position is extremely imbalanced versus the rest of my portfolio. I always keep 6% in bitcoin plus I buy $100-$150 a week in bitcoin (and have since 2012) but if it exceeds 12% of net worth, I sell off and rebalance at 6%. I also buy stocks every week. And I buy real estate whenever there's a great value. My first real estate purchase was when I was almost 18!
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:36 AM
2

Yep, read more on this search term: three fund portfolio and three fund portfolio taxable -- do that and in 10 years you'll have some serious bank.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:23 AM
2

Money isn't as important as networking. Money IS important, but networking is more important. If you are unskilled in things, volunteer as an apprentice once day a week/one weekend day a month or whatever. Get skilled in shit your friends would never do! Women and sex are both side effects to a man who is making his life better each day. Women and sex end the day you are worse than yesterday.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:17 AM
11

What if you live with them? Doesn't change at all. Leave earlier than she does in the morning, come home later. Some nights leave for the gym, or to meet friends for whatever, or go for "band practice" or "helping Steve kill the yard racoon" or whatever the fuck gets you out of the house.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:16 AM
10

Send your notice to end the lease. Tell her that you're leaving at the end of it. Cancel all your utility bills and get a letter confirming they're being cancelled as of a specific date with $0 balance. After moving out, call the utility bill companies and confirm they're cancelled. Return the cable equipment (if any) yourself and get a receipt. Move out without her. If she wants the furniture, let her have it, but make sure the apartment is 100% empty when you move out. If she refuses to move o…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:14 AM
3

Sounds good. At your age you're going to have to keep at it, you'll make mistakes, no big deal. Remember you're young and you have a lot of personal shit to focus on other than just women and video games, drugs and parties, music and TV. So focus on yourself first, every day.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:09 AM
2

Well that is a tough one for sure. When does the lease end?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:03 AM
3

All of my LTRs in the past 10-12 years have been good because I've been a fucking great leader for relationships and they know how hard it is to find a guy who is lighthearted, cocky, funny, mysterious but still exciting. If you are a shitty leader, you will attract shitty followers. If you make yourself too available, you will attract people who are less available than you are.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:59 PM
4

Yeah my personal phone is always muted, always. My business phone is a flip phone and I let it ring. I don't let women take their phone out with me. If they do, I make new plans. If she bitches, I just say "hey, we're both busy, I get it, take care of what's important and let's try it again in a few weeks." My current LTR never pulls her phone out in front of me. Ever. If she did, I would bail and go do something fun without her. It took me 3 months of Pavlovian signals to get her to stop it wit…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:52 PM
2

One thing I should mention...if you're with any gals and you're constantly on your fucking phone, they will know you are a phone addict. On the other hand, if a woman NEVER SEES YOUR CELL PHONE, you don't have to worry about her not believing you that you're busy. I hate phones. I don't want them dinging and donging all day long while I'm busy doing shit. So put your phone away when you're with people. The guy who never uses a cell phone is the unique bastard in the world today.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:45 PM
6

Attraction only drops when you are too readily available and she knows too much about you. Never do that with an LTR. My LTRs never knew what I did for a living. I would go on solo vacations all the time. I wouldn't sit on a couch with them watching Netflix...ever.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:36 PM
4

So you reply later and later and later. "Ok, sounds great, interested to hear about it next time I see you" and then wait 2 hours to reply to the next one and 4 hours to the next one, etc. Pavlovian shit.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:30 PM
3

It applies to all women. I don't even text my mom and sister. "Let's talk about it face to face when I can give you my full attention."
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:19 PM
5

Yep. If she tries to pull me in I tell her "You know when we started dating I said I didn't like having online relationships. Tell me about it when I see you tomorrow night. Wear that white skirt that I like."
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:13 PM
4

How are you fucking her over? You're not her father or husband. You tell her "This relationship isn't what I want." If she's on the lease, that's a problem. If she isn't, you can probably give her notice to vacate. Don't pay her to move out. Don't financially support her anymore. Is she on your bank accounts? Phone bill?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:03 PM
0

Got to differ with you on that. otherwise your frame is also broken because you value this subreddit enough to read it. I've been reading and active in TRP-type forums online since 1987. I value TRP because it helps me access the 1-2% of men in the world who want to change but don't know how to start, and TRP attracts a lot of men looking for change.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:23 PM
6

I've pulled colleagues aside in private and asked if they have a problem with me. I've also gone out of my way to get colleagues fired or blackmailed them. A lot depends on your job and how political it is. I had a very political job at one point in my life where I had to bribe some hot feminists to pull the sexual harassment card on a competitor colleague who was trying to push me out of the group. Cost me a ton of money but I made more than that in the long run.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:52 PM
12

Is the other guy higher up on the ladder than you? Is the other guy connected politically or through nepotism to folks higher than you? If not, just outright say "stop acting like an autistic retard" and reframe everything to you. Treat him like the retarded cousin in the family if you need to. If he's connected, you have to decide if it's worth working there or not.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:39 PM
9

Invite her into your plans, don’t plan around her.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:13 PM
0

Yes there's a cure. Your first step is disconnecting the internet 100% except when you are literally at work or in the school library doing homework.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:42 PM
15

I help folks all the time with this problem. Here's what I suggest: Emergency fund is #1. 6 months at a minimum, and include your debt minimum payments in your emergency fund. After emergency fund, pay down any debt with an interest rate over 10% to $0. After 1 and 2, go into a three fund portfolio. Without knowing your specific numbers, I can't give you specific answers to how much.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:39 PM
0

I currently mentor or co-mentor to no less than 35 guys under the age of 18. 12 of them are from European countries. None of them have anything different in their lives than I dealt with in 1985. Plenty of folks here know me and know I'm honest about my failures and successes. I write on TRP under my real name and I'm not embarrassed by my failures -- or my successes. There are exactly 9 men in the TRP world who write and comment and mentor under their real names. 9. I am one of 9. Since you ref…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:30 PM
21

Your frame was broken if you posted this.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:06 PM
82

"My girlfriend" = she's not yours it's just your turn. Who cares, she's not forever.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:57 PM
26

"I have oneitis and she's treating me like oneitis would, what should I do?" Relationships require a few of the 12 levels of dread to be applied at some point.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:55 PM
3

Who creates drama? If drama shows up, I have other plans and will leave to go do what I want to do.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:50 PM
7

No spark likely means no spark. I would drop it, move on. Kiss on the cheek would be a hard next for me, honestly.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:45 AM
1

Again with the lies. I'm done with this conversation.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:29 AM
1

How do you have zero funds? Get a job or three. No one over the age of 13 should have zero funds.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:16 PM
2

Waist chest ratio
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:15 PM
2

If you are serious about it you'd be incorporating a business and opening a "gaming house" yourself instead of gaming. Sounds like your market is missing that. Why not do it that way, charge players a reasonable price, make a profit, then pitch it to sponsors for support as well. Be a producer. 99.99999% of gamers all think they're going to be pros. The 0.00001% who actually produce these gaming houses and services are the rich ones now.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:02 PM
4

I incorporatd my first business at age 13 in 1987 and had an office at age 15 in 1989. Stop bullshit me. I do have a background in professional gaming, yes. I financed 2 of those gamers a few years ago. The professionals either have "gaming houses" they live in that are financed by sponsors, or they go to actual officers they rent to do their jobs. They don't do it at mom and dad's house because that means they're shitty amateurs. not pros. Look up what guys like Diego Ruiz (Quas) did -- he had …
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:44 PM
3

How did you react, did you drop the plate? No way, the plate was the more professional of the two. She didn't bring it up on purpose, she just quoted me during a discussion and on thing led to another.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:14 PM
2

Except the problem is - my project and everything I do in my career revolves around internet and computers. There is no escaping it. So you have internet at work. 40 hours a week and go home to silence. If you want to do e-sports, rent an office with other e-sports players. Incorporate. Share the bills. Set your schedule. Don't bring your work home.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:12 PM
0

Tattoos and alcohol are low brow consumer sports. I guess if she makes her own wine at her family vineyard, or did her own tattoos using her great grandfather's ninja chinese wooden sticks method, different story. But I don't date consumers. Especially not lowbrow ones. FWIW, a glass of wine every few momnths I have no issue with.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:11 PM
3

Yep -- you can be superproductive during that year, too. Don't get into drugs and alcohol. Work on your foundational skills, including communicating, flirting, staying active, learning trade skills, etc.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:28 PM
3

Gap year sounds useful to me. Get your mind in order, get more physically connected to your body, build some regimented discipline. I'm not against it IF it won't set you back financially.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:23 PM
3

If it's free, go for it. But see if you can manage some work hours. College is about getting a degree and networking first and foremost. Staying sober and getting laid comes second for sure. After that, if you can grow your investment accounts while attending school, you can graduate ahead of everyone else assuming your parents aren't already rich.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:18 PM
3

Less is more. Women don't read bios really.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:15 PM
2

Is the military training volunteer or paid? Does it offer any long term financial benefits or help you get a job? Networking? College is a wreck for most guys but if your college is 100% free because of government funding, it might make sense if you can still do school PLUS a job or three.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:13 PM
6

Ask your parents to change the wifi password so you can't access it. Throw out your video games and computer. If you have a smart phone, downgrade to a flip phone.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:09 PM
5

