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| 2 | Why RP women traditionalists?WOW!! That's amazing :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Why RP women traditionalists?So weird, I must have a sixth sense of when people are posting about RPW, unless there are RPW posts all the time. I haven't been on PPD in a while, yet every time I am, there's some RPW post, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Why RP women traditionalists?Hi! I'm doing great, how have you been? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Why RP women traditionalists?https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/4d82tr/redpillwomen_dumped_theredpill_start_their_own/ Everything else was deleted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Why RP women traditionalists?u/atlas__b__shruggin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:12 PM |
| 5 | Why RP women traditionalists?Here's the SubRedditDrama post about RPWi leaving RPW https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/4d82tr/redpillwomen_dumped_theredpill_start_their_own/. I was the original RPW mod, but was pretty inactive before the split, and I wasn't there for the big fight on the IRC. I helped the other mods set up the new sub and then I left RPWi soon after. By the time I left, RP had already jumped the shark and was a weird, twisted version of what RP was in the beginning. RPW started out with "don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | What is a red pilled woman?She had a great blog and her comment section was always huge and full of all of the major RP bloggers of the time. There were so many ideas floating around that it was a major source of topics for old RPW. Her blog might still exist on the wayback machine, but I haven't looked. Then Matt Forney doxxed her and basically broke the RP manosphere. It never recovered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/19 04:18 PM |
| 2 | What is a red pilled woman?It really changed a lot when we left old RPW; it almost immediately turned into how to girl instead of discussions over sexual strategy. A big turning point in the change was Sunshine Mary getting doxxed and shutting her blog. That removed a good portion of interesting subjects to discuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/19 04:07 PM |
| 3 | What is a red pilled woman?The MRP wives were always so awful! I don't think there was a single one that was in any way willing to give up her cuntiness for even five minutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/19 03:58 PM |
| 4 | What is a red pilled woman?None of the currently "active" mods of rpwi are interested in getting rid of absentee Camille, and the ones that answered my PM suggesting it were almost offended that I suggested it! I don't have any desire to mod at rpwi; it turned into something that really didn't interest me much. I have always suspected that the interesting things Camille talked about were actually SoftHarem using her account. I never saw evidence of the girly half of Camille's online personality being intelligent at all. L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/19 03:55 PM |
| 13 | is TRP still about "enjoy the decline" and getting laid with women?The funny thing about "enjoy the decline" is that was the mantra of the old school MGTOW, who were all about not only getting laid, but really going their own way in every aspect of life. They all quit their jobs, started traveling, writing books, etc. They weren't pathetic or incel or anything near what MGTOW are now. Aaron Cleary was even a ballroom dance instructor for awhile. All I know about the new MGTOW is from what I read here, and it doesn't sound anything like the MGTOW of old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/19 04:02 PM |
| 6 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.This is what all of my younger friends have been doing for decades now except they aren't lonely, they are attractive party girls who date attractive party boys. The "oopsie" happens and the party boy runs for the hills. And yes, the kids are ridiculously good looking. There usually isn't any sort of child support or leeching off the government because the women have great jobs and the grandparents help with the kid. Plus the guys are generally not stable financially and tend to have crap jobs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Is the "manosphere" still a thing? Seems like it was split into pieces by ideology, and not really a thing anymore.Matt Forney doxxed a bunch of people he didn't like and then a few of the older guys died. It was pretty much dead after that except for a few creepy guys who depended on it for their livelihood. Most of the better guys went on to nutrition or politics. The manosphere/early red pill/game phenomenon was during the blogging era, and when blogs died, so did that push. All that remains is here on reddit, and it is a twisted, bastardized version of the original. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:23 PM |
| 5 | What is/was Red Pill Women?That was the old RPW after we left for RPWi. It was Whisper's plate who is now modding under a different name on old RPW. There was never a plate moderator in either sub while I was modding there, but there were a few plate subscribers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 03:38 PM |
| 2 | What is/was Red Pill Women?Hahahahahaha! Good advice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 03:18 PM |
| 4 | What is/was Red Pill Women?LOL, I forgot how awesome I used to be, hahahaha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What is/was Red Pill Women?RPW/RPWi turned into a virginity cult; I was grossed out. Suddenly all of these 28yo virgins were told that their virginity was valuable instead of bizarre and abnormal. At the same time, none of the other mods were ever active and would only show up every couple of weeks. I was tired of it all and burned out on reddit. Now I have a completely different community on a different social network that does not cater to weirdos like reddit does lol! Red Pill changed so much in the years that I was ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.Oh please, it was a party; don't kid yourself. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/17 04:51 PM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.Let's look at the timeline. 8+ months ago: Hubby is motivated. 7 months ago: Hubby is not motivated. It looks like his lost his will to live work the minute she announced her pregnancy. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, today is the Eve of my 30th BirthdayI have known her well for years, and I have never known her to do anything remotely like that; I do not believe you at all. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.It sounds like he has been depressed ever since you got pregnant; did he want this baby? He lacks motivation because he thinks his bachelor days are over and there's nothing to work for. When did you get married? His bachelor days were over that day. Was it fun and games and party, party, party right up until you got pregnant? It sounds like you liked him fine up until then, too. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, today is the Eve of my 30th BirthdayProve it or shut it. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/17 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, today is the Eve of my 30th BirthdayLet's see, you are 40yo with a kid, a boyfriend, and a baby daddy. Who are YOU to judge anyone; you aren't owned, you are just rented. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/17 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, today is the Eve of my 30th BirthdayYou are a nasty, evil woman who spreads lies and rumors. You are a troll, and you add nothing to any sub you comment on. Go back to /r/RedPillWomen with all the homewreckers and plates. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/17 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Share your wedding vowsOh Lordy, I have no clue what our vows were; I guess I need to watch the video we received as a part of our Las Vegas wedding package at A Little White Chapel. The guy there did tell us that my homemaking skills were the foundation of our marriage, which made us grimace because at the time I had none :) The one thing that I make sure to do is remember that my husband is the most important person in the world to me, so I treat him as such and put him ahead of all others. Oh, and we should have ab… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Faux Pas Friday!You are taking this waaaaay too personally; you are free to be as tacky as you want to be, LOL! Edited to say: If you are so into having big parties, and it's not the presents you are after, why do you have to wait to have a baby to throw a party? Throw one now for no reason, and give the present-oriented parties a miss. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/05/17 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Faux Pas Friday!OMG, I see this all the time, complete with big fuzzy slippers and bedhead. I'm always amazed! | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/17 01:06 PM |
| – | Faux Pas Friday!Women who throw their own baby showers. They pick the venue, they set the guest list, they send the invites THEMSELVES. Not only that, but they are renting large venues/parks so they can invite 100 guests. Baby showers used to be held in a living room with maybe 20 guests; 100 presents is a LOT of stuff, where would you put all of that? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 03:14 PM |
| – | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"The thing is that people react to other people; when you acted the way you were acting, he reacted in a way that made you feel vindicated for your actions. I've noticed this with my husband: I get all snippy, he gets snippy, and it escalates. If I am cheerful and lovey-dovey, he is cheerful and lovey-dovey. Also, him drinking too much might have partially been in reaction to everything that has been happening. I can't see him as the man I once loved. This is a BIG problem. I don't really know wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/17 02:51 PM |
| 2 | The Next Generation of Americans (Gen Z) May Be the Most Conservative Since WWIIThe new generation, some call them Z and some call them Homelanders, being conservative goes along with the Generations from Strauss and Howe. They share a generational archetype with The Silent Generation, The Artist, which was also the most conservative generation of their time. Everything is cyclical :) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/17 12:57 PM |
| – | SHIT POST SATURDAY - May 13, 2017It's a good thing there is an opposite sex to blame for everything!! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/05/17 02:31 PM |
| – | What does modern day love look like ?Not having funds for lavish dates isn't a 2017 thing; it's a youth thing. There weren't lavish funds for 19yos in the early 80s either. No one went on lavish dates in their teens in any year. As far as love itself, you two are 19yo and you are at a very unstable time in your lives; you might make it, and you might drift apart. I personally don't think that a LDR is a very good option if it is going to be longer than a couple of months. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/05/17 08:03 PM |
| 1 | wisdom of wives for a husbandI think you would benefit from /r/marriedredpill. I see that you have been there, so go ahead and get involved. The main problem I see is that you want her to change, but you can't change other people, only yourself. MRP is the place to figure out what you need to change to get better behavior from her. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/17 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Resentment after moving in together.You bitch constantly and you made a post at PPD also bitching constantly. You never listen to what anyone has to say, and I don't believe that you want an answer to your "problem"; you just want to bitch. If you don't want your boyfriend to see you complaining about him constantly, then you might consider quitting complaining about him constantly. If you are that dissatisfied with him, then ditch his ass. The only reason you are still with him is that you need him to help pay rent and you have t… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/04/17 04:49 PM |
| – | Resentment after moving in together.I also feel a need to clean when it’s messy and to cook. It’s weird, because I didn’t feel like that when I lived with 3 female roommates. So, because you compulsively clean, you expect him to kowtow to this compulsion. You want your unreasonable goals to be his goals. You not only want him to do what you tell him to do, but you also want him to do it the way you want it done. Basically, you are resentful that he isn't your bitch :D | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 04:13 PM |
| – | Resentment after moving in together.And this isn't her first post like this; she loves to write these posts, get everyone to commiserate, and then she deletes her posts. Every. Damn. Time. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/17 02:17 PM |
| 7 | How do I become more supportive and pleasant to be around for my husband?You are actively driving him away. You need a hobby because you obviously have waaaaaaay too much time on your hands and not nearly enough interests other than your boyfriend. Quit hounding him with your insecurities. You have to decide if you can trust him to not cheat, and if you can then put it out of your mind. If you decide he's not to be trusted, then leave him now. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/17 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - April 21, 2017Millennials were the first generation to be raised on fast food too. There weren't nearly as many places back in the day; I think my city of then 200K population had 2 McDonalds and a few pizza places. Now it is so much quicker and easier to drop by somewhere and get food than to go to the grocery store after work, get home, and cook. There are so many places to eat that, in some places, you have 6-10 different fast food places on a single block. Also, families had more kids back then, and the o… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/17 03:02 PM |
