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| 1 | How picky do you think you would be if you were an attractive woman?How do you go about "filtering" these unwanted traits? Do you just ask a lot of questions or what? Pretty sure lot of those things can be hidden for a long time and it's unlikely you would be able to find out. For example I have been blindsided by someone's mental illness diagnosis after having known them for years. Some things can't be "filtered" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 06:23 AM |
| 8 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.I am a single woman and don't do any of that stuff. Many of us have what's called responsive desire instead of spontaneous desire. Meaning we would need to be stimulated into desiring physical intimacy, it's not constantly there for us the way it is for men. (exceptions apply obviously) For me, if there is no man in my life I don't really have an issue with urges. The only exception is a few days a month (probably when I'm ovulating) but even then I can ignore pretty easily and it doesn't affect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 10:00 PM |
| 12 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.This is the most ridiculous take. In order to qualify as an attractive woman, you have to win the genetic lottery FIRST. women who are born with unattractive features are doomed from the start. No amount of makeup, grooming or staying in shape is going to fix a girl who has an asymmetrical face, large jaw and nose, low cheekbones, narrow hips and lack of curves, etc. The only hope for them to become conventionally attractive is maybe plastic surgery, but if they can't afford it then they are bas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Whats your score on the Female Delusion Calculator?I got a 15% apparently I'm down to earth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | The way men get porn brain, can women get “attractive guy they had sex with” brain when it comes to sex with future partners?sleeping with an attractive man is not a product that can be "consumed" the way p0rn is. I think a better analogy would be the effects of reading erotic romance novels (women's version of p0rn basically) on women. I think it's destructive for the female brain. Not sure if it's as bad as p0rn addiction but it's definitely not healthy. Imo it causes a lot of women to have crazy expectations from their male partners. The hunks in those romance novels somehow always know what to do to make the woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Do women typically become more desperate and insecure than men when they're single?I think as women grow older and their fertility window gets narrower, they become more insecure and desperate. A woman may settle in her 30s for a man who's not quite what she wanted, because her time is running out and she wants to hit the milestones of marriage and motherhood before it's too late. I think if the woman is still in her 20s and at least fairly attractive, she will be less desperate for a relationship because she may feel she still has time. This is highly dependent on culture tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:18 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Most Women wouldnt reject Mr Perfect just because he has a high bodycount, most Men on the other side would easily reject Mrs Perfect if she has a high bodycount.That doesn't make sense. What exactly are you "observing" for? You can't really tell someone has a high n-count if they are trying to hide it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineHow are you red pill but dating the kind of woman that red pill teaches you to avoid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineRegarding single moms, does it not make any difference to you if the woman was previously married? Maybe she is divorced or widowed. Having children in a legitimate marriage is different than getting knocked up by Chad after an ONS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?This!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:33 AM |
| 10 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?I am a woman. The only time I notice men's bodies is when I'm ovulating. The rest of the time, I literally don't care how men look. Tbh, most men are basically invisible to me until I get to know them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:30 AM |
| 3 | How can we fundamentally transform our understanding of masculinity to cultivate healthy and positive expressions of manhood, while dismantling the toxic beliefs and behaviors that often contribute to misogyny and the devaluation of women?Why can't men be strong, stoic and masculine without becoming misogynists or losing their kindness? Why does it have to be so black and white? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:28 AM |
| 10 | Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else?High earning man is more likely to pair up with a sophisticated 30 yr old woman from an upper class background rather than a 25 yr old from middle or low class who has an onlyfans. Rich men are very conscious about their image, they would never marry a woman who embarrasses them even if she is younger/more attractive. In all likelihood that girl with the OF would end up being a mistress | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)If he's gross and unappealing with no redeeming qualities other than being insanely rich, then yes he can still get women. Do you think rich old geezers are any woman's fantasy? And yet they always have a pretty young thing on their arm. If the price is right there is a woman willing to be with you. Kinda like how if a woman is hot, she will be able to get a man to commit even if she's crazy or has a trash personality. Some man somewhere will still wife her up. But generally, a short man would h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)The existence of beta bux proves you wrong. (i don't believe in trp theories hut for the sake of argument let's assume it's true) Men are obviously not automatically ruled out by women for being short or unattractive as you originally stated. They are ruled out if they are short, ugly and have NOTHING to offer the women. If they had something to offer, their height or ugliness wouldn't prevent them from finding a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 11:02 PM |
| 7 | The issue is not dying alone, but spending most of your life aloneThis is a salient point. Social bonds are not limited to romantic relationships only. Men are definitely the ones who are actually more likely to die alone without partners because of what you stated. Interesting how this is never acknowledged by RP types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 10:17 PM |
| 2 | The issue is not dying alone, but spending most of your life aloneI think if your options are a be in a miserable relationship with someone you aren't attracted to and don't love vs. being single but lonely, the second option is better. In both cases you are lonely but at least when you're single you are not with someone who makes your life unbearable. The next best option, if available, is being with someone who you enjoy being around and who improves your life the the point that it's better to be with them (regardless of their flaws and issues in the relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Then explain how there are short, bald, and ugly dudes who are in relationships and marriages? Do you not understand that if a man has many qualities of a good partner, women will overlook his imperfections? If he is overall a 9/10 in terms of what she wants in a partner, then it won't matter if he is short or bald. Women are not going to throw away an amazing guy just because he is less than 6ft tall or doesn't have a six pack. What planet are you living on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 09:40 PM |
| 3 | There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive womenAlso, attractive women put in a lot of effort to be attractive. They watch their diet, exercise regularly, take good care of their hair, skin, nails, makeup, get waxes and facials, dress fashionably, etc. It is EXPENSIVE to maintain your looks as a woman and requires a lot of time and effort. Why would a woman who is putting this level of effort into herself, settle for a mediocre man who's only doing the bare minimum or less? She is beautiful and therefore has a lot of value to offer in the dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | There is no easy way to get women other than going after very unattractive womenIn my opinion it is less masculine to be constantly concerned with women. Nothing is more masculine than a man who truly does not give a **** about what women thinks of him and is just living his life and minding his business. And not allowing the existence of pussy to control his behavior and happiness. I'm a woman and I agree with this. The guys I am the most attracted to are the ones who were self disciplined, busy achieving their life goals, had hobbies, good relationships with friends/famil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?💯💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 08:38 PM |
| 6 | why so many redpills are atheists?From my understanding Islam forces men to provide for everything. Women don't have to work at all, if a man wants to marry a woman he has to pay her (like a drowy but given to her instead of her family) and then support her for the rest of their marriage. I don't know if there is a dowry in Christianity or not, but Christian men have to provide too, and are taught to love their wives as Jesus loved the church. According to this, a traditional Christian or Muslim guy would be the ultimate beta in… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Women, what is your opinion on domenstic violence towards men?I think men are silent victims. Men are seen as stronger than women and society will not take a man seriously if he claims he is being abused by his wife. So they just suffer in silence. One important difference is that generally, women are not strong enough to actually cause severe physical harm to their husbands. In the opposite situation when men are the abusers, they can and often do kill their wives or seriously injure them. However when men are victims of abuse at the hands of a woman, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 03:56 AM |
| 3 | I am in a normal relationship and it’s a world of difference.100%. My toxic ex was extremely charming and sweet when I met him. Once I became comfortable with him he started making the backhanded compliments and snide comments disguised as "jokes". He slowly became less kind, less thoughtful, and would ignore me for days on end or get upset at me for little things. Luckily, I left before it progressed to the point of outright abuse. Men like this never abuse you right away. They trickle down their abuse. This is why it's SO important to pay attention to t… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 02:48 AM |
| 3 | I am in a normal relationship and it’s a world of difference.Aw I'm so happy for you got away from that ex. Your current man sounds wonderful. That kind, playful yet dominant masculinity you described is EXACTLY what I look for in men. So nice to hear that those kind of guys exist! | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 02:41 AM |
| 15 | why so many redpills are atheists?I think it's hilarious that anyone can be RP but also religious. Both Islam and Christianity consider fornication as a sin. And yet RP encourages men to sleep around and "spin plates." You can't claim to be religious/traditional while simultaneously preaching degeneracy. Pick a lane. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Define undateablePersonality - poor character, abusive, low emotional intelligence, misogynistic, anger issues, extreme insecurity, unresolved trauma, unintelligent, poor communication skills, lack of initiative, pushover/people pleaser, lazy Looks - overweight, lack of hygiene & grooming (doesn't shower everyday, doesn't brush teeth twice a day, dirty clothes, smells bad, DOESN'T WASH HIS PRIVATES🤮, unkempt, matted/greasy hair), very high pitched voice, overly feminine appearance (makeup, cross dressing, etc) C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 01:10 AM |
| 2 | How would Women feel about a man who wears Make Up / Enhancements.I would agree that insecurity is definitely one of the reasons women do it (not necessarily the only reason however) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How would Women feel about a man who wears Make Up / Enhancements.I am not attracted to women so I don't care what they do to enhance their appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:50 AM |
| 1 | are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women?The only time I really notice how men look is when I'm ovulating. Otherwise their looks don't do much for me. Once the bare minimum of being hygienic and at least average looking is met, I focus more on behavior, demeanor, character and how he makes me feel. I have been wildly attracted to very average looking men. Men assume that we are as visual as they are. We're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How would Women feel about a man who wears Make Up / Enhancements.Sorry but if a man wears makeup I will judge him so hard. Extra stuff like muscle suit is just... No. It screams insecurity and that's one of the most unattractive traits a man can have. I would rather have a bald man who is confident in himself than an insecure man who wears a toupee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point?Never done that before and never will. I'm not built for it🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:55 PM |
| 2 | What are the traits of a Stacey ?Why are men attracted to these types of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point?approaching through friends or family is the best compromise imo. I'm sure men are afraid of rejection too. It's emotionally painful and socially embarrassing regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 02:14 AM |
| -3 | Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point?No way! I don't want to approach men. I don't handle rejection well. But also I've had some bad experiences with men who approached me. Some were very pushy or were straight up sexual harassers. Because of this I'm not comfortable with being approached directly anymore, there's just no way to know if he's a normal guy or a dangerous creep. I would prefer men approach me indirectly, through friends or family member. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 02:03 AM |
| 5 | Do women care about a man’s sexual past?Depends on the woman. I personally would judge a man harshly for having a lot of previous partners. I think it speaks to a lack of sexual discipline. Also, I don't want a man who is so comfortable using women for their bodies. I would question whether he is able to see women as anything other than sex objects. I would also question his priorities in life. Why is he sleeping around so much? Why doesn't he use that time for something better? As the saying goes, a man who lacks purpose distracts hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Nevermind red flags, what's your biggest yellow flag?Why didn't you want to date a woman with that hobby? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How do attractive women pick a man to commit to?She will probably try to get the man who can best meet her emotional & physical needs AND checks off as many of her superficial criteria as possible. Because she can afford to be picky. For example a beautiful woman may desire a confident man who is attentive and understands her, but is also tall, rich, well-connected and educated. She won't settle for a good man who makes 50k a year when she can get a great man who makes 500k. Attractive women are aware of their attractiveness and will leverage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals?Can you link that thread? It sounds insane that anyone would actually admit to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?Yes definitely. There needs to be balance. Not too nice, not too mean. Overly aggressive, tyrannical guys are not attractive and will push most women away, except for the really low self-esteem ones. I find that most men are either one extreme or another. Some of them can't comprehend that there is a middle ground between doormat and abuser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | What redpill “truths” have you seen disproven or at least seen an exception to?Yes. TRP teaches men to use tactics such as hot/cold behavior, exploiting your SO's insecurities, purposely talking to other women to make your SO feel like she can be easily replaced, strategically withdrawing affection to make her chase you, etc. All of these things amount to emotional abuse and cause a lot of inner turmoil for the woman. The whole point is to cause her so much stress, anxiety, and insecurity that she believes nobody else will want her and therefore doesn't even try to leave y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 03:23 PM |
| 4 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?is the doormat better than the asshole? And when I say asshole, I mean a toxic, manipulative guy. Or is the asshole better? 1) I think the doormat is usually a better person in terms of morals and values. But because of his lack of assertiveness, he is seen as weak, and thus not respected by women. Because women don't respect him, they aren't attracted to him. This is why he fails in dating, even if he's a good person. But the a-hole is assertive and strong-willed, therefore he is more respected… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?My guess is that women tolerate these guys (because of their other good qualities such as wealth or looks) but I highly, highly doubt that they are truly attracted to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 02:48 PM |
| 0 | The redpill isn't about harming women - it's about saving men from being taken advantage of.If TRP is just protecting men then FDS is just protecting women. Both are toxic. A healthy, well-adjusted person should not need these extreme ideologies to guide their interactions with the opposite sex. If you follow an ideology that literally dehumanizes the opposite sex, there is no way you can have healthy or fulfilling relationships with them. People who take this stuff seriously are preventing themselves from actually forming lasting connections because of their paranoia and suspicion. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:15 PM |
| 45 | What redpill “truths” have you seen disproven or at least seen an exception to?The idea that women need to be emotionally broken down to prevent them from "monkey-branching" to another man. If you have to emotionally abuse your woman to keep her around, you've lost the plot my guy. The funny thing is, RP tactics only work on a subset of emotionally unhealthy (or straight up crazy) women. At best, they guarantee that you will end up in a toxic relationship with a toxic woman. At worst you will push away a good woman. High quality women with self respect will leave you if yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:03 PM |
| 4 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?Men use this strategy too. The Madonna/wh*re complex is the male version of it. Men sleep around with women who are their true sexual preferences (while denying those women the commitment they desperately want). When they're finally ready to settle down, they give their commitment to a woman who is not their sexual preference but has motherly/wifey traits. Men settle for less desirable wives the same way women settle for "beta" husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:47 PM |
| 30 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?Woman here. I don't like "nice" men because in my experience, most of the time they are submissive, cowardly, and unable to assert themselves. The nice guys I know tend to be people pleasers who have no backbone, they compromise their values easily to appease women and they have no leadership skills. Sure they are polite, well mannered and unproblematic. But I can't be attracted to them because I don't respect them. If a woman does not respect you, no amount of "niceness" will be make up for it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Women who have dated or is dating a man who have claimed to RP what were the Red Flags and negative traits that you found in him and have you ever spoken to them about it?The man I was with did not outright say he was RP but he did all of the RP "tactics" which amounted to emotional abuse and eventually destroyed the relationship. His red flags were: covert misogyny (snide comments about how most women are xyz but I'm so different and special) backhanded compliments aka negging triangulation (with my own friend) cycles of hot and cold behavior. Blowing up my phone one day and then completely ignoring me for the next several days picking on my insecurities subtly … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/22 08:40 PM |
| -1 | Dating would be a lot more easier for both sexes if most women made the first moves.That sounds like a case of really bad self esteem though. I don't get why men would choose to settle when their value is somewhat under their control? A man can improve his looks, income, education level, and social skills to attract better mates. Even if he's short but has a lot of other things going for him, he can still be really successful in relationships. For example my friend (who is very pretty, slim, sweet, and has a low n count) is dating a guy who is like 5'7ish but is educated, makes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10?I would want someone who is at least a 7 or 8 out of 10 in my eyes (highly subjective btw). This means I am physically attracted to him, I get along with him, he treats me very well, I feel safe, understood, and loved by him, he is smart, strong-willed, responsible, & emotionally intelligent, and we share core values and expectations. A total 10/10 would be someone who has all the above traits but is also very tall, wealthy, really fit, comes from a great family, highly educated, and shares my e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Dating would be a lot more easier for both sexes if most women made the first moves.Sure that's probably true. But if men don't have options they shouldn't accept a woman who they don't even like or feel attraction for, just because she asked him out and the alternative is staying single. An unsatisfying relationship with a woman you don't like or you're not attracted to.... Please explain how that is better than being single? That sounds miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:58 PM |
| 6 | What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHow insecure men are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Dating would be a lot more easier for both sexes if most women made the first moves.I agree. The type of man who needs to be approached first and led into a relationship is a weak man. He has a lack of initiative which is a total attraction killer for me. I don't want to have to lead him into a relationship and do all of the work to maintain the relationship too. I don't want to be in a masculine role while he assumes a feminine role. That's backwards and gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:40 PM |
| 0 | Dating would be a lot more easier for both sexes if most women made the first moves.I don't think women should make the first move because there's a good chance that the guy will say yes without really liking her. No girl wants to be accepted because she's a man's only option. I want someone to desire me specifically and choose me over all the other women. I don't want to be a "better than nothing" choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Ways to distinguish pickmes from women with TRP beliefsI think you should see if she will stick to her RP beliefs even if it puts her at a disadvantage socially. For example is she willing to express her views on her personal social media accounts (not anonymous ones like reddit) and how does she respond to backlash? If a group of feminists disparages the RP woman, does she backtrack on her beliefs to appease them or does she stick to her guns? Social acceptance is very important for women so if a woman is willing to risk her social status for a bel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Is women's attraction influenced by other things beside physical attraction, or do women just make exceptions for men with success and money?I'm a woman. For me, attraction is multifaceted. A man has to have the bare minimum of looks (5'7 or taller, in shape, at least average in the face, hygienic). If he's at least average looking then I evaluate what he's doing with his life. What success has he achieved? Does he have a career? Has he met any life goals? Money, education, and career success is often an indicator of a man's intelligence, ambition, and responsibility (but not always). Do I trust his judgment? If he can lead himself t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 12:27 AM |
| 0 | Are most men with women that they are not physically attracted to?Why though? Why are men so quick to settle for women they don't like or aren't attracted to? Why not just embrace the single life and work on themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 11:45 PM |
| 10 | Are Redpill Influencers often like Simps on a Group level?A red pill youtuber named Donovan Sharpe was exposed for being married to a supposedly unattractive "post-wall" woman who was older than him. Prior to being exposed he was preaching all of the typical misogynistic red pill talking points and dehumanizing women who don't fit into red pill standards. Very hypocritical Fresh and Fit host was exposed for actually finding his cute "girlfriend" on Seeking Arrangements but acting like he got her through his own game and red pill tactics. Turns out he w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 02:27 AM |
| 2 | If women generally want the best guys, they should be more willing to accept them having multiple wivesSo true. I would rather have a loyal, average looking guy with good character who makes an average salary and treats me well. Rich and handsome is a bonus but not a necessity. Most guys aren't rich or handsome, let's be honest. Doesn't mean they can't make good partners. Just gotta choose wisely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 11:35 PM |
| 3 | girls nights outs?I would never do such a thing while in a relationship. It's disrespectful and trashy. If it's wrong for a man to go out with his buddies and flirt with strangers, then it's just as wrong for women to do it too. I don't believe in double standards. Any standard I have for a man, I also have for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?An intoxicating combination of confidence, intelligence, kindness and humor has overridden my height preferences in the past. I rarely find guys with this combo of traits so when I do, I find myself becoming quite attracted even if he's shorter than I would normally go for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"?But I think the important part is ending up with someone you’d be fwb with in a scenario where you wanted that Why is this important? You can't choose a life partner with the same criteria that you choose a FWB for. Men are like this too btw. The girl they sleep around with and the girl they marry have different qualities. For women, character and personality are more important than looks when it comes to LTRs, so they prioritize that. It seems like the opposite is true for men. They will have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 02:29 AM |
