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| 4 | Wife has feelings for co-worker. How do I avoid fucking this up further?Was waiting for this response. OP sounds like he’s terrified of living without her so he’s afraid to challenge her for her egregiously disrespectful behavior. Needs to do a lot of personal work (alone) to develop a semblance of frame to check this shit. The fact he’s even questioning how or whether he should set a boundary in this moment is insane. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/26 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Soft ultimatumThis is simple and true but from the other end feels incomprehensible. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/25 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Victim PukeDoesn’t matter. You look after your parents when they’re sick/old. They kept him alive for decades. The least he can do is make sure is mom is comfortable. | /r/askMRP | 08/11/25 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Victim PukeLet’s be real, you should always assume your girl has/will cheat. Especially if she starts pulling back emotionally. Unless you’re with her 24/7 she will cheat if/when she wants to and you won’t know. | /r/askMRP | 08/11/25 11:26 PM |
| 8 | advice neededDread. Build an interesting life with hobbies and social influence (however minimal) that lifts your value in her eye even slightly. Sounds like she’s bored of you and finds you less interesting. Do all these things, keep general affection up (grab her ass from behind, kisses, etc.) be playful and continue to initiate even if she makes an excuse. Meanwhile, act like you’re building a roster of other women—be friendly with women when she’s around but just don’t be a retard about it (make a joke t… | /r/askMRP | 21/10/25 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Used to be unshakable with women. Now one girl has me anxious as hell. What’s happening?This is the best response out of the bunch imo | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/25 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Is she for the streets?Surprised no one’s said this yet but you sound insane. You’re dating a girl 17 years younger than you. Not “fucked for a few weeks” but actually in a relationship. If you thought this girl was the one you’re retarded. She’s just getting started and to be honest, unless you’re trying to marry this girl, which you might as well have since you took her virginity and her earliest prime years, you need to give that girl space or she’s going to resent you. That’s what happens when you’re 39 trying to … | /r/askMRP | 29/09/25 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Is she for the streets?Cha Ching | /r/askMRP | 29/09/25 12:14 PM |
| 21 | I lost her, right?No. If you don’t understand that long message explaining how you’re fucking up is a cry for help (from you), YOU are lost. Other people have already stated this but your wife seems exceedingly patient with you but it’s beginning to wear off. You need to reverse course. Now. STFU, hit the gym, be a leader. And also, date your damn woman. Sounds like you’re basically just seething all the time and projecting negative energy into every interaction. That wears people down over time and creates a per… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/25 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend makes hurtful comments about wanting kids with different traits than mineYou should end it. Maybe she comes crawling back and realize what’s important. Maybe not. She’ll love the kid no matter how it comes out by why chance long term resentment like that? She either needs to be humbled (you leaving) or find her ideal type before either of you bring a kid into the world with these kind of strained expectations. | /r/askMRP | 07/09/25 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Wife says I don't have the right look100% she’s basically saying I’m losing attraction to you. Next step is affair/divorce. | /r/askMRP | 27/06/25 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Did I NUKE my MarriageYikes. That’s raw. Give it time. Set up another date. Try to be normal. The key to avoiding DEERing in this situation (which she’s going to REALLY push for) is to make her FEEL you’re her patient and desiring lover through actions not words. | /r/askMRP | 26/06/25 03:25 AM |
| 1 | I lost a girl in a beach party to another girl.This | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/25 01:59 AM |
| 6 | New Netflix movie coming out about how evil the manosphere is. Big surprise, we turn boys into monsters! It takes place in the UK where a swat team of 30 fully geared up dudes go to arrest a teen boy for posting online. Fuckin UKLet them learn the hard way | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it really worth it to try to get women?I agree with what’s been said. Try to get out of the mindset that your life’s goal is to meet and fall in love. To be frank, that’s how women think. It’s why they aren’t attracted to beta males. You need to find out who you (what you do with your time) outside of the context of a woman. You should still date but do so as a way to pass the time and enjoy yourself after a taxing week of pushing on your passions. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/25 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Anyone Else Frustrated that the Mediocre, Morally-BANKRUPT, (Defends Hookup Culture & Cheating) (but Conventionally Attractive) Idiot can get ahead Farther in Life than the Average Hardworking Kid (w/ Morals & is Anti-Hookup culture)?Put the bottle down, Vivek | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/25 03:19 AM |
| 0 | Flying out a "sugar baby"?This is insane | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/25 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Flying out a "sugar baby"?Yikes. Seems like you got butthurt she didn’t want to fuck after specifically telling you she was a sugar baby (I.e. transactional date). All of this depends on context: How attractive are you? How attractive is she? If you had another day or two to spend with her she probably would’ve fucked. Seems like you built a covert contract in your mind that you were owed sex after paying for the day. Which I get since you booked the flight but it seems like you didn’t establish enough attraction through… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Married 38YOThis has been posted before | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageDamn dude, where’d all the hostility coming from? But honestly, I didn’t care about it at first until my parents died. Now, legacy and being able to see myself and my parents in my children has become increasingly important to me. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageWhy not? | /r/askMRP | 01/02/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageWhat race are you if you don’t mind sharing? | /r/askMRP | 01/02/25 03:22 AM |
| 1 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageSerious question: Are you dark skinned? Is your wife East Asian or south East? Does it matter to you that your kids are readily identified by their peers as black by other black people? Not being cynical. Genuinely curious as I don’t know many other black men dating/marrying Asian women long term . | /r/askMRP | 31/01/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageMost people want their kids to look like them. Not a dealbreaker for me but a preference. | /r/askMRP | 31/01/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageWill meditate on this | /r/askMRP | 29/01/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageAbsolutely fair and solid point | /r/askMRP | 28/01/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageFair | /r/askMRP | 28/01/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageNot evading here. I haven’t maxed out recently. I’m guessing based on reps of what I am lifting. | /r/askMRP | 28/01/25 09:46 PM |
| 3 | 5 years in, still back and forth on marriageI’m skinny tall so for example my max bench is like 185 with a spotter. I get ya. I’m not asking for internet strangers to decide my life. Just looking for outside perspective since I’m spinning my wheels inside the situations. I was atheist for my teens through early 20s so I get it. I’m trying to reconcile taking my family to church and her skipping out. Part of my concern is living parallel parts of our lives because we’re different. | /r/askMRP | 28/01/25 09:32 PM |
| -1 | Victim PukeDivorce | /r/askMRP | 15/12/24 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Shattering Stereotypes: Redefining the Modern Desi Man in the Dating WorldNot talking about you. Talking about the Indian/asian collective. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/24 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Shattering Stereotypes: Redefining the Modern Desi Man in the Dating WorldDisagree. Each race has their perceived strengths and weaknesses. It all depends on context. I’ve seen plenty of white women and Asian women in liberal cities prefer Indian men specifically because they’re the type that DON’T want white men. They want a guy who’s educated, comes from a good family, and is handsome and masculine but not dangerous, likely to cheat, or coming from a poorer educational/familial background (I.e. black men). I think you just have to pick your spots and more than anyth… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/24 01:25 AM |
| 12 | Shattering Stereotypes: Redefining the Modern Desi Man in the Dating WorldI don’t think people think about the subtle intricacies of Indian men anywhere near as much as you think they do. I feel like yall and East Asian men are particularly self conscious in western contexts because your women prefer white men. Be attractive, be social, don’t be weird, focus on pulling women from your own culture first. It’s not that hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/24 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Wife proposed an open marriage. Would you say this is same as, or worse than, ILYBINILWY?Maybe but she’s already been scoping out multiple coworkers—which is insane. I think she’s genuinely looking for love. I’m positive she’s already been fucking around. | /r/askMRP | 30/08/24 03:58 AM |
| 6 | Wife proposed an open marriage. Would you say this is same as, or worse than, ILYBINILWY?Yikes. Good responses here though. The biggest red flag to me is “go on dates.” That’s more than physical which is already a problem, she’s looking to explore emotional connections. She’s branch swinging she just wants the freedom to do it openly (pun intended). Sounds like she’s having a mid-life crisis and wants one last shot at her true alpha. Probably a version of the dude that knocked her up when you met her. I’m willing to bet she’s cheated before. Will cheat again. And probably has reams … | /r/askMRP | 29/08/24 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Shit or Get off the Pot?This^ | /r/askMRP | 12/02/24 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Shit or Get off the Pot?This is a good question brother. Been battling it myself as of late, too. There’s a good joke from Mike Epps that goes something like: “you can tell when a man got successful by the attractiveness of his wife.” Look at the rock, look at Kevin hart, look at Lebron. Many men locked in a woman before their SMV skyrocketed and their options widened. If I’m reading you right, you’re wondering if you can get the personality you want in a more attractive form, but know it’ll take time to determine a wo… | /r/askMRP | 12/02/24 07:14 PM |
| 0 | How to breakup with long term gf when we live togetherGreat response here | /r/askMRP | 11/12/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Solid response brother | /r/askMRP | 10/12/23 08:03 AM |
| 5 | Should I end the relationship?You don’t need to get married tomorrow but if you’ve got a good girl, that’s more important than a random hole. Trust me. You can go out and fuck 100 bitches and after awhile you realize it’s just a novel experience (sexually) but ultimately meaningless in the post-nut clarity. Give your relationship another year or so and see if you get bored. If not, you got a keeper. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Just the sidebar but will do. I’m committed to not taking any action (proposing) until I’m consistently confident to do so. I know there won’t be zero risk or doubts, but I don’t want to be swinging back and forth every couple of months into existential thinking. | /r/askMRP | 30/11/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Screenshotted. Thank you sir. | /r/askMRP | 30/11/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What is love after swallowing TRP?This is a great answer, thank you. I honestly believe if men weren't driven to procreate and take on responsibility, we'd never settle down and would just spread our seed indefinitely. | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Indicators of interest | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 12:25 PM |
| 2 | What is love after swallowing TRP?This ^ | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 06:06 AM |
| 1 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Don’t have any kids yet | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 06:04 AM |
| 2 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Hard but fair | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 02:26 AM |
| 3 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Children and family. That’s the only reason I would get married. I’ve vetted my girl well enough to believe she’d be a good mom/wife. I’m just worried I’ll get bored of her and always have a wandering eye and “what if” thoughts. | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 02:26 AM |
| 3 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Maybe. From experience though fucking a hotter chick had its own issues and at the time (28/29 hitting early 20-somethings) they were using me as much as I was using them. We both weren’t taking each other as serious relationship material. (I.e. there’s a difference between boyfriend and fuckboy with high value women; i was the latter for the baddies). To be honest though, I’m planning on spending the next year building my SMV and seeing where things land. I’m a decent looking dude (clean up to … | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 02:24 AM |
| 2 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Interesting thought here. One I definitely feel at times. Part of my thinking is whether it’s worth throwing out a good woman to try the claw machine again not knowing what internal qualities/histories I’ll have to navigate next. Especially when I find my girl attractive, just not the best I’ve ever been with (those girls had their own issues). What led to the divorce if you don’t mind me asking? | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 01:36 AM |
| 8 | What is love after swallowing TRP?That’s real | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 12:32 AM |
| -1 | What is love after swallowing TRP?Haha I have broad shoulders so it’s not as bad as it sounds but I know, I’m a bean pole | /r/askMRP | 28/11/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | No More Mr. Nice Guy and Healthy MasturbationGood to hear brother. How long did it take you to internalize the mental shifts of the health masturbation? | /r/askMRP | 26/11/23 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Remember, She's Never Yours, It's Only Your TurnAbsolutely but we’re talking probability here. Which can go high or low depending on the woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/23 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Dated a post wall woman at 24Where the fuck is the question here? I just read a diary entry at worst and at best a field report on another subreddit. | /r/askMRP | 16/11/23 12:51 AM |
| 6 | Remember, She's Never Yours, It's Only Your TurnWill Smith = Willful cuck (i.e. Jada had the power) George Harrison = Fucked his bandmate's wife (gonna assume he had more game; superior man in her eyes) Princess Diana = Was in a loveless marriage from the jump. Her husband never wanted to marry her and was in love with another woman. Also she was socially more popular than him. Her stepping out isn't crazy. Your examples are really bad. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/23 09:23 PM |
| 8 | Remember, She's Never Yours, It's Only Your TurnFirst of all, that statement is broad af. You're ignoring the power differential of many celebrity relationships. There's a big difference between George Clooney cheating on his nobody wife than Ben Affleck cheating on Jennifer Garner. The wife in the former relationship (George Clooney's) is NOT fucking that up. Same for Steph Curry's wife. Their husbands have WAY more social clout and power than they do—let alone money—and they'd be idiots to sneak around and fuck that up. Not saying it doesn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/23 08:10 PM |
| 16 | Remember, She's Never Yours, It's Only Your TurnSure but a good girl is a woman with conservative qualities and values that you can trust in terms of fidelity and that narrows the margin for error considerably. Especially when you’re enough of a catch that she would never risk fucking that up (think Lebron James wife). | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/23 02:10 AM |
| 30 | Remember, She's Never Yours, It's Only Your TurnDepends on if your girl is a club/bar girl. Gotta find a good one who isn’t. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/23 07:07 AM |
| 3 | [40M][30F] Silence in Long-Distance Relationship After She went out. Advice?Dump her. Not because you can’t trust her but because you’re too old for this shit. If it’s a roller coaster ride, it ain’t a fun one. Get a girl who’s a bit more agreeable but just as hot and interesting. Life is too short for all that drama bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | If The Girls In Your Friend Group Have Zero Sexual Interest In You, It's Time To Move OnI’m with OP here. Outside of Asian groups, that boy girl shit isn’t real. If she’s bad, fun, and you’re not trying to fuck her, I don’t know what you’re doing. Guys and girls that find each other attractive don’t stay friends. They eventually fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/23 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?The landscape has changed. Blame social media. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 04:54 PM |
| 3 | 9-10s are for recreational use onlyYes. To confront her when she exhibits disrespectful or unacceptable behavior in the context of a relationship. (e.g. openly flirting with another man, staying out late at night if you live together, etc.) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/23 11:15 PM |
| 90 | When banging new girls stopped being fulfillingDon’t chase a new void. That’s what dudes who can get laid consistently learn (let’s say 25+ girls per year). They’re also very time-consuming. Who wants to go to bars all the time? Or forgo a good night of sleep? Or sacrifice they’re evenings in solitary comfort to do a date night? This is why high value men find 1-3 girls and keep it lowkey. It’s all the same shit after awhile. It’s cheaper and less time consuming to just jack off. By all means have fun and develop your skills and sharpness bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/23 05:07 PM |
| 12 | How to fully put myself into myself?My only comment here brother is that you HAVE to fine-tune your vetting mechanism. In your wife, how could you not see flashes of narcissism and selfishness if she was willing to completely abandon you at your lowest point? She made that decision in her head long ago btw. She was waiting for your mom to pass to do it. For the second girl, I can’t believe you didn’t know she did coke. I’m guessing you were aware and ignored it or if this was truly a blindside it seems like an elaborate excuse. Sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/23 12:10 PM |
| 82 | 9-10s are for recreational use onlyLove these kinds of posts. 9s are a lot of work. You’re going to get tried by other men constantly and if you’re life/game isn’t EXTREMELY tight hypergamy will eventually sway your girl if you ever have problems. From experience it’s VERY difficult to check a 9 without dumping her. You need to be ready to eject at any time and even then they may just move to a new option that afternoon. 10s don’t exist because no girl is everyone’s type. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/23 05:15 PM |
| 79 | Being broke most of my 20s killed my confidence. What to do?Don’t pursue a higher income because you believe it’ll make you more appealing to women. Especially at your age. Women only care about money when they’re in their 30s (date younger) or if they vastly out-earn you and even then they only care if they see you bullshitting. I’ve got a buddy that’s 32 and has ALWAYS pulled bad bitches despite living in apartments with bunkbeds and 4 roommates, taking the bus to work, working as a barista, etc. He’s a good looking dude, is charming, and he’s fun to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/23 09:15 PM |
| 39 | I HATE CALLING THE WOMEN BITCHES BUT THE BITCHES LOVE IT???Yeah this reads like a personal journal entry more than discussion-focused RP post | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Side Girl Knows She Is a Side GirlI’m confused why so many dudes here are dumping on this man. His ethics are his own. If he gets caught, he’s willing to accept the consequences. If you are truly a person who fucks, you know 100% that relationships are messy. Especially if one partner is higher value than the other. Wives, husbands, gfs, and bfs, cheat all the time. It’s not that uncommon. In essence it’s just giving into the desire to fuck someone else when the opportunity arises. OP, I hope you’re being careful and the girl is… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome the fear of rejection/failureQuestion: How does that core aspect of frame first work with the idea of raising your SMV to be more attractive to women? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | FR: Getting CaughtHa. Might dm you for the reference. I live in Cali and know it’s going to be next to impossible to find a therapist that isn’t living in La La Land when it comes to men’s issues. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/08/23 12:23 PM |
| 1 | FR: Getting CaughtWhat did you look for in a therapist? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/08/23 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble getting over wife’s sexual past.I feel you. If you’ve been married two years though, it’s not too late to cut the cord but I’d give it a real shot first. Aim to reach your highest SMV and inspire greater dedication and admiration from her. Mold that energy how you will. It’s good you don’t have kids yet but from my unmarried perspective, you’ve invested 5 years and a lot of money (wedding) with this chick. Try to see it through on your terms but with all the information you have. | /r/askMRP | 14/08/23 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble getting over wife’s sexual past.The real question is do you trust her NOW? If she was a hoe 5 years ago but is now mature, trustworthy and feminine woman with respect and dignity, you’re dealing with a different woman. My guess is you’re wondering if you can trust her which is a much bigger issue. | /r/askMRP | 13/08/23 02:44 PM |
| 10 | Nuclear shit test exampleMy philosophy is this: “if a dude can take my girl, I don’t want her anyways.” I’m not dropping 20k to keep some pussy that’s just looking for the biggest wallet. I’ll just find another girl. When you’ve got options you don’t have to play into any of these games. Just cut her loose. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/23 07:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR 5] Walmart hb8 I cold approached was willing to hangout, but I backpedalled as soon as she said she had a boyfriend. I threw it all away with that L response.I don’t think it’s pushy to get a second “no” after the boyfriend line. Especially after she said yes. She only said “I have a boyfriend” to as LMR (I.e. I may not put out). I’ve seen that turn to bullshit all the time. OP could’ve said “Fantastic. You can tell him we had a great time together. When are you free?” | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/23 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Gf(23f) called me(25m) lame for not wanting to drink for one night at a bar. This angered me but she thinks this is completely fine to be rude. Am I overreactingLaugh it off next time and just say "Y'all got jokes. You can have some of my delicious water if you ask me nicely." Then take a long sip and give them a douchey exhale like you just drank an ice-cold Coke: "AHHHHHHH" The key is to not take them (or yourself) too seriously. Everything is a joke waiting to be made—especially yourself. Just avoid self-deprecating humor. If they say you're lame, you can respond "Still cooler than you/And what does that make you/Yeah, I'm a fucking loser *give her a… | /r/askMRP | 24/07/23 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Had two great dates, then she ghosts meYou did something to turn off. Don’t know what but some microinteraction you had made her reassess. That or an old ex re-entered the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/23 12:32 AM |
| 32 | Went through my GF phone and now I need advice/insightIt’s over. Not necessarily because of what she’s done but more specifically because of the way you feel about it. Best to cut your losses now and find another before you put in more time. | /r/askMRP | 04/05/23 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Advice Needed for a Young 23MFrom the post: "By all means, game girls and get experience under your belt, but make women a 3rd or 4th priority at best. Focus your energy on independent self-actualization, becoming the YOU that you want to be. Weighing what you want to weigh. Being skilled in what you find interesting or useful. Having the experiences that you want. Owning, building, and doing what you want." I see how you conveniently skipped the first sentence of that paragraph... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/23 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Advice Needed for a Young 23MLol. You’re funny dude. Go back and read my post. I said not to prioritize hoes above your purpose. I specifically said put them 3rd or 4th. Based on OPs write up, they’re barely on the list of priorities at all. He’s not even dating. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/23 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Important PSA: TRP isn't about women. It's about independent self-actualization.You just spent time writing all this to ARGUE against the basic call to action: "Focus on your life, not on getting women." You're right, how foolish of me. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/23 11:22 PM |
| 4 | My Internal Thoughts After Wife Discovered My AffairYeah, you sound like you've firmly internalized your higher value. And it sounds like she has, too. Be careful though. If you show any semblance of weakness from this point on, that'll be a blank check for her. | /r/askMRP | 10/04/23 07:30 PM |
| 4 | My Internal Thoughts After Wife Discovered My AffairInteresting. I’m surprised you were able to shut it down without DEERing. That’s a tough spot with the wrong woman. Most women would at least require a commitment to stop, delete the profile, end the relationship, tell her everything, etc. Is there a concern she may see it as carte Blanche to step out herself? | /r/askMRP | 10/04/23 04:15 PM |
| 3 | My Internal Thoughts After Wife Discovered My AffairSerious question here: How did you get past your wife finding your Tinder? That seems like an instant landmine. Also, why risk a public profile? Why not game IRL? | /r/askMRP | 10/04/23 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Important PSA: TRP isn't about women. It's about independent self-actualization.So you’re saying RP isn’t about putting yourself first and recognizing your own power in real life dynamics and sexual? That’s the core foundation of frame, brother. Living from your own sense of will and perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 01:01 PM |
| 4 | Important PSA: TRP isn't about women. It's about independent self-actualization.Nothing wrong with being content but I think everyone (man or woman) needs a sense of purpose. Even if that purpose is being a good father. It’s human nature to look for some area to progress. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 12:59 PM |
| 4 | Important PSA: TRP isn't about women. It's about independent self-actualization.Take RP theory to its central idea, brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 03:43 AM |
| 2 | LTR question - Do I ignore things like this?Oof. Dude you need to work on yourself and develop some genuine self esteem. Your post SCREAMS that you don’t think you’re good enough. I can tell you’d question everything about yourself if she cheated or left you. I understand the “male friends makes me uncomfortable” aspect here but sometimes you gotta trust that your girl CHOSE YOU. Also, if she cheats, there’s a VERY high likelihood you’ll never know so don’t even bother thinking about it. Live your life, accept what you can’t control, and … | /r/askMRP | 02/04/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Hero Worship (or why you still don't have Frame)Excellent perspective. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/03/23 05:10 AM |
| 3 | My(M32) wife(F43) has gone cold on me again and I don't know what to do anymore.Put this one in the trash and leave it there. Do right by your daughter but forge a new life. Your wife (from the ready acceptance of polyamory, interest in new partners, lack of sexual interest in you, etc.) seems like she was originally happy to have SOMEONE but now seems disappointed that that someone was YOU. Look out for yourself and walk away. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/23 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Hot guy summerThat's a lot of weight to gain. I'm in a similar position (6'2, 170lb) and am slowly getting back on a proper diet (3 meals a day, 1000 cal+ meals) but it takes dedication and willpower—along with going to the gym regularly. My advice is to build slow. If you can pick up 1lb per month of muscle you'll get where you want in a few years and it'll be on a stronger foundation. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/23 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Hot guy summerCarbs are bad for black people? Is that from Elijah Muhammed's How to Eat to Live? Been curious how accurate that was since it's dated. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/23 09:52 PM |
| 14 | What Could Happen If You Direct Approached 3-5 Women A Day For One Full YearCan’t make life all about women. Purpose first. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | A Meditation on Frame and How to Build ItThanks bro. Clarification: She grabbed my hand and I pulled away, she kept dancing, and I gestured for her to sit down. She started to walk over when her friend came and grabbed her. I might be misremembering but I think she even sat down for a sec before her friend came and grabbed her (I think she had a boyfriend at home or something). | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | A Meditation on Frame and How to Build ItIsis and Taliban are gigs-chads. They’ve got their hoes on lock and got bitched waiting for them when they die. Natural born alphas. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/21 02:49 AM |
| 5 | A Meditation on Frame and How to Build ItI feel it. Personally, I hate strip clubs and haven't spent much time in them. This is just something I noticed since I was in one recently. Men need to learn how to stare down and say no to a woman, and strippers are "real" women with training wheels haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 18 | A Meditation on Frame and How to Build ItHa. It's more like learning how to be more comfortable around different dogs by acclimating yourself to well-trained bitches (pun intended). | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyHow would you know what women lust after? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyCould be beta. Could have gotten parent trapped. Maybe he's got a side chick. Who knows? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyYou didn't understand it. In the post, I used successful public figures most people would recognize. If I tell you about my Uncle Terry and his successful trucking business, you wouldn't give af. Last thing, and I can't stress this enough, the thesis isn't about FUCKING. We all know women can get fucked by any category of dude if he's horny/desperate enough. The thesis (which you missed or skimmed) was that average-looking women can't get a high-value man to COMMIT to them. A woman that is a 5 i… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Thank God. You’re Just Ugly“Guys don’t want to settle at their own level.” That’s not true at all. In fact, a lot of guys either do JUST that, OR they’ll settle for girl that’s slightly less than their SMV just because it gives them leverage/control in the relationship. If a dude is pulling a 9 and plans to keep her (not just get lucky and fuck) he HAS to provide SMV (to her at least) that’s at least up to par. Why? Hypergamy, and there are 9 SMV men that are getting at her constantly. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyBruh, you’re taking that one example WAY too literally. I’m speaking about competency in any skill being attractive. Alex Honnold (the rock climber) is an average looking guy but I bet you women throw him pussy all the time because he’s the best to ever do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 04:09 AM |
| 6 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyNo. The point of disagreement is the assertion of "women have no shortage of men." My argument is it depends on what you consider "having." I don't consider getting fucked by a man who would never call you his girlfriend "having." That's where me and Ivan depart. But I agree that plain women can't get an 8+ but can get a 5 or 6. But no one has ever argued women don't date across their SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyI don't use the term HB, personally. Just using typically RP slang we're all familiar with but feel free to read that as just 5. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyYeah but remember SMV is more than looks for men. But yes, social status, finances, etc. increase a man’s SMV. But keep in mind social status for a normal person could be having a lot of friends and a wide social circle, not necessarily worldwide fame. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Thank God. You’re Just UglySure, but you’re describing hypergamy. All of their standards are set to grab a man with a higher value than themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 18 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyPlain women aren't bagging high-value men with options to an overwhelming degree. Just because plain women get fucked doesn't mean they get wifed by men out of their league. Most of the time women settle with someone who's close to their SMV or slightly higher. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 10:59 PM |
| 15 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyI didn't just mention money. I rattled off a laundry list of other attributes that can make a man more attractive including "EDM dance skills." Don't limit your value to just money. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Thank God. You’re Just UglyI'm using public figures that most people would know. My thesis is that men are thankfully judged on more categories than just looks. So we have more areas to compete, even if we're conventionally unattractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 10:55 PM |
| 14 | You're a loser, that's why.Developing a scheduled routine is ESSENTIAL to this. You can’t give your brain space to wander. You’ve got to give it a track of beneficial habits to follow and do your best to stick to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 04:04 AM |
| 0 | You're a loser, that's why.In relation to red pill or life in general? Honestly I would tell you follow hobby/skill-based subreddits and try to get off of it more. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 04:02 AM |
| 19 | You're a loser, that's why.Your energy would be better spent focusing on what you CAN control (your personal actions and perspective) rather than railing against the world and how it’s changing around you. I agree, western culture is falling apart but I also realize I’m not Superman. And I can’t save a world that isn’t asking to be saved. Instead, live how you want to live. That’s the best anyone can do. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/21 12:56 AM |
| 24 | You're a loser, that's why.Google says it takes 6 to 8 weeks for a collarbone to heal so if it's been 5 years and it's inhibiting you from working out, you should go see a doctor or physical therapist. Aside from that read, journal, meditate, stretch, pick up a hobby that involves leaving your house and interacting with other people, learn another language, take a course at the local community college—at your age see if an elective is available, it'll also put you around college girls—hang out with your friends (play pool… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | People. Give a woman enough time and they will destroy themselves: the anecdote.Look up a post I wrote on this subreddit “where can I find the golden age of RP posts” and follow the responses. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 02:30 PM |
| 17 | People. Give a woman enough time and they will destroy themselves: the anecdote.The community ain’t what it used to be. But thank god for the archives. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 05:54 AM |
| 180 | People. Give a woman enough time and they will destroy themselves: the anecdote.No idea what a 304 is but it sounds like you stupidly tried to fuck a girl from your a very tight circle with a boyfriend that’s also in the group. That’s not just shitting where you eat, that’s shitting in your hand then eating it. Even in the best case scenario and she’s a thot that’s into you, why even set a coffee date bro? You should be able to COVERTLY invite her over (again, if she’s cheating she’s going to be EXTREMELY SKITTISH in this situation since the slightest fuck up from you will … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Is being empathetic pretty much a sign of losing frame?Can we not come out shitting on the dude right out the gate? | /r/askMRP | 08/08/21 02:52 AM |
| 3 | New Years 2035That's true. There are many natural RP'ers out there, but I would argue they largely got that knowledge from masculine fathers or role models about 80% of the time, and 20% of the time from hard life experience. For the overwhelming majority of us who grew up BP, the RP community IS that collective RP mentor. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | How to maintain frameFacts | /r/askMRP | 25/07/21 10:03 PM |