At 18? Don't waste a single second on digital entertainment but focus all of that awesome youthful energy on working as many hours as possible and investing every penny. If you can live at home for free, do so for as fucking long as possible. Don't spend a dime on sneakers or phones or drones or video games or concerts or bars or drugs or any of that shit. ALl of that shit is for rich guys in their 30s and up to enjoy. If you're 18 now, you can be a millionaire by 28 without a college degree or …
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:04 PM
5

How does a guy know another person's n-count? That's an immediate red flag. You're going on a vacation for your own pleasure and purposes and you're defining it based on that. If she has issues with it, just let her know that if she's not into this trip you'll be traveling again and maybe the next one will work for her. Then go on your trip.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:02 PM
4

I've been on TRP forums online since 1987. I don't even know what "before TRP" means, lol.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:59 PM
1

Depends on the LTR. My last girlfriend didn't care what I did outside of the city we shared -- but when I am literally WITH SOMEONE, I am with them. I don't pull my phone out to text others or whatever. My current LTR waited for me for a number of years and was an active plate who knew her status. She waited for my LTR to expire, then waited until other plates expired, then she took the horns and said basically "I am not fucking this up" -- and she hasn't. I don't think she'd care if I was dicki…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:57 PM
3

I don't wear shoes most days, but I live 60-70% of my life in the Caribbean since I retired. When I'm at home in Chicago or SoFla I am usually shoeless. Fuck shoes. Height doesn't matter for anything but that initial IOI, and even then, it doesn't matter. I get tons of IOIs and I am an old ugly short dude with a homeless guy beard. I typically date cute to pretty women half my age.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:52 PM
8

Vitamin D, magnesium supplement, get rid of internet at home and digital entertainment for 6 months.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 05:46 PM
3

I was 5'6" from the age of 15 or so (ending prepuberty) until my late 20s. The height difference had no real effect. I once borrowed my lawyer's shoes (he's 5'3" and wore 5" elevators lol) and honestly I don't think it made that much of a difference being 6'1" in them. Women might be initially attracted to height, but she is going to get WAY more attracted to confidence and charisma.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:39 PM
7

They shit in your bed and where you eat for you.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:09 PM
9

You're looking for studies to confirm your bullshit loser bias. Stop being a loser and no one will even notice your voice.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:00 PM
7

Tom Cruise is shorter than that actually. Lots of Hollywood types lie about their height. I was in LA a few summers ago at a party and the house owned by a famous white rapper/producer who happened to show up at the party unannounced and he says he's 6' tall online but he was about my height in flip flops, lol. Height doesn't matter. I've dated hot women from 4'11" up to 6'0" and my height never mattered to any of them. My brother is 6'3" or taller and he definitely gets more IOIs initially -- s…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:51 PM
5

I was 5'6" at the age of 21 but I grew to 5'8" in my 20s. I know this is a fact because I've had the same doctor since I was 15 and he's had the same metal yardstick on his wall since the 1960s lol.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:46 PM
6

Voice doesn't matter at all. Zero. Game = confidence and charisma. There are MANY powerful speakers, actors, musicians, etc with high pitched voices. It's not the pitch, it's the presence.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:40 PM
13

I'm ugly. I am missing teeth. I have big moles on my face. I am short. I broke my jaw and nose TWICE each so they're crooked. I never once had a problem dating beautiful hot women. Game is not looks or height or money or physique. Game is confidence and charisma. That's it. Nothing else.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:08 PM
9

I think you may have been too cocky butthurt but honestly it's cool. Don't initiate texts for now. Set a calendar for 3-4 months and reinitiate by inviting her over late one night.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:47 PM
23

She'll be back around in a month or two. Just soft next for now, GFTOW. 9s are the easiest to re-engage after a few months when the new suitors destroy themselves by putting her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:44 PM
4

How do you deal with knowing you can LTR somebody more attractive though. Personally that's always at the back of my mind eating away at me. I'm 44 so I have 31 years of sexual history and dating behind me. I've gone on literally thousands of first dates. In my 31 years, looking back, I LTRd two unicorns -- one would be undeniably a 9 at her current age, maybe a 9.5 when we dated. We only broke up because she wanted kids and I wasn't ready but to this day we're still great friends (I owned a boa…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:39 PM
2

I stopped LTRing HB9s when I was in my early 30s because it's exhausting. HB8.5s or higher = plate status at best. Google Image: crazy hot girl graph It's true but the "hot and not crazy" portion of the graph is tiny tiny tiny in real life.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:25 PM
7

Outcome dependence = weakness
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:06 PM
4

Lifting isn't about physique, necessarily. It's for you and solely you. Others will see your focus on lifting as dread, of course, so it's beneficial. But your physique isn't the only goal unless you want it for you. The best physique for a man of any height is a WHR = 0.8 (waist to hip ratio) and a WCR < 0.75. WHR is important for fertility, for sure. It's even proven than men with lower WHR are more fertile. WCR is important for lung capacity -- also proven than men with low WCR have more stam…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 12:12 PM
1

If it was me, I'd get her on my team for sure. Invite her out to a dinner party with other coworkers on your team and use her power to help you climb the ladder.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 11:42 PM
3

Well, pro-level is two fingers massage, just FYI.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 10:39 PM
2

I do visit Trojmiesto Poland at least twice a year if that's nearby, lol.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 10:13 PM
15

Learn to prostate masturbate. TRP doesn't take any time, so if you've given up already, that's your second best option.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 10:10 PM
1

Well I always do in-person mentorships (no charge of course) but I live a good portion of the year on a boat in the Caribbean so it's tough now, lol. But if you're ever in Chicago or SoFla, hit me up before you visit to see if I'm around. I have an open-door policy.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 10:06 PM
5

Yeah, you just have to learn to play that shit test against her. "Yeah, look at your hot friend Cheryl I'm sure you've got the same issue I do, right?" Don't say those words, of course, but play that angle. A woman who brings up your looks versus your friend's is projecting that she isn't the pretty girl in the room.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 09:25 PM
15

Your game sucks. I'm an ugly guy, by far the ugliest dude in any of my social circles. Yes, my better looking friends get the IOI earlier, but their game sucks so they don't keep that attention. My game is solid, so once I'm in the door, it's easy peasy. Game = confidence and charisma, not looks or money or height or physique.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 08:44 PM
1

Spring horniness is a thing 100% of the time for 100% of men who have had sex. Most guys just don't even fucking notice it but it happens to all of us, guaranteed, at least once a spring from at least one ex. The Rule of Hey is also true 100% of the time. Don't believe me? Do a search of previous text messages (easy with google voice) for "heyy" or "heyyy" or "heyyyyy" and count them and then see what month that gal texted you. Probably April. I wouldn't stalk her, nah. You'd want to wait out th…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 07:35 PM
9

Because women are treasure hunters. All women. Women love to dig for buried treasure; they hate finding it. Women love shopping but hate what they bought. Women love playing with puppies but hate walking the dog. Women love the engagement ring and hate the wedding ring. It doesn't matter who she is, if she's a woman you're going to have to stay mysterious or she will shit test you. Mothers shit test sons. Daughters shit test fathers. One of my best friends for many years has 5 daughters and they…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 07:10 PM
2

Doesn't matter if she's older if you just want to 3 hole her a few times. Lawyer types are like that -- you can never keep them, but you can have a lot of fun with them for a season or two. Lawyer women are broken in the brain so you don't want to girlfriend them (or worse). The 2 lawyers I've plated were seriously amazing outside of the public eye, though. Very very dominant in public, but so submissive in person. One of them still hits me up every April (spring horniness). Every year for 12 ye…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 07:06 PM
8

Not sure I'd go for a judge but it's possible I might. They honestly can't violate the neutrality oath though, but after the case is resolved it's possible. I was being sued by the state for a very long time (2.5 years) and I always flirted with the state's attorney. After the case was resolved I asked her out and we did in fact date for a few years. She was hot as hell and crazy lawyer type so no LTR but damn. I was pleased with myself.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 06:59 PM
5

Do the math but it's better to have less money and no drama queen than more money and a 24/7/365 drama queen.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 06:32 PM
2

Texting is for logistics only. GFTOW and if she comes around in summer, great. If not, great.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 06:31 PM
7

You can't do anything about it. If you do, you create a forbidden fruit mindset and increase attraction for the forbidden fruit.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 06:10 PM
6

Yeah you can never be perfect for a woman. Ever. You can be perfect for a woman right now but people change and two people change significantly. The only person you can be perfect for is yourself. I am perfect for myself. I have been since I was 14. When I was worth $0 and had no job at the age of 31 and lost a million dollar empire, I was still perfect for myself. Women sensed that. Women still sense it. A man who is perfect for himself can be perfect for others. So work on your own goals and y…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:57 PM
0

Women should never know details about a guy -- not your mom, not your sister, not your daughter or wife.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:52 PM
12

Yeah my parents are both amazing for me but I also know how to play on that. I was a shitty kid, my folks booted me out of the house at 13 and never let me back in, but they always admired and respected me after that point because I busted my ass for all I had. And I marketed myself well. A man who markets himself will be a man with options everywhere in life. Many years ago, in the "MySpace" age, I decided to buy an ad on a bus stop bench with my face on it and some text for a business I ran. I…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:39 PM
2