| 3 | The bar IS in hell for men. But woman choose the barWomen are ungrateful. And I say this as a woman. It's so easy for me to focus on the one or two things a guy isn't doing right than to appreciate all of the things he does do right. I recognized this in myself (and other women) some time ago and now I always make an effort of being vocal about my appreciation for what men do for me. Even if it's something small like buying me a snack. Even if it's something he does regularly like taking out the trash. And especially if it's something rare that h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.If the couple is rich they need to hire a housekeeper and call it a day. Even if they're not super rich they can probably still afford to have someone come in a few times a week to clean. It's stupid to argue over this stuff. I saw a reddit post about a married doctor couple who were fighting over housework. Their combined yearly income was like half a million, and yet it didn't occur to these idiots to just hire a housekeeper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"?Why not? The perfect man doesn't exist. It makes sense to compromise on things that I want but don't necessarily need, instead of compromising on the things I need. Obviously a tall, fit guy who is educated and makes lots of money would be great. But is he also going to have all of the character and personality traits I desire? Probably not. And if he does, he's probably the 0.00001% of guys who do and therfore he has millions of options (cause every other girl wants a man like that), so why wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 06:18 PM |
| 4 | If A Man Can Get A Younger Partner By Dumping His Older One Then He ShouldWomen are picking better. these days women would rather be single than settle for a trashy man. That's why all these red pill fools are crying on social media about how they can't get a woman. Cry me a river | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 08:16 PM |
| 3 | If A Man Can Get A Younger Partner By Dumping His Older One Then He ShouldFalse. Plenty of young women who "gave their best" to a man are still replaced when they get older. A man who sees women as sexual objects is not capable of valuing what a woman did for him. Once she no longer serves a purpose he will get rid of her even if she did all the things red pill claims women should do. It's better to be a cat lady than to end up with scum like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 06:32 PM |
| 3 | If A Man Can Get A Younger Partner By Dumping His Older One Then He ShouldWhat a stupid take. What kind of man would break up his family and hurt the mother of his children just to chase after a younger woman? That begs the question: once the second woman gets "too old" wouldn't she have to be divorced and replaced as well? By your logic a man would have to get a new wife every 10 years because the one he has will keep getting older and thus become useless at one point. What a stupid way to live one's life. A man is absolutely pathetic if the most important thing in h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 06:03 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"?Husband material: shared values/expectations, good character, attractive (to me), compatible personalities. A few other traits I specifically look for are responsibility, kindness, decisiveness, emotional intelligence, and good judgment. Someone with the above qualities is most likely to fulfill my needs which are: to be understood, to be valued, to feel loved, and to be taken care of by someone I am attracted to and respect. My main issue currently is finding someone who has a good balance of s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Why are divorced and widowed men more likely to remarry than divorced and widowed women?If I was a man I would remarry in an instant. Marriage for men means a live-in maid/nanny/cook/administrative assistant who also provides sex. Quality of life instantly improves by like 1000% when a man gets a good wife. Despite our modern times where women have jobs, they STILL do the majority of housework and childcare as shown in numerous studies. So even with a career woman, marriage is still a win for men. That's why divorce hits them so hard. To go from cruising through life to suddenly ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 03:08 PM |
| 6 | What’s your dating advice to the guys on here who can’t get success with women?Don't make women into your life's purpose. Don't put them on a pedestal (no over the top simping just because a girl is mildly cute, respect yourself). But at the same time, don't become bitter and resent women deep down inside. We can tell if you're desperate or bitter and neither are attractive. Be selective about the women you approach. Be willing to walk away from a woman if she crosses your boundaries. These are all attributes of men that women respect. Gaining a woman's respect is half of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | if men have to commit to women to get "wifey" behavior from women (cooking/cleaning nurturing), do women have to earn husband behavior? (financial providing, protection)I think this logic is fair. I don't want to cook or clean for a man until he commits to me (in the form of marriage). He shouldn't have to fund my lifestyle or give me "husband perks" until I commit to him as well. I think men would get more of what they want from women if they did not give away those husband privileges so easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:46 PM |
| 0 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?There is a tall, handsome guy at work. He's not really fit, he has a dad bad and he's bald. He is in a senior position so he makes a ton of money. He is also incredibly smart and easygoing. He's married with a kid but a lot of my female coworkers have crushes on him. I used to gave a crush on him too before I learned he was married. I definitely noticed a change in my behavior when I was around him. When I first started working with him, I was super attracted to him. I found myself acting strang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:43 PM |
| 3 | What even is a "good personality"?I think it's just having basic good manners, emotional intelligence, humor and self confidence. Generally if most people enjoy being around you, then you have a good personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?I don't see myself as an exception because I don't entertain people who don't want me. I never have the mindset of trying to get someone to appreciate me or commit to me. He either wants me or he doesn't. I don't chase men, I choose from the pool of men who are interested in me and go from there. If a man shows that he is not serious about me, I just remove myself. There are so many men out there, why stress about one who didn't give you what you wanted. Women who try to negotiate a man's intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Reasons for ignoring texts or delays in responsesPersonally I respond late because I'm usually busy and I hate spending my free time texting back and forth. I would rather have a phone call or meet up in person. I am like this with family and friends so it's not exclusive to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?No. I love having girls-only get togethers. I can have fun and be myself without stressing about a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 12:10 PM |
| 7 | the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sexFor what it's worth, I'm a woman and these gender debates on reddit have really opened my eyes to the struggles of men in our society. I never realized the amount of BS that men have to deal with. Thanks to men sharing their experiences, I've learned so much and I think this knowledge will help me be a better partner in the future. I think you should keep sharing your experiences so that more women can open their eyes and see our society has over-corrected in trying to create gender equality and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Question for woman: Who is the "highest value man" who has pursued you?The highest value man that ever pursued me was a successful businessman. He was quite wealthy and owned several properties. He was educated, attractive, and taller than me. It didn't work out because I was still getting over a break up at the time, and I didn't think it was fair to get involved with him while I was in that emotional state. I think any woman who ends up with him would be lucky, he had a lot going for him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 67 | Not to take away from what women do, but I do think men do a lot of emotional labor than what’s saidI think men spend a lot of time trying to make women happy. But some women don't perceive that as "work" and think he is expected to do it. And yet the same women would be upset if they were told all the things they do for their husbands and SOs are expected and they shouldn't want appreciation for it. Both are wrong. Human beings male or female desire appreciation for the efforts they make. We should be praising our partners for trying to take care of our needs rather than ignoring their effort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating?Nothing is more of an attraction killer than an emotionally weak man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating?I'm a woman. A male friend once cried hysterically in front of me after he found out his girlfriend had cheated on him (we were just friends and was I not attracted to him to begin with). If I'm being 100% honest I felt disgusted by it. I don't know why. There was some primal part of me that instantly lost respect for him when I saw him in that state. I've never been in a relationship where my SO cried in front of me. I am not one of those girls that encourages men to "open up" and be more vulne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolEven if I couldn't get it, I wouldn't care. Because I'm not interested in it. There is nothing special about knowing that tons of men want to use your body as a c*m dumpster. It's degrading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolSure I can get casual sex in about 10 minutes if I log into Tinder right now. But I'm NOT interested in that. It does not fulfill me in any way shape or form. It would make me feel used like an object. I don't want to be degraded in that way. Why can't you understand that? I am only interested in sex if I have an emotional connection first with a man who I am attracted to and respect. Without those things, sex is absolutely useless to me. I would rather be single than have sex with a random man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man?If she is married for her beauty, doesn't that mean she will be replaced once she loses it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man?How? Beauty is a depreciating asset for women. Even the most beautiful woman will no longer have this "advantage" once they hit middle age. Whereas a handsome man can remain handsome well into his 40s and 50s because male attractiveness is not tied to age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Displaying kindness can be attractive as true benevolence often comes from a position of abundance and confidenceExactly! I want a man who is strong and kind. Someone who is bold and decisive, but still considers my feelings and is gentle with me. I want someone who is patient and loving, but has solid boundaries, does not tolerate disrespect, and goes after what he wants. Unfortunately men these days either have the strength without the kindness so they become abusive jerks OR they're kind but have no backbone/assertiveness so they end up being a doormat. Both extremes are unattractive to me. Strength and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: We always hear about 50/50 vs men paying 100% but what about 80/20?If the woman is taking on 20% of the expenses then the man should take on 20% of the childcare and housework. It's only fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: You’re out with a male friend and your purse gets snatched in a mall, do you expect him to chase after the thief?No. It's not worth his time/effort and the thief could be dangerous. I'd rather he call the authorities and comfort me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 10:54 PM |
| 35 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolThis is so true. I've seen lots of men talk about how women's lives are sooo easy because women can have casual sex whenever they want and without any effort. But I don't want casual sex. I am not interested in it. How is it making my life "so easy" when I don't even care about it?? It's not a benefit for me. What I want is a committed, emotionally satisfying relationship with a man I'm attracted to and respect. This is my #1 desire. Sleeping with random Chads does not fulfill this desire at all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider yourself easy to attract? How easy is it for someone to pull you?I have a hard time being attracted to someone based on looks only. I have bare minimum standards for looks, like have good hygiene, be in shape, wear decent clothes, be taller/stronger than me, don't repulse me. I would say the average guy can easily meet those standards. My issue is looks aren't enough. For me to be sexually/romantically attracted to a man, he has to meet the minimum looks requirement AND have a fascinating personality. I am a sucker for certain qualities like intelligence, con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How to spot good women?OP for what it's worth I see men who follow TRP as giant red flags now and I eliminate them from the very beginning. I learned how toxic these red pill guys are after dating one of them and being treated like utter garbage. I don't think any man can have those rp views without becoming a woman-hating abuser or at least internalizing those toxic views. TRP teaches you to blame all women for your problems and it encourages you to manipulate women, disrespect them, and use them for their bodies. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How to spot good women?Find someone who you are attracted to and genuinely interested in as a person. From there, make sure she is attracted to you as well, has good character, is feminine, self-aware, can communicate clearly, has a basic understanding of how men think, and is willing to put in effort to meet your needs. Make sure you truly enjoy her company. Make sure you share the same values/expectations in life. if you find a girl like this marry her! I would say a lot of women fail at self awareness, communicatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | It’s a numbers game for men, but women don’t want to be treated like numbers?I think a man should have a rough idea of the kind of woman he is looking for, and focus on pursuing only that particular type of woman. Men who chase after every woman just because she is female and has pulse, are not attractive. They come across as people who have low standards and will settle for anything. No woman wants to be settled for. A woman wants to be chosen for reasons that are unique to her, not because she has a vagina. I am selective about men because I don't want just any man. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Why do people assume that men that don’t get dates are basement dwelling neck beards?I'm like this too. I find most men average or unattractive. Guys are don't become physically attractive to me until AFTER I get to know their personality and character. Usually personality is determined first and character is harder to discern. This is why some guys seem really attractive at first because they're confident, funny and intelligent (personality). But they could still be a jerk and you just don't know it yet until you have prolonged exposure to them (character). That's why if I find… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | It's not about what a man has, it's what a man makes you feel that matters. True or false?They only get picked for ONS. They don't get picked for relationships, which is what they want. So in reality they are not actually getting picked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitI work in a hospital. We have quite a few married couples where both are doctors, or one is a doctor and another is a nurse. I think exposure is a big part of it. Most of these couples get to know each other through work (or in medical school) and start dating from there. I think doctor-nurse couples make more sense because the work relationship is somewhat like a marriage already. Also, nurses have more flexibility in their careers than female doctors so it's easier for them to be present in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | All of this back and forth is pointless, women will always have an extreme advantage ONLY because men are way hornier and therefore want and need women way more than women will ever want or need men. It all comes back to this very basic fact.Aren't men the gatekeepers of relationships? How do women have an advantage there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?Someone who doesn't add anything of value to your life. Basically it is a waste of time dating him. He could be broke, out of shape, abusive, lazy, have a drug/alcohol problem, serial cheater, porn addict, has no empathy, no desire to please you in bed, no emotional intelligence, etc. Low value men are a net loss in relationships. They are not necessarily evil or insufferable people (some are quite nice) but they just make crappy partners as far as women are concerned, and thus should be avoided… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersAs if men don't judge women on their looks all the time, even though that doesn't determine who she is as a person. Men and women are both shallow get over it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersA regular guy puts up with shit treatment/relationships just to get sex Is sex so important that a man should sacrifice his dignity and self respect for it? I don't understand. As a woman I want a man of good character who will give me the attention and affection I crave. Let's say I found a guy that gives me affection and attention, but he's a cheater. Or he has anger issues. Or he's a criminal. I would leave him and stay single because I respect myself too much to stay with a POS man, even if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 09:34 PM |
| 0 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersWhy do men sacrifice their dignity and self respect just to have sex? Is sex that important that they would put up with mental illness, abuse, drug addiction, obesity, and any other terrible qualities in a woman just to get sex from her? Why don't men respect themselves more and refuse to sink that low? It's pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersNot necessarily true. Even most Chads who can get sex easily eventually settle down with a wholesome girl and have a regular family life. Why would Chad bother with that if he can already get the sex he wants from multiple women and without commitment or financial investment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 09:11 PM |
| 10 | What are examples of a LVM playing red pill mind games ?Negging. I used to talk to a guy who thought I was out of his league and felt the need to "humble" me. He would make comments praising attractive features about women who looked nothing like me. I'm thin and petite. He would go on and on about how curvy women are so beautiful. How women from [insert ethnicity that's not mine] are so gorgeous. Like it was constant and out of the blue. I always felt weird why he felt the need to praise other women. If curvy Kardashian bodies are your type then why… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 11:57 PM |
| 234 | I just…🤦🏻♀️oh my god TW: DVIt sounds like her boyfriend might have some kind of learning disability. I think he might be developmentally delayed if he is playing with Legos and friends with 15yr olds. Plus the screaming and temper tantrums when he doesn't get his way. Sounds like someone who is mentally a child. If this is the case, I hope he sees a doctor to get the help he needs. Regardless, she needs to leave. This is not acceptable behavior from anyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 11:43 PM |
| 16 | ‘Guy friends’: the real evil men?The worst sexual harassment I've ever experienced was from my own family member. The stranger rape thing is incredibly uncommon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:49 PM |
| 163 | Imagine an unknowing woman finally gets her guy to go to relationship therapy and it's this guy. This is why we never utilize men for any type of therapy or coaching!This is some high quality, raw and unrefined audacity. Organic and locally sourced | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:40 PM |
| 44 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsThe crying is such a huge red flag. Only narcissistic scrotes cry when THEY hurt YOU. The audacity to play the victim when he essentially deceived her into this marriage. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:37 PM |
| 24 | When you see it..I'm so glad I found FDS after my LVM ex broke up with me. I leved up so much. Just as predicted, he came crawling back trying to rekindle things a full year later, even though HE was the one who lied to me and emotionally abused me. He couldn't admit what he did but was still begging for a second chance. Thank God I was no longer a pickme so I blocked and deleted him. FDS taught me so much. It made me realize how little self respect I had, how little I was willing to settle for. In my pickme day… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Men actually do know how dangerous other men can beHe's a scrote that made relationship advice videos on YouTube teaching women how to respect themselves and not put up with BS from trash men. He would preach to women about knowing their worth and not tolerating bad treatment. He even wrote a couple books and has a huge following on social media. Turns out the whole time he was cheating on his wife and is a total narcissistic NVM. He got exposed very badly by his mistress and it went viral. So then this clown made a weird "apology" video with hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....One of the fundamental truths of life is that men who are constantly saying how masculine and dominant they are, are the exact types to be overcompensating for their crippling insecurities and obsessive need to control everything. They act overly aggressive and domineering because they KNOW they are weak and not in control. They put on a violent, ultra-masculine front because they are terrified people will figure out how unmanly and weak they really are inside. A true HVM has quiet confidence. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:23 PM |
| 7 | Is this why old men in current government dont care about women’s rights today? Because their dad’s wrote & believed bs like this?The crazy thing is, I would love to do all of this for a HVM. When you have a quality man, it's normal to be loving and attentive because he's so good to you and you genuinely want to pamper him. And since he's a quality man, he won't even expect this treatment from you and be so thankful for even the smallest act of service. HVM are only concerned about taking care of YOU and making sure YOUR needs are met. It never occurs to them to demand things from you. Just having you in his life is a bles… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:13 PM |
| 356 | Public Service Announcement for Fellow Queens: Male Sexual Interest in you is NOT unique or special!Male sexual attraction is probably the most worthless thing on this earth. They give it out so freely that it has literally no value. They KNOW it has no value, that's why they give it out so easily. As we've seen countless times before, you don't even have to be human (or alive) to sexually arouse a man. If men don't value their sexual interest, why should you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:02 PM |
| 228 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.He will leave her for a younger woman the instant he becomes successful and starts making more money He could not stand to be with the woman who saw him at his very worst and literally made him into a functioning adult. She would always be a reminder of how low value he truly was. She will always be a reminder that he was incapable of doing even the bare minimum for himself, that he was so useless he needed a woman to do everything for him. In her presence he will always feel like an insecure LV… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:57 PM |
| 9 | Old as dirt scrote tries to hit on much younger (and richer) woman at gym. She acts like a Queen 👑lmfao middle aged alpha? Imagine being that old and using those cringy terms to describe yourself😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:35 PM |
| 75 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄They have no logic. If women are going to be useless to men after 25 (because of the wall), why should any of us get married? It would be stupid to knowingly marry a man if he will cheat/leave you when you get older. We can't help getting older. According to their logic, every woman who passes 25 will be cheated on, abandoned for another woman, or no longer treated well because she HiT tHE wALL. Why waste years on a man who is destined to hurt you or abandon you in the future when you can avoid … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:13 PM |
| 24 | What's the most insane thing you've heard from a pickme friend?Pickme coworker who is only 23 is buying a house with her boyfriend of seven (!!) years. She's like "Now that we're buying a house, all he has to do is propose! I've been dropping so many hints to move him in the right direction!" In my mind I was like sis, if you have to drop hints and literally pressure a man to marry you... He's not the one. It's been 7 years and he hasn't so much as voiced his desire to marry you. He doesn't. Want. To. Marry. You. I feel so sorry for this girl. She thinks bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 07:30 PM |
| 19 | Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?)He is probably way out of shape and she caught the ick. I also wouldn't be surprised if he doesn't take care of her emotional needs and treat her well outside the bedroom. When will men understand that attraction is about way more than looks? Yes be in shape and hygienic, that's the bare minimum. But if you want your woman to go weak at the knees when she's with you, you HAVE to treat her well. Take care of her needs. Make a freaking effort. Take her out. Do nice things for her without being ask… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 07:20 PM |
| 41 | Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?)He resents that she is beautiful while he's average (probably overestimating himself tbh) so he purposely is suggesting degrading acts to put her in her place. Men use sex as a way to strip you of your dignity. This guy sounds like he hates his wife. He didn't mention a single thing he liked about her besides her beauty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 07:13 PM |
| 13 | When men talk about "the wall", they are inadvertently admitting that women are oppressed.They love to talk about the wall. But even these so called "post-wall" women are getting way more dates than men in their age group. It's not like women shrivel up and become hideous at 30. If you have an active lifestyle and take good care of yourself, you will look great at any age. I know women in their 30s and 40s who are smokeshows and have to beat men off with a stick. Sure there are perverted scrotes who only chase after girls in their teens and 20s because they are obsessed with youth. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 07:08 PM |
| 231 | ..did anybody see this?I love how they conveniently ignore all of the posts where we praise HVM. Where FDS women who have HV partners tell us about their healthy, loving and fulfilling marriages/relationships. We very clearly separate good men from bad men. They are triggered because they identify with the posts where we bash LVM.. Because that's what they are, low value scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:53 PM |