| 8 | New Years 2035That’s likely true but I still disagree. People need community and unfortunately the red pill is a VERY small community at the global level. The kind of things we talk about here will in the best terms, be “misunderstood” by the average person. So people come here and check in on discussions for that sake (myself included). RP at its best is a like-minded brotherhood. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | When and how does it feel to want to settle down with a womanFacts | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 8 | When and how does it feel to want to settle down with a woman30m and been in an LTR with my girl for nearly 2 years now. I know exactly what you're feeling. However, I would argue that the girl you choose will do a few things for you: 1) Her perceived value will appreciate over time as you recognize that her green flags are increasingly rare (loyalty, submissiveness, values, etc.). 2) Your desire to have kids and start a family will increase (particularly if you see friends begin to settle down). You'll want to take the risk in order to take on a new resp… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/07/21 08:01 PM |
| – | How to handle this sexual issue?Haha true still. Any advice? | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 02:56 PM |
| – | How to handle this sexual issue?Yeah my T must be low because I can do a second round but it takes hours for me for the sensitivity to increase enough to stay hard for a 2nd round. Also, nutting is VERY difficult in that stage. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this sexual issue?Did this work for you? How long did you do it? | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 03:00 AM |
| 0 | How to handle this sexual issue?Yes mein fuhrer! | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 02:59 AM |
| 19 | What is the point of a radically feminized society?You sound like me a few weeks ago. Would highly recommend taking a break from the news or to stop reading it altogether as a lifestyle choice. It trains your brain to see the right or left as enemies of the state and although the left DEFINITELY controls the culture, when you step away from it, you'll see how many people are pretty normal and aren't all that political (90%). The world isn't that crazy in my opinion, you're just hearing the crazy people scream all day. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 03:51 PM |
| 2 | I fail to give women the "tingles"Eye contact and vocal tonality goes a long way here bro. The tingles is really just confidence and self-assuredness mixed with sexual attraction. You seem to be very self-conscious and insecure about your life and who you are. I think that's the X factor. You need to nail down who you want to be (which can be determined by what you DO, i.e. habits) and start working on that stuff. If you want to be more adventurous, take a baby step towards that. Go to a new city by yourself for a weekend and sa… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone cured extreme premature ejaculation?It's the mindset. Masturbation teaches you to arrive as quickly as possible. It's purely about the nut. If you masturbate too much, especially in your teenage/young adult years, you condition your brain to have little mental resistance to seeking out that rush of dopamine as fast as possible. It's even worse if you're particularly sensitive which can vary from male to male. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How to approach, talk and close at bars especially over crowded ones ?Yeah I’m good 1:1 after the girl has been opened or doesn’t need to (like a party). But my convo is too exploratory/heavy. I end up learning the girls life story rather than flirting or being playful. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How to approach, talk and close at bars especially over crowded ones ?Where is there reading material on this? Like good breakdowns on keeping the convo sexual and light. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Do I look weak for backing out of a vacation with ltr?I'm confused how "she caved" did you complain to her that you didn't like her going on the trip and then she relented and said you can come? That's a pretty strong sign of weakness. Honestly, you fucked up with her thinking it's cool to go on a "girls trip" in the first place. I got a buddy that I surf with. If I'm going to another state or country without my girl it is for that purpose or business related. I wouldn't even entertain the thought of planning a "boys trip" to basically go and club … | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Checking out a woman now means you are a sexist pervert.Yeah bro. They ain't getting mad at Brad Pitt for checking them out. Raise your value and you won't have to worry about this. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Coming from a relationship sub I know my post is probably going to be beta as f. Please give me some raw feedback from a trp perspective. I'm new to the sub and need to learn.That’s real af | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 10:30 AM |
| 7 | Is it possible to be redpilled and not be conservative?Yes, but you'll likely identify as independent (which everyone should). The core tenant of TRP is personal accountability and self-reliance. Which is closely related to conservative ideals. However, you can believe what you want to believe, just don't start leaning into the super liberal idea of group think, and that daddy government is here to fix all your problems. That shit ain't reality. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 02:45 PM |
| 7 | How should I approach this girl?Jeez dude. You balls that one up. Honestly, she's reading you as an immature asshole. You should apologize, say you were trying to have fun and took it too far. Offer to have a drink with her alone, and try to hit the reset button on that dynamic. Your friends will likely never put you around a decent looking girl again if you don't fix this. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | They say you should pick one field and become great in it to make it lucrative. What field/lane should I go?Facts | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | The Only Way TRP Actually Works - A Story You’ve Heard BeforeFacts. Charisma and a natural "aura" go a long way | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/21 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have experience with LTR’ing lower SMV girl?You sound like me. These relationships are great if you can get over the fact that you'll occasionally want to fuck hotter girls. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | How to develop a stronger sense of self?Oh, I love mushrooms. You're right, it focuses a lot of mental energy initially on the self until all those mental knots are teased out. I need a connect to be frank. That's good suggestion. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How to develop a stronger sense of self?Appreciate you brother | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | How to find a woman that shares your values?I’m just going to focus on building an awesome life regardless of whether I’ve got a girl in it or not. I live in LA (for the time) and let’s just say pickings for good quality women are wanting. I’ll vet better before starting another LTR. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How to find a woman that shares your values?That’s solid advice | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How to find a woman that shares your values?Self-described “leftist and feminist” She was generally pretty measured but on certain issues, completely inflexible. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How to find a woman that shares your values?Somebody asked for my values. That’s the only reason I added them. And I don’t want a woman who thinks exactly the way I do. That’d be boring. Just one who’s moderate who doesn’t think I’m evil for believing what I believe and flexible in mind to challenge her own beliefs. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:05 PM |
| 3 | How to find a woman that shares your values?That’s the ironic part. I’m not that religious. I grew up in the church but have lapsed into an agnostic. I don’t think I’d feel at home in that crowd, although I respect religion. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:02 PM |
| 2 | How to find a woman that shares your values?I’m good on OLD for a bit bro. That’s how I met the last one. Funny enough I’m a right leaning independent and she told me she was trying to screen out conservatives haha. Should’ve taken that as a sign. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How to find a woman that shares your values?Will edit. And facts. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?That’s the million dollar question. I live in LA | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?That’s real as fuck | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?I hear you dude but I’m not interested in going back to fucking random girls again. I’ve done it. For years (had good success on dating apps) and I don’t want to go back to it until the other areas of my life are in order health (physique) and purpose (career and hobbies). The last thing I want to do is go back to filling voids with random hoes. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?Yeah my cold approach game is basically level 0 at this point | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Anticipated a breakup, but not like this. Falling apart.Going through a break up as well my friend. If I were to guess, I would argue COVID lockdowns ending has something to do with it (particularly in your case since you're young). If she's a girl in her mid 20's at this point, I can almost assure you she wanted to end things to "go out and have fun." Hence the "we can get back together later." My recommendation is to follow the advice of other posters here. Focus on self-improvement. This time in your life is critical. Men need time without distrac… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?Bruh I’m in CA. It’s bluer than Boise state out here | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?Appreciate you, brother | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?You sound like me lol | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?I wouldn't say that. I loved her, genuinely, and treated her as such. We had no issues in the relationship beyond tiffs over little political BS like whether our state should have relaxed covid masking 2 months ago or 6 months ago. Over the course of the relationship, these were small and insignificant to me, but for her, the difference was personal. She felt my perspective was morally offensive. The gun issue was probably just the last straw (and even with that, I offered thumbprint locks and s… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?Lesson learned | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?It’s a religion out here bro | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?This ^ | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?Solid advice, my friend | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?Amen | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?For her it’s beyond reason. It’s identity. She doesn’t see herself as the kind of woman to live in a house with a gun. No exceptions. Doesn’t matter if the thing is locked tight with a fingerprint scanner and I’m trained better than a navy seal. It’s done though. Some people just are the way they are. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?Big facts | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 11:14 AM |
| 6 | What's the Red Pill perspective on compromise within a relationship?Gotta love a response from Uncle Vas, appreciate you sir! | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | LTR often questions whether I find her attractive.Bruh...everybody’s so serious, soft, and personal these days. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | LTR often questions whether I find her attractive.Smart man. Appreciate the wisdom 👌🏽 | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Should I withhold sex from my LTR?If you want to fuck her, fuck her. But you need to get busy with something and get back to being high value. She is very likely entertaining someone else. You can’t control that. You just need to get on your shit where it doesn’t even phase you if she was because you can replace her with a better model. If she feels that, it’ll stop. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 01:04 AM |
| 15 | What Is It Like To Date A Guy? (Repost with Disclaimer for Mods)What a strange post. Regardless of intent, I don’t think I’d go on a gay subreddit and tell them how to get dudes from a heterosexual perspective. I can see why this was removed. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend was banging her landlord in college and he still lives in our town.Yee ikes | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 05:49 PM |
| 18 | Pronouns in instagram bio . Red flag?I think you should look for a girl with a mind of her own but that’s just me. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Pronouns in instagram bio . Red flag?Eh. You’d be surprised how deep that shit is ingrained. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 06:50 PM |
| 14 | Pronouns in instagram bio . Red flag?This guy gets it | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 25 | When a Girl Ghosts YouHere’s why you got ghosted in 2 seconds: She just wasn’t into you, bro. Let it goooo, let it goooooo! Half these rationalizations are woefully optimistic. You’re taking the excuses women give too literally when in reality they just mean “I wasn’t feeling it” at best, or at worst, “I found a better option.” You have to build in room for: “I fucked up somewhere on the date/sex if this chick is ghosting me. Let me dig deep and self improve.” | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 8 | Friend got plate pregnant helpWe really are just animals. And undesirable females need to reproduce, too. By any means necessary haha. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:35 AM |
| 12 | Friend got plate pregnant helpHigh-key she'll probably baby-daddy him and find some beta male provider to be stepdad. Yeesh, what a mess. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:33 AM |
| 7 | Friend got plate pregnant helpShe's a joke but the friend is retarded. The fact that this post-wall woman is so desperate to have a kid before it's too late that she'll take one from a 21 year old with no resources and lives with his parents... Can you imagine her explaining that to family and coworkers? She'd get less stares just going to a sperm bank. How low-value is this lady? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Why is misgendering so offensive?Eh. I agree but sometimes silence can lead to the gaining of more power. (See: Nazism) | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 09:49 PM |
| 11 | What are other good subreddits for men?Nofap is one to lurk but not follow. So many incel idiots thinking they’re literally getting powers from self-discipline. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | What is considered the “high” sexual partner count in today’s generation?I’d say more than 20 by 20 is too much. I’m out after that | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?Yeah I’m conflicted. There are definitely plenty of stories of fathers that left their first wives, met their seconds, then went on to have a second family and be happy. It happens. I’m just more concerned with my homies life path than a woman hurt feelings. However, keeping the kid in mind is still priority one. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?Fair enough | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?Oh my god, are you Sherlock Holmes? No. We don’t even live in the same state. I’m his best man and called him about his groomsmen list so that I could plan the bachelor party. He then started telling me how he was having cold feet. I want to make sure I give him the best advice so I’m asking other dudes that may have gone through this before they got married. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?I don’t know if that’s true. He can still be a good and present dad without being with the mom. Happens all the time. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?Isn’t that what we’re talking about? Calling off the wedding and just being a good dad? | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?But if the road may lead to divorce anyways, why not get out now before serious damage can be done? | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 03:47 AM |
| 6 | "I wouldn't cheat on you even if you stayed away longer"She's just clingy and weird. I might start looking for the exits due to that alone. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 03:31 AM |
| 0 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?Eh. Just because you game doesn't mean you can't add value to a relationship through your presence and masculine frame. He's a pretty charismatic guy and used to pull way badder chicks. Although I'll give it to you that his current life is working, managing crypto, gaming, and gaining weight. (But that's like every young dad of this generation to be honest) | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?Yoga can help the body but not the face. (Not being a dick, just being real) | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?Isn't the operative word here "smoking hot wife?" haha | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Buddy is getting cold feet before marriage. Should he bail?I agree with the majority of what you've said here. I think his daughter and her wellbeing should come first, however, I'm not crazy about the idea of dedicating your life to a marriage when you're no longer in love with your wife. Thankfully, his kid is only a year old. That means now more than ever (before he gets married, too) is the time to go if he's going to. If he's an involved dad, it's the same thing as co-parenting and his child wouldn't really know the difference. I understand he's no… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:13 AM |
| 0 | How to stop thinking about ass?NoFap Eventually you'll learn to be okay without the tension of wanting to "release" | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How to go out alone?Possibly, but breweries are pretty open. So, I'm imagining men with their friends, girls with their girls, or people on first dates. You'll probably look odd sitting by yourself in a loud brewery (the quiet is key). Are those girls chatting up guys in a group (ex. two girls go up to two guys)? If so, that isn't your situation. A hotel bar would be OKAY, but you need to LOOK high-value. That means physique and fashion, and you need to look like you're there to just have a quiet drink. Phone away.… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Found out plate was hitting on my exThe boundary is she doesn’t make these external relationships apparent to you. Which it sounds like she isn’t since your friend told you. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Found out plate was hitting on my exThat dialogue was hypothetical, bro. Even still, I'm confused why you care that your plate is hitting up your ex. You aren't dating your ex anymore and we're talking about a plate here. You shouldn't care who your plate sleeps with, including your ex. Heck, she could be fucking your homeboy on the day's she isn't fucking you and that'd be perfectly fine because she isn't your girl...she's a plate. So, that leads me back to my original point. Leverage the contact or ignore it. But you do you, bro… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 11:17 AM |
| 12 | Wife cheated. Running dread best option?Yeesh. It’s over dude. Ask for the check. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/03/21 11:07 AM |
| 6 | I just recently realized the fact that I am unironically an ultra-beta dude. How the fuck do I remove all the trash from my brain and build up from here?The first thing is to stop thinking beta and alpha because at your current state you're going to kill your self-esteem. You're 20 years old. You're a fucking kid. Many people here didn't start their RP journeys (deciding who they wanted to be and working towards it) until much later. I PROMISE I've done more BP, cringy beta shit than you by far. Here's an example: I once cupped a fence in my college town "I love you [insert ex's name] when she found out I cheated on her", she then went on to fuc… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here ever improved themselves after a girl ghosted/left them and had the girl try to get back into your life after seeing you again?Fuck her and show her how much you don't care when you don't get caught up. Sex can be validating for women (she knows you're still attracted to her) BUT the true benefit is for you if you fuck the way you want, put her out, and go back to your life. Be the user, not the used and you're gucci. Just don't catch feelings or you've lost. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 09:15 AM |
| 6 | How to go out alone?Look up “hipster bars near me” on Google. Try them out one by one. If you’re ugly. Get your body right but you’re going to need to supplement that with confidence. Seriously talk to the people next to you. If it’s a hipster bar where people actually sit and drink at the bar and it’s not too loud, get their early (it’ll be even quieter) and you’ll see other loners come in. Start a convo with them. Try to actually get to know who people are. Ask them what they do? What they like to do? Where there… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Found out plate was hitting on my exI'm confused why you're mateguarding your ex. She's your ex. Is your ex bi? Are you worried she'll be turned out? Are you worried she'll fall in love with your plate and forget about you? I'm very confused. Confront her and set up the threesome ("my ex told me you were texting her, were you trying to leave me out of the fun?") or ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 03:24 AM |
| 11 | How to go out alone?You've got two choices: 1) Quiet smokey hipster bar. Sit at the bar with a drink in your hand. Talk to the people next to you. Girls will probably come in pairs, so get used to starting a conversation with one but entertaining both. Focus on the less attractive one. If you don't, she'll suicide bomb the interaction. Get the hot one's number later. Or if you're really the shit, invite them both over to continue the night. 2) Loud club. The problem with going out alone is that if it's a wide socia… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 03:20 AM |
| 13 | Do women lack smv self awareness?Low SMV guys are aspirational. They pray they could get a dime to touch them once but acknowledge that 99.99% out of the time they won't. Low SMV girls think they could get fucking BRAD PITT if they caught him in their best outfit. One group understands their place and hopes for an exception. The other believes they ARE the exception. It's why guys simp and girls thot for someone of high-value. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 134 | The Social Credit Score system takes hold in it's first bold move "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date." This will become a norm. Blackballing people and reporting on bad dates will follow. MARK MY WORDS.This won’t work. It’ll be seen as discriminatory, disenfranchising black and brown minorities who’ve been caught up in the system...a public apology will follow. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | LTR randomly tells me "I wish you would yell at me sometimes".Maybe boring | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 11:55 PM |
| 2 | I dumped my girl two days ago and now I regret it.Two suggestions: - Open the relationship or break it off. The game is up. She caught you. So even if you go back, things are going to be different. If they aren't and she takes you back no problems (which she probably will), YOU will lose respect for HER, continue to cheat, until she gets hurt even worse and ends it. I'm not a moralist when it comes to cheating BUT you do seem pretty sloppy here dude. If you care about your girl—despite the cheating—the least you can do is be respectful so that … | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Getting nudes?From personal experience, you need to sexualize everything (artfully). Whether it’s text or in-person, you need to learn how to steer the conversation toward sex. Here’s another example: Her: (talking about the bachelor) Matt broke up with bri after he fucked her. Me: Hit her up on IG. Let’s take her in. Her: (love emoji) how’s your morning babe? Me: Good. Sitting here with a hard dick trying to figure out which hole I’m going to stick it in first when I see you. Her: (sends sexy pic) I wanted t… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Getting nudes?Yeah it’s definitely circumstantial. Wouldn’t ask a girl that lives in my city for nudes, I’d just ask her to come to my house and get nude. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Getting nudes?I disagree. If your girl fucks with you, she’ll send you nudes or flattering pictures to keep your interest. You just need to sexualize the conversation. Recent example: Her: Thanks for the cookies. You’re an angel. Him: No I’m not. Start stripping. Her: (Sends pic partially clothed) Me: (Sends gif of Kobe’s “more” statement) Her: blah blah blah “you’re too much to handle” Me: I still need to find out what you can handle (later...) Send me something sexy. Her: (sends pic on all fours tongue out)… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 10:28 PM |
| 9 | How to tell a girl that you tested positive for STDs?Just tell her. Those things are curable (thank god). Do your research so you’re informed. Tell her what you are doing (treatment wise) and open yourself for any additional support. That’s it. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 09, 2021Fair enough | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/03/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | HB8 neighbor girl shows HIGH interest, then doesn’t. Where did I fuck up?Fair. I love my girl and haven’t cheated yet but the temptation is real. And there’s a wide school of thought in terms of fidelity and infidelity as a man in relationships. Some say it provides the necessary emotional detachment needed to maintain it (hence what attracted her in the first place). But being a man of integrity is important too. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | HB8 neighbor girl shows HIGH interest, then doesn’t. Where did I fuck up?Big facts here. Appreciate you brother | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Should I bang this chick that's a HB8+, but still married?I've done it but only once. If you fuck a married girl make it a one time thing. A hook-up is one thing, an affair is something completely different. If she catches feelings, there's a greater chance she'll get sloppy. Also be careful in where you have sex. The last thing you need is her knowing your address. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 04:12 AM |
| -1 | HB8 neighbor girl shows HIGH interest, then doesn’t. Where did I fuck up?Click the link | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 0 | HB8 neighbor girl shows HIGH interest, then doesn’t. Where did I fuck up?Was feeling her out to create an easy next door fuck. Needed to prime her, make a move, bring up that I had a girl (who sleeps over 2-3 times a week), and confirm she knew what time it was. Ideally wanted to build a rapport for this first. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 0 | HB8 neighbor girl shows HIGH interest, then doesn’t. Where did I fuck up?Haha any more direct feedback? | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | What’s the US like rn?This. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 5 | What to do to cure huge fear of hot/pretty girlsHonestly, you need to not care if you fuck them. Your brain is telling you that by virtue of the girl being hot, you better not “fuck it up” and miss a potential chance of fucking them. This makes you nervous and unnatural. To fix this, you need purpose beyond women and to recognize that 1) you can't fuck all of them and 2) not all relationships with hot women will lead to sex. Once you accept you don't have anything to lose by acting naturally, you'll relax. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 6 | No issues approaching, but have issues just generally being boring?This is good advice but I don't think he needs to go that far. Most guys don't have wild and crazy stories like that. I think he just needs perspective. Read books, learn new things, have a viewpoint on things that are different. That alone will make you interesting. Stories run out, but an interesting point of view will have people eating out of your hand. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 09:59 AM |
| 6 | When to stop the poon chase? To LTR or notYes, at 29 decided just to go for it with a girl that I thought was worthy of an LTR. So, far so good. I thinking about fucking other girls ALL THE TIME but it gets better when you stop masturbating, focus on fucking your girl, and use that excess sexual energy to focus on your purpose. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | What’s one adjustment you’ve made to the way you carry yourself that completely enhanced your charisma/confidence?How? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 6 | Whenever I'm out with a semi-decent girl in public, some random asshole tries to force their way into the convo, and it's starting to piss me offI don't know man. Maybe the wolves are just hungrier these days with everything shut down. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 10:48 PM |
| 12 | Whenever I'm out with a semi-decent girl in public, some random asshole tries to force their way into the convo, and it's starting to piss me offThey think you're a bitch. That or your girl is bad af AND they think you're a bitch. Get in the gym, put on some weight, and watch for your girl sending choosing signs to other dudes while y'all are together. Most dudes wouldn't cold approach a girl with a guy unless she's giving them the "fuck me" eyes. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Veteran redpillers, what are some of your regrets you wish you had (not) done when you were younger?Agreed. Every decision you’ve made was ultimately the best decision YOU thought you were making at the time. And whether that was to procrastinate, fail to approach, or piss away finances instead of save, in truth you didn’t know any better. Now that you do, you can (hopefully) make a different choice. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 04:32 PM |
| 39 | Bored with sexIn the same boat. What I’m trying is to completely eliminate masturbation from my life, take supplements to improve testosterone and sex drive, and avoid looking at porn or entertaining any other girls. From my own introspection, the more I think about other women, the less interested I am in my girl. It just becomes too familiar. So I’m trying to get my mind to a place of absolutism where I’m only focusing on my girl as a sexual object/outlet for sex & pleasure. I’ll let you know if it works. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 03:47 AM |
| 8 | Fathers of Asktrp: How are y’all raising good kids in a cultural era on the decline?You don’t know what I believe dude. Also, you’re wrong on the “generational dumping” argument. Kids are more depressed these days, millennials are existentially hopeless, increasing amounts of youth are doubtful of the Holocaust, and the media has never been more biased and politically corrupt (we’re literally living through an unprecedented time of global lockdowns and economic inequality and we’re talking about Bernie sanders memes.) Talk to anyone of any generation above the age of 24 and ask… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 07:42 AM |
| 4 | I just found out I'm attracted to underage girls (ages 5-12). I'm also attracted to women. What should I do?Talk to a therapist. NEVER (I repeat never) act on this. To be frank, you should avoid being around kids. Use hentai to satisfy your urges but from what I understand about pedophilia, it’s not something that goes away. So again, speak to a therapist regarding cognitive behavior therapy to understand yourself, your triggers, and develop the proper behavioral responses to live a normal life without feeling compelled to act on your urges. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 05:52 AM |
| 38 | Plate of 10 months has dropped a few blatantly racist remarks over the last few months with no remorse. Time to drop?Eh. I'm black so I'm biased, but if I were white (I'm assuming you are), I would check it once with a "Yo chill out with that shit" and let that be the end of it. If she did it again and it bothers you that much, she's not your wife or girlfriend, so next her. It's not beta or BP to bristle at racism. It's uncomfortable and ugly. So, yeah, if you don't like her personality, you don't have to keep fucking her. If she's laughing at your challenges, you're not saying it right or your frame is fucke… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | HB9 liked my hinge pic i ask for # then she hits me with this bsSigh. She’s a hot girl trying to become an influencer. She just wants the extra follow. It’s an easy pipeline to boost your numbers for simps. Heck, she probably has a boyfriend who knows she does this. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Any other RPers in LTRs capable of loving but not “falling in love?”I’d say so, yeah. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 03:26 PM |
| 11 | Sex on first Date, Texted her the next morning had a great time and all, no replyBoyfriend or you’re bad in bed. Either way move on. Note: you’ve got budding oneitis boy. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 09:02 PM |
| 4 | I did it- i kicked that bitch to the curbThis guy gets it. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 12 | I did it- i kicked that bitch to the curbDude. You don't break up with a girl to punish her. You break up with her because you're over it. This situation required checking his girl BEFORE it got to this point. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 06:20 PM |
| 72 | I did it- i kicked that bitch to the curbIn the words of Alpha Male Strategies “I don’t give a damn about insecurities. I’m about respect.” Fuck that insecurities bullshit. That’s what women say to keep you in the pocket and not call them out on clear bullshit. Always flip the script in your head. If you were telling your girl about some bad bitch at work that you were texting on the side to help her find a guy, would SHE be okay with that? Of course not. She wouldn’t trust you OR the girl. Edit: Mateguarding is going to a bar with you… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 02:26 PM |
| 13 | I did it- i kicked that bitch to the curbIt’s always by choice. You control your reactions, not anyone else. But when she first brought up some guy that she thinks is attractive or handsome at work and wouldn’t stop talking about him, you should’ve said: “Hey, is there something you want to tell me about “Chuck?” You keep talking about him and how handsome he is, and I’m starting to think there’s more here than a friendship and it’s becoming inappropriate. If that’s the case, we can end this right now. If it isn’t, I don’t want to hear… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Is ok to post pictures on instagram with some plates ?No. Unless it’s a group pic, a client, or some other purposeful relationship, you’re going to give her the wrong idea as well as others. Do that with enough girls and you’ll look like a jackass. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 02:10 PM |
| 75 | I did it- i kicked that bitch to the curbFrom what I’ve read, you sound like you got butt hurt. You say “jokingly” but by your writing, I can tell your hurt was showing physically. Executing and not bitching up was right. However, you could’ve checked this behavior when she first told you about buddy before and you’d probably still be together. Oh well, easy come, easy go. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I found a high class escort site and it has completely revolutionized how I’m about to live my life.Haha a girl with over 5k followers sounds like a nightmare. That would actually turn me off because I would KNOW their attitude was dogshit. There are BAD low key girls that are 9s and 10s that deleted their “first” IGs and now sit at less than 1-2k followers. Those are the ones you want and those girls are out there. You just have to be out there too to find them. Have your fun though dude but don’t get caught up. You might fuck around and condition your brain for two things: 1) if a girl isn’t… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Does edging (but eventually cumming) help you last longer?Yeah that’s what I’ve experienced. So it’s all passive benefits for you? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | I found a high class escort site and it has completely revolutionized how I’m about to live my life.Prostitution is a game as old as time. If you’re taking a girl out who sees you as betabux it’s a small step above prostitution but that’s it. That said, it has a stigma for a reason and I would never tell a girl what you’ve said here. They call them johns and tricks for a reason, they’re the old world simps. Unless you’re a Wall Street trader making 100k a month and you’re fucking pros because you’re just trying to feel SOMETHING, okay, but dude you’re in your 20s and by your own admission coul… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Does edging (but eventually cumming) help you last longer?I’ve got an app for kegels but I have hard to remembering to pinch the muscle during sex. Are you holding it during strokes or in between when you’re resting? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 12:51 PM |
| 6 | What's the age range of girls that y'all plate/LTR?Interesting. I’m a 30m and before I got into an LTR I definitely enjoyed the life. You think you’ll settle down anytime soon? Hitting 30 definitely causes one to re-evaluate life directions and although I love my girl, I miss the novelty and fun of engaging multiple women (expensive though). | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Does edging (but eventually cumming) help you last longer?I know what a set is. Just not sure what a “rep” is for kegels. I’m assuming you pinching your pelvic floor muscles counts as one but obviously the length of time you hold it matters too. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Any TRPers in Miami? How do you like it?Beautiful city. Expensive but walk around South Beach any given weekend and you'll learn to love it. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Examples of turning short conversations to getting a date/number?"Hey I know you've got to run but would you like to grab a drink sometime?" | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Does edging (but eventually cumming) help you last longer?What the heck is a set? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 03:45 AM |
| 3 | See convo, am I done here?Eh. You're trying to put out a fire with gasoline. His issue is trying too hard for an uninterested girl. Trying to be the funny guy at this point will likely come off as weird or try-hard. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 9 | See convo, am I done here?She's not interested. Look at her responses, there's no emotion, playfulness, or interest. She's treating you like an orbiter bro. I'd back off entirely. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 02:50 AM |