I don't have a ton going for me. "No car" -- doesn't matter. I've plated women I met at a bus stop. "crummy job" -- doesn't matter, if you work at Target applying price tags you meet hot women every minute of every day. I know a kid who works in the McDonalds drive thru who has tons of plates. "live with my folks" -- doesn't matter. Meet cute girls and invite them over and tell mom not to bother you for an hour "no degree yet" -- doesn't matter, nobody is asking for your resume or CV. Join a ban…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:37 PM
3

Do you have a community laundry room?
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:34 PM
5

I don't game women on the internet ever. I let women slide into my DMs by themselves but I would never initiate private messaging with a gal on instagram or facebook or reddit. They can message me if they're curious. The only reason a girl is even on instagram or tinder is because she's bored at that very moment. She's only on there the minute she is bored and she wants an excuse to go out and have some fun. Hence, digital dating is a waste of time for guys unless you are only focused on logging…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:32 PM
5

All relationships require a read of the 12 levels of dread. You can not engage dread overnight. It takes time. If you're young or the relationship is new, better to next her and move on to the GFTOW rule before attempting another LTR. If you haven't FTOW total in your entire life, you are in no position to be in an LTR. If you have no wealth built and no goals you are reaching for your own future, you are in no position to be in an LTR.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:30 PM
12

You don't know jack shit about abundance mentality, you're just quoting something you read but you haven't internalized it. Wasting time with one girl's DMs is evidence you don't have any abundance. The guys who clean up on instagram are connecting with dozens of women and dropping the low hanging fruit quickly, not posting about "this one girl" on reddit.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:25 PM
20

I don't think mom has a clue, she's not the brightest bulb in the closet. She's just mom being a mom, I don't pay much attention to it.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:24 PM
12

It's still oneitis. There's an entire link on the sidebar about "there's this one girl" you should read, re-read, and read again the next time there's this one girl.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:20 PM
27

The RP thing to do here is to not have oneitis for some random bot on instagram.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:16 PM
60

Her favorite "baby picture" of mine is my first kiss -- I was 4 years old and I smooched the neighbor's 9 year old blonde girl, lol. She loves that photo and tags me in it on instagram and facebook at last once a year. I won a trophy in the boy scouts when I was 10 or 11 and was on the front page of our local village newspaper. Mom clipped that and still shows it to people. I'm 44 fucking years old but she still shows it off to cute girls, lol. Mom still has no idea what I did for a living/incom…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:11 PM
27

Moms who love their sons will do things that a man might find embarrassing but I never did. I love that my mom's increased my SMV to women, and still does.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:05 PM
2

You create your options. DGAF mentality. If you have nothing, you can still have options.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 03:32 PM
3

How do you get confidence and charisma? Confidence Confidence comes from knowing you have options and contingencies in all your plans, and not relying on just one outcome. Part of TRP is "Outcome Independence" which comes from having options. Charisma Charisma can be best explained as charm -- even if you don't agree with others or care about them, the charming man is someone people look up to and want to be around because of the charm. The only way to becoming charismatic is to be confident in …
/r/askTRP25/03/18 03:17 PM
2

The most sex I got from the hottest women in my life was the summer I was the most broke in my entire life and just out of a divorce. I was so poor that I couldn't afford to turn the electricity on in my basement studio apartment. I had no lights, no fridge, no hot water. And yet I got laid by the hottest women in that shithole apartment. Game is confidence + charisma. Game is not looks or money or muscles or job.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 03:10 PM
2

Yep, you need to work at learning to not work. Fun and spontaneous comes from one foundation: options. A man who is fun and spontaneous is only that way because he doesn't really care if his #1 plan for the day is ruined because of rain or someone having her period. He has 20 other plans that will keep him happy, and he doesn't digress and get depressed because his #1 goal was ruined for the next 24 hours. It’s my sex drive over the duration of one I am though, and it comes down to me honestly a…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:50 PM
5

You can't negotiate attraction. It's a foundational rule. The more you try to "work" at attracting her, the more work you would have to do and you've now lost because relationships aren't supposed to be work for the man. With every breath you are actually getting better, more attractive. She's the one generally losing value over time, so why should you be working to attract her? If she's losing interest it's because you're not interesting. It means you're failing yourself and she senses that.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:29 PM
2

I tried both canine and feline meat in Asia and both were pretty nasty. I like horse meat (and horse girls but only because daddy has a bigger boat than I do). Pet owners used to be retirees or families but now it's single mental patients commonly.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 10:46 PM
15

I don't date women with pets, period. I don't even like plating them. Pets are nonsense for young people who want to travel or work out of state or do whatever it is we do. I won't even befriend guys with pets unless they are homebodies who never leave their homes. Pets are an anchor, a needless anchor.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 10:18 PM
7

It's not disrespect, it's just a shit test. That's it. Handle it like any other shit test.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:27 PM
1

I can dig that and agree 100%.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 09:02 PM
2

There is a reason not to talk about Fight Club. Women want their man to just get it fucker. Absolutely true, but the real portions of Fight Club aren't coming out of TRP discussions but the deeper reading and personal activities that validate TRP. Reading TRP changes no one. This is why most people come, post their shitposts, try to OYS for 2 days and then they're back to being the ATM machine pre-divorce or breakup. Don’t fucking DEER it, don’t say you are becoming a better man. Oh I agree, don…
/r/askMRP23/03/18 08:52 PM
7

You live rent free, go get 2 jobs and build your side hustle, too.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:19 PM
7

Who gives a shit. I post here using my real fucking name and have been on TRP style forums since 1987 under my real name and when women google me they find my shit. TRP is for men like makeup alley is for women. Or victoria's secret push-up bras. Do you call out your woman for using makeup and push-up bras to be a better woman? She has nothing to say about you wanting to be a better man. She's not even your wife so if she gives you grief, dread game and if she continues, hard next. My current LT…
/r/askMRP23/03/18 08:18 PM
6

Oh, she said she would? Well that's reliable. /S
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:00 PM
10

Get them both pregnant and sign over 40% of your paychecks for the next 18 years to both of them and live in your car.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 07:57 PM
2

Join a band, join a gym.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:54 PM
10

Girls don't give a shit about rational math success or a guy's good looks, they give a shit about social proof validating both of those things, real or artificial.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:03 PM
0

There's no omission here. 3-4 months is too early to form an LTR or admit to dating other people. Plates break, and in this case as in all others, she is no unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 01:45 PM
1

I used to have a blog up that let you enter a person's age and it would tell you the top 10 songs from when they were 14. Man I spent like 3 years on that fucking thing and then it got popular so I had to take it down because it was ruining my mojo. Give it a try and report back. And turning rap or metal or anything into acoustic rock is killer.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:49 AM
2

Great description, exactly so!
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:48 AM
4

It takes a real pro to act like a no-nothing. I've tried it before and usually fail. Although whenever I am at a beach with my surf board or paddleboard I can play "dumb surfer dude" really well, and the women respond excellently to it. I've been friends with a semi-pro surfer for many years and he does "dumb surfer dude" perfectly, but he also can do high level physics/calculus behind closed doors, lol.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:38 PM
12

To be honest, the guy is a hero. I wish I had this amount of fake idiocy to broadcast. The 3 guys who I know who pull more tail than anyone else all fake dumb. One of them quite literally misspells everything and he's actually one of the most intelligent people I know, but with women he acts like a donkey with half a brain and it works wonders.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:27 PM
8

The best song is whatever popular Disney movie song was popular when she was 14. Learn those songs. I suck at karaoke but I can do every Disney movie song for the past 30 years, lol. Panties drop instantly.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:25 PM
7

I hid a bunch in the sidebar, see if you can find them and win a prize.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:24 PM
3

I feel like my IQ dropped 20 points already today. I am so so so thankful that the millennial women I date don't use emojis. Not just with me, but with others. It's a sickness, I think. The really really really hot gym trainer at one of my gyms speaks only in emoji, but other than her being hot, she's dumb as a box of rocks. So it's acceptable, I guess.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:23 PM
19

JFC my brain leaked reading that. OP is dating a mentally retarded person. Didn't realize the emoji was the ex boyfriend, who is obviously mentally retarded.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:11 PM
1

I didn't even mention MRP do weird that they're coming here!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 08:26 PM
2

She made all her money buying private "dorm" apartments to rent to white upper class coeds with wealthy white parents who didn't like the idea of their beloved virginal (lol) daughters or granddaughters staying in mixed race dorms. Basically she fed the reality of racism and made a huge profit. Now she owns a lot of individual private "dorm" apartments.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 07:08 PM
1

What about internal values that they have? Their beliefs? Their boundaries? Their moral code? If I am the leader then I would need to set up all of this? Not for them, no. You set them for yourself and yourself alone. It is not your responsibility to do what is best for others but for yourself. Examples: I don't go to the gym so that I am hot and strong for anyone else. I am hot and strong for myself only. My girlfriend(s) love this about me, but I don't do it for them. I don't earn money so tha…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:35 PM
1