| 57 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.The audacity to dig around in the trash and unwrap a USED menstrual pad... Then call the person who disposed of it unsanitary??? And tell her to go to the grocery store next time?? I cannot believe scrotes like this exist. He probably didn't even wash his hands after fishing around in there. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Yessssssss Queen!So true. You literally described my ex. They all follow this EXACT same pattern of behavior. Once you pick up on the signs you will never be fooled by these scrotes again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:48 PM |
| 10 | Yessssssss Queen!They want you to fall apart when they leave you. It pisses them off that you can pick up the pieces and move and gasp even be happy! Men like this are the definition of trash. They don't want to be with you and they don't want you to be happy without them either. What the actual heck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:46 PM |
| 4 | "friend" refuses to accept "no means no".This is why we should never be friends with men. They always have ulterior motives. They can't just appreciate our company and be supportive friends to us without expecting some sexual favor in return. Don't ever trust a man who seems to be happy just being your friend. Men do not tolerate the company of women they are not sexually attracted to. If he is spending time with you, sharing meals with you, etc as a "friend" then trust its only a matter of time before he tries to make a move on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:44 PM |
| 4 | How to cope after blocking a guy you really likeWhen we allow men to disrespect us, we are also teaching them that it is acceptable to disrespect any other women they may meet after us I love this. So quotable and so true. Honestly, I feel the exact same way. I don't want to inadvertently encourage a scrote to go hurt another woman just because I accepted it. Hell no. When men reveal they are no good for us, we HAVE to choose our self-respect and dignity over them, even if we have to break our own hearts in the process. This is the only way w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:38 PM |
| 21 | Never, ever let men sexually manipulate youIf 26 is "getting up there" then at 34 he's practically in the grave. What a dumb scrote. Please don't listen to nonsense like this. Men will do anything to make you insecure so you feel grateful for the scraps they offer you. Refuse to fall into this trap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:28 PM |
| 21 | Never, ever let men sexually manipulate youSo true. Men's sexual attraction means nothing because it's so readily available. This is where the whole idea of "d#ck is abundant and low value" comes from. By definition, anything of value will be hard to obtain. So if something is easily obtained by almost everyone, it has little value. Men's sexual attention is easy to obtain. Men are aroused by women of all ages. They are aroused by characters in video games and cartoons, and even inanimate objects. Some men are even aroused by children, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:25 PM |
| 14 | It bothers me how casually men joke about violence or rape.The way I see it, if a man jokes about rape, then he is a potential rapist. Let them tell on themselves so we can remove them from our lives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 8 | Let them get a taste of their own poison and see how they react.Someone should compile the reactions of these salty scrotes when their gfs point out how hot other guys are. For our entertainment😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:17 PM |
| 242 | Again with the height thing....A bitter, short manlet made this up. It's funny how they have a million physical requirements for women, but if a woman says "I like tall men" they are suddenly so triggered and cannot cope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:13 PM |
| 13 | Trial of Woman Who Killed Her Husband Highlights Domestic Abuse in Turkey. I found this article today and was reminded again of this sub. Another reason why we as women shouldn’t be financially dependent on a man- it puts us in a position to be taken advantage of.This is so sad. What was she supposed to do? Let her husband murder her and her children? She had to defend herself. I can't believe there are people who look at this poor battered woman and try to blame her for the horrific abuse she suffered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:10 PM |
| 25 | We can't just vet the men we date, we must vet the men we befriend.This is why you can't be friends with men. Their pp is more important than you. They will hurt you to satisfy the needs of their pp. Only befriend HVW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:00 PM |
| 44 | As distressing as it is we need to learn about red pill men. Secrecy is part of their MO.One of my scrote exes tried the red pill crap on me. Negging, dread game, triangulation, etc. I felt crazy throughout our entire relationship and didn't understand why. He finally broke up with me and I felt such a sense of RELIEF. And that's when I realized he had been manipulating me and playing mind games the whole time. I finally saw his true colors. And then I asked myself why I would attract such a low value POS? I was a huge pickme and had terrible self esteem, that's why. I spent a year … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 12:57 PM |
| 365 | How does a woman go from cheerful and carefree to overworked and boring? So hard to understand. Such a mystery. /sThe lack of self awareness is astounding. Perhaps she wouldn't be exhausted and unable to pay attention to you if, I dunno, you did your part with raising the kids? The solution is SO simple. Be an involved parent so your wife has the time and energy to take care of herself and pay attention to you too. You can't put all the responsibilities of the children on her and then cry when she doesn't have time for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: On Male Friends, Part I - How do you make and keep male friends?I do not want male friends because I don't think they are capable of being friends with a woman without eventually trying to sleep with her. I've tried it before and the guy friends ALWAYS get sexual. It's disgusting and makes me feel like their whole friendship was fake to cover up their real intentions. I am sticking to female friends now because none of my female friends ever tried to come on to me. I can trust them to see me as a human being and not as a series of holes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 11:08 PM |
| 7 | Dyadic attraction 2: guys, what female features do you find attractive/repulsive for dating and mating purposes?You sound like a pedophile. Only children are totally free of body hair and naturally have small labias/clitoris. You are attracted to prepubescent bodies which is disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 04:05 PM |
| 12 | When you have kids with a manchild, you are literally taking away resources from your children. It is child abuse to have kids with a man if you know he is immature, lazy, selfish, needy, and/or insecure.Preach!!! 🙌🙌🙏 A man will never date or marry YOU unless he is getting some kind of tangible benefit. Men always look out for their best interests. We need to look out for ourselves and our future children by not dating, sleeping with, or marrying LVM. the consequences are way too dire for us to take such a risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:40 PM |
| 175 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?Men are incapable of love. Their idea of "love" is simply infatuation and sexual arousal. They are incapable of loving deeply, with their heart and souls the way women are. Men's feelings of love come from their dicks. If they aren't interested in sleeping with you, then they literally cannot love you. That's why so many men leave their wives who they supposedly loved for decades, just because she gained weight or got older. They are only capable of lust and they mistake it for love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:08 AM |
| 39 | Ladies, don't be a FWBThere is literally not a single benefit to these so called "friendships" for the woman. Being treated like crap, ignored, humiliated, used for your body, stupidly hoping for a relationship that will never happen, getting exposed to STDs and possible pregnancy, and not even getting a single orgasm the entire time. You get neither the friendship nor the benefits, so why participate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 53 | Ladies, don't be a FWBMen are perpetually in a state of desperation for sex which means they will take it any way they can get it, even if it means sleeping with someone they don't like, aren't attracted to, and don't respect. They don't give half a shit that this person is a human beings with feelings who will be hurt by their actions. An LVM's only purpose in life is to serve his pp. He doesn't care who he has to manipulate, lie to, disrespect or abuse in order to fulfill the needs of his pp. In their minds, women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:43 PM |
| 5 | A Women/Girls Only SpaceLmao so true. They think our lives should revolve around them the way they revolve their lives around us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 3 | I am so beyond done being the mommy-maid-therapist figure and I honestly think I will remain single for the rest of my life. Love is simply not enough.If you don't leave this man you will end up exactly in your mother's situation. A man who cannot do basic household tasks and needs to be ordered around like a child isn't worth having around tbh. He is dead weight dragging you down. Kick his ass to the curb and watch all your stress fade away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:43 AM |
| 10 | HVM that aren't your physical type?So true! I dated a short ugly balding dude once because he had so many good traits (or so I thought) and I totally regretted it. His ego got out of control because a woman he normally wouldn't have a chance with actually liked him. He started acting like God's gift to mankind. Started playing mind games, negging, pushing my sexual limits and overall being gross. I realized he wasn't what I thought he was and got rid of him. Of course he came back like they all do. Nope. Never dating someone I'm … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Show them the same amount of respect they show you!I am so proud of myself for standing up to a guy who was harassing me at a gas station. First time in my life that I didn't bother being nice. He followed me and my friend around and was asking for our numbers, trying to flirt with us and just being disgusting. I lied that I was in a relationship and told him to leave us alone. This scrote was SO MAD he started going on and on about I'm a judgemental person who thinks I'm too good for him. He was so disgusting. I probably won't do that again jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:56 PM |
| 83 | So men apparently need a PSA that it's not okay to rape their daughtersCan confirm. Been sexualized ever since I hit puberty by none other than my own father. Disgusting doesn't even begin to describe the level of depravity to have these thoughts about your OWN flesh and blood. How do they live with themselves? If you have daughters you need to watch them like a hawk cause some men are really that perverted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:11 AM |
| 11 | This man going viral as his many wives figure it out.Wow. Unbelievable. This disgusting scrote has exponential amounts of audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 15 | The wordiness of this sweatshirt makes me just *feel* the mental and emotional stress of being in denial about an abusive relationshipShe lost me at "I am the property of..." Girl seek help. This level of pockmeism will ruin your life. You are not an object | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:04 PM |
| 13 | My uncle exclusively dates women between the ages of 18-22 because he couldn’t get them when he was in highschool / college.So true! These men have no problem overtly using women for their bodies (cause an 18yr old and a 35yr old have literally nothing else in common) but they somehow have the audacity to get mad when these same women want their money?? So it's okay for YOU to be superficial and predatory but God forbid these women you are using actually get something of value from you?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:32 AM |
| 8 | Not being okay with my partner watching pornSis you are NOT crazy for having a problem with your partner watching this filth. Think of it this way: would your partner be okay with you watching porn videos of naked, tall, muscular men with perfect features who are also very well endowed making passionate love to a faceless woman? Imagine if these videos were filmed from the woman's POV and entirely focused on her pleasure? Would he be okay if you watched these videos in a regular basis, knowing full well he's not as muscular as those guys … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:51 AM |
| 11 | I no longer envy younger women, but rather feel bad for themI never understood the predatory attention from much older men when I was a teenager. I just thought I was special enough that these older men couldn't help but notice. But that's not the case at all. I am acutely aware now (thanks to FDS) that almost all male attention, male kindness, and male validation towards a woman is almost entirely contingent on their desire to have sex with her. If they're not attracted to you then you literally don't exist and therfore are ignored at best or treated wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:41 AM |
| 5 | LIES MEN TELL TO GET OUT OF DOING THE WORKI cannot even fathom that this guy has ever come within 5ft of an actual woman let alone had a sexual relationship with one. He is an example of what happens when men fail to socialize properly. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:27 AM |
| 26 | I just read 85% of affairs start in the workplaceSo proud of you for leaving his low value ass. And the fact that she's trying to get a hold of you after she participated in the deterioration of your marriage is unbelievable! She married a cheater who is now unsurprisingly cheating on her. I mean what else was she expecting really? Good job distancing yourself from that mess and prioritizing your peace of mind. People like that can poison your life if you let them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:22 AM |
| 54 | I just read 85% of affairs start in the workplaceOh he's definitely cheating on her. He was probably cheating while she was pregnant with those twins tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:10 AM |
| 71 | I just read 85% of affairs start in the workplaceI totally blame pickmes in the workplace just as much as I blame scrotes who perv on their female coworkers. It takes two people to have an affair. Women need to stop responding to advances from these scrotes, especially when they know he's married with kids! Some pickmes are even flattered that they can steal someone's man. Like sis have some self respect and especially have respect for the man's wife. Why do pickmes let these guys use them as side chicks and actively facilitate another woman's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:07 AM |
| 3 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???I feel dirty just looking at this awful pic of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:19 PM |
| 22 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)I will never take a man's last name. Even if he is the HVM of my dreams I wouldn't. I feel that changing our last name is changing who we are in a way. We are attaching ourselves to this man and on a psychological level it feels like a loss of identity. Like we're giving up the person we were before this man arrived. We now belong to him. In the olden days women were literally property of their husbands and changing their last named reflected that. I won't participate in the rituals that were us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 01:55 PM |
| 98 | Men who want kidsMen want the fun parts of parenthood but none of the work. Never ever reproduce with a man who believes it's your job to raise the kids without any help from him. Your future kids deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:12 AM |
| 73 | How do we slow down our own sexual impulses?No meetings in private and no going to his place or bringing him to yours. Remind yourself give it up too soon he will never respect you. So if this is a guy you want a relationship with do NOT rush into sex. Not fair but it's the truth, most men are depraved and have Madonna wh*re complexes. Even the supposedly "good" ones. They will use you for your body if you let them and also treat you as subhuman afterwards. If you make him wait he will show his true colors soon enough. You need to vet vet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:09 AM |
| 136 | "Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo MImagine the reverse scenario. A man would NEVER point out richer, more successful men to his girlfriend/wife and be "TOtAlLy cOoL" with being compared to them. Even the most trashiest scrotes have enough self respect not to act like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Do LVM’s ever change?Change is difficult and requires a lot of work. For LVM this is especially hard because they are too arrogant and selfish to acknowledge or even believe that they need to change. So many of them remain stuck in their ways while continuing to blame the women in their lives. They only change when they recognize they have a problem, when they WANT to change, and/or when they can no longer deal with the consequences of their current state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:47 AM |
| 18 | Oversharing as a false way to make yourself think you have a connection with a dateI feel so attacked right now lol. Totally guilty of opening up way too soon and it only dawned on me last year that it's unhealthy behavior. Oh well. We live and we learn. Thanks for the quality post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:37 AM |
| 13 | Dress For The Man Not for Yourself 🤮 why is fds so obsessed with her ?I've watched some of her videos and all she does is teach women how to be a successful gold digger. I'm not interested in that type of transactional relationship but I understand some women are into it. More power to them I guess. I don't think FDS should endorse Shera because even though some of her advice is good, she says a lot of problematic things. Sure, if you focus on your looks and learn how to manipulate men you can snag a rich old dude and live lavishly for some time. But if the relati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 05:50 PM |
| 27 | Don't take the bait if a scrote from your past contacts you. They are only contacting you for nefarious and selfish reasons.Preach sis. Thanks to FDS I no longer pay attention to these scrotes when they come crawling back. I just block/delete them again. The desperation is so unattractive. What is this guy doing with my number YEARS after we broke up? Especially when I've deleted his number long ago and don't even think about him anymore? Apparently we're supposed to be the emotional ones yet they can't move on, even when they have a wife and kids? They are so pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Male gaze vs female gaze in cinema... chef’s kiss 😚 👌🏻I had to search it up lol but it's called Always and was released in 2011. There is a Japanese, Turkish and I think an Indian remake also. The Turkish remake was good but idk about the other ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:42 PM |
| 16 | Male gaze vs female gaze in cinema... chef’s kiss 😚 👌🏻Ngl I appreciate movies with a sexy male lead. I will totally drink in the sight. but it's not enough for the man to look good. What really gets me going is how the man acts, especially in relation to the lead female. Does he respect her? Is it evident from his actions that he cares about her? Is there chemistry and emotional intimacy? Is there affection? Does he treat her like a person and not an object? If so, then sign me tf up. I remember watching a movie (I think originally Korean but had m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 179 | A man who doesn’t assault women should not be put on a pedestal. We don’t glorify treating women with the bare minimum of respect. This video shows a great level of self-awareness.I stan this. Men need to hold each other accountable too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:28 PM |
| 150 | "Jokes"This is a major red flag, she needs to leave him asap for the sake of her daughter. My father started making disgusting sexual jokes as soon as I hit puberty and over the course of my teenage years it slowly escalated until he started inappropriate touching me. I felt so uncomfortable and violated but I didn't understand until years later that it was sexual abuse. My mom was often gone long hours and I never told her because I knew he would deny it or worse, blame ME for his disgusting actions. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:26 PM |
| 11 | She really needs our helpMaybe she was a forever girlfriend and finally got him to marry her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:11 PM |
| 8 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬Staying in a relationship with a man who is obviously in love with his female best friend? I could NEVER. The lack of self respect from this pickme is astounding. Sis, why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:15 PM |
| 67 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?Men act like this because women are not giving them an incentive to settle down. If a woman provides all the wife privileges without a ring, why would he marry her? He's literally getting what he wants without even committing. Men love to use women for these benefits, even if it's a woman they don't actually want to be with. Once they find their dream girl, they will leave you in a jiff for her. They will marry HER because they want to lock her down. Men have no problem with commitment when it c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:05 PM |
| 20 | Tales from the vault IV: the one time we caught a grown man filming teenage girls in public so we started screaming "PEDOPHILE"Nothing hurts a scrote more deeply than getting ridiculed by a woman he is interested in. Their egos are the most fragile things on earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Shouldn't this be obvious? Literally what women are expected to do everyday + more. Considering the amount of upvotes/comments however the bar is in hell.Gay men are so attractive and put together compared to the average straight guy. They always smell good, they have nice haircuts, they're in shape and wear well-fitting, fashionable clothes. I've had several crushes on gay guys for this reason alone!! They also have better personalities tbh. Straight men please learn lessons from gay guys, take care of yourself dammit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:57 AM |
| 146 | Here’s The FactsExactly! Men don't put up with cheating women nor do they stay in relationships they are not benefitting from. Men are ALWAYS concerned about whatever serves their own interests and that's why they always win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 18 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍This is literal prostitution. You slept with some random man, exposed to yourself to STDs, pregnancy, likely had unfulfilling mediocre sex, and possibly were abused/degraded during it and you are happy now because you he spared you some Doritos and $40? Sis. Please go find your dignity you seem to have utterly lost it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 24 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢When the roles are reversed and a man is upset after discovering his girlfriend's adventurous sexual history, scrotes have no problem defending the man and telling him to dump the gf. But if it's the MAN who has a spotty sexual past.... Suddenly she has to get over it because it's in the pAsT. The double standard is strong with this one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:10 PM |
| 120 | I agree with men women should not nag them. I would never be a nagging wife. If he cannot measure up to my standards, there will no be any nagging... I'd just kick him to the curb.Once you understand that men know exactly what they're doing, you realize there is no purpose for nagging. He knows he has to get a job. He won't because he doesn't want to. Nagging him everyday won't change anything. It'll just make you and him even more miserable. Cut your losses short and throw the whole man away. I don't argue with men anymore or beg them to do something. There is literally no point because they are fully aware and don't give a crap how their behavior affects you and the rel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 109 | The "Unconditional Love" mindset is toxic and you should refrain from itI used to believe in this unconditional love bullshit because I read way too many romance novels and brought into all the Hollywood fairytales that are marketed to girls and women. I realized not too long ago that unconditional love doesn't even exist. The closest you can get is maybe a mother's love, but even mothers have their limits. When it comes to men, expecting their unconditional love is stupid. You'll never get it. A man's love is ALWAYS conditional. If a woman is not attractive enough,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Daily Reminder: A man’s sexual attraction to you means nothing.Preach!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:51 PM |
| 10 | Ma’am. What exactly is the purpose of this ferine creature you call a “husband”? 🥴She's a starter wife. He doesn't value her at all. Get out sis before he takes more years of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:30 PM |
| 3 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupBecause LVM believe that women are objects and commodities that should be readily available to everyone. When we do not act like the objects they believe we are, it creates a deep sense of panic and rage. WaHmEN dON't wAnt Meeee??? HoWw? WhYy? WaHmEN biTCH!!! Having a woman in your life is a privilege. If you want a particular woman, you have to meet her standards. If you don't meet her standards and don't want to change, then leave her alone. Go find a woman whose standards you can meet. Simple… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 8 | Lorelei Lee knows what's up.So true! Why do our standards matter to them when they supposedly don't want us anyway? Make up your mind scrotes. If all FDS women are undesirable then we are self selecting out of your pool of potential partners which is actually good for you. Consider it a blessing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Let's talk about angerI'm so sorry sis. You've been through so much but I'm proud of you for finally putting yourself first. You have a right to be angry. My parents are like yours and constantly deny the horrific abuse I went through as a child. Whenever I bring up the abuse and mistreatment they put me through, they gaslight me and make me feel like I'm overreacting. No. I deserve to be angry about the childhood that was ripped away from me and all of the pressure I was placed under. My anger is righteous and I'll … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:12 PM |
| 7 | What is an early sign of LVM behavior that makes you drop someone REAL quick?Preach!! They never act sexually inappropriate towards a man they just men. They are capable of showing respect. Problem is they don't respect US | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:23 AM |
| 19 | Someone here recommended drawing your ex and the reasons you left....I ran out of space.I can't believe you're serious. What is wrong with men. This is my sign to log out of Reddit for the day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:18 AM |