| 0 | FUCK I kissed and touched this bitch I met at my roommate's new years eve party and now she's saying I raped herYikes. If I were you, I would do two things: Call an attorney, at the very least it'll calm you down. You didn't "rape" her, you DID assault her by definition (unwanted physical sexual advance). However, I doubt she'll press charges over something so small, especially with no penetration. I don't know how much time has gone by but I would reach out to her and acknowledge that you misread the moment. Apologize for misreading it and acting on the wrong signals. You need to stop her hamster wheel f… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Reaching out to broken plateBingo | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 07:39 AM |
| 2 | LTR dump me after 3 years. My turn is over.Cold hard facts. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Reaching out to broken plateHere's my take on reaching out to old plates. 9 times out of 10 it will lead nowhere. The other 10% of the time, you may be able to pick things back up but it'll die again soon. Why? Because like it or not, things tend to end for a reason. And when you pick things back up after they've already fallen out once, it feels like re-watching the same movie. You already know them, you just forgot what you didn't like the first time around—and it always comes rushing back. If you're getting warm signals… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Invest in yourself firstPut this in TRP or Semen Retention. Don't wax poetic on here. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 7 | How’s my tinder game?This is bad. To start your first line is cliche af. Every guy reading the “Tinder game” handbook says that. Try to be more original. Next, you’re very “try hard” with the resist temptation line, not asking for a number, and sending HER your Snapchat. Also, you saying “one night with me blah blah blah” puts you in her frame. You’re trying to impress HER and that’s the problem. You need to frame it like you’re doing her a favor not the other way around. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 06:52 AM |
| 36 | How to survive in an extremely liberal college?Facts. I've learned this lesson the hard way many times. Sometimes maturity is being secure enough in your beliefs that you don't have to convince anyone of shit. Shrug your shoulders, maintain your composure, and let people you disagree with live their lives. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 11:51 PM |
| 8 | How to survive in an extremely liberal college?I agree and disagree here. There IS power in not caring what people think, however, you need to be prepared to live with the consequences of potentially being a social pariah. People need people, and though die-hard liberals are the most sensitive, insensitive, and intolerant people out there, you're going to need people to get ahead in this world. Even those you disagree with. So, since the left can't handle the truth in most cases, keep it to yourself if they're not mature enough to handle a d… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 11:49 PM |
| 8 | What’s the meaning of ghosting and then coming back?Facts. Never raise this one above plate status. No dates, no dinner, just netflix and chill moving forward. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else get a drive rush after being Red Pilled?Real af. Go with your gut. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 07:37 PM |
| 34 | The "are you a feminist?" Shit testEh. I just say "no" laugh at the idea, and tell them most "male feminists" are the creepiest ones to watch out for. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else feel like they've lost it?Great answer bro. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | In your experience, what’s the most effective way to ask a woman outSounds like an insecure headache. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what’s the most effective way to ask a woman outBusy all next week? Because this week is over. If she's busy all next week, say "No problem. Hit me up when you're free" and leave it there. That's a lack of interest. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 02:22 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what’s the most effective way to ask a woman outSee my edit if you haven't already. And girls say yes for a variety of reasons. Maybe she didn't want to deal with the drama of rejecting you to your face. Maybe she has a boyfriend, thought you were cute, but in the end doesn't want to cheat. The ball is definitely in her court now so time will tell if she's interested but if I were you, I would give her a call next week (Tuesday) if you don't hear from her and touch base. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what’s the most effective way to ask a woman outIf you said "when are you free this week?" and she said "I'm not sure" with nothing else after that, she's not interested. Edit: If you asked her that exact sentence in person, it's a LITTLE different because she's on the spot, which is why you don't try to set dates on the spot. You say "we should grab a drink sometime", get the number, and call/text later to set a date. That is unless you already have concrete plans ("heading to a concert, you should come" etc.). | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 01:58 AM |
| 44 | How can I become truly funny again? And I don't mean 'clown' funny.Not reading all that but watch standup, take an improv class, practice open mic. Humor comes from confidence and the ability to say what's on your mind quickly and without overthinking it. Typically the funniest jokes are the ones you didn't even think were that funny when you said it. You were just being honest or naturally silly. Try to get your mind in a place where you're saying the first thing that comes to mind without thinking (this mindset is literally the essence of improv). | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | In your experience, what’s the most effective way to ask a woman outEasy solution here is to ask: "when are you free this week?" That gives you a range and allows you to pick a day that works for both of your schedules. Some girls are socially dumb, and after answering "I'm busy Friday" they'll wait for you to ask again (now you're in their frame and revealing your open schedule too much). This is especially true in text. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else here cringe at some of the posts on here?Yes, some of the posts here are immature and juvenile ("does she like me?" "what to text girl?" etc.) but it's also a repository of some VERY important male/life wisdom. If you're on TRP chances are you're a beta that hit a breaking point. As a result, you have a lot of men that are trying to figure the world out (again) as young and older adults. Try not to be so hard on people trying to figure this shit out and be grateful you aren't still plugged into the Matrix. P.S. The naturally RP guys yo… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think women are disgusted when they see confidence displayed by a perceived lower tier male?You’re missing the point. A confident man is direct, shoots his shot, and if he doesn’t get what he wants, knows that he eventually will. When you’re confident you push through resistance, talk to more women, and if you bag a bad one, she’ll open up the door for others down the line. I think you’re personalizing this to your experience too much. All things being equal, you have two ugly twins, one is extremely confident and one is extremely insecure, they both hit a bar together. Who do you thin… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What are objective traits of an LTR?Control freak | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 8 | Do you guys think women are disgusted when they see confidence displayed by a perceived lower tier male?I’m confused by your example involving yourself. Not sure how that description shows confidence or a lack thereof. I know many guys who are short, unattractive, etc. and fucking OWN IT and have pulled badder bitches than me. Perfect example from a high profile figure is lil Wayne. Girls used to think he looked like a troll. He mentioned it back in his older raps and even called himself a goblin. He talked about eating pussy A LOT (when a lot of brothers were above that shit) probably for added s… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | What are objective traits of an LTR?When you’re in the right frame of mind (not taking her too seriously) you don’t even notice shit tests. My girl doesn’t shit test me at all and if she does I don’t even register them. In terms of personality, no girl is perfect but the worst trait about my girl is that she’s type A and sometimes naggy. She can also be sensitive so if I tease her about certain things she crumbles. I’ve got to put on the kid gloves at times but that’s it. No biggie. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 11:01 PM |
| 8 | What are objective traits of an LTR?Loyalty. Integrity. Kind. Feminine submissiveness. Intelligence. Attractiveness. (No more than a notch below you) When you learn about your girls history in high school & college, and who her friends are now, it’ll tell you a lot. Ideally you want a girl who had a good two parent upbringing (at least through 18), focused in school, and bloomed as a young woman in college. You want a girl that has largely spent her romantic life in LTRs with a brief stint getting off in her early twenties until s… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 10:48 PM |
| 28 | Do you guys think women are disgusted when they see confidence displayed by a perceived lower tier male?Not reading all that but the short answer is no. It makes them curious. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Women want guys around their own age?Facts. Set up a Tinder and make the match criteria specifically 30-45. You will see the saddest stories of post-wall women that you wouldn’t even sport fuck. It’s very depressing seeing HB4-6s talking about they’re only looking for men that are “emotionally available.” They’ve got a better shot saying they’re DTF and are open to seeing where things go. A high body count is the least of their worries at this point. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 10:22 PM |
| 14 | A good friend of mine is sexting with an underage girl, don't know if i should interveneMoral issues aside, if it’s not illegal that’s the end of it. If he’s attracted to a “15” year old, I’m guessing he either doesn’t care or doesn’t have many options. So, he’ll probably do what he wants regardless of your input. It’s Chinatown bro. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 10:14 PM |
| 9 | Tinder is not good for my mental health.Stop investing so much into dating apps. You don’t realize this because I’m assuming you’ve never created a female account but every girl literally has THOUSANDS of dudes liking them. The amount of attention they get is beyond belief. Which means they have a ironclad abundance mentality. Don’t take it so seriously. You haven’t invested more than a few messages back and forth, you don’t know these women, and they aren’t your gf. If they fuck off they’re in their right. Keep gaming and try to find… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | What age does living with roommates look bad on you, if any?Facts (LA resident) | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 07:45 AM |
| 5 | What is dating like in southern california?I'm going to push back on this since you sound like a native. I've been in LA for 3.5 years now. It's true that LA is flush with beautiful women, however, as was already stated, nearly every girl you talk to (especially white) will be VERY liberal. Scroll through Tinder here and you'll commonly see bisexual, poly, pansexual, feminist, ACAB, BLM, etc. in the description. If you have even a nuanced position on these matters, I wouldn't bring it up. On the other hand, I agree that a high SMV is vit… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 3 | What was the biggest lesson you have learned from 2020?Real af | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 10:44 PM |
| 25 | Why do girls' feelings seem to change so quickly?You're looking for love. Stop. Enjoy your time with women and if it ends (completely out of your control) let it end. Trust me. It's better to go into these things with a detached perspective rather than doing most of the "future-thinking." | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 5 | Being needy after breakupYou need purpose and direction for your life. Right now you're completely wrapped up in female validation to give your self esteem worth. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 10 | LTR looks down on me for working at a gymKeep looking for work. TBH your girl is reacting naturally to seeing you take a HUGE dip in your SMV. If she thinks you don't have a plan she'll cheat soon or break up with you. She needs to see/feel you're more ambitious than your current job. It's unfortunate but that's hypergamy. The moment you stop feeling like a "good bet" is the moment she loses interest. And by the way you've written this post, it seems like you're coasting for the moment and getting comfortable in your role rather than h… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Father has another familyIf he doesn’t have a relationship with her (purposefully) you should probably leave it alone. Introducing yourself into her life will complicate your relationship with your father, and potentially bring unwanted drama. It’s a tough call but it’s not your place to bridge relationships between him and his daughter. And reaching out to her or bringing it up to him may do that. Let the baby mama fight to bridge that gap. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | 2021 Predictions for the Sexual Market [Warning Politics]Ah. Fair point then. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/20 12:43 AM |
| 7 | 2021 Predictions for the Sexual Market [Warning Politics]I’m confused when the last “far right extreme” era was. Bush era was pretty tame minus the wars (but those are apolitical). | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 4 | When they text "miss you" or "wish you were here"Curious to see another mans idea of sweet nothings. What are your go tos? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Breaking up and the DogAgreed and in a similar situation myself minus the dog. Me and my girl just don’t talk politics. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 11:01 PM |
| 4 | How quickly do you assume she’s not interested?Boyfriends dude | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 2 | How quickly do you assume she’s not interested?Agreed | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Why not just say whatever is on your mind and live with no regrets?Best answer | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | How does the dynamic change when just getting into an LTR?Best answer here | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Interview with an OnlyFans girlWho gives af what one girl is doing to make money? Seriously. If you’re not fucking her what does it matter what she does? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Have i blew i red pill fuseYou sound like my inner thoughts although my girl is a 7.5. Turned 30 in October and wondering if this girl will be it. We’ll see what life offers though. As long as I’m self-improving I’m free to enjoy wherever the winds take me. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 05:21 AM |
| 1 | What Do Y'all Say When a Girl Says "You Can't Handle Me"She’s calling you weak. Anything you say along the lines of “let’s find out” or “only one way to find out” is immediately entering her frame. Honestly, I would just roll my eyes, laugh, and neg her: “I bet you say that to all the guys you end up falling in love with.” | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 05:16 AM |
| 4 | "I have a boyfriend"Good wisdom but I’m doubting the realism of a woman you just met on the street that rejected you bringing you into her social circle. Especially if she has a boyfriend. You’d have to be compellingly charming where she WANTS to fuck you but can’t because she has a boyfriend. So keeping you close “as a friend” might do. Thats extremely rare though. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/20 05:07 AM |
| 8 | You ever feel like you mostly chase girls just because other guys are doing it and you have a FOMO?Only when I hit my late 20s (30 now) and I recognized all the cool memories of the girls Ive fucked didn’t actually add anything to my life. (Even the confidence and validation is shallow) Get money and fuck bitches in that order. If you put the cart before the horse, you’ll only waste time with girls who you were never really interested in. But you live and you learn. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?30 | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?I’ve been with a lot. I think that’s part of the problem. Having slept with a lot of women I think it primes your brain into always seeking better (or at least new) until you get tired and settle down. Emphasis on settle. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?Yeah but then Dwayne divorced her. Seems like she came along for the ride until he blew up. Might’ve been cheating or opened up their relationship until he realized he wanted something different. Jeff Bezos, too. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?I’m giving a hyperbolic extreme to underscore my point on the role of attraction. I don’t think a 7/8 is that bad, but if I was Daniel Craig I’d probably go for a 9/10 to settle down. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?Solid points bro. But if it meant cheating or having to open up the relationship with a 7 later on, would you consider that healthy? | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?This guy gets it. Appreciate the thoughtful answer bro. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?Yeah I think she’s straight personally. I just mention her because she’s been mentioned in pop culture as being less than stunning. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?Men predominantly judge women by their looks... I never said ONLY, I never said most men should value looks above all us. I questioned what would compel men with evidenced levels of near-endless abundance to choose to settle down with girls that are less conventionally attractive than the other women they could pull. Ultimately the question is one what what is required to settle down happily with a woman and not think of cheating or opening up the relationship down the line. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?Haha fair enough | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?I think you’re reading too much into the question. I never said ONLY looks matter. I implied looks matter...because they do. I’m just curious about the idea of settling down and what’s healthy (in terms of matching or exceeding your girls SMV) for a long term relationship. If she’s a HB6 she could have great qualities that compel you to be with here (I agree) but years down the line, those HB8s are going to be mighty tempting. And why marry a girl if she isn’t everything that you want? (Particul… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?Wouldn’t marrying a girl you found less attractive become a problem years into the marriage when you were around the presence of hotter girls? | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?Fair point. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:38 PM |
| -1 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?Would you marry a 300lb loyal girl? No? You have some standard for attractiveness for a girl you’re settling down with right? That’s my point. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?Eh. I hear you but men do value attractiveness (although subjective) more than women. We have a ratings system for FFS. I agree looks aren’t everything, particularly when you’ve been with hot and slutty/bitchy girls. My point is that those intrinsic qualities we speak of are rare but not supremely rare. You can find a hot girl with good values. And with the amount of options these men have, they’d have more access to finding them than you or me. I brought up the question because it made me wonde… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:37 PM |
| 5 | Why do famous alphas settle down with girls that are best an 7/8?It’s a question of settling down for the long term. Say what you want but looks are essential to a man being content in a relationship. Sure, intrinsic characteristics are important, as well, but I’m guessing you wouldn’t marry a girl that was 300lbs if she didn’t cheat and could cook a steak. Thats my point. The amount of women these guys have access to means that they CAN find an extremely attractive woman with a girl that matches their SMV. You see it all the time with other celebrities. So, … | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:32 PM |
| 10 | why aren't you guys reading the side barI think it sets a base level expectation of the awareness, foundational wisdom, and lifestyle that comes with RP. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Making $120,000/yr autopilot. What should I do with my life?There might have been a special when I got it. Either way $15 is lunch. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 06:20 PM |
| 33 | why aren't you guys reading the side barPiggybacking off this, similar to other subreddits, it may be wise to set posting rules that require you to mention those essentials (read sidebar, lift 3 days a week minimum, eat three square meals a day, etc.) in every post. It would set a nice standard. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Making $120,000/yr autopilot. What should I do with my life?Ha, I mean the book by Tim Ferris. What country are you in? If you don't mind me asking. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 05:12 AM |
| 22 | Making $120,000/yr autopilot. What should I do with my life?Look up Jordan Peterson's Future Authoring course. It's 5 dollars (US). It's effectively a questionnaire that will help you form your vision for your life. It'll also put the fear of god into you about bullshitting your time away. No matter what you do you're making a choice: to act or not to act. You're in a great position if that business is sustainable long-term. Now you need to answer the age-old question: "What would you do with your life if money wasn't an issue?" Now it's time to live lif… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 04:04 AM |
| 5 | Making $120,000/yr autopilot. What should I do with my life?You a 4-hour work week disciple? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 3 | What should I do about my Chad brother taking girls from me?This is true. If you're out with a wing that outclasses you in SMV, you'll experience the same thing. The issue is more of than not, the other dude is more "interesting" than you. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Why do women unfriend you on social media for no reason?If they don't see you on a regular basis they're okay with cutting all ties with you. That's the reality so you should respond in kind and mentally move on from them. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Reconnect with an old plateI wouldn't say 9 out of 10. I would flip that. For RP'ed alphas that may be true, but for betas it's the opposite. They turn off women with feminine behavior rather than frustrate them with masculine. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Reconnect with an old plateIt’s possible to reconnect with a plate. Is it likely or worth it? No. Typically they go ghost for a reason and your mental attachment to that past keeps you in a beta state of “pre RP” when it comes to seeing them again. There is almost never a “new you” when it comes to old flames. Most people slide back into bad beta behavior unless something dramatic happened to them (went to war). | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 9 | What should I do about my Chad brother taking girls from me?This is hypergamy plain and simple. He needs to work with his brother to split girls and give him the leftovers. Basically on some “Entourage” shit. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 01:24 AM |
| 6 | What should I do about my Chad brother taking girls from me?Go out with your brother and pull girls. Sounds like he’d be a great wing if there’s more than 2 girls. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 5 | My problem with cold approachingThis is interesting. I did something like this unknowingly by wearing a “Make Kanye Great Again” hat. I’m black and it just looked like a MAGA hat from a distance. I live in SoCal and caught people staring at me multiple times. Truth be told it was pretty uncomfortable since the association out here is so bad. People are crazy out here and actually did care (though no one said anything). But I hear you on the do something goofy advice. I think we all need to lessen our ego a bit. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop wasting time?Here’s what I’m doing now that is currently working for me after YEARS of a start-stop mentality. For reference, I would pick up a new habit like running, then after two weeks, miss a day. Then one day became two, then two became a week, and then I’m back on my bullshit talking about I need to get back to running... What I did was very simple: Build consistency not achievement. Here’s what I mean... Let’s take the running example. I would say something like, “I’m going to run Monday through Frid… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What would be your advice to your younger self?Thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | What would be your advice to your younger self?Nice dude. What are your resources for sniffing out new investments? | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | What would be your advice to your younger self?What was your initial investment and did you hit 5 figures while adding to it? I’m the same age and took to investing back in June when the market was low but beginning to rebound and have only seen a 27% increase overall to my portfolio. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Someone texted me “on sight” meaning he wants to fight me on sight. How do I respond to thatIf he doesn’t go to your school or know where you live, block the number and go about your life. If he goes to your school or knows where you live, still don’t respond. If he keeps harassing you, tell him you’re calling the police. You don’t have to actually do it but the threat of real legal trouble will generally put the fear of god into most people. Note: Not sure what age you are and I get how that can seem like a bitch move if you’re in high school but you don’t need to fight bro. It proves… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | As a black man, do you have success on tinder?Well now you’re just black pill. Lil Wayne was considered ugly AF for years. Same with Travis Scott. Then they got on their grind and are fucking the baddest bitches in our popular culture. Stop making excuses and work on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 04:10 AM |
| 2 | As a black man, do you have success on tinder?I think you’re using that as an excuse. And I just gave you an example of different shades of black men doing well with women of all races (Michael B Jordan and I’ll throw another one Idris Elba). If you’re attractive (looks, body, personality, etc.) in real life it’ll be the same for Tinder by the way. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:43 AM |
| 8 | As a black man, do you have success on tinder?I'm black and can tell you firsthand it's not your race. I've been with every race of girl (except Jewish and Middle-Eastern) and can tell you that if you're attractive it doesn't matter what race you are, girls will still be into you. Now, that being said, there is such thing as preference. I'm lightskin and fairly handsome, so my path is pretty easy. I don't come off as hood, but I don't come off as soft either. I straddle the line as a tall, handsome, hipster-esque black guy. And for me that … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:14 AM |
| 6 | Do top 20% guys still even get choosing signals? Starting to feel like an incel and getting depressed bros.Agree with this. I live in a heavy lockdown state so the choosing signals I used to get going out to bars, social gatherings, etc. have 100% dried up. Also because of COVID I don't think many women are even in the mindset to show outward interest like that. The dating world feels very much in hibernation (at least where I'm at). That means if you want to pursue more attractive women you need to get used to asking yourself: "What do I want?" Listen to the answer and then act on it. If that means … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Relationship Advice Needed - Feel ConfusedDude, Chilerellenoburrito is trying to calm you down rationally and you are BETA-ING the fuck out. CHILL. You've been with this girl for 9 months, if you broke up today, big whoop, go find another girl to get to know. This girl isn't the one because NO girl is the one. If it works out, it works out, if it doesn't, it doesn't. That's it. The fact that you're so twisted up by this and (seemingly) having an existential crisis over it SCREAMS beta dependence. To be frank, if you're like this in your… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm an "alpha" widowMove cities or spend more time in the upper-scale part of town. Money tends to attract beauty. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | why are low-value men tricked into going gay?You don't know anything else. If you were a kid and dudes were fucking dudes all around you and it was normalized (and even encouraged), you'd be more susceptible to fucking dudes. Different shit would arouse you in those kinds of cultural conditions. It's the reason why bisexuality in men and women in western countries is going up every year. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | why are low-value men tricked into going gay?It’s both. You can be biologically gay and culturally gay. Look at Ancient Greece or Japan. Homosexuality was embraced within the culture. Had nothing to do with biology when you look at the populations now. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 5 | What do I even say to thisIgnore the first text. If she texts again demote to plate...if the pussy is good. On the second text, text her “Been busy, come over tonight.” The short notice will be a power move and you’ll see how into you she really is. You can’t trust those first reach out texts. She’s likely in between dudes and horny. If you come running back you’ll look VERY available (emotionally) which will turn her off. On the second text, turn it into sex immediately to put her in your frame. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 3 | How could I have courted this Russian MILF?Next time, get up, sit next to her and ask "is this seat taken?" If she's into you, she'll say no. If she wants you to fuck off, she'll say yes. Once you sit down, say "I've got to get back to studying but you caught my eye when you sat down. My name is [Insert Name]." *Wait for response* Continue... "Cool, well let me grab your number before I get back. I'm going to check out this music venue later on this week, and if you're free you should come with." In and out in five minutes. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 10:21 PM |
| 69 | Why is the average girl so boring yet entitled. They literally do no self improvementDamn, that's so true. External validation has become lifeblood to the average woman these days. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Chick I used to deal with got cheated on and randomly brought it up. How to respond?No problem bro. I’m 30 and if there’s one thing I’ve learned through COVID it’s this... These hoes don’t care about you. And I don’t mean that in a “these hoes ain’t shit” kinda way. I mean it in a “they come and go” and when they go, it’s like an MIB memory wipe. If you aren’t serving them dick, good companionship, or financing them, they have no use for you and will walk away and never look back. Why? Because every second they spend with you is a second they lose off their prime where they cou… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Chick I used to deal with got cheated on and randomly brought it up. How to respond?No text back. Also don’t let it bother you, I’m in an LTR but if I wasn’t I probably wouldn’t have hoes either. COVID = quiet time Work on your life and find something more important than hoes. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 11:05 PM |
| 8 | Chick I used to deal with got cheated on and randomly brought it up. How to respond?Don't think so hard. Just say, "Sounds like you need a drink." *wait for response* "We should link up. How's your schedule this week." The key is you don't want to make it sexual too quickly or you're going to come across as too readily available. Hence the setup in the first line. Edit: Again, if you do fuck (and likely you can) DO NOT TEXT, CALL, OR ANYTHING afterwards. Let her reach out. Effectively you need to ghost her. If she curved you twice already she doesn't want you, you're just a bac… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 06:16 PM |
| 6 | Chick I used to deal with got cheated on and randomly brought it up. How to respond?Take the pussy. Don't get curved (i.e. fuck and don't reach out again). | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 06:07 PM |
| 8 | Fleeing liberal cuck countryI’m from Florida and here currently. It’s a breath of fresh air compared to the rest of the country. Good weather, beaches, and a swath of people incoming to avoid state income tax. Go to major city (Tampa or Orlando) and you’ll have a good time. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Daily reminder: don’t be a bitchI’m assuming he’s handsome so his IDGAF attitude mixed with good looks would project high value. Repeatedly negging with “#” would only promote high value through submission (if she submits) but again, not sure how OP looks or how the girl looks but this would only work if the girl perceives herself physically (or socially) as having less value than the guy. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily reminder: don’t be a bitch10s will degrade themselves for a higher value guy. Does repeating “#” scream high value? It’s definitely a submission play but I don’t think that says I value my time and live in abundance repeating the same message so many times. I guarantee you that girl is mid-low SMV. A 10 would’ve stopped responding long ago. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Daily reminder: don’t be a bitchUnless you’re a different person on the date (a true alpha), her pussy is going to be dry af to start the date—IF she has the low self worth to actually show up. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 07:46 PM |
| 7 | Led a girl on... Now she's accusing me of forcing her to do thingsSigh, I swear some people have never met a real human on this sub | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I become less emotionally reactive?Ha. We'll see. So far I avoid the people who give me headaches like the plague and my circle is small but of quality. I wish it was larger at times but my life is largely free of the bullshit where I can control it. At the same time, I could be missing out, so maybe it's a wash. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | How do I become less emotionally reactive?So, why are you stressing? Because you have dipshits violating your boundaries. You’re supposed to be pissed, your body is letting you know to take action. This hit hard. Appreciate the perspective brother. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How do I become less emotionally reactive?Just checked for it but it looks like it got removed. I'll keep an eye out for the repost. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I become less emotionally reactive?Best advice I've seen so far. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 11:42 PM |
| 2 | How do I become less emotionally reactive?Are there limits to that in human interaction? I never want to be in a place where I let bullshit slide. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | How do I become less emotionally reactive?Facts. Definitely something I need to work on. I have a high sensitivity to any kind of disrespect so it spins around in my mind when I don't take strong or physical action. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I become less emotionally reactive?Definitely will incorporate meditating into my life. As for the second response, I'm not sure how I could have enforced stronger boundaries in these instances since the actions were taken outside my purview. Once they were discovered, I confronted the party about them immediately. What would you have recommended? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I become less emotionally reactive?I hear you brother, I ALWAYS check bullshit when I see it. I just find those triggers becoming more frequent and it's affecting how I view others. I'm at a place now where if you reveal any kind of shady or bitch-made shit to me, I write you off immediately and for good. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | LTR hasn’t wanted to have sex for weeks. Trying to apply dread, but not sure it’s working.Yup. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | LTR hasn’t wanted to have sex for weeks. Trying to apply dread, but not sure it’s working.Bingo. She lost attraction to you a long time ago. At this point you're just a roommate and she's probably looking (or actively engaging) her next life raft. Best advice here would be to dial in on your purpose, self-improve, reduce your attention and see if that sparks her interest. You need to become a new man. If not, and it pushes her away further, then it wasn't meant to be. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I am 6"4 and I absolutely fall apart during "club" gameBest advice on here. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on getting married and maintaining a side girl?I hear you, I definitely don’t see a point of marriage without kids unless it’s open. However, it sounds like you worried about settling with a girl who is mentally stronger than you. You don’t need to get a foreign bride to settle that, you can just work on your frame and SMV now and get the girl you really want without all the sidestepping. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Fucking a LT friendFacts. Did it with a girl I've known for more than 10 years. Shot down the potential for a relationship, she got married less than 6 months later and now we don't talk. Wouldn't recommend it. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on getting married and maintaining a side girl?What country are you in? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on getting married and maintaining a side girl?I'm confused why you want to get married but have no plans of having kids. Just make the girl your GF and avoid the marital strife. After two years, what if she isn't down for an open relationship? Now you're looking at a divorce and all the legal fees and headache that comes with that. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How to handle going on a group vacation with an ex-LTR who cheated?Dude... You're going to have a terrible trip with your ex. Trust me. Based on your write-up you need to pay her out, and your friends need to make her feel so uncomfortable she wouldn't want to go on the trip anyhow. If that doesn't work, you need to skip out on the trip and do something else. This chick is going to waste your money either way if you have a bad time, so you might as well keep your sanity and avoid the drama. As for your friends, yeah it's weird they're still contemplating this t… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | About choosing a formal secure job or a more entertaining career ?Excellent response. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do people get so angry about the married guy who realizes he missed out?Hilarious! | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 06:48 PM |