| – | Free Friday - April 21, 2017Yes, come party with us! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | College girl with strong more values worried about datingThe way I see the graph is that 1/2 of the people who didn't have premarital sex, never married or had sex. This means to me that virgins have a 50% chance of marrying, and I'd be willing to bet that most of the people "saving" sex for marriage never had a chance to "spend" sex. They were virgins by default of no one wanting them, much like how MGTOWs are sour-grapes incels. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/17 06:50 PM |
| – | College girl with strong more values worried about datingWell, I would still rather be in the group that has sex :D | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/17 05:38 PM |
| 6 | You Don't Know Yourself or What you Want Better as You Get Older...This is a Complete DelusionI grew up in the 70s, early on in the sexual revolution, and my friends now in their 50s didn't experience any of what you are talking about. All the sluts married and most are still happily married; the players mostly settled down with nubile 21yos when they were mid-40s. I really don't know anyone who has been harmed by having a lot of sex partners, but I do know some women who got old and fat and can't get a hot guy anymore. The old fat men seem to play on though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 05:13 PM |
| – | College girl with strong more values worried about datingThe graph doesn't specify that group B automatically turns into group C, but if you look at it you can see that both of those groups overlap. Frankly, if a woman still a virgin into her 20s, no one she wanted wanted her back. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/17 12:59 PM |
| – | College girl with strong more values worried about datingHonestly, I think you are doing yourself a disservice by holding onto this idea that your virginity is your value. Maybe at 18, but certainly not at 20. If this continues, you are going to make an oddity of yourself with men and they will wonder what is wrong with you. If you look at this graph, you will see what happens to old virgins. Those 25yo women who (a) delayed sex until marriage tended to (c) neither have sex nor enter into a first marriage. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/17 03:44 PM |
| 10 | College girl with strong more values worried about datingI always wanted it to be with someone I was dating. I'd know they weren't seeing anyone else, and I'd trust them. But after 4 months I physically could not get past 3rd base. My friends (and boyfriend) tried to tell me it was just sex - natural and not a big deal. But when I started to get in to it I'd feel immensely fearful, almost to the point of a panic attack and I'd start to cry. You were not attracted to him sexually, most likely. You seem to date a lot, but have you ever been on a date wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/17 11:45 AM |
| – | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceThis is fascinating. I never really saw any Disney Princess movies, or if I did, it was on TV and not really that special. Looking at the dates of the movies, I just now realized that Disney Princesses completey skipped my generation. They skipped from Aurora in 1959 to Ariel in 1989. From before my birth until I was in my mid 20s. I wonder if we had any sort of animated human females; I really don't remember any. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/17 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Is this a burden women carry alone?I'm so sorry to hear that; I can't even imagine. Men do process grief differently; I've been through a lot of close friend's deaths with my husband, and I think he feels a lot of things deeper but expresses that grief more lightly. It's difficult to describe. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/17 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Is this a burden women carry alone?Duly noted, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/17 11:24 PM |
| – | Is this a burden women carry alone?Ah, so it was just a shit-comment. Gotcha. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/17 06:25 PM |
| – | Is this a burden women carry alone?That doesn’t mean a man won’t experience grief, or sadness, over a miscarriage. It just means he will experience it differently. He may grieve at the time of the loss and then not bring it up again. He may not allow his feelings to become outwardly visible. So as wives we may look at him as if he’s not feeling anything at all. Did you even read the post? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/17 03:47 PM |
| 7 | Is this a burden women carry alone?Great post! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/17 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Here's an odd one for you ladies.../u/chattrshep is still active; she deleted her post and all of the comments here. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/17 08:10 PM |
| – | For the RPW's summer drinking needs. Boozy Sparkling Water!Low-carb, and under 95 calories! Sold! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/17 07:09 PM |
| – | Here's an odd one for you ladies...Your boyfriend obviously has a huge need to save women, and you are a self-proclaimed "lesser alpha" that is not in need of saving. Maybe in the future, you can let him be your hero more often. As far as him importing another woman into your relationship, that is something you will have to figure out as it progresses and determine exactly how much you want to share your man with another woman. The problem is that he loves being the hero, and women get emotionally attached to their heroes. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/17 03:53 PM |
| – | SHIT POST SATURDAY - April 08, 2017This Video on Toxic Ape Masculinity or Aperiarchy! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/17 02:05 PM |
| – | Free Friday - April 07, 2017LOL @ this comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/6412eq/my_27m_girlfriend_22f_has_been_posting_on_trp/dfyzsz5/ I'm most likely one of the "Loud Opinionated Ladies" :D | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/17 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerThinking about your situation more, I'll tell you exactly what is happening here: You are already Alpha-Widowed. You know you need to leave, but you can't stand the thought of leaving. It started out with him not making a commitment of exclusivity even after declaring his love for you. You kept waiting for him to commit, but he refused, so you became attached to him via the trauma and drama of being a plate. Then you tried to guilt him into being exclusive, but all that did was make him sort of … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/17 03:33 PM |
| – | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerHabitual liars will often cop to less severe lies to hide more serious ones Trickle Truth! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/17 02:46 PM |
| – | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerThis is one of those problems that the only "fix" could be to walk away. This is on him to fix, and for you to decide if you can live with it or not. This is HIS problem. He lied, he cheated. This. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 03:12 PM |
| – | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerYes, I agree. The worst part to me is him insisting that he didn't when he obviously did. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 03:08 PM |
| – | Desperate for help with unfaithful partnerI am hurting and scared and am afraid that my whole life will be this way if I'm not able to fix this. You can't fix this. You can't change other people; you can only change yourself. You have to decide whether or not this is something you can live with for the rest of your life, and if you decide that you can live with it, you need to fully accept it. This is how he is and how he will always be. Personally, I would leave; I have a very low tolerance for lying. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/17 03:00 PM |
| – | Some thoughts on Equal Pay Day, an annual event that spreads statistical misinformation about the gender pay gapBottom Line: Those who publicize Equal Pay Day and demand that the unadjusted 20% pay gap be reduced to zero are unknowingly really advocating that men and women play completely interchangeable roles in the labor market and identical roles in their family responsibilities; and that’s an outcome I don’t think most women (or men) really want. Employers hire the best person for the job and pay as little as they can. If women aren't negotiating as well or are more interested in flexibility and benef… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/17 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Why climate change will cause the resurgence of dragons.1 April, 1962: an Easter Island statue washes up on the beach at Zandvoort. 🙂 Unicorn Cookbook Found at the British Library Fool me once... | /r/RedPillWives | 01/04/17 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Fewer Young People Want Gender Equality at HomeThis is a great Twitter thread that illustrates my point: In reality, the higher up you are, the more people you have to answer to. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 04:35 PM |
| – | Free Friday - March 31, 2017AWESOME!!!! I cast my vote for naming him "Thor" :) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 04:19 PM |
| – | Free Friday - March 31, 2017I think it's important not to condemn the man for this. (One can condemn the behavior but not the person.) This type of man has come to MRP after a long struggle where he felt like he was on the losing side. To him, a marriage is where someone wins (her) and someone loses (him). It would be really difficult to work your way out of this situation, but it does highlight the dangers of tit-for-tat, keeping score in a relationship. In a one wins/one loses relationship, they will always be at odds wi… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 04:13 PM |
| – | Fewer Young People Want Gender Equality at HomeWomen actually do want to be in control. But they don't want to have to answer to anyone. I think this is why we won't relinquish control of our homes. I think this is why women increasingly apply themselves to jobs that are more and more prestige; they think that the higher up they are in the system, the more control they will have. In reality, the higher up you are, the more people you have to answer to. An executive assistant only has to answer to her boss, but a CEO has to answer to the Boar… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 03:57 PM |
| – | Free Friday - March 31, 2017Online daters ignore wish list when choosing a match Helen Fisher has some interesting videos on biological anthropology. Kitten Holiday's Your Feminine Voice | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 03:50 PM |
| – | Free Friday - March 31, 2017MRP is mostly men trying to deal with their wives by using PUA tactics, not realizing that PUA is for temporary relationships. Most of the trouble they have is when they skip the "improve yourself" step and go directly to Dread Level Red Alert!!!! It would be more difficult for MRP, though; their wives aren't willingly going along with them and it's really tough to force respect. Here, the solution to problems is usually to STFU and quit being a shrew, so we are depending on changing ourselves, … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 02:55 PM |
| – | Karen Pence is the vice president’s ‘prayer warrior,’ gut check and shieldBut, but, but, candlelight, wine... | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 02:06 PM |
| – | Karen Pence is the vice president’s ‘prayer warrior,’ gut check and shieldThis argument by a feminist: Powerful men who will meet one on one with men but not women hurt women's careers. That is not moral or normal. It's all about access to powerful men: "All the good ones are taken..." Feminism is mostly women wanting to level the playing field by forcing more exposure to unattainable men. They are constantly shaming men for not wanting unattractive or fat women while not lowering their own standards. Now they want one-on-one intimate access to married men they work w… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/03/17 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumEven CA women were allowed to get a higher education ever since the US was a twinkle in Uncle Sam's eye. Sure, they might have had to travel to the north east, but it was doable and done by many. Edited to say that by 1851 there was a women's college right there in CA! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 07:44 PM |
| – | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumWhat 3rd world country are you from? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumsomeone fought for my right to get an education In America women have always been able to get an education; no one had to "fight" to get one. Look, two women's colleges were established before the Revolutionary War. This is only the women only colleges, but the college I went to was co-ed since its inception. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 07:23 PM |
| – | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumThere aren't two different systems in the US. Household income is household income no matter who works. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 04:45 PM |
| – | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumYou are over-complicating a very simple tradition. Why have the couple go to all of this trouble when it is so easy to just live on one income? Instead of figuring out what is his, and what is hers, and tit-for-tat keeping score, they could live harmoniously working together under one salary towards their future. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 04:28 PM |