This has nothing to do with them but with you. They're submissive meaning they need strong leaders. If you want to be with them, you have to fulfill that need of theirs. When you act weak, they lose interest. It's not their fault, it's your fault.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:06 PM
2

I don't talk negative to women. I don't act negative in front of women. Not even my mom or little sister. Women are to be enjoyed, not to be emotional with.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:05 PM
1

It isn't common sense, because if it was common sense you wouldn't have asked the question that you asked. A man can not judge a woman versus the world, he can only judge the world versus himself. You are a third party between a woman and the world, not an active participant. You had an LTR cheat on you and instead of judging your own actions, you judged hers. Your post is very recent and I read it new. You're already asking about a future LTR but nowhere in your recent post or comment history d…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:19 PM
2

No woman is worth LTRing until you are worth LTRing first. If you are low quality, you will only attract lower quality women.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:15 PM
13

I cheer myself up, but people (women and men) have done nice things for me that have added to that cheer. Last spring my mom (old retired lady) surprised me by putting a small tree I wanted in my front yard. It was a really nice surprise because I like that tree. Whenever I'm home and I see it, it cheers me up. Last year, my girlfriend surprised me with a paid-for week-long solo trip. I was considering it, I had it on my budget board at home but just couldn't swing it (I travel, a LOT, mostly so…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:08 PM
1

There's brigading? lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 12:27 PM
2

It's tough to explain it but the party who is losing value is the one who will make it expensive for the party gaining value.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:26 PM
4

Hit up the butcher at the grocer. If you can befriend him, ask if he can give you some lessons after/before your shift. That's a guy to get to know, and a talent to try to learn. Live at home with the parents as long as humanly possible. Learn to fix shit around the house -- do roof patching, cement patching, whatever. The more you learn on your parents' dime, the more secure you will be later. Don't worry about living with your parents, a lot of famous wealthy guys did that until they were 40, …
/r/askTRP21/03/18 11:38 PM
2

If you really want to make a woman crazy for you, focus on her flaws but never mention it. If she has a big nose, focus more on her nose. If she has a big ass, when you touch her back and stroke down make sure to immediately pull your hand away from her ass. It's pure comedy. Don't even point out her flaws, just make sure she notices you noticing them. Your sex life changes for the better. Please note that advertisers and most of the wealthy lords of industry make sure to focus on people's weakn…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:30 PM
5

Just wait until you start seeing it in person more. You'll start to push THEM away, and the funny thing is -- this is what causes them to fight for you and try to get closer to you. Try telling a girl that all your guy friends think is hot something like "ugh, gross, get away from me" and see how fast she tries to get in your pants, lol.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:14 PM
3

exactly
/r/askTRP21/03/18 09:44 PM
5

6-figure income doesn't matter as much as saving/investing more than you spend. I know a guy who never made more than $35,000 a year at his job who is 31 and worth over $1.5MM. But he never made over $35,000 a year in the past 17 years of working a job. I know it doesn't sound possible but it is. The younger you are, the easier it is to get super wealthy without earning a lot. But as you age and your energy levels drop, it becomes very, very difficult.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 09:34 PM
4

I post here under my real name. I have no shame about my public business failures, my very public 7-figure divorce, etc. I worked my ass off doing what I was good at (not what I loved) and invested it versus spending it on useless alcohol or video game addictions. Pretty "easy", just takes a time and patience to get there.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 09:23 PM
5

Yeah I am lucky in that regard. I have always been an ugly dude, short, have a lisp, have a Forrest Whittaker stroke eye but women always look up to me because I always have shit going on, always have social proof, always have a reputation (even if it's a bad one, it's still a reputation). If you don't have jack shit in your life but video game wins and knowledge of TV stars, of course you look for validation externally. I don't seek validation so I never felt like I needed a woman to prove I ha…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 09:06 PM
10

How did you handle/deal with talking with a HB10. I know I blinked twice when I met her because she wasn't wearing makeup and she didn't even dress for the event like others did and she was still stunning. But...a gal I dated (HB8 probably) was also a model (Target type sales flyers) and after we broke up I saw what happened to her in 3 years, so meeting the HB10 and experiencing her natural stunning beauty didn't get me tongue tied because I did the "look for negative attributes" trick and I di…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 07:56 PM
3

Wait what? women are generally uglier than men? can you explain what you mean by that. How do you really measure/gauge such a thing? How many guys do you know that wear bras or put on makeup every day? If you can't name a number, at least name a percentage of men to women based on wearing bras and putting on makeup. Also, as a side, do you think women deliberately fake dis-interest in you in order for you to gain interest in them? Possibly but a woman who fakes interest is a low value women alre…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 07:43 PM
8

There are far more highly attractive men in the world than women. I figure it's 10:1 ratio. This is the reason that divorce is so expensive for a man, actually. The thing is, women generally hunger for attention when they're bored and don't have to work for it. So as a man, you have the responsibility to pick a woman based on the amount of time she has to seek attention versus the amount of time she invests in "working for it". I don't date women with instagram accounts -- and at 44 I still date…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 07:37 PM
9

Women are generally uglier than men, but men are easily duped by fake beauty. In all the world, if you took every single person of any age or gender, you'd have 10X as many highly attractive men for every highly attractive woman. This fact is why marriage is so expensive to exit for a man.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 07:28 PM
7

Some do have natural beauty though. Women? Yes. 2% of women have natural beauty but they have less than 3 years on average to manage it before the Wall hits them hard. If you include women under legal age that number probably goes up 500-1000% but naturally you have to wait it out and by the time they're 18, that number plummets back to 2% or so. There seems to be so much power in that ability. You've never met an HB10 in your entire life, likely. I'm 44 and I think I've met 3 HB10s in my life a…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 07:13 PM
30

Spend some time on any makeup youtube page and see the magic women do with makeup. Or spend some time on any "what bra should I buy?" forum and see how fake their looks generally are. My dad told me when I was a teenager: don't trust a woman's beauty until you've gone to the pool or beach with her. Dad was right. Women don't appear attractive to me and haven't for years until I've seen them coming out of a pool in little clothing. The rest is all spackle and corsets, lol.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:37 PM
3

I don't invest in startups like that -- these are local ones mostly meeting through my real life social "network". The most difficult part is due diligence. The capital a lot of small startups need isn't much -- I've turned $5000 into $50,000 in 2 years. I've also turned $25,000 into $0 in 3 months, lol.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:11 PM
3

Do that! I probably have a lot of mutual friends with folks here, lol. Been on TRP forums for over 31 years. Yeesh, scary to consider that.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:09 PM
5

I was a risk mitigation consultant -- a very tiny, very niche, very exhausting market. Most people in that market burn out by 45 so I got out before I burned out but I was close. Most of my NW came from investing in tiny startups and taking a lot of risk, but my NW isn't very high. I just live hyperfrugal. I didn't spend $1 on food in March, lol. Probably won't spend a $1 on food until June if my hoard holds up well and my co-op shares keep producing more than I need. I'm 44 now and I feel like …
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:54 PM
15

I never gave a fuck what anyone thought of me, even when I was 8. But the real change happened when I retired at 41. Fuck You money is the best way to live without really giving a shit what anyone thinks. I can say anything to anyone at any time now and not worry about consequences at all. I can be as belittling and prejudice as I want to, directly to people, and there's nothing they can do about it anymore.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:56 PM
9

TRP = Tranny Redditor Porn, I thought!
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:55 PM
14

I post on reddit and other TRP blogs and forums under my real name. So what? I've had girlfriends ask me about it and I just tell them "Read what I wrote, maybe you'll learn something." TRP isn't anything bad. It's not like it's a tranny porn subreddit.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:36 PM
1

Not even a kiss, just a cocky way to give my attention to something else. First dates aren't her testing you, they're you testing her. Women are FAR more nervous on a first date than men are. But those nerves are abated because most men give women too much attention on a first date.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:07 PM
3

Revenge is a beta trait. Go game other women. You lose by accepting her back.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:39 PM
3

I don't usually try to force it at all. At some point early in the date, she has to prove her interest in me, not vice versa. If I pull back and she doesn't close the gap, I just end it. Women are a a dime a dozen if you're in the top 20% of guys, so why waste time with one who doesn't show high interest early on? Honestly, the best thing you can do is just go on 10 dates 1/2 hour each all at the same place the same evening and see how droll and uneventful most women are. I just can't imagine pu…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:53 PM
10

I've never once had a first kiss be at the end of a date. How uncomfortable and awkward. And I've been dating women for 31 years. Get that kiss in halfway through the first date and it's a lot less awkward. And if you're not attracted to her, don't waste your time. You'll know early on and can bail early on to do something more useful.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:46 PM
3

Don't talk about anything. Text = logistics only. You made the date plans now go game other women who are more available today/this week.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:10 PM
-1

Read the sidebar on oneitis.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:08 PM
17

People who ask low quality questions like this never do jack shit, ever. How about you do a little research on different gym protocols, then post a new post asking about specific protocols. This is 100% lazy shitposting.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:12 PM
3

No one is worth anything. Women are a dime a dozen, so game them every day and don't worry what 1 or 10 of them do.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:04 PM
2

Game new women and if she comes around in a week as promised, keep gaming new women.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:01 PM
2

This is answered in the sidebar. It is literally a post about exactly this.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:51 PM
2