| 3 | I think I'm intelligent and ambitious but also off-putting...I have but I'll definitely re-read them. I think I have a strong personality that tends to overpower more than charm. Thanks for the thought. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 06:19 AM |
| 6 | Serious question, how do you guys have the time to chase girls?You get it. This is hard lesson to understand until you're in your late 20s/30s | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Was anyone here a complete loner in their early 20s and found social success later in life?Love this. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 11:33 PM |
| 1 | My boss wants to fuck me but not sure how to proceedIf they respect you they will. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Was anyone here a complete loner in their early 20s and found social success later in life?I enjoy my alone time but do find myself indoors waiting for the next opportunity to go out (especially with coffee shops, gyms, and bars closed here in CA). How did you pack your schedule to maximize out-of-home activity while remaining productive? | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 09:09 PM |
| 8 | My boss wants to fuck me but not sure how to proceedPersonally, I would. But I'd just lay down the rules before it started. - Outside of this apartment, this never happened. - This is purely sexual. (Don't go on a date with the girl) - If I get a whiff that is becoming emotionally one-sided, I'm out. - This will last as long as it's fun. If that changes, we're done. Then ask: "Can you agree to that?" Maybe even record it. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel like I constantly need to interact with women in order to feel validated and happy?I was like this until i turned 30. Then everything sort of clicked. I looked back and realized how much time I had spent focusing on chasing pussy, fucking women, not pursuing my own goals, how many opportunities (and money) I squandered in order to maintain a relationship (a plate), etc. And I recognized that if I kept doing that same shit, my life would be pretty hollow in another 10 years. At some point, you'll recognize there are just more important things than pussy. Once you hit that momen… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with negative thoughts that come and go?You seem all over the place but look into HOCD. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | First time reaching out about HOCD (Sexual OCD). Need advice.Solid response | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 02:03 AM |
| 14 | Keep getting ghosted after first date, even after sex! What am I doing wrong?Listen to this man | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys unfollow old plates on social media?Honest man! | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys unfollow old plates on social media?Ah. Yeah definitely no oneitis then. I'm talking about this thought pattern: Photo pops up "Damn that pussy was good af. I wonder if she's single? If I hit her up, could I still fuck?" But multiply that by 4-5 different girls. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys unfollow old plates on social media?In your opinion, what's the line between rose-colored nostalgia and oneitis? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Anyone know any good RP financial and business-building posts or resources?Great. Appreciate the picks bro. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?That's the thing. My girl isn't bi, and to be honest, that's how I like it if I were to ever take her seriously as a potential mother of my kids. I want her to be pretty straight-laced and a solid freak for me (and me alone). As for the open relationship, I'm not with that. I'd lose respect for her if she let me do that and then I DEFINITELY wouldn't risk putting a baby in her. I'm at 6 months of taking this girl seriously after YEARS of fucking off, so maybe I'm being naive, but when fucking so… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?Fair perspective. Appreciate the wisdom. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?Facts | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?That’s the thing I don’t know if the “I want to fuck new bitches” mentality ever leaves you. At this point I’ve probably fucked over 100 girls (or close to it) and the draw of the next cute face or fat ass is constant. My homeboy is the same way and struggles not to cheat (he’s got one sidechick to hold him off) but I don’t want to be in a relationship and still fuck off on the low. What’s the point? Ya know. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 08:49 PM |
| -2 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?That’s the key: time. My girl is attractive, submissive, feminine, no tattoos, not bisexual, n-count between 10-15 at 25, smart, and Ivy League educated. She’d be a great mother to my kids and all around good girl. I’m just wondering when the “wandering eye” phase will go away. Prior to her I was single and fucking chicks for the last 5 years, so the “one-girl forever” lifestyle still has some growing pains to it. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?Nice dude and fair point | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Anybody else notice that feminists are way more demanding regarding sex?Lmao. Not yet at least. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 8 | Anybody else notice that feminists are way more demanding regarding sex?Facts. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 10:42 PM |
| 6 | Anybody else notice that feminists are way more demanding regarding sex?Ha probably | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 10:41 PM |
| -7 | Anybody else notice that feminists are way more demanding regarding sex?That's a fair point, but where I would call it demanding is the expectation of having to eat a girl out for 15-20 minutes to get her to cum before I can EVERY time. My LTR is a feminist and I find myself giving her head more than I receive it. And I think it ultimately does affect power dynamics based on shifts in masculine/feminine energy. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 18 | Anybody else notice that feminists are way more demanding regarding sex?There’s some real truth here. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What I Learnt From Staying Away From Reddit (and TRP) For 1 YearGreat post dude. Gonna finish some essential reading on here and unplug. Definitely getting caught up in the dopamine trap as of late. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Where did you go wrong in your last LTR?That’s a big one. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 05:13 PM |
| 5 | EX gf came out of the woodworks after I got accepted into medical school?Guy doubts hearing “Dr.” alone isn’t is a panty dropper. Here we go... | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 06:58 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys decide if you can emotionally bond with a girl when you dont know her history?You’ll never know. Just observe her words and behavior and scan for any signs of immaturity. Most girls will tell you if they’ve cheated before without you having to ask. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 04:17 AM |
| 19 | EX gf came out of the woodworks after I got accepted into medical school?Dude are you talking about rape allegations? Because I’m not. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 01:46 AM |
| 119 | EX gf came out of the woodworks after I got accepted into medical school?Fuck that. Just fuck their brains out (with a condom) and don't be afraid to drop them like a bad habit. As a doctor you're instantly top 1%. You've earned the attraction from all spates of women. Just don't get caught up thinking these hoes would love you the same if you worked at Arbys. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 63 | EX gf came out of the woodworks after I got accepted into medical school?This | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls after they get played and hurt by chad go for nice guys afterRead..... the..... SIDE BAR. (Seriously. Or at the very least search the subreddit for this question. It's been asked a MILLION times. Stop being lazy) | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | What experience helped you find the red pill?Dating apps and the occasional street pull. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | What experience helped you find the red pill?Make the choice that it’s over because for whatever combination of reasons (she wasn’t shit, you acted weak, etc.) something at some point broke, and it’s EXTREMELY hard to reset it. Better to find a new girl and start fresh. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | What experience helped you find the red pill?This. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:43 PM |
| 71 | What experience helped you find the red pill?Fell in love with a girl in college. Fucked around on her, got caught, then went full retard trying to get her back (cupped "I love you" on fences on our college campus lmao). Thought she was the one and didn't realize that beta dream was just pushing her further away. Three years of off-and-on slow-burn oneitis later, I move cities and meet a "unicorn." HB9.5, beautiful, feminine, spiritual, blah blah blah. Thinking "I better not fuck this one up" I did every blue pill play in the book except b… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 8 | Any of you guys on NoFap? If so, has it helped you with females?Nice. This is my next goal. 120+ is my max, so far. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Any of you guys on NoFap? If so, has it helped you with females?This is true. There's a good chance you'll experience a "flatline" where you just aren't that interested in sex at all. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 9 | Any of you guys on NoFap? If so, has it helped you with females?Couldn't have said this better myself. Have done multiple 90+ day stretches. It's good for building up willpower and self-discipline. When you know you can give yourself one of the ultimate forms of pleasure in an instant, it's hard not to abuse it—particularly when you're anxious or having a hard day. But it's just a subpar stand-in for the real thing. If you can push through and turn that sexual energy into productive/creative work, or dare I say it, real sex, you'll be better off. Currently o… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Any of you guys on NoFap? If so, has it helped you with females?This. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Have tinder gold, not getting matchesRead my most recent post on The Red Pill sub. It'll give you the information you need. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Anybody else thinking about leaving the country? If so, where?You get it. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Anybody else thinking about leaving the country? If so, where?I definitely need a break, but immigrants come for the free-economic opportunity. Not a welfare state. And it definitely seems like were shifting closer to the latter than the former. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else thinking about leaving the country? If so, where?I agree. It's objectively more diverse. But I think that "othered" experience is built into the cake. I wouldn't go to an asian country looking for full-immersion into the culture. The language barrier alone would prevent that. I would go for a break from my own. It's likely that would be a very lonely lifestyle but if you're independently minded, could be a nice opportunity to be a stranger in a foreign land. At least for a little while. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Anybody else thinking about leaving the country? If so, where?I agree dude, most news is bad news, but the culture is changing whether you're dialed in or not. Calls to defund the police is causing crime to spike across the country. Police are retiring in massive numbers. And people are being fired and outcast from society for speaking opinions that are unpopular. Fast forward 5 years and I really think this is going to feel like a VERY different country. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else thinking about leaving the country? If so, where?Oh, I always am dude. I'm black, so in any country I'm a cultural outlier (even in Africa as I'm an African American.) I don't mind it. I like being an objective third-party. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else thinking about leaving the country? If so, where?I’d be fine simply avoiding the cultural squabbles. I’d prefer a homogenous country (Korea, Japan, Sweden, Germany) etc. where even if they’re wrong they at least argue about it less. The US feels like it’s self-destructing. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.I'd put that age a bit higher. A woman (especially if she's unattractive) over the age of 45 is invisible. A woman that's 30 is just beginning her career. There are dudes that will still want a woman to settle down with. There will generally ALWAYS be a dude willing to fuck an older woman they find attractive (even if it's just for the experience), but settling down is different. Almost no dude wants a woman they can't date at THEIR pace. And women with no time to lose will want to push things f… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 28 | Do these guys have good "game"?Sober dude approaches drunk women with a camera and a “vlog” as social proof... That’s not game, that’s girls gone wild. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.Read the bottom where it says approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/20 09:58 PM |
| 3 | What's the TRP's take on the Jada Smith and August Alsina "Entanglement"?I swear I thought Will was gay. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.Yup. You’re busy and so are they. Best to get in and out and keep the mystery going. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/20 04:20 AM |
| 36 | Older guys - Do you regret having/not having children?There’s some good responses going on here | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 04:19 AM |
| 4 | Robert DeNiro DivorceSure. That’s basic game theory. But the arguments made in support of these kinds of obligations ALWAYS come from an ethical appeal. “What is she supposed to do now that she’s older and out of the work force? It’s your responsibility as a man...blah blah blah.” | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/20 12:45 AM |
| 67 | Robert DeNiro DivorceYikes. I’m still confused how any woman can justify the fairness of HALF. I get it, you’re giving up your prime years to raise a family and yada yada yada but HALF? And you’re still mad at ONLY making 100,000 a month? Yeesh the entitlement with some of these celebrity wives. You’re kids are grown and you’ve probably got a boyfriend on the side. At this point you’re getting paid to exist. Either take what you’re given or get off the fucking dole and be a grown up. Edit: Changed year to month. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/20 12:11 AM |
| 73 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?I think they genuinely want kids. But try not to be too mad at them, women are victims of this ever-growing march towards liberal insanity, too. They’re being told in music, movies, tv, commercials, etc. to not be feminine. To go into stem fields and coding. To put themselves first before a family or children. To have open relationships, cuck their boyfriends, cheat, and fuck other girls, too, all in the pursuit of pleasure. Then that biology hits. And by then the dice have already been cast. Me… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | You think black dudes/rappers, etc are naturally red pilled? why or why not?True (Black guy) | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | You think black dudes/rappers, etc are naturally red pilled? why or why not?All of the upvotes. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.Those three things I mentioned are mentioned because they are immediately VISIBLE. I agree your list is superior in the real world but 2,3 are invisible. Also I agree with pulling in real life at the end. That’s why you gotta read the whole thing... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 7 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.Last two can't be determined from a picture. Gotta read the whole thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Is there coming back from this?You’ll be alright. Approach and hop on a dating app and get those numbers back up. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.You realize you just pegged yourself as a 7.5 then validated literally everything I mentioned in those three items and admitted you get laid as a result, right? You're proving my argument. Also, if you skimmed those three points (which I'm assuming you did) and skipped the bottom where I advocate honing your approach game and NOT relying on dating apps if you fall out of the above category, then yes, you missed the message. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Is there coming back from this?No offense but I can tell by your writing you're going to take this chick back. Good luck dude. Enjoy this inner turmoil. You're going to need to hit rock bottom to change and from what I see, there's still room to sink. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 23 | Red Pill In Action: Relationship Advice EditionBecause this community has a segment of sensitive and angry betas that bristle at anything poking holes in their fragile, and recently-constructed narrative. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.You misread this. I have no problem on dating apps. I’ve always found success. The point of writing this was to address the concept of dating apps for everyone—particularly those with worse luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.Lol. I can tell you didn’t read this post in full. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 07:10 PM |
| 9 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.If you’re an ex-pat in another country that’s halfway decent looking, you’ll get bonus points just for being exotic. I clean up on Hinge when traveling in Europe and Canada. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Unless You Have These 3 Things, You Need to Give Up on Dating Apps. Here’s Why.Sure. But I’m hoping guys on dating apps want to fuck better than average (at least 6.5s and up). If you’re fucking anything less, you don’t need Tinder. 6s and below are all around us dying for attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Best Cities for Late 30s Bachelor to Buy Home?Probably. Those areas are gradually being gentrified and Tampa is the closest thing in Florida to a low rent Miami. Its not growing THAT quickly economically because the job market isn’t there but Tampa routinely tops “best cities to live for millennials” lists so I have to imagine it’s causing property values to spike alongside retiring snowbirds and incoming professionals like yourself. If it’s just you and you don’t mind not having a yard, seriously look at condos in the area. You can get one… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Are gays attracted to red pilled alphas just like women?This discussion thread is an extended convo between Mac and Dennis. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Best Cities for Late 30s Bachelor to Buy Home?I’m from Tampa. Buy a house in Seminole heights or a condo around Bayshore. You’ll spend most of your time in south Tampa if you want to be around decent hoes. If you want a little more quiet and your job is remote, try St Pete. It’s like South Tampa but quieter and the crowds are slightly older. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 03:21 AM |
| 10 | Books on how to improve your charisma and deal with people?Facts | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Moved to new state for job and picked up plate in new state. Found out LTR from back home is also moving to my new state soon. How do i end things with plate?Bingo. This is exactly why you don’t cheat. It’s just added unnecessary drama. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 05:26 AM |
| 2 | DO you calm down as you get older?I don't think it gets old permanently. If girls are still choosing on you, it's nice to have options and fucking new girls will never get old. You're a man. Variety is the spice of life. It keeps you young. That said, I'm in an LTR and am enjoying the downtime. Life is ebbs and flows. If you're tired of fucking hoes go get into an LTR. When you get tired of it, don't be afraid to leave, go out and get new hoes. Before I got serious with my LTR I took a trip to Montreal and hung out with an HB8 a… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Comments are Fucked up, Bookmark TRP.redIf this effort needs donations can we create a paypal for this endeavor? I want whoever is facilitating this to be well-compensated for maintaining the platform. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | After years of this journey, did anyone else cut out most people in their life?Yes. Particularly as a man as you get older. Close to 30 and I’m finding myself cutting off anyone who disrespects me or acts childish, for good. No matter how many years we’ve known each other. I’ve got zero tolerance for the bullshit and if you’re not adding to my life—or at least not putting me into a negative headspace—you’re out of it permanently. If it’s not effortless to be around you, I don’t want to be around you. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How the Redpill saved me from a toxic SJW.No where in OPs statement does he say “i was a bitch.” All I see is “the pussy was incredible”, “she was so hot” “she sucked me dry” and other bullshit like that. My point is that its that exact mindset that’s the problem here, not the girl. And all the dudes cheering “yeah man! Kick that bitch to the curb” are just as lost and confused as the OP and will likely (along with him) repeat the same mistake. The girl was never the problem. Sure, the OP admits he missed the red flags because the pussy… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 0 | How the Redpill saved me from a toxic SJW.Dude you sound like a bitch. All I’m reading over and over again is “the pussy” “fucked my brains out” and “blowjobs on demand” and you used that to ignore clearly disrespectful and childish behavior. Only dudes who’ve never gotten pussy or never gotten it from an attractive woman will lay the “she was hot and into me” card so much. Your story of “...and then despite the pussy, I kicked that bitch to the curb” is uninspiring. You just sound like another pussy-whipped beta that reached his breaki… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you overcome the total change of worldview and regret when discovering the Red Pill late in life?Better now than never. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | LTR met up with another manI stopped reading halfway. Break up with her. That’s not even a question. How do I know that’s the right move? Think of the psychology behind those actions. She hit up another dude that she’s familiar with, probably was once—if not, still—attracted to, and wanted to “catch up.” Dude, it’s clear as day she’s looking for your replacement. Think hard on what would make YOU do that. You’d mentally be out of the relationship (or at least curious about other opportunities, right?). She’s got one foot … | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 05:57 AM |
| 2 | My (M) Hyperactive Co worker (F) keeps joking about fucking me at the office jokinglyShe sounds like a loud mouth and annoying. If you fuck she’ll probably tell others. That’s the problem. I’ve fucked girls at my last two gigs. Led to a little awkwardness when I didn’t give them a ring afterwards but overall it was fine. I didn’t lose my job. That said, my advice is to level with any girl you work with that wants to fuck YOU (not the other way around, let her drive the attraction). Invite her out for friendly drinks and play it cool, don’t escalate, let her do all the work, and … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 10:26 PM |
| 61 | Why is it that hardcore SJW's always have white boyfriends?Most white women marry white guys. Even if they're talking that shit, even if they're fucking every other minority, they tend to settle with white guys. This is from Pew Research. Only 8% of white married couples are interracial compared to 18/16% for black and hispanics. I assume this is related to social class at the end of the day (and I'm black). | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 05:46 AM |
| 2 | In a ltr 5 months really wanna fuck other girlsYou sound young but every guy has been there. The same pussy gets old. It's like a game you've beaten a hundred times—still fun but most of the excitement was in the beginning. That said, if you're okay with seriously hurting this girl and losing her, cheat. If not, don't cheat. If you feel like you NEED to fuck someone new, break up with her. If YOU end it on good terms (being honest), you may be able to pick the relationship back up in the future (doubtful if she moves on but possible). The mo… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Girl match says she’s seeing someone then comes back a week laterThis | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Guys that is in a happy LTR or marriage, at what age did you meet your gf/wife after you became redpilled.I do but it’s important to remember that there will ALWAYS be a more attractive woman. My girl is a 7.5 and an 8 on a good day. She isn’t perfect but she’s sexy to me when she puts it all together. More importantly, she’s feminine, submissive, and loyal. I’ve dated girls that were 8s and 9s and although I was hungrier for sex from them (some still cross my mind actually) when I compare personalities my girl beats them by a mile. “Bad” girls are annoying. Give them too much attention and they’re … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think of smashing someone’s wife who used to wrong you in high school?I’ve fucked someone I know’s wife. Pussy was good, didn’t feel guilty, and sent her home. That said I only did it once and shut it down. Why? Because fucking once is one thing, an AFFAIR is something completely different—and girls can be VERY sloppy when they’re looking for an excuse to leave anyways. Play the game but be ready to accept whatever consequences come. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 06:13 AM |
| 1 | GF’s hollow p****Seems like a problem... | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 06:09 AM |
| 5 | Guys that is in a happy LTR or marriage, at what age did you meet your gf/wife after you became redpilled.I don’t believe in unicorns but every now and then you’ll find a girl with good values. My advice: Make sure her SMV is at least a notch lower. (If you’re an 8.5 she’s a 7.5). Trust me. You won’t get attached. She’ll crave your validation. And you’ll never get jealous because you can always do better. Just make sure she has a good personality and meets your minimum attractiveness criteria. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Turning 30....Want some GuidanceYou need to find a sense of purpose. Your end goal is to find a women and when you make that the priority, you're blue-pill. Find something to do. Something that at the very least, you want to learn more about or get better at. In terms of women, work on your game, talk to women in real life, and set up a dating app profile to keep your weekend schedule busy. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 05:50 AM |
| 15 | The black “hood” community vs red pill?I'm black and this was over-the-top. No need to trash buddy for not being black. Offer real advice or keep it to yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 05:46 AM |
| 10 | Lack of confidence with girls due to lack of social lifeHow old are you? I'm 29 and I've found it gets harder and harder to form deep friendships every year post-college. Still possible but your circle will get smaller every year as friends get married, have kids, and are less interested in going out. Eventually, you'll be largely working on your purpose, self-improving, and dating from my experience. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 05:28 AM |
| 5 | How do you activate her inner slut?Agreed. That decision is clearly coming from scarcity but I guess some people need to learn the hard way. I'd watch out for him though. Seems like he could snap and kill both of them at any second. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Losers who got their shit together, did ya’ll still date/have sex with women while grinding, or tunnel vision on your purpose?Depends on you but a wise brother used to say "A man always needs SOMEONE to fuck during a hard grind." I tend to agree. I'd go maybe 2-3 months with no girls (absolute zero) then try to establish a plate that's at least a 7. Explain to her that you're busy working on your purpose, that this relationship will only be sexual, and invite her over once per week for sex and after an hour or two, kick her out. Don't worry too much about fucking 8s, 9s, and 10s. Focus on your SMV and find serviceable … | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 02:31 PM |
| 2 | How to approach when she's in the group mostly packed with guys.Yeah, if you're not getting IOIs from her—and if you are, you should signal for her to come to you—I'd let it go. She's one chick you don't know that you're purely interested in off of attractiveness. There are others. Go find ones that aren't swamped by dudes. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 12:16 AM |
| 8 | How to approach when she's in the group mostly packed with guys.Next time stop "waiting for the moment" and make an approach. What you're feeling is regret and "would've/could've/should've-ism.' We've all been there. That's why approaching the moment your brain tells you "now" is so important—another chance may not come. So, fuck the playing coy shit. That's what girls do. Just walk up, introduce yourself, say something like: "I noticed you when I walked in and wanted to say hello, how's your night?" blah, blah, blah. "Cool, I gotta get back to my friends bu… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | How much competition is there age 30-40 really?That’s tough. I’d say find dudes through hobbies and activities (martial arts, sports, etc.). The ones that are active, have good jobs, and are single will generally be RP or naturally alpha. I met a homie doing Muay Thai and he’s been a great wing ever since—even traveled to Europe with him to pull hoes at Oktoberfest. We’re both young 30ish with decent jobs, goals, and no commitments. Keep searching. In the meantime hit up dive bars, comedy clubs, and small concert venues, etc. (basically live… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How much competition is there age 30-40 really?This guy gets it. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 04:24 AM |
| 13 | How much competition is there age 30-40 really?You're missing a category here. 30+ dudes in major cities (NYC, LA, CHI) that are comfortably successful (making good money and are financially stable) can still go out and pull hoes, easily. I know because I'm one of them. Sure, you'll slow down and pick up an LTR every so often, but the game never stops. I'd say the biggest dating change happens at late 30s early 40s—but much of that can be mitigated if your SMV is high. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 04:23 AM |
| 13 | How much competition is there age 30-40 really?Eh. Dude you're only 29—soon to be 30. I'm in the same boat. I'm in an LTR but by no means do I feel like I'm at the lower-end of the market. I'm a good looking dude, I look young, and I'm in good shape. I can still pull hoes easily. 30 is nothing. It might be harder to pull young 20s because the maturity gap will be too large but anything in mid to late 20s is prime plating material. I'd say that's true up until at least late 30s. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 04:18 AM |
| 3 | My gf is attracted to my roommateSecond this last point. When my dad married my mom (a 10), he knew full and well that he had friends he'd never leave her alone with. Great dudes when he was with them, but untrustworthy when it came to women. You never want to bring girls around your boys until y'all have been dating for a WHILE. I'm talking months and months. That goes TRIPLE if those guys don't have an abundance mindset and are pussy-starved. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 02:22 AM |
| 2 | I've been spinning plates and hooking up with random girls and I don't like it.This. It's easy to get bored without a challenge. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How to sleep with ltr matesI’d vibe on it. Don’t pursue. If the next opp presents itself consider it but if you’re girl is bi you may want to get her involved to be safe. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do I jump and get startled so easilyI’m the same way to some extent. You’re anxious. Maybe it’s because you aren’t getting enough sleep, you aren’t eating enough, or you masturbating too much but generally there’s a physiological cause. You’re jumpy because you’re constantly playing out scenarios in your head “expecting something” but you’re not sure what. So when anything pops up while you’re on edge, it spooks you. To reduce this, meditate more, take care of your health, and try to get out of your head. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 04:05 PM |
| 2 | How Are You Guys Spending Your Downtime in Quarantine?Great response. Appreciate the wisdom. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 04:04 AM |
| 4 | Where can I find the golden age posts of TRP?Appreciate you, brother | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 06:28 PM |
| 11 | How do you guys deal with a world increasingly becoming more beta?Fantastic response. I’ll take it to heart. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Feels like there is a void inside me I cannot fill or satiateI think you need to accept what you have in life and be grateful for it. As in, there will always be more money to make, women to fuck, etc. but truly being grateful for the things in your life (friends, family, health, the ability to travel, time alone, etc.) are things we forget that actually fill the void that comes with the day-to-day pursuit of gratification. You don’t need more or to be more. You just need to enjoy the life you have and explore new interests and challenges (hobbies and ski… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 08:39 AM |
| 3 | How do I get over the fear of failure?Recognize that failing doesn’t make you a failure. It adds character, humbles you, and helps you grow. You’ve probably already failed in many small ways already (we all have) and you’re still here. Nobody cares about your failures but you. Go for what you want or you won’t get it. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Do you punish plates who cancel on youThis. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 08:24 PM |
| 5 | I want to learn how to dance.That dude looked kind of sus in my opinion—good dancer or not. Girls like the good dancers in high school. After that, the cool dude is the one that can chill in a club thumping with music and simply bop his head. However, if you’re going to learn how to dance for YOU, I’d suggest hip hop. Go on YouTube and search Casio by Jungle and you’ll see what I mean on what impressive adult dancing looks like. [Note: I’m black so that goofy dancing shit doesn’t fly. We get judged much differently for reta… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 13 | Living with androgynous alphabet peopleYikes. I live in LA and a lot of girls here are social justice warriors that will attack you with the anger of Gaia if you dare to throw an Apple core in the dirt. The liberal end of the spectrum in major cities is becoming insufferable. My advice, keep to yourself and be polite. If politics come up, say “yeah that’s interesting” and change the subject to something more agnostic. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | What were you like before swallowing the Red Pill?Middle section still gets to me. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 09:13 AM |
| 10 | What were you like before swallowing the Red Pill?Jesus. I hate guys like you. Glad you’re on the winning team. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Abundance not helping with oneitis after discovering she’s an alpha widow. Advice please.I know you mentioned this but you need to fuck with other girls and focus on your purpose...or a hobby at the very least. Reduce the amount of time you spend with this girl, recognize she isn't "The one" (there is no "one" only the one you choose) and those feelings will gradually disappear. You'll feel afraid when they do because it'll feel like you're killing the last bit of passion in your heart. Then with time, you'll realize those feelings were just your inner woman screaming out all along.… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Good idea to eventually leave this sub?It’s up to you. Feeling a sense of community is nice, just don’t forget to go outside. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Abundance not helping with oneitis after discovering she’s an alpha widow. Advice please.I wouldn’t cut her off. I dated a girl like this. 23, HB9.5 and had entertainers and musicians you’ve heard of sliding into her DMs all the time (I live in LA). I cared about her but I NEVER thought about LTRing her. There wasn’t a chance in hell I could trust her. So, I just fucked and enjoyed our time together until things eventually fizzled out. If I were you I’d do the same. Lower your expectations and enjoy the ride. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever had trouble with figuring out their purpose? If yes, what did you do to find it?Nice | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever had trouble with figuring out their purpose? If yes, what did you do to find it?What kind of business? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | What are some harsh truths you learned about life growing up?This is real af. Especially the second line. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 09:40 PM |
| 1 | A conditional threesomeNot going to work. Even if she was really into you, women don't like ultimatums. It makes them feel forced and controlled. She's probably going to drop you at this point. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | A conditional threesomeNo. If she wants to see you, she's paying. At best, you can house her. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men allow their LTR to hangout with other dudes alone? When is it acceptable to put your foot down?This guy gets it. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What do I do to get my finances.What do you do? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 03:20 AM |