| 11 | Him: let's just see where this is going! Let's not put a label on things 😊. Me:With these types of scrotes, it would be fun to bring up the fact that you're dating other people. casually mention a guy who you're having dinner with on Friday night. And when scrotey gets all offended... Just act confused and tell him since he said you guys aren't in a relationship, that means it's okay for you to date other people.... Right? Watch as he waffles and tries to explain how YOU should stay faithful to him while he explores his options, even though he refuses to be exclusive with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 19 | LVM don’t like it when you know HVM existI recommend every girl on here to regularly tell these scrotes how well you are used to being treated. How well you treat yourself. Bring it up in casual conversation. Set the bar high in the beginning so they know what is expected of them. If a man can't treat you as well as you want and deserve, then he can leave and take his low effort elsewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:58 AM |
| 85 | LVM don’t like it when you know HVM existThis is so true. Russell Wilson the Seahawks quarterback is worth $135 million. He is married to the singer Ciara and openly gushes about how much he loves her. He is raising her son from a previous relationship as his own. He has had no scandals and regularly visits the Seattle Children's Hospital. He is super wholesome, loving and an all-around great guy. And yet scrotes STILL call him a "simp" and make fun of the fact that he married a single mother. Make fun of him for raising his step son. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:53 AM |
| 12 | LVM don’t like it when you know HVM existI love this so much. You are a QUEEN sis. You know your worth and LVM rats hate it. Keep demanding the best. You are setting such a great example for us all. I'm so proud of you for not letting these men toy with you. Kudos to your family for raising you to value yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:41 AM |
| 29 | Guy on first date tells me he won't be paying for me moving forwardGross. At least he exposed himself early on so you can save yourself a lot of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:38 AM |
| 10 | Seeing everything through the lens of FDSGreat analysis. The fact that men feel entitled to a woman's loyalty when they won't even commit to her because the are in a committed relationship already with their WIFE. The audacity. I can't even. I used to watch scandal too but I stopped years ago. Olivia is such a strong and talented woman yet she acts like a total pickme running around with a married man and being emotionally tortured that she can't be with him. Why?? She's so beautiful and intelligent, she could have literally any man sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 15 | To celebrate me, and the shiny future ahead of me.The ring and your nails! So pretty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:32 AM |
| 12 | For the ladies who are not necessarily marriage mindedThis is the correct energy. I used to obsess over men who provided nothing just because they were men and I couldn't stand the thought of being single. I've finally learned to let that go last year thanks to FDS. Now I'm so interested in my self development that I don't even have time for a man who isn't offering something. And strangely, I feel so much peace. I thought I would be lonely and depressed, but the real problem was that I was revolving my life around men and had nothing going for mys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 16 | Healthy Male Crying Vs Manipulative Displays Of EmotionCall me cynical but I don't trust male tears, ever. Been manipulated too many times to fall for that BS anymore. If a man wants to have a good cry, he should do it with his bros. Or his therapist. I don't want any part of it while we're in the dating stage. Providing comfort and emotional labor is a wife privilege and I'm not about to exert myself like that for a boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:20 AM |
| 11 | Tired of men claiming they are watching porn to “learn” new things because it’s actually robbing them of the chance to learn healthy, appropriate responses in intimate situations.Men who watch porn are on a one way street to brain damage and broken dick syndrome. Don't entertain someone who will purposely ruin his mind, body and sexuality for some short term pleasure and not even care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:57 AM |
| 37 | Sis, No! You obviously didnt want to.For his audacity of course | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:49 AM |
| 39 | "Men as provider" argument.In my experience, very few men are capable of providing. And out of the ones who are, there is a significant percentage who believe they now own you just because they pay the bills. So it's either a low value scrote who can provide nothing or a traditional provider type who has ass backwards views about women and treats you like property. HVM are providers but they are not toxic and do not feel ownership over you. They provide and protect because they WANT to, because ensuring your safety and se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 3 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?My ex was exactly like this omg. Blaming me for taking up his time when HE was the one who wanted to spend all his time with me. What a load of crap. If a man becomes overwhelmed and can't handle his life because of a relationship, he's LV. a HVM balances his career, relationships and personal life. And most importantly, be doesn't blame YOU if he's experiencing issues. It is a sign of a weak man to always blame things on his SO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:20 PM |
| 5 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?He's using the hot/cold trick on you. Shower you with attention then abruptly withdraw attention for vague reasons or no reason at all, with or without warning. The purpose is to create an anxious attachment within you so that you become emotionally dependent on him and become addicted to getting attention from him. This is manipulation. LVM love to mess with your emotions like this because they are too insecure to form a genuine connection. This guy made it clear you're not his priority which m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:15 PM |
| 5 | "I don't have to do chores, I work" (a rant about cleaning)Men do this on purpose. They know exactly what they're doing. They can't be the gender that invented most of the technological advancements throughout history and also simultaneously be bumbling fools who don't understand how to operate a dishwasher or do laundry. The male brain is literally a problem-solving machine. Men could be excellent at cooking and cleaning if they wanted to. but they don't. Because they get off on having a woman do things for them. They have a control fetish and superior… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Decided to jump on the cute ring trend that’s going on this sub, here’s my first ring that I purchased from a merchant stand at college in my early twenties and I still love it to this day! ❤️You have such pretty hands! And the ring is so nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 51 | If you actively practice FDS, people are going to fucking hate you.Yes. I've finally learned to say no thanks to FDS after being a people pleaser my whole life. and I'm baffled by the way people are so pissed off when I won't bend over backwards for them. They feel entitled to being catered to and they can't fathom why I won't gladly submit to them. This is why strong boundaries are so important. When people understand early on that you are not to be trifled with, they won't even bother approaching you with their mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:56 PM |
| 253 | Is anyone else afraid to have a son / what your son might turn out like after seeing how 98% of men are, and how so many turn out to be no matter what their mother does from them? Stories like this it’s almost always the male child doing some entitled shit to their mother...I'm just guessing but I think the issue here is that his mother was overly dependent on him for her emotional needs. She may have made him into her "emotional husband" and kind of revolved her whole life around him. Nothing wrong with loving your child but you should not be worshipping them. This type of overwhelming love can breed narcissism in the child. Then they turn around and make you their victim, after all the pain and suffering you went through to raise them. I truly and honestly believ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:41 AM |
| 13 | [Rant] Men are far more 'high maintenance' than any 'high maintenance' woman I've ever metI've been called high maintenance in many ways and with different phrasing. But at the end of the day it comes down to men wanting me to lower my standards rather than rise to meet them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 81 | What is it with men who turn every platform or situation into something sexual/romantic?Men take every kind or even neutral thing you do as an expression of interest. I used to be really sweet and accommodating towards everyone including men. But I realized how many creeps this behavior was attracting. So now I keep my kindness only for women, children and animals. I don't smile at men or even greet them. I don't listen to them when they try to get my attention. When I pass by them I don't make eye contact, just look slightly above their shoulder. If I'm at a store I go to the regi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Since I've seen that u like him... here is another one.I cackled at his impersonation of the girlfriend. She was so mystified that he wasn't sneaking around or hiding anything AND he was actually doing dishes AND planning interesting things to do with her on the weekend. Sadly this girl represents sooo many women who have been used and abused by men to the point that they are actually suspicious of a loving and healthy relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:05 PM |
| 2 | A household with a LVM father and a pickme mother is a terrible environment to raise children. So many people have unresolved childhood trauma from being raised in this dynamic.This is honestly so true. You described my life story. My father is a classic narc LVM who abused us all our lives. I grew up wishing my parents would just divorce so we could finally be free of him, but my mother refused to leave. Sometimes they would get into a bad fight and she would get close to leaving, but all it would take is his false promises of change and she would just give him another chance. It was such a toxic environment. I struggled with anxiety and depression since I was a child… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you mostly date men who you are viscerally and immediately sexually attracted to on a gut level or do you date a wide range of men and “give guys a chance”?Saaaame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 60 | This is why you shouldn’t have babies with men you aren’t married to.Pr0n has caused them to narrowly define female beauty only to include barely developed, childlike bodies and/or biologically impossible proportions that are only achieved through surgery. These men have ruined their brains and sexuality and then want to blame women for it. The delusion and utter lack of awareness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:23 PM |
| 223 | "I like Asian women because they're submissive" said the predator"Like a compass needle that points north, a man's accusing finger always finds a woman. Always." Khaled Hosseini, The Kite Runner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:51 PM |
| 18 | In my life, maybe two men have taken nice photos of me. The rest seem to be on some passive aggressive mission to make us feel awful about themselves.If a man randomly brings up creepy behavior of other men, he is really talking about himself. He's worried about horny creeps stalking you online because that's something HE would do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | “Stop attaching yourself to that man”💞👑She is so feminine and beautiful. If I had this wisdom before I could have saved myself so much pain and heartbreak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:01 AM |
| 9 | A journal entry pre-FDs. Your intuition is ALWAYS looking out for your best interests.So proud of you sis! Your story is exactly like mine. I didn't realize that constant anxiety and riding an emotional roller-coaster was unhealthy in a relationship. I thought it was love. I was so naive. A good man won't destroy you emotionally. You will feel comfortable and at peace around him. If you feel like you're going crazy because of a man, he's bad news and you need to RUN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:05 PM |
| 226 | It’s almost as if objectifying women is... bad??Lmao😂😂😂 Imagine if there were thousands of subreddits about sexually objectifying men and torturing them and calling it a kink. Omg the outrage of scrotes would be off the charts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:12 PM |
| 25 | Nah, sisIf she already knows she won't have an orgasm then why is she still having sex with these men? What is the point? Like how much do you have to hate yourself to sleep with a man knowing that he can't get you off? And exposing yourself to STDs, pregnancy and potential abuse in the bedroom. Why. Whhyyyyyy???!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Who are these women that aren't getting asked out?I aspire to be this relaxed and stress free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 10:54 AM |
| 5 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usI don't understand how mass delusion of men is being normalized. I mean they are marrying and having sex with literal. inanimate. Objects. Why is nobody checking the mental health of these guys? How is society just accepting this? Anyway, I think it's a great idea. Let them have their plastic wives and leave real women tf alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:29 AM |
| 16 | "ONCE YOU HIT THE WALL, YOULL BE ALONE FOREVER! TEeHeeHeHeE" 🙄Are LVM stupid? Everyone dies alone. We all will leave this world alone. Nobody's gonna follow you to that grave. We are all born alone and die alone. It's what you do in between that counts! LVM and NVM want to waste this precious gift of life on manipulating and abusing women and jerking themselves to the point of brain damage. The could have such rich, fulfilling lives with so many accomplishments and satisfying relationships. But they'd rather sit around scratching their nether regions, foam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:25 AM |
| 51 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈Savage🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:55 AM |
| 44 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈Sooo true they totally spill the beans! My ex was a total monologue-er. He would talk so much (and even jokingly acknowledge that he talked too much) and expose himself everytime. Once during one of his monologues he said that women don't like when a man does a grand romantic gesture but they just act pleased so they don't hurt his feelings. Then he told some dumb story about his friend (maybe it was himself lol) who set up this cute Valentine's day scavenger hunt for his girlfriend and she wasn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:54 AM |
| 95 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂Yessss. But will men ever hold each other accountable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:43 AM |
| 8 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂I love when scrotes get put in their place! Reading this rejuvenated me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:41 AM |
| 45 | I really hope his gf leaves him over this. How is she not supposed to take that personally? Of course he won't answer the question.This is expert level gaslighting and manipulation. Notice how he didn't answer the question and resorted to blaming her, accusing her of starting a fight, calling her immature and childish. Nowhere does he admit to his stupid beliefs about "looking at the mom" when it applies to his girlfriend. Because he knows it's unacceptable. So he won't even acknowledge it. Where do so many men get this talent for manipulation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:15 PM |
| 26 | I can’t tell you guys how many times this has happened to me lmaooooo!Solipsism at its finest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 49 | I can’t tell you guys how many times this has happened to me lmaooooo!You just described my ex. He acted soooo interested in me and asked me tons of questions. By the end of our relationship he knew my whole life story and I still felt like I barely knew him. Vulnerability needs to be mutual. If a guy seems very interested in knowing about you, he should also want you to know about HIM. it's very suspicious when he's only interested in finding out every detail about your life but keeping himself very closed off. Don't trust men like this. They will hurt you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 9 | Not this pick me again 🙄Women are valuable just for simply being women. Even men agree with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | So why do men say we'll be lonely in our 40s?I love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Fuck menI want to harness this queen energy you have. My dream is to live an unbothered life, enjoying myself to the fullest without sacrificing myself to a man. I wish I had the courage to just take the plunge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:06 AM |
| 3 | obese entitled scrote thinks he deserves better than his gf despite being a LVMThey only want hot 10/10 supermodel women to give them a chance knowing full well women like that are out of their league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:15 AM |
| 3 | “Even Beyoncé got cheated on”Preach sis!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:01 PM |
| 3 | “I don’t even like banana laffy taffys”I'm crying😂😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | He needs to subvocalize. All this hollering will come to naught.Love this queen energy. Focus on yourself so that with or without a man, you'll be okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Finally figured it outCan confirm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Finally figured it outSo true! Sadly the ones who respond to this are emotionally damaged and need lots of therapy. A true HVM would just end it if he felt disrespected by you or if you acted hot and cold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:24 PM |
| 4 | My ex is delusional - he thinks women want him!When a man is a bad husband or boyfriend it's a woman's fault for not being loving enough, patient enough, or kind enough to him. Why doesn't she just cOmMuNiCaTe? If she leaves she's blamed. If she stays she's blamed. Literally there is no way for us women to win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:19 PM |
| 2 | "My bf is perfect! Except for his violence, abuse and starving me."Lmaoooo wtf this has to be a joke?! I can't believe someone would allow themselves to literally be starved by their fatass couch creature of a boyfriend. I can't. just whyyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: don’t beg!This is the TRUTH!! I know girls that would fight over guys and I could never. My LVM ex tried to triangulate me with my own friend (who he used to date years ago) even though she was MARRIED! He wanted me to bend over backwards to prove that I was better than her. He wanted me to perform tricks for his affection. Gross. He would constantly praise other girls who were the total opposite of me just to make me feel insecure, even though I have great qualities myself. Eventually I decided that if h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Men hyper fixate on bad relationship to justify their shitty behaviorThis is so true. I've been abused and hurt by men ALOT. But you could never tell that by interacting with me because I don't share that part of me with others. (made that mistake with one LVM who used it against me so never again). When I'm in a relationship, I may have those fears deep down inside but I still LOVE with everything I have. I still give him a chance and allow him to prove himself. If there are no red flags, I don't assume evil intent. I just observe. Despite everything I've gone t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:39 PM |
| 10 | If an ex comes back and says he misses you, don’t be flattered. He should miss you. You're deeply missable.I'm the best thing that ever happened to my ex. He said so himself. He said he never met a woman like me and I was everything he ever wanted. And yet he still treated me like crap. Used all the redpill/narcissistic abuse tactics on me. Then left me. But I didn't allow myself to lose sight of who I was. I nurtured myself and put the pieces back together. And when he realized that I had actually used my time to heal, move on and continue leveling up in my life he was shocked. he couldn't believe t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 3 | How did we get here (song stuck in my head), the existential questions....You just described my situation! When my brother was kicked out of his house he decided to move into my place and my whole family pressured me to accept it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | How did we get here (song stuck in my head), the existential questions....These parents who baby their sons are just expecting the woman who he dates/marries will raise him into a man. Such a disservice to the universe to unleash your low value scrote son into the world knowing that you enabled his entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | LVM can’t stand the idea of his wife being more successful than him 🙄This 👏 is 👏 why 👏 we 👏 don't 👏 date👏 down!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)Lmfao. This scrote is so dumb. We want high quality men who aren't perverts. Being high quality means dating people your own age group because you do not believe in taking advantage of naive little girls. A man who is tall, attractive and makes good money but only chases 18 year olds is low value af and we do NOT want him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 165 | It might be time for me to unsub from AITA. This one made me want to cry. My heart is broken for herHe is a soulless demon. I can't even imagine the cruelty of this man. How dare he. I can't even.... I just quit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:21 PM |
| 28 | What are some strategies and tactics to put off intimacy for as long as possible?The car thing is huge! I used to let men drop me off at home after our date. I was so clueless and had no idea how easy it would have been for a man to just take me to HIS place instead or just force himself on me while we were in his car. I can't believe how careless I was and how I unknowingly endangered myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:56 AM |
| 9 | Hopefully she trusts her instinct to get outPoor woman. When will she learn that men do not marry women they don't want to marry.... Especially when she's providing all the wife benefits without getting a ring! Come on sis. Have some self respect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:28 PM |
| 9 | Do any of you have HVM dads?Thank you for sharing this. Reading or watching stories of beautiful, healthy father-daughter relationships is what I like to do when I start to feel bad about my own messed up relationship with my father. I like to think in another life I have a father who actually loves me, protects me, understands me and takes care of me. Someone who builds me up so that I am ready to take on the world. It hurts to know I never got that but it makes me happy that somewhere, there are girls and women who are b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:26 PM |
| 33 | Scrote wonders “what if” he left his wife for ONS 🤦🏻♀️So true! I dated a scrote who I wasn't even attracted to initially (until he lovebombed me lol) and he always talked about how he thought I was soooo beautiful. I got the feeling I was out of his league looks wise and he was insecure. I gave him lots of attention and validation and then he started getting COCKY. Like suddenly taking about how "handsome" he was and making lots of cringe sexual jokes. Then he started negging me about my looks (like saying blondes are sooo gorgeous when I am a brun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Dustin Hoffman on TOOTSIE and realizing he had been brainwashed to only see beautiful women as noteworthy - "It was never a comedy for me"Men don't consider unattractive women as human, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:50 PM |
| 10 | "Scraps are for Pigeons"I love this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 4 | Scrotes are so fucking dumb and obsessed with humbling women and uplifting their own. Who looks at this goddess and thinks yea she looks around the same as him 😂😂 what idiotsShe is so beautiful. she looks like a celebrity! I'm positive the scrotes who are calling her a 6 would never get a chance with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:43 PM |
| 14 | nikkiroserideout on Instagram: Do you reject healthy love? If you're an anxious attachment type *one of* the reasons that you may reject healthy love/a "secure" partner…Great message! I learned this about myself after falling for a total narcissist LVM and mistaking him for my soul mate. Nope, I was just attracted to the familiar toxic patterns that I had learned from my earlier experiences. It wasn't love. Love shouldn't mess with your emotions so much that you are constantly fluctuating from extreme happiness to intense sadness and self loathing. A loving partner should not elicit panic attacks from you or make you feel crazy. That is not love, just manipulat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | There is so much proof that men hate being treated the way they treat women.Reminds me of this prank where a man on an escalator touches other men's hands as they pass each other. Some of these men had violent and angry reactions to the violation of their space and being made to feel uncomfortable/sexualized by another man. If only they understood this is exactly how we feel when they do it to us. https://youtu.be/LdNyhs8ZajQ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:03 AM |
| 181 | Dang, really was hoping he would say "oh haha just to clarify, I was being cheap"Lol I love the dumb fox question asking him what he means😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 02:40 AM |
| 3 | From Pickmeisha to QueenI LOVE this level up! This is how you do it ladies. She looks fabulous and so happy! We glow different when we are no longer stressing over LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Poor man. Can‘t get that girl on the street that is so pretty is hurts. He‘ll never be good enough for 11/10 supermodel.Omg what a weirdo. I see pretty women all the time and I compliment them! Like damn sis you look fabulous! I think women are so gorgeous and living, breathing artwork. I can't imagine looking at a beautiful woman and being hurt that I can't "have" her?? She's a literal stranger, let her live. Like what the heck, the entitlement is so real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why does it throw me off and affect me so much when LVM from my past reach out to me even though I have a healthy relationship now?I was in the same position last month. Flaky ass narcissistic LVM ex decided to reach out after I had done so much work moving on and finding myself. He literally gave me so much anxiety. I decided to block him and honestly the peace of mind I feel now is so liberating, knowing he is blocked on all platforms and can never reach me. Please block this man everywhere and focus on yourself and your current relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | 🥰💞This made me cackle! I would pay good money to see a Pixar version of this awesome story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:38 PM |