Your 401K and her shitty budgeting have nothing to do with each other.
/r/askMRP20/03/18 05:15 PM
3

What drugs does she use now and what drugs has she a history of using?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:42 PM
3

Do you care if a kitten or puppy respects you?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:31 PM
7

Shorter women typically have higher SMV than taller women. In fact, women who are 5'2" tend to be the "most attractive" even to men who are 6'8"! The taller a woman is, the lower her SMV is, typically.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 09:46 PM
12

How big is her dowry? If it's under 5 lakh, find someone with more. Honestly I would just ask your parents to arrange a better bride -- I hear in your village you can marry a woman as young as 7? Also the "9" in HB9 isn't their age, dude.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:59 PM
4

Did I tell you the "never heard a dial tone before" story?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:13 PM
4

I'm 44 and 18 year olds are finally too annoying for me unless they're from tiny European villages lol
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:07 PM
2

Have you taken any medication for ADHD lately? If so, when and for how long and was it prescribed or did you take it for fun?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:46 PM
0

No, that IS the point.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:42 PM
-2

Your girl is older than you? Why? You're 22 and you're exclusive? Why? 22 divided by 2 = 11 plus 7 = 18 years old is your proper dating range. A 23 year old female should be dating a guy who is 22 - 7 = 15 * 2 = 30 years old. Or older.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:28 PM
5

Yeah you introduced a negative attitude and scotched her interest. "I'm bored" is the equivalent of saying "I am boring" for sure. Why are you there? "I'm on my way to (something awesome), come with"
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:24 PM
7

If she's in a bad mood go hang out with positive people.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:23 PM
9

I've never heard of a woman torturing a man. I've heard of guys being too stupid to keep paying for the cow that gives them nothing while other guys get the milk for free. Lots of guys want to live in Hollywood fantasy land. That's not the woman's fault for the guy feeling tortured because he made and makes shitty life choices based on actors and characters.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 07:28 PM
0

I'm 44 and I've posted on red pill forums since 1985 under my real name, like I do here.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:57 PM
6

One of the side effects on taking meth is erectile dysfunction. The longer you take meth, the more permanent that can be. There are a LOT of guys who took meth from age 15-19 who can't get boners anymore at age 23. Stop taking meth for long periods of time. One oddity is that some guys have the opposite reaction to meth, but they're in the tiny minority.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:30 PM
2

Ever take ritalin or adderal recently or any drug for adhd?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:25 PM
1

You have to already have other plates, otherwise she's your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:20 PM
0

Your life is already over. Just sign your paychecks over to some flat ugly ghetto single mother.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:10 PM
8

TRP has nothing to do with either result. Going to the gym is about the time YOU spend on YOURSELF for your own purposes and pleasures. You don't do it for others. You do it solely for yourself. Getting huge or getting strong is no the goal for all.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:05 PM
1

Migraines should be first addressed with magnesium supplementation for 30 days to see if it's a depletion. Sarno and migraines: https://www.thankyoudrsarno.org/tag/migraines Sarno and migraines: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/unlearn-your-pain/201507/severe-migraine-finding-answers-in-the-mind-not-in-pills
/r/askMRP15/03/18 05:34 PM
2

Sounds like something some ghetto fool who looks up to instagram celebrities with bling would say.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 05:00 PM
4

100% of my first dates are insta-dates then and there or it's never. That's it. Within a few minutes of meeting her, she's either joining me for 10 minutes of coffee or she's nexted forever more. Why would a 24 year old guy even give two more seconds of thought to some random gal when there are 20,000 random gals within 10 miles of you? I don't make a girl commit to the future, she can commit to 10 minutes of time right now or she's out forever.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:48 PM
4

If you're bulking, you will gain muscle mass for sure if you train well. Not all muscle mass gains have volume, though.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:17 PM
6

If you can't lift heavy, hypertrophy means jack shit. Hence why it's called Starting Strength. You need to get strong first, with great form, avoiding injuries, getting into a good recovery routine as well, sleep well, eat well. After you get all the ducks in a row, you can start adjusting your routine to focus on hypertrophy.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:42 PM
3

My chiro messed me up more. My real GP saved my life by suggesting it. I've suggested the book to probably 1200 people and more than 80% of them have reported back in weeks or a few months that they were cured of their pains.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 02:31 PM
3

Ditto. I would say that Sarno's book actually put me on a path to lower reward living. I was 10 days out from having serious back surgery, unable to walk, unable to move, in pain, in tears. My doctor forced Sarno on me. I read it in an afternoon, the next day I was up and walking, and a week later I was freed from back pain, TMJ pain, carpal tunnel pain and a lot more. Whenever my back pain comes back, I read Sarno quickly.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 02:26 PM
1

How am I lost? I am not political at all -- I made quite a bit of my wealth lobbying every political party for my own benefit. I loved Obama because he dropped bombs on brown women and I owned defense stocks. I loved Hillary for the same reason. Also loved Trump for the same reason. I love warmakers who lie to idiot voters. Society should decline -- more slaves means more power and wealth for me. These are slaves who voluntarily submit themselves to servitude. It's a fucking beautiful world, the…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:49 PM
2

Yep.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 01:48 PM
6

"Degenerative discs" -- please go and buy Dr. Sarno's "Healing Back Pain" on Amazon right now. Read it yourself. Report back in 2 days, it's a short, inexpensive read. Second, did she have an intestinal biopsy? As in, you know she had one done? If not, after you read it, Google crohn's disease dr. sarno please.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 01:48 PM
4

Did you know she had these auto-immune disorders when you married her? What type of doctor diagnosed these disorders? Which disorders specifically does she have?
/r/askMRP15/03/18 01:29 PM
2

I don't have discussions trying to understand your viewpoint. My life is supreme to whatever anyone else wants because mammals and all of nature are in constant competition. You have biases, I have biases, and the more opaque we keep things the more value we get out of every transaction. Trying to sit down and figure you out is a waste of my time because of opacity in relationship markets. You're welcome to your opinion until it encroaches on my liberties. The moment is does, I am free (by natur…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:26 PM
3

Anyone who believes in groups of individuals having power over individuals is numbnuts. Putting people into groups is a great way for powerful interests to control the individuals in those groups.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:15 PM
2

You just give her equal attention to other women in the circle, that's it. She's just an equal to everyone else now, she's not special.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:17 PM
5

Women are an audience. They're a paying audience. They show up with fist fulls of cute and sexy and adoring and if you aren't performing, they'll take their currencies elsewhere. You aren't forming a life long relationship with any of them. You do that with your inner circle of guys. With women, the next shiny purse or shoes or douchebag alpha will make them forget the last one that tore or faded or got boring. My current girlfriend has known me many years, she still has no idea what I did for a…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:17 PM
2

In person she's one of the crowd you're performing in front of. She's a paying customer like everyone else, so give her a good equal show like you would anyone. I got nexted by a gal who was in my social network after that and I always played cocky and cool with her. "Fist bump fuck yeah" whenever she would say anything to me because I didn't value her anymore, and of course a few weeks of that and we were banging again, lol. Light. Funny. Cocky.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:08 PM
1

Was this conversation of hers in person or over text?
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:06 PM
3

I see how you've kinda planted the image of meeting and said what I said without the rudeness/bluntness. Should I reply or unmatch? Invite her over and if she balks, next. She's one girl. There are literally tens of thousands of women on Tinder you can invite over or out to join you in something you already planned to do. Women get on Tinder only when they're bored or horny or lonely. They don't get on there like guys do, so if she's active right now, your target time frame is literally right no…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:06 PM
4

I was trying to gauge whether on not it’s one of those things where no matter how genuine and healthy those feelings are you’ll always disgust a woman with it out of the blue. I don't share negative emotions with women. Not my girlfriend. Not my plates. Not my mom or my sister. Never with my customers when I still worked. When it comes to women, I am always cocky and positive and funny and charming. Always. There's not a millisecond of a frown or anger or depression. The women who I keep in my l…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:03 PM
8

You build rapport in person. When a woman is texting she's doing one of two things: She's bored and needs validation from an emotional tampon or 3, or She's bored and is hoping there's one guy out there charming enough to get her out of her boredom and into his bedroom. You're in category 1. She says she's studying fashion? Great. "Sounds cool, wear something artistic when you come over tonight."
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:00 PM
9

Texting: it's for logistics only.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 09:55 PM
3

She's reflecting you, likely. You're being a poor leader of this relationship and she's going to be branch swinging soon if she hasn't already. 12 levels of dread active?
/r/askTRP14/03/18 09:54 PM
12

"I miss you buying shit for me." "I miss finding your cheap victoria secret panties under my couch." "I miss you bringing your hot friends over." "I miss how angry you get when I flake on you."
/r/askTRP14/03/18 09:49 PM
23

"lol tiger easy there"
/r/askTRP14/03/18 09:42 PM
1

How do you reconcile that? "She" = 1 girl you rely on for those emotional ties or feelings or social benefits. "They" is more the method here. My girlfriend knows if she gets too dramatic she's nexted. That's because she waited in line until I gave her the chance to show me her positive aspects, free of the typical negative ones. A man who displays value to those around him is a man who women will fight their own rational-shit-testing brains to try to be better towards and for. My girlfriends hi…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:16 PM
5