| 0 | How to think quicker on your feet for shit tests?I’m not great at this but I would say getting out of your head and generally feeling confident and happy about your life. It frees up the space to take risks being funny and not overthink every little interaction. I’d start there. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend of my coworker is flirty with me, wants to hang out every chance given. What is this about?Keep her number for later. Fuck her after you leave. That’s what I did. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Does blue pill ever go away?Nah he just wants to be purple pill. No problem with that, just don’t forget female nature and don’t get attached. If it ends it ends, but in the mean time use this time of exclusivity to work on your purpose and save money. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend of my coworker is flirty with me, wants to hang out every chance given. What is this about?I’ve been in this situation. If you don’t care about the job, go for it. But in truth, it’s messy. If she slips up, her friends find out, and it gets back to him, you could be looking at some physical confrontation AT WORK. Which means everyone’s fired. She seems sloppy and obvious. If you quit or are planning to leave, go for it. But she doesn’t seem trustworthy with this kind of infidelity. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | What kind of things make a girls hamster really spinI think it’s refreshing for them to have someone resist them. It shows strength compared to all the betas out there quick to tuck their balls in and agree that all men are bad. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 06:27 PM |
| 17 | I fucked up and reverted back to a very blue pilled mindset these past few months. Are some of us just not made to emotionally invest in someone without turning into a mess?I didn’t read this but based on your question here’s the solution: You need to put yourself first. Think hard about what YOU think is the right thing to do in a given situation. Whether that’s standing up for yourself, speaking up when you feel an injustice, and being comfortable with the idea of being alone if it means not getting what you want. ALWAYS put your needs first. That’s alpha. Beta is being supplicative. Pursuing women. Having no path or purpose in life, no self-respect etc. The mome… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 06:25 PM |
| 11 | plate wants to send a message to my ex?Realistically this will only raise your value in both girls eyes. Your ex will see a girl that’s crazy enough to fight over you. Your plate will be validated (and more invested) having fought for you. To be frank, you can probably make the plate a fuck toy. Do whatever you want at this point, even threesomes at some point. String her along, and deepen the investment, you’ll be able to lead her by the nose soon enough. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here a bartender as a side job?Appreciate it | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here a bartender as a side job?Living in LA, as well. Been thinking of picking up a bartender gig for the extra money. How’d you get started and what’s required of the gig? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | HB7 hits me up on tinder to cuck her boyfriend and send him videos.Wear a mask | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 05:15 PM |
| 2 | How do I reply to this?Tried and true, brother. Gotta keep it simple. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | If you could bang a chick who is hot , but has disrespected you to a point where it is almost a question of self respect would you do it ?There’s tension. Which creates emotion. Which fosters better sex. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | If you could bang a chick who is hot , but has disrespected you to a point where it is almost a question of self respect would you do it ?If they’re allowing you to fuck them they respect you enough. I’m going by the hypothetical you presented. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 03:51 PM |
| 3 | If you could bang a chick who is hot , but has disrespected you to a point where it is almost a question of self respect would you do it ?Yes I’d fuck her. If I’m attracted to her and want to fuck her, why not? If I’m fucking, I win. If she’s getting fucked, whether she respects me or not, she’s submitting. It’s that simple. In fact, her not liking me and still getting fucked would be a turn on. That’s what hate fucking is and emotional sex is usually the best sex. It’s all a matter of frame. Stay in yours. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Having higher status than these gang guys/drug dealers?Play sports. Be smart. Go to college. Have a potential. The hood chicks are going to be on their 3rd kid by the time you graduate. You don’t want them. Keep your head down, be smart, healthy, and ambitious and you’ll get bad hoes that want you BECAUSE you aren’t a dope boy. I’m from the suburbs and I’ve fucked more than a few girls from the hood in my life. They like the bad boys sure, but the ones that are smart want someone different, too. Also, college girls...enough said. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 02:47 PM |
| 3 | How do you explain this?Agreed. Only girls think this much about a previous ex, and nowadays even they can mentally move on quicker than most guys. Who cares what her motivation is for seeing someone that isn’t you? Do something productive or date someone else. Don’t give girls space in your head. Chances are you aren’t in there’s. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | How do I reply to this?Don’t go off a picture. Just say “Hey (Name), I’m (your name)” Talk to them like regular people and flirt a bit (flirting is just playful teasing and occasional sexual innuendo). Ask them what they’ve been doing during quarantine. Share yours. Then look for an opening to close. Her: I’ve been sitting in the house bored watching Netflix. You: Sounds lonely. Let’s fix that. Come over (day) with a bottle of wine. Dinner’s on me.” | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 02:12 PM |
| 11 | How do I reply to this?Cringe on that heart race line. No lines guys. At best search archived posts for witty retorts but no pick up lines. That said, just say: “I don’t trust you. Come see me [day this week] and I’ll check you out personally.” I’d avoid getting into the innuendo game here as well (i.e. “hold you for observation” “come outside and get some vitamin D” etc.) It’s hacky and try-hard. Smooth text game isn’t having the perfect one-liner, it’s being direct, emotionally indifferent, and telling her what you … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Meaning behind "you two are a cute couple"?It means you guys have comparable SMVs | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl writes this via text (images inside)No. Saying “same as you” flips it on them. If you saying “I’m looking for something serious” they’re going to think you’re lying to anyways. “Same as you” establishes you understand what this is. It’s a dating app where people match based on attractiveness. It’s an app built on lust. Let her fill the gaps as to what that means and if she’s honest with herself “same as you” is all you need to stay to let her know you’re self-aware and on the same page. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 07:01 PM |
| 6 | What is your biggest complaint about the red pill community?The bad advice from people who don’t get pussy (typically teens and early twenty-somethings). The intense anger at someone asking for advice or feedback on an experience or problem. The focus on getting girls and getting pussy above actually adhering to RP principles and working on oneself and letting the rest come. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:58 PM |
| 4 | What is your biggest complaint about the red pill community?All of the upvotes. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl writes this via text (images inside)If she’s on a dating app she isn’t looking for something serious. She’s open to it but more than likely she’s looking for attention, some discrete dick, and she doesn’t feel like hitting the bar scene. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Getting back with a girl I dumpedThis is a hard case of oneitis | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:31 PM |
| -2 | Girl writes this via text (images inside)This is trying to hard. Just say this: “Same as you. Someone fun to hang with and see where things go.” Edit: Or something funny... “Same as you. Someone cool to watch Tiger King with.” | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:23 PM |
| 10 | Girl writes this via text (images inside)...he’s one of many dudes in her inbox right now. You really think she’s going to remember him in a month? You really think she won’t be fuck buddies with some other dude and uninterested in taking new suitors? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Did my brother marry a unicorn?This. This. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 04:33 PM |
| 3 | She doesn’t care about your feelingsThis. It’s almost like he just skimmed through the sidebar and had to tell the world his “revelation.” | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 01:41 AM |
| 1 | LTR Hypothetical CheatingI agree with the often part. I missed that in the reading. If it’s an often thing then cheating is likely on her mind. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 10:11 PM |
| -1 | LTR Hypothetical CheatingDude it’s a shit test. If you demote every LTR into a plate over a joke you’re engaging in over-sensitivity. Flip it on her or shrug it off. If this were the umpteenth time she’s said something like this then fine, a line has been crossed. But if this is a one-off joke, you gotta shrug your shoulders otherwise you’ll look very insecure. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Stay humble...That’s not true. There are people on here who’ve radically changed their lives based on RP principles. It’s best not to think in strictly Alpha/Beta terms. More so how aligned are you with red pill philosophy in your daily outlook and behavior. There are Alphas who act beta at times and betas who act alpha. It’s all just a set of behavior based on philosophy. The point of TRP is to shift that outlook and perspective for the betterment of the individual male. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Loneliness in mid 20sIt’s normal. Go get new hobbies. Hop on dating apps. Travel. You need to learn to be alone for longer periods. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 03:30 PM |
| 0 | LTR Hypothetical CheatingSounds like a joke. Listen to the dudes who actually get pussy on here. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Found myself in a very difficult situation with live in pregnant GF. Turns out she is technically married....helpSounds like she didn’t trust you to understand. Probably did it for money at desperate time and as a favor when she was young ($500 ain’t much). Unless she was pushing for marriage (which it doesn’t sound like) she was probably just trying to go on with her life until the pregnancy. The fact she didn’t bring up this unresolved issue then is an issue but again, counseling. You’re about to have a kid with this woman, and you like her, no need to throw the baby out with the bath water. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Found myself in a very difficult situation with live in pregnant GF. Turns out she is technically married....helpI’d work through it. She lied. That’s a red flag. But she’s also the mother of your kid. In all other ways she sounds great but obviously y’all need to work through this divorce situation. I’d talk to a family law attorney and get counseling together. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Dating a 25 year old girl whose last ex was in his late 40s. Red flag?Sounds like daddy issues or a sugar daddy. If she’s used to that level of maturity and security, it may be hard to hold her interest beyond sex. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 08:50 PM |
| 12 | How many girls do you guys have in your rotation?Before my LTR I’d keep 2-3. But to really call it a rotation you should be seeing those girls at least once per week. I’ve found that anything more than 3 girls is costly both in time and money. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Is this what an HB9 looks like? If not, what would you rate her instead?7.5 | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 07:18 AM |
| 1 | What's the dating scene in LA like?It’s not that bad. You need to be attractive to get hot girls and a good job (either interesting or high-paying) is key to keep them interested. Hypergamy is real though. Dudes are on their shit out here. If you don’t have your shit together you can fuck 7s and below but you won’t keep an 8+. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 07:16 AM |
| 5 | GF won’t let go of being a side pieceIf the girl snitched on you to your ex GF, why would you trust her to be your new GF? Seems like she was trying to fuck your life up, then you rewarded her. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 11:16 PM |
| 2 | GF won’t let go of being a side pieceI’m still trying to figure out why you’d wife up a side piece. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with insults or people outright disrespecting to you?You don’t | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Advice: (Male 39) and (Female 28) Are the dynamics for long distance dating different? First meet up was like an instant relationshipThis is not RP. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 03:23 AM |
| 7 | A message on asktrp and this quarantine. There is a disturbing trend I am noticing.Solid post dude. Hope you’re living this advice, as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Just texted my oneitis this. How beta and needy I looked?This. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Girl in a LTR showed me a screenshot of a conversation with her boyfriend. Am I beta if I make fun of her bf?“He’s a lucky guy.” Operative word: “lucky” That’s implying she’s the prize (I.e. validation) I wouldn’t say anything more than “damn” “that’s crazy” or “that’s wild” to whatever she said about him, then change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl in a LTR showed me a screenshot of a conversation with her boyfriend. Am I beta if I make fun of her bf?That’s needless validation. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How knowledgeable are the people on this sub actually?This is a sub for people that are BP working on transitioning to red pill philosophy and behavior. As a result, it’s natural that many people here aren’t alphas or the top 20%. If they were they wouldn’t be here in the first place. There aren’t that many natural alphas (less than 5% I’d say) so everyone else has to have strong male figures and mentors to guide them. Many of the men in here clearly don’t, which is why this sub of inexperienced and experienced men work to bridge the gap. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 07:25 AM |
| 0 | How knowledgeable are the people on this sub actually?Facts. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Need some career-advice. Really want to become more successful.I agree. To be frank, you should be able to go to community college and get an AA after two years where you specialize in your field (math, science, literature, etc.). Requiring a Bachelors in Education has always been a dumb prereq to me. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Need some career-advice. Really want to become more successful.The world needs male teachers. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 04:18 PM |
| 7 | Need some career-advice. Really want to become more successful.Tutor for side money. Start a tutoring company for passive income. You already have the skills you need. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Have you found your passion after finding trp?It’s not bad. It’s a free app so it’s built with ads and structured to extend the time you’re on it but it’s a great daily exercise that teaches you new vocabulary, sentence structure, and grammar. Can’t beat free, so have it | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 07:35 AM |
| 1 | The psychology behind a women ignoring your textsHappy to help | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 07:33 AM |
| 7 | The psychology behind a women ignoring your textsThey’ve got a million friends, orbiters, and suitors texting them. They may have saw your text and thought it would take too long to reply, put it off for later, and then forgot. OR They just didn’t care to answer. (That’s when you get left on READ) Either way your mentality should be on to the next one. Don’t think about why women do what they do. They aren’t as rationale as you. Sometimes there is no good reason. They just did it because they felt like it. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Coronavirus lifeIn an LTR, but if I wasn't I'd leave my evenings open for Hinge hook-ups. Work hard and improve yourself while the sun is up, and rest your body in the evenings. Motivation needs reward. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Transformation storiesAnd this is why I love TRP | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 02:33 AM |
| 14 | Does "less is more" usually work with women?I feel like you stumbled into the wrong subreddit. I respect the effort to bring in "wisdom" from the other side, but a girl can't tell a dude how to get her. The reason being is because 9/10 you aren't fully aware of what truly turns you on and moves you. That dude that ignores you and makes you question if you like him, guess what, you're thinking about him aren't you? And I'd bet dollars to donuts that when you see him, you show him how much you missed him. Your advice creates dudes that are … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 02:29 AM |
| 12 | Have you found your passion after finding trp?100%. This is the time for personal development and self-discovery. - Picking up longboarding again. (Good to get outside) - Currently reading 3 different books - Developing my craft (copywriting) - Working out at home - Bulking (6'2, 171 and want to hit 190-200lb in the next year) - Learning Spanish on Duolingo and audio tapes - Stretching and getting into Yoga And I'm adding guitar practice and screenplay writing, as well. I'm loving the free time personally. And it's actually going faster tha… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t the nature of women sometimes just lovely? Especially for leftists...All women, but particularly feminists (since they have more masculine energy) want a strong man. That’s universal. TRP teaches men how to be strong, independent, and self reliant. Which are attractive qualities to anyone. Even the angriest, pussy-hat wearing white liberal feminists can’t deny the appeal of a man who knows what he wants and goes after it. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 10:14 PM |
| 3 | How long do you hold frame or when/do you apologize to girls for fucking upYou definitely lost frame. You still have some beta tendencies to work on. 1) You shouldn’t have texted her in reaction to the video after she flaked and fucked off. You should have been done. Now you’re chasing her off the clout of her being in a successful YouTube video. You’re pursuing her like a girl chasing a famous guy. 2) Once she didn’t recognize the number—of course she wouldn’t it’s been 8 months—you should’ve said “nevermind” and fucked off. 3) Why are you apologizing for HER getting … | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you not judge them?You aren’t marrying those girls. You’re just fucking them. Don’t take them any more seriously than that. Save your personal feelings for girls who aren’t like that. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | For those that have stopped porn and/or masturbating how and why did you do it?I wouldn’t worry about it. You’ll either be focused or horny on NoFap. If you’re getting regular sex from someone (easy mode) you won’t even think about it. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 02:03 AM |
| 9 | What was your biggest RP realization?Facts. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 06:52 PM |
| 6 | STIs and platesFacts. Especially one night stands. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/20 04:58 PM |
| 2 | How to handle a girl telling you about her ex?Solid. Appreciate you, bro. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 04:08 PM |
| 49 | I understand that this may also be violating the rules and I apologise to every man trying to enhance trp in advance. This sub is being hijacked and misused and I am not finding it as useful and I’m concerned about it.This is real. There's a lot of "how do I get laid during this quarantine?" going on... A lot of this sub is 20-year-olds asking how to get laid, unfortunately. Still some good advice to dole out, generally. I know I'm still here for the old head gems. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | This shit actually worksGood on you. Interesting experience. I wonder how much of that pursuit comes from the satisfaction of fucking her friend's ex-husband. Wouldn't be surprised if the "I feel like a slut for doing this..." is something she's subconsciously chasing after. Your frame is definitely keeping her chasing though since she's seeing you as something to conquer but can't quite get over the hump. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 08:39 PM |
| -1 | How to handle a girl telling you about her ex?I think it's more nuanced than that. Plates are girls you're fucking reliably (on a weekly basis or so). You could fuck a girl 3 times in 2 months and that doesn't make her a plate. The consistency is key. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Most girls are sad and attentation / validation whoring so much because of quarantine?Agreed on the variety but I still get horny really easy (29M) if there's a sense of novelty. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a girl telling you about her ex?Haha so much for brotherhood. Enjoy your day bro. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 06:43 PM |
| -2 | How to handle a girl telling you about her ex?Eh...guys keep girls in orbit too dude. They're called plates. This girl isn't advanced enough to be a plate, but keeping a contact in your back pocket for trips abroad isn't unconfident or beta, it's networking; planting seeds if you will. Every dude who gets pussy has a girl in his phone he hasn't talked to in months that he can hit up for sex on demand. And that takes watering and grooming. Obviously this situation has gone left and I should eject but you get my point. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a girl telling you about her ex?Honestly, I thought she was gonna say some "I don't know if I can be your friend" "I still have feelings for you" kind of shit. Maybe talk about her own personal issues. Not this other dude shit. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 06:38 PM |
| -1 | How to handle a girl telling you about her ex?Why so angry bro? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a girl telling you about her ex?Solid answer. Appreciate you bro. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Cheating ex-wife wants me backFuck buddy | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Do women actually enjoy giving oral? Do they really want to do it?Not true. Go on r /sex and you'll see PLENTY of girls (and dudes) that can't shut up about sucking dick and swallowing cum. To be real, I think women in general just like to feel like sluts for the right dude (or group of men). Seriously, the phrase "they're all sluts" is true with the added amendment "...for the right man." Seriously, go read it, it'll give you a good look into the mindstate of a horny woman. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 05:40 AM |
| 4 | Eye-opening experience with plateNail on the head. And that's why it's important not to be a simp for beautiful women. Lord knows it's hard not to treat them special (they're hot, we've all been there) but yeesh, the last thing beautiful women need is more dudes throwing themselves at them. The moment you enter their frame is the moment you've become just another suitor. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 05:34 AM |
| 3 | For those that have stopped porn and/or masturbating how and why did you do it?Agree more or less. As long as you've got control, I see no serious issues. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 05:31 AM |
| 10 | Quarantine observations with girlsAgreed. People are losing their shit and it's getting to be a little much. This "storm" is 98% of the population binge-watching and playing video games for a month or two. Hard to call this an apocalypse. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 04:30 AM |
| 12 | For those that have stopped porn and/or masturbating how and why did you do it?Two weeks isn't that long. I've gone on 90-day stretches multiple times. The point of NoFap is to condition your brain that if it wants sex, you need to get it from a girl, not your hand. It also teaches you self-discipline. If you can master your sexual energy and convert it into productive energy, you're leagues ahead of every slack-jawed beta when a pretty girl walks into the room. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 04:26 AM |
| 2 | LTR IG boyfriendSimple answer, ask someone to take a picture of the both of you. Problem solved. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | What’s better a jack of all trades or a master of one?Was about to answer with this. Glad someone knows the original saying. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Matching with girl I dated previously on tinder...I fucked a girl after rematching. She fucked off originally after I texted something she was offended by (super feminist). Took a few months but she forgot, we rematched, and I ended up fucking for awhile. Shoot your shot. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Cheating ex-wife wants me backNot married here but why not convert her into a plate to keep her satisfied and keeping seeing the kid? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 10:21 PM |
| -1 | Anyone else miss having a girlfriend? (srs)That's not what I said. The point of being aware is to not get caught off guard and fall apart if it happens. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 01:04 AM |
| 12 | Anyone else miss having a girlfriend? (srs)You're forgetting there are no unicorns. Most of these girls ain't shit if the right opportunity comes along or you start acting weak. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 04:42 PM |
| 13 | Anyone else miss having a girlfriend? (srs)Agreed that it's good to mix things up but getting into a relationship is at best going purple pill. Red Pill is understanding how women are (hypergamy, etc.) and that the more you love them, the less they love you. If you're Red Pill the reason you avoid relationships is because you know deep down you can't trust a high-value woman and that it's better to keep your investment low and focus on your own goals. Therefore, yes, it's nice to have a girl sometimes, but the moment you forget AWAL is t… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 17 | Girl crying that I don’t value herLmao | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Obtaining nudes“I’m bored. Send me something sexy.” There needs to be a rapport established but that’s how. I’m 29 so this mostly only works with younger girls but it’ll work. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 03:37 AM |
| 57 | Girl crying that I don’t value herLmao the “bro” is oozing off this post | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Is it okay to tell the girl that smells down there?Because if they smell they probably aren’t the tier of woman I should be fucking with anyways. Do you think they can’t smell it? They can. They just don’t care. In my experience, every time I fuck with a chick who smells it’s ALWAYS a 7 or lower. Bad chicks take care of their bodies and don’t let themselves smell. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 02:20 AM |
| 8 | Is it okay to tell the girl that smells down there?If it smells, get head and never fuck with her again. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How would you overtly show a girlfriend, person you're leading at work, or close friend, that you care about them, without being supplicating?Put your hand on their shoulder. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Second Night with Plate: way better sex, but she leaves crying afterYikes. I've had two girls cry on me and never put this together. Sounds about right though. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with male disrespectHit the gym and gain some weight. Dude's only disrespect dude's they think they can take in a fight. If you can't bulk up quick, check them immediately, if they don't back down, fight. That turn the other cheek shit doesn't work with bullies. Some dude's are just loudmouth assholes that don't understand logic. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 01:07 AM |
| 0 | Which country do you think the hottest women come from?I second this. Pull 10 girls on the street and 4 of them will be 9/10 model status. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Need adviceOn a moral level, don't cheat. It's fucked up and you should just break up with the girl if you're at the point of stepping out. On the other hand, you're 22. Bigger mistakes have been made and will be made. If you can get your dick wet and truly keep your shit together without guilt-destroying your relationship, go do it. People cheat. That's why many of us have to TRP. The only difference is guys are too afraid to lose what they have, while girls think they'll never be caught and if they do, t… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Talk with LTR about body countHa! | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 11:29 PM |
| 3 | What to do if a bigger guy slaps your plate's ass?Jesus the responses in here from dudes that claim to be “redpill” are pussy af. Fuck, if you can take disrespect that easily, you cannot call yourself a man. Plate or not. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 11:27 PM |
| 0 | What to do if a bigger guy slaps your plate's ass?Yikes. You sound like a real man. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 11:25 PM |
| 7 | What to do if a bigger guy slaps your plate's ass?Thank god. A real male spoke up. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Whats up with people here still fucking chicks in quarantine?That's your philosophy, but if a girl is going to come to your place to fuck you on some Netflix and Chill, let the men live. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 10:28 PM |
| 0 | Whats up with people here still fucking chicks in quarantine?You realize there isn't concrete information as to this virus as far as the fatality rate, transmission rate, or even total case rate, right? That information is changing every day as we learn more. Projections of hundreds of thousands dead have been reduced in countries like the UK to 20,000. People are figuring this out as they go along. The point that I'm trying to make is not to freak out. Take your life day by day and minimize your risks. If you're a dude that lives alone, and works from ho… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Whats up with people here still fucking chicks in quarantine?Gotta love the “You’re a beta!” “No, YOU’RE a beta!” debates. It really shows the maturity of this sub. Let another man do what he wants. He gets sick its on him. But the idea of someone making a choice to go get pussy, even if it means they might get the sniffles for two weeks doesn’t make them beta. Dudes arguing over another man’s life choices is weak. TRP teaches self-reliance, self improvement, and doing what’s best for oneself. Let men make their own choices without bitching about it. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I have a feminine core, am I screwed in terms of attracting feminine women?How old are you? I’ve grown a lot but I think I’m still at times. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 01:06 AM |
| 1 | My neighbor is talking shit again...I picked it up in the same altercation. It just went back and forth for awhile because he came out cursing at me. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 06:39 PM |
| 5 | Does having male friends helps with the loneliness?Way to grandstand champ. By losers, you’re thinking nerdy friends and guys who are bad with women. I’m not. I’m thinking people that spend their time smoking weed, playing video games, and being unemployed without any grander aspirations—ya know, losers? Call it harsh but it’s real. You only have so much time in the day and you should spend more time with people who inspire and motivate you, not the other way around. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 06:37 PM |
| -2 | Does having male friends helps with the loneliness?You get it. If you hang around with losers, you are a loser. It's that simple. It doesn't mean ditch them but definitely portion out your time appropriately and find friends that inspire you, not ones you pity. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | My neighbor is talking shit again...You're probably right, appreciate the response though. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 01:13 AM |
| 0 | My neighbor is talking shit again...Ha touche. You can't fight crazy. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | My neighbor is talking shit again...I don’t know if he’s on disability. He just doesn’t seem to work. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 10:28 PM |
| -2 | My neighbor is talking shit again...I didn’t say he was old. He’s 30-something. Also the dude was openly disrespecting me on a daily basis. Want to know what stopped it? Him getting his ass beat. Not saying it was right but it worked. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | My neighbor is talking shit again...It wasn’t on his lawn. It was the street. Basically pulled a loose piece of plastic off my car’s grill and dropped on the ground. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Someone’s putting my life in dangerStay with your girl. Move out. Stay with a friend or family. Get the fuck out of there. Don't go back. Stop fucking with your family member. He's going to get you hurt/killed. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 05:01 AM |
| 0 | Rebuilding burnt bridgesYou can try. Guy are more amenable but it’s rarely the same with old friends once there’s a sharp disconnect. Be prepared for that. It won’t be like it was before. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How do i know if a girl has orgasmed or not?Appreciate the advice | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 04:29 AM |
| 6 | Rebuilding burnt bridgesI wouldn’t advise it. Rebuilding bridges ONLY works if YOU were the person who left—and left on inoffensive terms. (I.e. Things fizzled out because YOU stopped reaching out/responding). On one hand you immediately look weak. The girl has likely moved on while you haven’t. If she IS single, and chose not to reach out to you, she definitely wasn’t thinking of you. On the other hand, there’s very rarely anything to gain. You’re hitting them up because you want to keep the potential of pussy open. W… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 04:16 AM |
| 0 | How do i know if a girl has orgasmed or not?Would you say the same thing for an LTR? Most plates don’t expect more than a good time and steady dick, but I recently got hit with the “I don’t cum from penetration” talk from my LTR and I’m not keen on eating pussy for 10-15 minutes every time I’m about to have sex (the prolonged, pleasureless delay makes me lose my boner). | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Did I make a mistake?Short answer: She wants to fuck. She was delaying it because she doesn’t want to look like a hoe. She’s questioning if you’re interested since you don’t escalate. You saying a FWB thing isn’t all you’re looking for is lame because it’s a lie, she knows it’s a lie, but it just makes you look scared to be honest. Correct answer: I’m enjoying whatever this is but I’ve got no expectations. I’m down for wherever this goes. Say that next time she brings it up. The next time y’all end up in a car toget… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Saw that FWB had texted her former hookup trying to meet upFacts. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Saw that FWB had texted her former hookup trying to meet upBusiness as usual. Hang out, go on dates, fuck. Don’t let yourself get any closer than that. Deflect any interest in a relationship moving. Demote to plate until it eventually breaks. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Saw that FWB had texted her former hookup trying to meet upYeah...reconnecting with an ex is a no go. Fuck until it fizzles. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Saw that FWB had texted her former hookup trying to meet upDid she ask you to be exclusive and you said no? | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Is this phrasing okay to make my intentions with this girl clear?Change drink to coffee | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Saw that FWB had texted her former hookup trying to meet upSnooping through her phone was beta. You aren’t exclusive. You should ASSUME she’s fucking other guys if you aren’t in a relationship. Now you know she ain’t as into you as you are her. Keep the relationship sexual and don’t put expectations on the next one. The easiest way to know if a girl is wrapped around your finger is how easily you can control her time. If you can hit a girl up Tuesday and tell her to keep the entire weekend open because you have something planned for her—and she does it—… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Is this phrasing okay to make my intentions with this girl clear?If you wait, she’ll probably have reconciled with her boyfriend. If you shoot your shot now, your chances of success are low (distance means you can’t escalate) but it at least takes you out of friend zone orbit and into confident potential partner. Shoot your shot, let her know how you feel, if her dude fucks up again, she has your number. Side note: She already knows you’re interested so you might as well address the elephant in the room. I would say something like: “Keep me posted on your rel… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Is this phrasing okay to make my intentions with this girl clear?Lol @ no capping. Drop the slang. It’s immature. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 12:24 AM |
| 8 | Why do guys give away their power to girls so easily?Because it’s the only thing these men have to exchange for pussy. The irony is that woman only want that power temporarily, and once they have it and you don’t, you’ve got nothing more to give. That’s when they stop fucking you, cheat, or walk. The answer is to hold all the power while giving none of it away. Women will then throw pussy at you for FREE in hopes that you’ll give them some of your power (time, experience, personality, potential). You’ll get pussy out of them forever if you never d… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 03:58 PM |
| 2 | How do I reclaim lost Masculinity? (From all the times in the past that I either simped or lost frame with different women)The best advice I can give you is this: keep failing. It sucks, it’s a kick in the teeth, but everything I know now was from fucking up and failing again, and again, and again. And I still don’t know shit. Don’t let the fear of failure or looking stupid keep you from valuable life experience. If you can master that and push through, you’re golden. (Something even I’m still currently working on; change is slow) | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 05:33 AM |