| 14 | Article from the horses mouth about emotionally unavailable men and the women who love them.I'd like to point out that The Weeknd (whose album cover is shown here) is a classic LVM who uses women and discards them. He openly sings about his depravity and lack of respect for women. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:32 PM |
| 67 | “I can’t stick my dick in your master’s degree”Men like this love controlling women. If you are independent and educated, you will never let a man control you. So they are self eliminating from your dating pool when they say stupid stuff like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:30 PM |
| 7 | “I can’t stick my dick in your master’s degree”YES SIS I live for this energy! We all need to build lived that we are happy with and men can just be a little thing on the side that we sometimes dabble in, if we feel like it. But they should never be the center of our lives, EVER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:27 PM |
| 4 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!Yasss sis! I'm so willing to shower someone with love and affection but I'm not settling no way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:55 PM |
| 13 | "Very seldom do I enjoy watching rape."Me too! I was so traumatized. I don't think that type of gentle, emotionally fulfilling "porn" even exists. Cause it doesn't appeal to men and men are the top porn consumers, it's all degrading and violent because that's what MEN like. So disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:13 PM |
| 86 | False AdvertisingAnd they're supposedly "visual" creatures? But also they can't tell when a woman had plastic surgery, lip fillers and is wearing 10 pounds of makeup? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:10 PM |
| 112 | False AdvertisingOr drool over Kylie Jenner. They're such liars, they love plastic surgery and they love makeup. None of the women they jerk it to are natural in the slightest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | X post from r/whitepeopletwitter😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:59 PM |
| 13 | Man prefers playing videogames over taking care of wife (f60) with cancer🤢🤮🤮 Why????? Just why?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:43 AM |
| 6 | Can a LVM become a HVM?Nope. My ex was the exact same way with anger issues and low empathy. I told him I couldn't tolerate it. He left me. A full year later he came back wanting a second chance. I just blocked and didn't even respond. The truth is anger issues are VERY deep seated and it's unlikely a few months of therapy will change it. With these types of men, the only true motivation for them to change will be losing you permanently. As long as he thinks he still has a chance with you, he won't fully comprehend wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:37 AM |
| 17 | How can anyone post this and claim this as fact?I wonder what percentage of rapists are men? 97? 99? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:56 PM |
| 32 | Most men my age are permanently undateable because of porn. Yes, permanently.This is why I am eternally grateful that I'm demisexual and have low libido. I quite literally can go the rest of my life without sex and not really mind. For the most part I really do not care for sex at all and would only consider it if I became deeply emotionally involved with a man. I feel so sorry for the scrotes who are enslaved by their lust, leading them into a life of depravity and porn sickness. Imagine being entirely controlled by your reproductive organs. Always chasing the next sexu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 59 | Compliments but not compliments"I love that I don't have to convince you of anything" aka you are a total doormat and I will take advantage of you "you are so different from other girls" basically putting down your entire gender, not a compliment "you are too good for me" aka I am low value and will not give you the effort you deserve "I normally don't date [insert physical characteristic] but you are so great" aka putting you down and messing with your self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:10 AM |
| 52 | A Church Girl's RantCan't upvote this enough! I used to think church-going men who seem "religious" are more likely to be kind and respectful but nope. A man's character is an entirely separate thing from how many religious rituals he takes part in. He could be a Jesus loving Bible thumper and still treat you like crap because of his raging misogyny. The cognitive dissonance is strong in these types of men. They believe in the word of God and all of the commandments to treat others kindly, yet somehow still find a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:03 AM |
| 8 | Well, since we can’t choose our sexuality, yes ladies we are raising our standards!I'm definitely bi curious. I am physically attracted to men but I think women are SO beautiful, stunning, gorgeous. I spend way more time looking at women than men. Admiring their face, eyes, hair, curves of their figures, etc. Women are absolute art. And they fill me with wonder. They are also so much kinder and loving than men too. I realized all my life I've been wanting a man to love me the way a woman loves. With all of himself. With total acceptance and dedication. But nope. Men aren't cap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:49 PM |
| 15 | What theory explains why women seem to just be better quality than men, especially in the last 10-20 years?So true. I am literally mesmerized by female beauty and I'm straight as a ruler. I have never found men as alluring, attractive, stunning as I find women. Women are living artwork | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 01:36 PM |
| 11 | Dr Ramani’s Level Up!!I love her videos she's helped me so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 18 | Why women must leave their LVM piece of shit at the FIRST red flag they get. You will NEVER know if he can do this to you!So true. They are fully capable but want you to do it because of their control fetish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 01:09 AM |
| 19 | As a mother of two sons, I wholeheartedly agree. Stop training girls to “take care of their men”. Teach your sons how to be men and take care of themselves and their families. No more raising pick-mes. Queens only.Sis I'm literally in the same boat! Why do Eastern cultures raise such entitled man babies and such capable, mature women? Who tf are WE supposed to marry when everyone's son is a grown child!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 45 | Caring for me after experiencing pet lossThis is so wholesome! Continue vetting, hopefully he maintains this good treatment of you consistently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Women who choose to remain single and childless, rather than settle, is a net positive for society.You are a total queen!! I want to level up and be this successful. Most men will drag you down and make your life shittier unless they are high value. So why should we settle if we're not getting anything good out of it?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha Music Detox Challenge😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Guess the subMen are such babies. I literally went to work with a fever, cold, weakness and I still toughed it out through a 12hr night shift (because I was out of sick days). If I can do that a man can handle his damn tummy ache without acting like a diva. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 11:57 PM |
| 2 | It should be considered child abuse to teach daughters to be "good, submissive wives."Wow you just described my upbringing. I was literally raised to take abuse from men. No wonder I attract assholes and abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Why do men think their opinions are always wanted?This is such BS. Men LOVE it when women dress in revealing costumes during Halloween and have a good time at parties. By their own admission they love it. So why shame these women who are doing what YOU like, Bradley? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:36 AM |
| 31 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.Absolutely! My father always told me that other men are sexual predators who are going to rape me. In reality he was the one sexually abusing me for years on end. If a man says something about other men he is really only describing himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:31 AM |
| 35 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.My father was extremely sexually inappropriate to me when I was younger. It started as soon as I hit puberty. For years he would call me "busty" (in reference to my large breasts) instead of using my actual name. He used to stare at me with this disgusting hungry look in his eyes. When I was in high school he used to touch me inappropriately. Grab my butt or my boobs, tickle me without my consent, forcibly hug me and squeeze my butt in the process, always find weird excuses to kiss me on the che… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:28 AM |
| 31 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterI'm really thin and my ex told me he could "work with it" like he was doing me a favor. Like he would accept me even though I don't have IG model curves. Lmao. I was such a pickme and didn't realize he was trying to neg me. Reality is I was waaaay out of his league and he knew it, so he wanted to ruin my self esteem to soothe his own insecurity and fragile ego. Men like this are trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:15 PM |
| 5 | "Women don't watch true crime as much as they study it." This chick is hilarious.Hilarious, intelligent and so painfully accurate. Two thumbs up for this absolute queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:58 PM |
| 3 | This house definitely belongs to a LVMHow can they stand to live in such filth? It's so disgusting! I feel dirty just looking at that crusty ass house, imagine actually LIVING there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:11 AM |
| 9 | This house definitely belongs to a LVMThis place is a filthy trash heap. So gross. There was a toothbrush, toothpaste and mouthwash next to the kitchen sink. EW! Imagine eating a meal at the table and having to watch an LVM spitting right in front of you. The whole place is a massive train wreck. Yuuuuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:04 AM |
| 117 | Reminder: Never EVER build a man up. He will throw it all back in your faceNotice how as SOON as they start making the big bucks, a gold digger is the exact type of woman they go for. Do aging scrotes really think these 20 year old girls love them? Lmao!! I had a friend who was a total gold digger, she was 23 at the time and model gorgeous. She would always go for the older, rich men and talk about how much they spent on her. And when she got bored, she'd move on to the next one because she literally didn't care about them and was just using them. She was drowning in g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 12:01 PM |
| 14 | Don't let them use and disgard you like that.My old pick me self would've been flattered when they came back. Now I'm annoyed and inconvenienced. I leave them on read and block. Feels great knowing they no longer have power over me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:56 AM |
| 74 | Remember that LVM/NVM are the rule and not the exception--anyone who tells you otherwise is a pickme. Men ghost us all the time, it's only fair to give them a taste of some eQuAliTy rIgHt nOw sInCe wOmEn hAvE aLl tHe DaTiNg AdVaNtAgEsI feel so empowered and rejuvenated when I block LVM. It's my kink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 32 | This is absolutely amazing, and a great way to deal with such.They probably learned this misogyny from their LVM scrote fathers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:48 AM |
| 55 | Im not saying he is a HVM, but he has potentialMen love gold diggers. That's the exact type of woman they would pursue, but they're too broke to and this hurts their fragile egos so they bash gold diggers as a cope. But as soon as they start making bank, they are chasing after some young hot chick knowing full well that she is using him for his money and has no love for him. At least be honest scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:47 AM |
| 43 | Most Stay-at-moms do not get the luxury of building a career, or even the luxury of a personal life This is how women end up in a financial trap with no support.This is so true! I wish people realized how much women contribute. The scrotes that get mad about being dIvOrCe rApEd are completely discounting and ignoring the incredible amount of unpaid labor that women do for years and decades on end. Of course she deserves half. She literally is the reason you were able to succeed and flourish in your career because she handled literally EVERYTHING else while you were working. Tf outta here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:35 AM |
| 134 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️HVM to the max! Lurking scrotes take note, THIS is how you take care of your partner when she's sick. Not leaving her for a new woman or cheating when she's in the hospital or getting mad that she's not able to do housework or give you sex like she used to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.This is so true! All my life I've been praised for being a total selfless doormat who always put other people's needs and feelings first. People praised me for not giving a crap about my own self. And whenever I did try to do something for myself, like treat myself to something nice or expensive, or say no to someone who really wanted something from me, I was called selfish, rude, disrespectful, uncaring, stingy, etc. This post is so true. When women are praised for being "good" it's because the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 16 | If one were to enter a LVM's brain this is what they would find (alongside porn):I'm crying omg😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 26 | Ladies, I want to decorate my flat with framed poems and sayings that focus on female empowerment, FDS principles and just general boss-b*tch vibes. What are some of your favourites to quote?"Know your worth and add tax." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:39 PM |
| 14 | HVM actionsThis is lovely! I'm so happy for you. I'm definitely using this list as a green flag guideline. Thanks for posting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 26 | I'm sure most of the LVM didn't understand the heavy sarcasm. WoMEn ArEn'T fUnNy. I absolutely adore her 😍.This made me laugh! I love how she's taking these digs at men with the "I want an ambitious husband with goals and I want him to give it all up to support mine" LOL. This is EXACTLY what men have been doing all these years to countless women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.This is a good idea, they are trying to ruin our sub. I recently made a high quality post about why not to take back LVMs and it must have triggered them because they downvoted the shit out of it and nobody saw it! Wish these scrotes would leave us alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.I get obsessive messages from these scrotes defending their disgusting behavior and I'm sick of it. We don't care about you!! We literally only want HVM and since you're not one, leave us alone. If they had any sense, they would put in the work to become a HVM and actually be able to attract women like us. But noooo. They'd rather manipulate their way into our lives while having literally nothing to offer. We FDS women work on ourselves first and foremost and we all aim to be a HVW. Part of that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:26 PM |
| 17 | When they complain about being expected to provideDrag them sis. This is the truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:03 PM |
| 18 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Omg YES! You're so right. It's almost like I wrote this. SO many men are so quick to tell me their preferences when I didn't even ask. When I met my ex, he immediately started talking about his sexual preferences and what he expects me to also be okay with it. This was all in the first week of dating. I was too much of a pickme to take issue with it. but the relationship crumbed anyway because it turns out he was controlling and misogynistic and felt like he was entitled to enjoying my beauty. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩This is such a good point!! I've always dealt with people trying to scare me into marriage because otherwise yOu'lL bE aLoNe AnD sIcK! But the truth is most men don't actually take care of their wives when she is sick! They are actually more likely to leave you for a different woman when you are at your lowest point!! Many of them are trash. The hypocrisy is so real because men expect women to stay by their side through everything; sickness, bankruptcy, disability, getting fat and developing ED.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 01:54 PM |
| 112 | Men Will Always Make You Pay For Their ShortcomingsLawyer up. Sue his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:47 AM |
| 3 | LibFem Twitter is at it again. WTF is “Sexual Mutual Aid”? Notice how quickly the Incels jumped into the fray to spin this idea into a way to punish women who won’t have sex with them🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️This made me sick to my stomach. Why are men so depraved? Why??!!!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:03 PM |
| 11 | Why can’t men get this through their brains?Reverse racism implies that there is a "correct" form of racism, that by default racism should only happen to a certain group, which in and of itself is problematic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 57 | Ways to tell you’re being kept as an option or a backupSo true! They don't care about you, they just want an ego boost. If you respond to him when he finally comes crawling back months or years later, he will treat you just as badly as before. No response is the best response | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:08 AM |
| 33 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?More posts on male psychology and male nature. I think pickme-ism comes from the erroneous belief that men are as selfless and empathetic as we are, or that they value love and commitment as much as we do, etc. Men think and approach relationships VERY differently than woman, it's important for us to realize what we're dealing with and not be so naive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Does following FDS leave you a little guarded in relationships? Or are you open and all in, but still “ready to walk” at a moment’s notice (if he acts up)? Does the balance come naturally with time?How do you control your feelings? I get really intense feelings at the beginning and have such strong pickme inclinations, it's hard to control | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:55 PM |
| 11 | After I told him about my job. He has a point.This is the tactic of insecure men to make you stroke their fragile ego. I used to fall for it everytime and rush to reassure them that they were accomplished and should be proud of themselves. Now I recognize it as a red flag. If a man ever says some self deprecating crap like this, I will either agree or say lol. No coddling their feelings. If he thinks so lowly of himself, he probably already knows he has nothing to offer me. Might as well move on when he reveals he is low value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | A bunch of red flags I noticed while watching a tv show, can you guess them?So many red flags. He's unemployed. Asked her out at her workplace. Asked her to have a beer which is super low effort. Expects her to be okay getting into a car with him alone. The girl is acting like a total pickme too. She knew exactly when his shift starts AND she agreed to go out that same night which shows that she's overly desperate and is willing to rearrange her schedule for a man. Low self respect and overly eager for an unemployed LVM who barely makes effort. I bet she'll get used and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:10 PM |
| 4 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!This is LVM propaganda. I have never found a six pack unattractive. I have never had anything but respect and admiration for men who go to the gym and take good care of their bodies. I had an ex who was a total health nut. He refused to drink pop or eat packaged meals. He had an amazing gym body and was so meticulous about staying in shape and eating right. he is legit one of the hottest guys I've ever met. He made such an impression on me and to this day he is literally my inspiration for healt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:00 PM |
| 16 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toAccording to these braindead scrotes I must have manipulated every guy who approached ME and expressed his interest in ME out of his own free will? I literally mind my own business and men come out of the woodwork. I don't have to manipulate anyone for anything lol. These scrotes are delusional. FDS is teaching us how to filter out low value men who are bad for us and will offer nothing positive to our lives. FDS teaches us to value ourselves and respect ourselves FIRST and put our own well bein… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 17 | Older men who date younger women admit they’d date teens as young as 16 and that their attraction progressively fades with age. It’s never a good idea to date much older men. It’s doomed to fail once you age out of his preference.I don't trust that a middle aged man who dates a woman in her late teens/early 20s is even capable of loving her. To him she is just a utility. If he can only be attracted to very young women, does he just keep trading each woman in when she reaches her "age limit" ??? Like obviously that 21 year old is not gonna be 21 forever. So what happens if say, they get married. Does he must divorce her the day she hits 30? And then gets a new 21yr old? I wish one of these old scrotes would explain to me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:41 PM |
| 7 | "A garbage collector? Give him a bar of Irish Spring and marry him."I actually don't think money or higher education automatically makes someone a better match for you. I've met enough rich scrotes to know that money does NOT make a HVM. If anything it makes it harder to assess a guy's character. Also, I know some educated men who have their head up their own ass and constantly feel the need to assert their intellectual superiority. At the end of the day I will be more than satisfied with a man of good character who has a stable income and is smart enough to hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:58 AM |
| 25 | LVM husband reacts to wife's rape story with anger and physical abuse. She leaves quickly and notifies him about divorce. LVM cries crocodile tears but this QUEEN is not having it!Absolutely! They will only ever use it to hurt and belittle you because they're incapable of empathy. And if he's a real gem, he might even make you feel responsible for coddling HIS hurt feelings when you're the one with the trauma! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:06 PM |
| 22 | Never leave the table on a first date!Men are opportunistic as hell. If they get a chance to do something they've been fantasizing about, even if there's a million reasons why it's wrong and immoral, they will absolutely still go through with it. He can act like a decent person in public and around friends/family, but his true depravity will come out when there's a situation where he can do something terrible and get away with it. One thing that really chills me to the bone is the fact that most men will become violent rapists, tort… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:23 PM |
| 16 | Professions of undying love.This is SO true. I was naive and really thought that the man I was speaking to was honest when he said I'm not like any girl he's ever met, or that I was his soulmate. Such a liar! His actions showed the opposite. He was hot and cold, kept me a secret from his family and only wanted the relationship to progress on his terms. Soulmate my ass. He said all kinds of sweet things and I was so trusting, lmao. Now I know better. Men's words don't mean shit. They will literally say anything to get what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 7 | Boyfriend's "RULES"This is unbelievable. Imagine someone forcing you to be okay with literally less than the bare minimum. She works 50hrs a week! And he's an unemployed video game nerd and still has the audacity to tell her not to interrupt his "free time." I cannot even begin to describe all of the problems here. Sis needs to leave, like yesterday. Imagine keeping around a lowlife bum who adds literally not a single thing to your life??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:59 PM |
| 4 | When we say "Men are the no.1 threat to women globally and historically, so be careful" we're paranoid/crazy/man-hating, but when men say it it's a funny jokeBecause men are opportunistic. If they have the chance to do something terrible and immoral to someone else without consequences, even if they understand why it's so bad and even if they feel guilty about it later, they absolutely WILL do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:27 PM |
| 5 | When we say "Men are the no.1 threat to women globally and historically, so be careful" we're paranoid/crazy/man-hating, but when men say it it's a funny jokeIf it happened to their daughters or girlfriend they would be blind with rage. If it happened to THEM they would have literal PTSD. But when it happens to some faceless woman they'll never meet, then they have a million and one reasons why it's not a big deal, it's actually her fault and she deserved it. Men are trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:25 PM |
| 5 | I HAVE NO WORDS.I don't like tampons or menstrual cups and I have really heavy periods so I have to wear those thick overnight pads. It feels gross and like I'm wearing a diaper. I cannot imagine anyone voluntarily wearing a diaper because they're too disgusting to actually find a restroom. Whenever I think scrotes cannot possibly disgust me more I am proven wrong🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:53 AM |
| 6 | Having high standards makes you a nice girl. Thoughts? I think it's bullshitMen are offended when women would rather be single than be with them. Society in general is offended when a woman voluntarily stays single. Even if she's literally minding her own business and going about her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:48 AM |
| 50 | Just sayin' 💅I met a guy on Tinder who had an amazing body. He told me he worked out several days a week to make up for the fact that his diet was terrible. I mean this guy was hawt and wasn't even a gym rat or anything. A bit of effort is totally doable and gets great results, but noooo LVM would rather sit on their ass playing video games, eating Doritos and getting fatter by the day then complain they don't get matches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:09 PM |
| 6 | Top 3 things you look for in a partner?A kind and respectful human being to EVERYONE. A HVM is a good person first and foremost Generosity. This is HUGE and if he's not a generous man willing to spend on me and take care of me, then goodbye. Not even worth the trouble. Self control. Someone who doesn't explode in anger at every inconvenience. Someone who doesn't make impulsive decisions, ESPECIALLY sexual decisions. Someone who thinks with his mind not with his d*ck. Someone who can solve conflict in a level headed manner, who doesn'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:07 PM |