I love my Rolex, it's fine jewelry on my arm that actually opens doors. I love my girlfriend, whichever one I have today. She's fine jewelry on my arm that actually opens doors. Also, there's nothing more cute than a girl who is so in love with you that she giggles like a retard and sings made-up songs about you constantly. If you haven't dated a gal like that, date 100 or 1000 or 10,000 women until you find one, and then never date a gal who isn't like that ever again. There are millions like h…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:08 PM
1

"Your" girl? Who would that be?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:27 PM
10

Never complain about work. If you really are distracted, make something cocky and funny up. "Fyeah everything fine!" "Are you sure?" "Well, everything is awesome but earlier today I heard a song and it got stuck in my head and now I totally forgot if it was Katy Perry or the Star Wars theme song and it's kinda driving me nuts."
/r/askTRP08/03/18 11:29 PM
2

She will possibly live in a convent and study the Bible the entire time she's away. Possibly. She also may possibly learn to fly on brainpower alone and be able to convert lead into gold. Possibly.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 10:56 PM
5

If you have common interests with women, you are one. Your only interest in high school is building skills, locking down your diet and fitness, finding side hustle skills now to start saving money before you graduate, plating women so you learn to let all the drama just roll off of you, and networking with guys who might actually be valuable later. Women who share interests with guys are still women. She knows subconsciously what her value is and games it, or she's fat. It never hurts to game wo…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 10:15 PM
1

I didn't see the arranged marriage part. That doesn't change anything -- if anything, she needs you to be even more stoic like her father. Do you live in the US or in India? If in India, ask HER father for advice. He will tell you to beat her, lol. You can't expect Daddy's Princess (who beat her when she opened her trap) to NOT test you constantly. Source: My father is Indian and left India at 17 because he didn't like beating servants like the reset of his family. Dad only marries European wome…
/r/askMRP08/03/18 08:45 PM
9

Do you actually want to take some emocunt on a vacation where you'll have a blast? Any kids? Go on your vacation, with or without her. YOUR vacation. You owe her nothing here -- don't ask, don't tell. You invited her, right? The invite is still open. If she wants to join you as your jewelry for the week, great. If not, you'll have fun without your jewelry.
/r/askMRP08/03/18 06:57 PM
3

Hey, she promised you she'll be faithful, so you can trust her, right?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:47 PM
2

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:43 PM
6

You are a shit show and I would suggest just signing the home title over to her and giving her all the funds in your bank account as well as 100% of your retirement/pension now and if you can, live in a van by the side of the river. How are you with a fishing rod and a filet knife? Asking for a friend.
/r/askMRP08/03/18 04:41 PM
8

Why would looks matter? Short soy boy likely has game while handsome stud doesn't. Game matters. Game = confidence + charisma, not looks or money or big dick or height.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:49 PM
11

Argue? I've never argued with an LTR, plate, any female. Ever argue with a puppy?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:23 AM
6

oneitis
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:08 AM
2

GFTOW.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:45 PM
2

OP deleted his post so he can go cry to his depression subreddit
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:09 PM
13

I advise you to stop lying to us and yourself and read the sidebar. No man should post an entire emotional vomit on TRP about one girl.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:01 PM
1

She has serious mental health issues She hit the wall. I’m genuinely concerned she’s going to die if she doesn’t get help. That's how women play it after they hit the wall. They make everyone fear for them so they get continued attention. burying your sister is going to be absolutely fucking awful and I’d rather not do it. That's because you're still blue pill as fuck. Women attention whore after they're not longer hot enough to get it naturally.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:00 PM
3

If this was my sister, fuck it, AWALT. Is your life awesome already? Are you ready to retire young and jetset around the world? Who the fuck cares if she wants to be a whore -- this is reality. She's long past hitting the wall, there is nothing you can do to help her. You aren't Jesus.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:55 PM
15

My friend Frank is alpha as fuck. He's also 5'4". Not too handsome but he could Game my pants off and I have zero gay in me. Frank has a stutter. But he amazes me over it. Frank and I are talking to two cute girls at the beach and Frank's stutter goes f-f-f-f-f-f-f-u-ck-ck-ck-ck-ck-all. What does Frank do? He holds up one finger, makes eye contact with the cuter brunette and finishes his line about 15 seconds later. Then he lowered his finger and let her talk. I got wood, I admit it.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:49 PM
19

I posted this a few months ago: Famous men with stutters: Tiger Woods Joe Biden (still has it) John Stossel James Earl Jones Samuel L Jackson (still has it) Bruce Willis (still has it) Chris Martin (musician singer and still has it) If you stutter in person, don't apologize but if they look funny at you just say "I have a stutter, it comes and goes just ignore it". Own your disabilities as if they're super powers. I have a stutter if I drink too much coffee but I only experience that maybe every…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:13 PM
12

I've had the same doctor since I was 15 years old. He has the same metal ruler on the same wall in his home clinic since the 70s. When I was 18 I was 5'7" on that ruler. It never affected my Game -- I dated spinners and I dated amazons. When I was 25 I was 5'7" on that ruler. In my early 30s I had some terrible back and joint pains so we tested everything out and guess what? I was 5'9" on that ruler. I had a growth spurt in my early 30s obviously. Stretch marks, too. I'm 5'9" now and it has zero…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:33 PM
9

Honestly this feels a little extreme but you seam to know what you’re talking about so how often does it actually happen? Well I vet women on the first date and always have. First dates are typically "insta-dates" when I meet them. Isolate, get her seated for coffee ($2, 10-15 minutes) and if she obviously red flags then she's out. The phone habit is usually pretty visible right away, but not always. The second date is usually an activity I love doing, so if we're having fun physically somewhere…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:04 PM
1

Doesn't happen with me. If she whips her phone out, I leave. I don't give any space on this. I also have a no-phone-or-electronics in my bedroom rule. Not even a TV or alarm.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:48 PM
0

Why are you on an anti-depressant?
/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:35 PM
3

What's your ethnicity or heritage? This is cultural, typically.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:46 PM
-7

Oneitis.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:41 PM
6

Yeah, I'm a cold bastard but I have random expressions of affection, adoration and even love for those with me -- definitely useful because those the the things they strive to get out of me more, lol. The thing is, I love women (all women, especially AWALT) so it's not like I'm frigid. I'm just not polarized like most overexcited consumers of the world.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:14 PM
5

Surprise displays of affection like Pavlov's bell never hurts but they have to be surprises.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:02 PM
8

Google: 12 levels of dread
/r/askTRP04/03/18 05:06 PM
9

I date myself, actually. I certainly don't date women. I am taking myself out this afternoon because it's fucking beautiful out. I sent an invite last night out to candidate #1 who would be a suitable piece of jewelry on my arm when I go outside later, but I sent 2 backup texts today with "whats up" but no invite. If nobody shows up, I'll be without some pretty jewelry today, but it doesn't change the fact that I am going out to have a blast.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 03:54 PM
10

You're not Jesus. Or Luke Skywalker. Focus on yourself so you don't end up like him.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 03:14 PM
28

Add Subway to the list, they can still go make sandwiches for us Indian Feminists are worse than Indian Race Trolls on TRP so I avoid Subway.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 06:02 PM
47

I've been dating 31 years now (ouch) and my rule back when I was 15 is the same as my rule today: the minute she looks bored, I take my leave. Even if it's 7 minutes into a day. If she reinitiates, it's probably because she got tingles that I bailed so quickly and didn't attempt to fix anything. Some of my best longest term plates came from a really, really, really shitty second date that I nexted super early. 30 minutes into it, she's almost yawning, and I'm all "well I'm feeling beat so I'm ou…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:42 PM
4

No because shit tests are a validation concern for your path and growth and even better, they're free and unbiased. How often do you use party drugs and have them fuck up your next 2 weeks of personal progress? If not drugs, pick any other consumer addiction that's stifled your own growth to success.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:29 PM
386

It's lovely to see, to be honest. My favorite long term (ex) plate for 10 years was a pretty famous feminist activist. Also very hot. Still is, for her age. Also hated herself for falling in love with me and not being able to stay away for that decade. Amazing domestic woman behind closed doors, horrible waste of air in public. Today, she's hit the financial wall very very hard. She's educated AND skilled AND talented in her field, but employers are scared to death of her. They'll retain her 109…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 04:25 PM
2

lol. That's true -- but lucky for me I was sexually active in high school so I didn't have the teen angst or embarrassment that came with it! I still get some regular ragers in the morning thanks to ZMA the night before. I also only date or plate women who love morning sex.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:30 AM
1

I’m 44 and have fine penis skills because I didn’t destroy my body with drugs and alcohol. ED is 100% a man’s fault for shit living.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:10 AM
1

Well it’s good marketing for TRT companies to confuse people. Ever see before after peen photos? Why do you think that nobody has taken any pics?
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:07 AM
2

Oh yeah that’ll fix it but the micro peen it creates might be smaller than flaccid peen today
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:02 AM
3

Well 3 years if you drink a lot and use drugs. But ten years is about right.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:02 AM
15

Just wait ten years.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 12:55 AM
2