| 11 | Advice on getting sex drive back... practically turning asexual smh29M and definitely feeling this. Dropped all my plates for an LTR, fast forward a month and I recently took blue chew just to prime. Not interested in masturbation. Couldn’t care less for porn. Been trying to keep an old plate in orbit for entertainment but more focused on my life and career than ever. Considering an amended monk mode and seeing my LTR sparingly (1-2x a week) and just focusing on my mind, body, health, and purpose. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Signs of being goofy?Facts. Really reminds you how far you’ve come to be able to peep what’s REALLY going on. That and the bisexual black dude throwing a damn hissy fit when the black girl clearly wanted to a more masculine man. She almost gave him a shot until he lost his shit and threw his “Daddy” cap lmao. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Signs of being goofy?Dude, been watching that shit with my LTR under quarantine and that boy Mark is a BP BETA CUCK SIMP if I ever saw one, and his girl Jessica is the sluttiest alpha widow to match. Shit is unreal how much of a testament to TRP the show is. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 09:40 PM |
| 1 | My LTR tells me she can't tell if I like her...You and your girl | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | My LTR tells me she can't tell if I like her...What’s the age difference? I always feel weird using “Daddy” in the third person. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Did I do the right thing?This^ It makes you look immature. Girls are prepped to lie precisely because of your reaction which means the next guy is DEFINITELY getting lied to. And finally, even a girl with one body can still have a late-period hoe phase and cheat. You need to scan for prior relationship history. That’s the ticket. You need to be able to trust the girl by learning the way she’s been in past relationships. How did they end? Did she cheat? Are her parents still together? Who are her friends? Does she go to … | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Gyms ,clubs and other gaming venues closedAnd rape | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | How do i fuck this girls sister?Depends on your game and if the sister is choosing on you. Your best bet is to fuck the shit out of first sister so well she tells her sister. Then you’re golden. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What to do if a girlfriend pulls awayAlways, ALWAYS, go back to focusing on your purpose. Never chase. Let her come to you and try not to think too much about it. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I text girls I make out with after a night out? Trying to get platesAgreed. Waiting a few days can actually fuck you up. Some girls will write you off as being not interested. It’s wild, but it happens. You need to feel the girl out. If she’s showing high interest, text her for plans only but you can include some chit chat “how was your night?” Etc. My best advice is to text the girl the following day so she has your number, and let her know you’ll reach out early the next week to set something up. It’ll read something like: “Hey it’s Charles. Good to meet you l… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Finally going to start working on myself for good. Please critique my monk mode schedule, also welcoming advice.Love it. Best investment you can make dude. Godspeed. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wants to bring another girl into bedGet on a dating app and put you AND her in the profile picture. In the bio explain you’re looking for a third. Should have a few interested parties within the week. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How to leverage threesome with bi LTR?Simple answer: “You like both sexes. I don’t. You’ve been talking about your fantasies with a girl for awhile now. Just know I’m ready when you are.” Then leave it there. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 04:23 PM |
| 8 | old womenAgreed. Made out with a 50-something any felt like I was kissing the Crypt Keeper. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Want to Know What a True Abundance Mentality Feels Like? It's simple...Fair enough. I'll let mods delete it but it wouldn't be the first time I've seen a statement post fly on AskTrp. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Girl I’m trying to plate says I’m similar to her boyfriend... what is she implying?If you met her as a result of infidelity, you'll lose her the same way. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend went to Bahamas for the weekend with her girlfriend. Should I ask for pics, stay in contact?This is true. Not all girls trips are fuck fests. Some are birthday celebrations. Depends on where they go and how many are going. The single ones WILL try to get laid, but some girls are more introverted than others and just want to be left alone. Example: Going to a club and seeing a group of girls dancing by themselves. Sometimes they REALLY don’t want to be bothered. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend went to Bahamas for the weekend with her girlfriend. Should I ask for pics, stay in contact?Your overthinking this. She wanted a picture by herself. It’s that simple. Also, if you’re RP you should ALWAYS assume your girl can and will step out at any time. Accept what you can’t control. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Went in for a kiss, got more than I asked forSounds like she just got through doing something with someone else and didn’t want to kiss you on the mouth. “I love you” + “cheek kiss” = I just swallowed some other guy’s load and don’t want to be THAT disrespectful. Here’s my cheek, instead honey.” | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Why do women date significantly less attractive men?This. There’s a sense of security dating someone who’d have a hard time leaving you. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 8 | Flakes twice and then says she really wants to meet me. How to proceed?If you met her on Tinder, she’s flaking because she has dates with higher value dudes. She’s trying to keep you in orbit until she’s free. If she’s flaked twice I’d just tell her to come over. She probably won’t but don’t waste anymore of your time with a chick with this low level of interest. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Had sex with over 10 women since break up with LTR and nothing hits the spot. Is this normal?This. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | My older brother (32M) is a nice guy, incel, and beta all rolled into one. I’m still on my own journey (29M) but I worry about his future. How to approach?This was years ago. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 06:01 AM |
| -1 | Fucked up big timeIf it’s yours move to Africa or tell her to stay in Europe. Either way, be there for your kid dude. You’re going to feel like dog shit if you know you have a kid out there that’s basically a little version of you that you’re ignoring. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 07:22 PM |
| 7 | Fucked up big timeGood man. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Fucked up big timeThis. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Tracking habitsHabit tracker app. Look up the name “Way of Life” | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Anyone lived overseas, come back home and have been disgusted by the women/ dating scene?What inspired the trip? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Anyone lived overseas, come back home and have been disgusted by the women/ dating scene?That’s awesome. How long were you there for? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 11:20 AM |
| 1 | What’s your average lifespan for a plate?3-6 months seeing them once a week and taking that out for dates when I do. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 05:10 AM |
| 14 | She says she feels like crap for sending me a "sexy pic", what should I do?Funny and true. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Creating an instagram....Fair but post maybe once every 3 months at most. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Do you think there are better and worse parts of the country to meet high quality women?More choices is always better. Big cities are better but it means a LOT more dating. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Do you think there are better and worse parts of the country to meet high quality women?“Agree, agree, agree...reads intermingling of different skin colors/cultures...AND you lost me.” | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 09:42 PM |
| 12 | Outlook on womenI agree. Too much competition will mean having to be in full masculine frame 24/7 AND be a high value top earner. I think I’ll settle for an 7.5/8 in the end. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Creating an instagram....You’re right. Starving children in Africa may not have food, but they’re instagram profiles are LIT. I have an Instagram (with probably more followers than you, to be real) and as an adult I’m rarely on it. In truth, it doesn’t provide much social proof unless you’re actively doing and accomplishing shit, and even then it just keeps girls potentially in orbit on your radar. The conversion rate for guys is VERY low so again, it’s not worth investing that much into if your aim is to “get girls.” | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 06:44 PM |
| 51 | Outlook on womenYeah...once you’re red pill aware it’s hard to ever be satisfied with ONE woman. Once you understand hypergamy it kicks in for you as well. You strive to become a higher value man to attract and keep higher tier women. Once you’ve fucked enough women you realize their pussy has marginal value and YOUR time (particularly alone time) is MUCH more valuable. Sadly, I would wager many red pill men have a hard time having kids and starting a family. We understand female nature, don’t let ourselves get… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Creating an instagram....You posited the question of meeting girls online via Instagram (one of the cringiest ways btw unless they’re dming you first) and I’m telling to focus on meeting girls in real life instead. Here’s why: Any girl you meet on Instagram that’s attractive has a SHIT TON of dudes in her inbox so you already seem low value dming her directly. The connection of meeting a chick on IG will NEVER be as strong as setting an impression in real life. You’re more forgettable and easier to ignore and not take s… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 05:00 PM |
| 6 | Journalist admits she was a slut in youth, and now has no trust in her husband w/ 2 children, wishes she was still on Carousel.Haha no man of value wants that lady longer than a night at 44. She’s clearly confused regarding her value to the opposite sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 04:54 PM |
| 10 | How to respond to a pushSmh. You’re wasting our time asking stupid questions that already have an answer. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 04:52 PM |
| 77 | Out-cheating the NatureThis thread is becoming good for positing theories without actual experience, results, or teachable lessons. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 04:51 PM |
| -4 | Creating an instagram....MEET GIRLS IN REAL LIFE. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 04:44 PM |
| 8 | Journalist admits she was a slut in youth, and now has no trust in her husband w/ 2 children, wishes she was still on Carousel.Lmao @ that second commenter. So bitter. These hoes need to stop deluding themselves that getting cock is the only point to life for the “modern woman.” | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 04:39 PM |
| -3 | Journalist admits she was a slut in youth, and now has no trust in her husband w/ 2 children, wishes she was still on Carousel.Lol where did masturbation come from? That’s a false equivalence. Also, I said girls go through a hoe phase. Didn’t say they should or they always have. Girls TODAY go through hoe phases. And dude, if you think every girl you know didn’t go through a hoe phase or WILL then you’re naive. Even the high school sweetheart that lost her virginity to her husband of 3 will wonder what else is out there unless buddy is an Alpha Chad, fucks her to sleep every night, and stays like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 04:32 PM |
| 20 | How to respond to a pushThen why are you asking us what to do? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 04:14 PM |
| -1 | Journalist admits she was a slut in youth, and now has no trust in her husband w/ 2 children, wishes she was still on Carousel.Lmao. Every girl goes through a hoe phase. That’s how they get the slut out their system (hopefully) AND test out the limits of hypergamy. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 04:13 PM |
| 53 | Journalist admits she was a slut in youth, and now has no trust in her husband w/ 2 children, wishes she was still on Carousel.The anger is real in you my son. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 04:10 PM |
| 104 | Journalist admits she was a slut in youth, and now has no trust in her husband w/ 2 children, wishes she was still on Carousel.That’s not what the article says. It says she questions the loss of her freedom at times where she used to be “wild” but recognizes that that lifestyle almost prevented her from finding her husband and having a family—and she’s glad she chose the latter. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/19 03:42 PM |
| 28 | How to respond to a pushDude, you need to listen because his response is spot on. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 03:31 PM |
| 8 | How to respond to a pushThis. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 03:30 PM |
| 34 | How to respond to a pushTell her you can’t do Saturday. If you say “yes” to Saturday reflexively it looks like you didn’t have shit going on Friday OR Saturday. Also, beware that she’s probably cancelling because a better offer came along. Don’t lower your value in her eyes even further by being a readily available back up plan. Ideally you SHOULD have other plans for Saturday. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 03:29 PM |
| 3 | “Too tired” for sex? No second date.ONEITIS ALERT! Report to sidebar! | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I don't make plate cum, but she comes back.If she’s having a good time—and by all accounts she is—don’t worry about it so much. You’re doing what you’re supposed to do. Women are weird, some of them don’t cum easily. It’s all mental anyways. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I think I got ghosted. I'm a beginner so bear with me.I don’t think you got rejected I just think you’re reading WAY too much into this. Live your life and let her come to you. If not, oh well, you’re still living your life. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Convince me to go to football practiceYou shouldn’t need other men to motivate you to do something. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Encountered 2 similarish situations. Thoughts?These girls aren’t into you. Would you ever say some shit like this to a girl you really liked? No, right? These excuses feel like just that, an excuse. If they wanted to be with you, they’d be with you. It’s really that simple. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 01:07 PM |
| 7 | Is this ASD? I need some adviceShe’s not feeling you bro. Would you ever say something like that to a girl you wanted to see? No. Neither does she. Find the next one bro. We all get rejected. I had a text just like that not too long ago. That same week I fucked a new chick. Keep it moving. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Your big win of 2019Traveled more, fucked more girls, and drank more than I ever have and recognized that the pursuit of hedonistic pleasures won’t you happy. Fun without the work is just another distraction. Have since left a job I hated, started a new one more in line with my goals, and am slowly building up a healthy routine of meditation, lifting, eating healthy, and building my vision for the future. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Never good enoughThis. She isn’t your wife but seems to have “expectations” of you as if she’s your only option. You need to be tough on her or this is going to get worse. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 06:08 PM |
| 7 | female dating advice is repackaged redpill?Lmao right? And the feminine women are attracted to their masculinity and confidence. Male masculinity is at an all time low if a woman would rather fuck an ugly woman with no dick than a dude. Jesus Christ lol. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | female dating advice is repackaged redpill?Lol definitely a dead bed there. What a life! | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Why is getting laid in the USA hard and in Sweden/Finland easy according to people?Smart man. How safe are Colombia and Thailand? They’ve been on my list for awhile. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Sent my oneitis a Merry Christmas textLmao. Lesson learned. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Why is getting laid in the USA hard and in Sweden/Finland easy according to people?You hitting bars or day game? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 05:23 PM |
| 0 | Being a father while also struggling with desire to fuck around with other womenI love how dudes will cry and complain about their LTRs cheating on them (and thus bringing them to TRP) then be the first ones to yell “cheat and don’t get caught” when a stupid question like this comes up. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Being a father while also struggling with desire to fuck around with other womenAgreed. That having your cake and eating it too bullshit is for betas. You want a kid? Fine. But if you want to fuck bitches AND have a family without your girl knowing? Good luck. Vietnamese girls are crazy. I sense a stabbing in your future. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Why is getting laid in the USA hard and in Sweden/Finland easy according to people?How’s the quality? Are these girls hot? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 04:27 PM |
| 2 | LTR car smells like pussy? Am I losing my mindCan’t that show ANY liquid? Like a spilled soda or sweat? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | LTR car smells like pussy? Am I losing my mindThis. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:57 PM |
| 9 | Why is getting laid in the USA hard and in Sweden/Finland easy according to people?Do those numbers include prostitutes? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 5 | female dating advice is repackaged redpill?I agree on polarity but even if the dude is feminine and the woman is masculine, she’s going to cheat to hell and back trying to find a man that excites her. Heterosexual women are hardwired to want a strong and ambitious man which billy betas ARE NOT. He’ll always just be beta bux. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:47 PM |
| 22 | female dating advice is repackaged redpill?This is feminism going too far. Women these days complain so much about male nature then immediately ape all of those same characteristics they claim to hate. Women try to be men then ironically find less and less guys attractive and desirable due to being more masculine than them. Makes sense why more women are bisexual or lesbian than ever these days. They’re becoming more masculine while dudes are “adapting” and becoming more feminine. It’s sad, really. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Places to travel for fun and womenSaint Petersburg is different then bro. Had a blast while I was there and made friends with a ton of dudes in the clubs. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?Yeah dude. Dry sex for a girl is painful for her and no fun for you. If you didn’t want to eat her out, that’s cool. Kiss on her thighs while fingering her. Kiss her neck. Lick her nipples. You got lazy but it’s okay, live and learn. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Places to travel for fun and womenHaven't been to a southeast asian country like Thailand or Singapore but I've heard they're fuck factories. However, is this an experience exclusive to white men? I know asian girls go crazy for white men but I'm not sure if that same rule applies to other minorities. (I'm Black) | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Call plate on her shit?Ignore her until she calls. When she does, tell her to come over. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 02:54 AM |
| 9 | Places to travel for fun and womenRussia. Go to Russia. Can’t tell you how many beautiful girls there are in a country FILLED with ugly men. The IOIs are off the CHARTS from 10s. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 02:51 AM |
| 9 | Be a man she said.What the fuck did I just read? lol. I feel like I just read a shitty one-man play about a dude who flirted with a girl one time...and then nothing happened. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with this situationSounds like she’s more trouble than she’s worth and loves to create drama. No bueno. A stress-free life is a long one. Stop pretend walking away and WALK AWAY. Find a new girl and stop dealing with that bullshit. Even being alone should be preferable to that drama queen. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 02:44 AM |
| 8 | I can't stand having no power or influence“You will be so much happier when you wake up everyday working towards a goal instead of drinking, and bs’ing your way through life.” God, this is true. If you’re good-looking with a good-but-not-great job, it is EXTREMELY easy to be complacent. You’ll get hoes but not the hoes you want. You’ll make money but not the money you want. You’ll just get by without ever REALLY trying, going out to drink and pick up hoes, settling into a fun but empty routine, and never really becoming the man you want… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 02:38 AM |
| 0 | FWB/Date for 6 months dont call me back. Call her back again or next?Agreed. Just wrote one last week and this was a good reminder to just “vibe.” | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever pay for dinner/drinks?I pay for first date stuff (unless she insists on covering certain things—like popcorn after I bought the movie tickets kind of shit—which is a green flag). After that I’ll pay for things I invite her to and allow her to cover minor expenses on the date. I.e. If I’ve paid for dinner the last 3 times, if the bill isn’t too high on the 4th one, I’ll let her get it. If I got the last two rounds of drinks, I’ll let her get the next one. I almost NEVER split the check. That to me is broke boy incarna… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Last night I may have been the first man to have a girl completely naked and wet and not have fucked her.... what could’ve I done in this situation?Should’ve ate her out. Then had her suck your dick. Her body is telling you she wants to fuck. You just had to get her there mentally by pushing on that desire. Hit her up again for Netflix and chill and keep the escalation going. She’ll give in eventually. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 04:04 PM |
| 13 | Girl sensed I was high value and now comes to me for life consulting? wtf is going onAh. Carry on then. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 04:54 AM |
| 27 | Girl sensed I was high value and now comes to me for life consulting? wtf is going onSounds like you’re wasting time if you’re not fucking. Unless she’s paying you. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 04:39 AM |
| 26 | Are hot girls in LA mostly alpha widows?Lol @ “encounters” just had a plate break that was like that. Last time we talked she was telling me how she was hanging with Anderson Paak after he slid in her DMs. My advice: Shrug your shoulders. Keep fucking. And NEVER invest more than a night out every now and then, and lean towards some good ole Netflix and chill. Most LA girls (especially the hot ones) live hypergamy on God Mode. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 04:35 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone had this happen before? Random girl added me on snap and sent me nudes without wanting money or me to sign up for anything.Don’t go see her until you “see” her. Even then beware of a set up (which is why I said meet in a public space). | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone had this happen before? Random girl added me on snap and sent me nudes without wanting money or me to sign up for anything.FaceTime. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Less attention from womenHow’d cold approaching work for you? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:28 AM |
| 1 | New Year's Eve party threesome!?Yeah you might be reaching dude. Maybe he’s got a nice place. Maybe they’re all just close. If he’s sensed any attraction from them, that’s a different story. If it’s not a set up for a threesome, it certainly could be. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:24 AM |
| 10 | Has anyone had this happen before? Random girl added me on snap and sent me nudes without wanting money or me to sign up for anything.FT her. If she checks out MAYBE meet her at a public bar. Fuck her at a hotel or your car. Don’t let her know where you live. Somethings not right with her. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Maintaining frame and confidence in an LTRCompletely agree with this. Don’t nut unless you fuck. You’d be amazed at how confident, less anxious, and more POWERFUL you feel as a result. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 11:31 PM |
| 18 | I Was Wrong. Friends with Women Catch 22 & Social Proof.Agreed. Leo doesn’t need a mixed group of high value men and women around around him to attract more women. He could attract women walking around solo because he’s a high value man. Same applies if he was with a group of male friends, etc. Him just having a whole group of attractive female friends that DONT want to fuck him does nothing for him. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 11:23 PM |
| 9 | Would you accept a friend request from a female who rejected you?This. If she rejected you she probably doesn’t view you as sexually OR socially desirable (those tend to go hand and hand). Easier just to avoid you or maintain the atmosphere that y’all are “cool” if you’re forced to be in close contact (school or work). Reality is that if you were to ask her to hang out, she would probably deny it. Why? Because she’ll assume you’re still into her. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 11:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm Not Ready for a Relationship TestYou sound in denial bro. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 9 | I have a lucrative job I don’t deserve, I barely work, and I hate it.There’s pride in hard work. There’s unfulfilment in laziness. You know your potential and you aren’t reaching it so you feel like a loser. You also aren’t passionate about the work. Your time is important. If you can’t find anything in the job to get passionate about, leave it. If I paid you a million dollar a year to dig ditches for the rest of your life, would you do it? Money isn’t everything. Become the best you. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 06:49 AM |
| 2 | One of my better plates admitted to cheating on her exGot you. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Should I Soft-Next?Just exercise some self control and soft next. Let her hit you up, chat for a bit, then disengage (you stop txting her after a few exchanges). Let her hit you up again and ask for your availability (if you want to hang) and then tell her to come through and fuck. Now she’s a plate and you keep her there. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Should I Soft-Next?She’s hot and you’re tired of the rotation lifestyle and think this girl is your ticket to a low stress LTR. You can never lose that killer instinct though; especially in relationships. You need to stay sharp and be on your game, which means a certain degree of emotional distance AT ALL TIMES. Otherwise you dip into neediness. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 06:05 AM |
| 10 | One of my better plates admitted to cheating on her exNah you’d be a dick for cheating. Effectively it’s conflict avoidance (see: feminine energy). A real man would just dump the girl, be single, and get another one. I get you on the fact that a lot of these girls aren’t great these days (especially with feminism and the new hookup culture), but it’s your life dude. Also, you haven’t said that you trusted her which is very telling. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 06:03 AM |
| 23 | Chicks love me, but I'm pretty sure I'm their gay best friend and not a guy they want to bangDude...you’re giving off SUPER BETA VIBES. That’s why they perceive you as gay. You’re exhibiting virtually ZERO masculine energy. A girl should either be unable to read you (see: mysterious/stoic) or know that you want to fuck her by how often and how long you look at her. You’re energy seems WAY off if all these girls are immediately gay-friendzoning you. My advice: Hang out with older dudes. Go shoot pool. Go play basketball. Just get out and hang out with dudes for 6-months to a year and sto… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 05:59 AM |
| 16 | One of my better plates admitted to cheating on her exI get you but you’re better off starting on the right foot (no red flags) than knowingly stepping into a situation where there’s a glaring one right in front of you. That just seems lazy to me. Divorce affects more than you’re wallet. You have kids involved. How’s that going to affect their view on relationships? If you feel like you can trust (like really trust her) keep seeing her but make sure the courtship is LONG- minimum 3-4 years). If you can’t, stop being lazy and go find a girl you can. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Should I Soft-Next?It’s oneitis. You think she’s special. She’s not. Seriously. That’s going to take some time for you to learn (and a lot of hard lessons) but truly, women are surprisingly similar when it comes down to it. And that connection is rooted in hypergamy and modern culture. You need to reread what I said and really think on it. “I’m just trying to decide if I’m her top priority or not...” Right there ^ That’s the wrong mindset. You sound like you’re the girl in this relationship and she’s the man. I’m … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 05:41 AM |
| 2 | I'm Not Ready for a Relationship TestYeah you blew it with that one dude. You have a habit of the bait-and-switch. You offer an opportunity to hang then get upset (textually) when you don’t get your way then give her an ultimatum of sorts. It just got weird with the choker chain shit. You likely won’t hear from that girl again. My advice: Stop trying to be “smooth” and just talk. “Hey what are you up to?” (Her response) “Nice. How’s your schedule looking this weekend?” (Her response) “Cool. Let’s grab a drink. I got a cool spot I w… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 05:35 AM |
| 91 | One of my better plates admitted to cheating on her exTough call. Almost all girls cheat in some form (even if it’s texting a dude once “the feels” begin to dissipate) in fact, it’s how MOST women find their next boyfriend. That being said, she’s established that rather than communicating or breaking things off, she’ll just step out. No bueno. If you feel like you can trust her, do your thing BUT... AWALT. You aren’t the exception. Never forget. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 05:29 AM |
| 1 | General Question about IOIs in relation to beauty in day game.If I were to guess, you either look thirsty af (because you seem to be looking for choosing signs) OR you’re getting them from 7-8s and just aren’t noticing them. Clearly the average girls find you attractive so you must be at least marginally attractive to other higher tier women. Your energy might be off with the 7-8s. You need to live your life. Try not to focus too much on “who’s looking at me now” and simply do what you came to do: get work done. If a hot girl pops in, it’s okay to look up … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I Soft-Next?Dude, I say this with love but... You’re acting like a hoe. Seriously. Who gives af? She ain’t your girlfriend. If she ignored your calls or snaps and hooked up with some dude that night, she’s well within her rights. You say she works a bar job. That means late nights. That means being tired. It also means lots of options as I’m sure she gets hit on by every dude with a dick. Understand and accept this. If she doesn’t text you back or respond to your snaps, let it go. She’s busy. Go get another… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 04:59 AM |
| 8 | Girl I’m trying to plate says I’m similar to her boyfriend... what is she implying?She’s into you. Plate her if you can but don’t take her seriously. How you meet them is how you lose them. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 3 | I'm Not Ready for a Relationship TestYou’re talking too much. You’re trying too hard to impress her. You’re trying to get to know her through text. You’re not reading her mood via text (vital because you need to match it). Learn how to quickly shift conversation to a meet up IF she is receptive. It’s okay to shoot the shit for a bit and make her laugh (if you’re funny) but try to avoid the open-ended get to know you shit. Example: “Hey, good luck on your exams and have a good week. I’ll touch base in a few days to set something up … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 04:28 AM |
| 13 | I’m red pilled so this took me by such surprise and upset.Hard choices are hard for a reason. Be a man and pull the trigger. You’ll regret it if you don’t and your girl will ironically lose MORE respect for you if you do some weak shit like take her back. Trust me. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 04:01 PM |
| 5 | I’m red pilled so this took me by such surprise and upset.This. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Tinder first date at club?Terrible idea. If she wants to “dance” she should go with her friends. A date is for y’all to get to know each other. If it’s the first date, sounds like she isn’t totally into you and wants to put herself in a position to have other immediate options if you turn out to be a dud. Also, she sounds like a thot if she’s suggesting a club for a first date. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Older guys, what was dating like pre-social media era?This. Girls really didn’t suck dick like that all the way up to the early 2000s. Especially black girls. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 03:30 PM |
| 27 | I’m red pilled so this took me by such surprise and upset.Dude...dump her. All RP wisdom aside, she betrayed your trust. Isn’t that worth something to you? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 03:17 PM |
| 4 | Plate has lowered interest, any strategies I can use?Dude this could NOT be more true. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Plate has lowered interest, any strategies I can use?Second. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Plate has lowered interest, any strategies I can use?This. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 05:20 AM |
| 6 | How do I go about trying to hook up with a former plates sister?Be careful with that. She could just be a tease and your ex will torch you to anyone who will listen if that falls through. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 10:21 PM |
| 5 | How do I go about trying to hook up with a former plates sister?Has the sister shown any interest? | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Soft nexted a married MILF who was blowing up my SnapchatHotels are better my friend. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 09:13 PM |
| 26 | Pussy Won’t Make you AlphaFacts here. I’m definitely feeling lost in the pussy pursuit and I’m being constantly reminded that it’s just a higher level of a distraction. Once you nut or the girl goes home, you’ll start to feel empty again very quickly if you aren’t focused on your greater purpose. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 05:02 AM |
| 88 | The thing that many of us dread the most happened to meGonna address the elephant in the room here: Dude...why the FUCK are you not wearing condoms and busting into randos? Jesus Christ. Are you that poor that you can’t afford a $1 condom? Are you that shit in bed that you couldn’t pull out? Now some kid has to grow up without a present father or be aborted because YOU couldn’t be bothered to be responsible at 28. Dude, be a man, find out if it’s yours, then do the right thing and at least TRY to be in the kids life if you can. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Is it normal to lost interest in spinning plates?Yeah that’s normal. I’m feeling the same. After awhile the novelty of getting the “new girl” gets boring. Most dudes either get into an LTR or just vibe out dolo. Lately I’ve been leaning towards the latter with a very small rotation, but even then I’m really appreciating my alone time. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 12:06 AM |
| 4 | LTR of two month keeps saying she loves me?Two months is fast as shit. How many times a week were you seeing these chicks? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this right?Wise words. Any suggestions handling this plate moving forward? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of extremely common beta behavior you see?Where in Asia? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 12:12 AM |
| -1 | Possible I have a kid that nobody knows about..Jesus Christ though, it’s YOUR seed. You have a right to know your son. Dude I might sue for a paternity test if I were you. I don’t think it’s selfish to want to be there for your kid. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Possible I have a kid that nobody knows about..Damn dude. That sucks. Personally if it were my kid I would WANT to be in its life. That’s a tough situation though since as the man you’ve really got little power to claim it’s yours if the mother doesn’t want you blowing her shit up. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 01:41 PM |
| 2 | How does a man keep/find backup options while in a relationship?If you’re a high value male you always have options. Abundance mindset, every day you step outside you should be getting IOIs if you’re living right. No need to squirrel away potentials unless it’s girls that are orbiters. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 05:23 AM |
| -2 | How does a man keep/find backup options while in a relationship?You don’t. Don’t cheat on your girl just because you’re afraid to be single. That’s what hoes do. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 03:31 AM |
| 0 | Need a RP perspective on this. Why do compliments on girls pictures on Reddit get downvoted?My thoughts exactly, let a dude be thirsty! | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Need a RP perspective on this. Why do compliments on girls pictures on Reddit get downvoted?Lmao | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 02:17 AM |
| 4 | When you improve yourself so much, do your standards get unrealistically high?Facts. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 06:24 AM |