| 48 | FDS Responds to Media Accusations of “Pick Up Artistry”Exactly! My Tinder is flooded with men right now. Finding men is easy, that's not the issue. I wish they bothered to actually read what FDS is about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:52 PM |
| 5 | She gave him her best years but once she's hitting menopause he wants to cheatOh yuck. Old men are gross in general. I'm in my early 20s and I can count on one hand the number of "old" guys 45+ that I was actually physically attracted to. One guy was 50 and the hottest one by far. He was tall, had a great body (so didn't look his actual age) was super funny and respectful to me. I was like okay damn😏😏 but I'm super aware of the skewed power dynamic in his favor, I would never enter a relationship with him. He was hot but there would be no benefit of being with him (if he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 11 | What would happen if we stopped sleeping with LVM 🤔That's not what I'm encouraging at all. I'm just presenting a real life situation of what CAN happen when casual sex is not an option for LVM/NVM. I do think some of this is culturally influenced by Middle Eastern culture (their misogyny makes America look like a feminist utopia). So perhaps the results would be different in the West if women stopped casual sex, maybe men would actually step up because the misogyny is less terrible here by comparison? It would be an interesting social experiment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:32 PM |
| 24 | What would happen if we stopped sleeping with LVM 🤔Rape and sexual assault would increase astronomically. Sexually frustrated scrotes would have no other avenues to use women for their bodies, so they would drop the act and take women by force. Look at Egypt to see what happens in societies where casual sex is frowned upon and most men are LVM who nobody wants to marry. It's terrifying. 83 percent of Egyptian women and 98 percent of foreign women within Egypt experience sexual harassment. Women are raped in the streets, sometimes in broad daylig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 24 | She gave him her best years but once she's hitting menopause he wants to cheatWhen I was 17 I used to work as an office assistant and I had a huge crush on one of the guys who worked there, he was late 20s or early 30s and very attractive, respectful, and funny. His presence was intoxicating. I don't think he was attracted to me, just being nice. He was not a predator. But if he ever made a move on me I would have totally enjoyed it. The key thing here is, he was attractive and had a great personality. But if he was in his 40s, balding, beer gut and poor hygeine.. I would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:34 PM |
| 4 | please take the time to watch this 1 minute video on reactive abuse.wow sounds exactly like my father | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 14 | How on earth do you let it get this far🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:40 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else not finding a home first date with Mac and cheese fish crackers that cute or HV?He's a psychopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Always give yourself the biggest pork chop,...always be as selfish as man!This is so true. Ever since FDS I have become keenly aware that men don't do ANYTHING unless it serves them. They try to get the best possible deal for themselves ALL THE TIME. They put themselves first and never feel bad about it, in fact they feel perfectly justified because of all their audacity. We have to start being like that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:14 PM |
| 8 | When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sexWhen a rapist tells on himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | The red flags here... so painful to read after FDS!! 🚩this is clown behavior. Yes he's a NVM but sis, you CHOSE to stay with him all these years! Knowing damn well he didn't have a single thing to offer. This is why self respect is SO important. You can be highly educated, financially stable and successful but STILL be clowned by a NVM because you tolerated their bullshit and didn't love yourself enough to demand better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:08 AM |
| 5 | Types of PickMes and how to heal your inner oneI am at least 4 of these lmao. But I'm working everyday to relinquish this mindset and stop caring about men so much, Lord knows they don't care about me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:57 AM |
| 5 | Or maybe don’t go having kids all over the place when you only have $800 a month to support them?? Why is that so difficult?Sadly the only thing he can provide is the audacity. What low value trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:19 AM |
| 11 | “To be honest, I just want to f*ck this girl to prove to myself I can, and move on with my life. I’m determined to make this happen” - Ugly scrote wants help manipulating a “9/10” woman 🙄10 bucks he tries to rape her and then claims she "wanted" it. Scrotes like this take any action a woman does as a sign that she wants them. She breathes in his general direction? Returns his hello? Barely acknowledges his existence? Somehow his delusional pornsick mind will interpret all of that as if she was literally throwing herself at him. He will take this as an invitation to violate her personal space and interject himself into her life. There is no cure for such pervasive delusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:33 PM |
| 8 | If women wrote a list of dating demands like angry men doI'm laughing so hard omg😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else completely okay with being single forever?It took me a long time to get here, but yes. The reality for me is that I've never had a relationship with a man that didn't rob of my inner peace and utterly destroy me in the end. Relationships are NOT supposed to be like that. I am NOT supposed to accept such poor treatment. When I'm single, I feel at peace with myself just living life and doing my own thing. If a relationship cannot IMPROVE my life, then it's not worth it. Why would I give up my freedom for someone who makes me feel terrible… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 7 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.Can you PM me what you found? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:54 PM |
| 9 | I saw this today and wanted to share. It’s NEVER too late to level up ❤️It's incredible how much you flourish when LVM are not holding you back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Zero percent surprised he's still singleew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Just a short list of demands from a cross-eyed man. Must be seXualLy oPeN.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 24 | PickMe no more - Cut off a guy who wanted to be “friends”I'm so proud of you! Only invest in a man who invests in you first. If he's not prioritizing your relationship with him then you're not important enough to him. You deserve better than someone who flip flops whenever life gets stressful. Such a Queen move to cut him off. A woman who knows her worth NEVER allows herself to be placed on the bench waiting for some man to eventually give her the time and attention she deserves. He wants you waiting around while he most likely pursues other women. lm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:04 PM |
| 77 | Just began reading Women Who Love Too Much!Calling out my entire life lmao. I'm guilty of pouring love into empty, broken men who didn't know wtf do with my kindness and compassion. Who didn't know how to nurture it and reciprocate it. I assumed they were as caring, attentive and emotionally intelligent as me. What I realized belatedly is that all these years I've been searching for a man to love me the way a WOMAN loves. With her whole heart, mind, body and soul. I wanted the kind of love that doesn't give up on you even in your darkest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 85 | This is just sad. He clearly doesn’t respect her at all.Omg. She is literally spelling it out for us that he is a total NVM loser that is also pornsick and has anger issues. Yet she still wants to cOmMunIcAtE lmao. I don't even know what to say. Throw the whole man away sis! Level up and go live a happy life without his dead weight dragging you down!! Why are pickmes so intent on self sabotage??? I literally don't understand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 3 | The Weird Power of Journalling. Really.Journaling is a release for me. It's catharsis. I love being able to let go of all the feelings that are festering inside of me. I let them out and I feel so much better. It gives me emotional balance and mental clarity. 10/10 recommend to everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:37 PM |
| 8 | Think about it....I feel like this should be a punishment for rape cases where there is very solid evidence the man is guilty. Take their manhood away, they don't deserve to be called men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on men calling you adorable?I hate it. Especially from older men. It makes me feel like a mindless plaything instead of an actual adult human being with thoughts and feelings. Just another way for scrotes to devalue us while pretending it's a compliment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Pickme helps scrote husband have a career, he ends up raping 16-year-old girl bc "he can't help it"This is why we NEVER build a man. If we do they will try to upgrade from us as soon as they become successful from OUR hard work and sacrifices. Barbara the Builder NEVER wins. I'm glad this woman is smart enough to leave this scrote and I hope she does better choosing a partner the next time around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:54 PM |
| 12 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husbandAgree. Never seen a higher concentration of douchebags than in medicine. The field breeds narcissism and there are so many men with God complexes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 12 | Always do your researchAttractiveness means nothing. LVM can have an amazing face and body and still be trash. One of the hottest guys I've ever met is a total criminal. I know another super hot guy who is a major alcoholic and has made terrible decisions because of it. We need to assess the WHOLE man, not just how he looks and how much money he has. Doesn't matter if he looks like Idris Elba. If he's not treating you right then he belongs in the trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | YESSSSI guess looking or being expensive. I've been called high maintenance because I like designer fashion. And because I spend a lot of money on beauty products. Being a queen isn't cheap lol what do they expect? Also another reason is if you don't cater to men. My ex told me I'm "hard to please" lmao. Apparently having high standards and not letting LV male behavior slide is the greatest sin for a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 13 | Why FDS is nothing like red pill/MGTOW/other misogynistic garbageThey blame women who get their hearts broken by LVM and rail on them to make better choices in men. But they get mad when we actually become more selective and choose better because that means we won't be choosing THEM ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 4 | I used to think this dating coach had good advice, but he suggests walk and drink dates here 🙄I actually found some male* YouTubers that give FDS advice. Kev Hicks and Tony Gaskins have solid advice, some of it is literally handbook material. Idk if you're religious but there is a Christian minister named RC Blakes that gives amazing advice for women (in line with FDS from what I've seen). There is lot of Bible references but he emphasizes leveling up and never tolerating LVM behavior. Devon Franklin has great relationship advice too, he's the one who taught me "don't give wife privilege… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 3 | The “Blood in the Water” TestThis is brilliant!! Thank you for the quality post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:18 PM |
| 20 | How to Avoid Getting Pavlov'ed via TechnologyI've been a victim of these EXACT tactics. You described NVM/LVM strategies to a T. They really do this because of how effective it is. As girls we are socialized to be more trusting and think the best of others and scrotes exploit it. We don't think to ourselves "maybe this guy is a manipulator, he doesn't deserve my trust yet" because WE'RE not manipulative. Most women are looking for a loving and healthy relationship with someone who cherishes them. They assume men are too. WRONG. Most men ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:12 PM |
| 10 | Quarantine beards are a tragedy .. from Ryan Gosling lookalike to Ryan the Hobo. Why do they all do this??He aged 10yrs between the two pics yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 86 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑Why do men want expensive women and then complain about how expensive she is?? Like do you really think a quality woman is going to accept your cheap ass date? Especially when there are hundreds of guys who can offer better? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 15 | In appreciation for all the fans who show up in our DMs 😂I keep getting DMs from these scrotes. Don't they have better things to do? We don't want their opinions! Go your own way and leave us alone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Nope. He is not going to be my projectI learned that the hard way! Guys would use me as an emotional tampon because "I understood them" but then they would chase dreamgirl who provided no emotional support and mostly ignored them lol. And I wondered why they never liked me back even though I listened to all their problems🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Nope. He is not going to be my projectYes it's definitely one of my love languages. I'm an empath. I also work as a nurse and I love children. Wanting to heal others is a part of who I am. I just need to be careful about giving that healing to people who didn't earn it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Always BeautifulMy ex was obsessed with my appearance. Constantly complimented my face, skin, eyes, etc. But it felt so hollow. He didn't seem to really see me as a human. Just a pretty talking doll. I felt so objectified with him. It's insane. Even when we try to meet these ridiculous beauty standards, were treated like shiny new toys. And if we don't meet the beauty standards were treated like shit. I just want to be treated like a human being. I want to be loved and appreciated for everything I am. But noooo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:14 PM |
| 5 | MOD UPDATE: No more LVM ex-boyfriend collages. They are all pretty much the same and we don't want LVM stank all over our subreddit. Effective immediately, any collages about substandard men will be removed.Can we make collages of ideal HVMs?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:08 PM |
| 27 | Nope. He is not going to be my projectyes I definitely want a child! I guess broken men really trigger my nurturing instinct and I have no kids or pets to give it to. but I need to chill before I start acting like a mommy to a grown man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 3 | How to get rid of LVM if they try to approach you in public?You should only be polite the first time you tell him to leave you alone. Come up with any excuse. Sometimes lying about waiting for your bf or husband works. If he keeps persisting, then start being rude af. You don't owe him any more politeness. Go on your phone. Literally start a phone call in his presence and walk away, ignore him completely. Interrupt him and start talking about yourself. Or walk away and start a conversation with a different person. You don't owe them anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:28 PM |
| 23 | Couples on YouTube/ in the media who are actually good couples?I feel like Devon Franklin and Meagan Good have a really healthy relationship. She leveled up and then met him. He is a preacher and his YouTube videos on relationships were very helpful and in line with many FDS principles. He always praises his wife and stands up for her when people disrespect her. He is successful, good looking and calls men out on their BS. Seems like a HVM Ciara and Russell Wilson. Ciara majorly leveled up after leaving LVM rapper Future. She met Russel shortly after and ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:21 PM |
| 118 | Nope. He is not going to be my projectI'm still leveling up out of pickme ways but this is the hardest part for me. I have a soft spot for the "broken" guys and I just want to hold them and heal their pain. I want to give them non sexual affection and just make them feel loved and cherished. But I keep reminding myself I'm not an emotional rehabilitation facility. These men need therapy, not my loving embrace. Being a lifeline to these broken men just damages you in the end. It creates codependency and toxic, addicting relationships… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 17 | What's the best part about being a woman?I love the depth and richness of emotions we experience (even though sometimes it hurts a lot) and how comfortable we are expressing ourselves emotionally. If I feel something I don't feel the need to suppress it. I love the nurturing and tender side of myself that comes out when I'm around children and sick people. I love that I can have deep and fulfilling relationships with other women. I love the female form and how naturally beautiful we are. I love the feminine energy and how powerful it i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:55 AM |
| 12 | Why is there a rumor circling around that FDS women are ugly?I had a friend who practiced all of the FDS principles. She was extremely pretty, tall and thin. We used to joke that she should give up on nursing and just be a model. She took great care of her appearance and was such a sweetheart. She was so confident without being arrogant or conceited. She only dated successful men who would take her out on expensive dates, buy her gifts, and treat her so well. Her Instagram was full of pictures of herself in exotic places these men would take her to. She h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:35 AM |
| 10 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?I am SO here for this thread! I think nothing is sexier than a tall, fit, muscular guy. The taller the better. Most short guys are just so unattractive and their horrible insecurities make it worse. I'd rather be with a tall confident man who doesn't die inside everytime I wear heels. Someone who towers over me and makes me feel like a woman. He has to be fit though. Fatties and dad bods are disgusting and so are overly ripped body builder types. Give me an athletic guy any day. Someone who eats… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Come share some of the wisdoms your moms and grandmothers, or other strong female role models have said to you :) <3Your mom is an absolute QUEEN! Give her a hug and tell her how much she is inspiring us over here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 6 | In a land far far away where queens are banished our long lost sisters suffer. At least they are talking to each other about it. So close and yet so far...You are welcome to ask here! Even if we aren’t welcome there.Tell it like it is sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Quirks, Flaws, Traits and Red Flags - Let's discussThis is gold. Thank you for writing this up. Character flaws need to be ACTIVELY compensated for, otherwise they are red flags. So true!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:39 PM |
| 6 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesLmao. LVM will always lose in open marriages. As soon as the marriage is opened the woman is drowning in dates and male attention. And the man is lucky if he can find even one person to go near his pp. Jokes on you, scrote! You were more concerned about getting yourself off instead of supporting your wife and helping her with the children. No wonder she doesn't want to tRy NeW tHiNgS. She is probably repulsed by the manchild you are. Lmao I love when LVM get what they deserve! Hopefully this wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha Supreme found in the wild. Of course she‘s labeled „Queen“ on Reddit.She will be used for bangmaid mommy services for a while, then eventually she'll be left for a woman who has standards and doesn't tolerate low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:17 AM |
| 3 | The best advice I was ever given was by a 35+ woman who said, “you have to love yourself more than you love them”.I wholeheartedly agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:09 AM |
| 3 | 3 Quality Traits Most Important to You in A HVMKindness, generosity, reliable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:12 AM |
| 8 | I love how I can’t speak about how women feel uncomfortable, only for men to say it’s our fault.Yeah there was a post about women in the Middle East who were covered head to toe and still getting leered at by disgusting LVM. Doesn't matter how you dress. at the end of the day, they still see you as a sexual object | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:26 AM |
| 8 | I love how I can’t speak about how women feel uncomfortable, only for men to say it’s our fault.I like to dress up because generally I get treated better. Most men only respect you and show kindness when they find you attractive. Even women and children treat attractive people better. So overall it's a net positive to take care of your appearance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:24 AM |
| 25 | I love how I can’t speak about how women feel uncomfortable, only for men to say it’s our fault.So true! When I am out and dressed to the 9s I get approached far less. I still get creepy stares but less catcalling overall. LVM scrotes know they don't have a chance with a fabulous expensive looking woman so most of them don't even bother, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:22 AM |
| 45 | Why are most men so unattractive?Because they don't have to try when the world tells them even if they have nothing to offer they are still entitled to an attractive, young submissive virgin who will cook, clean and raise children and also be 100% loyal but okay with his cheating ways. Why should a man bother about trivial things like brushing his teeth or washing his ass or maintaining his health when the world tells him he doesn't have to try? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 3 | He wants to "pull up outside and talk in the car" and not arrange a date.The bar is literally underground at this point lmao. Such low effort low value BS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Women have the stereotype of being needy and clingy whereas I keep meeting men that are needy and clingyLol I knew it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:08 AM |
| 6 | ‘I’m totally fine with porn, but.....’This is such a disgusting mindset to have. The funny thing is, LVM will never in a million years be okay with their GFs or wives getting off to made-for-women porn with romantic storylines and well-endowed extremely attractive male models. He would never ever be okay with his wife or GF paying for nudes from another man. Or having a cyber encounter with a hot cam-guy (not even sure those exist). The point is if the roles were reversed, they would NEVER be okay with it therefore it is absolutely … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:05 AM |
| 9 | As a 19yo lurker, I want to thank all of you from the bottom of my heart.I'm so happy that you found FDS at a young age! Trust me if you follow the rules you will save yourself from SO much heartbreak by LVM. Tell all of your friends to raise their standards, teach it to your siblings and cousins too. The only way to protect yourself from ending up with a trash LVM who will use and abuse you is to keep your standards very high and NEVER lower them no matter how he makes you feel. I'm so proud of you and wish you the best!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Don't ever allow a man to "we" youOmg. Sis you just described my LVM ex! He would say/do messed up things and then be like "I don't think what we're doing is right" and it's like no fucker. there is no "we" here that was ALL you, completely and utterly and 100% you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 5 | I can’t stress this enough: actions >>>>>>>> words.Men are incapable of empathy, unless it's towards other men. They simply do not see us as human beings therefore our pain and our suffering don't bother them, unless they are personally inconvenienced by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Women have the stereotype of being needy and clingy whereas I keep meeting men that are needy and clingyAre you Canadian? You said DKM and that reminds me of my friend from Toronto who would always say that!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 16 | Women have the stereotype of being needy and clingy whereas I keep meeting men that are needy and clingySooo true!! Can't believe how emotional these guys are in relationships yet they always accuse US of being emotional, please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:51 AM |
| 44 | Women have the stereotype of being needy and clingy whereas I keep meeting men that are needy and clingyI noticed men are clingy af when they realize you are busy and have priorties outside of them. The less interested you are in them, the more they want you. It's freaking weird. I have a lot going on too and dated a guy who was literally blowing up my phone everyday. Sometimes I left him on read cause I didn't have time to respond right away. One day he got hurt and asked me why I left him on read, then texted me "I'm clingy lol" with laughing emojis. I was embarrassed for him lol. Later on in ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:49 AM |
| 50 | I love that I see more and more people finally exposing LVM’s. AND I LOVE IT when it’s other men. Yes tell THEMMen shaming LVM is my kink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:41 AM |
| 8 | Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨👧👦 on your dating profile does *not* make us more attracted to you. It's *always* an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸Omg the dog pics. Although to be fair I did that too, but in a cuter and classier way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 10 | Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨👧👦 on your dating profile does *not* make us more attracted to you. It's *always* an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸Agreed. Gotta love when they put disclaimers on their Tinder profile like "btw that's my neice I'm holding" like okay? I'm supposed to believe that? Automatic swipe left!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:39 AM |
| 484 | Used or new, we will run you overdisgusting. why are they soooo obsessed with marrying a virgin, but simultaneously employ every single tactic to manipulate women into casual sex? how are women supposed to stay virgins until marriage if SO many men are acting like wild rabid dogs for a crumb of puss? make it make sense. oh and we're prudes if we don't put out but we're sluts if we do. WTF DO YOU CONFUSED MEN WANT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:32 AM |
| 26 | My Life Goals Collage!I love this!! Rain and plants are my happy place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:49 PM |