| – | Sarrah Le Marquand: It should be illegal to be a stay-at-home mumWould it be such a bad thing if a SAHM/W were explicitly paid a salary by the husband to perform that work? Well, if he hireded her or a more qualified person to do the job, there are all kinds of taxes involved. Basically, his salary would be taxed and then the employee is taxed on the money the husband pays them (that he already paid taxes on). Or instead of being taxed twice on household income, he could open a joint account and the household could live on the amount he earns. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/17 04:06 PM |
| – | [Advice] Husband pays girls for pictures of themselvesThere is a lot of stuff missing from this post. First, you left out the sex frequency question, and I believe that you skipped it because you didn't want to say that you have a dead/nearly dead bedroom. the notion that I can depend on him as a provider and leader... This whole incident has shattered the feeling that I can depend on him It was strange that you included "provider" in your post, because there weren't any problems with him providing, but since you are a SAHW, and he has multiple emo… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/03/17 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Women in Australia now capable of crossing the street! EQUALITY!Hahahahaha! Inflatable Wacky Waving Tube Person | /r/RedPillWives | 20/03/17 06:24 PM |
| – | Women in Australia now capable of crossing the street! EQUALITY!Why are her arms and legs so weirdly bent? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/03/17 06:23 PM |
| – | "My Husband Is Not Romantic" - Great Post About Letting Go Of Expectations And Accepting Your Man!He went on to say, “I guess the most important change was that I feel I can talk to you and tell you things I couldn’t tell you before, that you praise me for the things I do even if they are half-[hearted] and you don’t nag me about what isn’t finished. I don’t know how I got so lucky to have you love me like that.” Bingo! She didn't have to do anything extra; all she had to do was quit being a shrew. If your husband is afraid to tell you things, it's because you bite his head off when he does. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/03/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Feminists are 'triggered' because Wonder Woman shaves her armpitsOh yeah the twitter users are the audience, and are the ones clicking on the bait :) I was talking about all journalists everywhere regardless of their affiliation; clickbait is their bread and butter. I would much rather have reporters that report the news/current events without adding their own personal two cents, their own slant, and their own agenda. Oh, and I did enjoy your article! Thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/03/17 05:07 PM |
| – | What are your best homemaking "hacks"?I don't freeze broth; I use it throughout the week for different things. Anytime I'm cooking and need extra liquid I put some in, I make rice using broth instead of water, a nice hot cup of broth is delicious, and throw in some veggies and meat and now you have soup! There are tons of uses, and it is not only tasty, but it is so good for you: full of protein, minerals, and gelatin. One tip is to not simmer bones more than 8-12 hours or you will burn the gelatin off. Last night I made rice using … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/03/17 11:51 AM |
| – | Feminists are 'triggered' because Wonder Woman shaves her armpitsGet a job and find something to occupy your mind because you obviously have too much time on your hands. I believe that this is their job. It is so prevalent today to find outrage, that the "journalists" have been ordered to find and report the tiniest perceived indignation in order to compete for clickbait. Journalists are doing what journalists have always done; searched for the juiciest scoop, even if they have to make it up! The armpit debacle is screaming yellow journalism at its finest! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/03/17 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Free Friday - March 17, 2017LOL! Hilarious! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 03:29 PM |
| – | Free Friday - March 17, 2017This should totally be brought back into practice. It should be used for SJWs too, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 03:12 PM |
| – | Free Friday - March 17, 2017It is weird. I can't imagine anyone wanting to trade their own baby, that they carried for nine months, that shares your blood and DNA, for a random stranger's baby. The very idea is extremely foreign to me. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 02:59 PM |
| – | Free Friday - March 17, 2017Here is an exposé on Rebecca Solnit, Who Helped Popularize ‘Mansplaining,’ Is the Queen of Fakery. If babies were randomly allocated to families would racism end? Or would people who wanted their own flesh and blood just move to where babies were not allocated? You had one job. One perk of older age? Fewer catcalls! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/17 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Half The Fun Of Being A Parent Is Trolling Your ChildrenHAHAHAHAHA!!! My Dad was the king of trolling us kids; my favorite was when we were little, getting ready for school, and he would yell, "It's 10 'till late!" and we would all freak out thinking that he said "10 'till 8". It worked every time, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 07:19 PM |
| – | Write a family mission statementOh yeah, it took me about 20 or so years to figure that out, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 05:16 PM |
| 7 | Please join us in welcoming /u/Irisandoleander as our newest mod!!!It is a shame; hopefully she will be back after she is through with whatever it is she is going through. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 02:58 PM |
| – | Please join us in welcoming /u/Irisandoleander as our newest mod!!!We really don't know. She said she had to leave for personal reasons, and then very recently she deleted her account. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 02:51 PM |
| 2 | How Can I Make My Husband Happier?I agree with this 100%! Keto is a good gateway diet towards fixing your health. Here is an excellent post I found recently that spells out good reasons for cutting carbs in your diet and upping your fat intake. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 01:51 PM |
| – | Write a family mission statementWe never go to bed angry with one another The best thing to do when fighting is to go to bed. In the morning the fight and the reason we were fighting seems so incredibly silly. Staying up to hash it out would only extend the silly fight and make us lose valuable sleep hours. Most fights are us being cranky, anyway :) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/03/17 11:31 AM |
| 4 | How Can I Make My Husband Happier?Actually, the auto-mod has been taking them down due to you having a new account. I've been looking for your comments and approving them :) Edited to say that this will continue for a little while, but I'll try to spot them. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayI think that it is really smart to be prepared for emergencies and to have a plan of action for various emergency scenarios. People think of the Apocalypse when they think about keeping extra food/water on hand, but SHTF could also be a local natural emergency/disaster like a flood or blizzard. Look what happened with hurricane Katrina; it would have been a great idea to have extra cash and supplies on hand. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/17 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Update on my situationI always thought that its purpose was to give advice to women with marriage problems. I'm not certain that this is a marriage problem; I think it is a You problem. The thing is that this whole post is about your anxiety and your lack of trust in your husband's ability to provide. It isn't about him not providing; I haven't read anything about the electricity being turned off or there not being food on the table. All I see is your fear of these things happening. You are sticking your nose in his … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/03/17 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Update on my situationYeah, and it does suck, but being poor is pretty usual when kids are young and there's only one earner. My parents were pretty poor while my dad was in school and there were a couple of kids at home. It's a normal thing. Hopefully everything works out for OP, but cutting and running so early in the game is a really bad idea in my book. So far, it is only her worrying and nothing actually happening. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/03/17 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Unless you live on a farm or have a bunch of small children. There is no role for a SAHW in the modern world.In reality, there will be fewer and fewer jobs in the future due to automation and other technology, so a lot of people will not have a choice in the matter except staying home/being unemployed. There may not be a need for SAHW, but if there are no jobs, there will be plenty of people staying at home, anyway (unless they enroll in that one class, LOL!). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/17 06:48 PM |
| – | Unless you live on a farm or have a bunch of small children. There is no role for a SAHW in the modern world.So, the second they enroll in a class or take up a hobby, the SAHW/SAHM ceases to be SAHW/SAHM? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/17 06:28 PM |
| 8 | Unless you live on a farm or have a bunch of small children. There is no role for a SAHW in the modern world.I can't imagine being home all day with nothing to think about but cooking cleaning and kids. Being a SAHW/SAHM doesn't mean that your brain turns off all functions/thinking except for "cooking cleaning and kids". Getting labeled SAHW/SAHM =/= a lobotomy, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/17 06:17 PM |
| 6 | A Day Without WomenThere are a few schools in smaller towns near me that announced they were closing for the day so their teachers could go party with the other women. Last night one of those schools announced that it was closing due to a manhunt that had already ended. I guess they got a lot of heat for closing school for a frivolous reason, so they had to make up a better sounding reason. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I’m 49% Mother and 51% Wife - And it Has to be That Way by Ashleigh SlaterWell said! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/03/17 08:11 PM |
| 3 | 'A Day Without a Woman' is a strike for privileged protestersYes. I wonder that myself. What is the purpose of the march, and what does it hope to accomplish. How is women marching "speaking up for those who can't"? Are they speaking up for me? If so, what are they "speaking up" about? | /r/RedPillWives | 07/03/17 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Andrea Tantaros Interview about feminismShe is from Germany and is not a good judge of American culture; she is also not RP, but she seems to like to hang around us and say ridiculous feminist things :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/03/17 09:02 PM |
| – | Older women, what depressing social changes have you seen in your lifetime?WoS is pretty much any time a woman is going home bowlegged, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/03/17 02:53 PM |
| – | Older women, what depressing social changes have you seen in your lifetime?Walks of Shame have been around since I was in college in the early 1980s, and I assume that they have been a "thing" since the dawn of time :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/03/17 02:22 PM |
| 3 | EXCLUSIVE: Deployed US Navy Has A Pregnancy Problem, And It’s Getting WorseI imagine that it is a little of both. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/03/17 12:39 AM |
| – | Simple Questions - March 04, 2017I hope so! It might be an attraction thing, though. Are you wildly attracted to him? Are there butterflies in your stomach when you think about him? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 03:22 PM |
| 5 | EXCLUSIVE: Deployed US Navy Has A Pregnancy Problem, And It’s Getting WorseMy thoughts exactly! There's probably about the same ratio of planned pregnancies for Navy and for civilians. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 03:00 PM |
| – | Simple Questions - March 04, 2017You would see an OB/GYN if you had questions, if you needed birth control, etc. It's like seeing your doctor before making any major life changes like a strenuous new workout plan. It's not necessary, but is sometimes a good idea. I think that your problem is relaxation and not a medical problem, though. Maybe try some relaxation exercises or a nice warm bath :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:58 PM |
| – | Simple Questions - March 04, 2017It might be a relaxation problem; I suggest a glass of red wine What the researchers uncovered was that the red wine specifically increased blood flow to women’s erogenous areas, which in turn led to increased levels of desire. The researchers were quick to point out, however, that after more than a drink or two the other effects of alcohol began to take hold, which led to a less pleasurable experience. Moderation, it seems, is key. Also, longer foreplay/build up to PIV might help. If these thin… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:40 PM |
| – | EXCLUSIVE: Deployed US Navy Has A Pregnancy Problem, And It’s Getting WorseA record 16 out of 100 Navy women are reassigned from ships to shore duty due to pregnancy, according to data obtained under the Freedom of Information Act by The Daily Caller News Foundation’s Investigative Group. But by August 2016 that number reached nearly 16 percent, an all-time high. The Navy reported 3,840 of the 24,259 women sailors who were aboard Navy ships were pregnant. I'm assuming that Navy women have access to birth control, so why do you think that so many of these women are gett… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 02:18 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DYay! I'm so glad you found us, and I'm looking forward to seeing more of you around the sub. Welcome! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Seven Reasons I’m Sleeping With Your Husband [A Cautionary Tale]Right, but I was attempting to point out how CQ was all about blaming the woman when the man is the one who broke the promise/vow. It's like when Brad dumped Jen to be with Angelina and everyone was blaming Angelina like Brad had no agency in the affair. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/03/17 01:29 PM |
