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thrwy75479/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:15 PM
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thrwy75479/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:30 AM
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You're right in that it's not clear cut. If it's a dude that doesn't get any attention from women said that to his wife of 20 years out of the blue, she'd probably just laugh. If it's a dude that regularly gets attention from other women said that to his GF of 1 year, she might think he's a jackass, but also may be excited by it. That same couple, but she's in a bad mood, she would not receive it well. There's a lot of grey, and there are no exact rules.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 06:27 AM
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There's a way to do this though. You shouldn't go into details, and you never show all your cards. It should be enough for her to know you've been there, done that, and she's not with a virgin.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 06:15 AM
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"Anybody can become angry—that is easy; but to be angry with the right person, and to the right degree, and at the right time, and for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy." — Aristotle Also, there are numerous reasons why anger can be a good thing: https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/value-of-anger-16-reasons-its-good-to-get-angry-0313175
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 05:47 AM
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You respect a girl that you're in a committed relationship with by leading her, protecting her, and not cheating. This is done mostly through your actions. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 05:37 AM
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It applies in the general sense as well: people, places, things, etc. It takes work, but you have to be able to generate happiness from within. If you can't, you'll forever be a slave to whatever you think will bring you happiness.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 05:28 AM
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Nah, you're working towards something better. I'm not looking for a gf In that case, it really doesn't matter. For casual shit, she doesn't even have to know what you do.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:46 PM
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In her mind, it's the whole "I couldn't control myself" thing. She wants to feel like she let go, or broke free of something, her lesbian orientation in this case. The only way to do that is to have intense desire, meaning her libido has to be firing on all cylinders. It's how she revs herself up. It's the same as lifting. With light weights, you don't get the level of resistance required to exert enough force to gain muscle. You need an opposing force, or friction, to get work (from physics) do…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 06:29 PM
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What power do men have in society anymore? You can work all your life to achieve great things, some chick comes along, and throws rape allegations, you're done.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 04:17 PM
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They'll do it if it benefits them as well. I was looking for work, and I had girls that would stalk me on job search sites, forwarding job openings to me. In all cases, it was women who were interested and near the wall, and they were looking for a provider for themselves. It was also a way for them to keep tabs on me.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:56 PM
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Check out this article on envy, and jealousy. It's a good read. Then, recognize that you're a dude, and that you're competitive. You want the cool cars, the mansion, the Playboy bunnies, etc. Don't act like you don't want it. You want it. Accept it. Don't fight it. In relation to your question, there are 2 components to this: 1) focus on yourself; 2) get rid of distractions. To focus, you need something to focus on. This means you have to set goals for yourself, and pursue those goals. It's what…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:05 AM
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If it's about travelling, exploring new places, and banging girls, then go for it. However, if you're doing it only to have better logistics in terms of banging girls, aren't there any flats/rooms close to your college?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 06:47 PM
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What was he doing?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:19 PM
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Good thing it happened after sex: https://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-12138280
/r/askTRP08/09/20 05:23 PM
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Perhaps it's because the shortest girls weigh height more strongly when selecting partners. That is, they place a greater emphasis on height because that's what they lack the most. It would be true for anything. For instance, a chick that grew up poor would value someone with a decent salary more than a rich bitch part of a wealthy family.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 05:17 PM
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if you're going through hell, keep going
/r/askTRP08/09/20 05:05 PM
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There's recognition, attention, and pity. Only you would be able to differentiate between what it is you're actually feeling. Recognition for working hard to accomplish something, from people you care about is healthy. You deserve at least some acknowledgement, otherwise your hard work would turn into drudgery where you're mindlessly doing things without any sense of forward movement. Wanting a bit of attention to feel validated can also be healthy, as long as it doesn't go to extremes where you…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:35 PM
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A lot of negativity here. The only thing that's clear from your post is that more information is required. Maybe you're treating girls in ways they don't like, and you're getting that energy back. Perhaps they're treating you fairly, but you're perceiving it negatively. There's a chance that a few negative experiences may have caused you to become reticent—consciously, or subconsciously—and this fires off negative cues in your face, or your voice, or body language that are picked up by women. Fo…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 06:11 AM
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Experience definitely helps. Get out more, and get out of your head. It's like muscle, the more you use it, the stronger it gets. Also, check out SocialProNow. They have articles on all sorts of common social skills development issues.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 05:56 AM
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If you're powerful enough, it won't matter. Become powerful. Before you get there though, you'd have to use different strategies. For non-vanilla shit, you can ask her if it's okay to record it "for fun". There's also the post-fuck "I had fun" text, and all the texts before meeting up where she agrees to meet up. You can also use specialized dating sites that have girls that are into that stuff. You're catering to the market, and meeting girls that want that kind of stuff to begin with. Make sur…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:57 AM
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"It is easier to act yourself into a better way of feeling than to feel yourself into a better way of action." — O. H. Mowrer
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:55 PM
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It all comes down to nice behaviour because it's a great way of exploiting the social principle of reciprocity. If someone's being nice to you, giving you compliments, flirting with you, giving you free stuff, they want something. Maybe not right away, but it creates an expectation that the "niceness" should be returned. An example of this is people seeking donations. They'll give free gifts to make you feel obligated to give something back. Check out the book Influence: The Psychology of Persua…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 09:03 PM
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accomplished men with dad bods who seem intimidated and threatened by muscular men with less accomplishments They're dudes, and they're competitive, so it's natural to feel uneasy around someone that has something over them. Why do men work so hard in other areas of life, have immense work ethic but then neglect one of the greatest bang for your buck assets in life: working out? Time, and energy. If you put everything into your career, you won't have time, or energy to workout, and get jacked. P…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:00 PM
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All dudes being at the same level, it's obviously chance. To improve your odds, go extra, and control the environment. Throw a party where the ratio of chicks to dudes is imbalanced, for example, 5 to 1. And, make sure the dudes invited are below your level. In that scenario, the girls would be fighting over the guys, and it puts you at an advantage.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:22 PM
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If it's legal, and you both want it, do it. There may be social ramifications, there may not be. Be prepared for either, whatever the underlying reasons may be. If i invite this girl at my place and tell her to not brag about us at all and keep it secret, do you think she will? If you tell her not to talk, she's more likely to do it. Assume she'll talk. You could talk too. Preempt her. It's also possible neither of you says anything. How things will go after you bang is uncertain.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 11:43 PM
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So my question is, do women simp for HVM? If so, what do some of these behaviors entail? Yea, their behaviours are exactly the same as BP behaviours for men: neediness, stalking, gossiping, anxious, etc.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 07:33 PM
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I wasn’t confident enough to do it last night do to the general vibe of the night and me being with some good friends. It's tricky with a group. You don't want to seem like you're rushing to get her out of there. Unless you're planning on a gangbang, you do have to part ways though to take her back to your place. Any tips or tricks to make it easier to get into that mindset? Imagine that you've already fucked her. You know what she looks like naked, and you enjoyed fucking her. Now, you want to …
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:48 PM
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I'll figure it out when I get there Exactly. The only way to see past girls, and sex is to achieve abundance by fucking around as much as possible. You'll have more clarity once you're in a state of abundance.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:33 PM
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They have no empathy for simps or beta males Then don't be either. Also, go beyond sex. You can use the hot ones to branch swing your status. Use her to gain access to high status guys who might get you exclusive access to social events, or perhaps land a high paying job, or land a contract for your business. Secure your status, then let her go, and move on to the next chick. Play the game, or get played.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:19 PM
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There are 3 broad industries that will put you near money: finance, insurance, and real estate. Get into one of these industries, and push. I would encourage you to get into finance. The barrier to entry is not high to become a financial advisor at a bank. You'll learn a lot, become good at it. Build your list of clients, and you can use that list to setup something of your own to advise people. You can also start as a bank teller, and move up. The idea is to develop that thirst for knowledge ab…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:54 AM
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Lessons from Jada and Will Smith marriage? Don't get married, especially if you're wealthy, and famous.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:48 PM
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I decided to drop my plates and see where it went. Its been six months now You're in the honeymoon phase. Beta, alpha is irrelevant. You both have that New Relationship Energy (NRE), and are inseparable. Relationships are dynamic though, and both of you will change over time. It's great that you're enjoying it. See where you end up in 2 years.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:12 AM
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I have also been tossing up going into a trade such as electrician or mechanic since I enjoy fixing/making stuff, the only problem I see here is there is not a lot of career developement. You could create your own company after a while, and grow it. Pretty much I am tossing up between something that will eventually pay well if I dedicate myself to it but there is a chance I will want to blow my brains out after a few years or something that I will probably enjoy but doesn't pay as great and does…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:13 PM
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You know how much of a dick I'd be if you couldn't hit me? Sums it up perfectly. Massive asymmetry in the power structure. There's little to no recourse for anything they do.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 09:36 PM
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Did anyone here consider, that some guys coming to red pill might be people, who are rejected by society on daily basis? Either these people are not providing value, or they're providing value to the wrong people, and are therefore not receiving anything in return. a lot of normies who suckup to chads and Nancy's just go get breadcrumbs of affection To do anything in life, you need money. You don't have money, you can't do shit. To get money, you'll have to sell, which means you'll be kissing as…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 12:07 PM
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Depends on the person, and the image they want to convey. If it's a rock star musician, it's practically a necessity for them to fuck around, and have addictions, otherwise they'd be seen as too soft. If it's a Mr. Rogers-type persona, then fucking around would destroy his clean image. For CEOs, there's variation. Jack Dorsey (Twitter) is strutting around with models. Bill Gates (Microsoft) has a steady, seemingly healthy marriage. As pointed out by others, another thing to bear in mind is that,…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 10:23 AM
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Start selling. Find things, sell them online, on the street, etc. You don't even need things. You can ask people if they want to sell something, or buy something, and connect buyers, and sellers, take the commission. Get that hustle going. Who knows where the path will take you. "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." — Steve Jobs
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:36 AM
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Except perhaps the STD stats, most of what you said could be true for men, and women in general, irrespective of race. Bw really, really employ the dual mating strategy to an extreme and get fucking pissed when they see an attractive black male with a non-black women because that was supposed to be their bailout dude. This is because women are super competitive over quality dudes, and assortative mating is a thing. The thirst from black, or even dark-skinned girls is real though. Unless she's ex…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 12:27 AM
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Every dude has natural instincts. They get numbed by society though, and bad guidance. That is, until they go through a breakup, or 2, and their balls drop. Check out Tupac: Before: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1USRZ98PV7s After: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qgv10pXPDLQ
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:35 PM
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I don’t care about my emotional baggage because it is not my problem. They either accept it or they can find some other dude. I cannot change that, so why worry? You mentioned that you didn't want to deal with their baggage. This means no one will want to deal with your baggage either, and you'll end up alone. That was the point. My ex want to get married but with a person closer to her age. I had her since she was 20yo, and she has been fantastic, but for many reasons I cannot see me with her a…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:54 AM
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A point worth noting is that while older women will have more baggage, you, too, have your own baggage. Everyone's accumulated some damage just by being alive. Yeah but the quality of the girls I will be dating will undoubtedly lower over time... If you have the means, there are escorts, unless you want more than sex. Should I squeeze the lemon until all the juice is out or plan for the next phase of my life? It sounds like you already have an answer to that but you want validation. The fact tha…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:29 AM
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If you had a fulltime nurse who was guaranteed to always be there, would you stay single, and ready to mingle until you're dead?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:30 AM
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my DNA lineage is safe already Single point of failure. What're you looking for from a woman at this point?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:52 AM
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You're already in sales, which will be great for your development. Time is your greatest asset. It's also finite, and never comes back. Remain conscious of how you're spending your time. Learn about all the various financial topics: debt, mortgages, stocks, options, derivatives, futures, interest, bonds, real estate, etc. Never stop learning. Invest early, invest often. Take calculated risks.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:36 PM
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Success in life is the only way to get over all the shitty people you've ever dealt with.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:25 PM
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That's why all the women in families are always like "so when are you getting married?!?" Have a relative that kept pushing this on me. Ended up divorced a while later.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:20 PM
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Did you bang her? I get the sense that girls sometimes do this on purpose by not showering, or cleaning up to see what you'll do. This could be true if they've never smelled that bad before. Some guys will simp out, and either fuck anyway, or not say anything, and still spend time with her, while telling her how wonderful she is. Both would be an indication of desperation. It's better to call it out, particularly if it's an overly rancid stench. Otherwise, you're being dishonest with yourself, a…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:33 PM
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She's trying to get you to admit you like her before you've even banged, bring you into orbit. This is a girl that our relationship started off as friends but with a somewhat sexual vibe. She knows she has you hooked because you were probably tagging along with her like a little puppy dog. Smiling a lot, making deep eye contact, walking behind her, etc. Her: hi Me: hey wyd Her: laying in bed Me: we should hang out Her: yah I know but it’s not a great idea if you like me 🤷‍♀️ This is where you sh…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 07:16 PM
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How long have you been a couple?
/r/askTRP08/07/20 01:48 AM
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Perhaps it's fatigue? Testosterone levels dip in the evening, and peak in the morning. The time of day when you fuck can affect things. Are the erections weak at certain times, and not other times? Are you stressed at work, or school? Changes in diet? Maybe it's psychological, your dick is bored of your GF's pussy, or the same sex? Is there performance anxiety that built up when you first noticed it? I.e., you noticed some weakness once, then "tried" not to be weak next time, which compounded th…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 01:21 AM
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It's a combination of physical aspects where your libido, and testosterone levels drop as you age, and the psychological effects of experience. Every dude has a threshold after which banging more girls becomes meaningless. For some, it may be 10 girls, for others it may be 1000 girls, and for others still, their appetite may remain insatiable.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:15 PM
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Also, if you're in a leadership role, you'll have to walk the line between being one of them, and being a leader. You can't be too authoritative, and you can't be too friendly.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:37 PM
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My friend fucked a tinder girl 16 TIMES IN A DAY ( so he says and i actually believe it cause i lived with him ) No, he didn't.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:12 AM
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Get it done.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:30 AM
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If you actually are a good person, and the bully actually is a shithead (or perhaps a narcissist), then it may balance out over time: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/evg45k/narcissists-will-eventually-end-up-friendless-and-unpopular-study-confirms since most of the associations of the bully aren't meaningful relationships.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:13 AM
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Break it down, and focus on the partial wins. I've been talking to women again +1 I can feel my old charm, and game is starting to come back +1 I've now got girls wanting to meet with me and are down to fuck +2 You're doing well. When the negative feelings come up, don't fight them. Practice a bit of deep breathing, recognize the emotions, and let them pass. It can be compared to seeing a red balloon on the street, for example: See the red balloon Say to yourself, "Oh, a red balloon."; at this p…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:32 PM
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What would you have done? You missed an opportunity to hate-fuck her goodbye, but did well.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 06:31 PM
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I related that to today’s society how woman marry up in economic status but girls were saying how that is sexist. I'm assuming you're in college, or at an earlier school level, which would explain why. Younger chicks haven't been out in the world. Most importantly, they haven't felt the importance of money, and what it can do. Women that are nearing the wall will likely have worked for some time, and they'll sing a different tune. They're all too aware of the dynamics, and have no problem admitt…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:46 AM
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There's a sense of reward you get from manual labor that you can't get from sitting on your ass all day. At the same time, you should do whatever you can to get out of it, it'll destroy your body, and shorten your life.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:08 AM
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I'm 37. You're not old. You're taking action, and doing a lot of the right things, which is great. Note that there are people who are alive today who won't get to see whatever bright (or dark) possibilities there are in the future come to fruition. No one lives forever, at least not yet. Everyone will miss out on things. Einstein didn't get to see all the catz on the great internetz, and the million other technological breakthroughs since then. Time is infinite, your time is not. Unless you want…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:52 PM
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There aren't that many choices: avoid it face it The issue with avoiding it is that you'll run into more people doing the same shit, unless you've decided to spend your remaining years in Antarctica. Really, you're left with 1 choice, and that's to face it. This doesn't necessarily mean you have to get physical. Sharpen your mind, use your words. In your case, I'd encourage you to first become angry. Not out of control, but angry because you know in your gut something's not right. You're a human…
/r/askTRP04/07/20 11:04 PM
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tells me she could never date him because they are so much a like Come on man. How long have you been a couple?
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:56 AM
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What do you expect on Tinder? Also, don't believe a word chicks are saying. If she's lying about wanting an LTR, there's no reason she couldn't be lying about getting fucked recently. She could have said that to make herself seem more desirable. Or, it could've been a test to see how you would react to hearing that, which could go several ways. If you were surprised, she could interpret it as you seeing her like the Virgin Mary. If you weren't phased, she might think that she's coming off too sl…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:13 PM
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Problem with laughing is that some will perceive it as you not being bothered by the remarks. If you actually are bothered by it, then you're being dishonest with yourself. What's more is that they may escalate the jokes until they become blatantly disrespectful. Agreeing, and amplifying works to an extent, the issue being that the attention, and pressure remains on you. It doesn't push the other person back. For example: Them: "You're a fatass!" You: "Totally. I'm like the size of Jupiter." Not…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:13 AM
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Your question is the answer.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:34 AM
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dont change ur personality That's the key. She wants to see if OP will apologize, and start acting like a little bitch to please her. Don't send any other texts to her, and focus on other girls. She may or may not come around. It's irrelevant. Point is: do not flinch, OP.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:37 AM
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The reasons for staying up late may be varied. You may dread sleeping early in defiance of working a shitty job, which is true for most people. Your sleep patterns will also likely change over time. Note that your body has a natural sleep cycle, and you may be overriding that, which can create problems. Testosterone, too, has a daily cycle. It peaks in the morning hours, and drops throughout the day, hitting a low point in the evening. In terms of diet, don't have dinner too late, or close to yo…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:19 PM
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Leg workouts temporarily boost T. Good idea to throw in a few routines for the legs, particularly high resistance exercises with weights. Also, you're losing weight, which means that you're running into a caloric deficit. This could explain your symptoms as well. While you're consuming fewer calories, ensure you're still getting all your daily nutrients. Your body may need time to adjust as you lose fat, and gain muscle. Additionally, you should get adequate sleep, and minimize stress to reduce …
/r/askTRP01/07/20 04:35 PM
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Are you working out the legs as well?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:40 AM
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Based on your post history, you should consider speaking to a trusted male therapist. I would also encourage you to undertake some form of combat training: boxing, BJJ, etc. Don't forget to lift. And, as others have mentioned, make sure you check out No More Mister Nice Guy by Robert Glover. Importantly, put what you've learned into practice.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:43 PM
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she's just poor If you don't want to be treated like a walking wallet, stop seeing poor women. Also, the central thesis to being an asshole is to not give a fuck, and do what you want to do. This means breaking social norms sometimes, and being difficult to talk to. Don't return hellos, don't give direct answers to questions, don't ask people how they're doing, take your time when responding, make people wait for you, etc. Think of as having your own clock inside your head. You move, or talk whe…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:59 PM
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It's not too late. Use positive reinforcement by rewarding her when she does things you like. If she does things you don't like, ignore, and keep doing what you're doing. There are certain things that should go without saying. For instance, spreading her legs for other dudes while in an exclusive relationship with you should automatically be understood as a dealbreaker. Where, when, and how much you provide direction varies from one individual to another, and the type of person they're with. If …
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:01 PM
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Valid point. It's not exclusively either/or though, and OP's not off in his advice. "If you know the why, you can live any how." ― Friedrich Nietzsche Self-development, and taking action is imperative. However, belief that you will improve, and reach your goals draws from having a broader mission in your life, and supports any actions you undertake. Rear Admiral James Stockdale was taken as a POW in the Vietnam War. He survived, and recounts the following paradox in an interview with James C. Co…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:56 PM
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My genes (including my all-important, gives me a penis "Y" chromosome, in some cases) will be promulgated onward by my various sisters and cousins. What if, like yourself, all dudes decided to not have kids?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:27 PM
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I'm not into the whole snowball concept. I love it. The best sex is always dirty.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 01:13 AM
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Worked for Schwarzenegger when he wifed up Maria Shriver who's linked to the Kennedy family. Probably helped him get into politics. It's not what you know, it's who you know. Always a smart move to build a network of people that are at the top. Whether you do that through hot girls, or some other means, is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:00 PM
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Logistics is huge in terms of N-count. If you looked like one of the Hemsworth brothers, and lived in Antarctica, you wouldn't have much success with girls.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:50 PM
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Bang other girls, the same feelings will develop, i.e., it's not the girls, it's you. You get horny. After fucking, you experience "la petit mort".
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:43 PM
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This is despite the fact that during prior discussions I explained things were done in X, also put it in email, and documents. Excellent move. Always have proof. Don't see why there would be an issue if you have that though. Talk to other people that are at the same level as her, or above. Don't complain to them yet though. Become friendly with them, garner their support. Make sure your boss sees you doing that. When she knows other important people support you, she should change her tone. Also,…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:10 PM
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Will me being a virgin make her pussy dry? You won't even see her pussy if you tell her you're a virgin. If they don't ask, don't tell. If they ask, A&A: "Yea, it's my first time today."
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:35 PM
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How do I get over this? Bang more girls. You'll land hot ones now and then.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 11:48 PM
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"It's okay to cry."
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:17 PM
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Completely agree that everything is shit. However, how you feel about that is a choice. Taking action to create the life you want will make you feel better. Be the change you want to see in the world. I would encourage you to figure out what you want, set concrete goals, and focus on achieving them by doing instead of getting stuck in the infinite pool of analysis paralysis.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:11 AM
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Sure, they can be cunts but women are also what make life fun. It's not always about business. Men are horny all the time for strong biological reasons. On an instinctual level, we're fucking machines. You can't fight your biology, and it's the reason why most dudes are thinking about girls all the time. It's natural. This is why most topics are about dealing with chicks.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:00 AM
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The most important thing the wealthy have is time. It's easy to look good when you have no financial stress, and time to workout, and pamper yourself with beauty treatments.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 05:35 PM
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Why is this? Because most women aren't thinking about sex 24/7. Dudes that go too long without sex will go on killing sprees. Watch a few nature documentaries, the females are almost always the selectors, and therefore are more discerning about whose baby batter they want in their baby ovens. Regarding TRP, explaining a joke, kills the joke.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:35 AM
3

You're not related by blood. It's taboo, which is probably what's enticing about it. yolo
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:26 AM
2

For every "never", there will be a thousand or more exceptions. There are no hard, exact rules for how to behave, and what to say. What you can do is develop self-awareness to understand why you behave in certain ways. This will lead you down the path to improvement. "Tao of Steve" is an interesting film with the following simple guidelines: Be cool Be excellent in her presence Be gone From these, you can extrapolate a ton of ideas in terms of dealing with girls.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 10:05 PM
10

You may find the following posts by Mark Manson useful: The Only Way to Be Truly Confident in Yourself How to Build Self-Esteem (And Does it Even Matter?)
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:57 AM
2

Too fast. Chicks don't want to feel like they're easy. 2 steps forward, 1 step back. It's a dance, even after she's come back to your place.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 05:23 PM
3

Edgy. Sure, you may not be communicating with a lot of people, and you may be more focused for the time being. I have no ego left. The whole post reeks of ego. There is no reliance on others. Unless you're living out in the woods by yourself without any goods, or services provided by other people—where I doubt you'd survive more than a week—you're relying on others to stay alive.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:22 PM
10

Humans are social creatures. We need supportive people around us to the extent that without social support, we develop physiological problems. Without a strong network of healthy relationships our lifespan is literally shortened. Also, one of the biggest regrets that people have over time is that they didn't ask for help, or they didn't do it soon enough. Further, every successful person knows that a lot of their success can be attributed to luck. Having people around them that supported them is…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:00 AM
4

Anyone else had to deal with prying coworkers too bored with their own lives? From personal experience, jealous chicks can become ruthless. I'm talking hardcore stalking, online, and offline; spreading rumors at work; turning people against you; random accusations, etc. This continued even after I left. It's all done inconspicuously, so you can't pin it on them. People who actually go along with their bullshit are the real problem though. It's incredible how willingly people blindly follow other…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:46 AM
1

Probably got jealous (horny) when you went out with her friend. Remember to escalate. Good luck.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:30 PM
10

And, to get to a level of indifference, take up martial arts, or some other combat form. Use it to let out your aggression in a controlled manner. You'll quickly understand how stupid fighting is unless absolutely necessary. It'll also make you better at handling conflict in a reasonable way. Also, lift. The health benefits are clear, and it's another way of letting out pent up aggression through a positive outlet.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 09:51 PM
3

You don't need to have a huge social circle but you have to be sociable to get girls. How do you even build one? Common interests, shared activities, etc. Invite people to things, or join others in groups, and activities of various forms: sports, dancing, book club, etc. Meet people, take an interest in them, ask for help in accomplishing your goals. You'll find yourself surrounded by people. You can narrow that down to people you like, and those that like you back. Also is it wrong mentality to…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:37 PM
2

She previously said 2 weeks ago that she would love to meet up, so i followed up texting now to decide logistics You messaged her 2 weeks after she said she'd love to meet up. What do you expect? 1 to 3 days, okay. But 2 weeks? It's about energy. If she was enthusiastic about meeting up, then you only have to be slightly less enthusiastic. The idea is to be interested, and not needy. Waiting 2 weeks to set things up says you straight DGAF about her, which is probably what she interpreted it as. …
/r/askTRP15/06/20 05:25 PM
3

In the past i had bad expiriences with women where they would reject and humiliate me. People do that kinda shit to protect their ego. It's less about you, and more about them. Don't let it stop you. Keep taking your shots. This can be applied to anything in life, and a lot of success can be had through brute forcing. im 6'3 tall with really good genes(wide shoulders,nice jaw,full head of hair) A lot to be grateful for there. Continue to lift, and eat healthy. I would also encourage you to compe…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 04:39 PM
2

It may be that they're just not that interested. That's out of your control. The other possibility is that you're not building enough buy-in, i.e., your attraction phase is lacking. This requires a degree of emotional involvement. You have to make her feel something, anything. It sounds like you move too mechanically, and when faced with the prospect of rejection, you preempt it by bailing out. Cheesy though it may sound, you have to learn to speak from your heart, instead of your brain. This do…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 10:03 PM
2

Need to completely reinvent personality Set concrete goals, and break them down into smaller manageable tasks. For instance, you want to appear more confident. Break it down into smaller parts: posture, vocal tone, humour, etc. Then, focus on one part at a time. For example, to fix your posture, you can check out videos on YouTube for certain exercises to strengthen your back to counter slumping. As you move from one part to the next, integrate what you learned in the previous part with the curr…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:55 PM
8

There are broad characteristics all girls look for: physical appearance, wealth, power, and status. In terms of personality, confidence is hot. Then, there's room for variability between different girls. Some girls may like less muscle, and others want a beefcake. Some girls like the loud extrovert, others prefer the quiet loner. Also, there's the dude they'll sleep with for a ONS, and there's the dude they'll LTR, or marry. They're more likely to look at the total package for LTRs, or marriage.…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:42 PM
1

Yea, 2-3 years is the melting point. Throw in a pandemic, and it becomes difficult to maintain any relationship. If you like her, consider making an effort to stick with her. Of course, this means bearing through the emotional stuff. If not, it may be time to move on.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:46 PM
1

I'd go as far as saying that if you're angry, you're wrong. Nope. It's one of several human emotions, and it's an indication that something's not right. How you regulate your emotions is key: "Anybody can become angry—that is easy, but to be angry with the right person, and to the right degree, and at the right time, and for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not within everybody's power, and is not easy." — Aristotle
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:29 PM
1

Marketing, and selling in all its various forms using a variety of mediums (electronic, paper, etc.).
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:56 PM
15

In order to do anything, you need money. The more you have, the more you can do. Without it, you can't do shit. Go with the lucrative career. Max out finances until early to mid-30s. You'll have more options than you know what to do with at that point, including funding a film or 2 to realize your creative vision.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:22 AM
1

But will anything honestly top the university lifestyle? It's not all dark. You'll find that as you age, what you find enjoyment in will change. For instance, paying off your mortgage early, or nailing a presentation at work, or hitting sales targets in your business, etc. will become more fulfilling. Certain things will always be amusing though; hot 20-somethings being one of them. Logistics is key. If you situate yourself in a cool area, in a big city, you'll still be able to bag a few now and…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:12 PM
6

The fact that you need a calendar to keep track almost brings a tear to my eye. I am so proud of you.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:20 PM
5

Why do I think about women so much? Because you're a dude.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:02 PM
15

Like i like to cuddle with girls and shit, but shes a hoe so obviously I can't do that. How do I deal with this kind a girl. A girl that belongs to the streets as they say Ok so I'm a virgin
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:58 AM
42

Complaining garners support from BP, taking advantage is allowed for RP. Win-win.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 02:43 PM
2

"Ultimately, it is the desire, not the desired, that we love." ― Friedrich Nietzsche
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:41 AM
2

It could also be the case that OP is batting well below his average.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 08:52 PM
2

why does this one girl arouse me more than the normal, chill girls I'm with right now Not sure. Could be biological, perhaps a perfect match of pheromones, especially if you get aroused easily when around her. I enjoy both, and I really like the way I'm totally in control of myself when I'm with them. Aloof, flirty, and fundamentally, I lead them both. There's a duality to everything, and this is no exception. People like to feel in control. Part of the manipulation by women is that they can fee…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:53 PM
1

Practice. You'll get used to to being social.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:56 PM
1

It's good that you're not hanging with them. There's only a few reasons why people would talk behind your back, and none of them are good: anxiety, poor self-esteem, envy, and lack of control. 1-2 people probably start it, and then others simply join in. Basically, these people have nothing else going on in their lives, so they resort to this type of bullshit. Take it as a compliment, and a sign that you're moving in the right direction. Spend more time building healthy relationships with people…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:38 PM
1

and many years later I still am a target for them You're getting treated like trash, yet you continue to hang around them. Stop spending time with them. Find another group. Their group may self-destruct when they realize there's no one to pick on. Also, learn the pressure flip. When someone makes a remark about you, they're putting pressure on you. Take it, and flip it back on them. This means you have to pick on their insecurities, and everyone has a few things they're insecure about. For insta…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:14 PM
2

You know where you just can feel a switch has been turned. You're probably right. Trust your gut. So I've been dating this girl for a couple of months. She sent pictures of some dude and I just ignored. Now the night after she is suddenly supercold and different. She wants to know if you have feelings for her. You ignored, and, so far, she's getting the message that this is something casual. She now has to decide if she wants to keep that up. There could be other dudes in the picture, or there m…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:33 PM
1

Given the economic conditions as they are, logically, it's not a good idea. If you do it, it would be a purely emotional decision, and I would advise against it. It would feel good for about a week, and then reality would set in. Perhaps head out into some parks, or surround yourself with nature for some time on weekends. Think it through, sleep on it. Whatever you do, it's your life, and life isn't always logical. If you decide to do it: Have a plan. Even if you plan on doing nothing, have a ti…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:58 AM
1

Happn: https://www.thegentlemansjournal.com/article/top-10-attractive-jobs-according-science/ EliteSingles: https://ca.askmen.com/news/dating/people-with-these-jobs-are-the-most-attractive-says-study.html Match.com: https://www.her.ie/life/the-results-are-in-these-are-the-top-ten-most-attractive-professions-240097 British Badoo: https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/tinder-badoo-most-right-swiped-jobs-dating-apps-millennials-study-a8310066.html Eh, I'm not saying people not in such j…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 05:36 PM
1