| 5 | When you improve yourself so much, do your standards get unrealistically high?Preach. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Any men over 40? How's dating?...dude he’s LEONARDO DICAPRIO... | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | do you care about the ethnic composition of men a woman has previously dated?Some are beautiful. Some aren’t. Really what it comes down to is taste in bodies (I like thick but nowhere near fat girls), good facial bone structure (sharp not round features), and in my opinion good skin (smooth, no acne or heavy make up). Basically Gabrielle Union (chocolate) vs Paula Patton (light-skinned). Two tones, both very beautiful. In terms of attitude, black women tend to be more masculine because black men tend to be hyper masculine. So I tend to go for more feminine light skinned … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Any men over 40? How's dating?Interesting | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 01:30 AM |
| 19 | do you care about the ethnic composition of men a woman has previously dated?Lmao you’re definitely asking about white girls that like black guys. Let’s start here: I’m black so I get it. There’s a certain type of white girl that SEEKS black guys. Even among black men it’s a little unattractive because when it’s a universal and exclusive attraction it feels more like a fetish than anything. Also, as a black dude, I know how black dudes are: hyper masculine, generally charming, and athletic. If you aren’t that it can feel incredibly intimidating to think of her past men a… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 10:30 PM |
| 12 | "If you werent you we would fuck you" possible threesome?If you grew up in white neighborhoods and your inflection leans more “white” that’s fine. Own it. Just be smart, ambitious, and on your grind. Look at Russel Wilson. Women respect him because he’s handsome, kind, athletic af, and accepts that he isn’t some dope boy, can’t dance, and isn’t from the hood. Be the best you. If those girls want a hood dude, let them find one. (I’m black by the way and I pull every race) | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Any men over 40? How's dating?LTR at double her age? Are you sure you aren’t a sugar daddy and her REAL boyfriend is on the side somewhere? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 10:18 PM |
| 27 | I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates?This. Didn’t even read the rest of the post past “I will probably fail.” | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Why does this sub dislike no fap so much?I don’t go out every day. Nor do I talk to every girl in the club. I said I’d go out and talk to a few girls then say fuck it, go home and jack off. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 08:37 AM |
| 6 | Why does this sub dislike no fap so much?Not sure what action the second question is referring to, and it’s taking some assumptions, but in general, NoFap has a calming affect past the first two weeks. You WILL be horny as all hell two weeks into not masturbating. A month in and you’re chilling. After that it’s smooth sailing. I could go home drunk af, no pussy, and just pass out. Not jack myself off to sleep (which was a common behavior for me when I masturbated every day). | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 08:12 AM |
| 20 | Why does this sub dislike no fap so much?Personally I subscribe to NoFap. Benefits: Less anxiety, clearer head, higher testosterone, more sexual energy, greater discipline and willpower. I’ve done NoFap for 90 days (50 hard mode - no nut at all), relapsed, then went again for another 120, relapsed, and now I’m back on a 34 day streak and counting. There’s nothing wrong with jacking off...as long as it doesn’t become an addiction. I’ve been jacking off since I was like 8. And I can promise you that that kind of conditioning not only has… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 07:33 AM |
| 26 | Ghosted my ex - gf and she’s contacting me 4 months later for closureFuck that we hard on these hoes for 2020. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 08:02 AM |
| 2 | I’m sick and tired of girls who can’t conversationsJust ask questions. You know who you are. Personally, I get bored explaining what I do for the umpteenth time. If they’re interesting I’d rather learn about them. When they’ve exhausted talking about themselves, that’s when they’ll typically turn it around to you. That or find overlapping thoughts to interject. But in general, follow 80/20 rule and let her yap. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys follow the news or avoid it altogether? (If the former, which outlets?)Another reason why I love the red pill. Smart brothers deploying useful wisdom. Appreciate you brother. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys follow the news or avoid it altogether? (If the former, which outlets?)It does. Thanks dude. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys follow the news or avoid it altogether? (If the former, which outlets?)What do you read? | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl I met at the bar flirted with friend, then he brought her home with us. How would you react?Possibly dude. I’ve done a MFM threesome in college (I just call them trains) and haven’t done one since. Could’ve been a nice opp though to double dick her. I’ll keep that in mind for next time and take the next lucky lady to the swap meet. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Need TRP advice on LTRLet her ask for things to become official, say “yes” and go from there. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | LTR is friends with a co-worker who has high SMV. How to handle jealousyThis is a real conundrum. I’ve got a buddy who has a higher SMV than me and I wouldn’t bring a girl I was interested in (that I hadn’t fucked yet) around him because she’d likely be attracted to him. Whether he pursued it or not, it’s just not a smart move before an attachment has been built imo. Hypergamy is real. Don’t mate guard for sure, but understand that if he’s more charming and smoother than you, your girl will likely be affected by it (whether she chooses to act on it or not). Seems li… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl I met at the bar flirted with friend, then he brought her home with us. How would you react?Yeah man. To be honest, I’m not even bothered by the girl choosing my homie. Even if the ball was ready to be spiked (I had been kissing and slapping her ass all night) hypergamy is real and it’s just a reminder to keep grinding, raise my SMV, and have better control over my emotions (getting offended and recovering from loss). The real issue (and humbling) was when they ended up coming back to the shared Airbnb (literally in the bed next to me) and fucked right next to me. Needless to say it wa… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Absolutely broken.And this is why I love TRP. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl I met at the bar flirted with friend, then he brought her home with us. How would you react?True story. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Girl I met at the bar flirted with friend, then he brought her home with us. How would you react?Yup. We were in transition (heading out of the bar) but I acted like a bitch and got emotional. My ego got caught up feeling disrespected so I was like fuck it. Should’ve just went back inside and grabbed another chick. Lesson learned. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl I met at the bar flirted with friend, then he brought her home with us. How would you react?Edit: Great answer here. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl I met at the bar flirted with friend, then he brought her home with us. How would you react?Spoke with a homie and I get you. Definitely let my ego get bruised. Admittedly it’s an awkward and uncomfortable thing. The shot was set and literally within 30 seconds the whole dynamic had shifted so I nexted her expecting that’d be the end of it. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl I met at the bar flirted with friend, then he brought her home with us. How would you react?I’m giving shorthand here. I didn’t tell him we’re leaving. I told him (when he asked) that I was leaving her at the bar. Didn’t go into why. He then invites her over. If the situation had been I just didn’t fuck with her like that, it still would’ve been a breach of ethics to ignore it and bring her around me. Currently sharing an Airbnb. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 09:49 PM |
| -2 | Girl I met at the bar flirted with friend, then he brought her home with us. How would you react?You’re missing the point. It isn’t about the chick. It’s about respect. I’ve been on the opposite end of this situation. And every time I respect my friends feelings and steer the girl back towards him. I don’t think I’m asking a lot to expect the same. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 09:26 PM |
| -3 | Girl I met at the bar flirted with friend, then he brought her home with us. How would you react?Given they just had sex right next to me, I just might. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 09:19 PM |
| 7 | What’s with girls taking a day or two to text back?This. What makes you take awhile to text back? Busy. Not a priority. Doesn’t always mean a lack of interest, you’re just a low priority. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 05:29 AM |
| 2 | What is the best way to approach a girl while she's working?I wouldn’t do the leave your number thing. I’ve done that in the past and in retrospect it’s beta af. The only exception would be if you have business cards (which better look nice). In general, I’d advise just talking to her. If there’s a rapport, and the opportunity presents itself, just say “I’m getting ready to head out soon but we should hang out sometime. What’s your number?” | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Dear Chads and Tyrone of asktrp, some questionsQ1 Re: Preaching to the choir dude. It’s insane how much I think about sex and tie it to my self worth (how I would feel if I had no hoes vs abundance). It’s such a distraction. Still working on it the mental transition of being okay without consistent pussy. Currently limiting myself to a 2-girl rotation, no dating apps, and only gaming spontaneously (at a bar, etc.). | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 06:10 AM |
| 25 | How do I hold frame when dealing with racismDude...you’re in Germany. You’re talking to the direct descendants of nazis. If they’re trying to cut you down, cut deeper. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.You’re only saying that because you’re afraid of the consequences. Which objectively are misguided anger. It’s not your marriage. If the girl wants to step out it’s not your concern. You just have to be wary that guys on the receiving end won’t take their anger out rationally by leaving their wives, some may remedy the situation by going after the dude. Which is stupid as hell. But...you can’t predict how someone will react. So, it’s best to tread lightly and be aware of the risk you take doing … | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 09:05 AM |
| 3 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.Best advice is if you’re going to fuck a married or engaged woman, let it be with someone you DON’T know. ONS territory ONLY. A full on affair might get you killed. Note: And don’t take her to your house. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.Yeah...buddy of mine showed me this yesterday (if you have first, middle, and last name - which you probably have on your Facebook) you can instantly find a current address just by googling it. Shit is crazy. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 02:22 AM |
| 9 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.That’s real. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Why does Jordan Peterson think he's an expert when he's known his wife since he was 7 years old?And I’m saying who gives af? It’s irrelevant to the message (his knowledge) itself. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it good to have “deep” conversations with a girl?Depends on the girl. If she’s smart and curious, it could be a great way to get closer to her and build an attachment. If she’s shallow and superficial, you MIGHT impress her, but you could just as easily bore her. Honestly, you really just need to read the girl and the environment. Just NEVER have this kind of conversation in a club or loud bar; keep that observational or surface level (topical). Have deep convos on a walk or a park bench. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Why does Jordan Peterson think he's an expert when he's known his wife since he was 7 years old?1) That’s an assumption, not a fact . You don’t know that he used a publicist. 2) And? Who gives af? How is that relevant to the knowledge he’s giving? Does a publicist write books or help authors promote them? Think on these. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 07:38 AM |
| 4 | Why does Jordan Peterson think he's an expert when he's known his wife since he was 7 years old?Yeah I think he’s incredibly intelligent and principled in his opinions. Seriously check out his book or his speeches. He’s very compelling. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Why does Jordan Peterson think he's an expert when he's known his wife since he was 7 years old?He’s a therapist and has seen TONS of men and women come into the complain about their relationships and marriages. He’s spent hours on the other side seeing the truth between both sides of the relationship dynamic. The guy knows from observational and personal experience. May not be full TRP but is at the very least purple pill. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 01:15 AM |
| 5 | Why does Jordan Peterson think he's an expert when he's known his wife since he was 7 years old?No. He was addicted to anxiety medication because his wife developed breast cancer. He immediately took himself to rehab and announced himself publicly. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Plates pregnant how do I protect myself?What state are you in? In some states if you take responsibility of the child (going to doctors visits etc.) even if it’s not your child you can be liable for child support. Tread lightly here if there’s any doubt. Be there but have a frank discussion with her regarding who’s she’s been with. As soon as that kid comes out, get a paternity test. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Should I tell my girlfriend’s parents that she cheated?This. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | The entire notion of a unicorn is a catch 22Dude, this is ASKTRP not TRP. Ask a question or post elsewhere. This isn’t a forum for your diary. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | OneitisSure | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 10:55 PM |
| 44 | Why do women go through so many “best friends”?This. Women friendships are petty and passive aggressive. When they aren’t completely dedicated and supportive of each other, they hate each other’s guts. They’re a strange breed. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | How did you guys find TRP?Dude...he’s a mentor and a life coach. He’s been around the block and his ability to call a spade and spade and get right to the point is real. Excellent communicator. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Need advice for going Monk modeAgreed. Create daily habits that push your goals but make time for a social life. If you stop and enter the cave to work on yourself, you’ll be stagnating—or worse, regressing—in other ways (namely socially). You can’t hide from failure. You just need to manage your time better to make room for the things you want to improve. Find balance. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Found LTR and her Ex had texted.This. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 11:11 PM |
| 6 | How did you guys find TRP?First love in college found out I cheated and broke up with me. Went maximum beta trying to get her back and became a submissive, needy little fuck, and still lost her. Moved across the country, started dating a 9, went full oneitis and scared her off, too. Started looking up why I kept losing the girls I really liked and eventually found Corey Wayne, Redpill, and Alpha Male Strategies. Still have some BP ways to work on but the transformation from where I was to where I am is night and day. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle this?That’s interesting because I’m black (and would consider myself good looking) and didn’t get too much play. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle this?6’3, Mexican, 30, Male, 190-200 | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Do you use any cold approaching tricks to break the ice?Jesus dude, I would NOT make that a habit in this MeToo era. That’s an easy way to scare the shit out of someone if you don’t deliver it PERFECTLY. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Messing up when going for follow up meetDude...you got to be chill. You had it. You went for drinks. You fucked on the first encounter. She had good sex. You did great. Now’s the hard part... You see her at the gym often. If y’all have a great rapport, that’s great, instant flirtations, easy access and set ups for more dates blah, blah, blah. If you don’t, you use a light touch. “Hey (Name) how’s your day going? (Insert joke) Cool, I’m heading in but I’ll see you later.” That’s it. Do that every time you see her until it’s Tuesday/Wed… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 06:22 PM |
| -1 | Found LTR and her Ex had texted.Dude, why’d you go through her phone? That’s some hoe shit. 1) You’re RP (I assume) and are in a relationship, so ultimately purple pill. This means you need to accept your girl will at some point cheat behind your back. 2) When you go looking for shit, you will find it. You clearly seem insecure in the relationship if you went STRAIGHT to her messages (I’d grab my phone too, you weirdo) which means that your SMV is lower than hers. At this point the trust is severely damaged. Either talk it out… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 06:11 PM |
| 11 | Why do I go through cycles of abundance?Abundance mindset is to not be affected whether you have abundance or not. Michael Jordan and Kobe had bad games but they had enough belief in themselves that it didn’t affect them. There was always the next game. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Invited girl over to study, recieved shit testYou never want to imply emotion in text. You have no idea how it will be read by a 2nd party. Best to be direct and blunt. Witty CAN work but it’s got to be clearly sarcastic (no emojis) and well-delivered. In this case, I’d keep it serious with a slight bend towards the flirtatious (“I can if you can...” is a direct challenge). Also, you never want to qualify yourself with “I can help or do X for you.” That’s lame and reeks of neediness, submission, and desperation. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 02:06 AM |
| 54 | Why do I go through cycles of abundance?Abundance mindset isn’t affected by actual abundance. The idea is that you have the belief that whether you actively have girls or not, you can and will get more at your discretion. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Invited girl over to study, recieved shit testDude that’s terrible lol | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Invited girl over to study, recieved shit testSmh the cringe is real. Just say... “That’s up to you. I can stay focused if you can.” Obviously you won’t but you just need to get her inside the store. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 01:58 AM |
| 2 | OneitisWoah dude, you’re fucking up...(see: sidebar) First, treat yourself better and stop letting these fat hoes try you. Girls that exclusively like black guys are sadly thots 90% of the time (I’m black by the way). She was a mistake. Stop texting her and reset the power dynamic. Don’t fuck her again. Just move on and find someone you actually are attracted to, not just what you perceive to be easy pussy. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Did I make a good move turning down sex with a 10/10?Not going to pile on here because you already know you fucked up. But... 1) ALWAYS have condoms. Why are you going to her hotel room without a condom. More specifically, why are you going there a second time AFTER she got naked without them. Slaps forehead 2) Who gives af what kind of relationship she’s in or how many dudes she’s fucked? Here’s all you need to be thinking about: Is she hot? Can I fuck? That’s it. You aren’t marrying the girl you just met so take all those extra qualifiers out of… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 07:59 PM |
| 6 | Did I play this text game wrong?If a girl asks a stupid question like that after 2 weeks. I’d respond hours later (when I felt like it) with a joke. In this case... “This isn’t your way of telling me you’re actually a 60 year old is it?” No emojis, just a straight up witty retort with a little bit of negging (notice the high age count at 60). She’ll probably laugh, clarify her meaning, and enter your frame. Let the text convo run a bit while rebuilding rapport then make the ask (ONLY IF SHE’S RESPONDING WELL). If she isn’t, de… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Cant last more than 2 min in bedStop masturbating. Seriously. It’ll feel like you’re more sensitive to coming (and to some extent you will be) but it’ll also become easier to get stronger erections AND you’ll have primed your brain for better mental control. Here’s what I mean: As kids of the Internet, we’ve been jacking off to porn (or the porn in our heads) for decades. Masturbating has one purpose: to nut quickly. Which means that for years you’ve likely been prepping your brain to release as soon as possible, which makes y… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Drunk coworker told me she would fuck meI would fuck. Just lay the ground rules before you do. Most relationships will flame out anyways whether you work together or not. Might as well get your dick wet. However, in this case, since she was drunk, I would wait until you saw more IOIs from her sober and THEN invite her out somewhere alone. If you jump on it too fast (next day) when she’s sober and without IOIs then it’ll look like you got a whiff of the pussy and got whipped already. Let it cool off and let her re-engage. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 04:07 PM |
| 6 | I am profoundly unhappy.Dude, you need challenge in your life. You basically feel like after achieving all your long term goals (getting women, making more money, being desirable, etc.) that there’s nothing else left. Ironically that’s how A LOT of celebrities end up feeling; after the law of diminishing returns takes effect, what else is left? What greater adventure awaits? Am I now at the end of the game? The answer is simple: No. You don’t know everything about everything. Find some new hobby or interest (maybe it’s… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I am profoundly unhappy.Isn’t that the 5 stages of grief after loss? Not sure that applies here. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 03:52 PM |
| -1 | Women never stick around long enough to ask for exclusivity. Am I just low SMV?Best advice. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Women never stick around long enough to ask for exclusivity. Am I just low SMV?Facts. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 08:44 AM |
| 7 | Spinning a plate/fwb where she treats me too well is fucking with my conscience. Should I drop her?I stopped reading at HB6. You aren’t God. She’ll be okay. Never settle. When she brings up exclusivity and you decline it, she has the CHOICE to stay or go. She’s a big girl, she’ll move on (pun intended). | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Gf being a shitty date at fraternity formalYou acted like a bitch storming off like that. If you’re going to walk away, say something. “Hey guys, I’m going to catch some air outside.” That said, when you come back, and she’s still acting like she wants to fuck your friend (sounds like she did) go find another girl (if that’s possible at a formal). You SHOULD be able to insert yourself in the conversation in a way that doesn’t have you feeling being left out. Your friend should understand this as well. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Gf said she wouldn't abort if she accidentally got pregnant. Dump?Depends on her age and SMV. If she’s a 30 year old, single, HB6 and buddy is a 25 year old 8, she’s going to keep it just for his genetics. A lot of women talk a big game about the right to choose but when the baby’s actually in them it’s hard for them to pull that trigger if they know they want kids some day. Especially if they’re chronically single. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | how to handle when girl coming on to you very hard (pulls out all stops) but her boyfriend is right there (seemingly) oblivious??Seen this more times than I can count. Some dudes are just too pussy to say anything or they’re cucks. Next time, try to separate the girl from her boyfriend. “I’m going to go over there and grab a drink if you want to join me.” “I’m going to go outside and have a smoke if you want to join me.” Etc. Once you can separate without it seeming obvious (as in, “bitch meet me there in 5 minutes”) get the number and try to set something up for later that night. If she lives with the dude, it probably w… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What to do while doing strong eye contact?This. Just go say “hi.” | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Foun out ex had been fucking sisters boyfriend all these years. How to expose?You don’t. If it was your sister it’d be different, but it ain’t. You’re a third party. Just vibe. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | LTR broke up, now comes crawling backYou never re-enter a relationship where a girl broke up with you. If she fell out of love/like enough to end things, she’s over it, and there really isn’t a way to get back to what you had before. When in doubt, just move forward. Not backward. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | LTR broke up, now comes crawling backThis. Might as well use her for free pussy. It’s validating but worth the pussy exchange to reset the power dynamic. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | LTR broke up, now comes crawling backPause. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 02:01 AM |
| 2 | What are your personal examples of biggest fails/rejections in cold approaching?Smooth. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 05:45 PM |
| 7 | Approach 101I don’t cold approach (I wait for choosing signals generally) but my advice is to treat approaching like sales. If someone walks into your store what do you do: You walk up to them to greet them with a smile. All you need is to do is walk up, say hello, and smile. Then introduce yourself (Hi, I’m Charles). wait for her to introduce herself State your reason for approaching: “I was walking this way and noticed (observation: you, your bag, your hair, your clothes, surfboard) and wanted to come say… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 02:15 PM |
| 27 | LTR is shittesting me more since she went off birth controlDude, if you’ve been together that long you need to neg her back “humorously.” To the professor comment: “Haha aye shoot your shot if it’ll get you the A.” She’ll be confused because she knows you don’t care (or feel threatened) which signals you can replace her. You can laugh it off which increases your perceived value. To the free lunch comment: “Nice. Where’s my food? You didn’t get me anything. You’re out here getting free lunches and didn’t even get me a bag of chips? Nice teamwork there (g… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Would you say TRP favors cold approach over online?Stop worrying about pursuing women, up your SMV, have a social life of abundance (go to lounges, nice restaurants, outdoor sports, etc.) and wait for choosing signals. If you’re dressed well, in shape, and look like you have your shit together, those signals will come. Let the girls chase you. Until then, get a dating app, pay for the premium version to let the app vet the girls who express interest, and set your fishing pole in the water while you work on building your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you get most of your lays?Fantastic answer | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 06:55 AM |
| 3 | How to revive this plate??Off title: You don’t. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 06:51 AM |
| 5 | In A LTR 2 Years Now. Girlfriend Booked A Vacation With Her Girlfriend. I'm Feeling WeirdThis. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 05:08 PM |
| 9 | In A LTR 2 Years Now. Girlfriend Booked A Vacation With Her Girlfriend. I'm Feeling WeirdAgreed. The answer isn’t always SHE’S FUCKING AROUND! Although if her friend is single it could be an open opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Club and a trip to the hood [Field Report]Yikes. I feel you dude. Do your thing but keep your home happy. Your wife sounds like a handful but try to keep up the guise of a patient husband up as you quietly settle the split. I can see a bomb going off in the near future that’s going to absolutely fuck your family relationships if you don’t handle this with care. Be careful with the cheating dude. Your wife sounds prone to vindictiveness and I can see this going left QUICKLY (getting primary custody, hitting you for alimony, strained ment… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Club and a trip to the hood [Field Report]Wife? You got an open-marriage? If not, you’re playing a dangerous game. But to answer your question, fuck the nonconsensual consent, you should have kept escalating and fucked. The fact that you were there that late signals that. Don’t force fuck but finger the pussy, strip down the clothes, keep kissing, etc. etc. until she’s wet enough to fuck. You leaving probably killed the mood. Moving forward I’d text her something very simple like: How’s your schedule this week? If she replies, tell her … | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Do older men always have the advantage when it comes to getting women?Realest response on here. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I survived a car crash, but not my manhood.What about this post has to do with AskTRP? I’m very confused. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Every girl is a Alpha widow in 2019This is real. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 04:42 PM |
| 3 | How do I handle this?Best response yet. Appreciate you. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How do I handle this?I don’t know if there’s too much there to learn bro. I’ll keep my ear out but I’m being literal when I say... Walks into a bar. Grabs a drink and stands there with me. Girls come and start grinding on him. I’ve had variations of that happen to me in my lifetime but not THAT forward or consistent. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Why can’t I get as many girls as I should?And this gentlemen, is why TRP exists. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Got cheated on by LTR, to next or to plate?Thank god for this sanity. Any excuses to explain away cheating is the saddest fucking state of affairs for the RP community. Jesus fuck some of these comments are pussy af. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 06:50 PM |
| 68 | Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped herIt’s because it was the 80s and he was a black male. If you don’t think racial bias had anything to do with the courts willingness to believe this bitches DREAM then you’re being willfully ignorant of history and should go look into the “court cases” of those accused of rape during Jim Crow. And those are the lucky ones, many were just straight up lynched. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you talk about with women you meet at a bar?That’s a good one | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 5 | What do you talk about with women you meet at a bar?Haha ah touché | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 04:59 AM |
| 7 | What do you talk about with women you meet at a bar?Film | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 04:18 AM |
| 5 | No sex by the end of 4th date, she wants to 'take it slow' but 'it's the man's job to pursue'. Is my soft next a right move?She’s not into you. That or she’s a reformed thot. Either way move on. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 08:10 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop seeking validation from outside sources?This is a long term problem (May take you months to years to get over). First read No More Mr. Nice Guy. Essentially you’ve been conditioning yourself to avoid discomfort, shame, or guilt from disapproval. It probably came from your childhood. As a result, you seek to please others AND be seen favorably by them (which is the reason you seek validation from them). To fix it, you need to stop caring what they think (even if it’s negative) and base your actions and words SOLELY on what you think an… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 02:21 AM |
| 7 | Too playful while texting?Dude your text game is fine. That was clever. Girls like clever. Shows that you’re smart AND playful. Avoid the corny shit that dudes are saying. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 07:06 AM |
| 2 | (Field report) Threesome - How to iniatiate with two girls?Eh. Dude I think you did what anyone would do in this case. Just because it didn’t work out doesn’t mean you failed. They just weren’t into each other like that. Maybe if you had alcohol and you all played a drinking game, MAYBE if you took them both back to your room separately then tried to bring them together, MAYBE. But it seems like 2 wanted to fuck and girl 1 was cool to hang and let her girl get fucked. 1 might’ve been a lost cause. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 07:03 AM |
| 1 | How hard is it to get a plates best friend to hook upSee my reply below | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Just watched the New Chappelle special, then read all the woke scolding reactions. How does an RP-aware person live in a society that’s becoming more BP by the second?Amen. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Entering Monk Mode - Any Advice?Dude. Wow. Great answer. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 06:11 AM |
| 5 | How hard is it to get a plates best friend to hook upDon’t say that. Any girl half way smart is going to look at you like you’re an asshole and be turned off. I’m speaking from experience here. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 05:12 AM |
| 7 | How hard is it to get a plates best friend to hook upThis is easier said than done. Friends of plates that are into you can be more complicated than they seem. They’re interested but you have to use a VERY light touch. Be aggressive and it’ll turn them off because they’ll think you’re going to fuck them over like the original plate. Also the fantasy of being with you and betraying their friend is one thing, it’s VERY different when she’s out with you in reality; that guilt can be real. I’d ask her out for drinks, show her a good time, and unless s… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Turns that once I've approached a chick, the anxiety goes off the charts. The same applies when dating and trying anything out. Think of a roller coaster ride you're afraid of going on. How do you conquer this?Feel the fear and do it anyways. Recognize that making the attempt is the goal not any specific outcome. Once you recognize and accept your fear and discomfort, then rationalize that EVERYONE feels like that and that it really is okay to be worried/nervous, you can then proceed. Remember it’s in attempting that matters, not the result. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Just watched the New Chappelle special, then read all the woke scolding reactions. How does an RP-aware person live in a society that’s becoming more BP by the second?I do. But not as consistently as I’d like. Fair points though. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Entering Monk Mode - Any Advice?Can someone give a clear set of standards for monk mode? I frequently read different accounts from no girls/some girls, no masturbation/some masturbation, etc. etc. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Entering Monk Mode - Any Advice?Yes. Whoever has a good answer to the ego question please chime in. I often blend ego with confidence and self esteem. The manifestation is that certain perceived sleights and societal triggers piss me off easily. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Telling new LTR that you cheated in the past?I do. Most girls cheat and will volunteer the information first when you get to the know them. If you reciprocate honestly, you’d be surprised at how close it will bring you. People cheat when they’re young. It happens. Lying about it is just wack. Some girls WILL hold it against you (despite being attracted to you as cheating shows abundance mentality and high value) but to be real if they’re that holier-than-thou fuck em where they’ll next you, fuck em anyways. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 04:39 AM |
| 13 | Thoughts on letting an old plate know how much you enjoyed your time with her?Adding to this...if inspiration strikes, act on it. Not to sound too hippy-dippy but you'd be suprised how often when you're thinking about someone, they're thinking about you too. The opposite applies as well. If it feels like you're forcing it and NOT moving with the current of the universe, do nothing. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 05:18 AM |
| 7 | Thoughts on letting an old plate know how much you enjoyed your time with her?I don't think it's a bad idea but keep in mind that doing this will only really feel validating for you. It may make you feel good to tell her this, but if she had deeper feelings than that or things ended abruptly or with one side (hers) wanting more, hitting her up with no intention of real reconnection can be triggering. I've done that a few times and have gotten no text back. Either way I would shoot the text if you're indifferent to the outcome but keep in mind that might be a consequence. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 04:30 AM |
| 5 | How do you deal with the stress of wanting to be successfulYou're just young. When you get older and recognize that you only have time to be truly GREAT at a limited amount of things, you'll recognize what's important. For this came at 28 but that might have been a bit later than most. If I were you I would create a plan to achieve ONE lofty ambition; a profession, a purpose, calling, business, whatever you want to call it. Just focus on one. Then create a reasonable routine (make time to relax and have fun) and push toward that goal every day. Lastly, … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 11:35 PM |