| 1 | ABUSE ALL OVER THE PLACE!! yikes...You assume she just jumped to shouting at him. You assumed that I assumed, LOL! If she is really being abused, then she needs to call the police, have him arrested, and get a restraining order. I assume that she still has access to a phone. Then she needs to go to a shelter and start a new life without him. makes you seem cruel. Yes, of course, we should have patted her on the back and softly uttered platitudes and comforting words. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 06:00 PM |
| – | ABUSE ALL OVER THE PLACE!! yikes...She could have, instead of bellyaching about it on reddit, talked to him about it instead. She has known him for 14+ years, so it wasn't as if she just met him yesterday and didn't know anything about how he would react. I wasn't able to see her responses to everyone telling her he was abusive and to leave, but in my experience here, women write those sort of posts spur of the moment while full of emotion, and then, after the emotion wears off, they always come in and defend their SOs. What is g… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 05:48 PM |
| – | ABUSE ALL OVER THE PLACE!! yikes...Why is the woman badmouthing her husband? I'm not tearing the woman to shreds; I'm making fun of you/TBP and the ZOMG ABUSE hysteria on that sub. What should the woman do? Call the cops? Divorce him? Hire a hit man? Abort the baby since it seems to be the catalyst for the husband's over-protectiveness? Murder/suicide? LOL! What could/should be done about this situation besides a few subreddits getting their panties in a bunch with excessive outrage? | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 05:24 PM |
| – | ABUSE ALL OVER THE PLACE!! yikes...It's funny because TBP is so over the top ABUSE!!! hysteria :) Calm Down! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 05:10 PM |
| 1 | ABUSE ALL OVER THE PLACE!! yikes...More hilariousness!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 04:57 PM |
| – | ABUSE ALL OVER THE PLACE!! yikes...OMG right? Wow, just wow! She is literally Hitler!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 04:47 PM |
| – | Getting Serious About SolipsismI'm not an expert on the subject (See what I did? Now it's all about me, LOL!), but I believe it is female nature, and some are more than others. It is amoral and it is a feature not a defect. Women seem to be more of the home and hearth and day to day living. We are more intimate in our friendships than men, more emotional, more in-group. Solipsism is women wanting to relate to other people to form a closer bond, and since woman's frame is verbal, we form that bond through talking. Men are more… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 12:34 PM |
| 4 | SAHMs and SAHWs, what do you wear at home?I totally need some furry slippers! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 02:40 AM |
| 3 | SAHMs and SAHWs, what do you wear at home?LOLOLOLOLOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 02:34 AM |
| 6 | SAHMs and SAHWs, what do you wear at home?I'm not a SAHM/W but I sometimes don't leave the house :D I wear comfy cute stuff like a tank and cute panties when it's hot out, and when it's cooler i will usually throw on a flannel shirt or a pair of leggings. If it's really cold, both and maybe a lap blanket. I don't go further outside than my enclosed back porch without pants on though, hahaha! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/17 01:49 AM |
| 4 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DNice to meet you! Welcome! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 12:53 AM |
| 3 | RPW HAS REACHED 2000+ MEMBERS!! Lurkers And New Subscribers Introduce Yourselves :DAwesome! I hope to see you around the sub! | /r/RedPillWives | 27/02/17 10:32 PM |
| – | Last name change?Most people I know replaced their middle name with their maiden name, so that is a very common thing to do. Personally, I wouldn't do 2 middle names because of the length for legal documents, etc., and I wouldn't do hyphens for the same reason. I like nice short names, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/02/17 04:25 PM |
| – | How do you know if you actually can do better?We met in college and he had a huge crush on me. At 20, I got out of a bad 4 year relationship and shortly after started dating my current boyfriend. It sounds like this is a rebound relationship with an orbiter. It also sounds like you are just fine dating him but not really excited about being with him. Is your relationship a long distance one? The reason I'm asking is that, with distance, relationships are nothing like they would be if you saw each other daily. There is also a disconnect that… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/02/17 03:05 PM |
| – | Last name change?A friend of mine legally changed her first name to her nickname when she changed her last name. You could change your first name to your nick, change your middle name to your old first name, and then use your husband's last name. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/02/17 01:28 PM |
| 11 | Should Couples in Unhappy Marriages Stay Together?So, basically they are saying that if you are bored with your life you should destroy your marriage/family. Well, destruction is generally not boring! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 06:48 PM |
| – | Excellent Boy BooksSince my MIL died, my husband has been bringing home some of the books that he read as a child. I've been reading them and I'm amazed at how grown up they are. I have also read the Harry Potter books and am amazed at how childish they are in comparison; they have really dumbed down reading material for kids. Most of the books we got were from "World Junior Library" and were sci-fi from the 1950s from Malcomb Jameson, who was a writer for The Twilight Zone. He has a series about a man named Bulla… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Seven Reasons I’m Sleeping With Your Husband [A Cautionary Tale]Ah gotcha :) | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 06:03 PM |
| – | Seven Reasons I’m Sleeping With Your Husband [A Cautionary Tale]It's just strange that you are calling her a cum dumpster - she didn't break any promises or vows. Why is she the one reviled if a taken man seeks her out? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 05:47 PM |
| – | Seven Reasons I’m Sleeping With Your Husband [A Cautionary Tale]If you read the last line, it's all for effect: shock value. She isn't blowing anyone's man. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 05:32 PM |
| – | I’m 49% Mother and 51% Wife - And it Has to be That Way by Ashleigh SlaterPlus the fact that kids usually leave home at 18yo; if you don't keep your marriage in good shape, what will you be left with when your nest empties? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 01:51 PM |
| – | [Repost?] Why the Patriarchy is NeededOh yeah, this was a great post; it should be rolled out occasionally! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 12:42 PM |
| 14 | Seven Reasons I’m Sleeping With Your Husband [A Cautionary Tale]How exactly does a wife who is also required to be the best mother she can treat her husband as second class citizen? The same way you did; by instigating a dead bedroom and badmouthing your man all over reddit. Yes, I know you are the German Asatru woman who has 30 different alts. You are easy to spot, and changing your user name doesn't fool anyone :) | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 12:36 PM |
| 16 | Seven Reasons I’m Sleeping With Your Husband [A Cautionary Tale]Kids aren't going to notice if they are third fiddle, and besides, they need to learn that there's hierarchy in the world. Helicoptering and putting the kid first turns out special little snowflakes that require the world to coddle them or they will scream "trigger warning!" at every little slight. It is much more important to a child's well being to have parents in a loving relationship where the parents put themselves first. Remember instructions for oxygen for an airplane emergency: put the m… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 12:30 PM |
| – | Seven Reasons I’m Sleeping With Your Husband [A Cautionary Tale]Yes of course it's cringey to us because it's preaching to the choir. All you really have to do is read /r/DeadBedrooms for an hour or so to see why some people need to be dreaded a little. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Kelleyanne Conway: "I look at myself as a product of my choices, not a victim of my circumstances."Oh yay! I saw this right before I left work and thought about posting it, but I didn't have time. It is difficult to reconcile your enjoyment of the first wave of women's rights, your realization that the second wave was very destructive to society, and the insanity of the 3rd/4th? waves. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 03:43 AM |
| 6 | Seven Reasons I’m Sleeping With Your Husband [A Cautionary Tale]Absolutely. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 03:33 AM |
| – | The Sexist BillboardThen I remembered that protests are just a big loud party where everyone can meet up with their friends and compare Pussy Hats. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 06:08 PM |
| – | The Sexist BillboardPeople have way too much time on their hands these days! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 06:05 PM |
| 2 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyWow, that escalated quickly! I hope no one ever counters her IRL :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:55 PM |
| 2 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyYes. She subscribes to the NAXALT Fallacy. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyIt still feels weird, not doing anything, but I get this feeling of inner tranquility that I never have otherwise. Yes! This! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 04:35 PM |
| – | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyLOL, I wouldn't have used the word "offend" earlier except that it was in the quote, but with this reply I definitely would! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 03:07 PM |
| – | How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine EnergyYou sound like an H woman who is taking offense at a message for L women. Camille is probably correct on this point; I'm H, have a great career (Accountant) where I'm in charge and have to make financial decisions for a very busy company, and I am completely grossed out by Renee's website, LOL! Everything she writes rubs me the wrong way, and she uses 3000 words to say something that I could say in 3 sentences. I am not submissive in the least, and frankly my husband would be horrified if I sudd… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 12:10 PM |
| – | Captain doesn't like it when I make him breakfast / pack his lunches every dayHe always eats out and then complains about the amount of money he spends on fast food. He didn't want a solution; he was just venting about the cost of fast food :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 11:50 AM |
| – | an engagement, and the biggest thank youThis is so great! Congratulations! And I loved your field report; it makes me feel all fuzzy inside :D | /r/RedPillWives | 21/02/17 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Proven: High heels DO have power over men/u/irisandoleander suggests wearing them while vacuuming :D | /r/RedPillWives | 20/02/17 07:11 PM |
| – | Proven: High heels DO have power over menAh snark; how original. (meet sarcasm LOL!) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/02/17 06:09 PM |
| 2 | ExcludedYeah, he really believes all the BS that feminists spout, and particularly believes that before 1960 all women were treated like property/slaves and they were beaten and abused. Like, before no fault divorce there was no such thing as men loving and cherishing their wives. I don't get it, LOL! He thinks that by loudly proclaiming equality, he is the only man who truly loves his wife, and any man who wants to lead his family is only looking for a servant who will do his bidding. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/02/17 12:51 PM |
| 8 | ExcludedDid he just dismiss your explanation of something you actively participate in and offer his unneeded explanation as more correct? Yes. He was attempting to claim superiority for saying that his relationship was equal by demonizing everyone RP, because if you aren't your wife's bitch, then you are obviously an evil monster 👹 | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 07:51 PM |
| – | ExcludedI wander over to other subs occasionally, and I've found that since BP people don't like the idea of RP, they really like to frame RP people as monsters. This is a good example of what I mean. He could not fathom that a woman would choose to follow a strong leader, and he kept insisting that I was "second", LOL! All of his comments on that post were trying to force RP to admit that they abused their "power" because he truly believes that if a man leads his marriage, that man will start beating h… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 05:34 PM |
| 5 | What's your "finding RPW" story?In the early days it was a small tight group of thinkers hashing out the basic concepts and tenets; all the bloggers commented on each others sites, etc. I caught the last part of that just lurking and commenting (not as Tempest but in my former persona). The original manosphere people weren't doing this for money; they had other jobs and then blogged as a hobby. I believe that RP changed when it got more popular, after all of the heavy thinking was over. People moved in and decided to try to ma… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 05:16 PM |
| – | What's your "finding RPW" story?I quit blogging because I ran out of things to write about. Once I internalized RP I no longer felt the need and my writing impulses were satisfied by commenting and posting on reddit. We quit meeting up because most of the older manosphere people quit blogging (probably same reasons as me) and dropped off the scene, and the manosphere changed so much: less wisdom and more clickbait now. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - February 17, 2017Fried Okra! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 04:50 PM |