Next you come up with you wanna be an astronaut or a train driver or a pilot when you are older? Certain jobs are more sexually appealing. It's a fact.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:01 PM
3

but it doesnt work the opposite way with us guys? Yes, it does. It's a human thing to want what you can't have.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:52 AM
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It does not matter. They will find any decent job attractive as long as you do it with passion and frame. Strongly disagree. Working as a programmer will not get you pussy irrespective of how passionate you may be about being a keyboard warrior. It's not sexy. If you can use that passion to grow, and create a successful startup, that's a different story. Same thing could be said about being a janitor. There are certain jobs that inherently have sex appeal such as doctors, firemen, lawyers, busin…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:42 AM
4

You perceive yourself lower value because you have a kid?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 05:07 AM
6

Don't game at work, unless it's a bullshit job. You're not going to be able to compete over looks against younger guys, however you should still look good for your age. You're not old, yet. Also, reality is that you need to have more than looks going for you as you get older. This means wealth, power, and status. You'll still need game though: "be cool, be excellent in her presence, and be gone." (Tao of Steve) You're at that point where you can spend the next 3-5 years maxing those attributes o…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 05:02 AM
4

An addendum to this is that eventually all men, however tough they may seem, are broken down. It's part of the betaization process that is inevitable in any relationship with a woman. The more time you've spent with her, the worse it gets, even if it's an arrangement with no commitment.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:21 AM
1

What you find disgusting in others, is what you find disgusting in yourself. It doesn't mean you should start scarfing down bag after bag of Cheetos. However, you should do some self-reflection about why you feel that way. It may be because you're being too hard on yourself, and should learn to relax when the timing is appropriate. Also, it may be an indication of what you value, i.e., you value hard work, and have difficulty identifying with people who would rather take it easy. You should cons…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:48 PM
3

There's a nuance to using silence to your advantage. It works only in contrast to noise. If everyone was silent, silence wouldn't mean shit. Further, in a work context, you have to fight to get to the top. People have to notice you for that to happen. It's not going to happen by remaining silent. Everyone has a voice, and the only way to nurture yours is to speak up, and get in touch with yours by developing your own opinions. Otherwise, you'll forever be buried underneath other people's viewpoi…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:36 PM
8

Bitterness can arise in anyone. The key is in moving forward by letting go. It's not easy to do this if you've had a tough life. Also, don't hang around bitter people. It'll slowly affect your perspective as well.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:02 PM
1

someone who hasn't amounted to anything by 30 probably won't You have to define "anything". I know people who outwardly have all the characteristics of "success" but, from intimate knowledge, are absolutely miserable. That said, wealth, power, and status are key ingredients. It's hard to define success without at least some of each. As an example, even a teacher has some status at least in the classroom in front of their students. Finally, while it's not impossible to make changes, and better yo…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 02:18 PM
103

Fucking spot on. Another post-wall desperation bitch crying "where have all the good men gone?"
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:12 AM
0

Everyone's got insecurities. Find theirs, pick on them. There are common insecurities all guys have: baldness, height, physical size, sexual prowess, dick size, wealth, status, self-esteem. Guaranteed each one of those guys carries at least 1 of those weaknesses. Adopt the Michael Jordan mentality. You have to get in their head, and destroy them mentally before they even get a chance to come at you with anything. You do this by preempting them with trash talk. Simply picking on you is an indicat…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 08:57 PM
4

There's truth, and there's projection. If you've actually gained quite a bit of weight, and you're looking terrible for your age, it means you've probably been slacking off. There could be reasons for that, which may include feeling down due to the job loss. Then, there are her issues. She likely felt insecure without money coming in, and, given both your ages, she may have fell into facing mortality head on, i.e., you're both nearing 40, at which point most of your life is behind you. Whatever …
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:08 PM
2

How old are you both?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:41 PM
5

Instead of fighting it, accept the feeling. Life is shit. Let that sink in. You'll slowly come to the realization that how you feel about the fact that life is shit, is a choice. At that point, do or don't do, that's all that matters.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 08:36 AM
1

give less fucks
/r/askTRP03/06/20 08:22 AM
2

If they were in a relationship, yes. That's what a woman is. It's a creature that constantly seeks weaknesses in men to ensure they've made the right choice by staying with them.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:59 PM
7

It's not binary in the sense that people care, or don't care. There's a lot of grey in between. You can't expect people to spoon feed you, but you can expect a reasonable range of behaviours. That range will depend on the type of relationship you have with that person. For instance, when saying hello to a stranger, it's not unreasonable to expect the greeting to be returned. Expecting a stranger to unclog your toilet for free would mean your expectations are misplaced too high. Another example w…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:24 PM
19

Unless someone's actively trying to destroy your life, there's no reason to cut people out. No one's forcing you to stay where you are to drink, and play video games. Don't discount people that you've known. You never know when one of your "beta" friends gets fed up, puts his life together, and becomes a billionaire. Or, perhaps people will come to you for guidance when they're ready to make changes. Instead of thinking about how to burn bridges, and with whom, focus on building new bridges with…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:32 PM
15

Human mating strategies are complex, and not limited to one specific magical method. Some things work for some people, while different things work for others. Girls that have been treated like shit throughout their lives may get more horny for a guy that treats them well, while not being subservient. The environment plays into this as well. If you took a butt ugly beta, who had 0 success with women in a highly competitive environment, and placed him on an island with no other dudes, and 1000s of…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:52 PM
3

Reputation. They fuck around as much as everyone else but keep it hidden in order to appear like the virgin bride come wedding time. It's not a cultural thing, it's an intelligence thing. Some girls are better at playing the game than others. Anecdotally, I've known girls that were sluts, and moved to a different country, and did a complete 180 before getting married.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:26 AM
1

The thing that bothers me is that since they are leaning towards serious relationship it feels kind of odd to hang out... especially when she's there. pure ego
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:21 PM
1

How do you do it in a way that’s direct and unambiguous, but also not dickish or cruel? You're rejecting her. Even if it's not personal, it's going to hurt no matter what you say, or how you say it. Do it in person. A semi-public place is optimal so you can part ways, and not get caught up in emotions. Time is our most precious resource. The less you waste her time, and yours, the better.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 03:48 PM
1

who the fuck cares
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:09 AM
1

And he'll eventually reach a point where he'll wonder about having the fun experiences you guys had. It's not black and white, and there's always a cost to every decision you make. A balanced approached is best.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:00 AM
8

Are you living on your own? Have you ever lived in a western country for an extended period of time?
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:10 AM
2

What does this mean and how should I respond? She's busting your balls. It's a power grab to know she can emotionally affect you. Remind her of her insignificance, and rub it in her face with laughter: "implying you're important enough to be hated lulz"
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:09 PM
5

It's great that you've read the pertinent material, and done some introspection. How else can I get the sex I want? Your problem is a lack of doing, which means being social, and developing friendships. Try to find people who are doing things you want to do, like going to bars now and then, hitting on girls, heading to the gym, partaking in team sports, etc. No more isolated activities. Do things that require a group of people, preferably with a mix of genders. Currently, it's difficult with the…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:46 PM
6

Even if you're in an LTR, flirt with other girls to keep your skills sharp. If she feels too insecure, throw a hint of comfort. The idea is to keep her on her toes. Also, focus on your mission. If you have more important things to do, this type of shit will matter less.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:39 PM
1

How are you supposed to treat a plate when she starts acting more and more interested? Always be less interested than her.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 04:04 PM
1

Have fun, don't be goofy.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 02:17 PM
2

At the very least, enough to survive 6 months without work.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:39 PM
2

Experience. Once you've got a few high quality ones under your belt, you'll be able to handle things better.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 02:05 AM
4

Work on what you can control, let go of the rest.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:07 AM
24

Fuck her like you won't see her ever again. It'll build detachment. Always have something to do, or somewhere to be after fucking. You have to be at least 1 step ahead of her. Rub one out, or do a heavy workout before sending any texts, even if they seem innocuous.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:30 PM
1

In and of itself, there's no problem with porn. It feels good to look at nudity, and sex. We're all pain and pleasure machines, constantly seeking to avoid pain, and increase pleasure. Porn feeds into these impulses, and intensifies our desire for that pleasure. What's more, the availability of porn makes it easier to overdose. It's the inevitable addiction to it that creates a downward spiral. The addiction is also transparent in that you don't feel that you're addicted until after your life sl…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:22 PM
2

This doesn't work over the long term.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:10 PM
1

It takes time to move on, and it's proportional to how serious the relationship was. If it was an ex-wife of 30 years, with whom you had 3 kids, you're not going to forget about her completely. If it was a fling of a few months, it'll probably take half that time to forget about her. In any case, you do have to take action to move on though, which means staying on your mission, and banging other girls along the way. This is a habit I need to break, it serves no purpose in my life and adds no val…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:05 PM
1

She seems like a good girl but I really don't trust people easily and would rather get laid outside of work. Thoughts? If it's a bullshit job, fuck, have fun. Watch out though because it sounds like she's got the baby rabies. If it's a career job, keep it professional, and maintain a distance.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:54 PM
2

I feel so triggered when i read about you guys here banging left and right. A lot of people exaggerate, and you're probably making things up in your mind as well. Why do i feel diminished/worthless and inferior in comparison to guys who banging left and right? Because you're not banging girls left and right. Get out there, and get yours.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:44 AM
1

Based off my experience with this ex, I despise women. You're in the anger phase. A woman definitely adds value to a man's life. Once you realize what that value is, you'll feel better. I lost my job last month That's tough. Hopefully, you're managing okay. However, you're not alone, that's for damn sure. And, this should really be your only concern right now. Having wealth, power, and status takes the sting out of a lot of things.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 07:04 AM
1

careful over this first gf I find out she's secretly hanging out with her FWB It's been a year since that, and I still heavily resent her for it. I'm breaking up with her today Had my first gf at 26, but I learned the true nature of women before that. Let's pretend that you actually are aware of the true nature of women. It's clear that you haven't internalized it, and accepted it. There are parts of you that are still idealistic, and hanging on in the hope that she's different, or that you'll p…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:58 AM
6

Tinder is still tough even for a 6'4" white guy at 19. Any advice? Try again after 7-8 years. Until then, work on career, fitness, and $$$.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:39 AM
1

There's an extremely minor effect with jelqing. You're not going to gain a full inch doing it though. You also have to be careful, since you can bruise, or cause serious damage to your dick.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:44 PM
2

Also, think about how it would be if the situation was reversed. You think she'd give a fuck about you if you were waiting on her hand and foot?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 11:53 PM
1

The game is rigged. Watch a few nature documentaries. That's how nature works. Generally, women are the selectors. This is true on Tinder, and IRL, though there's a skew towards selecting for physical appearance online.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 09:22 AM
1

forgiveness and humility
/r/askTRP21/05/20 09:17 AM
1

Not saying you shouldn't be genuinely nice to people. However, when you have wealth, power, and status, it becomes a choice because you're at the top, rather than a necessity because you're at the bottom of the food chain. For instance, most people hate their bosses but they're forced to be nice because they need the $.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:12 AM
1

You're absolutely right. Learning should never stop. However, putting it into practice is also important. Without action, you'll get nowhere in life. There's a distinction that should be made between learning, and being paralyzed by the insecurity of not knowing enough to actually do something. "Analysis paralysis" is common with a perfectionist attitude, and something that is clearly at the root of OP's issues. An example would be a basketball player that practices everyday, gets amazing. Howev…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 08:57 PM
1

It feels better to believe the lie. Truth hurts. "Now you're looking for the secret. But you won't find it because of course, you're not really looking. You don't really want to work it out. You want to be fooled." ⁠— Michael Caine (Cutter, The Prestige)
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:18 PM
1

You don't talk about it. It's like explaining a joke, it kills the joke. Also, if you're looking to bang old hookups, if it's been a long enough time, you have to feel it out first. With some, it may be like picking up right where you left off, and with others, they may have a new life altogether, and you're not part of it.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 05:07 PM
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You reach a point in life where you've learned enough, and you have to take action, and do. A large part of success involves being aggressive, and doing things again, and again, irrespective of any setbacks. You definitely do not have to be a genius. Work to gain wealth, power, and status. This will bring you confidence. Everyone will be nice to you, even if you're not nice to them. It forms proof that you know how the world works, and you've made the right decisions to elevate yourself in life …
/r/askTRP20/05/20 02:40 PM
1

Telling people not to do something is the quickest way to get them to keep doing it. At the same time, you have to teach people how you want to be treated so boundaries are essential. Also, when you set a boundary, it goes 2 ways. You're influencing their behaviour, and it only works if you, too, are open to influence. Otherwise, it becomes a dictatorship where one person attempts to control everything. This is why setting boundaries develops intimacy in a relationship as you're learning more ab…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:12 PM
3

Is there book for idiots that would teach me all those things and personal financing? What's the best one to read? Check out the following: Millionaire Teacher: The Nine Rules of Wealth You Should Have Learned in School by Andrew Hallam The Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco The Intelligent Investor by Benjamin Graham Learn about supply and demand. Further, develop the habit of thinking about what the return is on the time you're investing in any activity. There are free courses through Khan Aca…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:11 PM
3

penis is 3-3.5" erect. Are there bigger dicks? Sure. There are also far smaller dicks, too. At least you don't have a micro-penis. Think less about your dick, and more about how you feel in that moment. If you feel great, your dick will be 12 inches. Also, who doesn't like blowjobs? Exactly. Oral sex is awesome for both sexes. This is an obviously NSFW video with Nina Hartley discussing how to eat pussy. any anecdotal evidence thats worked From experience, there were times when penetration didn'…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:19 PM
54

Set aside time to read regularly; make it a habit Have fun Fuck around with girls, don't waste too much time on girls though Get at least 1 good LTR under your belt, so you're not emotionally stunted Maintain your health; keep fit, lift, eat healthy Be competitive about finances; be greedy about maximizing your income Learn to sell; take up a sales job for a while, become good at it Learn about as many financial concepts as possible: stocks, dividends, bonds, debt, interest, real estate, valuati…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:01 AM
1

at the start they didn’t care but 10-15 sessions later, they are saying they’re jealous and not sure if they can cope Expected. wtf do i do May want to consider cooling it off, reconnect some time down the line. Other than that, it is what it is.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:45 PM
2

I've never watched it but Clark Gable's character (Rhett) in "Gone With The Wind" left like that I think.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:51 PM
4

I swear on days after I deadlift it's like my confidence skyrockets and I feel like I'm taller even though my posture is the same. Strongly agree. Any heavy leg workouts, and the mood lift is night and day. It's likely due to the testosterone boost.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:38 PM
1

Being a 10 definitely has value. There's no denying it makes it easier to bang chicks, and it would compensate for lack of game, for a little while. However, appearances are not personal. What you look like does not necessarily represent who you are. A 10 dude may have a shit personality, and a shit life, which means he may be able to bang chicks easily (at least while he's young), but they won't stick around for long, and that rejection—after a prolonged period of getting to know the person—wou…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 03:21 PM
10

Gain wealth, status, and power. Part of the requirements for that is to be socially savvy. Once there, people will take your words as gospel.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:17 AM
1

Let's assume it is personal, with personal meaning she knows you. You go out, open a girl, and she rejects you. This means she knows you, and doesn't want to talk to you. However, it takes time to know someone, and get personal. You both haven't shared that much time together. It's also possible her mind's elsewhere, perhaps a family member recently died, maybe you smell like a recent ex, perhaps you resemble a dude that abused her. There are a plethora of reasons that even she herself may not b…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:34 PM
6

Let's see… You: "You know what I hate about you bro...? Nothing. You're actually an allright dude. Okay, so what were we saying?" Them: "You're an idiot." You: "Thanks man. I love you too." Them: "Fuck off, faggot." You: "For you, I'll always be gay." You're right. It would probably work. It definitely takes the steam out of them. Most of the time when people are being passive aggressive, they're looking for attention, and love. Throwing a bit of that their way may help.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:49 PM
2

Great points. Take complete responsibility. Build on small successes. Get a little better each day. Let setbacks improve you. "An idealist believes that the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter. A realist believes that what is done or left undone in the short run determines the long run." — Sydney J. Harris
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:13 PM
-5

Looser pussy. Skin is not taut. Dead eyes. Provider tests sometimes. Easier to pickup. I don't know about mid-30s women being more horny. It may, or may not be true. I feel it's more that they're desperate to lock a guy down, so they pull out all stops in the bedroom. It's okay to enjoy, but don't exclude the possibility of it all being an act. There's no comparison to fresh, prime pussy though, and younger chicks are better fucks.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:31 PM
7

Do it, OP. When there, build a professional network, gain experience. You have plenty of time to start your own company after, and you would be in a better position to do so. I don’t think I would enjoy living alone, or maybe I’m just scared to be lonely. You need people in your life. No man is an island. However, you don't want to become codependent, you also don't want to become overly independent because that erodes your social skills, and will weaken relationships. Learn to form interdepende…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:23 PM
10

Lower body workouts such as squats, deadlifts, and variations thereof will help erections. Sleep quality will affect things. If you're stressed out, or anxious, getting good sleep will be difficult. Proper nutrition is also important. Ensure you're getting the proteins, greens, and carbs. Finally, be wealthy. It'll improve your quality of life in general, and better erections will be a side effect.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:22 PM
1

Sorry to hear about your loss. How old are you both?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:34 PM
4

When I was his age, I pretty much said "fuck this school shit" and just went to the apprentice school after I graduated in hopes of being a welder at the shipyard. There is a sense of reward you get from doing physical labour that you don't get from anything else. All respect for that. At the same time though, no one should have to do manual labour work, especially as you get older. Your body is not going to like it. If you want better for him, I'd advise pushing for white collar work, or becomi…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:44 AM
2

Frozen dinners may be okay once in a while, but too much is not healthy. I fucking hate cooking. Either become wealthy, or keep a girl that loves to cook. Otherwise, learn to make at least basic meals: spaghetti, pizza, chicken/rice, fish/rice, etc. You can prep meals in large portions, and create batches to eat through the week. There are also slow cookers that you can mostly set, and forget. This is one of the few things I can't but think, "they really had shit figured out back in the day". Th…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:10 AM
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Also, despite claims otherwise, most people are not fucking for that long, with anything past 12 minutes being exceptional. That's excluding foreplay, and female orgasm. You did cum fast, but it's not a big deal. If it becomes a pattern over an extended period of time, there are still solutions for premature ejaculation. Easiest one is to practice edging to improve orgasm control.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:19 PM
1

This extends outside the office to your social circle, your family, and the general public. Your life is largely defined by people. If you're lucky, and become a pro athlete, your salary is nothing, it's the sponsorships that'll earn you real money. Those sponsorships are handed out by people. They likely include products that are sold by people, to people. The people buying will largely include your fans. The same applies to any field. If you're a genius, you'll need the right people to recogni…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:49 PM
9

She had only been dating the guy for 3 months, and he already proposed. From experience, chicks that have you pegged as husband material remain in the background, while keeping an eye on you. This can go on from grade school through to the age she gets married. They go all in. Some of them go further, and will stalk, and sabotage any relationships you may have to keep you for themselves, while they fuck around unbeknownst to you. They may even infect your social circle, using your friends for su…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:38 AM
7

Love yourself, the rest falls in place.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:37 AM
1

It is easier to act yourself into a better way of feeling than to feel yourself into a better way of action. — Orval Hobart Mowrer "If i build it i'll get sued, if i build it my competitors will beat me up or kill me(i'm mad paranoid), if i become rich i won't be as happy as if i'm middle class, money can't make you happy, i'll be more stressed out as an entrepreneur then as a middle class employee." Note any physical changes in your body when you start going down this line of thinking. You may …
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:03 PM
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Because those are the type of girls that will result in a higher probability of getting laid, and the sex being better. Guys possess the same dichotomy as women. There's the girl that you wanna fuck, and there's the girl you wanna wife up, and have kids with; otherwise known as the Madonna-whore complex.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:21 PM
1

Ofc this depends on diet, talking about if you are consistent with it and arent a retard in the gym. It also heavily depends on where you're starting from. If you're a lard-ass that's 400 lbs overweight, it'll take far longer than someone that's slightly skinny fat.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:16 PM
1

Pussy functions in a way to keep things inside. Dick shoots stuff outwards. It can be fun, but I would strongly suggest not doing it with a ONS.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:25 PM
1

I agree that it's an area with a lot of grey, and you do have to be nice at times to survive. However, it's better to be mostly a jackass, while peppering in some nice, rather than being nice, and throwing in some assholery. In the latter case, people will simply find your behaviour cute. For men, this is particularly true in the workplace.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:32 AM
1

There are different forms of influence. Check out the book, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini. He talks about authority, liking, reciprocity, social proof, consistency, and scarcity, as principles of influencing people. An example of authority is the uniform, and title that goes with being a doctor. If you have those, people will automatically listen to what you're telling them. People are also nice to you, and listen to you if you're wealthy, which is sometimes a res…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 11:32 PM
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And, this is exactly why every dude has no choice but to perpetually be an asshole. The slightest bit of vulnerability, or kindness, and you'll get eaten alive.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:26 PM
2

I sometimes don't find an opportunity to make them listen Say whatever you want to say. Don't wait. Or sometimes, people might listen and not pay attention to what I'm saying. You have to care about the person first, or at least pretend that you do. Otherwise, they won't give a shit about what you're saying. Secondly, whatever you say, has to appeal to their interests first. As an example, if you want someone to invest in your business idea, explain to them how they would benefit perhaps from in…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 09:12 PM
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After the encounter, i replay and overanalyze the whole thing until i figure how I should have acted. I get pumped and psyched up to destroy my next opponent, just to fuckit up in the next encounter,and I am back to square one. I am tired of it. You're trying to be perfect. You want to have the best one-liner that'll put them in their place. You're also probably carrying yourself like a weak person: shoulders slumped, head down, etc. There are videos on YouTube to teach you how to change that. T…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:31 PM
3

Can you acquire the feeling that “you’re enough” even if you haven’t achieve high value yet? There's a lot of nuance to it. A homeless person has value because they're human, and deserve a basic level of decency, unless proven otherwise. Jeff Bezos (Amazon) has value that goes beyond that, and it's reflected in the things he's accomplished. A beautiful fashion model is (generally) born that way, and beauty, too, has value, which varies across different cultures. Not a shill, but Mark Manson's co…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:16 PM
4

The billionaires today didn't get there by doing everything by the book. Plan for the worst, hope for the best.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:59 PM
7

It's because the male sex drive is the single strongest motivating force for everything we do. When you're in an LTR, you will always become complacent because: 1) women will wear you down as part of the betaization process, irrespective of how "alpha" you may think you are; and 2) steady access to pussy. The most successful guys are all somewhat insane, and weren't getting laid. The combination is bad most of the time, but sometimes, it works out great. If you look at the most successful people…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:38 PM
1

You won't find the job you want. It has to be created. This means figuring out which responsibilities you want, and don't want, and then making the sacrifices (playing politics, sleep, health, etc.) to be in the role you want to be in. You have to fight for it, and then you have to continue fighting to keep it. You have to be ahead of others in terms of being at work, and in terms of awareness of trends in your industry. Also, seeking your passion is bohemian bullshit. It doesn't exist. Eventual…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:18 AM
16

having money
/r/askTRP03/05/20 10:16 PM
1

What is this called that I’m experiencing? equanimity
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:11 PM
1

My question is what are my options? Focus on what you want. If you wanna bang, then make some moves; escalate. You have to lead, and take control. It sounds like she wants drama, so she can feed off the emotions. You can manufacture it by showing some emotions, and faking anger, which could lead to the best scenario possible: hate fucking. Then detach, and go cold.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:32 PM
3

Not a direct answer to your question, but still relevant. Nir Eyal discusses steps to avoid distractions when working: Develop self-awareness to be in tune with your emotions before you're distracted Write down what set off those emotions Feel the emotions as they pass through you Be aware of the emotions before switching modes from doing one thing to another; when you feel an urge to do something unproductive, feel the urge, and let it pass through you All of this is connected to meditation, an…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:26 PM
2

Not gonna lie, it gets annoying and irritating after a while. Frog boiling. To gain control, bludgeoning people with a hammer is an approach that is too brusque, to say the least. Instead, you do it slowly, over an extended period of time. After the initial honeymoon phase (2-3 months for women) is done, you'll start getting hit with more shit. They're seeing how much bullshit they can keep getting away with. They'll break you down slowly as the BS starts wearing on your confidence, and then, du…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:20 PM
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If you want to, try to explain the purpose of your self improvement and lifestyle to your male friends. Some will get it, some won't. You could try this. However, before you do it, I'd suggest scoping them out first. See if they are compliant with your direction. For instance, if you invite a bunch of people out, check out who always shows up early, or on time. If you message someone, who responds right away, or within a reasonable amount of time. If you tell someone to do something for you, who…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:34 PM
3

How long do you feel the strong urge to keep texting her? Days, months, years? If you've had the same level of neediness returned to you, do you hold interest for a long time, or do you lose it fast?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:12 PM
7

Final frame draws from wealth, power, and status. If you don't have any of those, anything you say, or do is irrelevant, and you're nothing. Compare a random homeless person, and Bezos, or a celebrity like DiCaprio.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 09:59 PM
2

Look are important, but the criteria for women goes beyond looks. Whether you think it's only about looks, or it has nothing to do with looks, you're right.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:49 PM
3

My buddy(more of an acquaintance) chimes in quickly with "OP, you're not getting into X grad school" with a smirk. Get into grad school. Max out career. Live happily ever after.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:30 PM
1

Money solves most problems, and it can be acquired through work. some of it was just realizing how cruel life is I agree that life is shit. How you feel about that is a choice though.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:37 AM
6

You have a degree of control over several things. However, most things are out of your control. A lot of success is comprised of luck. Hard, smart work is a prerequisite to get lucky.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:52 AM
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But no one is gonna rescue you from your suffering. Existence is suffering. When you reach full acceptance of this fact, you'll be free.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:48 AM
3

It's a good idea, and you should seek independence. You're young, and it's probably asking a lot, but having a degree of empathy may lead you to an understanding as well. Perhaps your mother is doing the best she can. She's got her own baggage, and she can't just leave. Maybe your siblings have their own problems too, and they're thinking the same things as you. Not saying it's okay for people to dump their shit on you, but accepting people as human, flaws and all, can sometimes improve your con…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 06:40 AM
1

Depends on context. If you were the POTUS, and delivering a speech about an emotionally charged topic to an audience of millions, it wouldn't be a good time to be soft-spoken. You would speak with conviction, and confidence. In a different scenario, if you were speaking with your mother, your tone would be different, and perhaps softer. Bigger guys can also be quieter because their presence is already felt due to their size. Smaller guys have to be louder for their presence to be known. People m…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:42 PM
1

You're probably right, but I've been thinking about the nature of the unemployment, and the current state of the world given the technological advancements we've made. If the majority of the unemployed are service workers, or people on the lower end of the totem pole, and the majority of the population is able to survive, and perhaps even thrive (with a vaccine, herd immunity, etc.), the question will eventually come up: Are these jobs really that necessary? The way things are now, it's possible…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:37 AM
3

Things that won't change because they meet basic needs: clothing food shelter water electricity telecommunications Luxuries (high-end clothing, expensive restaurants, etc.) will take a hit. Things that will change: how, and where we work how, and where we physically shop how, and where we travel (policies, procedures, perhaps medical screening at airports, ship ports, etc.) oil/gas consumption perhaps more nationalization due to weaknesses in supply chains privacy issues will become even more pe…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:35 PM
6

It's also useful to have a pack of guys around for protection, etc.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:47 PM
1

How do i stop feeling terrible about wasting my youth? Im 26 years old You're not a kid, but you're not old. Don't waste time though. i've just been depressed and anxious i had a gf a couple months ago but didnt end up having sex with her Jealousy, and envy are stronger forces in terms of motivation to change. It's human nature. This is why a lot of guys go through transformations after break-ups. Seeing who was your girl with another guy would piss anyone off, and, hopefully, lead to a path of …
/r/askTRP26/04/20 12:20 AM
1

But I've read many posts here of people saying to keep quiet about your good career/earnings because it will cause women to qualify you as beta bucks. Random chicks trying to BB you is a minor concern. The greater concern is people—men, or women—becoming envious, and undertaking strong measures to take what you have. Haters are real, and dangerous. They can include family, friends, or strangers. This is the main reason for keeping your success private, and being humble. Does earning more not mak…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:26 PM
1

I even bought a cheap condo that doubles as an airbnb that I take plates to and pretend I'm renting there instead of my "real" home. But that is more of a security issue than anything. Dont want chicks stalking me. Wise, and it ties into the importance of wealth.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:15 PM
3

Increase the positive gap between your income, and your expenses. Invest in instruments that generate income, or increase wealth, more or less passively: high-interest savings, equities, dividends, bonds, rental properties, certain businesses, etc.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:03 PM
5

Transformations are part of life. Sex, and death are intertwined. For many guys, intimacy, and raising kids is equivalent to death, since it requires acceptance of your own mortality, as you realize that new life is created, old life moves toward a definite end. And time, undefeated, continues to march forward. In the long run, having a devoted wife, and a legacy for your kids to carry on successfully is the ultimate goal. Everything else is secondary, and, at some point, that includes you. Reli…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:00 AM
4

codependent
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:50 PM
2

You're right. It's tough because you're playing against expectations due to porn, and media. This isn't in your control though. Instead, play to your strengths. For instance, if she makes a stupid face about it, you can pick her up, throw her on the bed, and pin her down. Or, push her against the wall, and start fingering her. These things highlight your dominance, and the fact that you're unphased. They DID NOT want a second go at it and I never heard from them again. Most ONSs end up being not…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:01 PM
2

Not a career idea, but an interesting talk about the reasons underlying why we love the work we do.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:04 AM
3

How to Deal with Covertly Aggressive Manipulators? Best thing is to have a strong network of your own. People won't pick on you if they know there are other people who'll back you up. To deal directly, be overt, and assertive. Put them on notice that you're not stupid, and you know what's up. However, even if it's not easy, don't make it a life mission to read into what people are saying, or doing all the time. It'll drive you crazy.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:48 PM
4

Mitigate as best you can. Vet your plates. Don't fuck everything that's willing. Wear a condom; use your own Get vaccinated for the various Hepatitis forms Do a sniff test on the pussy; if it smells rank, bail Visually inspect pussy; if there are blisters, or warts, bail
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:15 PM
3

Everyone—man, or woman—has both masculine, and feminine energy. Each type has benefits, and drawbacks. Not a good idea to display feminine energy at work, particularly being overly empathetic. It's not black, and white. You have to care enough so you'll stay employed, but not so much that you're baking cookies for everyone at the office. And yea, women will suck your blood dry if you show even the slightest inclination to help with anything.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:42 PM
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Agreed. The older you get, the more of an asshole you'll become. Within bounds, it's not cynicism, it stems from a deep understanding of how a lot of things in the world are fucking bullshit, and there are a lot of unmet expectations from the people close to you. This leads to confidence in your own world view. I've run into a lot of guys that are outward assholes, and it only takes a few interactions to realize that these guys are carrying a lot of pain. I'm certain they were nice at some point…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:41 AM
1

But, how do I stop this from continuing to happen? Date better girls.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:34 AM
5