Drop it off completely for 2 weeks. If you can't drop it off completely, your brain isn't going to be conditioned well to interacting with the opposite sex. Just try for 2 weeks to see how addicted your brain is.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 10:43 PM
3

You've got to break ties with your digital addictions, if any, that linger. Get your brain out of that environment for 3 months. Video gamers = confident with guys. Break that habit now, go back to it once you get confident with women.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 10:21 PM
3

Don't break. The shit tests can get harsher because she wants to prove what a pussy you really are. Have more fun with the kids. If they're old enough to hold your phone have them take selfies with you doing something fun. Don't do this to aggravate your wife -- do this so your kids have great memories, and to put in your "I'm a better parent" divorce file.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 08:06 PM
5

I agree with /u/Chief_Leji -- I always tell women I'm a virgin with a tiny weiner. Just say "I'm a born again virgin today." And I'm 44. And my dating life is pretty public.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:31 PM
2

I had grey hair start coming out at 19. Women found it sexy as hell. Now I'm 44 and my beard is entirely white (mustache is brown though) and women love stroking my beard. Even women I don't know that well will ask to touch it. Constantly. I have a decent body. Last winter my beard grew over 14 inches over 5 months and I looked like a homeless hobo but hot more IOIs than ever. My LTR is a millennial and her coworker saw us together and said "I saw you with your grandfather" and she laughed and s…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:46 PM
17

My gay best friend and mentor always had the hottest women in his entourage and he cycled new ones in every month. The guy is a 60 year old fabulous bear but for some reason he's shoulder deep in gorgeous women. If a woman offers to add me to Facebook I tell her the honest truth: "I have 1000 pending friend requests and can't add you but go ahead and like my page instead" and then I move on to her next-hottest friend. If she wants to chase, that's up to her but I am not going to follow anyone on…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 01:53 PM
4

Confidence comes from one and only one part of mindset: outcome independence. As long as you become fixated on just one outcome, you won't have confidence. The confident man is secure because he knows he can walk away from anything and invest no further.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 01:36 PM
1

Correct.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 12:17 PM
4

Catfishing
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:03 AM
1

As a child did you play physically with friends or was most of your play digital? Did you ever have a pet growing up?
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:28 AM
4

You dodged a bullet -- don't LTR women your age or older. Follow The Age Rule (see Wiki on it).
/r/askTRP02/03/18 01:44 AM
10

Sex is supposed to be fun, not serious. You're not competing in the Olympics. The more fun YOU have in bed, the more fun SHE will have in bed. Just have a blast.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 01:34 AM
3

A best friend will always sleep with a guy's oneitis to prove to him that she wasn't worth it. That's stronger than bro code.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:43 PM
4

Pay attention to her actions not her words. Never wait for a woman. Fuck dude the sidebar even mentions this, read it. You should always be gaming 10 other women, always. Do you want to LTR her if she cheats on her current guy?
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:40 PM
1

Start reading the sidebar information.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 09:52 PM
4

Yeah, it sucks but if you have a list it means you slacked already and can't exit stage left so easily. Nothing drives a woman to hotness more than "holy shit there is nothing holding this guy back from bailing, what powers do I have to keep him here?"
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:45 PM
5

I'm not saying your garage mess is distracting her from the new fit you, but your garage mess is distracting her from the new fit you. Get hotter, clean garage out forever. Report back. Any anchor you can destroy forever is one more thing holding you back from bailing without giving a fuck. Get rid of those anchors, she knows they hold you down to her.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:31 PM
1

She just hasn't seen it yet, or she sees it but knows "its just one more fucking thing he's committed to for a few months and eventually will be a big pile of trash he refuses to throw out or donate." Speaking of big piles of trash evidence of other things you quit in the past, have you tended to any of that junk lately? How's the garage, basement and attic looking? Clean and organized or full of evidence of failure?
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:17 PM
4

marriedredpill/comments/6i4vvn/captain_rambo/
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:16 PM
3

What do you need to do to get there? Meaning, are you lacking in muscles or do you have too much fat, or both? What part is actively not evident to her and other women?
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:08 PM
6

Are you fit enough that she worries about your ever increasing SMV?
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:02 PM
33

There is no such thing as a cold approach in TRP. You cold approach after she sends you a non-verbal invite. That non-verbal invite is a non-verbal shit test with her saying "you won't approach me because you have no balls" and when you do approach, you're non-verbally winning over the shit test.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:44 PM
3

I set up instacoffee dates literally 5-10 minutes after meeting them, for THEN AND THERE. There's no time schedule to this shit, you do what makes you feel good and if they don't join you, soft next.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:30 PM
2

Ask? Tell.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:26 PM
35

Women love searching for treasure but hate finding it. They love shopping but hate their purchases. A woman is attracted to the way food is plated, but is never satisfied after eating it. She loves how fast the car goes but hates the destination.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:13 PM
6

It's so weird to me on TRP of all places that guys are so aggressively autistic about this entire situation. Never once have I had any issue with an ex except my ex-wife who was a drug addicted magazine model and was 100% my fault for ever making her more than a low quality plate. Other than her, I'm friendly with all my exes. Even going back to high school FFS. I expect the women I LTR to have a good relationship history, as well. If they're fearful of an ex, holy shit is that a red flag. I don…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:58 PM
22

I don't make rules for my LTRs. Ever. They're with me for my pleasure, so if they do something that annoys me, then I replace them with a new LTR. The thing is, I would never have any envy or jealousy issues over an ex. I'm friendly with almost all of my exes and most of them are involved in business or community so it's not like they're drug addicted losers. I expect my LTRs to not have a shitshow history with guys, either. If my LTR had some neck-tattooed meth-addict ex in her life, the proble…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 12:48 PM
1

Was on a cruise with my cute gal around Christmas and naturally some hawk was chomping on her when I was on the other side of the ship on the surf simulator. Later on he comes and sits at our table when he sees her and introduces himself and then for the next 9 days he followed me around like a puppy dog and ignored her completely. He actually calls me. On my phone. Every week. Wish he tried harder to pick her up so I could pay more attention to my poor surfing skills, that guy was a terrible di…
/r/askMRP01/03/18 12:10 AM
2

"Walked away" doesn't mean what you think it means.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 10:50 PM
4

The pool judges what her makeup and fashion do to her SMV. Most women lose 1-2 points after the pool test.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 07:37 PM
16

They pick him up. Social circles. It's the most bizarre thing people see. When he was married to my mom (age 31 to 46) she used to be surprised that young girls would flirt with him right in front of her. His next wife (19 when hew as 51) would have to field phone calls from women he would meet just being out on the street. He flirts with everyone. Game = Confidence + Charisma Game != Looks, Money, Muscles, Clothing Pops has Game. Game is all that matters in the long run.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:32 PM
2

I'm just jealous that you have little kids to practice overhead presses on. Picture yourself when they're 13 and you can OHP them -- that's male SMV right there.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 04:28 PM
18

Delete your Tinder and start over. Mid-30s was too early for my peak attraction indicators from younger women. I'm mid-40s now and feel like it's still going up. My dad is mid-70s and he still dates/plates 20-to-30-somethings, and he's only worth 10% of my net worth (he's lower middle class, lives in an apartment, no car, no nice clothes). It only gets better and better, but I wouldn't waste my time on Tinder.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:25 PM
3

What's the "swimming pool test"? Dad told me when I brought a girl home (I was 14 or so) to not trust her beauty until a day at the swimming pool or lake shore. Dad was right.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 03:47 PM
4

Damn that is awesome. A man who is a 6 at his worst is going to be an 8 in no time. 1 year if you push yourself, 2 years if you give it a decent try. A woman who is a 6 after the swimming pool test might become a 5.5 or even a 4.5 in two years even if she pushes herself -- unless she has a guy who is an 8 to keep her subconsciously working towards being better for him. You're in a great position if you play your cards right and you should feel GOOD about it. You have a choice now. You can become…
/r/askMRP28/02/18 03:24 PM
3

While I think her words may be true right now, I think she can be redeemed but I personally can't imagine even bothering after painful cutting words like that. I'd say...Go Plan. The kids will do better if they see a happy dad with options. They'll come around to it, but you need to be happy and content with your life and choices and the outcomes you experience -- so they can see it. An unhappy sexless dad will only cause them harm. Cut spending massively. Get that side hustle going. Talk to a d…
/r/askMRP28/02/18 03:03 PM
35

Pay attention to her actions not her words. Some of my best plates were feminists by day.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 03:30 AM
10

Horse lovers make great plates.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 02:23 AM
17

I was the dude plating their girlfriends and the guys never knew it.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:44 PM
1

On a totally different subject, I was a horrible alcoholic and drug abuser up to 3 weeks ago but am totally off of that stuff forever except my friend wants to just store some booze and cocaine with me on my living room table. I'm not going to use it, it's just going to hang out there for my friend to keep safe. My question is, should I keep it in a glass bowl or just lay it out nicely on top of the table?
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:51 PM
4

Invite her over, tell her to bring dinner and alcohol, don't take her out. Send her packing after.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:09 PM
4

The entire post reads like some gossip rag. I can't believe a guy actually keeps track of this data. It's insane. Are you already worth millions in the bank and can bench press 150% your weight? If so, then I guess you've got no excuse not to pay attention to bullshit.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:45 PM
1