| 6 | What's your "finding RPW" story?OMG a blast from the past! I love it when I read old posts and I'm giving good advice in the comments 😏 | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 04:39 PM |
| – | What's your "finding RPW" story?I had an active internet presence before this one and was active and known on more liberal sites as well as having a popular blog for quite a few years. One day I stumbled across Roissy's The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon and immediately started making fun of it (this was before Chateau Heartiste started, but the other blog is long gone). After that it was a trip down the rabbit hole, and soon after, everything started sinking in and one day I had my "AHA!" moment when I recognized my actions in … | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 04:34 PM |
| 4 | Why I’m Against Female Conscription - Now With Iris's Commentary💜 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜 I love this whole post! 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜 | /r/RedPillWives | 17/02/17 02:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.He has mentioned me retiring a couple of times; a mention isn't him saying "Retire now". Even though he would prefer for me to retire, that doesn't mean that he has decided that the time is right for it. He's the project manager of our retirement, so he will know when the time is right and when we have all our retirement goals met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/17 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?LOL, that's hilarious :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 09:55 PM |
| – | Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?LOL, there might be a bit of bias there 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 09:26 PM |
| – | Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?They are both wearing the same jeans - Levi's relaxed fit from 1985. http://pixel.nymag.com/imgs/daily/intelligencer/2014/03/14/obama-jeans/14-obama-jeans-2009-4.nocrop.w536.h2147483647.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 09:01 PM |
| – | Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?I think that mom jeans make hips look bigger, so they make men look effeminate. Or something like that. 😃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 05:03 PM |
| – | Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?http://cdn.pophangover.com/wp-content/uploads/obama-mom-jeans.jpg https://floresblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/rom-jeans486.jpg?w=700 :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 04:46 PM |
| – | Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?What is the most unattractive thing that men can do Beg. wear Mom jeans. look like Weak. or even act Pouty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 01:51 PM |
| – | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.Fuck yeah! I mean, I love my job, and it pays a shit-ton, but we are almost retirement age, and we have a lot of plans for the future. Me retiring would let us put those plans into motion earlier, and he has mentioned it a couple of times. But yes, I would love it if he put his foot down and "forced" me to retire :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 12:32 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.No, we think that we personally are happier that way. We don't care what "the world" does. We aren't recruiting; we are a group of like-minded women enjoying our own community. If another woman feels the same way we do, she is welcome to join, but we are not prescribing this for "the world". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 01:52 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.What would keep a woman in a marriage she didn't like? She is free to divorce; I don't believe there are any laws against that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 01:47 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.Women have always wielded "soft power", LOL! When a woman defers to a man she is giving him the power; who has the power now? It's not an inequality of power, it is two equal but different powers working together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 01:34 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.Who is secondary? He adores me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 01:07 AM |
| – | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.She does everything of her own volition. I don't know what sort of twisted idea of leadership you have in mind, but I can guarantee that none of the EC RPWis have whatever bastardization of C/FO you have in mind. We are all normal women who like our men to lead the family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 01:03 AM |
| – | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.Oh, she's not allowed to work? That's weird, most /r/RedPillWives have careers, and I imagine most of MRP's wives do too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 12:38 AM |
| – | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.So if she decides that she needs to move some money from the LOC to the checking account at work, it's really her husband's decision because he delegated her to work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 12:32 AM |
| – | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.he has all the power and makes all the decisions. It's rarely all or nothing; the wife makes all of the decisions for anything that is her responsibility. Usually if she has a job, she makes decisions for that, if she's responsible for the finances she makes most of the basic financial decisions, etc. Very rarely does she have to ask to buy something like shoes, but would ask before buying something that affects the rest of the family like a couch. She doesn't have to beg permission to make the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/17 12:22 AM |
| – | Looking for advice in making my life better and my relationship strongerThat's a lot to deal with! This might require more help than RPW can provide, but maybe some small steps toward fixing parts of your problems might help. Since you are already getting professional help we can give you other things to work on. I would suggest cleaning up your diet and going to the gym. Personally, I prefer a mostly Paleo diet because I do better on a low carb, high fat diet, but any sort of clean diet would work. Eating saturated fat and taking omega 3 supplements smooth my moods… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/02/17 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Lessons in Love from a Couple Who've Been Together for 60 YearsAwww, this was a sweet story! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/02/17 05:39 PM |
| 5 | I need some help motivating my husband.I think that you really need to reread this comment and dissect it. Remove any unnecessary words and turn it into a list. What are you really afraid of? How long will his savings last? Sometimes I worry that my nagging ways (which since I've found RPW a few months ago, I'm making progress) have put him into a depression. It could be that he has given up; a lot of times when a man has a woman that tries to be in control, they will sit back and let them control. It's easier and less of a hassle. T… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 09:40 PM |
| 9 | Checking Our Female Privilege!Does she have an issue with feminism? Yes, she is an anti-feminist. There's so much criticism of third wave liberal feminism; but I don't see much content or opinions on other streams of feminism. Are they "all the same" or is it specifically this liberal-feminism that most take issue with? Personally, I believe that second wave feminism was the most destructive wave; third wave just seems silly and full of hysteria, but second wave destroyed the family, IMO. The sexual revolution combined with … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:26 PM |
| – | I need some help motivating my husband.The idea that she would want kids from a man who isn't legally bound to her is baffling. Especially when having kids together legally binds them without the benefits of being married. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:15 PM |
| – | I need some help motivating my husband.You cannot change other people; you can only change yourself. You need to decide whether this is what you want for the rest of your life, because if you have kids with him, he will be in your life forever. And having kids with someone automatically puts "the state" into your relationship. (I cannot drive to get them myself) Why can't you drive? If there is a physical problem with driving, there's always Lyft or Uber. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:08 PM |
| – | Checking Our Female Privilege!LOL, I found the link over at TBP :D | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:00 PM |
| 1 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - February 11, 2017Walking to get coffee saw these all over a sidewalk in the town I'm in. Is this an attempt at swastikas? Do neo nazis not have google? The replies are hilarious :D | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Checking Our Female Privilege!It looks like Roaming Millennial has a lot of great videos! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 04:14 PM |
| – | I need some help motivating my husband.Hey you! You need to come visit us in the IRC again; we miss you :) | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 02:21 PM |
| – | Everything The Women's March Wants You To Believe About It Is A LieMy biggest problem with the Women's "March" is that they aren't doing anything to improve what they are complaining about; they are "marching" to try to get everyone else to do something. In my city, they don't even march; they stand outside and hold their signs for the TV cameras, but as soon as the cameras are gone, those signs are at the nearest bar where the women gather to drink. Standing around holding signs isn't action; it isn't actively doing something to make the world a better place. … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 01:33 PM |
| 2 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - February 11, 2017I'd say that it's definitely worth a try :D | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 03:39 PM |
| – | SHIT POST SATURDAY - February 11, 2017How to get things repaired around the house! The emotional child's guide to political discussion Taking a screenshot in 1983. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Sorry, But Low-Commitment Sex Doesn’t Promote Women’s DignityRed Pill is descriptive not prescriptive. It is mainly recognizing the difference between men and women and realizing that actions have consequences. RPWi is a sub based on sexual strategy for women in obtaining and maintaining a harmonious relationship. We split from TRP because they had perverted RP so much from the original manosphere writers that it was unrecognizable. TRP also decreed that we would have to include being sluts and plates in our sexual strategy because they think that the onl… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 01:56 PM |
| – | [Discussion] What are your personal opinions about abortion?I would rather pay for a woman's abortion than pay for her and her kids' lives through the many "safety nets" the government provides through our tax dollars. I don't really care what other people do as long as it doesn't affect me and mine. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 01:20 PM |
| – | Society is creating a new crop of alpha women who are unable to loveThat quote is absolutely correct; men will sacrifice their goals for their wife's goals in order to make her happy. This rarely works, and it often backfires and does not end up making the wife happy in the long run. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 05:38 PM |
| – | Advice needed: Female receptivity (sex life)Touch him without expecting it to lead to sex. Cuddle, snuggle, hug him, give him a long, slow kiss, and then don't initiate sex. Give him closeness and physical touch without any pressure. Sit close together and watch a movie without making a move on him. And, whatever you do, do not do all of this in hopes of having sex; remove sex from your mind, except if he initiates, and then only follow his initiation. Do not escalate. You need to get the mental closeness back; it sounds like you two are … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 02:53 PM |
| 4 | A Surefire Way to Motivate Yourself to Clean • No Place Like HomeOh man, I really need to have a party! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/17 02:02 PM |
| 8 | The Futility of Gender-Neutral ParentingYou didn't read the article did you? Your comment has nothing to do with this conversation. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/02/17 04:30 PM |
| – | Do you ladies have any ideas on how to pull of dresses/skirts in the winter without getting too cold?Try /r/FeminineNotFeminist :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/02/17 03:09 PM |
| – | The Futility of Gender-Neutral ParentingIn the face of scientific data, the gender-neutral movement nevertheless continues to gain momentum. Indeed, its adherents took heart in a study published last year in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, which touted the idea that the brains of women and men are identical. If so, that would offer support to the theory that gender is an artificially created, outdated concept. However, an immense body of neuroimaging research has shown brain differences between the sexes. Feelz ov… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/02/17 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4WOMEN: If coy games, flirting, and the expectation that every man wants sex were not part of your casual social interactions, how would you interact with men?No flirting? I don't do coy games, and every man wanting sex is a given, but no flirting? What a joyless robotic existence that would be. I'm never not flirting with every person I see :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/17 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Relationship Activism and Political Activism: Earning the Right To Speak Through Effective ActionAwww, thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 10:50 PM |