Seven changes in behaviour of guys around women: Being observed by a woman makes guys dumb. Men eat more around women. Guys spend more money when they think girls aren't around. And when girls are around, guys care more about making money. Pretty girls make guys impatient. Encountering attractive women makes men less happy about their relationships. Guys become jackasses to impress girls. what the best way to handle this? Become better, compete. Or, die alone.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:43 PM
5

scheduled chatting time wtf
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:37 PM
9

Gain: Calories out < Calories in Lose: Calories out > Calories in Maintain: Calories out = Calories in
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:35 PM
6

Generally, it's not in our nature to be cuckolded. Normal men, and women don't enjoy it. If I like a girl, I don't feel good if she mentions other guys, or if she has a lot of male friends, or if she's wearing clothing that's too revealing. She's mine, and, indirectly, or directly I want to keep it that way. The fact that I feel that way is healthy, and natural. I'm not going to pretend like I'm totally cool with her giving blowjobs to every guy she meets. Age is a factor in this in the sense th…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:18 PM
1

Growing older (i am in my 50s) i slowly realized that people will never respect me unless i was or at least projected i was content with myself. True. If you don't respect yourself, why would anyone else?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:56 PM
1

What are you disappointed about?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:07 AM
3

Could be that you lack attention, or love in your life. Talk to more people, and form deeper connections with men, or women. Also, develop larger goals for your life, and get lost in the work towards achieving them.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:12 PM
1

Don't hold it in. Crack a sook. Also, don't isolate yourself. Maximize socializing. You'll feel the pain yourself, but the grief can, and should be shared. Get out, talk to friends, family, strangers. Being vulnerable with the right people will deepen your connections. You might also get some pity fucks from girls, which may be helpful in getting over her. Finally, use the emotions to create. Write, paint, draw, take up dancing classes, whatever. Have fun with it. It'll keep you busy as you chur…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:43 AM
0

However, I am sitting on a large pile of cash that I have been saving in order to put +20% down on a house. Safest thing is a high-interest savings account (HISA). my father is telling me in a year houses will be very much “on sale”. It'll happen sooner than that, perhaps a few months: https://www.worldpropertyjournal.com/real-estate-news/united-states/seattle/real-estate-news-covid-19-impact-on-real-estate-sales-coronavirus-housing-report-redfin-2020-housing-market-slowdown-report-11903.php Peo…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:12 PM
3

You're probably young, and figuring yourself, and the world out. They have experience, which is what true confidence stems from. If you want final frame, get uncomfortable, and become rich as fuck.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:17 PM
1

Happiness is a fleeting emotion. You feel good for a while, and then you're back to your normal state, whatever that may be. "Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts." — Winston Churchill There is no failure, or success. There's only doing. Fact about life is that you can't keep doing forever because your time is finite. Being aware of our mortality is part of what pushes us to move forward.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:13 PM
3

She perceived you as beneath her. This is why, generally, relationships where the woman earns significantly more than the man don't work out. Women aren't dumb. They're aware of these things, too. I've talked to some high up in the workforce. They would say that, the higher they move up, the harder it is for them to find a partner of equal or higher value. "I'm a strong independent woman who don't need no man" type. Yea, because she literally doesn't need a man for anything other than putting hi…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:18 PM
2

Hate your current life. Want better. Transform yourself. Move through fear with aggressiveness.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:43 AM
3

From personal experience, there's a marked difference in how people treat you depending on how much money you make. The more you have, the better you're treated, and vice versa. This is true for family, friends, colleagues, strangers. Look at how the homeless are treated, compared to celebrities, and you get the idea. What you have isn't a limiting belief, it's a good sense of reality. Sure, you may be able to bang girls now and then if you're attractive, and can put on a facade of false confide…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:09 PM
7

You're right. It is manipulative. She's looking for control. Tease her about some unchangeable body feature of hers. See how she likes it. Do it randomly so she doesn't see it as retaliation.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:51 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:45 PM
11

You're young so it's not too bad blowing some money, and having fun. However, now is a great time to get your finances in order. I would suggest investing that money first, and then using any excess for fun. This ties into self-control. As you get older, finances become more important, and you don't want to be ruined because of an addiction. Also, don't make it a crutch, i.e., start thinking you're cool with being rejected because you can always fuck a hooker. It's also dangerous to start relyin…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:14 AM
1

Every time we talk about it she goes little insane, she tells me that i shouldn't talk about or i should find another girl if i don't want to wait a year, and that i shouldn't pressure it and that i waited my whole life without sex so i can wait a little bit longer. She also have huge paranoia over having kids now, but want it in few years, i don't want to. Jesus. Fucking. Christ. She is heavily manipulating you, and wants to keep you under her thumb. Ghost her ass. Block her on everything. Also…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:34 AM
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So, as a 22 year old, is it really all over for me? Or is life just beginning, and can my "hookup phase" still happen? There's a lot of bullshit in the media that everyone is fucking around in college. There's evidence indicating that it's a myth. Does it happen? Of course, but not nearly at the levels people make up in their minds. Sex is important, particularly for men because of a stronger sex drive. However, there are more worthwhile things in life. You're young, and you have plenty of time …
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:38 AM
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Ignore, and push for the meet: "Tomorrow at 8". No sense wasting time with lyrical masturbation, which is probably what was happening since: she was going to give me a bj in my car
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:22 AM
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Maarten van Doorn discusses the dangers of apathy, and underscores the importance of self-respect as it relates to ambition: In life, ‘losing’ doesn’t mean ‘being defeated’. The surest way to lose is to refuse to play. While playing this game, we need to strike a delicate balance. Self-respect demands that we make a dedicated effort. Self-worth demands that we feel we are enough regardless of its outcome. Being ambitious and content at the same time is the great challenge of life. John F. Kenned…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:06 AM
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I don't want to leave her or put up with it. Sums up life.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:04 AM
1

crazy chicks are helluva drug
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:02 AM
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The guys you're looking up to also have insecurities because they're human. There are also guys out there that are probably envious of you. Do I use this insecurity to improve my life? Yes. The most successful people are always broken in some way, and created their success as a way to feel whole. As a man, it is vital for you to have a mission, and to chase after it. As you get older, the question of what you've done with your life will become more, and more important. Maarten van Doorn on ambit…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:08 PM
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Men in this world like him are bully’s and have no place in this office. In any competitive workplace, there will be plenty of bullying, largely psychological of course. They'll find your triggers, and whenever you don't comply, they'll keep pushing your triggers to make your life miserable until you do. It's not clear what happened in your situation. He was sick, and came back, and he's pissed off? I don't get it. What can I do to protect myself? Without losing my job? Unless he's a psycho, he'…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:58 PM
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one CLO I know has multiple unhappily married CEO/COOs as emotional tampons Empathy is the language of power. It's when people start doing things for you because they "care" about you, that you know you have power. An example of this might be a CEO who takes on a contract from a contractor that they like, and care about, instead of someone else. In exchange, there will expectations placed upon the contractor, too, beyond financial obligations. It's super beta, but this is how a lot of business i…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:29 PM
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They almost had something together like 2 years ago but he got into a LTR. If she rejected him before, she probably just wants his attention now, and doesn't like the fact that he's focused on someone else. It could also be envy, she wants to keep him for herself; possessiveness. In any case, if the dude left his LTR for her, she'd probably ghost him. It's all ego.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:53 PM
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I’ve encountered the most terrible people of my life so far in this year. Somehow I think I’ve lost faith in people and the thoughts of counting on them. It may help to remember that people have their own shit their going through that you may not even know about. A lot of the time, if you feel you've been slighted, or rejected, it's likely the other person's own problems. Maybe their feeling insecure due to uncertain times in the economy, or perhaps you remind them of someone that hurt them. It …
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:21 AM
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In other words, HE'S ON HIS OWN. JUST LIKE YOU. JUST LIKE OP. JUST LIKE ANYONE ELSE GOING THROUGH SHIT. You're right. Pain is felt alone. However, grief is shared. If you don't deliver yourself from the pain and darkness you're in, no one will, and bitching will never help. Talking to people, writing things out, definitely helps. There are extremes. That is, you can't be whining, and crying all the time. It's also not healthy to bottle things up completely all the time. Your relationships (with …
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:59 AM
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i know a girl, welll i dated her for a bit, super down to earth in real life, caring, nice girl...BUT completely HOOKED on social media. Addicted. Can't get off it. Posting selfies all the time. I know another girl. Scroll through her insta profile and it's just norma pictures of her at the beach, at the forest nothing crazy then all of a sudden 1 picture at the gym then another and over the years full blown ass pictures. How would you know these things? Anyone else depressed about how badly wom…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:01 PM
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What you should learn from this is that everyone needs help, and no man is an island. When it comes down to it, everything is about relationships. You need people to support you, to the point that it will physiologically affect you, if you don't have strong relationships. The way to build those relationships is to start early, and nurture them over time. Keep in touch with people. A simple, "How's it going?" can brighten someone's day, especially if they like you. Start giving a fuck about peopl…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:46 PM
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Pick her up, throw her on the bed. Pin her hands down, fuck. You can also push her against a wall, turn her around, fuck. Use dirty talk. Start off playful, like wrestling. You don't have to be too rough if it's the first time, and you can go harder over several sessions. Throw in spanking, slapping, hair pulling, biting. Stay aware of any feedback. If she firmly says, "no", or "stop", back off a bit.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:29 AM
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“you wouldn’t want me too I promise you” Don't say things when you can't back it up with action. It's just dumb. If you were involved in an altercation, and you threatened the other guy with, "Say that again, and I'll kill you," you'd better kill the guy if he says it again, otherwise, he knows you're full of shit, and you're done. Anyways how should I normally respond to her doing this She's saying, "make me." Make her. She wants to be dominated. Get aggressive, and take action.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:06 AM
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Watch their actions, not their words. your cute like a puppy but I’m not sexually attracted to you Escalate. If she's not having it, move on.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 01:25 AM
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Growing pains for both. It'll be over in 2 years max.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:17 AM
1

How old is your friend, and the girl?
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:12 AM
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He has a net worth of $400 million. Zero fucks given about anyone, or anything else. This is why it's advised that the only thing worth chasing is wealth, though health is also important.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:44 PM
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I could tell her something like money is not the key to happiness that Im glad I quit consulting. What're you doing now?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:39 PM
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If you were living in Antarctica, you'd have no choice but to move. Location matters. You have to setup your life in a way that will make it easy for you to get pussy. This means living in urban areas where there's a high population of the type of girls you like. It may also mean living close to a college. As you get older, you have to develop methods to get girls to come to you, instead of you having to go to them. This means having a cool lifestyle, living in a cool location, and knowing the r…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:52 PM
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People are saying that we're heavily dependent on front-line workers. Yes, there are lot of people currently doing important things. However, if we survive the pandemic with this massive level of unemployment, what does that it say about the nature of the jobs that were lost? It may lead to the realization that a lot of people in the workforce aren't doing "essential" things, and these people are at the bottom. It could intensely accelerate automation, and keep unemployment levels the same, as w…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 10:03 PM
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fwb told me that I didn't look attractive at all when I was throwing these angry comments Women almost always say the opposite of what they mean. She loves the drama, and the emotion. Why would she even mention attractiveness while talking about anger? Her panties were probably soaked. Women love aggression, so long as it's not out of control, and all the time, otherwise it becomes normalized. Anger is one of several human emotions. How you express it defines how well you regulate your emotions.…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:58 PM
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Schwarzenegger admitted to having self-esteem issues. Every person is insecure about something. I'm going to finally get lean and get a six pack will my body still be attractive with stretch marks? Or will I never give girls tingles with body markings? You're not there yet. Do it, and think about it after. Also, every chick is like putty when she's naked because they're all insecure about something. Be comfortable with yourself, she'll feed off that, and feel good about herself, too, which will …
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:11 AM
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It was after a break-up, and frustration with where I was in my life. There are definitely dark periods you go through when you can kind of see through people, and know what's up. Mostly, I stopped paying as much attention to girls, and realized that, while sex is important, and feels great, the most worthwhile pursuit involves maximizing your potential. Check out the movie: A Bronx Tale. Many ideas to think about in there.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:14 PM
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I don't know whether these guys can really be trusted to base my life philosophy around You are wise beyond your years. You'll notice that there are only a handful of things that people are universally insecure about: looks, wealth, status, and power. What those "experts" on YouTube provide are ways for people to overcome their insecurities, and escape whatever their circumstances may be. Note that particularly in terms of dating, and girls, it's easy to appear like an "expert" as well because y…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:50 AM
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She's plying a relationship out of you by seeing how much time you'll share with her if there's no sex involved. I met a stripper She's also damaged goods. What do I do? Soft next her, and bang other girls. She'll come around. If she doesn't, great, another spot in the roster to fill.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:09 AM
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I take pride in being a struggler Start being disgusted with being a struggler. Your mind will automatically start wandering towards ways in which you can change that. Hint: Develop passive income streams so you don't have to work, or do as little as possible to have money coming in.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 10:49 PM
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Think as you like, behave like others. Look at the culture in your office. If it's the norm to ask, "How're you doing?", from time to time, then do that, while pretending to care. If everyone keeps chit chat to a minimum, follow that. Part of me doesn't give a shit. Don't tell them, or show them this through your actions. It will make you stick out, and you'll be crucified for it.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:03 PM
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If you know who's doing it with certainty, and it's gone too far, they'll have to be confronted about it.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:47 PM
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“my friend says you do everything but Netflix and chill... is that true?” "See you at 9" (or whatever time) Don't bother answering stupid questions.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 10:29 AM
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Work your ass off, and reach a station in life by 35, and there will be no shortage of hot 20-somethings for you to fuck.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:12 AM
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for some reason [4s to 6s] have the biggest attitude and sexually tease guys the most wc without actually putting out, why is this? Because you're a 1 to 3.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:03 PM
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Exactly. Empathy's a powerful thing, and it's better to learn how to use it, than to avoid it altogether. Chriss Voss discusses how to use tactical empathy to negotiate better deals.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:33 AM
1

She didn't get hotter, you still haven't gotten over her.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:33 PM
1

So how do you balance these two elements of TRP to be a well rounded guy? There are times to let go, and times to hold on. Experience will teach you when it's the right time to do either, and to what degree.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:42 AM
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told me shes slept with 40-50 guys You know it's bad when it's a range, and not an exact number.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:38 AM
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Depends on the situation. If you're at her place, or she's over, you can offer to shower together, or have shower sex. It would also depend on how hot she is, how desperate you are, and how bad it smells, among other factors.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:17 AM
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Your boner dying due to the smell is a signal indicating that you shouldn't stick your dick in there. It's up to you whether or not you want to tell her it smells.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:58 AM
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I really dont care about my life. I dont care to do a single thing. Seek ways to help others. Everyone has something to offer. It'll help you learn about your own value, and how you want to be valued by others.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:52 PM
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I am 21 You have people around you that care about you, and want the best for you. You won't understand this, and be grateful for it until you get a bit older, and realize you're not invulnerable. C'est la vie.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 07:57 PM
2

Anything that happens in your time with a hooker is a fantasy. Think of it like going to a movie. It's an escape. The emotions you may feel are real but temporary. If you start believing anything she says, you'll be hooked, and then you're done.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:41 AM
2

Funny thing is that most are living only about 18 miles away from mothers—at least in America.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:24 AM
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he’ll have to bend to their will in some areas and that’s probably only fair This is true for everyone in life, even the elite. They have to at least pretend to care by giving a little lest they be eaten alive by the masses.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 10:37 PM
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Men don’t want to fuck women, men want to fuck women who WANT THEM. Best fucks ever.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:41 AM
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It's never bothered me but everyone around me Wait a while.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:29 AM
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To start, be aggressive. It'll help you push through your own boundaries whether that's due to fear, or shyness, or whatever. For example, if someone calls you a fatass, you could respond with, "Go fuck yourself." As you become comfortable with talking back, your mind will loosen up, and you'll give less fucks, as you realize that, in certain cases, it's okay to mouth off a bit sometimes. Over time, this will automatically spur your creative faculties to come up with better responses, and you'll…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:04 AM
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You'll see it in their eyes. Women in their 30s, and beyond, have a dead look. There's no vibrancy. It happens to everyone, men included. You're simply not the same person you were as a teenager. No amount of plastic surgery, chemical peels, or laser interventions can change this.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:32 PM
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Triple the price, send it by mail after you receive the money electronically. Otherwise, dump the goods.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:28 PM
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Triple the price, send it by mail after you get paid. Otherwise, dump the goods.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:28 PM
1

how to minimize the chance to fuck it all up Assume it will fuck up. Be prepared, and willing to deal when it does.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 09:49 PM
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Because the market for pussy is a seller's market. There is an endless stream of guys that would fuck anything, and even the ugliest girls can be picky. This creates competition among guys, and increases the value of pussy. If you watch a few nature documentaries, you'll understand that this occurs in all species. Mating always involves competition over, or for females, and men are programmed to compete for the opportunity to reproduce. As guys, everything we do is, first and foremost, instincti…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 03:08 PM
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"Listen, smile, agree, and then do whatever the fuck you were going to do anyway." - Robert Downey Jr. I'd add that you should sift any truth from what they're saying, and trash the rest. For instance, if someone told you to lose some weight, called you a fatass, and you're 400 lbs overweight, sure, it might hurt. However, instead of ignoring it completely, or getting defensive, take the truth from it to improve your health for your own sake, and move forward with a better life.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:01 AM
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I get what you're saying about limits but part of the thrill, or emotional high of dominating, and submitting is the crossing of limits. I'm thinking dominance is about forcing yourself upon the other person, making them submit by doing things they don't like. If they like it, are they really submitting? It's like if someone was hungry, and I demanded they eat the food they enjoy, are they submitting to anything? It's the same with submission, except it's the opposite, doing things the dominant …
/r/askTRP18/03/20 09:46 AM
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I don't understand this type of stuff. If she's giving you permission to be a dom, and controlling how far you can go, then you're not really dominant, right? It seems like she's just pretending to be a sub towards you.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:17 AM
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22 years old, went to my female best friend house to - i'm not even kidding - play some MMORPG lmao. Eventually, i draw some forces and finally achieve a "ok" erection to fuck her. 15 seconds inside and i just nut (i actually enjoyed the orgasm, better than masturbation). You should feel proud that you fucked. A lot of people don't even get to the point of having a female best friend. If this is the worst experience you've had in life (so far), you're doing extremely well. Congrats on the sex. K…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:43 PM
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dude was 2 times my weight This is why he did it. Bullies typically pick on people they know are weaker than them. I trained boxing for years If you've trained for so long, you should probably know to roll with the punches; both literally, and figuratively. You jumped from 0 to 100 in your thinking. If you got bumped, you could say, "Damn, you're touchy." Use humour to lighten things up. If he says, "I can push you seriously if you want," you could rebut, "I'm not ready for a relationship though…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:38 PM
2

Imagine a powerful guy with a fragile ego. Some other guy makes fun of him in front of his friends at a gathering, and he's pissed off because he has a reputation to maintain. He's not going to overtly tell his friends to beat up that guy. Instead, he won't have to do anything but ensure eye contact and silence, and his friends will jump to his aid after seeing the exchange because they "care" about him, and he takes "care" of his friends. That way, he doesn't look like a bitch, and the other gu…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 09:59 PM
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We've been hanging out for 2 months and fucking alot/talking, but not dating. Took a girl on a trip for 4 days, paid for everything obviously staying together in a hotel room just us 2. But it made me mad she would do this while I'm paying for the flight hotel food drinks everything. It sounds like you were expecting her to act like a girlfriend because you paid her to. This is typical "niceguy" behaviour, and you went completely overboard with it by paying for everything. You were totally quali…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 10:46 AM
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There will be people that'll hate you for breathing. Such is life. Keep moving.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:23 PM
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Like girls in relationships suddenly become so desperate for other guys. It's not just girls. It's a human thing to see the grass greener on the other side, and want more. Don't you want other girls when you're already in a relationship that's in the comfort stages?
/r/askTRP13/03/20 01:39 PM
1

Men use love to get sex, women use sex to get love.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:42 AM
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If it's escalating, deescalate. If your life is threatened, run. If you can't run, then fight.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:57 AM
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1) it feels like admitting defeat in life Tolstoy did it, and he kept frequenting brothels. 2) once I break the psychological barrier to fucking a hooker, I will want to do it again and again, and it will become an expensive vice. Yea, and you may catch some STDs. That can happen with regular women too though.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:17 PM
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Have other girls that you're fucking, and you'll care less about this sort of stuff.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:27 PM
1

How did she end up with your hoodie if you were only making out? Also, you got hoodwinked.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:42 PM
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By controlling what people around him want, or need, he can make those people dependent on him. Generally, this is money. Take work, for instance. People respect their bosses because they control their income, which is necessary for people to survive. Typically, it's a mutually beneficial relationship: Work gets done, people get paid. When people step out of line, they are reprimanded accordingly. It's the same for that gang. He provides what people around him value, and he can punish them, or t…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:31 PM
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Please do not commit suicide. The following is a list of suicide hotlines across the world: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines There are people that want to help. If you are feeling overwhelmed, talk to family, or close friends, or even strangers. You may also want to seek the help of a trusted professional.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:31 AM
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With a girl I can exxagerate her shit test and turn it into a joke. But I can't do the same with work colleagues. I can't do the same when someone disrespects me. Because then they know they can behave however they want with me and I become the punching bag It sounds like you're wound up tight, and have a chip on your shoulder. In competitive settings such as workplaces, it may not always be a bad thing because you're trying to prove yourself, and it's good to be ambitious. There is no single ma…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:25 AM
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The problem with this approach is that while it works I am getting a reputation of being aggressive and "nOt bEiNg a tEaMpLaYer'. This means it's not working. Instead, what will happen is that people will end up ganging up on you. Note that disrespect is not going to end when you squash it. Wherever you go, and whatever you achieve, you will still be disrespected by some people. A-list celebrities have achieved what most people want out of life: wealth, status, and power. However, even the best …
/r/askTRP07/03/20 08:01 PM
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It's likely that it's not only her appearance, and the sex that you miss. There may be stronger underlying motives: She's getting better and wants me back badly but she's bad fucking news. such as being wanted.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:09 PM
1

It'd be unfair to all the other girls.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:59 AM
1

Sometimes it's true, sometimes it's not. There are grey areas.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:27 PM
2

basically left it at lmk if you change your mind when we’re both ugly and old She's already set on fucking other guys, which is why she's giving you permission. She may have done it already, and wants you to do it, so she doesn't have to feel guilty. It's done. Mentally end it, and enjoy the 3-somes, gangbangs, and orgies, and move on.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:10 PM
3

It's getting STDs you'd regret, not fucking beautiful women.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 02:59 PM
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You're young. A lot of people around your age are virgins. You're not alone, and it's nothing to be concerned about. As long as there are prospects around, and you're not living in Antarctica, work on gaming. The long-term rewards are better. Also: And I wouldn‘t want to lie in the future to somoene about it, I wanna be honest to people. There is such a thing as being "stupid honest", and you won't survive in life if you play it that way. In fact, you'll be eaten alive.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:51 PM
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And, you can read more about it here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex) The French also have a term for it: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_petite_mort There's also the colloquialism: "post-nut clarity" . When you aren't getting pussy, it's all you want. When you have it, you won't give a shit about it. This phenomenon can be broadened, and applied to all aspects of life (money, friends, power, etc.). All of this is tied intricately to "abundance mentality". When you have ab…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:16 PM
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Most of the forever bachelors I've seen last till their late 30s. Then, it's marriage, and early 40s they popped out a kid, or two. It's the sensible thing to do. Of course, they've all cheated on their wives now and then because they know their SOs can't do better. And, they're loaded, and connected, so they still go around creating mischief by fucking around with the have-nots.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:45 AM
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In some cases, you might have great chemistry, and hit it off. Generally though, at the beginning, both sides are exploring their options more than they're exploring each other. There's not enough investment that anyone's nexting.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:43 PM
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Shame, and pride are 2 sides of the same coin. Pride: "I'm the greatest human being ever." Shame: "I'm garbage. I deserve to be treated like shit." It's excessive self-interest, all ego. Finding the middle ground is key. How do you get over the shame of having been a girls puppet and having exhibited extreme beta behaviour? Humility. Create a realistic account of what happened, write it down in pen. Who said what, who did what, how things went to shit, etc. Once complete, that's history. It will…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:16 AM
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It’s not clever, witty, amused mastery, pressure flipping, nor demonstrating any value. You're right. It's clearly not trying to prove, or be anything. If a girl is eating that up it because she perceives you as high value Exactly.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:47 PM
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under 25 women seem to get weirded out by me being over 30, single and childless Why are you telling them you're single? Always use amused mastery: "It's complicated." "Only in this area code." "wtf does that matter?" "What is this, the Spanish Inquisition?" "Not for you." Or ignore it, and switch topics. For all intents, and purposes you're never single, otherwise they start wondering why you're single, which inevitably leads to you being a loser. Every woman you meet should always have to figh…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 02:39 PM
0

LTR of 8 years was attending her bff's birthday party at a club. Spring is almost here. Hopefully, you drank to new beginnings.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:15 PM
2

would it be weird for me to suggest us going inside her place to watch a movie or something? Ask to use the washroom. Higher probability of banging if you make some moves before leaving, since you're already at her place.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 04:54 PM
1

Strongly agree on stress causing issues. Entering stressful periods in life has always adversely affected my sleep patterns. Meditation somewhat helped with this. I'd add to not expect anything from going to sleep and to accept the fact that even if you don't sleep, you can still be a functioning productive human being. Not true. Regularly getting a healthy amount of sleep is vital to being "a functioning productive human being." You can expect to feel better if you've been sleep deprived, and s…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 12:29 PM
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How do I fix my sleeping schedule if I can't sleep due to thinking about life when I'm trying to sleep? I would highly recommend f.lux. Great software that adjusts the temperature of the colours on your screen according to the time of day. The difference is literally night and day. You probably have excess energy, hence the anxiousness. Thus, I would recommend getting a good workout in early in the morning, around 6 am to soak up some of that energy. This ensures you'll be too tired to stay awak…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:27 AM
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You want to know if a girl is DTF. Escalate, and find out. It's possible to soften them up by being unperturbed, and persistent with your flirting, seeing through her bitchiness. Of course, if she's being outright disrespectful, or rude though, it's not a shit test. Walk away, or put her in her place, or both. Don't tolerate bullshit.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:58 PM
2

Same way you cross great heights: Don't look down.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 07:53 PM
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Is she looking for validation she’s not a slut or trying to figure out I’m into that kinda thing ? Pretty much. She's feeling you out to know where you're at: What do you think about her? Do you think about her? Are you looking for fun? Are you looking for something serious? etc. Women will conform to your expectations. They figure out those expectations with ambiguous statements that lure them out of you. She was flinging, and the fact that you're asking here means that it at least gave you pau…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:49 PM
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If it's something you can change, work on changing it. If it's something that can't be changed, accept it, and move forward. Neither of these are easy.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 09:24 AM
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makes fun of me but I stay quiet and ignore it as to avoid a fight If you're thinking about fighting because someone teased you, you've already lost. It means you're too fragile. I used to get bullied alot back then I still get alot if shit tests by other men Consider the possibility that it may be in your head because of your past. People may be joking around, and probably like you. TRP talks a lot about defensive techniques (A&A, pressure flip, etc.), however, it's important to know offensive …
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:39 PM
14

Then you stay in her life to catch her when she falls, while laughing at her, and consistently finding creative ways to remind her that 23 is only 5 years away.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:13 PM
2

That's one way to look at it. The example was to illustrate that there were probably many people at that time that couldn't have kids for very rational external reasons that may have been out of their control.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:48 AM
14

During the Holodomor famine in Soviet Ukraine in the early 1930s, many people were eating their own children to survive: Survival was a moral as well as a physical struggle. A woman doctor wrote to a friend in June 1933 that she had not yet become a cannibal, but was "not sure that I shall not be one by the time my letter reaches you." The good people died first. Those who refused to steal or to prostitute themselves died. Those who gave food to others died. Those who refused to eat corpses died…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:01 AM
1

What kind of remarks are they making?
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:56 AM
1

How to exectute a soft next in order for her not to get immunity for it? Have more important things in your life than girls.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:30 PM
1

Jokes aside, there's no way to be absolutely certain a woman is a virgin. Some women have a hymen, others don't. It can break easily from something as simple as horse riding. There may also be little to no bleeding when it does break. The hymen might be varying degrees of thickness as well. Or should you assume she's just lying about it? What you should do is get to a place in your life, and in your mind, where you don't care either way.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 06:28 PM
2

About 6 months ago I got back with an ex who I had dated for 2+ years from around 2012-2015. Whoops. My LTR lied about her sexual history You don't say.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 04:49 PM
5

It's easier to be the guy stealing a girl, than it is the one that's keeping a girl because there's no investment on the guy that's stealing. He's just taking a shot. This is probably why he tried it. He may also have seen you hanging around her a lot, and sensed that you might be insecure about leaving her alone. Who knows. If it keeps happening, I can see why eventually it would grate on anyone's nerves. Not a good way to handle it on your part though. Best thing is to forget about it, and mov…
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:33 AM
7

Psychological reactance: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reactance_(psychology)
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:12 PM
1

Just walk up to literally any female you want to bang. This is the part where he's stuck though.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:52 PM
1

Become curious, and learn to question yourself. I miss the amount of fun and partying I used to do Do you really miss the fun, and partying, or is there something else going on? What's stopping you from getting together with your old friends, and partying a bit? You don't have to become a drug addict, or an alcoholic. Test yourself. Try an experiment: Get with your old friend group, and go out and party a couple of times. Afterwards, write about what you saw, what you did, how you felt, and most…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 10:08 AM
5

It can sometimes be a tactic used by servers to get the man to pay more. For instance, if he's flirty with her, the guy may try to compensate for feeling insecure by blowing money on a more expensive meal, or dropping a huge tip. It's in the book, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, by Robert B. Cialdini, pages 232-235. Key thing in your case is to not fall into the other guy's frame, which is what happens when he's the one asking questions, and you're giving straight responses. Withdrawing…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 10:02 PM
2

a year later I put on an incredible amount of mass It could be the mass. It could also be the fact that you've been there for some time. Over time, you're bound to develop a degree of familiarity, and will end up enjoying each other's company. Another possibility is that you feel better about yourself, and those positive feelings are projected on others, and reflected back to you. To an extent, you're right though. Being attractive will get you better treatment, and part of that is having a stro…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 08:53 PM
2

Given that it's a bar, she could've been on auto-reject mode. She may have had her bitch shield up. Girls with low self-esteem will also first reject you even if they may be interested. They need more coaxing. There could be other reasons. You're not going to know with one initial interaction. You need more information. I then saw her looking back at me after I've made a couple of new friends. This is why you should focus on having fun first, and then scope out any girls you're interested in. Th…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 06:42 PM
8

Attractive people earn more, and are perceived as more intelligent Really ugly people are outliers, and could be high earners Taller people earn more As a man, behaving in a feminine way can result in penalties at work Co-workers are not your friends; socialize but be prepared for them to choose their paycheck over you, or your relationship People who add to the core value of an organization can get away with murder; i.e., some people get preferential treatment at work, particularly anyone that'…
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:44 PM
1

Link: https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/buffers/
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:46 AM
9