| 18 | You jump ship in every other matter of life - but you're expected to hang onto the one thing that imperils your life and status most? Nah fam.Yessss!!👏👏👏 We are the ones who choose. Not men. Countless men pursue us and it is within our best interest to select the one that best suits us. And if we can't find an HVM we need to be content being on our own. Under no circumstances should LVM ever be chosen. Some things should never be an option, no matter how much pressure there is. Choosing an LVM is like selling your kidney when you fall on hard times financially. That should never be an option because your health is PRICELESS. Long term… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 88 | The fake feminists gushed over her ‘groundbreaking’ lyrics that ‘smashed female stereotypes’. “ I don’t cook, clean, but I got this ring”. Yeah Cardi, you forgot the part about weeding out loser LVMs though. Look at you now 🤡 🤡 🤡Beyonce is clearly not married for love. Their marriage seems more like a business arrangement and I wouldn't be surprised if both him and her are seeing people on the side. Imagine letting that ogre touch you🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:21 PM |
| 3 | THIS is why porn is ruining women's lives and making them insecure. Some women are even willing to get labiaplasty to satisfy pornsick men and making them "less likely to cheat"! Unbelievable.It literally has nothing to do with how you look. Halle Berry, Jennifer Aniston, Jennifer Lopez have all been cheated on and they are some of the most beautiful women in the world. You could be a 10/10 model with perfect everything and if he wants to cheat HE. WILL. STILL. CHEAT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Don't rush into babymaking , they don't necessarily deserve being a father...You have to be a special kind of incompetent asshat to leave your OWN children on the front porch at night without proper clothing! What the HELL this makes me so angry. The amount of times I've seen shitty parenting from men is simply ASTOUNDING and what's even worse is that this bullshit is ACCEPTED in our culture, that men are literally unfeeling even towards their own children, and we should just deal with it. Ladies please please please do NOT procreate with LVM/NVM. It's a nightmare that n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 27 | pay attention to languageThis is EXACTLY why scrotes prefer younger women, because they are easily manipulated. A scrote can get away with treating his 20yr girlfriend like shit and giving low effort because she doesn't know any better! She doesn't know what she's worth. She's too naive and has low standards so she tolerates so much bullshit from him! That's why the one thing they hate most in the world is a woman with standards. Because she would require more than just the audacity and he knows he's got nothing else to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 21 | pay attention to languageI was an innocent pickme too. All I ever wanted was to find a good man to give all my love to. But so many guys were creeps who wanted to take advantage of my innocence. I got hurt so many times and played for a fool. It wasn't until I got my heart broken majorly my LVM ex that I finally woke up. Thanks to FDS now I realize most men are not even worthy of my love, so why am I giving it out like free candy to people who don't even appreciate it? I learned that men don't value something they didn'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 11 | pay attention to languageThey are straight up telling on themselves 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 8 | “I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”They say this but then they drool over a woman who spends 2hrs doing her hair and makeup and looking fabulous. They're such liars lol. I never met a man who wasn't absolutely stunned when I got all dolled up. Lying fucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:14 PM |
| 8 | People who say "not ALL men are like that" are lowkey agreeing with us because even they acknowledge that at least SOME men actually are like that.Also, we talk about pickmes just as much as we talk about LVMs. Does that mean we hate women?? Obviously not, because we ARE women. We just hate the behaviors and attitudes of CERTAIN women (which gets them used by LVM) and we try to warn each other about it. Same thing when we trash LVM/NVM. If you are not a manipulative narcissistic scumbag who wants to use women, you shouldn't get angry!! I don't angry when someone points out shitty behavior of other women because I'm NOT like those women. So… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:28 PM |
| 1 | They don't what now?Omg. I have caught so many men being nasty af!! Guys who refuse to wash their hands after using the bathroom or before eating, guys who don't wash their bedsheets, guys who have terrible breath because they don't brush their tongue, guys who literally live in a pigsty and let everything pile up in their rooms for months at a time. Disgusting!!! I am convinced that the majority of men are just filthy. The only hygienic men are gay guys :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:18 PM |
| 4 | They're insulting themselves at this pointand yet these same guys are the first to blame the pickmes who have been screwed over and used by LVM. "she should've chosen a better man" OKAY WHICH IS IT BRADLEY???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:12 PM |
| 3 | They're insulting themselves at this pointThis is so accurate. Finally a scrote is agreeing with us. He probably doesn't even realize it but he proved our point! Yes, scrote. A significant percentage of the men pursuing us are TRASH as you so freely admitted, which is why we are picky and have high standards. We would rather be single than end up with LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 13 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.Why has no man ever done this for me...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:28 AM |
| 32 | If the roles were reversed, reddit would be losing its mind. I'm glad these scrotes are getting called out, imagine defending a rapist? Imagine harassing someone because they dumped a rapist?They defend him because they relate to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Men rate women’s physical attractiveness on a 1-10 scale. Women rate using 0s and 1s (f*ck yes or f*ck no). Thoughts?Most men are either average looking or ugly to me. I've only met a small handful of men who were so attractive that they took my breath away. I don't give the ugly ones a chance because I know I can never be attracted to them. I've go for average and hot guys. But it's not enough to be good looking though. For me personality, character and emotional intelligence is way more important in determining attraction. When a guy is confident, funny, smart and treats me like a queen I can't help but beco… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Meredith Grey, the OG PickMe 😂I am cringing so hard at this. I used to love this show but honestly it is giving the wrong message to women. Do NOT be like Meredith throwing yourself at a cheater LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:15 PM |
| 7 | What the actual f*** is wrong with menTextbook narcissistic abuse. Sis needs to GTFO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:07 PM |
| 109 | Imagine being this insecure that you feel the need to go around and humble those GORGEOUS, confident black woman...patheticdoesn't have a girlfriend either😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:57 AM |
| 14 | Go build me a table!This had me cackling😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 3 | The vitamins. Professional, personal & sensory. When they are fulfilled a partner is not necessary but an addition.I love this concept!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:34 PM |
| 61 | More proof men just see us as warm flesh lights. He expects her to warm herself up, give herself her own orgasm and be satisfied with just pleasing him??? I’m disgustedImagine being very aware that you have a trash LVM boyfriend and still wanting to stay??? Wanting to fix things?? What is the point of having someone like this in your life?? Throw the whole man away! we are going to get married No you're not. You are a forever gf. He's clearly not serious about you at all otherwise he would have put a ring on it already. You birthed children for him and it still isn't enough to secure his commitment. He's using you as a placeholder bangmaid mommy until he can g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 26 | Ladies don’t ever support a man through med school/law school, etc. Came across this Reel and you should see all the pickmes in the comments. I wonder if she will be making these same reels in 10 years when he leaves her for a younger woman ☹️I work at a hospital too and there is so much fuckery going on. One of the cardiologists regularly dates nurses half his age. He's so old he literally has gray hair. One of our hospitalists cheated on his wife with a young nurse. One of the newer doctors quickly married a younger nurse as soon as his residency ended. She is really successful and gorgeous, I bet he dumped his forever gf as soon as he met her. There is so much cheating and disgusting behavior. I could never be with a doctor. They … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Presented without comment.An HVM would never let you suffer if there is something he can do about it. Why can't all men be like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 7 | Fucking disgusting indeed! 🤢🤮LMFAO I'm done😂😂🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:36 AM |
| 8 | 😂 they're watching us 👀Why do they want FDS women when there's so many pickmes to choose from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 9 | What will you not do until engaged or married?I agree with most of what you said, in addition to no emotional support no rearranging my life around him no telling him about my past traumas no combination of finances, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 56 | No thanks.I don't compliment men anymore because whenever I do, they assume I've just offered my body to them. No, scrote. Stop reading into every damn thing and making it sexual when it's not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:00 PM |
| 4 | BF is upset that his best friend is dating his ex. Now we are on a break.This is how men communicate that you are not important to them and you will always come second to another woman in their lives. Have some self respect and don't take this loser back. He would leave you in instant if he could get back with his ex. Don't allow a man to use you as a placeholder until he finally gets the woman he really wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Normalize turning your phone off before 9pmLmao I feel attacked! I lost so much sleep talking to my ex LVM. I don't even remember most of what we talked about. What a waste of time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:06 PM |
| 11 | Women aren’t sad that you don’t view us as sex dollsIf they get dolls they can just remove themselves from the dating scene and leave the rest of us alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:11 AM |
| 46 | Assume Every Man You Meet is a NarcissistI'm too nice and empathetic so I attract narcs like nobody's business. I am an ideal victim because I have trouble saying no, forfeit my boundaries easily, and I'm always more concerned about other people's feelings than my own. And of course my low self esteem makes things worse. I discovered what narcissism was after my ex lovebombed, devalued and discarded me. Now i'm working on all fixing these things, and FDS is an excellent tool. When you are ruthless about vetting men, when you have high … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:34 AM |
| 30 | Assume Every Man You Meet is a NarcissistYou're so right! My ex was a covert narc. He pretended to be sensitive and emotionally intelligent and he totally fooled me. He knew about things like the 5 love languages and attachment styles. He seemed to really be in touch with his emotional side and knew how to relate to women. Until the mask started slipping. His anger issues came out. He was incredibly impatient. Controlling and intolerant. The more I fell in love with him, the more he let his mask slip. He didn't have to pretend anymore … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Thank you to the queensShe's actually right, there are a lot of LVM whose masculinity is affirmed by always remaining "above" the women in their lives, especially financially and career-wise. LVM hate independent women and try to break them down because it hurts their ego that a woman can have her own money, house, car and not NEED him. He feels threatened because he can't have power over her. A lot of men rely on power imbalance in their favor (being older, keeping her dependent financially, using emotional manipulat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Why do some of us have trouble asking for what we want? Enough!Men are never afraid to ask for sex. So why are we ashamed to ask for what we want? You are SO right. A man can say "I want to marry a hot woman with a sweet personality who will have tons of sex, cook/clean and be a great mother to my kids" and it's totally okay. Everyone thinks it's acceptable for men to want these things from women, even if said men are ugly, broke and have terrible personalities. Men aren't shamed for their standards, no matter how unrealistic they are. But if a woman says "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 9 | Scrolling through Amazon reviews for women clothesWe are just sex objects to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:23 PM |
| 33 | “spiritual guys”are trash tooIt's scrote speak for "makes me horny" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:05 AM |
| 12 | Buying myself a promise ring on FridayI'm so here for this!! YES QUEEN! I actually was thinking the exact same thing a few days ago, why don't I just buy myself a ring instead of waiting for some man to finally pick me? I can choose myself and make promises to myself. I am most deserving of my own love, time and affection! Please post pics of your ring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:35 AM |
| 157 | What wall?!Oh my word Salma Hayek is so beautiful. She looks fantastic! I can't believe she's 54 she looks like she's in her early 30s!! Proof that the wall is just a cope. You can look great at any age as long as you take care of yourself. And most importantly, as long as you don't associate with LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:33 AM |
| 19 | What does it mean when he says, "I make him feel calm"?Second this. Guys with anger issues can't be around other hotheads. They gravitate towards calm, thoughtful women. So they can take their anger out on us and feel secure that we will be forgiving and understanding, instead of leaving their emotional immature asses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:51 AM |
| 12 | Keep your crown onThis is such a beautiful message. Thank you queen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:30 AM |
| 59 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultThe real issue is uncontrollable male lust and entitlement to women's bodies. Instead of trying to control what women wear, they are better off castrating these men physically and chemically so they are no longer a threat to society. Problem solved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 70 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultMen in these countries are so depraved it's not even imaginable. In Egypt there is a phenomenon called the "circle of hell" where masses of men surround a single women in circle formation, with the innermost ring raping and assaulting her while the outer rings of men deter any rescuers. There is even a wiki about it. Mind you Egyptian society is extremely misogynistic and has some do the highest sexual harassment rates in the world, despite the fact that many women dress very modestly with hijab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | LVM scrote dumps his gf of 4 years after seeing video of her being gang raped as a child. Calls her disgusting, gets mad about what she would "do for other men but not him." Pickme completely understands, wants to get him backSaw this post on r/all and I'm so sad for this girl. Her bf literally admitted to being jealous of the men who gang raped her and yet she wants to get him back. I can't believe such depraved LVM exist. I also can't believe a pickme could be so devoid of self respect. The worst part is she says he knew all about her traumatic past and was supportive for 4 years. But he eventually showed his true colors as all LVM do. This is why women need FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:57 PM |
| 46 | I know FDS is true because ... (a message for those not-yet-sold and those who deny FDS altogether...)This is so so true. Especially #1. I used to overshare with men thinking I was being "open and honest" but all I got was heartbreak. After suffering so much hurt, I finally realized that most men don't actually care about my trauma and my unhealed wounds, nor are they interested in or even capable of helping me heal. Sharing details about your deepest insecurities and childhood trauma is a recipe for disaster. At best you get dumped because HVM do not want to be your therapist, but your partner.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 22 | I liked you better when you were miserableWish I was like that. I seem to be only attracted to toxic people who absolutely devastate my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 18 | “Pick me, pick me, pick me!”All this to be a forever girlfriend and never be appreciated. And probably get cheated on. No amount of housework will keep a man who doesn't want to be kept! She's doing all this just get dumped when this relationship is longer convenient for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 22 | Thought I found a HVM, then I told him no to hanging out on weekend, explained I’m only comfortable socializing about three times a week to keep my social battery happy...I hope you know by now most males cannot be just friends with a woman. It's almost ALWAYS sexual for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:05 PM |
| 25 | Peak LVM right hereWhat a disgusting scrote. Imagine the fury and rage of LVMs if a husband posted that he caught his wife looking up an ex, and then made a comment about said ex's dick and how the sex was so good with him. And then also refused to apologize and gaslighted him afterwards. The comments would be filled with "AWALT" and how she's pining over Chad and using her "beta bucks" husband. LVM would get so angry when the roles are reversed but they support this behavior when women are the victims! This is wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:03 PM |
| 6 | If you're in a relationship are you expected to teach your partner to help out around the house or contribute if they live with you?Hell no. Is your man a dog? Why do you need to train him? If he doesn't doesn't take his responsibilities seriously as an adult, then you need to find yourself someone who does. Never put yourself in the position of assuming responsibility for "training" low effort, lazy ass men who want to leech off of you while providing nothing in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:55 PM |
| 29 | Why do some women date such ugly men?My LVM ex was very unattractive, I thought so when I first met him. But I decided to give him a chance because everyone always talks about how it's the personality that matters most, we shouldn't be so shallow, blah blah blah. His personality was shit and he was overweight and had poor taste in fashion. I was actually kind of grossed out by him but I forced myself to give him a chance. Turned out to be a waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:51 PM |
| 3 | How do you date multiple men on a small town?I would avoid the men in my town and date people in the nearest big city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:22 AM |
| 5 | Should I cut this man off?Sis please read the handbook. It explicitly tells us to hold off on sex to force the man to prove himself worthy of a relationship. he seems to be using you and has no intention of committing, especially because he wants to "see where it goes" which is basically code for "I'm going to use you until it's no longer convenient for me." Don't let him do that to you. A month and a half is way too early to be sleeping with someone already. That's the opposite of taking things slow. Chances are if you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:21 AM |
| 3 | Any woman here who's not at all insecure about their looks but is afraid of attracting superficial men?All men are superficial to an extent. Most of them will never approach you or even consider you as a romantic partner unless they like how you look. Personality, chemistry, everything else is a second priority. Even HVM place a lot of importance on looks. Overall I'd say men are way more shallow about women's looks than vice versa. There's not much you can do about it other than vet them ruthlessly and only pay attention to men who actually have substance. At the first whiff of superficiality, d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:07 AM |
| 11 | Bruh byeSis you are the problem here. You keep going back to someone who clearly doesn't respect you. Scrotes gonna scrote. Let them slide once they will start ice skating. Stop tolerating this behavior if it's hurting you. Stop going back to this LVM every time. Respect yourself or nobody else will ever respect you. Read the handbook. I say this from a place of love, not judgment. A lot of our pain could actually be preventable if we truly stuck to the handbook. Best of luck sis, update us on your prog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:56 AM |
| 11 | Another story about age gapYoung women need to stop dating old scrotes! A middle aged man has literally nothing to offer you, unless he's rich. He only sees you as a warm hole and he loves how naive and easily to manipulate you are. Men in their 50s who pursue women in their 20s are NOT doing it for any good reasons. He will only get sicker and sicker while she is in the prime of her life. Who wants a relationship where they are nursing their partner? Where they get taken advantage of and used for their body? So gross. Pl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Am I just a bitch? The amount of times he mentioned my school drive me bananas. I think I may just suck at this online dating thing.How to come off as an insecure manlet 101 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:59 AM |
| 10 | Field report - too focused on my looks?My LVM ex never stopped talking about how beautiful he thought I was. Every single conversation he was going on and on about every. single. feature. He would talk about my skin, my lips, my eyes, my facial structure, my smile, literally everything. He definitely only liked me for my looks and acted like I was some sort of exotic animal and not a human being. Major turn off. Because of him I don't trust men who are over the top about appreciating how I look. It just means they are shallow and do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:56 AM |
| 26 | Keep those expectations high!They absolutely will! My LVM ex tried to convince me to accept a small wedding (because he was cheap and didn't want to pay for a nice ceremony) and I found myself agreeing to it because I didn't want him to feel like I was demanding or only valued him for his money. I made myself low maintenance on purpose to make him feel better about being a broke scrote. Guess what? It didn't increase his love for me or make him treat me any better. He actually spent the entire relationship being insecure be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:46 PM |
| 596 | NEVER AGAINBecause it's the same pillow he's had since childhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:37 PM |
| 7 | What I have done since my separationThis kind of queen energy is what I live for. Thanks for inspiring me!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:06 PM |
| 24 | Got it twisted when I called him out on his overly sexual flirting with me. Then I get this at 5am. Now he's going to have to wait longer now bc that's his "making it up to me"Wish I had the guts to call out LVM who spoke to me this way instead of uncomfortably changing the topic. In my pickme days I tolerated so much rude and disrespectful behavior from men. Ugh. Wish I had known my worth then!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:04 PM |
| 10 | mgtow pedophiles discuss the female wall 🥴Omg no lies detected. my LVM ex was 26 and he looked like a father of two in his mid 30s. Receding hairline, dad bod and terrible fashion sense. His skin wasn't even that bad but he just didn't put in any effort! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 08:19 PM |
| 11 | I got accused of sexual abuse and 'being high maintenance' by a loser scrote.They hate when you are having a good time without them because it shows them you are perfectly fine without them. They hate women who are in control of their own happiness and don't require a man to have fun. This makes them feel small and it hurts their fee fees. They want to be the most important thing in your life so they can have power over you. When you refuse to give them that power, they get butthurt. Nothing more pathetic than insecure men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 08:15 PM |
| 14 | For those of us with unhealthy attachment styles, and overactive imaginations.Just go in the apps and post good pictures. Guarantee you will have at least 30 men salivating in your inbox. I downloaded Tinder the other day and already had 90 likes on my profile within the first hour. Never underestimate the thirst of men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 11 | It’s the effort for me!This is actually really sweet and I would totally appreciate it because it shows effort and I have quite a few food allergies, so I would appreciate the thoughtfulness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 08:05 PM |
| 15 | 32 and was ready to hang up my hatWow this gives me so much hope. Thank you so much for posting this. When my LVM ex dumped me out of the blue months ago (after future faking about marriage) I totally fell apart and kind of got stuck in a rut. I let myself spiral, started doing poorly in my classes, and became so depressed. Everyone around me was getting married to their LTR bfs and here I was single, alone and feeling so stupid for giving my everything to someone who couldn't be bothered to give me 1% back. I am still healing a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:51 PM |
| 230 | Girlfriend pranks boyfriend by leaving porn open on his laptop, while knowing he also watches porn. The way he reacts shows that men know how that it’s wrong to be placed in second place sexually.Maybe he just needs to be more oPeN mInDeD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 07:27 PM |
| 10 | Why do LVM shame promiscuous women, but at the same time expect every woman to sleep with them???🤔Lmfaooo "Scrote Law" I'm crying 😂😂 But for real it's damned if you do, damned if you don't. There is literally no course of action a woman can take that these LVM will be satisfied with. So there is literally no point even attempting to play by their rules, their rules are contradictory af, constantly changing depending on his feelings his dick, and serve no real purpose other than to make sure he always wins and you always lose. This so why pickmeishas are so frustrated, because even when they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:54 PM |
| 10 | Why do LVM shame promiscuous women, but at the same time expect every woman to sleep with them???🤔Yes omg. If a woman becomes dirty after sleeping with a man, logically that means the MAN is the dirty one since HE "tainted" her! But nope. Their supposedly rational and logical minds malfunction when it comes to acknowledging this. LVM will never admit they're the trash and filth we should stay away from, even though deep down inside that's what they believe. Otherwise why would they lose respect for women who sleep with them? Because they know they are trash, and if they were a woman they wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:39 PM |