| – | Healthy Boundaries in RelationshipsI think Laura Doyle has some good ideas, but in my overall opinion she tends to take things too far, and this article falls into that category for me. Yes, I follow her on twitter, and whereas she has some good stuff, most of it is way too passive for me; I just really don't relate that much to her. To me it seems like taking yielding and deference to her extreme would be almost demeaning my husband, like he was too fragile to withstand the slightest ill wind. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 06:36 PM |
| 9 | Donald Trump White House Dress Code Policy? Female Staffers Must ‘Dress Like Women,’ President SaysI remember the outrage when Reagan announced a similar dress code! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Donald Trump White House Dress Code Policy? Female Staffers Must ‘Dress Like Women,’ President Says:D | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 05:56 PM |
| – | Donald Trump White House Dress Code Policy? Female Staffers Must ‘Dress Like Women,’ President SaysTrump doesn't want sloppy. There was a tweet a few days back with a picture of Trump in the Oval Office; it pointed out that there were no feet on the desk as has been done in the past and that everyone was wearing a jacket. They looked like they were getting down to serious business, and indeed they were! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 04:45 PM |
| – | Relationship Activism and Political Activism: Earning the Right To Speak Through Effective ActionI'm not very active or vocal, but I do live the way I'd like to see more people live. It's not a political thing, but I try to eat as close to the ground as possible to eat a little more like our ancestors did. It's not Paleo or any thing like that, but taking food back a few hundred years and avoiding anything highly processed or mass-produced. I'm also into gut flora and fermentation, which was a major way of preserving foods 120 years ago before canning and refrigeration became widely used. I… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 03:15 PM |
| – | Advice Needed: Should I go back to work, for what reasons, and how?I really think that if it is bothering you then you need to talk to him about it. Find a time when you two aren't doing anything, and start the conversation. He might have been tired or had a bad day, but you never know until you ask. I would definitely thank him for the generosity of having extra time to take care of everything at home. When starting the conversation, I would ask a simple question, and then STFU and listen to what he says. Don't speak until he is finished. Then you can ask abou… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 07:19 PM |
| – | Advice Needed: Should I go back to work, for what reasons, and how?I would ask him about it. Maybe something simple like, "Would you be happier if I went back to work?" If you aren't already on a career path, there are a lot of jobs that could be part time or not terribly strenuous, and some of them can be a lot of fun. I used to volunteer at a museum, and the girls in the gift shop always seemed to be having a great time :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Ann Widdecombe Calls Women's March 'Pathetic'There have been protests here pretty much daily, and at any one of them, 3/4ths of the protesters have been in the bar across the street drinking instead of outside protesting. It's just a huge party consisting of single older women wearing pussy hats. They did have one march where they marched the two blocks to city hall, which was closed because it was a weekend evening. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/17 06:03 PM |
| – | Is it better for men to find a girlfriend after they've established themselves or whilst they're still a working progress?Oh, looky there, you once again edited your comment after I replied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/17 07:12 PM |
| – | Is it better for men to find a girlfriend after they've established themselves or whilst they're still a working progress?Well goody gumdrops for them! You want soooooooooo badly for me to advocate sex with kiddies or whatever your agenda, but I'm not taking the bait. Have a great day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/17 07:09 PM |
| – | Is it better for men to find a girlfriend after they've established themselves or whilst they're still a working progress?Are you going to edit this comment after I reply, also? I still believe that kids would be better off dating through high school and college than waiting until their late 20s to consider it. Notice that in my first comment I only mentioned HS and college, saying nothing about 7yos (from your heavily edited comment) or 12yos or whatever. I personally don't know any kids that hit puberty earlier than 14-15yo, and didn't realize that some young children were now fully physically mature at 7yo. I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/17 07:02 PM |
| – | Is it better for men to find a girlfriend after they've established themselves or whilst they're still a working progress?I finished puberty at age 7. Dang, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/17 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Overwhelmed by FT work and houseworkI would NOT be able to handle being "RP" while working full-time. Being RP really has nothing to do with cleaning house and being the perfect woman. It is only noticing the differences between men and women and realizing that there are consequences to actions. The only things we suggest for married women here are: look good, don't be a bitch, keep his belly full and his balls empty. That is it, and those are only suggestions. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 06:01 PM |
| – | How can an involuntarily celibate male like myself find love?Oh Sweetie, no. No, no. no. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?No personal attacks. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it better for men to find a girlfriend after they've established themselves or whilst they're still a working progress?Oh please: There is no reason for men to date women Maybe their reasons are sex, marriage, kids, etc. Saying "there is no reason" is silly because plenty of people have plenty of reasons to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/17 02:13 PM |
| – | Is it better for men to find a girlfriend after they've established themselves or whilst they're still a working progress?Perhaps that is why there are so many whiny incels running around these days, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/17 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Maria von Trapp (Character), An RP Woman?I met Maria in the early 1970s, and she was a lovely woman. I was pretty surprised when she didn't look anything like Julie Andrews, but I was pretty young, LOL! I've always loved that movie, and I thought it was one of the greatest love stories. Though she does stand up to him when needed for everyone's wellbeing. Men really don't want a shrinking violet; they want a woman with her own mind who also defers and shows him respect. Deference means nothing coming from a doormat with no backbone. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 01:24 AM |
| – | Is it better for men to find a girlfriend after they've established themselves or whilst they're still a working progress?Do kids not date/have boyfriends/girlfriends in high school anymore? College? Is everyone these days an isolated recluse trying to decide when to start dating? Puberty. Start dating at puberty, keep dating through college, and when you are serious about getting a wife, use your experience with women to get a proper wife. How do people not know these things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/17 01:11 AM |
| – | Overwhelmed by FT work and houseworkWhen both people in a relationship work, there isn't always time to do everything that you want to do. Your best bet would be to prioritize what is most important to the both of you and ditch whatever isn't that important. It just still feels like there's not enough time on the day to do all this and do it well by the time I get home. Like my boss told me when I was really behind on work, "Quit trying to do everything perfectly; just get it done the quickest way possible." I thought that if ever… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 09:25 PM |
| – | There Really Is A Dating Site For Everyone (For us it would be #1)LOL, when we were in Colorado, we saw a lot of commercials for FarmersOnly. There used to be an old saying that went something like: "Don't marry the man, marry the lifestyle", so I guess that it makes sense to look for a man where you want to live. We had just driven through hours and hours of fields of crops, so the thought of being a farmer was not very appealing! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/17 12:35 PM |
| 7 | Decided between career and relationship at 22Everything you have said about him here indicates that he is just fine, but there is no indication that you are in love with him at all. You sound incredibly "meh" about him. Read your post again. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/17 01:38 PM |
| – | Decided between career and relationship at 22You don't sound very excited about being in a relationship with him; it sounds like he is just the best man you have met so far. If you aren't absolutely crazy about him, then break up with him now, and don't string him along with a LDR; make a clean break. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/17 01:36 PM |
| – | Decided between career and relationship at 22I will be honest, I am still not sure if he is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. I Get out now and let him find a woman that wants to be with him. If you aren't madly in love with him now, then this will only get worse until you full on resent him. Do NOT ask a man that you are "meh" about to change his life and follow you; you will ruin his life and then dump him as soon as you meet someone else. If you are not 100% sure that he is the man you want to spend your life with, le… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/17 01:25 PM |
| – | Decided between career and relationship at 22It's important that your significant other put you and your wishes first, reasonably, above anything else. By this, do you mean that her boyfriend should drop all of his dreams to make her dream come true? Do you think that women should always come first in the relationship? She isn't even that jazzed about him, so as a place-holder boyfriend, should he still put her first? | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/17 01:19 PM |
| – | New evidence that humans choose their partners through assortative matingLOL! People were more civilized in the early 80s, so whereas hypergamy was still a thing, it wasn't as pronounced as it is now. Plus, we were both super hot when we met :) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/17 12:04 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as perfect [REPOST]Yes! Exactly :D | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 10:25 PM |
| – | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismThe post is mainly about very young children transitioning, and the proliferation of them in very recent years. I do believe that attention is a major factor in a 5-8yo trans and their parent's decision to go through with their transition. As far as older people transitioning, I have no problem with that at all, and I feel for them if they do have to hide and suppress their feelings. That would be a terrible thing to go through. Then why do follow-ups after a decade of transition not indicate re… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 10:17 PM |
| – | New evidence that humans choose their partners through assortative matingThere is something very comforting about marrying a man very similar to yourself. My husband and I are from the same background, are the same age, grew up a mile apart, went to the same college with the same major, we are both tall, and of similar attractiveness. We have the same memories of childhood although we didn't know each other as children. We have the same values and the same outlook on life. I'm certain that opposites can attract, but it is nice to fit together so well as very like ind… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 10:05 PM |
| – | There is no such thing as perfect [REPOST]I think it is a very womanly trait to learn to be flexible and go with the flow. I agree with this, but this is not what we are seeing happen here. What I see happening is that the younger, single RPW are actually getting more rigid and less likely to go with the flow. In some instances, I have even seen shaming tactics used on other RPW for unpopular opinions and for not agreeing with that particular RPW's idea of how relationships "should" be. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 09:10 PM |
| – | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismI think the kids get so much attention from saying they want to be the opposite sex that they keep the attention spout flowing by going along with whatever their parents decide to do. The girl/boy that says she/he wants to be a boy/girl, and doesn't get attention when she does so, will be a lot less likely to transition. It is a result of feminist mothers pushing their children to be different/unique, or some sort of weird Munchausen-by-proxy syndrome. The mother/parents also get a lot of attent… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 09:05 PM |
| – | Your Husband Is Not A Mind-Reader {Iris&Oleander}LOL, I'm so bad about this sort of thing! Part of it is that I want him to do what he likes and be happy, and part of it is that i don't want to force him to do what I want when he wants to do something else. I know that he will drop what he wants, to do what I want, because like me, he wants me to be happy and do what I want to do. When I feel strongly about something, I will say something, but I chill on the smaller stuff :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 07:25 PM |