Sure, it can be good financially. However—subconsciously, or not—he's crippling you in terms of preventing your independence, and growth, because he's scared of losing you. Wanting to move out but feel like I'd be disrespecting my dad You'd be disrespecting yourself by staying. Save enough for a down payment, or emergency fund, then move out. Check in with your parents from time to time.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 10:12 PM
7

There is no greater sacrifice that a human could suffer than a woman giving up the ability to complain about work.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:47 AM
2

If he's being an asshole towards you, then you have to say, or do something out of self-respect. If he's just being loud, ignore. Or, push his buttons by shushing him: "(finger on mouth) Shhhhhh… let's stick to our indoor voices." <smirk>
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:02 PM
5

No matter what you do in life, you will start off eating shit. It takes time to build up from that, and gain power, and respect. Should you decide you're too good to eat shit, you'll spend your entire life being given shit.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 11:05 AM
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Strongly disagree with the comfort, or shit testing. She wouldn't give the ultimatum unless she had someone else lined up, or at least has other options. OP's been riding the fence for 4 years. This is over. She feels powerless, and she wants to go out on top by attempting to coerce OP into compliance, and then dumping his ass.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 10:15 PM
2

I don't act enough Take up some form of fight training (BJJ, boxing, etc.). It forces you to be in the present. You'll learn how to act quickly, or get your ass kicked.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 07:20 PM
2

So agreeing to take a photo was the wrong move? Stop being agreeable. You have to dick around a little with people before giving them what they want. They'll appreciate it more, and it shows you're not an anxious puppy wagging his tail, ready to do whatever he's told. It's also part of being assertive. It indicates you're mulling it over before making a decision instead of simply obeying commands like a robot. Turkish ice cream vendors as an example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iaFNS74OMFg
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:07 PM
1

How do you think these girls are going to end up? However they end up, it will be largely because of the men.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:20 PM
1

Is approaching in gyms really frowned upon? Are you seriously asking for permission to approach?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:17 PM
5

What does it mean when a woman at your bootcamp singles you out to take photos of her and her friend? It means it's easy to use you to do favours.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:15 PM
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GF of 4 years gave me ultimatum. It was a good run.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:10 PM
1

Good women have to be trained. In a perverse sense, you have to become like a father figure, and teach her how to be good to you. It requires commitment, time, and effort. This is why younger girls are better because they're more malleable. Older women will be damaged, and more set in their ways. You also have to look at her family, and social circle to get clues as to what she's probably like. Drug addict father, and alcoholic mother? It's likely she's not going to be the pick of the litter. St…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 03:58 PM
3

I know I may struggle with confidence sometimes. I want to know if other guys feel this way with hot girlfriends? Of course. And, the younger, and more fertile she is, the stronger the feelings of jealousy you'll have: It is also worth noting that mate guarding tactics are more likely to be used if the partner is of high reproductive value e.g. if the female displays signs of high fertility such as youth and physical attractiveness. Women also don't feel good about their partner being in the com…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:56 PM
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People, in general, don't give a fuck about your hard work. They televise competitions, not practices. Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless. It makes you seem more powerful, and suspends mystery.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 11:10 AM
1

You got another grown ass man name calling you, picking on you like you’re some little bitch, and your first thought isn’t to slap the yellow off his teeth? I can’t wrap my head around that mindset man I’m sorry Of course anyone would think that. Unless it was the only resort left, it would be stupid to act on it though. The idea of fighting is far better than the reality.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:56 AM
1

If you have knowledge, share it with the world on YouTube, or other sites. How you explain things may be different than other people. Plus, you'll get feedback from people, which may sometimes be useful, and it will reinforce what you know. Also, bonds, and index funds are relatively stable investments. If you can build up a bit of capital, then you may want to consider putting a down payment on some real estate. Goal is to maximize my minimum-average salary. Set higher goals.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:38 AM
1

Don't feel a thing jacking off either. It just feels weak and small since I am a grower. I have no problems getting HB7+ girls but I always end up just making them cum with my hands and mouth, and not with my dick. They always stick around for 2nd and 3rd meeting but I know, regardless of how much fun they have with me and my good hands/mouth, it gets boring if there's no dick involved so I let them go. It may be depression. Also, stop trying to please the girls. Take control, and focus more on …
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:31 AM
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Exactly. There's also the possibility of internal subconscious biases that we all have. Perhaps he feels he can relate better to a younger person, since he's young himself; or because his mother was young when she had him. There could be a whole range of underlying reasons. Who knows.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:09 AM
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That's why it is you the one who have to start making demands and increasing the pressure after commit, pushing her more into submissiveness. You have to be careful with this because it's 2-sided. High expectations are good, but there's a cost associated with that. Unless she's got 0 self-esteem, whatever expectations you have of her, will be the same expectations she'll have of you. For instance, if you want her to be skinny, and maintain her figure, you can't be a fat slob. In general, this is…
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:53 AM
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She"s starting to focus on the useful aspect of him. I.e. the beta aspect. That happened long before the ring mention. As soon as you commit to a girl, the betaization process has begun, simply because you're letting go of other opportunities while choosing to be with her.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:21 AM
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Instacrap, Fuckbook, whatever social media is only for advertising. They can be useful tools to passively DHV. In other words, the only thing that matters is action. If you see them again, it won't be by accident. Lead the overt one home, and suggest bringing her friend along so that she's not alone. If she's not down, don't push it. If you do have them both at your place, they're isolated, and, perhaps with some creativity you can fuck both.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:16 AM
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They come in pairs because one of them is winging, same as guys. It's also for safety. The one that's being overt is the one that's DTF. I doubt the covert one is flirting, probably in your head, and perhaps you like chasing. For 3-somes, you have to look at how the 2 girls behave towards each other. If they're making out in front of you, and especially for you, and being more than friendly, that's a sign to get creative, and take them both home. If they're mostly only friendly with each other, …
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:41 AM
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The whole time she cried saying she was scared something might happen to me. This tells me I didn't look like a man enough to protect her. I don't know. Did I do wrong? You defended yourself, de-escalated, and gave her massive feels. You did well. You probably also got lucky that he wasn't a lunatic carrying a knife, or a gun. Alcohol, loud music, plus many young people. If you want to go to clubs, be prepared for dumb shit to happen. It's a closed space that encourages stupid decisions.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:26 AM
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If you adhere to the RP way of life in a LTR or MRP, you are fine. Most people revert to BP ways. Make you immortal, the "RP way of life" does not.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:36 AM
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I’ve started to also realize how much of a beta male my father is. Save the post. Come back and read it when you're 40+.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:47 PM
2

What's "Valentine's Day"?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:46 PM
5

And much rather date a 20 year old who is fun than a jaded 30 year old cat lady with baggage. You can see it in their eyes. Young girls have a youthful vibrancy, while older women look completely dead irrespective of the level of Botox, or surgery.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:05 AM
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asides from learning martial arts and sparring to toughen myself up, is there anything else I can do to not be a pushover? Lift Read No More Mister Nice Guy by Robert Glover Check out other resources on the internet related to assertiveness Practice assertiveness; You must take action. I would encourage you to go overboard on the assholery (so long as there's no physical threat on either side), since it's easier to tone it down, than it is tone it up If you need more encouragement, some studies …
/r/askTRP13/02/20 01:05 AM
1

No one can tell you that. You learn by doing. Trial, and error. Check out this interview between Mike Rowe, and Lewis Howes. It may not provide answers, it'll at least make you think.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 03:06 PM
1

For most people it would be a dream to have a job like mine where you literally have to sit down and wait untill something happens. That's not a dream job. You don't have to aim for anything to do nothing. There's no barrier to entry to float listlessly through life like a turd in a river. Literally anyone on the planet can do it. This is probably why you're unhappy. It's because you're not engaged in anything. There are no challenges. You want highly-skilled, highly challenging work. This sweet…
/r/askTRP12/02/20 01:14 PM
1

To get regular social interaction, I would encourage you to join, or create a group around something that interests you. Then, setup regular weekly meetups to partake in discussions, and activities related to that. You can do trips together, too. It will make things easier for you, and everyone else since there's more structure, and planning. Perhaps your thoughts will also dissipate since you'll worry less about not getting any social contact.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:08 AM
1

I’ve been trying to find another friend group for a while but keep eventually getting rejected and it’s fucking with my self esteem Age, and environment factors into this as well. When you're in grade school, and high school, it's easier to maintain a group of friends because you'll spend several years in the same location with pretty much similar classes, and routines. It allows for a lot of spontaneous encounters to happen. College, and beyond in adulthood, it becomes more difficult to maintai…
/r/askTRP12/02/20 04:56 AM
1

Certain girls do exist that you will simply never be able to satisfy. Even if you make a girl like that cum, you'll have to continue doing that to keep her. My personal theory is that they have higher than normal testosterone levels, which results in a maxed out libido. This is particularly potent in a woman because she would want to keep cumming till the cows come home. With bottomless sex appetites, these vixens can never really belong to one guy, unless perhaps you enjoy being cucked.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 04:09 AM
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Is it normal to be depressed if I don’t have a friend group? Get a friend group. Then, you'll know. And my social skills aren’t as smooth now so I tend to make Alot more social mistakes which leads people to not really care for me as much Keep doing it. Unless you're a douchebag, no one's going to hate you for trying to join a group. We're all human. Being social is a huge component of how we've managed to survive, and advance as a species.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:55 AM
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Do women age 27-30+ show more "choosing signals" because they're more direct/mature or because they are more desperate? Both. why do women my under 27 pretend like I dont exist or reject my advances most of the time? They have less experience, more options, more time until the wall, and, generally speaking, girls prefer guys around their age.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:45 AM
1

You: "What's your favourite colour?" Her: "<a colour>" You: "Give me your number" It shows you're not interested in trying to impress her.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:21 PM
2

You're making the same judgements about the people that you know. The brain likes to take shortcuts because it helps the world make sense. We probably wouldn't be able to form larger, abstract thoughts if we were constantly reevaluating the minutiae of everyday life. Further, when people do change, it takes time for us to adjust, and form a new image of those people in our mind. Nothing speeds this process up more than evidence. This requires a keen sense of how you want to be perceived, and how…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:30 PM
3

"Most people overestimate what they can do in one year and underestimate what they can do in ten years." - Bill Gates There's an interesting article that uses the Osmos game to explain this phenomenon.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:16 AM
1

You have successfully fucked girls, so you are attractive, and probably have good SMV. You lack edge. Check out this article on fuck buddy retention by Good Looking Loser, which goes into issues related to being, and appearing too nice. Usually they try to get a relationship out of me, but I’ve still fucked them on the first date usually. Be more of an asshole, and carry yourself as such.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:04 AM
2

"Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac." - Henry Kissinger
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:44 AM
2

Doesn't work because it's idealistic. You can't discard people for disrespecting you because you'll end up alone. Every person you have, or interact with in your life will, at some point, disrespect you in some way. You will have to put up with disrespect from a lot of people throughout your life to get anywhere. Particularly if you don't want to do anything in your life, and be left alone, people will disrespect you for breathing. And, even when you do get somewhere, you'll never be respected b…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 07:20 AM
1

Reagan, on age: "I will not make age an issue of this campaign. I am not going to exploit, for political purposes, my opponent's youth and inexperience."
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 05:04 AM
1

Imagine them taking a massive smelly dump, or picking their nose like they're digging for gold.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 12:20 AM
2

Wealth, power, and status will bring girls to you, instead of you having to chase them. It takes time to accumulate, and, in terms of getting girls, it reduces opportunity costs.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 12:07 AM
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Anecdotally, I've seen the effects titles, dollars, and status have on women. They're nicer, and more submissive. I've also seen how they do a 180 when you don't have that anymore. People, in general, tend to act that way around others that have achieved things in life. Think about how you would behave around Bill Gates. Who do you think would be in control if you were meeting with him? Being attractive is an important factor but it's not all consuming. It's also not as strong a pull factor as l…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 11:07 PM
1

Honestly this is a new team so I wasn’t sure what were the sensitive points with some individuals on my team. Out of curiosity, does the 1000-whys game work on anyone else? It seems to me that anyone would be infuriated if someone was badgering, or interrogating them.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 04:55 AM
12

You want real value? Stop thinking about women, you can do that? Then you’ll have real value. Disagree. You'll never completely stop thinking about girls. It's futile to do so, since you're fighting your biology. You're going against nature. Instead, learn the value of girls by getting a few notches under your belt. This will help you realize that fucking girls feels amazing. However, you'll quickly realize the only way to stop thinking about pussy is to have a steady supply of pussy: abundance.…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:05 PM
1

I kept pressing trying to understand why he was against the idea until eventually he screamed Persistence is good. Pushiness is not. People need space. Learn to read them better, and be more self-aware. Also, if you're having issues with someone not agreeing, discuss things in private with them while probing, not interrogating, to achieve resolution. This should not have started in front of several people. Further, don't ask why. Not one person on this planet wants to be asked why, especially by…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:02 AM
2

Probably helps being at least familiar with whatever is "cool" at the moment.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 02:04 AM
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Meet more people, make yourself vulnerable. Get more exposure. Instead of thinking about your insecurities, think in terms of all the great people you can meet, and learn from. You'll realize that everyone's insecure about something, and the key to confidence is being comfortable with the things you can't change, and to continue moving forward. I would encourage you to talk to old people in your family, or visit a retirement home. It will give you perspective. Realize that you, too, will eventua…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:25 PM
1

The brain sees what you want it to see. It's possible to change your brain. You are also not your thoughts. Yes, when you feel like shit, everything stings like a 1000 paper cuts. When you feel great, everything is sunshine, lollipops, and rainbows. Personally, what I've noticed is the dark thought patterns occur at night, and by simply being awake later at night you begin to identify with those thoughts, which leads to a negative spiral by continuing to stay awake at night. I would encourage yo…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 06:54 AM
1

Depends on the ex's level of crazy, and how far it's gotten. If her behaviour is preventing any chance of OP getting, and keeping plates, and it's been happening for a while, then he has to do something. You're right though, if it's only temporary rage on his ex's part, then it's better to ignore it, and be above it.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:08 AM
2

Her friends are naturally protective of her. They're vehicles. She's the source. Try straightening it out by getting your ex, and the plate in one place. If your ex has no problem with you, then she'll have no problem telling your plate that you two haven't seen each other all semester. Still, based on anecdotal evidence, and AWALT, it's your ex. There's a reason the saying exists: "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."
/r/askTRP07/02/20 12:19 AM
1

girl wants nothing to do with me due to a rumor she heard of me hooking up with my ex Guarantee it's your ex's doing due to jealousy.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 12:12 AM
2

I grew up basically noyt taking risks with anything. Face irrational fears, and conquer them. Take non-life threatening risks.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 12:06 AM
1

You'll have more responsibilities, the most important of which would likely be paying bills. With that, you'll have more freedom in that you can do mostly whatever you want in the place you choose to call home. Responsibility, and freedom are intricately tied together.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 10:32 PM
3

Everyone's damaged in one way or another, including you. Part of growing up is losing the faith you once had as a child. Recognize how the other person may be damaged, and be more selective about the type of damage you're willing to deal with.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 10:18 PM
1

What's stopping you from moving out?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 09:50 PM
2

I would highly recommend checking out the following books: Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity by David Allen (Reviews indicate the older edition is better than the newer one; haven't read the newer one.) Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear A lot of it boils down to decision making, and time management. The books will provide good perspectives on both topics.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 09:36 PM
3

This sort of masculinity is what is attractive. You're damn right. Use it as fuel to propel you, to test yourself to see how far you can get in life. It's the best thing you can do. Channel it. Go with it.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 05:49 AM
1

Not having to deal with people and still getting laid occasionally while being able to work on myself with no distractions is not really that bad of a life. You're probably younger, and having fun. Nothing wrong that. However, what's good now, won't necessarily be good in the future. Change is inevitable, and, whether it's welcome or not, you'll change too.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:16 PM
12

the government's thinking is that if you're married, you're more "stable" You're easier to control.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:12 PM
1

Michael Ovitz talks about his strategy for success with Tom Bilyeu. It seems highly applicable in your scenario: Work hard, work smart, work long hours. Also, don't forget to kiss ass in the right way.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:26 PM
1

Being attentive
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:23 PM
6

Women want someone that makes other people envious. If you, and/or what you've done with your life doesn't make anyone envious, no woman will be attracted to you. If Brad Pitt was a server, people would glance, say he's attractive, move on with their life. Maybe he would score now and then. However, given the station he's reached in life, everyone looks, and ponders what it would be like to be in his position, and have his life. People think the same way about geniuses like Einstein, artists lik…
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:56 PM
4

get a boring 9 to 5 and cruise through life Aside from being something that you should not aim for, it also does not exist anymore. Everyone has a paddle, and you'll feel it hit your ass when your needs go unmet. There are 3 basic psychological needs for a person: a need for autonomy, competence, and relatedness. For instance, if your parents passed away, you don't have family to rely on, and you realize you actually need friends (who won't want to talk to you) since you're single, and no girl w…
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:30 PM
2

You were blocking him (and possibly others), and he was socially abrasive. Do what's within your control, which is to be more aware. Also, bullies will typically pick on people they perceive as weak, and being alone makes you vulnerable. Socialize a bit with the management, staff, and others now and then. This builds social proof with people that you're a cool dude that's well-liked. When he sees you're friendly with others, he's less likely to pick on you.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 08:13 AM
1

Typically, your teen years are when you develop social skills as you move towards adulthood, dealing with peers around the same age, learning how to fit in with different crowds, depending on people that aren't your parents. It's about being cool, and "independent". There are also a lot of firsts due to a lack of experience. Combine that with hormones, and being as horny as you'll ever be, and you've got a Matzah ball soup of anxiety, and awkwardness. As the hormones wear off, and you've got few…
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:35 AM
2

Women around the 40s mark will make you absolutely miserable at work. At any age, they will test your boundaries by asking you to do things for them. Be nice, and you'll be eaten alive. Older women are far more domineering.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 01:57 AM
1

Are there any other podcasts that are like patrice o'neals? No.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 01:09 AM
2

The answer to both is that you're weak.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 01:07 AM
1