| 6 | How do you deal with the stress of wanting to be successfulHilarious and true. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer lean like a swimmer, or big like a rugby player? I've heard that it's best for naturals to be within the 10-15% body fat range but idk if this is true?The hate is strong in you, my child. Let it out. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer lean like a swimmer, or big like a rugby player? I've heard that it's best for naturals to be within the 10-15% body fat range but idk if this is true?Bruh, by that anger alone I can already tell you hate women and don’t get girls lol. Good luck with that. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer lean like a swimmer, or big like a rugby player? I've heard that it's best for naturals to be within the 10-15% body fat range but idk if this is true?You’re right. You should change every fiber of your being in the hopes of appealing to another human being. That’s sexy af. You’re gonna get all the bitches bro. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Do women prefer lean like a swimmer, or big like a rugby player? I've heard that it's best for naturals to be within the 10-15% body fat range but idk if this is true?Changing yourself for women is redpill? Changing yourself for your own self worth and improvement is redpill bro. Come on... | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Why do young women want careers instead of being a homemaker?Why do you not want to be a stay at home dad? Purpose. Meaning. Women need that too. The only difference is that feeling is dramatically lessened once they have kids as they’re children become that purpose and meaning. It doesn’t mean the desire to be the best version of themselves goes away though. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 05:39 AM |
| 5 | Do women prefer lean like a swimmer, or big like a rugby player? I've heard that it's best for naturals to be within the 10-15% body fat range but idk if this is true?Exactly. When you start changing yourself for women you’ve already lost. Just do you and accept what comes. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 05:37 AM |
| 11 | Let’s unwrap this one. Woman in UAE wants divorce because husband is too beta for herIf a girl was on your dick 24/7 you would get bored. It’s human nature. Men and women need challenge. Women just like to complain too more, begging for a “good man” and when they get one get bored of him. It’s basically like a child...or a cursed monkey paw. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 05:36 AM |
| 2 | How often do you talk to your plates?Good breakdown. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 02:55 PM |
| 2 | How often do you talk to your plates?If it’s been months, it’s usually a girl I used to date/fuck for awhile before. I’ll either hit her up with the “thought about you the other day. Hope you’re well” or she’ll hit me up with a variation of the same thing. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm Semi-Successful by myself in life, but outside of that, I'm incredibly lonely and occasionally sad and angry.Dude...here’s your problem, you ready? Gratitude. You mentioned earlier that you appreciate what you have but it doesn’t feel like you do. From what I’ve read: 1) You have a great job 2) You travel often 3) You’re constantly working on yourself 4) You connect easily with others (Bumble Bff) 5) You’ve had good success with women (even in the past) 6) You have disposable income 7) You’re not married 8) You have no kids 9) You’re in your 30s Those are all INCREDIBLE things. The world is your oyster… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 08:01 PM |
| 3 | LTR came home from club 2 in the morningVery long but good answer. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 03:46 AM |
| 2 | LTR came home from club 2 in the morningIs it really? Assumed by who exactly? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 03:44 AM |
| 6 | Is she playing games?She’s just not that into you bro. Find another. I can feel the oneitis through the texts. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 03:20 AM |
| 2 | How to Get Laid on Tinder: How I Banged 17 New Girls in 5 Weeks“Trying” requires effort and the potential for failure. It’s easier to shoot down the advice as being unfit or inaccurate than to give it a shot and potentially fail. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/19 06:02 PM |
| 80 | Going to have sex for first time. Any basic guide?Do whatever you need to to make her nut. That’s how you fuck again. And for you, you need to get the practice. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 06:09 AM |
| 122 | Going to have sex for first time. Any basic guide?Do what feels natural. Don’t overthink it. Wear a rubber. You will not be a sex god on you first shot so just try to enjoy yourself. Smoke or drink to calm your nerves. Don’t skimp on the foreplay (finger and eat pussy). Try to be present and really connect with the moment. Edit: Sex is not porn. Have fun but don’t go nuts unless it’s organic. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 04:19 AM |
| 0 | How to respond?Respond with silence. She’s shit testing you for sure but from a place above superiority. Any agree and amplify (unless you’re really funny) is gonna be lame. If it’s this uphill I wouldn’t even bother. Let her sit in radio silence and give you a real response when she’s ready. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 04:14 AM |
| 2 | How to respond?Best response ☝🏽 | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 04:12 AM |
| 2 | How to Get Laid on Tinder: How I Banged 17 New Girls in 5 WeeksGood post dude. I'm confused why there's so much "but I can't do it" in the comment sections. Good lesson on taking the fundamentals and finding out what works for you, your SMV, and your personality. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/19 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Broke up with LTR, she wants to be a plateAs other commenters have mentioned, she wants to continue being your girlfriend. She's negotiating, but trust and believe if she's reminded in any way (text messages, used condoms, panties, leftover jewelry, etc.) that you're still fucking other girls, she's going to feel some type of way about it and let you know. That means drama. If I were you—and it sounds like you're not that invested—I'd be as honest as possible and tell her straight up: "We aren't getting back together, but if you can han… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Friend banged up a hoe and now he’s getting fucked over, what do ?Fair enough. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Friend banged up a hoe and now he’s getting fucked over, what do ?Abandoning your kids for the sake of “enjoying your life?” That’s not red pill dude. That’s running away from your responsibility...like a kid. I’m not knocking you personally by the way, just that perspective. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Friend banged up a hoe and now he’s getting fucked over, what do ?Dude if it’s your kid, take care of your kid. The reason there are so many broken men finding red pill is because of an absence of a good male figure in their lives. Don’t repeat the cycle because you don’t love the mom. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 09:25 PM |
| 7 | Friend banged up a hoe and now he’s getting fucked over, what do ?Excellent breakdown here. Pitch-perfect. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | If you want to extend the life of your plates, do these two VERY simple things...Haha the acid is for me and my good time. She just gets to be a part of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/19 03:47 PM |
| 3 | If you want to extend the life of your plates, do these two VERY simple things...Sure. One date might be on a Friday night going to a skating rink. I used to love skating as a kid so I’ll grab dinner with her, bring her along to skate around for a few hours, then take her home to fuck. Another date might be that I want to go to six flags, so I’ll tell the girl to keep her entire Sunday open. I’ll then go grab her, pick up breakfast, take her to the theme park and tell her we’re dropping acid before getting on the rides...then of course, taking her home to fuck. A third examp… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/19 02:28 PM |
| 4 | If you want to extend the life of your plates, do these two VERY simple things...5+ plates is too much. Too much to try to remember about them. Too much to try to keep organized. You can do 5+ if you split visitation to every other week but it’s too much time to spend away from your mission. Personally I keep plates to the weekends and M-Thur focused on me. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/19 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Giving away 'Alpha'I agree with this distinction. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/19 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Giving away 'Alpha'Completely agreed. It's gradualism and refinement. Got to know the fundamentals before you can improvise. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/19 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Giving away 'Alpha'GLO I agree with this graduation of maturity for the most part. However, it's important to recognize that this path to self-discovery and self-actualization is by its nature a journey. I'm 28, found RedPill two years ago after a particularly tough relationship loss, and have only really begun to internalize the concepts through fuck-ups and lessons over the last year or so. For young men that feel lost, unmotivated, passionless, ambiguous in their personal identity, suffer from low self-esteem a… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/19 06:17 PM |
| 31 | Guy from TIFU gets cucked and branch swungJesus. I actually feel bad for women if they have pussy ass dudes like THIS to choose from. Fuck. Sounds like she made the right move. This loser needs to be weeded out of the gene pool. #EvolveOrDie | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 08:14 AM |
| 1 | If girls are highly selective, but are continuously losing value as they age, how can they disengage from relationships with men (casual or LTR) so easily?Appreciate the thorough answer. This was good. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Why does the red pill make me feel so passive?Great advice here 👌🏽 | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 06:44 AM |
| 1 | If girls are highly selective, but are continuously losing value as they age, how can they disengage from relationships with men (casual or LTR) so easily?Interesting. Appreciate your take by the way. What would you say a woman’s needs are as they age? 20s? 30s? 40s? 50s? Etc. Not sure how old you are but curious for your perspective. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Why does the red pill make me feel so passive?Very thorough answer man. Appreciate you. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Why does the red pill make me feel so passive?How long did it take to get that way? | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 02:34 AM |
| 3 | If girls are highly selective, but are continuously losing value as they age, how can they disengage from relationships with men (casual or LTR) so easily?Lmao true story | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 12:14 AM |
| 2 | If girls are highly selective, but are continuously losing value as they age, how can they disengage from relationships with men (casual or LTR) so easily?Facts here. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | If girls are highly selective, but are continuously losing value as they age, how can they disengage from relationships with men (casual or LTR) so easily?Touché. Haven’t seen 30+ but I’ve seen 28-29. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | If girls are highly selective, but are continuously losing value as they age, how can they disengage from relationships with men (casual or LTR) so easily?Sure but they don’t want those guys. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why does the red pill make me feel so passive?This is exactly what I needed to hear dude. Appreciate you. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 05:40 PM |
| 5 | What exactly is it that all these supposed “asshole” boyfriends do to make their girls so fucking mad?Good breakdown. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | This is the real world; don't you ever forget itEh. Such is life dude. It’s not like in the movies. For all you know, he might be dicking her down every night he’s home and she’s infatuated by him. She accuses him of cheating because she knows other women would fall for him the same way that she did. Dudes that cheat like that tend to be Uber confident BECAUSE they don’t give af about the consequences and women are attracted to it. Although I disagree with it, cheating without giving it a second thought is VERY alpha. Lying about it is beta. … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/19 02:12 PM |
| 20 | This is the real world; don't you ever forget itI hear a bit of jealousy. The guys handsome but he cheats in almost every relationship and he’s cheating in this one too! Who gives af? It sounds like he gets hoes easily and you don’t, so his willful disregard of their feelings (I.e. cheating) is deeply upsetting to you. Let him live. Move out. Get your own hoes. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/19 01:21 PM |
| 15 | This is the real world; don't you ever forget itWho gives af? It’s not your relationship. Let the wife be a big girl and divorce him. She’s not dumb, she probably knows, she just doesn’t care because she’s probably VERY attracted to him. And that willful ignorance is on her. Can’t save them all bro, nor should you. That’s beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/19 01:17 PM |
| 5 | This is the real world; don't you ever forget itDoubtful. She’s 6 months pregnant. Probably no randos unless she’s having an affair. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/19 01:15 PM |
| 7 | GF refused to kiss me in public twice. I got mad and didn’t talk to her the whole way home. As soon as we got home, she tried talking to me and I refused to say anything. She then left my house “if you are not gonna talk to me I’m leaving”, she said! Should I even attempt reaching out or no?Hard but fair. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 07:58 AM |
| 2 | GF refused to kiss me in public twice. I got mad and didn’t talk to her the whole way home. As soon as we got home, she tried talking to me and I refused to say anything. She then left my house “if you are not gonna talk to me I’m leaving”, she said! Should I even attempt reaching out or no?Agreed. I used to do the same shit when I got mad because I couldn’t formulate my thoughts well and I was worried I’d say something really fucked up. That’s where frame comes in. You relax, take a deep breath, and keep your hands on the wheel of your mind. Can’t shut down though. When in doubt, keep it real and blunt if necessary and let the chips fall where they may. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 07:58 AM |
| 2 | GF refused to kiss me in public twice. I got mad and didn’t talk to her the whole way home. As soon as we got home, she tried talking to me and I refused to say anything. She then left my house “if you are not gonna talk to me I’m leaving”, she said! Should I even attempt reaching out or no?So true about the apologizing. It won’t do anything but cause her to lose respect, unfortunately. Admit when you’re wrong but maintain the higher ground (“I was upset and I overreacted” vs “I overreacted, I’m sorry”). The difference is slight but one maintains maturity and control while the other yields it. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys get laid so much?Keep up with your appearance, have interesting hobbies that you take seriously, dedicate yourself to your passion/work, be financially successful and responsible, develop a deep and grounded sense of confidence, go out socially, talk to women, express your interest, escalate, invite them back to your place, insert your penis into her vagina. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:34 PM |
| 3 | How to get out of the way of my own ego?Dude...I’m gonna go against popular opinion here but who gives af about her “rebellious” past? EVERY girl goes through a hoe phase. Typically around 18-24. If a girl tells you she hasn’t she’s lying. With that said, judge her based on YALLS relationship. If she’s cool, feminine, beautiful, and you feel like you can trust her then just vibe dude and enjoy it. If you see personality flaws, THOSE are red flags. If she’s got a bad relationship with her Dad, that’s a red flag. If she sucks at communi… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How to not hate a girl(LTR) that punishes you when you are "down" ?Break up with her. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Blocking a girl, a sign of weakness or lack of control?Blocking a girl is some beta shit unless she won’t stop blowing your phone up. That’s it. If you’re having a hard time not reaching out, you need to game other girls. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Crushed over being rejected twice in a row at a club, how can I overcome this so I don't give up on approachingYour self esteem is weak. Work on this. Be more independent in general. It’ll make you more confident and you won’t think twice if a girl rejects you, flakes, or falls off. It’s like airballing in basketball. It’s embarrassing for a split second, but you walk it off play through. You’ll hit the next one. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Why do women aim to make their bf more beta? Isn't this self destructive/counterintuitive?It’s about power. They want it. And to shittests are a way to gain it. However, they don’t want to lead so it’s ultimately a vetting process before they get bored/turned off and drop you. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Wife of 7 years called me with his ex's name during sex.Also, dude...you can’t just pick apart my reasoning without providing your own. Make an argument, express your opinion on the matter. If you can’t, your thoughts are irrelevant and unhelpful to the OP. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Wife of 7 years called me with his ex's name during sex.Oh for sure, it’s incredibly disrespectful and humiliating but it’s also a slip-of-the-tongue at the end of the day. That’s not why you get a divorce. You get a divorce when you recognize your wife doesn’t love you anymore (cheating, not attracted to you, etc.). In all reality she’s probably losing (lost) attraction and is thinking about her ex because she’s bored of sex with the OP and is just trying to get through it. That’s the problem with marriage, the shit gets stale. At that point, he nee… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Wife of 7 years called me with his ex's name during sex.Being pragmatic here. Realistically buddy might not want to blow up his marriage when there’s kids involved over something like this. It’s easy to say “DIVORCE THAT BITCH” when it’s not your marriage. If it were me, I wouldn’t have married the 6 in the first place, and would be considering divorce if that happened. However, I’m not married and don’t have kids, so I’m saying that from a perspective of ignorance on the realities of that position. TLDR: Try to empathize. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 08:19 PM |
| -2 | Wife of 7 years called me with his ex's name during sex.Talk to her about it. Analyze her response with scrutiny. If she slipped up and said an exes name during sex, she thinks about the dude more than you know. Doesn’t mean she will leave you to be with him, but it does mean that in that moment, he had her full attention. Not you, her husband. If she’s a good wife aside from that, don’t bring it up again but watch her actions carefully. No use being with a woman who doesn’t love you, kids or not. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 04:59 PM |
| 3 | how do you guys carry yourself?Like I’ve got a giant pair of balls between my legs, because I don’t. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 09:04 AM |
| 12 | People who daygame, when you see a pretty girl on the street what do you say?“Hey I saw you from across the street/walking by/sitting on this bench, and I wanted to come over and introduce myself, ‘hi I’m [name]” wait for her to introduce herself “Nice to meet you. I gotta run/I’m on my way to X/I’m in the middle of blah, but if you’re free sometime this/next week, I’d love to take you out for a drink.” if she says yes “Cool, what’s your number? get the number Alright I’m gonna head back but it was nice to meet you.” if she says no or “I have a boyfriend” “Got you, no wo… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 04:08 AM |
| 64 | Former "catholic" girl boasts cucking her husbandDoesn’t matter what women do, just don’t be the cuck standing with his dick in his hand when the music turns off. Smh. Choose wisely fellas and don’t put up with the bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/19 02:25 PM |
| 5 | what are the benefits of meditation?All the upvotes. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 10:29 PM |
| 8 | Covert signals from ex.I’d say 99% of the time this behavior is merely attention seeking. There are RARELY real (substantial) feelings behind it so try not to take the bait, she’s just toying with you because she’s bored. This happened to me recently and I took the bait, bad move on my part but you learn. In the future just throw the ball in her court and tell her to hit you up next times she’s in the area. If she does, no dates, no drinks, just tell her to come over and hit the Netflix and chill. The best thing you c… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 08:27 AM |
| 1 | From 80% Success Rate To 0% - No Second DatesThis. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Wedding “date” with female coworker? Both in LTR’s?She was into you. If would’ve made a move personally if I was attracted to her and not too serious about my LTR. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Is it normal to go through swings of big ups and downs when your on your journey of self improvement and becoming the best man you can be ?Needed to see this question asked and answered. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 01:32 PM |
| 3 | How do I get some fucking direction in my life?!So glad I found this. Currently spending a Saturday just trying to figure this question out for myself before I take another step in the wrong direction. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 01:39 AM |
| 6 | If a girl tries to change your date plan and you don't bite, do you still meet with her later or is the entire evening off?Dude...just have her come over. Who gives af is she’s out with friends? Go out with yours. Your goal is to fuck, not have a romantic date. Save your money, spend time with your boys or doing something productive, and rest easy that you have pussy set up to come to YOU. If she flakes put the ball in her court and be done. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 04:04 PM |
| 16 | Just a Quick Field Report of Screening at nightDude I’m very curious to see what a 3rd party’s perspective on this is. All this sounds creepy af. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/19 03:58 PM |
| 8 | A year of false friendship has broken me but will result in me being better than ever.1) You don’t date strippers. Their entire profession is built on finessing men that can’t get laid. You fuck them and give them the absolute minimum of nonsexual attention. 2) The girl is a thot and was using you as beta bucks. You should’ve stopped hanging out with her once she stopped being interested in you sexually. Sounds like you were pushing for a relationship with your actions and she got bored. Again, this is why you don’t take a thot on a date. 3) Your friend ain’t shit. Why does he ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantWell that depends on what whether you know what you’re doing. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 01:40 PM |
| 7 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantRead make fashion magazines (esquire, gq, etc.) and look at their style. Eventually you’ll get a feeling for what looks good and what your style is. Hit the gym and learn the basics of nutrition and weightlifting. Tailor a routine that works for you and get in there 3-4 days a week. Read red pill and other self improvement books to give you the initial confidence that you somewhat know what you’re doing and approach the girls who give you choosing signs. You will likely never see them again and … | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 04:34 AM |
| 2 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantTime is relative. Spending a year to get the body you want for a decade or more of higher SMV is a worthy sacrifice. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Girl told me she wants to see me but not have sex.Women don’t give af about your feelings. They will ALWAYS put their needs first. Remember that. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 12:53 AM |
| 2 | “Do you have other hoes?” She asks. Shit stumps me every timeThat’s a good one | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 12:49 AM |
| 5 | “Do you have other hoes?” She asks. Shit stumps me every time“Hey, don’t call them hoes. What are you gonna say when you meet them in person?” | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 12:49 AM |
| 3 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantAgreed but those skills are learnable. You’re just starting from behind the curve. Take on Nofap during your self improvement binge and the rest will come easy. You’ll create real urgency to getting your shit together and getting more women because you won’t have any other outlet for a release. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantThis | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 10:07 PM |
| 0 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantDude that’s where I’m at. I hit a point where I was fucking with 6s and 7s I wasn’t into. Every time we went out I was looking at other girls because I knew I could be doing better if worked on my approach and close game. Got off dating apps and now I’m only fucking girls I meet in real life that show interest. It’s tough but it definitely teaches you self-reliance and to be proactive in approaching. Couple that with Nofap where you’ve got no outlet and you’re golden. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantFactory. You can’t play in the minors forever just because you’re afraid to be a rookie in the majors. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantNot difficult just time-consuming. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 07:21 PM |
| 2 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantYou’re already not fucking that hot girl. You’re at zero. Outcome independence is recognizing you aren’t losing anything from not fucking her. You’re still whole and have whatever 4s, 5s you’re already fucking for sustenance. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 07:20 PM |
| 16 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantThis guy gets it. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. Hit the gym, work on your fashion, and approach upper tier girls that give you choosing signals. Do this enough and you’ll learn how to handle yourself around high SMV women. (Still working on this myself actually) | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 07:17 PM |
| 8 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantYup. Raise your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Would you fuck a 4?No. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Women can be as desperate as Men.Sounds to me like “Judy” has some FIRE head. Really got poor Jim pussy whipped. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/19 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Lessons from Last Night: Don’t Get Married Young, Close as Early as Possible, and Don’t Go Out with Female Friends of a Lower SMV...I’ll Explain.Couple things here... 1) I didn’t say make SMV was based on looks. 2) Even still, women will judge men based on their looks, fashion, and frame before that guy ever says a word. Looks matter until women get the full picture. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Lessons from Last Night: Don’t Get Married Young, Close as Early as Possible, and Don’t Go Out with Female Friends of a Lower SMV...I’ll Explain.You didn’t read this whole thing. If you did, you would’ve seen that I mentioned men CAN get married, they just need to choose their wives wisely. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/19 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Men of AskTRP, can we PLEASE stop calling these women whores and bitches just because you aren’t getting laid?Lmao | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Men of AskTRP, can we PLEASE stop calling these women whores and bitches just because you aren’t getting laid?What’s so ingrained? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Men of AskTRP, can we PLEASE stop calling these women whores and bitches just because you aren’t getting laid?I feel that. I’ll still use thot, bitches, and hoes ironically (i.e. “these bitches are TOUCH-EE”) if I’m making fun of some new modern feminist flag-waving BUT I’ve definitely been seeing some unironic and clear misogyny in here as of late. And I think we can do better than that. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Men of AskTRP, can we PLEASE stop calling these women whores and bitches just because you aren’t getting laid?I am, but isn’t the whole point of this thread to offer support and guidance to men who need to learn the way of the “real world?” | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Men of AskTRP, can we PLEASE stop calling these women whores and bitches just because you aren’t getting laid?Lmao | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Men of AskTRP, can we PLEASE stop calling these women whores and bitches just because you aren’t getting laid?I get it, and went through it. But we as men need to work through that shit sooner rather than later. And encouraging that shit with “YEAH FUCK THOSE DUMB ASS BITCHES LULZ!” is just dumb. We gotta guide and support the development of stronger men. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Dumped Me for Her ExRight? I feel like 80% of the dudes in here aren’t getting pussy and are so sexually frustrated they’re taking out their self-hatred on others. They’re really just mad at themselves and seeing their failures in others. Happy men are optimistic ones. They don’t shit on others to feel good. That’s what sadists do. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 07:31 PM |
| 8 | Dumped Me for Her ExI was with you here until “licking semen.” | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 07:27 PM |
| 6 | Dumped Me for Her ExI forgot a caveat here though: Only do this to girls that broke up with you, tried to string you along without committing, ghosted you, or otherwise lost interest. If a girl hits you up out of the blue and YOU were the one that fell off, her feelings never left, so you can assume they’re still genuine. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Lessons from Last Night: Don’t Get Married Young, Close as Early as Possible, and Don’t Go Out with Female Friends of a Lower SMV...I’ll Explain.You don’t believe there are traditionally feminine women out there? Heck, even a woman with a lower SMV than you will suck and fuck just because of your higher value. I disagree with this because I’ve met some good women out there. Now, that said, you still need to be on your shit and hypergamy will ALWAYS apply but that would imply you’re a GOOD MAN worth holding onto. Which you should always be. Hypergamy isn’t inherently wrong, it just is what it is, which is basic female nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/19 06:46 PM |
| 24 | Dumped Me for Her ExThis. It can feel difficult to outright ignore a girl you used to care about, but trust me, these girls aren’t hitting you up with the best intentions. 99% of the time, they’re bored, recently single, frustrated in their relationships, or just in need of some attention, and they’ll use you to get it, then fall off the face of the Earth once they do. Every time you text/call them back, it tells them they can still have you when they want you—and they’ve got the confidence to look elsewhere becaus… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Lessons from Last Night: Don’t Get Married Young, Close as Early as Possible, and Don’t Go Out with Female Friends of a Lower SMV...I’ll Explain.The chances of you being a 10 and not a celebrity of known model are very slim as a man. However, you would hang with 8s-10s. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How do y'all get Blue Pill shit out of your system?This. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 05:04 PM |
| 0 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?That’s a fair point, too. But she might just be dumb or think he’s that naive and a good ol fashioned g-check will nip that shit in the bud real quick. You don’t have the throw the relationship away but definitely correct bad behavior with a firm hand and be able to walk away from things you don’t like. I’d advise talking to her before the hard next, but backing out of exclusivity and expecting to plate her is a tough sell. She’s gonna view that as a break up and head straight to the ex. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 02:00 AM |
| 3 | How to game feminine woman?Sadly smh | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 12:33 AM |
| 2 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?Goddamn these commenters are savages. Can y’all just offer advice without clowning the man? Dude, your girl is still interested in this guy. The issue here is that she shouldn’t be. YOUR her man. Why is she revisiting old flames? Particularly when they were the ones that walked. Here’s your response: “It sounds like you aren’t over this dude. Which is fine but if that’s the case what we have is done. So, you need to decide if you can let this guy go and move on, or if it’s worth revisiting.” In … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Lonely being an alpha?Eh. I agree in principle but people are wolves. They’re people. Just be a decent person and be friendly. Sure you’re going to be alone sometimes because you need solitude to focus and get things done, BUT, that doesn’t mean alone ALL the time. Red Pill is real af but talking about this shit like we’re pack animals is getting way to pseudo scientific. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 12:06 AM |
| 9 | Lessons from Last Night: Don’t Get Married Young, Close as Early as Possible, and Don’t Go Out with Female Friends of a Lower SMV...I’ll Explain.What’s your perceived SMV compared to hers? I feel like a standard deviation of 1.5 is fine but any more than that is weird. For example: You’re an 8 and the girl is a 6.5. Not ideal but it’s alright. Also how much older was the woman? If she’s a 6.5 but basically a milf, you won’t lose in SMV because it’s clear y’all aren’t together. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/19 11:54 PM |
| 71 | Lessons from Last Night: Don’t Get Married Young, Close as Early as Possible, and Don’t Go Out with Female Friends of a Lower SMV...I’ll Explain.Only girls and betas settle. If it ain’t right, don’t get married. Throw kids in the mix and your outright FUCKED if you pick the wrong woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/19 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Confidence blow after girl called my penis "really small" Advice, tips?Fuck smaller girls. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 06:04 AM |
| 12 | Philosophical question: Why do girls so dramatically overestimate their looks?Facts. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Philosophical question: Why do girls so dramatically overestimate their looks?Fair enough | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys have a base standard for a girl you’ll fuck? For example, only HB8+s.I feel this. However, I think a key concern here is time. Why put time (even just the time it takes to have sex) into a girl you wouldn’t be seen with in public? Those circumstances are fine for a one night stand but keeping anything below your standards as a plate without putting in the effort to replace her feels lazy. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 04:31 PM |
| 15 | Conflicted about game advice. Getting mixed inputHere’s the reality: You have to fine tune your own system based on your output. His output: If he’s 6’6, outwardly confident, handsome, well dressed, has a good job, smiles a lot, etc. girls will be attracted to him because of his height (biological pre-selection), and if he can hold a conversation and be funny, it’s a lay up. He has value. And when you have inherent value because of your external and internal attributes, you DO (I repeat, YOU DO) have room to fuck up. Girls won’t see the occasi… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Man why the fuck i cant cum?!?!Do you cum from masturbation? If so, yes. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 07:52 AM |
| 0 | Man why the fuck i cant cum?!?!Lol yet here we are. Continue nofap in the meantime | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys have a base standard for a girl you’ll fuck? For example, only HB8+s.Only reasonable | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys have a base standard for a girl you’ll fuck? For example, only HB8+s.Haha I like this guy ^ | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 01:46 AM |
| 0 | Man why the fuck i cant cum?!?!Look up medication that enhances pleasure. Not sure it exists but I’m sure something does. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 01:44 AM |
| 8 | How to maintain initial attraction? Girls are always initially extremely attracted to me then lose all interest after the first dateI don’t know what you’re doing either but from the energy of your post, try to be a bit calmer. Go out to hang out, get to know the girl, and enjoy yourself. Also, girls are pretty inconsistent. A girl will give you her number in the club (unprompted) and give you the ghost when you reach out. It happens, sometimes girls are just taking numbers. Don’t sweat it. Just keep dating and working on yourself. Also (and I deal with this too) try not to create that narrative of “this always happens to me… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 12:49 AM |
| 0 | Man why the fuck i cant cum?!?!Some people are genetically less sensitive than others. Try fucking raw if you trust her and be sure to pull out. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys have a base standard for a girl you’ll fuck? For example, only HB8+s.But alas that’s a difficult find | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys have a base standard for a girl you’ll fuck? For example, only HB8+s.Sure, but that’s why I’m asking based on YOUR standards. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 08:57 PM |
| 18 | Young guy, no sexual desire, someone give me some insightI think that’s a stretch. He’s just depressed is what it sounds like. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else find themselves looking up to older alphas as mentors or older brother figures?True still | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else find themselves looking up to older alphas as mentors or older brother figures?Fair point, but at some point you've got to become the teacher which means venturing out, fucking up, and gaining wisdom to pass on to the next generation. Can't be a student forever, right? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 08:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys respond when a woman sends you a nude?Respect. Failing is a bitch but it’s the quickest way to learn. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 02:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys respond when a woman sends you a nude?Appreciate the wisdom. Where’d you pick up most of your knowledge? 🙏🏽 | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 11:41 PM |
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