| – | There is no such thing as perfect [REPOST]THANK YOU! I was thinking about this post this morning after a few too many posts either asking about a very insignificant perfectionism or the latest posts asking about marriage vs. dating. The OP of the marriage vs. dating post seemed to want a hard core timeline such as: date 2 kiss, month 3 exclusive, year 2.5 proposal, etc. so she could mark the dates in her day planner and check off relationship goals. I think a lot of the "perfect in every perfect little way" attitude that a lot of the wo… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 04:06 PM |
| 3 | LURKERS and NEW WOMEN Come say Hi - January 18, 2017Welcome! I hope to see you comment around the sub, and remember, we are here if you have any questions :) | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 07:04 PM |
| – | Bucket ListsYes, we are both pilots! A little old Cessna 172 costs about the same amount as a car, so it isn't as expensive as people might think. We have enjoyed flying around to other small airports for their special events and fly-ins, and a lot of tiny airports even have restaurants on the field. It's really a fun hobby and a great community of people! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 09:18 PM |
| – | Bucket ListsI'm old, and I've done everything, so here is my bucket list for 60yo and slowing down :) sell our large hangar at the large airport and buy a smaller one at a smaller airport buy a nice little straight-tail Cessna 172 buy a small house downtown in a small town in Colorado fly to and from CO to summer there after I retire Other than that, I will continue on as I have, but I will probably start transitioning towards working less and working on potential extra-income crafts like metalsmithing. Rig… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 07:55 PM |
| – | Bucket ListsYou could always do a "To do before 35" bucket list! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 07:38 PM |
| 2 | [Singing to the Choir!]Stop Taking Pride In Not Knowing How To Do Basic ShitWhere I live, thieves have taken 29 miles of copper wire from the street lights since July 2016, leaving our highways dark. I'm certain the money they got for it was not spent on bread and milk! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:23 PM |
| 5 | [Singing to the Choir!]Stop Taking Pride In Not Knowing How To Do Basic ShitI realize that you lovely ladies don't do this sort of thing, but I thought this was a good reminder! (H/T @IrisAndOleander and @whistling_dixie) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.Yep, and her dad is winning so far. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 07:52 PM |
| – | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.I do think that it is important for her to watch her dad closely in the future though, just in case this wasn't an innocent misunderstanding. In-laws are likely one of the leading causes of strife in a marriage. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 07:37 PM |
| – | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.I think the OP gave her dad the excuse about babysitting because she mentioned it here before she emailed her dad for clarification. Hopefully everything was as innocent as you seem to think it was, and the OP just has horrendous reading skills, and her dad has terrible problems with making himself understood, but basically the OP has already poisoned the well. She has already caused the drama and strife. To laugh it off now would only make her husband more upset. since now we know it was about … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.You need to tread very carefully when discussing this with your husband because now that you have him all riled up, and you have already proven that he is less important to you than your parents are, if you defend your dad to your husband, you will be effectively taking sides with your dad AGAINST your husband. You have already blown this whole thing out of proportion, and you had already decided to go somewhere your husband was uninvited to (as the situation was at the time), so now don't put y… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 07:06 PM |
| – | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.Now DH is upset and this reminds him of other times my dad has made executive decisions like this. (emphasis mine) It sounds like this isn't the first time. It also sounds like the OP created a huge drama out of thin air instead of clarifying her dad's intentions. The OP is putting her parents before her own family by deciding, no matter what, she would be attending a dinner that her husband was uninvited to. This isn't an innocent misunderstanding; it happened over 4 emails from her dad! It all… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 06:53 PM |
| 7 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.If my dad did such a thing, I would not go. I would call him back and tell him exactly why I am not attending. The problem here is that, since your husband now knows what your dad thinks of him, all family functions will be tainted by your dad's actions. I think it would be a very bad idea to attend even if your dad backed down and invited DH because of the potential drama. You will probably need a good long cooling off period away from your dad, at any rate. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 03:03 PM |
| 12 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.If my husband isn't invited, and it's not an "all girls" event, then I don't go. My husband comes first, and my family comes second to him. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 02:36 PM |
| – | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – January 09, 2017Bell's Palsy has caused some severe weakness to the left side of my face Oh man, that sucks :( Two of my siblings get Bell's Palsy, and it looks like it would be very difficult to deal with. I hope everything gets better from here on out! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 12:07 PM |
| – | Camille Paglia: How to Age Disgracefully in HollywoodMan, I just found this in my twitter feed and was about to post it :) Great minds... | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 04:28 PM |
| – | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017Also is it normal to not be really excited about the guy all the time when you're first getting to know each other? If you aren't wildly excited in the honeymoon phase, then you will only get less excited as time goes on. I have a feeling that you are a bit of an alpha-widow though; wasn't there a man who was playing with your emotions a while back? If I'm not mistaken, you were in turmoil over him; this may be why you are finding it difficult to bond with this guy. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Do You Live In A Bubble Quiz?I got 38. I'm not sure where I fit exactly, but I'd say that I'm second generation right between MC and UMC "who has made a point of getting out a lot." Hahahaha! It's difficult to know the difference between MC and UMC in a small city because we don't have the Upper, Upper Class like in the really large cities, and we don't really have the lower class like them either: our ghetto is adorable :D | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 06:19 PM |
| – | Hipsters Broke My Gaydarhttps://twitter.com/TempestTcup/status/685593722994561025?lang=en | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 09:14 PM |
| 7 | What does submission mean to you?Awwww, thanks! I stole it directly from /r/The_Donald :D Thank you, /r/The_Donald !!! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 09:06 PM |
| – | How many of you actually deal with any gender/pill stuff IRL? Feminist sightings? PUA/MRA sightings?I hang out in bars a lot, so I see PUA and sluts; there are also quite a few feminists of all genders, and lots of people who say "literally Hitler". Outside of the bars though I never see any of that sort of stuff. Tl;dr: alcohol in public = pill-o-sphere :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 03:44 PM |
| – | Dumb-Ass Stuff We Need To Stop Saying To DadsWell, it is HuffPo, LOL! I think one of the problems, and why fathers are mocked as being incompetent, is because the mothers sort of hog the baby, and they want the fathers to do everything like they would. The mothers don't let the fathers try things their own way; they micromanage the way the father interact with the babies, so the father doesn't have a chance to figure out the way he would do it best. A few times of being told how to do things makes the interaction less pleasant, and makes t… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Unexpected ResultsWe mean one thing and people hear something completely different because of how we each understand a word or a concept. Yes! This has been a problem from the beginning! Also, people keep forgetting that other people have different preferences and that we aren't all homogeneous and equal in our wants or needs. People can't believe that their preferences aren't everyone's preferences, which is why we have to keep reminding everyone that there isn't a relationship specifically designated for RPW, t… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 05:56 PM |
| – | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – January 02, 2017My excuse right now is that my husband is asleep, and I'm trying to let him get as much rest as possible since he drove 11 hours yesterday on only 5 hours of sleep! But really, he probably wouldn't notice if i ran a couple of loads of laundry. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 05:45 PM |
| 1 | New Years Eve(ish) MegaThread!!!But. I DO have a resolution: to stop nagging (or, as I call it, "pointing out important information"). But, but, but, I'm HELPING!!! I am the worst about this, hahaha! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 04:59 PM |
| – | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – January 02, 2017I mean, fuck me for not wanting to die in a terrorist attack, right? I guess you are supposed to happily martyr yourself for the cause! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 04:41 PM |
| – | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – January 02, 2017Good: Just got back from an awesome vacation last night, and still have all day today off to get ready for work tomorrow. I'm ready to kick some ass at work this week! Bad: I probably won't have as much time on the IRC during working hours because it's year end and my busy time of the year :( Also, our suitcases are still all packed and strewn around the floor, LOL! Ugly: Got nothing for you; it's all good here! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 04:38 PM |
| – | Unexpected ResultsSame thing concerning what dominance level women find attractive and need. Men also have a dominance level they find attractive and need :) My husband would not like it at all if I became a shrinking violet; he likes the occasional push-back and the challenge I give him. I know that RPW frequently say that men do not like being challenged by their woman, but I think that is mostly when the woman challenges in a negative or bitchy way. I challenge him to be a better man, to keep fit, to push his … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Hygge Helps Explain Millennials' Longing For ReenchantmentI've been thinking that very often the way millennials try to recreate their childhood looks immature and ridiculous because it's done alone, and not with their own children to relive them with. In this sense it's not childhood nostalgia that is misplaced, but that the children timeline doesn't come soon enough. Oooooo! Good point! That makes so much sense! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 03:18 PM |
| 4 | End Of The Year LetterThanks everyone for making 2016 a great year at RPW! We have a lot of things in store for 2017 that I'm really excited about, so please check in for new events! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/12/16 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Anti-feminist/liberal book suggestions?A twitter follower suggests: Perhaps you might like "Domestic Tranquility: A Brief Against Feminism" by F. Carolyn Graglia. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/12/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 23, 2016She does have some cute boots! I've looked at the reviews for all the ones I like, and they are mostly positive with weak jokes at the end LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'This is really a powerful story; I'm so glad you two figured everything out, and that you are doing much better now! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'a lot of people in my generation at least (especially high-achieving children) are raised with that bar of "gonna do something great". Yes, even in the 70s we were told that there was nothing we couldn't do and that we should all strive for greatness. We can all be the President of the United States, each and every one of us! Every art student was going to be forever famous, and every med student was going to cure cancer. Parents put all of their girls on the pill in the 70s so their girls would… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'Oh good, someone condensed the seven part article; I made it through about part three, and thought it was all very interesting, but ran out of reading time. So often you read about people's plans for their future, but it is rare to read about how their plans worked out, especially a group of women that were high achievers in HS and college. It's funny when I read about people "wasting their potential" because really, very few people are going to change the world. Very few people are going to be … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 12:10 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DIt's great to have you here! If you ever have any spare time, come to the IRC and either join a conversation or start one. There's usually someone there :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:47 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DAh, I saw you on the IRC, but you were idle. Come try it again sometime; we always like new people! pretty sure I made a giant fool of myself because I didn't know what I was doing lol sorry about that :/ Practice makes perfect! Sometimes we can get a little aggressive in our questioning, and sometimes the conversation goes really fast, and it's hard to get a word in edgewise :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:39 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DWelcome! It's nice to meet you! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Women Depressed?I think that the "cocooning" phase we are in as a culture has also lead to the rise in depression. That article is interesting in that it roughly follows the observations made in Strauss and Howe's Generational Theory. I have read extensively about their theory, and The Forth Turning, and I believe that we are in the climax year of the current crisis or fourth turning. During more outgoing times like the Romantic-Gothic period before the Victorians, the Jazz Age before the mid-century, and the N… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/16 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Weight concernsI would also appreciate, and most would agree with me here, a kinder and more empathetic approach. Ah, tone policing. "Be nice to me and pat me on the head while telling me the hard truths!" | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Weight concernsYeah, sweet-talking women into not being shrews never works. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 03:14 PM |