This is the worst thing that has happened to me since getting dumped. Then you're an extremely lucky person. I'm an engineering senior in college with a remote internship. You're still a student, and you have plenty of mistakes left to make in life. Apologize. Correct your behaviour. Move forward.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 01:04 AM
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How to get to know high quality people? Why? EDIT: I should clarify that if you're expecting quality people to spend time with you simply to keep you company because you're lonely, you have to adjust your expectations, and learn to offer value. You don't like going out to have fun, you don't want to workout at a gym, you have no social life. It's a guess but you seem very self-absorbed. Yet, you're wondering how to get high quality people to spend time with you. Ask yourself: Why would high qual…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 07:46 PM
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Also: I’m suffering, and I don’t know how to make it stop. Existence is suffering. Learn to bask in it.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:36 AM
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How do i make her tell the truth? You can't force someone to tell you the truth. If she wants to cheat, she'll cheat. No amount of truth gathering, or controlling is going to change that. In fact, it'll make things worse if you were to expect her to explain herself all the time. Also, people aren't too complicated in terms of their motives. Look for changes in behaviour such as passive aggressiveness, defensiveness, anger, dismissiveness, disrespect, despondence, apathy, disobedience, etc. As an…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 01:11 AM
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Don't deny it. Accept that she's hot, she's lucky, and her looks are temporary. Then, become more discerning. Is she a brat? Does she know how to cook? Is she dumb? Aside from perhaps turning heads wherever you go, how else does she add value to your life? Develop self-awareness, and every time you catch yourself getting lost in her attractiveness, remind yourself of her weaknesses. She's human. This will keep both of you grounded.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 03:53 AM
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The problem is not that you can't find something you like. The problem is that you don't enjoy working. Unless you were born wealthy, or intend on winning the lottery, you have to accept that you'll have to work. If you don't accept this, you'll end up working your entire life. The people who retire early are the ones who enjoy working, irrespective of what type of work they're doing.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:31 PM
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If you want to take risks, you could try the stock market. Note that there's a difference between gambling, and investing. There are lots of resources (books, sites, etc.) around the internet. If you want to build wealth, and think long-term, put the money in index funds. You can also save more, and put a down payment on a rental property of some sort. Of course, you can mix it up, and risk a portion of it, and invest the rest. Whatever you choose to do, take notes, and ensure you learn things i…
/r/askTRP29/01/20 11:20 PM
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The grass is always greener on the other side. Fact is, it doesn't matter what you do in life, there is always a cost associated with it. You don't want any close relationships? Great. You can't have kids without a partner to raise them up well. There goes your legacy, and you've failed to fulfill your biological imperative. You got married, and have kids? Good. Now she has all the leverage, you've got dependents, and you've lost freedom. You want to become a billionaire? Cool. You'll have to wo…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 10:01 PM
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Discuss the issues with her. Don't use blame language like, "You did this…", "It's your fault…", etc. Don't give ultimatums. If, after some time, things aren't better, apply for other jobs, and when you have something, leave.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 08:45 PM
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People you don't like will be there wherever you go. If not right away, someone new could come in after some time that you don't like. As you said, you haven't been there long. I would say, from your end, do your best to get along at least for a while longer. Jocko Willink talks about dealing with people you don't like. It may prove useful. Generally, it's an ego battle, being humble may lead to a resolution. If things are actually that bad, then line something up, and leave in peace. Don't burn…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 08:05 PM
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You've given her too much attention. She may have other circumstances as well because of her divorce. She knows there's interest. Let her come to you. Don't wait around. Game other girls.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 06:08 PM
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Ideally, fuck in the morning, around 7-8 am, when testosterone is the highest. It's lowest at night, though the variation is not huge. You may not last too long, but you'll get it done. It's also less of an issue if you're younger. Eventually, your body will become conditioned to being okay with making moves, and fucking, and you'll be able to do it without taking extreme measures. This is only anecdotal of course, as it worked for me. Give it a shot, and it may, or may not work for you.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:04 PM
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The thing that's holding you back is you. Try this: Do a heavy workout, don't eat much, don't sleep much, don't drink alcohol, no caffeine. Do this for 2 days. Then, meet up with a girl that's 100% into you. The brain likes to take shortcuts. In some cases, this is necessary for survival. The point is to be so exhausted that your brain doesn't have the energy to overthink. You'll be too tired to get in your own way.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 06:37 PM
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Think about the responsibilities that you want to have, and weigh that against the bullshit that you are willing to put up with to have those responsibilities. For instance, you may want to become the next US president because you want to make the country better, and you like power. However, it is guaranteed that there will be a lot of people that will hate you. You will also be under constant pressure, and scrutiny. You will have to make decisions that can have global consequences. A lot of peo…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:54 AM
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Savings, index fund, or down payment on real estate to live in, or rent out, or both.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:32 AM
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There's another post by a user asking, "How to stop being a BITCH!" You should check that out.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 09:40 PM
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working part time at a laundromat owned by my aunt and uncle I don’t date my coworkers I’m not trying to be used for food
/r/askTRP24/01/20 04:06 PM
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had this girl over I hardly talked to we talked a couple hours, 3rd based for another hour There's being patient, and then there's that. If she comes over, and you're alone together, make moves. If she's not receptive, give an excuse, and send her home. Don't waste time lyrically masturbating together.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:57 PM
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Good points. It may also be connected to a lack of shame. When you're meeting people, you're not thinking, "Shit, I hope they don't know I just jerked off to tentacle porn for 10 straight hours," and feeling disgusted with yourself. You feel better because your conscience is clear.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 04:08 AM
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The smarter you are, the better you are at coming up with excuses not to take action. Most CEOs, and successful people aren't super brilliant. They're simply more aggressive, and don't shy away from brute forcing their way to get what they want.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 09:06 PM
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Do you feel that way all the time, or are there certain triggers like places, people, etc.?
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:38 AM
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A part of me believes I'll never be happy again. And a small part of me, I think, wants what my wife and I had in the beginning. Part of your healing will involve a shift in what happiness actually looks, and feels like. What you had before was not happiness. How do I get out of this gents? It'll take time. However, I would encourage you to develop your inner voice by thinking less, and doing more based on your instincts. Socialize, talk to people, tease, test their boundaries. Get uncomfortable…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:07 AM
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"Great. You're my whore now though," and throw her on the bed.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:43 AM
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"There's a naked girl face down ass up on my bed, I'm so confused. What do?"
/r/askTRP22/01/20 05:58 PM
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Remain positive. Make more allies by befriending more senior people, particularly people above your LM. Don't show off, and belittle the LM, or SM. Find ways to be liked by the other senior people, perhaps a common hobby, similar outfits, etc. Read "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion" by Robert Cialdini. Take them out for a chat with coffee, or over lunch. Once you've built some rapport, you can slowly drop hints that you want to move up, and want greater responsibilities. This is all part …
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:00 PM
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Don't know what you can do in your specific situation. Note though: You'll be okay, but you won't have much success in life by keeping your head down, working hard, and playing nice.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:13 PM
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Have an answer for why. Rest. Look for small wins.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:05 AM
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I have a learning disorder and it has made me feel handicapped in the past so that's where it stems from. This is great in the sense that you know where your soft spot is, and it's okay to feel hurt by that. However, you can't expect people to: 1) automatically know this; and 2) care. This is particularly true for people who don't know you too well. Further, there are multiple options to handle this: 1) accept that you have it, and that it doesn't define you, you're more than a learning disorder…
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:43 PM
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They have started to act snarky around me and relegate me more, totally different to how they were before the stupid question. I have a feeling you were too stiff before, and they picked up on it. They know it bothers you, and that's why they're doing it. So I asked a stupid question and now a lot of the guys at my job think I am stupid It's guaranteed they're not trying to hurt you, or think you're stupid. They probably like you, and want you to loosen up. Accept that while it may have been per…
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:11 AM
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I want to get out more but I have anxiety. What would you guys recommend? Getting out more. The more interactions you have, the less each individual interaction matters, and the more you can focus on patterns with positive interactions.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 02:27 AM
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This is great advice in that you should do the opposite of everything that was said, OP: Don't be vulnerable Don't be nice Don't show empathy Don't show sadness Don't be modest Don't be feminine Do those things only in tiny amounts to fit in.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:23 PM
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If she's super hot, no point denying that. Acknowledge it. Then, treat her like anyone else, and have fun: "You're cute, but d'you know how they get the caramel in the Caramilk bar?"
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:00 PM
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About one and a half years.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 02:50 PM
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Good. Keep it up, and you'll get better at it. It's a skill. Say stupid shit, then say more stupid shit, and you'll realize most people either don't care, or they'll forget about it by tomorrow. The more shit you say, the less each little shit you said matters.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:06 PM
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I'm going to fall into a depression Dude, that's not a good response to anything. "do you want me to call him(the guy we are talking about) back?"I just replied "I'm going to fall into a depression(in a I don't give a fuck tone)And then other people try to throw shit at me even if they're phyiscally less superior to me and lower on the social standings. It sounds like the group is against you too. It's hard to say, but it may be the fact that you're not handling the tests well. In my mind I'm as…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:22 PM
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Realize that this is more about him, than it is about you. He's doing it because he wants attention. He's also preemptive, meaning he makes a remark before you do. This is why he gets all the laughs, you get the leftovers. There are 2 ways to handle it. The first way is to remain unperturbed, as if nothing was said. The other way is to preempt his attack, with a remark of your own. Because you actually are bothered by it, the second method is better. Wait for the opportunity, and put in a verbal…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:27 PM
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Can you elaborate being aggressive about career progression? You have to want it, or force yourself to want it because, it's not everything, however, it's important. There are games that are played in offices, and they're all psychological. You have to produce good work, and play the games. Politics rules everything. This requires hustle, time, energy, things that you have in abundance when you're younger. For instance, going a couple of nights without sleep to wrap up a project on time is easie…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:17 PM
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I definitely agree with the leg day effect. Huge boost there.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:35 PM
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When I’m boning multiple chicks I just get hornier and hornier It's likely more to do with the fact that actions feed emotions: The more you fuck, the more you want to fuck, to an extent. Plus, you have variety, and there's truth to the Coolidge Effect: … an old joke about Calvin Coolidge when he was President … The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown [separately] around an experimental government farm. When [Mrs. Coolidge] came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating …
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:31 PM
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The importance of being aggressive about career progression, and being competitive about work, and finances. Sure, you can go too far, but not trying is incredibly stupid because it will come back to bite you in the ass later in life.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:29 AM
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Watch out for AIDS, and HIV: "Ukraine has the second-largest HIV epidemic in Eastern Europe and Central Asia." According to the same link, it is linked to injecting drug use.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:37 AM
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Two to three years is typically how long most relationships—particularly romantic ones—last. You also have to account for the fact that it's near the New Year, and a lot of relationships end around this time period. Plus, Valentine's Day is upcoming, which is, typically, a death sentence. How do I respond? Dread? You can't have 2 drivers in a relationship vehicle. Egos come out, and power struggles develop at this stage, and dreading is exactly that: Trying to claim power. I couldn't definitive …
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:09 PM
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Are we not allowed to laugh? Are we not allowed to talk to anyone unless we’re trying to fuck them? Jesus. I agree. There's nothing wrong with that. At work, however, it's important to have awareness, which is why I said it depends on the culture. From experience, in a politics-heavy environment, people will always start asking questions, or wondering why certain people are talking to each other, and what's being said. Depending on your position, things that are said, or not said can have actual…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:46 PM
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In some cases, people telling you what to do, offering advice, and criticism are seeking power, which can stem from a sense of powerlessness in their own lives. It's a grey area though, as there may be a component of people genuinely wanting to help, though those people can sometimes be the ones who need help the most. I think a good indicator is how zealous they are in providing said advice, or guidance. If they're yelling, getting angry, and speaking in absolutes, it may be a sign that the und…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:22 PM
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my interpersonal and social skills aren't really the best Even more reason to do it.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:39 PM
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Welcome to the jungle. i think it is the same among any men anywhere It can't be escaped. You're in competition with all men. Whatever hurts, either make peace with it, or use it as fuel to better yourself. Learn to find, and pick on other people's weak spots as well. It can be useful in controlling them.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:25 PM
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It's work. It depends on the culture at your workplace. Generally, making small talk is important to show you're not socially inept. You have to learn to talk without saying much, and pretend to care now and then. Make up a limit, such as once a week for 5 minutes, and then stick to that.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 01:20 PM
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Older than I should be, having spent too much time around seniors. You can learn a lot. Why?
/r/askTRP12/01/20 06:58 PM
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It's easier to be an asshole, and then turn it down, rather than be nice, and try to find a healthy point of assholery. Selfishness is actually rewarded in men, and the opposite will actually get you punished. How do I put myself first and be "selfish" without being a dick? Be aggressive, be aware. Do not apologize. You'll begin to get a sense of when you've gone too far, and can then tone it down.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 01:29 PM
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Get popcorn, sit back, and watch. Or, find a better use for your time.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:19 PM
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I work a lot Generally, life is a series of a stages: 0-18, education, physical development, childhood friendships 19-35, college/work relationships, self-exploration, identity formation; career, work, adulthood, dating, perhaps marriage/kids 35-55, career, work, wealth building, long-term (and maybe family) focus 55+, perhaps grand-kids, travel, leisure, perhaps retirement, legacy planning It's not always the case, however, there are certain times to do things that are better than others. For i…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:49 PM
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It's kind of sad IMO knowing that women don't really like your for who you are. No one likes you for who you are. They like (or dislike) you for how you make them feel. Most people don't give a fuck about you because you don't make them feel anything.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:18 PM
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Congrats on the results. There's nothing wrong with wanting recognition for hard work. Attention is also a good thing. Imagine having 0 attention, not 1 person that even looks at you, or knows that you exist. The insanity would kill you. We're social creatures. Don't get addicted to the attention though. The key is moderation.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 03:04 PM
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It happens at all levels. Fuck it, and roll with it. Don't boast about it though.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 12:48 AM
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I just don't want to move forward with her and then she turns out to be some hyper-hypergamous whore because she was alpha widowed. You're afraid that she'll leave you. What reasons could she have to do that?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 10:18 AM
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Or, how old they are.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:32 PM
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Luck plays a huge role in success. EDIT: Buffett on his success.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:12 AM
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"Yea, I've never fucked in a car," or whatever location you're in.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:59 AM
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They know how to play the game. Expert long con players, contacting years down the line to check out if they still have power over you. By getting guys locked emotionally, and never putting out, they keep them hooked, and chasing their validation. I only had experience with a couple, and they seemed avoidant types, using the silent treatment to control, and don't really care if you fuck off for some time. They also love to create drama by pushing your buttons. They're basically mirroring the beh…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:52 PM
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A summary of 10 points from LifeHack on remaining calm under pressure: Figure out what things stimulate anxiety Use diaphragm muscles to breathe through stomach Improve "vagal tone" of vagus nerve by exercising, practicing meditation, generating positive thoughts, and omega-3 fatty acid consumption Love yourself to improve self-esteem, and maintain perspective Avoid negative people Practice gratefulness daily to reduce stress Re-label emotions: fear -> anticipation; dread -> caution; etc. Practi…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:41 AM
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Social events is a broad category. In clubs, people are wasted, most guys are there in the hopes of scoring, few are there only to have fun. It increases chances of this type of shit to happen. Also, this would be far more serious, and disrespectful if this happened in plain daylight, in public with fewer people. The guy did it in a club because he's a pussy, and knew he could get away with it. As we walked through, me holding my gf's hand and walking in front, one of the guys waved some cash ri…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 01:50 PM
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What was I supposed to do when a guy touched my girl in front of me at a club? Don't take her to a club if you're not okay with this kind of shit happening.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 01:02 PM
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But i dated a girl for a short time who was a freak in bed, best girl i've been with. Super enthusiastic, always coming up with new sex positions, wanted to use toys wanted me to eat her asss, anal , everything and anything. Since then i've dated other girls and fucked other girls but it aint even close to this girl. I'm curious if her enthusiasm was bringing you up, which made you feel good, and created a positive feedback loop. In this sense, she was likely leading throughout your time togethe…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:35 AM
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It's a personal decision whether you want to get married. Also, the 2-parent system is currently the best we have to raise kids. Perhaps you can talk to a lawyer to discuss how co-habitation is defined to prevent common law marriage. Maybe it's possible to live separately while living under the same roof? Not sure. Also, I wonder if it would be possible to negotiate a fixed-term marriage contract. For instance, an 18-year marriage to raise kids to adulthood, and then the option to renew the cont…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 05:57 AM
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Schwarzenegger has admitted to struggling with self-esteem issues. He talks about being his own worst critic, and how to develop confidence by taking action, and putting in the time at the gym. Also, Jerry Brainum describes how Schwarzenegger used "modelling" to build his confidence. Find a role model, and mimic them to attain the qualities you like about them until you've internalized those qualities.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 01:35 AM
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earning a lot of money (like 200k a month) Unless you create a startup, you're not going to get that money working solely in tech. I want to retire young with time still in my pocket as well, not at age 50. I don't care what I do, as long as it will eventually be worth it and achieve my end goal. How do you define retirement? You could retire now if you want to live like a homeless bum. If it means relaxing, and living in luxury in posh areas, you'll need to accumulate wealth, and have substanti…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 01:14 AM
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Accept that there is no point, which means the point can be whatever you want it to be.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:08 PM
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Forgive, don't forget. Disrespect has too many shades of grey.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:03 PM
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If you're an expert in something, a service-based business can be great. You can do teaching, or coaching to share your expertise in the form of courses. Then, you can use YouTube, social media, to advertise, and scale. It's easy to exit as well, as you can simply stop advertising once the content is self-contained with video lectures, and predefined course materials.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:59 PM
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Physically write down on a piece of paper what financial success means to you. For instance, you want a jet, a cool car, a sexy wife, 2 kids, and a mansion. Dream big, be unreasonable, and be as detailed as you like. The colours, shapes, sounds, and smells. This is your vision for your life. Next, write down goals to realize your vision. By X age, I want Y income. By W age, I want my net worth to be Z dollars, etc. Again, set high targets that are aligned with your grand vision. For instance, if…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:41 AM
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Whether you have a job, or a business, it is an inescapable fact that you'll have to work hard at least for a certain period of time, and this only earns you a shot at financial success. As with everything else in life, there are no guarantees. For every wealthy person that's earned their success, there is a common factor: They love to work. Buffett "tap dances" to work; Gates was hardcore when younger; Bezos has insane work ethic. And, therein lies the crux. The people who retire early are exac…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:11 AM
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It should look natural in a way, not a forced shot. Subtlety is best. For instance, you're sitting, and there are girls next to you, but only a portion of their bare legs are visible in pic. Also, there shouldn't be too many pics like that.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:53 AM
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It feels like a weight off my shoulders. Feels good. I can focus better. So long as you're not intentionally being a jackass.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:10 AM
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There are several variables: What they did, where your boundaries are, what your temperament is, who they are, etc. There are even arguments for sometimes tolerating disrespect if there's some larger goal to achieve. As an example, if there was a secret million dollar prize for getting slapped in the face, in front of your girlfriend by someone you hate, would you do it? The first step is to have thick skin, so that you're not too bothered by stupid shit people say, or minor things they do. The …
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:58 AM
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Coupled with the fact that there are thirsty dudes everywhere that validate them by telling them they're still beautiful. Why would they bother getting in shape.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:55 PM
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Marriage with the right woman, and having a family is far better than spending life alone. It gives a sense of belonging.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:42 PM
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Ex LTR of almost a year hit me up apologizing for her shitty behavior throughout the course of our relationship. so what exactly is this, and how should I approach it. Bare in mind that since it's around New Year's still, people are emotional, and it could be why she's reminiscing. You're probably not the only one she's hit up as well. Plus, Valentine's Day is not too far, further emphasizing relationship status for a lot of people. Fuck her if you want, or don't. It's your choice. Don't get man…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:25 PM
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Okay, you put them on the ground, and make them cry. It's just a shitty way to spend your limited time because there's always another conflict. There's no end to it, and you gain nothing from it other than momentary satisfaction. There's also guaranteed to be fallout in the form of, at best, getting injured yourself, and when people inevitably look for revenge. This is not to say that you should become conflict avoidant. It's simply better to use your head in such situations, rather than your fi…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:48 PM
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Let's say you beat up the guys with the fireworks, and won. Some time later, a couple of other guys did something stupid. Would you fight them, too?
/r/askTRP02/01/20 08:46 PM
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I have had some action in my life, I have fought in school fights, in drunk fights, in my beta days I have even fought for girl In the past, how did you feel after fighting?
/r/askTRP02/01/20 08:27 PM
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Ideally, you want to do something that's also productive. It's up to you, as long as it requires focus.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:10 AM
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So you left your snacks in a place where a bunch of people, some of which you know, and some you don't, had access to them? And, this was at a place which had been rented, by the whole group, for the specific purpose of partying? What were you expecting to happen in that scenario if someone found your snacks?
/r/askTRP02/01/20 12:37 AM
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I can only describe my inner state as drifting through time with occasional spells of rage. You're not making decisions, and taking action, which creates a lack of engagement, and leads to rumination, and anxiety. Take control. Start with yourself, and your emotions. Meditation has been shown to have numerous benefits. However, as soon as you notice a negative thought, I would encourage you to make a decision to do something else that requires focus. For instance, a crossword puzzle, play a new …
/r/askTRP02/01/20 12:24 AM
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That's a lot of phaggotry.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:06 PM
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Hookers, and blow.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:04 PM
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Maybe there's something in the chair that your skin is reacting to, could be the materials, or maybe it's dirty.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 09:21 PM
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You're right, they're not suave, and that's because the idea is to be fun, challenging, or difficult when answering questions (to anyone, man, or woman), instead of being direct: "What's your name?"; "John" "How old are you?"; "21" "Why do you like that?"; "Because my favourite colour is orange." "What's your height?"; "6'1"" "What're you doing?"; "I'm putting clothes in the washer." "Are you gay?"; "No" which can be boring.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 09:16 PM
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First thing to realize is that those people are only fooling around. You're new, so they're probably feeling you out. Laughing it off initially is okay because otherwise you'll come off as oversensitive. You likely went a bit far calling it out, in terms of your language. It was confrontational. A simple, "What's so funny?" in a serious tone with eye contact probably would've sufficed. If you're not used to, to calling people out it's okay to go a bit aggressive because then at least you know wh…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 09:21 AM
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You're right in that performance is important at work. However, this guy is not his superior, he's a co-worker. Also, OP has been doing this for a while now, and he's not new so he knows what to do. He doesn't need some clown to critique his actions. when you successfully measure up to the team standard, you will likely be rewarded by this alpha. This is bullshit. You compete against them, but you should never qualify yourself to co-workers, and if they give you shit, you have to give flip it ri…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 08:50 AM
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Practice. With everyone, men included. Don't give direct answers to any questions from anyone. Also, take initiative, and question other people. It has 2 benefits: 1) it puts you in charge; and 2) you'll learn other people's smartass responses. "What's your name?"; "Who's asking?" "How old are you?"; "784.3 light years" "Why do you like that?"; "Why do you like that?" "What's your height?"; "42 km" "What're you doing?"; "What's it to you?" "Are you gay?"; "Depends on the weather." etc. EDIT: Bec…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 07:56 AM
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Should be interesting to hear all the women on this sub chime in on this intriguing question.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 05:49 AM
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If you're the manager, then complain to your superior(s), whoever that may be, that you're not getting recognition. You want people above you to notice you, otherwise you're simply a martyr. At the same time, if your subordinates are not doing the work, and leave you carrying all the load, then you've failed as a manager, since motivating them to do it is a large part of your job. "Management is nothing more than motivating other people." - Lee Iacocca
/r/askTRP01/01/20 04:43 AM
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“sometimes being a manager is doing all the work, and receiving none of the credit” Nah. If this happens, make sure you complain because, at the least, it shows you noticed what they did, and didn't like it. Otherwise, you've trained them that it's okay to do that, and it'll keep happening. This goes for any other shitty behaviour from anyone. Don't pretend like it didn't happen, or that you didn't notice it. It's passive, and stupid.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:15 AM
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There are transactional aspects to relationships, but there are many intangibles. Emotions, for instance, cannot be measured. At least currently, there's no way of saying: "I gave you 0.53 happiness, mixed with 1.42 pleasure for 235.34 seconds, now you have to give me the same." Were this possible, would relationships actually get better? What about the cases where people have different perceptions of happiness? What if a person could provide certain emotions but not others? Should that person b…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 11:06 PM
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Passive aggressiveness, disobedience, apathy, defensiveness, anger, criticism, contempt, domineering, controlling, argumentative, dismissive. If these things aren't handled well, they'll build up, and, after a certain point, it's done.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 11:52 AM
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Btw, what do you think about suicide? Please do not commit suicide. The following is a list of suicide crisis hotlines across the world: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines There are people that want to help. If you are feeling overwhelmed, please consult your friends, family, and/or a professional. Change begins with you. If you want to see changes in society, become that change.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:10 AM
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i still can't forget her completely, how is this even possible Trying to forget is futile because you're lying to yourself. The idea isn't to forget, rather to accept that you 2 shared a common path over a certain period of your lives. In this case, it was an awkward moment because you knew her, liked her, and you haven't spoken to her in 5 years so there was uncertainty. If she didn't do anything crazy like set your place on fire, taking initiative, talking to her while remaining cordial would'…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:03 AM
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After exercise, testosterone levels rise -- but not for long. "Sometimes it’s 15 minutes after exercise that testosterone is elevated. Sometimes it can be up to an hour,” says Todd Schroeder, PhD, who studies exercise and hormones in older men at the University of Southern California. Source
/r/askTRP31/12/19 12:48 AM
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As I pulled out, the condom was stuck inside of her however. Not a big deal. Also, condoms won't protect you from everything. For instance, you can still catch herpes, though it's not common unless you're fucking a lot of blacks, or latinas. It's all most likely in your head. Stop worrying. STDs also have different incubation periods. In any case, get tested.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 11:01 PM
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There's a lot of variability in testosterone levels. Fitness, sleep, stress, diet, age, all have effects. The time of day when you get tested will also affect results with levels peaking in the morning, and dropping thereafter. Also, lifting before getting tested, your levels are likely to be temporarily higher after, particularly if it involved leg work. To get a measure of your peak level, get tested in the morning around 8 am. Also, ensure consistency by getting tested at the same time, and a…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:08 PM
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Hooker are still girls, and they play games. Also, money spreads their legs, it doesn't make them wet. Every guy should try it at least once. It's a good supplement, not a substitute to game.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:19 PM
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I have an active social life, hitting the gym hard, no problem spinning plates, drive a nice car, etc. You're not spending time on improving your finances, hence why your finances are a mess. People who are killing it in their careers are sacrificing. I've met people that have, on several occasions, gone 2-3 days without sleep for work. You can do a lot of things in life, but you'll never do everything at once. Simple as that. Check out the four burners theory. Also, a few question to consider: …
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:33 PM
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Great that you feel better. What do you want, or expect to happen by telling them?
/r/askTRP29/12/19 08:25 AM
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I kind of like the actual work but talking about it is boring af to me If you only work hard, and create results, you may be employed. You'll never move up though. That becomes more important as you get older, when you'd rather be managing, and overseeing instead of actually doing. Talking, playing the game is as important as producing good work.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 07:10 AM
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Dude, high school never ends. You cannot be phased by stupid remarks because that's exactly how you'll get picked on even more. Sure, there are many brilliant people out there, but it's completely irrelevant because politics rules all. Smart, hard working, and a top performer at work? That's a great way to get punished. Independent worker that doesn't need help? Now you're making your boss feel useless, and insecure. Nothing is sacred. There are threats; insults about appearance, sexual orientat…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 07:02 AM
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Just fucking do it.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 09:12 PM
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she keep messaging me every day Don't waste time chatting. She's trying to put you into relationship mode. do you think i should do a netflix again and try to fuck or its over ? Have her over, and try again. Persistence is good, neediness is not. Keep gaming other girls as well.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 09:09 PM
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You'll reach a point where you'll see your parents as people, with flaws, and weaknesses like everyone else, including you. At that point, you'll realize that they, hopefully, did their best in raising you, and forgive them for anything else. Since they will be gone eventually, be grateful for the time you have with them.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 09:05 PM
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We'd a training session where we discuss work related things and I have a tendency to not participate in them. I just sit quietly and respectfully glean knowledge. For context, the other guy was pretty actively discussing his work related stuff (more power to him). Were most of the other people talking/discussing, i.e., were you the few quiet ones?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 08:08 PM
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some big ass dude comes to me and I assume he wants to jump in so I offer to share it What's the issue here? You offered to share it, and he took your offer by working in a set with you, and then even helped put the weights back. It seems like you felt threatened by him, and perhaps moved away, when he was likely being friendly; your perception is warped.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 08:17 AM
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"The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about." - Oscar Wilde Treat them like a celebrity treats their fans. Revel in it.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:23 AM
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Has anyone ever experienced this or know what to do? See a fucking doctor. wtf
/r/askTRP28/12/19 01:28 AM
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it's really easy to find a remote one Any resources you'd recommend?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 11:57 PM
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Your sample size of 1 is too small. Fuck more girls, particularly ones that you like. You probably don't even know what type of girls you like. If you're still repulsed by it, get a male escort to experiment. If you enjoy it, congrats, you're gay.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 11:26 PM
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OTOH, when he's on point, or the song is good, or his lyrics are good, I also tell him. Perhaps this is what OP's friend wants from him.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:21 PM
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All Patrice O'Neal content. i'm yet to find a single good channel on finance Know the time value of money, and the power of compound interest. Start young. Learn to sell. Maximize income, have long-term investments (index funds, bonds, etc.), take risks short-term, own real estate.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:12 PM
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How'd you manage to find remote work?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 11:03 AM
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Your girlfriend has been tained by modern society. She thinks that real men emote like women, cry like babies, and whine and complain all the time. It's not new. I know of 2 elderly couples, and have overheard that the wives have tried to get their husbands to cry. Around 50 years of marriage, and it's never happened. I've also had girls tried to get me to cry. This was before TRP, and I still had the instinct to know that there was something fucky about it. After TRP, I've realized that women h…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:24 AM
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Focus on your mother. That I need to show more respect for the situation and cry. Whatever you do, do not cry because she told you to. I'm thinking about nexting her for making me miserable by giving me help that I don't want. She wants to be useful. Make her do things. Ask her to make some food for hospital visits, help out with laundry, or cleaning the house, etc. Keep her busy.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:16 AM
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feeling that nothing I could ever do would be good enough to my expectations Set high expectations. Create goals, write them down, and take action towards achieving them. Think about whether what you did was good enough, or not, after you're dead.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:11 AM
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Are you sure you're it's a girl that you're messaging? Also, when texting, focus on logistics.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:16 AM
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I plan to work on YouTube stuff when I'm not busy with work, and I'm doing it 80% in hopes of achieving fame and 20% for passive income to fund my stock portfolio. Profiting on YouTube can be fun, however, it is not passive. From a redpill perspective: What is wrong with me? From the info provided, you have a lot of things going right for you. I'm an accountant (hope to become a Partner making 600-750k+ a year in about a decade) at Deloitte working with Hedgefunds, Mutual Funds and Private Equit…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:18 PM
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Don't post everything at once. You could start by adding new pics. Your first followers can be your friends IRL. Remember to follow back. Then, as you've got several pics up, and a decent number of followers, you can post 2-3 pics from your past now and then. Call it "Throwback Thursday" or something. Maybe apply a particular filter to create a theme for old pics. That way you don't have to hide the fact that the pics are old, and you can mix it up with the new stuff. You should also be strategi…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 10:02 PM
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Male pornstars fuck a lot of variety. For females, there's only a few dozen guys they can get fucked by, at least professionally. They also typically have a much shorter career span. I would guess that male pornstars have far higher N-counts than females when considering fucking for work.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:37 AM
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Your ears, and nose grow throughout your life. While your skin loses elasticity over time, your face, and head stop developing, or growing after a certain age. In your case, perhaps your neck muscles got bigger due to working out, which could create the impression that your face got wider.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:29 AM
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Please do not commit suicide. The following is a list of suicide crisis hotline across the world: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines There are people that want to help. If you are feeling overwhelmed, please talk to family, friends, and/or a professional. I’m 25, turn 26 in January. You're young. I have no friends as they all have moved on without me to have their own family and create their life. I don’t even come around because I’m fucking ashamed of myself and where I …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:00 AM
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Can you ever let go of the need to belong and be validated? No. Belonging to a group is vital to our survival. You'd be dead if you were completely alone. Validation is also important. Everyone needs attention to some degree. There's nothing wrong with wanting these things. It's human nature. What you don't want is to be consumed by them. For instance, falling apart if a girl doesn't respond to you. Also, note that in the pic, Mike is doing weird things to get attention from people, possibly bec…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:52 PM
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I can’t imagine what they’re like in real life Safe to say they're probably not the highest quality women.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:37 PM
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most beautiful women do honestly prefer beta, tall/skinny guys Guys that they stay with, or guys that they like to get fucked by?
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:12 PM
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That's exactly it. Condescension, and apathy can be blatant, and obvious; it can also be subtle, and ambiguous. An example is the phrase "bless your heart" common in the southern US to sometimes used sincerely to convey concern, and other times in an insulting manner.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:35 PM
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You're having difficulty forgiving yourself because you haven't fully internalized that the relationship is over, and that you are no longer together. The anger, and resentment you feel is a way of holding on to her, and perhaps more importantly, your self. You're afraid of letting her go because you need her to fill a void within, and maintain your self image. There was a degree of certainty when you were with her. You both knew each other. Perhaps reinforcing your memories together are a way o…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 11:04 AM
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I managed to pay off 40k of student loans in under 4 years In college i was partying every weekend and racked up an n-count of 50 I saved up some money and went to Thailand for 6 months and just drank and fucked hookers everyday You've accomplished some things, and had some experiences. These things aren't nothing, they're something. Feel good about that. I saw/met the guys who ran the beer bars/gogo bars. Those guys are fulfilling the needs of their customers in exchange for money. How do norma…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 01:26 AM
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How old are you, whereabouts do you live, and how do you meet these girls? Most girls always tell me they can’t read me and don’t know if I’m a sweetheart or an asshole piece of shit. You're probably not being as sweet as you think.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:58 PM
1

Has he done it to other soldiers?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:52 PM
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Desire can be trained. The more sex you have, the more sex you'll want. If it's not physical, and you're psychologically well, it may be an issue of opportunity cost: Do you devote time, and energy to game girls only to shoot your load, or do you divert that time, and energy towards more gainful pursuits such as wealth, power, and status? You don't have to go full-incel, and can take time out of the week to gaming for a certain number of hours, if only for fun, and to stay sharp. There are also …
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:11 PM
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Plus, she's on Tinder.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:44 PM
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After that, even if I'm comfortable paying (I actually like to pay) I ask her to pay her share. You literally ask her to pay the second time?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:31 PM
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Firstly, please do not commit suicide. The following is a list of suicide crisis hotlines across the world: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines There are people that want to help. If you are feeling overwhelmed, please consult a professional. A few questions: How old are you? Where do you live?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 11:45 AM
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can this lead to getting what I want? An arrangement where you're paid? Sure it can. You can offer to be her life coach for a monthly fee. You might even get connections through her to get more clients. If you want to bang, you have to first get her to physically meet up with you, and then escalate. Not sure if you want to mix business and pleasure though.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:03 AM
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Hard to say. She has given you some attention though, so at least you're not lost in the sea of Insta-people she has clamoring over her. You have to figure out what she values about you, and then find a way to provide that value in exchange for monetary gain. It's not sex because you haven't banged. Maybe she just needs someone she can trust, a friend.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:43 AM
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"hey can i get ur counsel on something? free of charge?" Tell her no, and get a retainer arrangement to be her fuck toy for a few years. does nothing but ride her horse The sex will be great. Don't get attached though.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:24 AM
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Consider the notion that you are not your thoughts. The little voice in your head tells you a lot of things. You don't have to listen to it though, and you can change recurring negative thought patterns.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 11:02 PM
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Read, learn, seek methods to grow wealth.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:46 PM
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In a broader context, it's holiday season, which can add to the emotions as well. Generally, these times can be stressful for people as there's an emphasis on relationships, whether it's friends, family, or romantic entanglements. Writing out how you're feeling, and what's happening around you, and in the world can provide perspective, and may lead to clarity.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:36 PM
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I feel as though I am stuck in an endless loop where I become alpha, get a girl, become complacent slowly over time (years), lose the girl, and then repeat. It’s frustrating. This is natural, and part of the betaization process in any relationship with a woman. It happens to all men. It also happens sooner than most men think, as women lose interest in sex faster than men. The ideal relationship will have components of intimacy, commitment, and passion. Though there may be less sex than in the i…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:48 PM
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At the beginning of my LTR I was very confident and did not second guess my decisions What specifically do you mean by this?
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:06 PM
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You'll reach a point where you'll see your parents simply as people, flaws and all. That's when you'll realize that, hopefully, they did their best in raising you, and it's now up to you to take responsibility for your own life, and what you want to do with it.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 06:47 AM
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I'm not happy because everything I worked towards is deteriorating, or has deteriorated now because of my inaction Most people already know what they have to do. Actions affect our emotions, and you shouldn't wait for some ambiguous feeling to arrive before deciding to take action. Rather, take action now, and you'll feel better that you did something, instead of doing nothing.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:49 AM
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There's a lot of things about myself I am not happy with. That will make you sensitive to a lot of things, and it's likely at the root of what you're feeling. I've always been able to joke and laugh at myself or admit any flaws I had, not taking myself too seriously Were you ever truly happy with yourself? Have you ever been seriously vulnerable with someone instead of laughing it off as a joke? It all ties to love, and respect, which is connected to acceptance. You were likely not receiving the…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:52 AM
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I feel like I've been tested my whole fucking life Everyone goes through this. All the time. A great example of using this as an advantage is the Kardashians. They've supposedly got fame, and wealth, and yet people shit on them all the time on a large scale. It's human nature to shit on others. We all do it. Sometimes people do it on purpose, sometimes it's unintended, and simply received that way. Most of the time it's people taking out their own problems on others. Life isn't easy. However, ra…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:53 PM
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She didn’t really say she regretted it This is a bigger red flag than the cheating. In a relationship with 2 people, each person has chosen the other. That is, she chose to be with him, and he chose to be with her. This means that she picked someone that would be okay being cheated on, and he picked someone that would end up cheating on him. Both people are stuck in negative patterns. Like I get losing attraction for someone after being in a relationship that long and then going nowhere with the…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 08:14 AM
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when they are not making plans/contacting you it's clear they arent interested right? Depends. They could be introverted, shy, depressed, anxious. On your side, you could do, or say things to indicate you want them to ask you: "Hey, thanks for coming. It was great seeing you again. Let me know if you wanna hang out sometime." Also, time is finite, and our most precious resource. Biggest sign they don't like you is that they don't want to share their time with you, even if asked to, or only if no…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:23 PM
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It's different in person, where you can go 2 steps forward, 1 step back when escalating. However, if she doesn't even want to meet you, what're you going to do via text to convince her otherwise? Write love sonnets? Present logical arguments in an essay? Beg? Try to be funny with jokes? Demonstrate value by listing your monetary assets?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:53 PM
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It's like when you're at work, and you go to the washroom to snip a long so massive that it breaks the toilet, then you're walking around all, "How do you do?" with a forced smile across your stupid face especially when Cindy walks by because you don't want her to know the newsworthy event that has recently transpired within close proximity of her desk, and as a direct result of the work your digestive system put in to break down the tacos she made for everyone at work the day before. You're try…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 05:28 PM
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So does career. Health, and wealth are intertwined.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 05:19 PM
3

Old Japanese slang referred to unmarried women over 25 as "Christmas cake", because at that age they were considered past their prime.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 05:11 PM
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Everything else being equal, taller is better, though not freakishly tall. Things are never equal though. Everyone is experiencing life differently. Only exception I have seen are them hooking up with ugly-ass dealer. Which is why game, and other factors matter too. I'm short. And I'm Frustrated sure to it. It is what it is. Max out wealth, status, power, and body. You have to make the most of the hand you've been dealt.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:31 AM
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Emotions are high. Buy some random Christmas/New Year's shit, go out to some bars, venues, or parties; high income areas where people splurge, and it's safe. Have a fun schtick, sell for a premium, and profit. You have an excuse to interact with people as well. Get some pics with hot girls. Boom, social proof. Leverage that to build leads through the night, figure out logistics, head to their place to close.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:22 AM
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With these kind of girls, you have to out-flirt them. The way to do that is to make her uncertain of whether you're flirting with her, or not. You do that by flirting with her but having an agenda other than sex. This is great in a work scenario. You can be charming, flirt with her, act like you're escalating, and then move to a work issue. For instance, you're walking by her desk, you exchange hellos, she's being flirty, you're being charming, there are light touches, laughter, and as she's hoo…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 01:50 AM
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the couple of times I've tried to get her alone again, she's basically ignored me Move on.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 11:24 PM
1

Stop drinking milk Why? And, any substitutes you recommend?
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:48 PM
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Wealth does bring you status. People treat you differently if they know you're wealthy. They're more respectful. I've personally witnessed this with a few well-off friends. Women will still eat you alive though if you're BP.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:44 PM
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Stay humble.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 07:54 PM
2

Hanging leg raises.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 05:49 PM
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Congrats on the improvements. Regarding the haters, they probably like you, and attacking you is a way of getting your attention. Benjamin Franklin may advise the following: Ask them for help. It doesn't have to be something big, a small favour would do. For instance, "Hey, I forgot my stuff at home, can I borrow a pen?" or, "Damn, he was writing fast, did you get any of the notes on X topic?" Don't do it all the time, that would mean you're incompetent. However, done the right way with your hat…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:28 PM
2

Twenties are a time when a lot of changes will happen. It's also a time when most people feel immortal, and so make decisions that are based on that mindset. This is true for both of you, though the time frame for girls is shorter. If you're in school, you may be finishing, and she may be in the middle of it. If neither of you are in school, maybe you're thinking about going to upgrade your career. Or, perhaps you're both content, and want to get hitched, and pop out a few kids. Maybe you want t…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 10:53 PM
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How old are both of you? Also, holidays, anniversaries are stressful for relationships, and a lot of breakups happen during such periods. we back together and we live in different cities Not saying it's impossible but living in physically disparate locations can put a lot of strain on relationships, and make them difficult to maintain. The biggest factor in knowing whether someone likes you or not is time. It's finite, and it's our most precious resource. Ask yourself: Is she willing to spend ti…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:06 PM
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Is she meeting up with you? If not, let her initiate. If yes, keep doing what you're doing. If she cancels at some point, let her initiate for a bit thereafter.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:28 PM
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Lose fat, or grow a beard. Other than that, short of surgery, it is what it is. Without a pic, it's hard to say how bad it is as well. People can sometimes underestimate their attractiveness. Regarding your lack of success with girls: Do you have an active social life? Are you part of any clubs? Do you play any sports? What are your career prospects? Are you situated somewhere where you would have access to many girls (big city, party school, etc.)?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:23 PM
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"There are costs and risks to a program of action, but they are far less than the long range risks and costs of comfortable inaction." - John F. Kennedy Actions affect our emotions. The only certain thing in life is uncertainty. Instead of waiting to feel that you're ready, take action, and not only will you feel better, your uncertainty will be reduced. Think of driving in fog. You can only see so far ahead of you. The way to see further, is to keep driving.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:15 PM
1

Take cues from your environment. For instance, you see a brick building nearby, red, apples, trees, largest trees, California, sunlight, sunsets, beaches, bitches, sexy bodies, tits, asses, etc. You can direct things wherever you want to go. Key is to keep your mind open.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 03:24 PM
1

I don't have a problem with getting constant sex. Then why would you have a porn problem?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 03:13 PM
1

Teach me your financially successful ways, and I'll be your friend.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 03:42 AM
1

Did you ever get oil-checked?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 03:33 AM
4