| 49 | For real thoughWhy does every Tom, Dick, and Harry have those ridiculous fishing pics on their OLD profiles? Standing there holding the dead fish up to the camera like they are presenting a sacrificial offering. It's not attractive or appealing, they look like every other guy on the apps. Is it so hard to be unique and interesting? They're just carbon copies of each other at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:33 PM |
| 45 | When he doesn't really care, he's just making a showImagine all the housework, emotional labor, intimacy and possible kids she's given him, just to be treated like this. Pickmes will always lose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:00 AM |
| 48 | Yup.... we give way too much to not be taken care of. NEVER settle.Not surprising at this point. These LVM have nothing to offer but the audacity. How can they be so unbelievably entitled and yet refuse to give anything in return for all they're asking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:51 AM |
| 8 | How to identify lovebombing?Wow this is EXACTLY what LVM have said to me in the past. I fell for it completely, thinking he was really my soulmate. He would shower me with attention and compliments and always to out of his way to see me/talk to me. I really thought I was lucky, lmfao. He was just another trash LVM. Turns out they stay this shit to every girl they date, don't feel special | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:17 PM |
| 5 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Please read the handbook sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:45 AM |
| 9 | Link this dude sends his matches. Click and decide if you wanna laugh or cry.Is he serious????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:25 AM |
| 6 | Does anyone else find that they’re at their best when a man is not in their life?I have never felt more anxious, more self conscious and more emotional than when I was in a relationship. LVM rob you of your peace of mind and make you feel crazy. Never again will I accept that feeling as "normal." A good relationship is supposed to make you feel safe and secure. If you don't feel that way, something is wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:57 AM |
| 8 | LVM speak in future tense "maybe in the future I'll be ready to commit" "someday I'll take you out somewhere fancy" etc... A HVM doesn't need to talk, he shows you. He doesn't promise, he manifests. If he doesn't fulfill you now, he won't later on either.Omg I wish someone had told me this before I wasted time with my lying LVM ex. I wish I hadn't been so quick to believe that he would really marry me and take me on a honeymoon to Europe. It was all words and not a single action backed it up!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | I had amazing advice from my post yesterday and he comes at me with this today, I'm not sure how to respond to this..."I know we're not exclusive" And yet he talks about how he wants to be an emotional vampire and use you as a free therapist. That sounds like the privileges of a committed relationship, not an unlabeled situationship. Funny how he was using Hinge too but justifies it because he "deleted it instantly." Yeah right, I highly doubt that. He wants to play the field while you stay loyal to him despite the fact that he didn't even give you a title! Lmfao at how he "couldn't sleep" knowing you're on Hin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:50 PM |
| 134 | i can’t imagine how miserable this girl is. holy shitA scrote totally wrote this. I have a hard time believing that even a pickme would sink this low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 15 | What are phrases or strategies men use in order to use the hope of marriage/kids to keep you around without ever giving them? Not dating now b/c of covid, curious for futureMy LVM ex used to string me along and future fake by saying "I've never felt like this before. If I had this connection with a girl, I would have been married to her by now." He would ask me questions like "what kind of wedding do you want?" And "how do you feel about Italy as a honeymoon destination?" Mind you he hadn't even proposed or brought a ring yet!! He would talk about how I am so perfect for him and I'm the whole package. He'd bring up children and debate with me how many is a good num… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:45 PM |
| 6 | Do you think LVM/NVM can really change and become HVM some day? If so, should we give these men a chance?You're so right. I need to embrace FDS as a mindset to live my entire life even after marriage or committed relationship. This is something I'm definitely working on. I deserve better than to wait around for a toxic LVM ex to change. Thanks for the solid advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 12 | Do you think LVM/NVM can really change and become HVM some day? If so, should we give these men a chance?You're so right, thank you. It's tempting to want to reconsider him because I do believe he had potential to be a good guy if he worked on his toxic traits, but who am I kidding? He could have changed when he had me and he didn't want to. If he changes now that he's lost me it will only benefit the next woman, not me. It's tempting but I definitely won't go back to him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Do you think LVM/NVM can really change and become HVM some day? If so, should we give these men a chance?You're right this is coming from a delusional place in my mind that thinks my LVM ex will wake up and realize how valuable I was and how stupid he was for letting me walk away. I mean I guess it could happen, he could change. But I'm not doing myself any favors hoping for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Do you think LVM/NVM can really change and become HVM some day? If so, should we give these men a chance?You're so right. FDS is a lifestyle and I shouldn't ever allow myself to feel comfortable even if a man appears HVM. I agree he definitely can't be a HVM if he was capable of being so utterly lacking in human decency. Idk I guess I'm a sucker for the "changed man" stories and I'm so willing to believe people can change and do better. But it's not worth the risk especially with a long and known history of degrading women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Focus on YOU 👸🏽I love this empowering queen energy!! I am feeling stuck in a rut lately because my pickmeisha tendencies have not fully worn off and anytime I start doing things purely for myself, I get this awful guilty feeling like I should really be helping someone else instead. It's time to put myself first, I've been catering to people who don't deserve me all my life. Enough is enough, it's time for me to actually enjoy my own life for once and to hell with how people feel about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Speculation: Men want young women to think they will provide, so the woman will not meet her potential and become dependent on them.Yes! If an LVM meets dreamgirl, he doesn't care if she's a career woman. All those "preferences" and "expectations" he had for his pickmeisha/bangmaid go out the window. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 3 | 🤡 Scrotes already talking about us in the commentsThey want women to lower their standards and give broke guys a chance. And when women do exactly that and inevitably get screwed over by the LVM, these men blame her for not having standards and choosing poorly. So which is it, scrotes? You can't play both sides | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:31 AM |
| 32 | I don't fw grown men who quote Monty Python anywayThat's very LV behavior. I would block any guy making crass comments about my body. How disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:57 PM |
| 3 | I don’t want to fuck a guy with grey hair.Gray peepaw lmfao I'm crying 😂😭😭 But in all seriousness, what the hell is your friend thinking? This type of doesn't even qualify for a ONS let alone a committed relationship. the bar is truly underground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 12 | This is either pick me mentality or a man talkingAs if women who are married to LVM are living such great lives. What is there to envy? The fact that LVM's wife has to wash his dirty boxers? Raise the kids by herself while he drinks beer and plays video games? Should I be jealous that she has to sleep with a limp-dick pot bellied ogre who can only keep it up for 30 seconds? Should I be jealous of how exhausted she is from working outside and inside the home because her trash husband won't provide or share housework? Lmfao they can keep him. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:49 PM |
| 6 | This is either pick me mentality or a man talkingLMFAO this is definitely a man talking. Of course they would preach this bullshit because all they want is to use women to the fullest extent while offering nothing but the audacity in return. The funny thing is, they don't provide "husband duties" before marriage either, they're so commitment-phobic and hate spending money on you or giving you the emotional support you need. Why the fuck should I be held to a higher standard and give things he would never give me? Lmao. The delusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:43 PM |
| 10 | Should I block an ex for the simple fact that hearing from him makes me sad and hinders my self improvement progress?Yes definitely block him. Your peace of mind is more important than his feelings. Since he hasn't done anything wrong to you, the most respectful thing to do is explain in a short and concise manner that you don't want him to contact you anymore. And then block and live your life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 3 | What’s Sex Like with a NarcissistOMG my ex used to say weird shit about how he's worried I might be "allergic" to him wtffffff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | After a lady ranted about low quality men, a man proceeded to suggest she give up her high paying job and nice apartment to attract better men.Why is the advice from men always telling women to lower their standards to accommodate poor, undeserving scrotes that bring nothing to the table? Why don't they advise their fellow men to improve themselves so they can be worthy of a high value woman? Literally wtf. If these scrotes were fair or had any logical reasoning, they would apply their own advice by lowering THEIR standards. But nope. These dusties will never give a chance to a woman who is unattractive or doesn't have the qualities th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:53 AM |
| 3 | After a lady ranted about low quality men, a man proceeded to suggest she give up her high paying job and nice apartment to attract better men.Me too! I'm so thankful I don't have to depend on a man. Our feminist predecessors were so strong living through this BS and standing up for women so we could enjoy these rights today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:47 AM |
| 8 | Don’t let them fool youI used to love his music in my pickme days even with the blatantly misogynistic lyrics. I used to think Bella Hadid was so lucky to be in a relationship with him. FDS taught me that money, fame and talent does not make a man high value. The Weeknd is the quintessential millennial fuckboy and is absolutely an LVM through and through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 24 | Don’t let them fool youThe Weeknd has a song that describes how he used women for shelter and sex back when he was homeless, before fame. It's called Nomads. In the second verse he explains how low value behavior: I do it all to stay warm I do it all to get by I do it all for a home For a night But, baby I won't keep ya Just know that I'mma leave ya So, fuck me right Baby, fuck me right Until I'm too tired to leave ya | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:32 AM |
| 3 | And I- oopThese shows and movies are made by LVM for LVM. If course it shows some twisted version of reality where they are actually able to attract a beautiful woman without bringing anything to the table besides the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Nobody said following FDS would be easy.I needed this! I'm guilty of giving so much of myself to men and them being devastated when they don't give the same back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Nobody said following FDS would be easy.Thank you so much for posting this! I've been struggling to internalize the FDS values ever since my narcissistic LVM ex broke up with me. The pickmeisha part of me misses him so much sometimes (we had amazing chemistry) but my inner Queen knows he was entitled, had anger issues, no empathy and only interested in sex. He would always talk about marriage but I know he would have made a terrible husband. I should be glad I dodged that gigantic bullet but some days I just feel like I'm behind in li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:56 AM |
| 12 | What advice have *men* given you that aligns with FDS?Some scrotes will actually get aroused if you cry in front of them. Wish I was joking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:06 PM |
| 13 | What advice have *men* given you that aligns with FDS?I am a nurse. An elderly male patient once asked me if I was married and I said no. Then he told me this beautiful story about how he met his wife of 50 years and how he loves her so much. He told me to never marry a man with "roving eyes" and while I'm dating to not to "get grabby" which I assume means find a guy who has eyes for you only and don't accept the first scrote that pays attention to you. He was a cute old man lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Where women go wrong: a short guide for making good choices and avoiding pickmeisha-dom.I'm eating and your username made me spit out my food lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Typical LVM humor😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:54 PM |
| 25 | Excuse the profanity, but her passion spoke to me. I’ve been here. Black women, you DO NOT need to struggle behind a man to one day be worthy of love!! You are not losing anything by letting go of a man who mistreats you!I love this. So much pain in her voice for what NVM have put her through. I'm with you all the way sis!!! We don't need them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:03 PM |
| 62 | Shout out to all the invincible mommas out there cause the way society is set up...living life like Rihanna is looking REAL appealing lately ☕️Rihanna looks like a 5 star meal. She's beautiful and successful and truly doesn't care how men feel. What a queen. I would love to have her life instead of get married early and get knocked up by an LVM like so many women do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 22 | Do men really think that there is some female lawmaker out there who prohibited them from crying?Lmao I don't care how scrotes feel. They only cry to manipulate us or use us for emotional labor. Rarely does a man cry out of true vulnerability and wanting to share a personal moment with you. It's just to get your pity and trick you into doing something you don't want or being okay with something you don't like. Like all the scrotes who cry when THEY cheat on their GFs and wives. Being 100% honest I'm kind of disgusted and turned off when men cry in front of me. It's never honest. They can ke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 09:57 PM |
| 4 | “Should I wait around for crumbs? He says he likes me, tho”He wants to keep using her with no strings attached. Men will move mountains to be with the woman of their dreams. She is just not his dream girl so he doesn't even think he has to try. Sis needs to leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:15 PM |
| 10 | Queen shit 👸Yes queen! So accomplished and so beautiful. We need to normalize independent, happy women in all cultures. We should be able to have our own fulfilling lives regardless of relationship status | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:40 PM |
| 45 | Remember ladies, loving someone unconditionally just gets you screwed over. 😌This is why I don't believe in unconditional love. My love is extremely conditional. You either meet my standards if you want my love or live without me. I'm not loving you like your mama does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:34 PM |
| 6 | You Aren't Being Kind When You Mother HimThis is speaking to my soul. I needed to hear every word because I am so guilty of being too kind, too accommodating, too willing to take on other people's responsibilities. But ultimately, it's only hurting myself and them. Thanks for the wake up call, I need to do a lot of working on myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Cue the “nOt aLL mEn” replies 🤪They go onto women’s and insert their penis’ into the conversation. Lmao so true and perfectly said 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:31 AM |
| 16 | "She cheated on him, omg what a b*tch!" vs "He cheated on her, yeah well ALL/MOST men cheat"Men see us as property. In their minds, their property (us) can only have one owner. But they're allowed to have multiple properties. This is why they don't mind cheating on us but will go crazy if we ever cheat on them. These double standards exist because they don't see us as human beings deserving of loyalty from their partners, but they see themselves that way. I don't even know how to begin dismantling such pervasive misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:12 AM |
| 10 | This guy said that he has never managed to not cheat on his partners in 15 YEARS OF DATING and his sister rightfully called him out on it and he's upset at her for it because it was in front of his daughter.I don't understand men like this. If they have such a hard time staying faithful how about stop getting into committed relationships? Just get a vasectomy and have consensusal hookups for the rest of your life. Why is that SO hard for these scrotes? Why do they have to break women's hearts and create children who will be raised in broken homes? Make it make sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 5 | How a man treats you when you're sick or going through a hard time is a good indicator of the future.Definitely not a scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:15 PM |
| 9 | How a man treats you when you're sick or going through a hard time is a good indicator of the future.Someone pointes this out on r/purplepilldebate and some scrote said men leave because they can't get sex from their ill wives and it would only add insult to the injury to cheat on their sick or dying spouse. The audacity! Even while their wives/GFs are going through a health crisis the only thing these scrotes can think about is their dicks. I would be shocked if I hadn't already lost my capacity to be surprised by the shit they pull | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:14 PM |
| 3 | There's people in the comments saying that some of these are reasonable...By this logic all these rules he listed are also null and void after 7 days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find the phrase “no woman can take my mother’s place” just a little weird? OpinionYes it's very weird. Men who are extremely attached to their mothers are literally unable to enter a loving, committed relationship with any woman. These men are already enmeshed and emotionally dependent on their moms, there is no room for another woman in their hearts. Honestly if you meet a mama's boy, just run away. He will always treat you like you don't matter. And his mom will probably abuse you too. Not worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:44 PM |
| 9 | LVM dress low valueOmg yesss. I went on a date with a covert NVM. I spent almost 2hr getting ready. I wore a beautiful dress, did my makeup perfectly, wore heels, and smelled amazing. Even my Uber driver was checking me out lol. When I got to the restaurant, NVM was not only late but he was wearing an atrocious outfit. Baggy jeans that didn't even fit him properly and an old looking T-shirt. And tennis shoes. What the hell? I was embarrassed to be seen with him lol I even told him jokingly "I feel overdressed." An… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:37 PM |
| 14 | Men like to complain about women misrepresenting themselves on OLD. Check out this massive level of facetuning 😂Lmfao I can't. Looking like a straight up psychopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:04 AM |
| 76 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsOh my God. I worked in a hospital and we had a boomer patient who was the biggest POS I'd ever seen. He was recovering from a major surgery and his mistress had visited him, but we all thought she was his wife. He admitted she was his girlfriend. Then he started talking about how his actual wife lived in a nursing home because she had gotten really sick (I think it was cancer?) and kind of declined health wise. This scrote had refused to take care of her when she discharged from the hospital bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:00 AM |
| 38 | Am I the only who thinks the only requirement to be appealing to a man is merely "don't be fat"?They'll still sleep with an overweight woman. They don't care. They say they have all these preferences but can't even stick to their own standards because they have no self control when it comes to sex. They're aroused by inanimate objects that resemble women. They're aroused by holes in their furniture. Food that resembles a female body part. Their mind is so sex-crazed that they will hump anything with a pulse. Or without one. Even the dead are not safe from them. Literally they are disgustin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:37 AM |
| 50 | 😒 Oh yeah we're jumping at the chance to be taken advantage of by an older, cheating, scummy power-hungry LVMSadly some of their wives still wouldn't leave them after finding out. Pickmeishas will cling to these NVM til their dying breath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to see this. Hold the door open for everyone, speak politely to everyone, don't speak ill of women you're not attracted to, period.Lmao where's the lie? Nobody is kinder and more respectful than a man who's desperate to sleep with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Book recommendation: Why Does He Do That? By Lundy BancroftSuch an eye opening read. I highly recommend it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:00 PM |
| 6 | The AudacityA woman doesn't even have to exist in order for them to get hot and bothered. A man can be aroused by the mere thought of a woman. He can be aroused by a female video game character with unnatural proportions. Literally pixels on a screen. He can be aroused by an inanimate object that resembles a woman. They are unable to view women as anything other than sexual objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 11:18 PM |
| 3 | The AudacityI have a theory. Most men are incapable of feeling empathy towards any woman besides their mother. Every other woman is replaceable and can be used like an object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 11:06 PM |
| 5 | The Audacity😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 11:01 PM |
| 9 | Black men have the fucking audacity to say this shit after decades of putting down black women and leaving them single mothers? Anyways...If you didn't sleep with everything that has a pulse, you wouldn't have to worry about multiple baby mamas and child support payments. Get a freaking vasectomy if you're so scared of becoming a "victim" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 11:00 PM |
| 45 | THE D.E.N.N.I.S SYSTEMOh. My. God. You described to a T what my LVM ex did to me. He followed all these steps and destroyed my self esteem, my self-worth, and made me spiral mentally. I had become so dependent on him that I made my whole life revolve around him. I thought I had found my soulmate and was thinking I would marry him someday. Little did I know our entire relationship was narcissistic and he was just playing mind games with me. I'm so mad that I opened up to him and told him about my past and all the pain… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 10:45 PM |
| 23 | Turnabout is fair playMen cannot empathize unless you literally give them a taste of their own medicine. IMO it wasn't petty but necessary. Now he knows you're not playing around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 09:33 PM |
| 10 | Beware of fake HVMsHow much time is long enough? If you wait too long, aren't you at risk of becoming his forever girlfriend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 09:22 PM |
| 4 | [Copy pasted] Sad truth, Pickmeisha in the making? : teenage girl wants to "find a boyfriend" to rescue her from abusive parentsI used to be this girl. When you're abused and are not aware of how badly it affects your psyche, you will literally attract abusive, trashy men and repeat the whole abuse cycle as an adult. She needs safety and Independence. And then she needs therapy not a boyfriend. Poor thing I wish there was something we could do for her :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 09:20 PM |
| 20 | Vera Wang turns 71 tomorrow!👑b-b-bUt w0mEn ArE GroSs aFtEr hItTiNg tHe WalL!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 09:14 PM |
| 55 | NEVER have a NVM's children: NVM red piller impregnates wife three times and complains that she is now hideous and that he has been "cucked by mother nature"I actually went to go read this thread and I'm appalled by how delusional this scrote is. Someone commented suggesting OP should have an open marriage if he's no longer attracted to his wife. Scrote responded with: "I am hesitant to open the relationship up, I'm not comfortable with the idea of her boning other men, as much as I would like to fuck better, prime pussy... and I know she would get it, she's cute at first glance and guys are thirsty as fuck nowadays." 😂😂😂 What a freaking clown!! He … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | TeaThis is the first thing that came to mind when I saw this thread! Donald Glover perfectly explained it and it's hilarious too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Only a year, he' already an abusive NVM and she blames herselfIn a few months she'll be posting again about how he hits her. Sis needs to get out ASAP, this cretin is not only negative value but also potentially dangerous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Women are sensitive? But are they?LVM are emotionally stunted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:29 AM |
| 9 | You can admit you miss and care for a LVM ex, that is okay, but don't let it fuck your shit up.I miss my LVM ex sometimes because we had such amazing chemistry and a connection that I've never had with anyone before. We would talk for hours and hours about any and everything. BUT he had some huge red flags specifically anger issues, and he struggled with patience and kindness. He couldn't respect me as an equal and wanted to isolate me from my family and friends. I know that I'm better off without him but sometimes I wonder if I will ever meet someone who understands me like that again. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:25 AM |
| 42 | Woman reveals speeding/car crash fears to BF... he decides to drive 85 mph, making her cry. She ghosts him. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!Couldn't agree more! I made a huge mistake telling a guy about my trauma from experiencing abuse and I regretted it so much. I will never tell any man about my fears. Never give them fuel to use against you, because they always will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 04:16 PM |
| 4 | Incel to FDS: 'Men need sex, women are cruel for denying it, even if they're scared'Lmao I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 03:01 PM |
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