You think the hawk likes to observe the forest gerbil's behaviors?
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:30 PM
1

You didn't practice dread properly and she saw right through you.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:30 PM
4

Your goal is to oneitis oneitis, oneitis. Oneitis oneitis oneitis if you don't oneitis the oneitis. Sorry, I lost track of what you were saying, can you repost with just one word?
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:16 PM
3

You're not a player. If you wanted to be a player, you'd already have known that no relationship survives without 12 levels of dread internalized.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:12 PM
4

TL;DR Young guy gets erectile dysfunction due to drug abuse, worries about drug skank instead.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:02 PM
8

Because women pay in the currency of sex and it's super cheap for them. Ever try to get a woman to help change a flat tire? A guy would do it without even thinking twice. Men throw their currency away because it's cheap. Women throw their currency away becaues it's cheap.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:33 PM
5

Hard next
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:03 PM
9

Doesn't matter what she likes more, it matters what you like to do more. Take women out doing things you like doing, don't worry if they like it or not.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:48 PM
2

I don't talk on dates. I do things and the gals can join me having fun or they can leave me to stare at their phones the rest of their lives.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:42 PM
5

To be honest, these are things that I think should be in the searchbar but aren't. Not even sure how to approach that here.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:37 PM
2

Who cares what happened. If you're with someone who distracts you from your goals, you have to nuke them. Even if it's 100% your fault. How many hours this week have you wasted worrying about which Chad she's banging?
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:38 PM
3

All of the above and more. Don't LTR until you've successfully spun plates and DGAF.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:35 PM
4

Next her and spin plates for a year. Many, many plates. You are worried about your LTR for hours a day when your own life and future is in shambles. Worry about your side hustles (plural), not your cheating girlfriend. I can't even list the number of cute plates I had who had some loser boyfriend at home stressing about her. If only he knew she was with me.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:26 PM
12

You are not ready for LTR if you don't know how to manage frame. You should not be in an LTR if you communicate over text about anything but logistics or nude pics of her. You should not be in an LTR if you question her.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:21 PM
7

What's the problem here? Other men are hot You're insecure The two things don't have anything to do with each other. They're totally separate things. Why are you not hot?
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:09 PM
2

The oldest TRP suggestion that I've been reading on TRP forums for over 25 years works here: GFTOW. It doesn't matter if you want sex, you have to stop valuing relationships where you aren't valued. So GFTOW and value yourself more. The libido will come back when you realize you are the prize and your ex is aging poorly while you'll be aging gracefully. She helped you dodge a bullet.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 04:13 PM
6

Dad actually agreed to do some vimeo time with me this year. I think it'll happen in spring if I can get to wherever the hell in the world he is. I forgot to mention that he was born in India (I'm a halfsy) and has a thick accent, which is even more hilarious to see these cute white girls sit on his lap and laugh. Drives other guys nuts to see.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 03:00 PM
8

It's funny, whenever I open my mentorship gigs up to new guys, the majority of guys who come are really, really attractive, but they're practically autistic talking to people. My mentor taught me that if you can make an ugly, fat retired woman laugh, you can make a cute, tiny, fit 19 year old laugh, too. And he was right about that. If I was better looking, I wonder if I would be a social retard, too. I sometimes think growing up ugly and poor really helped me sculpt my personality. The reality …
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:59 PM
5

Yeah when I was an ugly teenager, my good looking friends had no idea why I was getting cuter girls visiting me. But I had a secret weapon: my dad is even uglier than me, and he's always surrounded by beautiful women. He's also poorer than me, blind, bald, diabetic. All of his ex-wives were gorgeous young women (he married a 20 year old when he was 51, lol). He's in his mid-70s now and his girlfriends are in their 20s and he lives on social security in a small 2 bedroom apartment. It's awesome. …
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:22 PM
22

Your outside personality reflects your inside feelings. Guys who are full of depression and anxiety and helplessness come off externally as that. And women tend to be able to read those character flaws. Own your shit, fix your path and the rest comes pretty naturally.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:21 PM
7

Game is Confidence and Charisma. That's it. There are many ways to develop both skills -- try going to a Toastmasters near you (or try a few different clubs as some of them suck). Socialize more, digitize less.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 01:54 PM
11

If you're 9/10 face you don't need much confidence or game. I'm 44 and I've met a LOT of very good looking guys who are horrible at game. They always LTR HB5s or HB6s at best. AT BEST. One of my cousins is extremely handsome/hot, tall, very muscular naturally. He's never had a woman stick around longer than a few months and he always ends up heartbroken and suicidal. Game > Looks, always. ALWAYS.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 01:52 PM
7

Confidence and Charisma alone define Game. The man with 9/10 Game and 3/10 facial features will do better than the man with 9/10 face but 3/10 Game. I'm an ugly dude, missing a few teeth from accidents, but my Game is hardcore. I never have had ANY issues dating and plating beautiful women. And I am ugly.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 01:04 PM
9

Emotional tampon gets bled on, news at 11.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 10:10 PM
2

Not monk mode at all. Just not fuckarounditis mode. You can still have fun if you've earned it. But stop having fun until you've earned it.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 06:39 PM
4

He's the captain? He needs to know. Today. Right away. He's the captain, he should be ready to lead a distressed family member out of darkness. Have faith in him to do that. His job isn't to judge your actions but to guide you to a safer, calmer place.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 05:33 PM
5

This question is the shitpost equivalent of asking "why did the market drop?" on an investing forum. Except this shitpost is actually WORSE because there are literally 100,000 side hustles one can do today, right now, without any input at all. The best side hustle is the one that breaks your back the worst -- especially when you're young. There is nothing better than shoveling shit at a local horse ranch or washing your neighbors' windows for $5 an hour to make you thankful for having done it at…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:10 PM
6

The first rule in side hustling is to not ask others what they do for a side hustle. The second rule is side hustling is that people who do ask this question will not have an actual side hustle for at last 2 years, and probably ever. Side hustling comes from pounding the pavement. That means zero reddit time, zero netflix time, zero facebook, zero beer and pot. Cut that shit out first, and when you're bored, you'll have drive to hustle.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 04:30 PM
0

Why did she know how old you were?
/r/askTRP25/02/18 04:11 PM
25

Par for the course. She's shit testing you to see if you break. Don't break. This you is the new you and the forever you. Once and if she finally accepts that, she will not act this way.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 07:58 PM
5

Sex is a side effect, not a goal.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 03:54 PM
20

She's mirroring you. You should stop being cold and bitchy so she mirrors the better you. I woke up with some weird angst the other day because I still hadn't heard from my tax preparer and naturally my LTR woke up and she had all sorts of angst ALL DAY LONG, even though she's the least likely candidate for negative emotions. This is what being a leader means: when we fail, the followers fail with us.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 03:36 PM
1

This means you're not texting for logistics only.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 09:15 PM
16

She's smarter than you, learn from her.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 03:56 PM
3

If you fon't have your future wealth already baked in, let her go. Move on. She's not yours and your turn is over. Don't act emo over it. If she's excited, be excited for her -- it's her mistake to make, not yours. Let it happen without giving a fuck and you can still tap it in the future if you want -- as a plate. I do film production as a hobby/side income (meaning I put my money into actual films, handle insurance and permits and waivers and releases, etc) and women will always climb the ladd…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 03:54 PM
2

Cutting is really easy. The more muscle you gain, the higher your TDEE goes, the easier a cut is. Cuts suck though. You lose strength, you feel crappy, your boner doesn't bonify so easily, but you sure as hell look sexier each week.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:25 PM
1

Yeah weight doesn't qualify or quantify physique. More important is what are your big three lifts? What is your WHR?
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:16 PM
8

Without a photo of your physique from 3 angles, nobody can guide you. Sounds like you're skinny fat. If that's the case, cut to 12% BF, bulk to gain muscle, cut again. If you're skinny fat, you have 18-24 months ahead of you to get to your first goal. Not "this summer" lol. It's fucking March almost, summer physique is gone already.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:01 PM
157

Bye, Felicia.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:53 AM
6

don't ask how you'll wash your Ferrari before you even have a driver's license.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:19 AM
5

Have the best Game of any other guy. Hot women need best Game, not best looks or best clothes.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 12:18 AM
-4

This is answered in the sidebar, duh. Literally one single link for it.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 12:05 AM
5

Don't put the wagon before the horse.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 11:51 PM
2

Thinking about it but I don't use drugs so not even sure what to give a drug addict $400 to not buy for me.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:49 PM
8

I'm actually not kidding. I don't believe in revenge, except maybe someone violating a trust or cpnfidence. I still wouldn't do anything to hurt someone who taught me a lesson in easily trusting people. But I'd still bang his mother if the friendship was over. Honestly, she's horny, needs attention and word would spread quickly. If you can't deal, bang his sister then. Or cousin. Or if he's over a certain age, his daughter. Who cares, bang someone in his family.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:41 PM
8

Sleep with his mother. I'm serious -- it's a lot of fun, too, she might teach you something.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:37 PM
15

You're one of those guys who is never happy with his car, apartment location, TV screen size and phone, right? I use tools for the purpose they're useful for and don't care if they fail at not being able to do what other tools do better.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:47 PM
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