Rather than focus on how to answer the questions, perhaps focus on yourself, and figure out why you're ignoring in the first place. If she did something that is easily correctable by being assertive, then it's childish to ignore them, which is why they may be wondering why you're ignoring them. For example, if you like the window blinds open during the day, and she closed them, ignoring her over it would be ridiculous, and perplexing. If it's something that should be obvious to them, then ignori…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:05 PM
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she will call me stupid or idiot in a sarcastic joking manor and I will A and A Shouldn't A&A to obviously insulting remarks. Let me guess. You've never rebutted with name-calling of your own. this particular moment had a different tone You're looking at the tone when what she said is clearly offensive. It seems like you're trying to find excuses to stay with her, and reeks of desperation. “Will you please tell me what I did wrong to make you so mad” This is why she feels she didn't do anything …
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:29 PM
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My ambitions are high but my actions are just incompetent in comparison. Actions can affect emotions. Rather than waiting to feel good enough to do something, take action, and you'll feel better. Set a goal in terms of where you want to be in your career, and then take action to realize that goal.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:06 PM
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Stephen J Betchen describes sexually dominant women. You could find another girl, or you could try to have fun with this. She can only get off if she can control your sexual satisfaction. It's more about the power, and control than the sex. Thus, you can try playing along with her in an overly obtuse way. For instance: "Okay, I'll lie down, you go on top." "Should I keep my legs straight, or spread them a bit?" "Do you want me to touch your tits?" "How long should I touch them for?" "Should I gr…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 03:57 PM
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Could be tied to the religious concepts of sins, repenting, forgiveness, etc. She may want to feel like she's committing an evil act, and you're the devil, which turns her on. It depends on her tone, and facial expressions when she said it as well. If she didn't stop you, and didn't recoil, or move away, you probably had the green light. If she actually wants to meet again, and you end up fooling around, that's a good sign that's she's DTF. Otherwise, why would she come back if she felt uncomfor…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:44 AM
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Before approaching the girls, start telling a story out loud, talking to yourself, and start walking towards the girls while you're doing this. As you're walking by, the girls may look at you like you're crazy, and then you can turn to them, and open them. For instance: as you're approaching, to yourself loud enough so people can hear: "So there I was, wearing my brand new white sneakers, and I had no choice but to step in the mud, which completely ruined them." notice they're looking at you: "I…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:15 PM
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How long have you been seeing her? How old are you two?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 08:52 PM
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She clearly wants you. "if she were to get into a relationship would it be the end between us and could she come back to me if it ended" She's dreading you with that comment to see if you would worry, "what if it didn't end?"
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:40 PM
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He asked her to be his girlfriend and she declined. She told you this?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:29 PM
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She wanted to know if you'd be cool fucking her while she's seeing someone else. You should've said: "You wouldn't have to come back if you never left."
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:07 PM
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Or should I give up and settle for escort for my first time I always awaited. Seeing an escort is not giving up. You're experimenting, and learning. Also, no one gives a fuck about how you lost your virginity, or who you lost it to. I agree I guess it's more of not knowing what to do. No one knows what exactly to do. We're all trying to copy each other to see if we can mimic the success of other people. The key thing with successful people is that they make the decision to do even if they don't …
/r/askTRP16/12/19 03:55 PM
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It's a lightswitch to people who don't have RP awareness. If you're woke, you'll see signs that she's no longer invested in the relationship: despondence, passive aggressiveness, disobedience, combativeness, criticism, disrespect, contempt. It starts with subtlety, and that's why it's hard to see because, at least in a committed relationship, you may be seeing things through rose-coloured glasses. Then, you're finally hit with the breakup, which is explicit, and why it feels like she flipped a s…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 03:39 PM
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Try not eating for a full 24 hours. Throw in dirty drinking water that at best causes diarrhea. If you're in a warm place, go outside, and pretend you don't have a place to live. You can't trust your friends because they're trying to stay alive too. Imagine you have nothing. You don't even have hope. Poverty makes people desperate. Desperate people do desperate shit. It brings out the darkest human qualities.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 03:04 PM
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I don't think it's possible without luck. You're right, luck plays a key role in everyone's success. However, anyone who has achieved anything has had to put at least some work into it. Bill Gates comes from a family that was well-off even before Microsoft. Luck definitely played a role in his success, though he never would've achieved what he has without working hard. Members of the Royal Family have an easy life compared to the rest of the general population, however, they too have obligations…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:41 PM
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Why don't you accumulate great wealth, achieve high status, and keep a flow of hot bitches in your life, and then think about the existential problems in your life.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:31 PM
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Women past 25 will be looking for commitment, particularly if you're an older man past 30. You mentioning that you're going through divorce tells them that you are capable of committing, and that at least one woman wanted, and got your commitment. It indicates to them that you have value, and it's possible for your to share that value with them. Don't indicate anything about relationships, or what you're looking for with plates: Don't say you're looking for fun, or that you're going through a di…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:57 AM
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Have you banged the chick?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:15 AM
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There's a cost attached to every decision you make in life, whether you decide to be good, or bad. This is inescapable. Of course, the higher up you are, the easier it is to get away with breaking rules, or changing them in your favour. And, if you're a conscientious person, being bad will weigh you down irrespective of what your level is in society. In your case, the arousal is likely related to contrasting facets in your personality. If a mostly good person suddenly does something bad (not evi…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:26 PM
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Some people continue to strive for more, others are content with having enough. To each their own.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:10 PM
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I plan on continuing this personal excellence, but want an LTR to share it with. Maybe I'm expecting too much? No, you're not. As long as that's what you want, having a good LTR to share your life with is far better than faring it alone. Do difficult shit together that you couldn't do by yourself. You also seem to have conflicting views: I have not been broken up with since high school once I am actually in an exclusive relationship, I soon lose interest continuing this personal excellence, but …
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:03 PM
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But why did this work? whats the reason behind it? it feels wrong Sometimes doing bad things feels good. acting like it was no big deal Because you felt like it was no big deal, she felt it wasn't a big deal. She followed your lead. This gives her 2 outs: 1) you moved on her; and 2) it's not a big deal. She wants to feel like she tried to gain control, but she was powerless against your advances. In her mind, it's also a sign that you're a masculine guy who goes for what he wants, irrespective o…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:31 AM
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If convenient, bang, and plate. Otherwise, don't go beyond exchanging pleasantries. Maintain focus on other girls.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:47 PM
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Good timing, since Christmas, and New Year's are right around the corner. Emotions are high, and girls don't want to be alone. Take action. Go to bars every night, wait till closing if you have to, and lead some chicks home. Get it done, several times over.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:29 AM
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a couple girls who confided that they had astounding n-counts before the age of 20, some before they even finished high school. Somewhere in the range of maybe 30-50 guys, maybe more. As claims of a sexy virgin at 23 sound suspicious, there's no reason to assume that these numbers are true either. Taking it at face value, the other guys may have been older, and already had more experience. Further, despite what TRPers seem to believe, girls with that much experience are not common, particularly …
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:23 AM
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In Medellin, I had sex with 15 women, of which 14 asked me for money within the week. I want honest and authentic relations. I would prefer to be rejected by an honest woman, than to have sex with another manipulative gold-digger. Stop banging hookers, and women living in poverty.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:54 AM
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these are women whose sense of shame, guilt, and boundaries are severely fucked up And that's exactly why they're so good in bed.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:44 PM
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one thing I never did was let women tell me what I could and couldn't spend money on It's important to be careful with this one as well. When I refused to spend money on them, some women actually began to egg me on to spend more money on myself. At the time, money was tight, and they were pushing me to go broke. Women will destroy you with your own logic, which is why it's vital to get rid of the ego when dealing with them.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 02:15 PM
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Most of the biggest betas I know are high income earners Seen that way too many times, and they have the ugliest wives because they're incredibly insecure. Most of the time I think they're closet homos. Not to mention the fact that corporate culture is now rife with feminist ideology. Bar none, the worst people to deal with are the women, because they won't be alone if they want to fuck with you. They'll recruit the whole office to destroy you, pretending to be the victim. On average, they also …
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:40 PM
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Are you angry because you're not getting any, or because you're disgusted by it? Why are you disgusted by nature? Watch some nature documentaries, and you'll realize that every living thing is fucking around, and some species go to great lengths to do so.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:33 PM
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Also mention your strengths, and emphasize that you want the job. Don't know much about bar operations. Let's say the owner is Jim, and the name of the bar is XYZ: "Jim, I wanna run XYZ dry, every night, the same way I've done for the last 5 years working in the industry, and the only way I can do that is if you put me behind that bar. Show me some love, and I will show you the money, because I was born to do this. I want this job." Use whichever type of language that is acceptable. Sell yoursel…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:15 PM
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I would love to coach the other two as well but it seems they don't want to do it at all or do it very reluctantly. What do I do in such a situation? They may need professional therapy. If they don't even want to learn, let them go before you end up in jail.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 05:50 PM
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I literally only fuck her at my office. Brave. Rich father, fake lips and tits, submissive. Figure out some way to network with her father.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 04:57 PM
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Your Schopenhauer is showing. He's already thought about what you've thought about way back in the 19th century, and arguably in greater depth. Further, almost everyone on the planet has had similar thoughts. This doesn't diminish the value of your thoughts, it emphasizes that you're human. This is great. Welcome to humanity. How do you "fix" this? You don't. Life is a process, death is inevitable. It will come no matter what you do. What no one knows is what happens between now, and then. You m…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 05:00 AM
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Good point. Throw it back at them, OP. If they get pissed off, they were trying to attack you. Otherwise, it was a joke.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:30 AM
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So you're wondering if he was serious when he called you a homosexual?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 09:47 PM
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3 times out of 5 this two months Your sample size is too small. And, what happened the other 2 times? taking my time to close Perhaps you're waiting too long. two of them started flirting with guys from our group of friends This is why you have to isolate them to make moves. If you don't have compliance, (i.e., they don't want to follow you) then they aren't that interested. Also, consider that New Year's, and Christmas are right around the corner. Emotions are high, and it's a time when some gi…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 09:11 PM
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Perhaps it's one of these: The Psychology of Desire by Wilhelm Hofmann, Loran F. Nordgren Who Am I? The 16 Basic Desires That Motivate Our Actions and Define Our Personalities by Steven Reiss The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating by David M. Buss On Desire: Why We Want What We Want by William B. Irvine
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:06 PM
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You had access to pussy most of the time when you were in the LTR, now you don't, and your body adapts to not cumming as often. The more you fuck, the more you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:01 PM
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Could be several reasons but sounds like negative beliefs, and/or low self-esteem. as soon as I show interest or make a move they pull back If you're desperate with your responses when they show interest, it can be a symptom of neediness, which is rooted in some sort of lack. It may stem from a lack of validation, love, significance, power, worth, etc. Perhaps some introspection will provide answers. Nexting girls completely is avoidant behaviour, and avoidants are typically the most needy peopl…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:34 PM
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No, because you know it's temporary, and you know how to make friends. How do you know this? Because you've made friends before, and, if necessary, you can do it again. However, you will feel like shit due to a lack of social contact. That's when your friends—if they really are good friends—would drop by once in a while to check up on how you're doing.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:28 AM
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You need to have accomplishments to support your self-esteem, otherwise you're simply a narcissist, and it can lead to a lot of problems down the line. High self-esteem, without anything to back it up is arrogance. It's akin to me going around claiming I'm the best basketball player in the world without having ever played in the NBA. Many will laugh but the worst pain would arise when I would actually face the fact that I can't even beat guys in the local hood. "Violence ensues when people feel …
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:25 AM
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Everytime someone asks who did you lose your virginity to No one will ever ask you this because no one gives a fuck. If it comes up, say it was a ONS with a random bar slut.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:57 AM
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You were the same at some point. You've grown. i dont know if i can even be bothered to give them the time of day Get over yourself. They're the ones not giving you the time of day. They're still teens, for fuck's sake. Rebelling is in their blood.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:49 AM
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You're right, most people will peak earlier. However, it's a grey area, and there are several factors. Take, Leonardo DiCaprio and his current 22-year old GF, Camila Morrone. You also have to include the fact that most of the population is not "woke". They won't be working out, and they're not ambitious, choosing to settle early on, and popping out kids. This leaves room for opportunity for the fewer people who are staying fit, and are ambitious with their life goals. Of course, there are advant…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:08 PM
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Be aware that you can't change the nature of women, nor will being with you change their past. That's captain save-a-ho mentality. Out of curiosity, have you ever had a girl want exclusivity with you? Did you agree to it? How long did it last?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 06:32 PM
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Yup, lack of confidence, perhaps due to low self-esteem.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 04:01 PM
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It's obviously not the lack of sex that's bothering you. Perhaps you enjoy the benefits of an emotional connection when having sex. Nothing wrong with it, and it's definitely better than empty fucking.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:54 PM
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Nah, send her to me instead. She deserves better.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:15 PM
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i am afraid that if i get with her i might be slowly pushed into an LTR Have you even fucked this chick once?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:12 PM
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How do I get over not trusting/believing women? Trust, but verify, and it's not just women. For instance, if you've asked someone at work to do something, your job isn't done. You have to follow-up, and check that it was done, to the standard that you want it. Same thing with women. If she says she's going somewhere with her friends. Trust her, but indirectly verify. You could call her to ask her to pick something up for you that's close to where she is. You have to be up in her business, while …
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:15 PM
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I don't understand how she could have told me so many things like "I love you so much" right now, "I don't want our connection to die" at the moment, literally to do the complete opposite just a few days later... She's connecting with new cock.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:05 PM
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basically it’s about a long distance ex gf that also was my friend since childhood
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:15 AM
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How do you cover your expenses?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:09 AM
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I feel like no girl will ever live up to the same standards I hold for myself Depends on what you're looking for. You just want a ONS, or you're looking for a fling, or a fuck buddy, or an LTR, or a wife. The criteria would be different for each. For an LTR, or a wife, you're settling one way or another because when you're exclusive with them, you're not fucking other girls who may be younger, or hotter. Life is finite (for now), and time is undefeated.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:54 AM
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A few resources that may be helpful: Reneau Peurifoy discusses how to be assertive in an informative video. Also, check out SucceedSocially. The site contains a wealth of information related to handling common social issues.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 09:59 PM
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There's a lot of grey because it involves your personality, and social context as well. Kidding around with a few close friends at dinner at your place, great. Same type of kidding around at work in the boardroom with high-level people, not great. There are things you'd be okay with around your friends, and then those same thing may not be okay coming from co-workers. Further, those same things done with your friends, in a work environment, may become inappropriate. Things are always in flux, an…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:46 PM
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So it hasn't been too long. It's difficult to say because measuring calories burned is complicated. It's also impossible to know how exactly the calories consumed are being used by the body. Perhaps your metabolic rate is slower, and you're not burning as many calories during exercise, or rest. The excess then gets transformed to fat. There are also genetic factors that would affect muscle, and fat gain. Focus on your performance. If your lifts are improving, and overall you're getting bigger, s…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:21 PM
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She may be a virgin at 24 or am I too naive? It's irrelevant. Think about what you want, and that's to fuck. That's your goal. Every guy has the programming inside them to know how to get sex. In some cases, that ability gets buried, or stunted because of a lack of experience. Go out, and take action. Trust in yourself, and you'll figure out what to say, and what to do automatically. After a couple of fuck-ups, you'll eventually score.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:04 PM
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How long have you been doing the surplus?
/r/askTRP08/12/19 03:56 PM
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should I just ignore it completely and let him talk his shit when I'm not around? How do you know he's doing this when you're not there? be more mature about shit like this and be passive Why would being mature mean becoming passive? You can be assertive without being passive, or aggressive. If things have gotten to a point where it's become a problem because you're living in the same space, you can take him aside. Talk to him 1-on-1 in a calm neutral tone, the idea being that you're looking for…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 03:09 PM
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she was 31 she lied about being 28 they’ve got some crazy stupid red flags She might have been crazy, though more likely in denial about having hit the wall.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:35 AM
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Try these 3 pics, and fill in the rest with interest/location pics: Something that shows off your physique a bit doing something masculine. Something like this, where the guy's working on a motorbike, while wearing a fitted t-shirt. You playing with some animals. It shows you're not a psycho. You with some friends, which can include girls, but not only girls. It shows you're sociable. For the rest of the pics, showoff some of your interests, and places you've visited with you in the pics.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:29 AM
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she went after me at work because I wasn’t “upset enough” that she broke up with me Hilarious. How old was she when you met? How long did it go on?
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:10 AM
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wtf Tell them that you won't be able to make the classes anymore because you can't afford it, and then don't go.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:40 PM
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10 lays, 25 first dates this past year This is great. You're not giving yourself enough credit. About 2 hours before you go out tonight, get a pen, and blank paper. Spend 10 minutes repeatedly saying to yourself, and writing down, "I am God's gift to women." Say it, and write it with full intention, and only take quick breaks if your hand hurts. About 30 minutes before heading out, close your eyes, and spend 15 minutes visualizing yourself successfully flirting with the girl, getting her to bed,…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:30 PM
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It's not about being intentionally stupid, it's about not using intelligence (logic) to fuck a girl. It's a primal thing that every guy has, except certain guys have dialed into it, whereas other (perhaps smarter) guys have lost touch with their masculine selves, or maybe were never in touch with it to begin with, or faced rejection early in their lives, and never developed the confidence that comes with successfully fucking girls. All you have to do is get out there, think less, feel more, and …
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:39 PM
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A lot of people have basic intelligence, and I think that's why a lot of people rely on alcohol to get laid. It depresses the negative thoughts about failure in your mind. Of course, the better thing to do is find ways to overcome your negative beliefs.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:10 PM
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Summarizing this article, it's because "dumb" guys are: fit decisive use familiar language; slang horny aggressive simple attainable I would say they're also easier to control for women, since they'll buy the protector, and provider concepts as virtues. I have to agree that many of them do end up being better off (in life and with women) due to a simple fact: they don't think much, they simply do.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:53 PM
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You shouldn't have taken the concession he was giving. If he can cut it down to 6 months, he can give you a full refund. Seems like he's pressuring you to stop you from doing that. Be firm. Tell him you don't have the money, and want the full refund.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:15 PM
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It's definitely not you because it's completely normal to be affected by a parent's death. It was her last semester of college She's young, and probably couldn't, or didn't want to deal with emotional stuff. Maybe she was thinking about her own parents passing away, and it shook her. Best to move on though, and sorry for your loss.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:23 PM
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Having a few Brazil nuts now and then might be a good idea.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:22 PM
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If a girl isn't into you just let it go Far easier to do if you have other options already. I'm also curious if lack of empathy would make a difference. It would make it easier to do whatever you want to another person because you view them more as an object to fulfill your needs.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:57 PM
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This has happened numerous times now. Married people constantly throwing passive aggressive remarks, and recently, a dude I've met briefly only once before became especially disrespectful. It's largely fueled by the women though. They're like woodpeckers constantly pecking at you with bullshit, and I'm talking about old women too, 40s to 60s. Once in a while, fine. However, with some of them, there's no end to it, and it's fucking infuriating, especially when it spills over to disrespect. How lo…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:08 AM
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Meh, your call. If you have nothing else to do, use them to practice flirting. Should be easier since there are no expectations.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:43 AM
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Go out with them, move in on her friend.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:23 AM
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I wasn’t sure unconditional love was ever possible from any girl It's unconditional… for now. It's guaranteed that marriage, kids, and time will change a lot of things, including you. EDIT: I'm not saying that you should go out and cheat, only that there are some girls out there that would put up with it, and stand by you despite it.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:47 PM
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It's your decision whether you want marriage, and/or kids. From what you've written, she seems to be in love with you. Her family, and friends are also on the commitment side, so there's social pressure. As to why she's acting that way, it's the goal of any LTR for most women to at least get married, and probably have kids. Any long-term involvement with a woman will lead to that, and it's what questions like, "what are we," move towards. Also, there are certain girls that will stick with you ev…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:06 PM
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Last week she got really upset and started to stonewall me a bit when I wouldn’t rate her pussy, compared to other women I’ve slept with. I called her a bitch and told her to fuck off, but I believe her competition anxiety was kicking in here. What a loving, family atmosphere.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:17 PM
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Dominance requires energy. A lot of CEO types have submissive fantasies because being socially dominant all the time wears you out. They eroticize the feeling of relinquishing control, as pointed out by Seltzer: What’s perhaps most interesting in all this is the psychological relief that many alpha males in socially dominant positions experience in identifying with the submissive role. Fantasizing themselves as “liberated” from all the responsibilities that go with functioning in dominant profes…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:54 PM
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You're right. I overreacted. I apologize for the name calling.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 12:36 PM
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So you've never been through it, and yet you're stating that it's pathetic. You're a fucking idiot. Also, you have gravely underestimated the weight of the "virgin" cloud for a man. It's because sex carries far greater importance for a man, than it ever will for a woman due to the fact that it's more difficult for a man to get sex in the first place. You would know this, if you've ever tried to approach, and bang girls. Here's an article featuring comments from late-bloomers, and their feelings …
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:36 AM
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Is that what happened to you?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 12:27 AM
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Resources on being assertive: How to Be Assertive by Reneau Peurifoy The Assertiveness Workbook by Randy J. Paterson, PhD How to Be More Aggressive | Build Assertive Character by Rafael Eliassen Accepting sexuality will come when you take initiative to meet girls to bang, as you broach sexual topics in conversation.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 12:26 AM
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I'm a virgin That's easy to get over with a hooker. The benefit is that you won't have the virgin cloud looming over your head. You can honestly say to yourself you're not a virgin, and act congruently. However, if you're young (late teens, early 20s), I would encourage you to push yourself to use pickup to bang a chick from a bar, or a club. Once you've banged a couple of girls, and you're out and about, being social, other girls will be able smell pussy on you, which will build your momentum, …
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:09 PM
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messages me out of the blue If this happened recently, it's not out of the blue. It's holiday season, and all chicks are looking for a body to keep them warm. This could be physical, or it could be emotional in the form of reaching out to previous fucks, and making the sweet talk. deleted her number and unfollowed her on insta You're going to need a bib. Seems like shes on games to me. According to my telepathic powers, her dog got crushed under her mattress after Chad threw her on the bed, whil…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 10:26 PM
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~ Chad Thundercook 1980 - 2030 N-count : 130 (without hookers), 864 (with), died drowning in pussy ~
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:37 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:26 PM
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There could be a lot of reasons for her not being into sex: low libido, low self-esteem, out of touch with her sexuality, lack of attraction, shyness, etc. It seems like she's willing, so it's possible to train her, since she's still fairly young. However, that would mean you're investing time, and energy into her. On the plus side, it could give you experience leading, and controlling girls, which may also help you figure out what you want from girls in your life. In terms of not getting hard, …
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:58 PM
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I don't have much adventures to tell about, no crazy things I've experienced, nothing at all. Then have some adventures, and do some crazy things. In order to be interesting, you have to take an interest, whether that be in hobbies, things, or people. Let go of all judgments. You don't know anything. Have you tried knitting? Too girly? How would you know? You haven't even tried it. Get in touch with your inner child. Be curious about everything. Most importantly: take action. As a quick fix, The…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:23 PM
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learn psychology and social engineering Any book recommendations?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:10 PM
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How old are both of you?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:32 PM
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Know what you want, and do things with the mindset of achievement. Like anything else, set sex goals. Within the context of girls, have crazy sex, have marathon sex, have rough sex, try 3-somes (MMF, FFM), take part in an orgy. Pick-up girls at bars, in the street, at clubs. Go for hot girls, ugly girls, smart girls, dumb girls. You don't need to dedicate your life to do these things. If you follow a targeted approach, you can do all of it within a few months, 1 year max., while you're young, an…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:30 PM
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Or is the look of skin and sagging it, that's all we're talking about when we mention it? The look in their eyes is affected. Older women have dead eyes, and younger girls have a vibrant, youthful look in their eyes. There's also a difference in their energy. Older women are less perky, and younger girls have a lively, energetic demeanour. They have more movement. Smell also changes. Closer to 40s, they'll start developing a musky odour, the grandma smell. Younger girls smell fresh.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:22 PM
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started implementing core principles wtf are you doing? Also, on average, it takes about 66 days to form a new habit, and it could take up to 254 days, i.e., it'll take time to get comfortable with the uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:15 AM
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Go on YouTube, and search "how to kiss".
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:52 AM
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how do I truly distinguish between a girl who is a major skankoid and one that is actually of some value Met sluts that look like librarians, and marriage-types that look like hookers. There are precautions you can take by inspecting tattoos, hoop earrings, slutty outfits, extroversion, family, social life, etc., however, there are no guarantees in the end. You have to accept that, without test results before fucking, small or big, you're taking a risk, not only with AIDS, but also other STDs. A…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 06:04 PM
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You have friends that want to fuck a girl with you while a cuckold watches?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:38 PM
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A few things to consider: There are a lot of ways to make people laugh. Don't do goofy shit. It's good to be humble, but don't use self-deprecating humour unless you know how and when to use it. The only use for self-deprecation is in relating to people below you. This is why it works for successful comedians on stage. They're relating to the audience. If you can make people laugh at something, you can make people laugh at someone. If someone's disrespecting you, you can turn the crowd on them, …
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:31 PM
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From personal experience, mood improves after exercise.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:36 PM
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spinning a plate On Sunday we went bowling, grabbed drinks, She wouldn't ask if you were seeing other girls if it was clear to her that she's not a priority. Also, the more time you spend with one girl, the harder it is to keep your mouth shut, and the greater the likelihood of developing feelings.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:13 PM
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Your premise is based on the assumption that beautiful people will always produce beautiful offspring. While there may be a resemblance, this is not always the case as there's an element of randomness in genetic mixing. Further, while there are certain features that are attractive, there's a great degree of variation in how those those features manifest themselves. For instance, neotonous features in a woman are considered appealing, however, what exactly a neotonous face would look like depends…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:46 PM
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Give her a chance, if it happens again, put her on ice for a while, and focus on other girls.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 06:12 PM
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This usually stems from insecurity on the men’s part. You have to know the person. I've noticed myself doing this, and it's usually when I'm excited to meet a person, and trying to figure them out. You're paying more attention to the other person. For instance, if they're wearing a ridiculous looking shirt, I might say, "Nice shirt, didn't know that shade of pink even existed," in a sarcastic tone. Thing is, I had to become conscious of myself doing this, and didn't think twice about it before t…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:32 PM
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If you care about a girl's N-count, and if you take her word for it, you're the one who shouldn't be in an LTR.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:11 AM
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If she's bothering you, or did something unforgivable like throw your dog into a volcano, block. If not, leave the door open.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 10:48 PM
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What am I suppose to do now to improve my mental health in regards to this? Be glad you didn't marry her.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:01 PM
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Let's have a look at my magic 8-ball…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:54 PM
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They prey on insecurities by hinting at answers to questions that bother people the most. "How do I become confident?", "How can I get my ex back?", "How do I get a hot girlfriend?", "64 exercises you must do to become a real man", "How do I make more money?", "Can I fix my baldness?", "How to become 6' tall in 5 minutes", "154 tips to make your dick bigger in only 1 week", "How to reverse aging by 20 years", etc. There's no exact solution to any of these issues that all men face at one point or…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:20 PM
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Expect to get tested by all the men in her family, particularly her father. They're checking you out to see if you're a good fit for her, and if you'll fit in with the family.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 11:40 PM
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The ex is all background noise. Focus on what you want. Do you want to bang her, or not? Give her one more chance. If she flakes, block, and move on.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 07:18 PM
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It's possible that it's an energy thing. It takes more energy to be dominant, and in control. If that's how you are most of the time, then it can become draining, perhaps more so as you get older. Letting go is more relaxing, and perhaps it's wiser to pick and choose what, and when to control. Leon Seltzer discusses the fact that we all have dominant and submissive circuitry tied to the pleasure centers of our brains. That is, you can get off playing both types of roles. In agreement with my tho…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 06:43 PM
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they bring ‘girlfriends’ along to keep them in check It's not necessarily to keep them in check. Two's, and three's mean they're looking to get fucked. The friends come along for safety, and to be on the lookout. It's the same thing as wingmen with guys.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 06:23 PM
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You want both, but if you had to pick one, you want to be feared.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 02:15 PM
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I agree, however, I don't see how it works long-term. Burning people does eventually catch up to you. What if you find yourself in a position of dependency with someone that you pissed off? Also, you'll get old, you'll need someone to care for you at some point, and that makes you vulnerable. If you don't care about others, or at least pretend to, they're not going to give a shit about you either. How do you reconcile your current behaviour with what is inevitable in your future?
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:46 PM
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Pussy you can get anywhere. Use her to make connections, push your career forward.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:19 PM
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We mark Remembrance Day in the calendar to ensure we don't forget about the massive atrocities we committed in the past. Otherwise, those too, would be erased from our collective memories. This is because our memories are horrible, to the point that most of what happened the day before is forgotten the next day. not take the dumb shit women say seriously It is literally fucking irrelevant. It doesn't matter if you don't feel that way, your brain will make it that way anyway, so have fun.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 04:58 PM
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60% of the time it works every time.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:41 PM
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This shit takes time. Adding to this, focus on the process, not the outcome. For instance, focus on sending out X resumes per week, and not on the number of responses you're getting. It's exhausting, yes, but as Churchill said: "If you're going through hell, keep going."
/r/askTRP29/11/19 09:40 PM
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putting on an act to marry that guy No way of knowing how it will turn out. Could there be a divorce? Yes, but they could also live happily ever after. It's 50/50. Maybe the guy has done his share of sowing his oats as well, who knows. do women have any moral principles There are no moral issues at play here. She did what she's programmed to do, which is to fuck around because she's horny, and then settle down with the highest value mate she could match with while she's in her prime. It's smart …
/r/askTRP29/11/19 08:37 PM
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Even then…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 07:04 PM
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is there even a way to preserve being masculine What does masculinity mean to you?
/r/askTRP29/11/19 05:05 PM
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For most people, life is filled with trade-offs. The 4-burners theory provides a framework for this idea. If you do one thing, you're not doing something else, and there's a cost associated with every decision that's made. Michael Jordan chose to become a basketball player, but could he have been a Nobel-prize winning scientist had he focused on that? We'll never know. In your case, while you may be working an unsatisfying job with high income right now, you'll have more freedom later on in life…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 03:43 PM
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Within the context of banging girls, so long as you're doing, far more than you're reading, you're good. The problem is that many people start whacking off to the reading, and want to keep reading, and there's no end to that. It's also important to be critical of the information you're receiving. For instance, "Do I really need to memorize 284 steps to seduce girls, or is this actually bullshit?"
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:30 AM
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A lot of it creates self-doubt so you become more dependent on the person providing the help. And then, the help provided is made to seem complicated on purpose to confuse you, and keep you hooked. "Here's what you're doing wrong", "92 reasons why you're an idiot", "Follow these 284 steps to seduce any girl", "Why you need to do these 54 things right now" It's fucking ridiculous.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:35 PM
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holidays are coming up It's a time when emotions are high, and it's exactly why there are several posts right now about guys being hit up by past chicks.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:30 PM
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She is my first and only plate I understand the importance of abundance mentality No, you don't.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:26 PM
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If you're getting too many shit tests, hard next.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:23 PM
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Save this comment somewhere, and read it when you're 65.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:17 PM
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I always go at an odd hour (past midnight) and so do they so its pretty much just me and them. You're working out, and it's okay if you want to be alone, do your reps, and go home. However, if it's midnight, and there's hardly anyone else there except this group of guys, it would be somewhat odd not to at least acknowledge them, and their teasing you is likely to get your attention to chat a bit, perhaps become part of their group. When there's a limited number of people, your anonymity is reduc…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 12:41 PM
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They're teenagers, rebelling and disrespecting authority is in their blood. Might not be all of them, but there are bound to be a few that act out. So long as most of the people are on your side, you're good. As for how to deal the ones that stick out, it depends on how far it goes, and what the policies are at your school. You don't want to make things personal with anyone, and should always maintain a distance to remain professional. If they're disrupting the class, and making it difficult for…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 09:09 AM
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only benefit that I see is that chicks there are open to be engaged as opposed to random daygame chads proceed to isolate the hottest girls and the rest leave soon after with disappointed faces Sounds like you have it figured out.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:02 PM
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There are also intangibles, such as the emotions you exchange with a girl. Intellectualizing the transactional nature of relationships is akin to explaining a joke, it deadens the idea of relationships, and reduces them to a series of exchanges between people. There is value in trying to understand life, but it's meant to be experienced.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:06 AM
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But it's how he is saying the stuff that annoys me. his-fake-interest-because-he-doesn't-care-but-answers-my-questions-because-it's-his-job. Maybe he has some affliction such as Asperger's? If it's tonality or something like that, then it's hard to say without observing. If there's nothing special about him, then try using the same method of talking he's using to respond to him. See how he reacts.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:28 AM
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Though it helps, you don't have to be a basketball player to talk about basketball. Of course, simply because Peterson has credibility as a psychiatrist, doesn't mean he's immune to criticism, and not everything he says aligns with TRP philosophy.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:03 AM
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He's playing a game, he's not that smart, and you're not stupid. Putting people down is how you control them. It makes you self-conscious, increases anxiety, and it will eventually wear down a person even if they have high self-esteem. You have to stand up to him. How you do that will depend on the relationship, i.e., is he your boss, or a co-worker, etc. With someone who has actual authority you would have to be more careful than someone at your level.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:37 PM
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Check out 23and1's video on how to get respect in prison. He also talks about how to handle disrespect. He was in prison, and has some great content. Also, some of the tips can be modified to apply in life outside prison. Best tip: don't do someone else's time.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 07:25 PM
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Humans aren't designed for it. We're programmed to be dissatisfied in order to keep reaching for more. It's good in that it drives the world forward, it's bad in the sense that you will never reach a state where you'll always be content.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:07 AM
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Whether it's "red pill" or not, beta or alpha, good or bad is fucking irrelevant. It's only another option when you want to fuck. Also, money will spread their legs, but it won't make them wet. If you want to get practice fucking, or release some sexual frustration, and you're not having luck, get a hooker. It'll also allow you to detach love from sex, which can be good, but it can also limit you in that emotionally connected sex is far better than empty fucking. You still need high SMV, and gam…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:27 AM
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"There are costs and risks to a program of action, but they are far less than the long range risks and costs of comfortable inaction." - John F. Kennedy
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:42 PM
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And then they'll kiss.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:36 PM
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When you're having a blast, and feeling great, everything slides off you. When you're feeling like shit, and in a rough spot, everything comes at you with the force of a 1000 paper cuts. It's important to first develop routines, and habits to optimize your mood. This means eating healthy, staying fit, and minimizing stress. When you're good, you're better prepared to deal with the bullshit that is life. Most of the time, the anger that people feel is due to unmet expectations from other people. …
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:31 PM
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How can you deal with these situations so you don't get fucked over, but also ensure you're not coming off as not trusting the other person? Trust, but verify. When people break contracts, ideally, you want to gather more information to figure out whether there actually was malicious intent. However, sometimes you have to react quickly in social scenarios, and add punishment. Punishment is necessary because it prevents people from fucking around with you in the future. You have to be careful tho…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:02 PM
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Be productive. Forget about getting laid. No, do not forget about getting laid.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:54 PM
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You're not going to be having real convos with every person you meet. Figure out which people you like, and which ones like you back. Invest time, and energy to build those relationships by doing difficult things together, perhaps to achieve common goals. Of course, you would have to establish goals first. During that time, you'll have plenty of real convos with those people.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:37 PM
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randomly started shit testing, being less submissive, and being less responsive She's bored. Check yourself. Have you become complacent? Is college next? Career? Family? Figure out what direction you're heading in, set goals, achieve them.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:01 PM
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Fucking around is totally worth it, and it's something you have to get out of your system. It's impossible to understand the value of women without having sowed your oats. It's one thing to read about it, and it's completely different having experienced it. That's what life is about. Also, you can spend your life consumed by casual sex but then you can't have kids because you have to be there to raise them. Fact is, the 2-parent system is the best we currently have to raise children. Not having …
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:56 PM
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I escalated, and guess what... she turned me down How did you escalate? Did you grab her by the pussy? You also may have waited too long to show intent, and she may have formed opinions about you in her mind. How the fuck can I control this? You're sexually frustrated. Find other girls to fuck, and you'll feel better. Before that happens, take up martial arts, or head to the gym to vent your excess energy.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:03 PM
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"The day you started lifting is the day you became forever small because you will never be as big as you want to be." - BroScience is it worth it? Fuck yes.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:46 PM
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If you're interested, then flirt with him, and reciprocate his touching.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:43 PM
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even if I do nothing there are times I am repeatedly made fun of indirectly Some people will shit on you just for breathing. As long as you're not harming anyone, do what you want. Some will like you, some won't. Spend more time with people that like you, and that you like back. Ignore the rest.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:29 PM
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Thankfully, I found TRP around the same time, which led to this realization. Though I did distance myself from them, I don't hate any of the people that were doing this. They had some growing to do as well, and space is important for that to happen.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:21 AM
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It's because they're nearing the wall, and if you're high value, they want to do anything to keep you. Younger girls would only do it because they're experimenting, or to get around religious restrictions. I don't think this has anything to do with degrees, or income. It's just age. EDIT: "Correlates of lifetime HAI were similar, with the addition of older age, higher education, higher income, and history of drug use (all P < 0.05)." This means the incidence of lifetime heterosexual anal interco…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 09:28 PM
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She wanted more but I held back.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:05 PM
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You shouldn't have contact with her if you nexted her. Note that she's being a cunt by asking this. I'm guessing she probably did something that would obviously piss you off, and she wants a reaction from you. Either avoid her, or use A&A: "I'm fucking fuming." <smirk> If she keeps pushing, flip it on her by playing the never-ending-whys game: Her: "Are you mad?" You: "Why'd you wear that shirt today?" Her: "Oh, it's my favourite one." You: "Why?" Her: "Because it's blah blah blah" You: "Why?" H…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:15 PM
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Mark Manson outlines "7 Strange Questions That Help You Find Your Life Purpose". Perhaps it may be helpful.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 01:14 PM
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"You can't be friends with someone who wants your life." - Oprah Winfrey
/r/askTRP22/11/19 12:36 PM
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They're definitely checking in, and it's not the only way they do it. In several instances, when I didn't respond to certain girls in my social circle, they contacted friends to check up on what I was up to. We would meet, and those friends would gather information about what I was doing, and whether or not there were girls in my life. This information would then be forwarded to the girls. It's not a bad thing in the sense that you have people that care about you. However, no one told me what th…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 11:17 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:45 AM
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Could you recommend some materials (books, articles, sites, etc.) for someone that may want to find a job like that?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:55 AM
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It's a hard knock life…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 11:52 AM
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The sweater thing is something a lot of girls do when they like you, and feel like they're going to lose you. I've also seen it with a few childish guys, too, albeit for different things. After a ONS, a girl asked if she could keep a distinctive key ring that I had. I gave her a rubber band instead. They keep stuff to remember you. It's also a sign possessiveness.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:12 AM
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Here's a clip of world-class fighter, Connor McGregor, fooling around with Hafþór Júlíus Björnsson ("The Mountain"). It has more to do with dominance, not testosterone.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:35 AM
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Check out the following videos: Larry Smith on why you'll fail to have a great career. Shane Lopez on the secrets of people who are happy at work. I don't want to be a slave for the rest of my life invest in property or something else that would cover my expenses so I can be free From what I've observed, the people who find any degree of success in life are those that, first and foremost, want to work. It's not that they don't want to retire early, or that they aren't seeking ways to get out. Ra…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 02:04 AM
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Frame is reality, which is subjective. Your reality is not her reality. There are 2 different frames. In order to successfully seduce a chick, she has to surrender to your reality. Though there are parts of this process that are in your control (dressing well, being fit, etc.), some parts are beyond your control (her mood, the environment, etc.). Doing what you can with what's in your control, the idea is to become her point of reference, so that she interprets reality through you. This is what …
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:17 PM
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You probably didn't have frame to begin with, otherwise she wouldn't have felt uncomfortable with your arm around her.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 08:33 AM
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Not saying anything except that it makes you think. A wide range of scenarios is possible. Maybe she got in without telling anyone about you two, maybe someone dug some info up on you and got her in to throw you off your game, etc. Perhaps I'm being paranoid but Andrew Grove (Intel) would see it as a good thing: "Only the paranoid survive." I'm wondering if you should preempt any issues by being open about the fact that she's your ex, particularly because it's a small company, and everyone proba…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:30 AM
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somehow one of my partners who is in charge of employees hired my ex-gf of three years Makes you think.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:50 AM
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Perhaps you're being too passive in life, maybe because life seems easy right now. When you have no challenges, or obstacles, it feels like fighting thin air. There's no friction, and little force is required. There's nothing to push against to let the aggression out. Set difficult goals, take up martial arts, find a creative outlet to express yourself.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 08:29 PM
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Adding to this, if you're having trouble figuring out social issues, check out SucceedSocially. I would also suggest getting practice screwing up your social interactions on purpose to get comfortable with the fact that you'll still be okay despite the temporary awkwardness.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:44 PM
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asked me to grab lunch with her. What should I do? Tell a plate to wear a slutty outfit, then grab lunch with her and your ex.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:45 AM
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I don’t look muscular at all and that bothers me This is subjective, and pointless without pics.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:24 AM
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The first few times, redirect: "Now this is a story all about how; My life got flipped-turned upside down …" Focus on the now during the initial phase when you're seeing a girl, not revealing too much. If you like her, then unravel by throwing bits and pieces randomly in conversation. For instance, one of the legs on her chair is broken, so you fix it for her: Her: "Hey, thanks." You: "Yea, pine's a soft wood, and the screws get loose after some time." Her: "What're you, a carpenter?" You: "I wa…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 02:02 AM
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I didn't have intention of trying to bring her home to fuck It takes a lot for a woman to get turned on, and you corked her wet pussy. She probably took it as a ego hit, and went on the second date to throw it back at you. You called her out on it. This may, or may not be a good move. It shows you're assertive, but it also shows you were bothered by it. See if you can score on the third.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:23 PM
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A study indicates that, apart from physical attractiveness, it's the fact that narcissists are good at selling themselves, and putting in more effort that makes them attractive. Deep down, everyone wants to be loved, which is why it's effective. They also want that degree of love to be reciprocated, which is why they like being around people that validate them.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 06:00 AM
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"Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime."
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:40 AM
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Again, not saying it's proof of narcissism, but "love bombing" something to be aware of.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:13 AM
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Unless she meets up, it's all validation. It's also to keep you hooked, and pining for her. Move on.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:48 AM
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Fucking around, getting pregnant, then aborting, and constant gifts, all within 2 months. Sounds like it was too heavy on the emotions from the start, and she wants things to cool off. Narcissists typically do this as well, as they'll flood you with high emotions, and then suddenly go cold. Not saying she is one though. She may check in some time from now for validation. There may, or may not be sex. You should probably move on though.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:27 AM
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Him, or the boss?
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:21 AM
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Did I make a good move turning down sex with a 10/10? If you're referring to playing it safe by avoiding a risky situation, and accepting her body count at 71, then yea, you did well. It's only 5 seconds of pleasure after all. At the same time, casual sex will always involve a degree of risk. If you're concerned about STDs, get tested after it's been 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 11:03 PM
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Be controlling, and aggressive. Question every little thing people do, have a specific way of doing things, and an opinion about everything where yours, and yours alone, is always correct. Do that while looking angry all the time. This will get you far. Lastly, check out the movie, "The Lighthouse", where Willem Dafoe is the perfect example of a psycho boss.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 08:50 PM
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I’m 18 years old so I feel like this will be mindset for the rest of my life. Write that down, put it in an envelope, and check it when you're 40+.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 08:10 PM
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Set a reminder for yourself on your phone to talk to at least 1-2 girls outside of your social circle per week. Could be a cashier, hairdresser, bar chick, on the transport, whatever.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:38 PM
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It's not about not showing emotions. It's about how you regulate your emotions. Consider, for instance, a child that wanted something, but you denied them it for good reasons. You're walking away, child in tow, and they start crying. Now, imagine behaving in such a way as an adult. You don't get what you want, and you start wailing like a baby. Not a pretty sight, right? The idea is that as you grow up, you don't stop feeling. Instead, you learn how to control your emotions conveying them when n…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:26 PM
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Doubt it. It was 6 months in. Hopefully, that's not how long OP has been seeing her.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 10:34 AM
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How old are you, how old are the girls, and how are you meeting them?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:54 AM
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On OKCupid, it seems like everyone is a 'reacher'. Both genders send the first message to people that are a few percentage points higher in terms of attractiveness. Thus, when women message first, it means the man is more attractive than her. Men do the same thing. Irrespective of how attractive a woman is, she rarely messages first, preferring instead to let the men initate, and wait. Attractive men are more likely to message first. This confirms behaviour in real life where the man is expected…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 04:53 AM
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I started a new job New people typically get treated like shit. It's a form of initiation. They constantly talk about sex They're obviously interested, and you're not as ugly as you think you are right now. The rule is 'don't shit where you eat', however, you have to factor in the company and industry culture as well. For instance, if this were a retail/fast food job that's temporary, then who the fuck cares, fuck anything with a hole. Instead of being quiet, be vague, and drop hints about there…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 11:10 PM
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Mark Manson outlines "7 Strange Questions That Help You Find Your Life Purpose". Give the questions some thought, and hopefully you'll find some clarity.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:09 PM
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Please do not commit suicide. Here is a list of crisis lines around the world: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines There are people that want to help. If you are feeling overwhelmed, please consult a professional. Also, Maarten van Doorn talks about ambition, and apathy in an interesting article. I liked the last few sentences: In life, ‘losing’ doesn’t mean ‘being defeated’. The surest way to lose is to refuse to play. While playing this game, we need to strike a delicate…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 09:44 PM
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Hard to say. She's new, and perhaps putting her best foot forward. I don't want to jump to conclusions or be one of those creepy guys who hits on waitresses just for being nice Fear. You have to lead, and make moves. If she's receptive, you'll know.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:09 AM
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Consider how you're finding these girls as a possible reason for them being taken. Also, there's no such thing as a single girl.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:57 AM
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Anyone who's done anything in life is fucked up in one way or another. The only difference is that they didn't let it hinder them by doing what the fuck they wanted to do anyway. Let your insecurities propel you to the greatest heights. People respect money. Do it. Go into finance.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:20 AM
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Life is filled with trade-offs. There's only so much time in a day, and so much energy that you have. Both decrease with age. It's about prioritizing. I would suggest not neglecting relationships, even if you're meeting people once, or twice a year. They're crucial to our health, and happiness because we're social creatures. In terms of dating, there are weekends. You want to fuck around with girls, that takes time and energy, which means you have to cut back somewhere else. If you plan and orga…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:24 PM
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Girl's grinding on me, I grab her hips, she doesn't like it, goes away. A while later some guy smacked me on the back of my head. I thought something fell from the ceiling.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:00 PM
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From what I've observed, rare is the person who's actually fully evil, and is out to get you. By ignoring, being rude, and being passive aggressive, most of the time, at the core, people are simply looking for 2 things: love, and attention. This is why public figures have a duty to meet with fans, sign autographs, and give some attention. Otherwise, those same people would turn into an angry mob that hates them. Ironically, their negative behaviours end up creating the opposite effect, where the…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:54 PM
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Probably should've just rebutted with, "not much, cunt. wbu?" Because you've stopped answering her, it shows you were bothered by it. While it is a stupid thing to say, it was in private between you two, and you can tell her that it was rude and unacceptable, then soft next for a while. See if she says sorry. If she does it again, she probably wants out anyway, so next. Another option is to channel the anger, and turn it into a game. You can punish her sexually for being rude, and it can become …
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:28 AM
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No matter what you do, there will always be people that won't respect you. This is fine as long as they leave you alone. When you're being badgered though, you have to stand up for yourself.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:35 PM
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Did you know President John F. Kennedy had severe back issues? Exactly. It's harsh, I know, but save the personal complaining and commiserating for close friends, family, and doctors, therapists.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:32 PM
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Did you know President John F. Kennedy had severe back issues? Exactly. It's harsh, I know, but save the complaining and commiserating for close friends, family, and doctors, therapists.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:37 PM
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getting so irrationally angry about this Your anger isn't irrational, and you've remained rational by staying in control. She's being a cunt, and asking for it. There are people that give a basic level of respect to most others they meet, and then there are people who see respect as something to be earned, and they go around being disrespectful to others. You seem to be in the first category, and she's in the second category. What do you do? You have to speak to her in her language, which means …
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:28 PM
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she doesn't need validation from [low value] guys Because she's got orbiters wrapped around her finger. Or, it's all a facade. Either way, she's dying for validation from a high value guy. It should be easy to bang, since she's told you exactly what she needs. Demonstrate value, push-pull, then fuck, and drop a hint of validation. Then be distant and illusive, and she'll be chasing for more.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:30 PM
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It's like an ego block. My body just goes pussy mode. Too much in your head. Accept that they're attractive, and take the next action to move past it.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:42 PM
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I explain to her we haven’t had sex in 3 weeks and I tell her that she’s half assing our relationship It's important to be firm about boundaries, though this probably wasn't the best move. You're explaining the lack of sex, what was the expected outcome of doing this? That she would agree, and be face-down, ass-up in 10 minutes? The thing with sex is that you can't really tell someone to have sex with you. You head into transactional sex territory. It's akin to explaining a joke, it kills the jo…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:52 PM
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Is expressing your feelings unattractive? For a man, yes, no matter what a woman says. However, there's a masculine way to do it by saying how you felt about something, instead of actually feeling it in that moment. For instance, your dog died, and you have a serious look. Her: "You had him for 7 years." You: "Yea, it's sad." No crying, minimal to no facial expression, and allowing her to be physically close to you. That's it. This should also rarely happen, i.e., maybe when your parents pass, o…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:30 AM
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Lou Holtz may have said it first: "Don't tell your problems to people: eighty percent don't care; and the other twenty percent are glad you have them." Same thing. EDIT: But he also said this: "I follow three rules: Do the right thing, do the best you can, and always show people you care. You’ve got to make a sincere attempt to have the right goals to begin with, then go after them with appropriate effort, and remember that you can’t really achieve anything great without the help of others." Int…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:39 AM
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Wrote a love letter. Dropped too much $ on gifts. Wasted too much time.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:25 PM
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Use condoms Take a break when fucking, chat a bit, get new condom; every guy has a refractory period Always use condoms to prevent diseases, especially with older women, since they've had time for more exposure Use your fingers to make her wet; give your fingers a sniff to gauge whether it would be safe to go down on her; the pussy is meant to keep things inside, the dick is meant to shoot things out; with random ONSs, it's probably not a good idea
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:16 PM
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It's the difference between teasing, and putting someone down. A good tease makes the person think about what you said, it can be confusing: Person A: Hey, do you know where the washroom is? Person B: No clue. Person A: No worries, I'll let you know when I find it. Putting someone down does exactly that, it makes the person feel inferior, it's an attack: Person A: Shit, I forgot to run it through spellcheck. Person B: Ha, you fucking idiot. You can't do anything right. Also, with girls, the hott…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:07 PM
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She flaked on the first date, she was slow to respond since the beginning, and, it's not clear, did you actually "make out" on the first date without any tongue? How the fuck does that even work? She was your only option, she knew this, and was toying with you to pass time. When you met for Netflix, and she said she wasn't feeling well, it was a test. You should've pushed for sex, although at that point it's arguable that she was probably full on playing with you to see what she can get away wit…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 05:02 PM
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How old are these "good girls"?
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:39 PM
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Life is filled with trade-offs. If you want to pass on your genes, you have to make babies, which means caring for said babies, and that means less time and energy to do other things. That you're asking this question means you're thinking beyond your own life, you're thinking about your legacy. Fucking girls, making money is all well and good but if you haven't done the one thing your body is programmed to do, from a biological perspective, many would agree that you've failed. moves in with some…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:22 PM
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It's a small sample of 10 men, but there's some confirmation of this phenomenon.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:06 PM
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It doesn't make the behaviour attractive. It only means they would excuse it in light of other desirable factors.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 09:39 AM
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Not going back is advocated for guys that are BP, and holding a flame for their EX as part of their Disney fantasy. It's to help them move on, and bang other girls to internalize TRP principles. I actually want to bang many of my GF girl friends LOL.... Im such a scumbag but you only live once it is what it is... its my gfs fault to tell them that i bang her really good You don't seem to be BP at all though, and it sounds like you have plenty of options as well. Your GF is also probably in love …
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:29 AM
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It's both. There are unattractive behaviours as well. An extreme example would be picking your nose at the dinner table, doubt any girl would go through with a date after seeing that.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:54 AM
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Seems like she's already your plate. Keep doing what you're doing, then setup a 3-some with her, and her daughter in 2 years when she's 18.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:30 AM
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Because you're not conveying interest to the attractive girl, she may be wondering if you let any girl touch you, or only girls you're interested in. When you let her friend touch you, you're telling both of them that you don't care who's touching you, and that you simply enjoy being groped. One way to deal with this is to reciprocate the attractive girl's touching but ignore, or avoid touching by the unattractive one. Another, humorous way of dealing with it would be to have them both there tou…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:04 AM
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With drugs, how do you ensure you're getting quality stuff, and not something laced with other harmful chemicals?
/r/askTRP11/11/19 10:30 PM
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Women don't have to pay for sex, or to "muscle worship" men. Also, male escorts don't get paid much, you can check this on escort sites. This means, if it does happen, the money is for something else, perhaps to keep your mouth shut, and maybe to do extra weird shit. Maybe they'll force you to fuck other guys in front of them, or some other freaky "Eyes Wide Shut" bullshit. Sounds like it would be fun as a try anything once thing. Your life, your call.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:23 PM
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I'm surprised she responded at all.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:20 PM
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Other than raising your SMV, consider how you're treating the girls as well. You've got an N-count of 100, which means you're extremely detached, and unemotional when it comes to girls. Check out this article by Good Looking Loser about retention, it may be useful. Note that you have to care, and show some emotions at some point to keep any girl around. Doing this in a controlled, masculine fashion is important in long-term relationships.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:41 PM
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Perhaps you feel ashamed about your sexuality, you would have to look within to address such issues. Also, being rejected previously won't help much either. Note that rejections can hurt but they don't define your worth, and, a lot of the times it's not personal because they don't even know you. What can also help is having a solid group of friends with similar goals in life. This way you don't feel completely isolated due to social rejection. Other than that, keep putting yourself out there. A …
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:24 PM
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Do whatever you have to so you can move forward with your life.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:21 AM
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Being the friendless bastard i was, i became friends with him. i thought i would love this dynamic, as he would be someone i couldn't lose no matter what i do Recently he became really became possessive of me and eats up too much of my time. Because you allow it. I mean 4 months ago i was exactly like him. You still are. i kinda want to help him as i see myself in him Perhaps you 2 can help each other learn to become less needy. Maybe it's the reason you met.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:54 AM
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How long have you been doing it? Long-term it does not look good.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:29 AM
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She wanted to meet. " you werent interested so i went to another place with other ppl" This sounds like you changed venues because she wasn't interested, which shows you care way too much about whether she's interested without even meeting her, and it probably turned her off. You should've just said: "Different bar, <bar name>. When can you make it?"
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:22 AM
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It's hard to say, since, if you have thin skin, you'll feel like people are making fun of you no matter where you go. The first step is to thicken your skin, which can only happen by putting yourself out there, and sometimes get rejected, face people's judgments. Learn to be okay with yourself, flaws and all, and people will naturally gravitate towards you. Check out SucceedSocially. It's a great site filled with materials that cover a plethora of general issues that most people face when trying…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 08:29 PM
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Check out another video by Jocko Willink where he talks about having a thick skin, and also a video about not taking things personally. This is important because if you don't have a thick skin: 1) people will pick on you even more; and 2) you'll be bothered by a lot of little things that really shouldn't bother you. Having developed a thick skin, and not being phased by small things, means people will give you less shit to begin with. is it better to be firm and stand up rather than agreeing whe…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 08:48 AM
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Boundaries go 2 ways. You can't learn about your boundaries until someone pushes your buttons. Spend more time with people that aren't your family. Rely on them, and have them rely on you. This will inevitably create conflict, which will sometimes lead to resolution, and resolution to growth. But I absolutely hate this and I overthink every time I dont stand up for myself. You'll eventually go into depression, and develop anxiety due to suppressed emotions. If you don't learn how to be assertive…
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:35 PM
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Careful with the shakes.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 05:01 PM
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you don't need anyone to begin with Yes, you do. No man is an island. It's been shown that loneliness has negative physiological effects, and we need strong, healthy relationships in our lives because we're social creatures.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 04:55 PM
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they agree with the vast majority of shit I discuss with them all hyper educated hyper liberal girls in their late 20's/early 30's Being agreeable is a great way to seduce someone, particularly if you plan to keep them around for the long-term, a la around-the-wall women.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 04:20 AM
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Also, depending on how old y'all are, prepare for the possibility of blood.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 03:58 AM
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can I come over tonight and seeing what she says Don't ask, and don't ask to go over to hers. Tell her to come over to your place: "My place at 8." That's it. If she wants to, she'll come. If she can't but still wants to, she'll suggest another date/time. If there's nothing, invite other girls, or go out, or whatever. Point is, you want to move forward with the close, comments or no comments about the pic.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 12:13 AM
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Especially in high school when everyone's horny, and want to do what feels good.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 09:16 PM
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Now think about how many of these things could be changed to reach a compromise, or simply accepted as they are.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:34 PM
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I want to say that it can work out, and perhaps it's a personal opinion but, generally, this type of arrangement isn't the norm, at least not yet, and there are probably reasons for that. [they] seem happy and have been together for a very long time If they have them, see how it goes after kids.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:51 PM
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Flip it around. You run into a girl you dumped, and she asks you why you lost interest. What would you say? What would she gain from that?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:41 PM
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You're right. In fact, it's been shown that merely picking up, and using high status behaviours is more influential than simply having a high status occupation. You could be an A-list celebrity but if your mannerisms and speech convey low status, your influence will be lessened. I find it difficult to accept though that a person could consistently maintain such an image over the long-term, and particularly with people that are close to them, e.g., an LTR, or even a short-term fling. How long can…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:25 AM
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What was the last thing you sold? When did you sell it? Did you make a profit?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 07:57 AM
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It's been shown that aggression increases when you are in a state of relative deprivation. If you're doing okay, but you're mostly around people that are in a better place in society than you, you'll feel like shit, and may even become more aggressive, but only if the result of that aggression would improve your status. Trust your insecurity, and let it guide you. Not caring is a defense mechanism. It may work for a while, but the only way to solve this would be to improve your social standing, …
/r/askTRP08/11/19 07:47 AM
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Her friends were perhaps shit-testing both this guy, and the other guy by telling each, the other is better than them in bed. Maybe the other guy reacted negatively, and failed but this guy didn't.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 05:20 AM
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Get girls figured out, and out of your system as soon as possible so that you can devote your limited time and energy to focus on more important things: wealth, status, and power.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 08:13 PM
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You seem like a good person, and a person that likes responsibility. Sort of like a parent, checking in on their kids. As you're already aware, some people respond, others don't. It is not necessarily an indication that they don't like you. They're just being kids. You're doing the right thing though by caring. It's impossible to hate you for giving a shit about someone. For people that aren't too responsive, check in, but don't invest too much time. The people who are responding, nurture those …
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:41 AM
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All relationships fall apart for only one reason: ego. If you, and a bunch of dudes, can put aside your egos, you'll be friends forever.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:06 AM
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Mentally say goodbye to her, then go fuck other girls, and have threesomes.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:36 AM
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How old are you both?
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:33 AM
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Money is extremely important. However, don't save sex for old age.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 01:13 AM
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Is it safe to do so if I use condoms for blow jobs and sex? It doesn't protect against herpes, among other things. Mexican-American women have the highest prevalence of HSV-1, at least in the US. Be careful.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 12:32 AM
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how easy they have it in life in general In some ways, yes. In other ways, no. Everyone in life suffers one way or another. It seems like you're in a scarcity mindset. The more girls you're around, the more you'll accept and understand both your own, and their nature. Over time, hopefully, you'll become less attached, and lose the anger and bitterness.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 10:48 PM
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dude who was way better in sex than me (according to her friends) Maybe her friends were telling the other guy you're better, and he flinched.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 10:16 PM
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Tony Robbins has a great talk about rapport that can be adapted to pick-up.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:37 PM
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Think of how you would interact with a girl that you don't want to fuck, and interact with them like that. This can simply mean you have priorities, and she's not one of them. As an example, hot girl is sitting at the bar, you go up to her like you're going to approach her, she's rolling her eyes. At the last second, you slightly move her out of the way to reach for your drink behind her, then go back to having fun with your friends. You can modify it by simply saying "hi", and then "excuse me",…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:39 PM
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Before anything, check out /u/VasiliyZaitzev. He has a guide on bedding model-tier girls. they're either attached at the hip with their friends If they're in a group bigger than 3, then it will be difficult to score because they're not there to put out. If it's 3 or less, they're looking around a lot, dressed slutty, and wearing a lot of red, she's looking to get fucked. Beauty is validated through attention. The more attention she's getting, the more confident she feels about being beautiful, w…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:00 PM
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I didn't account for age, and that's important. Girls around your age are experimenting, and looking for fun, and excitement. Power, status, and wealth can help with that but it's secondary to those things. could probably stand to update my wardrobe for wealth though Look at the guys that are around the hot girls in your area. Dress similar to them. Don't start wearing suits or something. For college-aged girls, think in terms of what's fun: concerts, clubs, parties, festivals, travel, drugs, al…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:01 AM
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For the hottest girls, you need to be in the right social circles. You'll also need more than looks: power, status, and wealth. Think in terms of creating systems to bring girls to you, instead of you going to the girls.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:16 AM
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Consult a professional therapist.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:10 AM
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Seems like narcissists typically know they're narcissists, and have no problem proclaiming it.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:09 AM
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As you get old, your looks will fade, your body will ache and, at some point, it will also fail you. Power, status, and wealth can last well beyond that though, and, in some cases, even after you're dead. These are attributes that also make people respect you more. Have you ever met a homeless person that you respected? You may pity them, but no one respects the homeless. Take, Bill Gates, for example. He doesn't look like Brad Pitt, but he can pretty much do whatever the fuck he wants, which is…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:03 AM
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It's difficult to compare yourself with your father. There are too many variables. Kate Julian writes about young people, generally, having less sex. It's a lengthy but interesting article, and presents a few reasons why this is happening: Masturbation: There's more porn now, and a lot of devices for people to get sexual pleasure on their own. Increased pressure on individuals: Young people are under considerably greater pressure to succeed. This means more time spent focusing on school, extracu…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 03:48 AM
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She's texted him first twice, and she's even brought up the fact that he wanted to fuck her. Before doing anything else OP, call up a friend, and ask him to show you where your dick is.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:33 AM
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Nothing is always the case in social interactions. Generally, if someone wants something from you, and they're not receiving it, it'll cause issues.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:22 PM
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There are different types. What you want to note are the changes. If she's loud, and becomes quiet, or vice versa, could be having an orgasm.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 04:45 AM
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I mind my own business dont talk vto anyone and that's it. Even though you may not intend it, this can be perceived as arrogance, and people will attack you for it. People that like you will especially get on you for not giving them enough attention.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:14 AM
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"I take it slow at first, then move faster." "I like to take my time when unloading my package." "Yea? How fast can you unload a package?"
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:26 PM
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I am 22 in college
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:51 PM
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If it was a random gift, it would be better. Because it's a birthday gift, there may be expectations in terms of reciprocation.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 02:17 PM
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Girl's in your room expecting to get paid, maybe she even asks. How do you finesse your way around that? PM me if you want, because I'm flat dumbfounded how you managed this. That's incredible.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 01:54 PM
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They said I was a huge player/f*ck boy Guys that are saying that about you behind your back are good friends.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:57 PM
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How did you get out of paying? Isn't it expected up front or something before each meeting?
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:54 PM
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You're competing against everyone else that uses social media. Look up some guys that are getting a lot of tail, though it's not clear how you would verify that. Then, compare their profiles. Find what's common, and use that in your profile. For instance, you may find that all of them have several shirtless pics, and they're jacked. Copy that. In terms of texting, perhaps get a second number. Post it on social media, and let them text you. This would filter out low interest girls, however, you m…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:58 AM
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There were 2 posts not long ago, 3 weeks max, by guys who were partaking in such relationships. Search them, there was a lot of discussion there. Reasons against it: can become a crutch against rejection when using actual game easy to get played if you're weak not a substitute for game, and improving SMV addicting financial ruin negative reputation; assumption of low self-esteem men cynical view of relationships Reasons for it: ease; particularly if you're older, and your time is more limited, a…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:38 AM
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How did you meet her? She may be a hooker.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 01:22 AM
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If she includes you, it doesn't mean shit. If she doesn't include you, it doesn't mean shit.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:14 AM
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If she's willing to meet you, especially at her apartment, then she likes you. That's all you need to know. Escalate, bang. Don't look to connect with her before you've fucked.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 11:50 PM
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Sounds like low self-esteem. You feel inferior, and by gathering details about the experiences the girl you're seeing has had, you want to create the "best" experience with her, and other girls. It may be also be perfectionism, which can be tied to low self-esteem. From personal experience, I've been with girls that had vaginal contractions, and were convulsing after only 3-5 thrusts, though there was a degree of foreplay involved where sex was timed exactly right. This happened unknowingly thou…
/r/askTRP03/11/19 11:49 PM
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Did you escalate when you met her? How did she react?
/r/askTRP03/11/19 10:39 PM
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If it's a habit, check out The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg. The premise is that most of what we do is based on habits, which are part of a feedback loop that involves 3 main steps: 1) cue; 2) routine; and 3) reward. In your case, with drugs, there may be cue(s)—perhaps social atmosphere, girls, etc.—that fire off neurons telling you to partake in your routine (drugs), which results in a reward of some sort, perhaps dopamine. With knowledge of your habit loops, you can figure out the cues, c…
/r/askTRP03/11/19 10:33 PM
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Read up on sexual transmutation, using your sexual energy to pursue higher endeavours. Basically, nofap, no porn, setting goals, having a mission.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 07:46 PM
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Find a girl without a hijab Get her to bed Tell her to put on a hijab before banging her
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:23 PM
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You're absolutely right. You wouldn't be doing this over every little thing that you've perceived as a slight, and yea, it may be an indication of fear, or jealousy from the other person. However, when you're in a group, and a person has made a habit of launching attacks at you. A well crafted retort is useful for putting them in their place, instead of staying quiet, and "swatting flies" all the time. Note that the place that it comes from cannot be fear, or jealousy as well. It's analogous to …
/r/askTRP03/11/19 01:09 AM
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Please do not commit suicide. There are people that want to help, and it can get better. Here is a list of suicide crisis lines around the world: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines If you are feeling overwhelmed, please consult a professional. Johann Hari is an author that discusses depression as a symptom that deep human needs are going unmet. From your writing, it is apparent that you're thinking of outcomes in everything you do. For instance, you hang with people becau…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 09:36 PM
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People that are nice, and that you're comfortable with, are great for hanging out, and chilling. You will never grow by being around people like that though. Thus, the first step is to be around more people that challenge you. This makes you better at handling challenges. It's preventative medicine, so that you don't become too soft. Regarding your scenario, the best thing to do is employ a tit-for-tat strategy. If they've insulted you, you insult them back. Ideally, you want to have a comeback …
/r/askTRP02/11/19 07:24 PM
2

Check out the 4-burners theory. Basically, life is filled with trade-offs. If you want to improve in certain areas, other areas will necessarily be neglected. Banging girls feels great, and most guys hit a plateau after which banging more girls will not add any value. You reach a point where you get it, it is what it is. After that, setting loftier goals becomes more important, which means accumulating wealth, gaining status, and building power. Note that while girls will come and go, these attr…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 03:47 AM
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Befriend a couple of the girls there, and you'll have social proof you're not a perv.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:22 AM
2

How old are you?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:43 AM
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Note that some insecurities are natural, and good. For instance, feeling jealous of your girlfriend hanging out with unknown people can be a good signal in that the possibility of cheating is there. Of course, you shouldn't overreact to such signals. There's also the financial insecurity that has driven you to create stability in that area of your life. Therapy may be helpful in sorting out the roots of your insecurities, which may take time to resolve. Lastly, you may fare better with a clingy …
/r/askTRP01/11/19 09:16 PM
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There's a list here of ways to know if someone is trustworthy. Of course, to err is to be human, and it's not a science. People will sometimes fail you. The best you can do is be realistic, and manage your expectations, so it leads to fewer and less severe disappointments. Also, all relationships have an exchange that happens between people. Sometimes it's an equal exchange, with varying definitions of equality, and other times, it's uneven. There's always a give and take.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:40 AM
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With your experience, it should be easy for you to land teaching jobs anywhere. You could also find a niche, and do consulting within the health industry.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:20 AM
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The problem with telling him to read X book, or lift, or learn game is that unless he wants help, none of it will get through. You cannot help someone that doesn't want help. It's impossible. The best thing you can do is show him the way by living according to TRP principles. He'll see that you've got girls, wealth, looks, and, hopefully, seek help either from you, or from other people.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:51 AM
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It's a great concept to be above it. It would be great if everyone was like that. However, it doesn't work out in practical terms. People begin to think you're better than them, and then come the attacks; largely verbal, though it can escalate to the physical. You have to sometimes pretend that you're not above it, even if you believe you are. Think as you like, but behave as others.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 01:26 AM
1

Perhaps you need to reevaluate what "equality" in a relationship entails.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:35 PM
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they are not free and don't give an option to reschedule They're not interested. Try once again after some time, and if it's the same thing, let it go, and leave it up to them. If they initiate, don't be too quick to respond. Hopefully, you'll be at a point that you don't even want to respond. In the mean time, you should be gaming others.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:17 PM
2

Read some Nietzsche. EDIT: also, check out this clip from "To The Bone".
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:59 PM
1

The struggle doesn't seem worth the pay off. The struggle is the payoff. Life is lived.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:17 PM
1

https://www.amazon.com/48-Laws-Power-Robert-Greene/dp/0140280197
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:23 PM
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You're right in that you should be able to depend the people close to you. However, it's important to be realistic about how much you can depend on them, and what you can depend on them for. Every person you meet will eventually drop the ball in one way or another. It's best to lower expectations. Also, when shit does happen, remember that everyone has shit to deal with. Some people have a lot of shit, others have less, and shit is relative. What's a big deal to you, may not be for others, and v…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:59 PM
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It's a good article, and presents basic principles. Note that our value systems are not necessarily one-dimensional. You could value multiple things, and may weigh several factors simultaneously, and quickly, before arriving at a judgment in a given scenario. There is more complexity to how we perceive, and evaluate the people around us. As an example, familiarity increases attractiveness, which is why beauty is a subjective measure, and what you may find beautiful may not be so for someone else…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:39 AM
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it always beenobvious to me and the girl that it gon be strictly bout fucking [on Tinder] It should be strictly about fucking even if you met on ChristianMingle, and she's got a chastity belt.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:10 PM
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Within your friends, at school, at work, in life, it's important to fit in because we're social creatures, and social acceptance is vital for survival. No man is an island. Rather than directly kissing people's asses, there are a few scientifically backed ways that are effective in subtly forming connections with people. The list provides 7 methods to kiss ass intelligently, though the techniques can be slightly modified, and applied to relationships in general. Summarized, the techniques can be…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:31 PM
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It could be perception. You may be more sensitive to what people you respect say and do, whereas with people you don't respect, you don't really care what they're saying or doing. Ask yourself: why do you respect certain people, and not others? This will tell you what your criteria is for judging people. For instance, if you respect attractive people, and disrespect the ugly, it means you value beauty. Further, how you judge others is also how you judge yourself, and how you feel others judge yo…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:33 PM
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Girls, social life, these are things that require time and energy, particularly once you have your education, and you're working. You have to put in more effort. Socializing is also akin to building muscles, if you don't use it, you'll lose it. If you can't shift your hours earlier either, i.e., wake up earlier and leave earlier, then the only option is hookers or escorts. That, or you'll have to wait 2-3 years longer. At around 26-27, you would still have plenty of time. It may be a good idea t…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:18 PM
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Is my SMV actually much lower than I think it is? You won't know with the opinion of one girl.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:55 AM
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What about weekends?
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:54 AM
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You're right, it wasn't helpful. She's a girl that has an image of you as a beta in her head. First impressions can be overcome but it's a slow process, which takes a long time. It's also dependent on the other person, and when they would finally arrive at that "aha" moment that you're no longer the person they once knew. It would also only happen if the other person is at all invested in you, which, in your case, is doubtful. You also have to ask yourself: is it worth it? Most would agree that …
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:15 PM
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In my beta years, I wanted to fuck this girl is that a good sign to keep pushing? All your years are beta years.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:21 PM
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She's into that other dude. I also have a feeling that she has some history with that guy, and she's with you only so that she doesn't feel lonely, particularly at this time of the year. What kind of retard brings up a ONS that she had on a first date? Worse, you're a fool for continuing to see her beyond that date, and an absolute idiot to commit. I would be very careful going forward this girl. If she's putting out, and you're getting the sex you want from her, then stay, otherwise, end it now…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 07:57 PM
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D and fish oil are the only supplements I take. I'll have to look into powders. This was informative. Thank you.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 07:32 PM
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Pizza is a must. Protein is the hardest thing to hit without supplements though. How do you get to ~180g?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:05 PM
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Is it necessary to cut off anyone under a 7 or 8? Fuck them, don't be seen with them. The issue is that because you're sexually satiated, you may be less hungry to put the work in to get better girls. At the same time, coming across needy because you're in a dry spell wouldn't be good either. What do I need to do to "level up"? Generally, they're not gonna be on Tinder because they've got plenty of better IRL options through their social networks. You have to increase your SMV. Particularly in t…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:54 PM
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Fuck then cut.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:46 PM
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Awesome results. What's your diet like? What do you eat pre- and post-workouts?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:38 PM
1

Happy most of the time Why is that a case against dogs? And, what about the case for dogs? And, the case against cats?
/r/askTRP28/10/19 11:06 PM
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Exactly. If these guys were actually humiliating their guests, they would've gone off the air a long time ago.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:29 PM
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PS: is there any video/article on how to gracefully open doors, pull chairs, sit on chairs etc. ? Don't forget to tip your fedora.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:49 PM
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What kind of job is this? It would be different if it's life and death for you to be at your spot, compared to a desk job where you can zone out the whole day. Also, going to your manager or HR right away will make you look like a child that can't handle his problems by himself. And, like you said this relationship with the manager will also affect how your complaint is received. Do make detailed notes of the incident though, the exact time, date, people involved, write down as much as possible.…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:39 PM
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Reflect his behaviour back to him. Preempt him. Boss him around instead. If he doesn't comply, which will likely be the case, stop listening to anything he says too.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:03 PM
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The smell of pussy stays regardless, at least from what I've noticed. In your case though, yea, that's disgusting.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:19 PM
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switch condoms for vaginal And clean up beforehand. ffs, I felt nauseous reading this one.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:17 PM
1

Jesus, weren't you afraid of getting arrested for assault or something?
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:14 PM
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You're in a catch 22: because you haven't had much experience, you don't feel confident; because you don't feel confident, you haven't had much experience. You have to break the cycle, and the best way to do that is to bang girls. In your case, I would encourage you to take things step by step. You have to approach girls, and start conversations. When you're comfortable with that, see if you can direct the conversation to where you want it to go. Then, throw in some flirting, and sexual innuendo…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:30 AM
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I'm like so far behind in some ways it's overwhelming sometimes Everyone moves at their own pace. What do popular people do to become popular? How can I tap into that? what are some concrete actionable steps I can take to become more popular and likable? Organize stuff, get people together. It'll take time. In terms of personality, take a page from 'The Tao of Steve' (film): be desireless, be excellent, be gone.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 09:49 PM
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maybe it's best to step back, put a mental box around them, view them as problems to be managed Very interesting. This is exactly how that guy I mentioned previously (Sutton) describes a method for dealing with assholes. He said he has a friend that distances himself, and pretends that he's viewing them under a microscope as a great specimen of assholery. there's a big difference between the way you confront a friend in a friendly way, hoping to improve things, and the way you lock horns with so…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 09:10 PM
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You paid for the first meeting though?
/r/askTRP27/10/19 08:11 PM
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Not sure your issues stem from low testosterone. It seems like you're normal. Note that your levels will vary throughout the day, and are highest in the morning, which means the time you got tested would affect the results. Lack of sleep, fatigue, stress, during that time period would also affect the results you got. When you workout, ensure you're working your legs, and lower half as well. Deadlifts will cover the ass, and hamstrings but not so much the quads. Also, include at least some light …
/r/askTRP27/10/19 05:25 PM
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Yea, and: On one hand it seems like it makes your intentions pretty clear. Your intentions are made clear through escalation.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 05:02 PM
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Would the environment also have an effect? I would think bringing one over to the west would increase the likelihood to stray given that there would be more opportunities.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 03:41 PM
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HSV-1, or HSV-2? HSV-1 is particularly prevalent among Mexican-americans. HSV-2 isn't too common, unless you're banging black girls. He fell head over heels for a latina single mommie Sounds like he was being stupid, which is why it may be okay as a supplement, but not as a substitute for TRP and game.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 03:32 PM
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Wow, I do the exact same thing. I distance myself from the person. I figured I'm being avoidant, and that I should confront them instead but, as you've said, you can't change these people. The other thing is that if you do set a boundary, it goes 2 ways. They'll be setting boundaries as well. It seems like it would lead to a walking on eggshells scenario. I believe conflict is a good thing, and that a good friendship should involve some fighting, and enough trust that you'll still be friends aft…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 02:28 PM
2

So you caught herpes through SA?
/r/askTRP27/10/19 02:24 PM
3

Younger women are generally attracted to older men with status. Younger women that know the importance of wealth, and the transience of their beauty, i.e., smart younger women.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 02:23 PM
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If you heard her voice, there might be an indication in terms of the inflection at the end of the "sure". If it's up, then she's excited. If it's neutral, or down, then she's not too into it. Over text, it's the same as a yes.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 02:10 PM
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It will repel girls that are looking for commitment. It can also backfire with fun girls in that ASD, and LMR can kick in stronger because they don't want to be known as sluts if they're seen with you, and the thought of being another notch on the bedpost will turn them off.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 01:52 PM
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You're too young for it be a physical problem. Also, testosterone levels are highest in the morning. If possible, it's the best time for sex. Your issue is likely psychological though. Depending on the frequency that you're having sex, it could be performance anxiety, or it could be mental fatigue. If it's performance anxiety, you have to get out of your head and use your senses to focus on the girl, and the experience, instead of on the hardness of your dick. In the case of mental fatigue, mayb…
/r/askTRP26/10/19 04:28 PM
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It can be a problem of low value men, but it can also be an issue of time and energy. When you're constantly working 60+ weeks, your free time will largely consist of resting, which leaves no time or energy for scoping out girls, let alone having a social life. Throw in the fact that familiarity can increase attractiveness when you're spending so much time with girls at work, and they become "work hot". Quite depressing.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:55 PM
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Worse, anger phase desperation.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:33 PM
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It wasnt enough to be competent, and focused. I had to play the game.... Pretty much. You're forced to play the game, which you have little to no odds of winning.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:44 PM
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Made out, banged a 6 that reeked of alcohol and vomit.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:20 PM
1

You're basically a gay femdom object in the workplace now. You have to kiss your boss's ass, and be dominated by the women. It's fucking unnatural, and a complete shit show.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 12:42 PM
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If you're both naked, while looking at her pussy disappointingly: "Oh…" Or: "Yea, you seem like the type that would need something bigger." Or: "Great. Why don't you bend over now, and find a bigger one after." Or: "Yeah right, you can't even handle mine."
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:39 AM
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It is. Thank you for your insights. I have a few assholes in the family that I can't avoid all the time. Any advice?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 09:00 PM
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At your age, typically, everyone is still finding themselves, including you. Hormones are also still raging. Despite appearances otherwise, the guys around you probably feel the same way you do. For most, it's a time for self-reflection, and a lot of people are absorbed in their own life. There can be several reasons why it's difficult to build a social life. I think, for guys, there's always a competitive aspect. We're sizing each other up all the time, trying to figure out ways in which we're …
/r/askTRP25/10/19 03:53 PM
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There are takers, matchers, and givers. You seem like a giver. Giving, in and of itself, is not the issue, since, based on research by Adam Grant (dude in the video), it seems that givers can end up at the top of the hierarchy. In your case, give people the benefit of doubt, at least for a while. When people don't notice what you're doing for them, it's not necessarily because they don't care about you as a person. It could be because they have a different value system. As an example, they may s…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:14 AM
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Criticism, complaining, arguments, defensiveness, resentment, anger, apathy, distance, hatred.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 06:31 PM
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For living, that's a personal choice, and would depend on how you want to live, and which places provide the best economic outlook in your field. The political situation would also impact your decision. Go where you're treated best. For girls—east, or west—major cities with high populations will be great simply because the logistics are ideal if you're living in the coolest spots. It's about being in the right locations, which typically means having a bullshit job that pays really well. For educ…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 06:20 PM
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Having been in a similar situation twice, I reached a point that I literally told myself that, "Come heaven or hell, I am getting this degree." Started showing up to classes, taking notes, being meticulous, doing all the homework, and, perhaps most importantly, talking to professors during office hours to get help about anything I didn't understand. I even went to ask about things I already understood in case there was any new information, and to get face time with the professors. What I learned…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 03:58 PM
2

Resistance to mate guarding in women can be for different reasons: Their current partner is low in sexual attractiveness Their current partner is jealous, possessive, and overly controlling Women that are avoidant will not do PDA, resist controlling men, and use covert tactics to resist Women that are anxious-types are more likely to use covert tactics to resist Women high in machiavellianism will resist mate guarding through covert tactics Women with higher unrestricted sociosexual orientation …
/r/askTRP24/10/19 08:49 AM
1

Who said anything about deserve? A lot of people are unaware of the possible downsides to a player lifestyle, that's all. The more you fuck around the more likely you are to run into boyfriends/husbands, ex's, jealous orbiters, crazy girls, vengeful girls, family members, jealous friends (yours/hers), STDs, pregnancies (false or true), rape/harassment allegations, isolation from society, loneliness, etc. None of it is guaranteed to happen. However, the chances of shit happening increase as you u…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 01:17 AM
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The real problem is I don't know wtf to do. I don't know wtf to say. You know. Think back to your childhood, recall how you were. Use those memories as inspiration to reignite your inner child. Let him guide you.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 10:54 PM
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Not necessarily true either. From personal experience, there are plenty of insecure jackasses on the top as well, the kind of people that perceive everything as a slight.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 09:02 PM
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A person's natural SLR can sometimes be modified by a humiliating ass-beating, or by him getting a girlfriend. Spot on. A guy I know who's an absolute dick had to change his behaviour after he got married. He still does stupid shit though to get attention. The "nicer" guy has no effect at all on the group SLR. He can only adjust his behavior to deal with the worse guy. He can appear to dominate the interaction by ramping his SL way up, temporarily dropping the other guy's SL to zero. Bob Sutton …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 05:04 PM
1

I dont touch low smv women Maybe it's because you treat women with low SMV worse than the women with high SMV. It could be conscious or subconscious.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 03:30 PM
2

What about Tinder, or any dating sites/apps?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:07 PM
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Gotta slay a few dragons before you get to the princess.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:04 PM
1

What do the remaining approximately 147 people do when you have a project that only requires 2-3 people? I carefully balance putting them on tasks they want to be on, and tasks that have to be done that aren't as pleasant, subtly catering to their current emotional capacity without outright saying as much or being obvious about it How do you do that with ~150 people?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:12 PM
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Sometimes it's also the case that the guys they are attracted to have far greater SMV than them, so they can't get them to commit, even if they wanted to.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:11 PM
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You spontaneously do anal without douching? wtf
/r/askTRP22/10/19 10:40 PM
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Admittedly i was a bit of a slut for awhile Hopefully, you've learned that there's a cost associated with every decision you make. This includes living a promiscuous lifestyle. Should i stay or should i go? If you don't want to pursue legal action to defend yourself, then you'll have to be careful. If you split, and she decides to go further and press charges, your leaving could look like guilt. Don't leave at least for a while. In terms of contact with her, if you cut her off, then it seems lik…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 10:01 PM
1

Also, try to warmup your dick beforehand. That is, do some light jelqing to get it pumped, and ready.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 06:45 PM
1

The difference is in whether or not they care about you. People that care about you can sometimes make cutting remarks because they want your attention, or they're afraid of losing you. It may also be their way of trying to help you. They don't want to see you fail though. People that don't care about you can do the same but they might actually mean it, and may even go so far as sabotaging your efforts. The difference between the 2 types is the intent behind their words, and actions. You also do…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:36 PM
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Note that if you can grow and change, so too can other people. Point is, don't burn bridges out of arrogance. Simply spend more time with new people, and let any futile relationships dissolve naturally. In terms of going forward, set goals for things you want to accomplish, and find people that will facilitate your ambitions. Offer them value, and ask for help.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:56 AM
1

Maybe they're trying to not seem too needy, or desperate, and go too far in the other direction. Push through despite the change in attitude.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:49 PM
1

Your spidey-sense is tingling, so don't LTR her.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:58 PM
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How to stop caring about what a girl does/did I could care less about starting any type of relationship with her. TL;DR: How to stop caring about a girl's sexual past even though you want to keep fucking her and don't want any kind of relationship with her? You care, and you do want a relationship with her, though you can't bring yourself to do it. It's the Madonna–whore complex. The girl you want to put babies in, is different from the girl that you want to do dirty things to. You can't reconci…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:16 PM
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Why? There's nothing wrong with being in an LTR, if that's what you want. In terms of getting attached to girls when there's no commitment, it's bound to happen sometimes. Rather than trying to find ways to avoid it, or fight it, when it happens, accept that you caught some feels. How you handle it after will depend on you. I think most guys try to hide it, create space by seeing her less, and perhaps banging other girls. Some guys may be open about it, and initiate commitment, or, again, space …
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:53 PM
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Each time something eventually caused them to behave differently, so I ended the exclusivity. It was the exclusivity.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:18 PM
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Probably because they can divide the cost in at least 2 ways: 1) longer-term arrangements instead of a one-time encounter; and 2) they may be seeing multiple guys.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:14 AM
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younger guys here balk at "paying for sex" Because they can't afford it.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:07 AM
1

lost my virginity to a chubby girl on a night out last week made out with a mere 11 girls in my whole life So far. a cute girl approached me at a party telling me she found me hot, we basically fucked around the entire night You're attractive, congrats. And, because there are a few girls that have wanted to exchanged bodily fluids with you, there are plenty more. I would suggest exposure therapy by forcing yourself to face criticisms about your looks. You can do this by posting pictures in diffe…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:06 PM
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Nah, this time is great, emotions are high as Christmas/New Year's looms. Plenty of IOIs all around. Desperate ones don't want to be single, and taken ones are so flooded with comfort that they're gagging, and want some NSA fun for excitement. Or, they want to setup some options for swinging before Valentine's. Spring/summer are more difficult because girls are out and about, they're showing more skin, and there's lots of attention in general. It gives the illusion of a lot of options, so they b…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:32 PM
1

An important part of game is logistics. Being in the right place, at the right time comprises a large chunk of game. If you're living in Antarctica, don't get your hopes up about banging girls left and right. Alcohol primarily provides an excuse for girls to be able to say, "I was drunk," to absolve themselves of responsibility, which is important for them to loosen up. Thus, it's not the drinking per se, it's the grouping of people together in a largely closed space such as a bar, where stupid …
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:18 PM
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I'm assuming that connections are imperative for success in that industry. You would need more information to gauge whether she's attracted, or she's being friendly to build her network, and move ahead in her career. Also, you're probably already aware, you have to be careful lest your professional reputation be damaged by any incidents.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:25 PM
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I had been talking to for a week Was there any flirting, implicit or explicit sexual chatter? she told me where she was the entire time so we could meet up Might be a good sign. She was trying to meet for lunch. What is the context? If you both work in the same industry, and you're there for work, could she be trying to establish a professional connection? My question is how can you tell if there's attraction there beforehand? I was on public transport, and simply standing, holding one of the po…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:49 PM
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always speaks whatever runs in his mind Something you should adopt around him. Reflect his behaviour back to him. he says that he was about to slap my girlfriend’s ass because usually, when he goes back home, he slaps her girlfriend on the ass "Damn bro, I had no hesitations with your girlfriend last night." Note that this stuff has nothing to do with either of the girls. It's 2 dudes giving each other shit for fun.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:21 PM
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You'll know it when you experience it. Aside from not being goofy, or needy, you won't have to do anything to persuade her. You only have to be nearby. When a girl's in heat, and you're exactly what she wants, you won't be able to keep her off your dick.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:53 PM
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Either way I don’t care cause I’m going for it. You seem to have it figured out, and if she rejects you, you can report her for child neglect.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:40 PM
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Beta is the mindset. It would be beta if he continued paying when he wasn't getting sex (à la marriage), pushing aside his needs to keep her happy, being subservient, and believing that because she keeps seeing him despite getting paid to, this must be love. OP seems woke enough that he's not deluded about the reality that whatever she's saying or doing is because she's working, and not because he's Don Juan. So long as he keeps his head above water, and has no illusions, I don't see any issues,…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:37 PM
3

There are perhaps 2 things to reflect upon: 1) him, as a person; and 2) your relationship to him. Check out YouTube for speech ideas. 'Sherlock', starring Benedict Cumberbatch, is a great series where Sherlock is portrayed as a benevolent sociopath. There was one episode where, as the best man, he has to make a speech at Watson's wedding, which I thought was great, and, even though it's in a different context, maybe it can be helpful to pull some ideas from.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:56 AM
1

I’m just a shit texter honestly Sounds like an excuse. I think you know why you didn't text for a few days. She probably wants more than sex, which is what sleeping over without sex seems to imply. If she denies again, and you don't want more than sex, then let her know, and leave it open to reconnect. Don't wait for her though.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:39 PM
1

If you were the one that became distant, then it's you that wanted space. Only you would know the reasons for that, though in many cases it's about control. Perhaps you caught some feels, felt vulnerable, and spaced out to gain control, but she felt slighted by it, and denied sex to gain control. This is only a guess. The only thing you have control over is your end, and if it was just sex for you, then, yea, if it happens again, let her go.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:14 PM
2

Word of advice: that smell will never get out. Dump the clothes.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 07:58 PM
45

are stoners, drink every other night, play video games in free time In college, that's not beta, that's fun. These are also reasons people get together, which leads to fucking around. have no goals or ambition or are bad students Again, in college, the majority is like that, and it's cool. Here I am looking fit af, crushing classes, and working on my goals and I don't get nearly as much attention. Because you're investing your time in what's more important: your future self. It's the way life go…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 05:50 PM
1

That depends on you. If you only want sex from her, then yea, put her on ice for a while. She'll get the message. Fuck other girls, then, if you want, have her over again to fuck. If she denies again, let her go completely. If you like her, well, stop liking girls that don't want to put out, or use sex to manipulate.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:21 PM
11

Cold-approached a cute HB8 on my college campus yesterday. She knows you approached to hook up with her, which is why this question is fucking bullshit. For all intents and purposes, you're never single. If you explicitly state that you're single, it implies 2 things: 1) you're a loser; 2) you care about labels, and are commitment-oriented, i.e., no fun. Unless you're fully committed, everything should remain a mystery. Say, "it's complicated," or "define single," or "what is a relationship?" or…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 12:53 PM
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Try again in the morning. However, denying sex, and sleeping over are part of the betaization process, which is inevitable. She denied sex as a means of control, to see how you would react. If you kicked her out, it would imply that you only want her for sex, though you didn't. The fact that she tried it means she felt confident enough that you wouldn't say no. Sleeping over is her spending time with you outside of having sex. It's also a subtle signal of possessiveness in that no other girl cou…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 12:22 PM
1

You're right in that it becomes meaningless after a certain point. Where that point is varies from one man to the next. What's important is that every guy reach that point to find this out for themselves. You have to get it out of your system, which can only be done by getting out there, and fucking till nihilism.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 09:46 AM
1

He's right. Bullying tactics can work in various contexts. Aggression, verbal put-downs, trash-talk, dominance displays, etc.; just as focusing on yourself, and building your SMV is a way of becoming better than your competition, so too, are these tactics useful for psychologically influencing them to throw them off before you even compete. One example of this is Schwarzenegger, who discusses how he psyched out Lou Ferrigno before a Mr. Universe competition. He goes on to talk about how he would…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:32 PM
17

Want her, don't need her.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 05:39 PM
8

Is being a virgin at a later stage in life a physical or mental problem? I'm almost 20 You're not late. last year have made out with 3 girls in the span of a few months Good. does anyone know how I can learn the basics of interacting with women? If you've made out with a few girls, it means there are several others that will find you attractive, your problem's not physical. For simplicity, watch the 'The Tao of Steve'. The movie describes 3 general rules for success with girls: 1) Be desireless:…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:46 PM
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I've learned it's dependent on mood, which can be affected by several things. You haven't eaten properly, lack of sleep, didn't get time to workout, struggling with finances, too much shit from your SO, lack of respect from people important to you, etc. If your basic human needs have not been met, you'll feel shitty, which in and of itself becomes a test. How will you react when all hell breaks loose?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 07:32 AM
1

Looks open the door, but if everything else is weak, you'll die a virgin. If you're ugly, you have to put in effort to open doors. if a woman was married to an extremely wealthy, famous, confident but ugly man, she would go behind his back and fuck a 10/10 in looks It would be too risky for her to do that, since wealthy, famous, confident men are not easy to find. Also, that would be a shitty woman to begin with, who would cheat on anyone, irrespective of how they looked or what they had.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 07:00 AM
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The outcome of picking up girls is sex. How do you become less dependent on the outcome? By having sex. The easiest way is to fuck a hooker or two. You'll automatically be less needy when approaching, and DGAF is a big part of game.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:50 PM
1

much later screwed me over in a dispute with my boss reached out today to ask for my bank details I have no clue how much or why, I'm sure it's a sum that I don't care about I don't know how to respond or if to respond at all wtf
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:36 PM
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