| 6 | No one likes a shitty cupcakeLOL! At least a Shit-Filled Twinkie hides the shitty filling :D | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DIt's super easy! Go to the link in the post or on the sidebar under "places of interest". You will need to put in a name - we suggest using your reddit name so we know who you are. The link where you sign up mentions money, but ignore that. The link will take you to #redpillwomen IRC and all you have to do is start or join a conversation! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/16 12:36 PM |
| 6 | How to Be a Ladyperson at the Holidays: 10 Important TipsWe used to say "It barely covers the fringe on her centerpiece", but of course no one seems to have fringe anymore, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 07:35 PM |
| 3 | How to Be a Ladyperson at the Holidays: 10 Important TipsWhen you ignore the rules, you get what you want. Take only desserts from the buffet of life, girl. Leave the vegetables to the losers. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 05:05 PM |
| 3 | How to Be a Ladyperson at the Holidays: 10 Important TipsI bet they are really just on top of a mountain, up in the clouds :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 04:48 PM |
| 3 | How to Be a Ladyperson at the Holidays: 10 Important TipsIt’s cute because the cats are babies, but it’s sad because if they’re in the clouds, I guess they’re dead? So, dead baby cats. But lots of diamonds. The point is, ladies, if you’re a majestic angel-kitten, heavenly trinkets are yours for the stalking. So be a wild, sexy, dead, luxurious cat-baby. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 04:45 PM |
| 3 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DMilestones are always so exciting! If anyone wants to come by the IRC and chat during the weekday, I'm usually there! Come keep me company! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?This sub is based on Red Pill tenets describing the differences between men and women, and their different sexual strategies, that were laid out by the original group of bloggers later referred to as The Manosphere. The Manosphere predates TRP and all of the various pill subs by quite a few years. A lot of the pill subs take RP tenets to an extreme, apply morals to them, and get all frothy at the mouth about them. We really have no control over what other pill subs do with the information that R… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 12:19 PM |
| 4 | [AskRPW] First time poster - Two years single, how do I start dating again?In the meantime, would you suggest going out more and meeting more people? Not in sense of looking for a boyfriend or hooking up, but simply to feel comfortable meeting new people and get better at flirting. I'd suggest getting a gym membership somewhere that has a lot of people your age and fitness level. This gets you out of your apartment, out of your comfort zone, and around people, while improving your fitness and social skills. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherLOL, if it's not then it should be :) | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherHahahaha! I'd do what you two are talking about and say, "Great Idea!" and then do whatever I wanted to do :) Always be agreeable but do what you want. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherWe need a support group for people raised by Catholic Realtors. OMG my mom was a realtor for a couple of decades, and we were Catholic, hahaha! Her favorite thing to say is, "What you really want to do is..." | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Why Acting At Home Like They Act In The Office Will Get Women DivorcedLOL! Yeah, it is difficult to STFU in situations like that, but if you let them put the bread under the milk in the bag, they will only do it once, most likely :) | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 03:47 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Yes! No-fap is full of recovering fappers, so to cite it as a place to find men who don't watch porn would be like sending a woman to AA to find a man that doesn't drink. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 10:05 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?You do realize of course that men admiring women's nude bodies is a thing that has been going on since the dawn of time, right? Shaming them is not going to stop that, and you being outraged at porn isn't going to stop porn. It's great that you are very strong in your opinions, but of course your opinions don't amount to a hill of beans outside of you and your relationship. RPW doesn't have a stance for or against porn, just as we don't really have a stance on anything else that applies to perso… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 09:33 PM |
| 13 | Female Sexual Strategy“Sexual strategy is amoral” is a common refrain across the manosphere, and for good reason. The seduction and relationship techniques that work are effective regardless of the religious, or ideological system you subscribe to. Male nature is observable and theories are developed based on these observations. A lot of people want to assign morality to RP concepts, and they want to confine RPW to a specific lifestyle. The truth of the matter is that it is only a system of alerting you to consequenc… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 09:15 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?You are assigning morality to Red Pill, which is amoral. It is cause and effect, actions and consequences, not should(s) and shouldn't(s). People make their own choices here, and those choices have different results. Red Pill is knowing the consequences to certain actions and making your own personal decisions based on those consequences. Red Pill is not a religious organization although some RPW are religious. For the religious, porn might be a deal-breaker, but for the non-religious it may not… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 07:56 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?refusing to exercise self-mastery over base desires Who says they are refusing? Perhaps they see no need to exercise mastery, and they prefer their base desires. Just because you personally don't like porn doesn't mean that all men should kowtow to your preferences. And the whole marriage argument, what if they have no desire to get married? And what if the women LIKE to be objectified? Not everyone is a religious fanatic, and not everyone has to fit into your little religious box. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 06:50 PM |
| 5 | How Do You Define Cheating?Did you even read my reply? You are shaming men for being men. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 06:41 PM |
| 6 | How Do You Define Cheating?For men, they could not find a large enough sample size to find a link, apparently because there's not enough men with the spine to stop using it. Ah, shaming men for not being your puritanical type. Why do they "not have a spine"? Perhaps they enjoy porn and don't see the need to adhere to your personal preferences. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Why Acting At Home Like They Act In The Office Will Get Women DivorcedAnd if they tried but couldn’t do it as well I could, I was disappointed. If he's folding the towels "wrong", leave him alone! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Why Acting At Home Like They Act In The Office Will Get Women DivorcedInstead of trying to be the office boss at home, I tried being more feminine at work, and it really made a huge difference in the way my coworkers responded to me. I think that women assume they have to be massive ball-busters to get the job done, but honey is definitely more effective than vinegar :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Present Ideas, Holiday cards and LettersWe always bought coneys for our dogs on their birthdays, LOL! Like a little cannibal birthday party: dogs eating dogs :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPYeah, I don't really know the science behind the articles, but I do know that a friend of mine was told that if her baby got beyond a certain size, she would be forced to have a caesarean. She was pretty determined to birth naturally, so this really worried her. I do agree that a lot of doctors perform caesareans for their own convenience instead of their patient's needs. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPThis is a really interesting subject! I think that, if sexbots become popular, it really could change things in a fundamental way. It's funny how a little change can have huge, lasting results. This morning I was reading my twitter feed and came across these three links that cover some of the changes that advanced technology and the breakdown of the nuclear family just in the past few decades have wrought: Are caesareans really making us evolve to have bigger babies? Caesarean births 'affecting … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 05:46 PM |
| 12 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"And of course, true to the popular trendy edginess of hipster irony, the SJW is playing a ukulele. These cookie-cutter snowflakes are all original and unique in exactly the same way. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Russian Dating School: A return to traditional gender rolesYes! Even in the late 70s in public schools there were different sorts of home-ec classes like sewing, cooking, and household finances; there were both sexes in some of these classes. There was also wood shop and auto shop. After school, at a really popular place, there were ballroom dancing and etiquette classes; everyone in HS went to these classes, even the hard-core stoners! I guess they exchanged those sorts of life skills classes for Sex-ed and Woman's Studies classes. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Woman Defends $130 Wedding Ring Set: 'You're Not Marrying Someone for a Ring'When a friend got married in the early 80s, her husband proposed with a beautiful ruby ring, and everyone had to talk about how it wasn't a traditional ring. She got pretty tired of that, too! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 12:15 PM |
| 8 | Woman Defends $130 Wedding Ring Set: 'You're Not Marrying Someone for a Ring'LOL! That's ridiculous! We went to a pawn shop on the way to Las Vegas :) | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 07:08 PM |
| 5 | IRC CHANNEL REMINDERCome join us! I'm on there right now :D Edited to say that it's free - they mention money, but ignore that! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/16 06:14 PM |
| 2 | It's all in the eyes: Women and men really do see things differentlyI was wondering that myself! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 02:32 PM |
| 10 | So my boss refered to me as his work wife...You need to have a discussion with your boss about boundaries. I've worked at a lot of tiny companies throughout the decades, and a lot of the owners do get more chummy than I am comfortable with. They do tend to treat their employees like family, and they feel responsible for them. It doesn't sound to me like he is hitting on you; it sounds like they are both over-enthusiastic and perhaps overcompensating. They might be trying way too hard to make you feel comfortable, and making you uncomforta… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 12:15 PM |
| 8 | How to make feminism great again by Christina Hoff Sommers (AKA Based Mom)Today’s feminism is not merely out of touch with everyday Americans; it’s out of touch with reality. To survive, it’s going to have to come back to planet Earth. AMEN! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 03:59 PM |
| 4 | [FR] It pays off to be a lady!Hahahaha :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 03:34 PM |
| 7 | [FR] It pays off to be a lady!Yes, RPW need to make sure they are not participating in Femininity Cosplay, and are embracing femininity in their personal interactions as well. Looking good is only one part of "Look good, don't be a bitch/nag, keep his belly full and his balls empty!" | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions - December 03, 2016I have curly (3a/b) hair and battle cowlicks constantly when i wake up in the morning; the only solution I have found with mine is to get them wet, comb them out, and apply a low warm blowdryer to them. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/16 01:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!I guess the biggest part of this post that I am having trouble with is the fact that you absolutely must go this month. As far as going after Christmas, does your husband not get vacation time? | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 04:03 PM |
| 3 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!This sounds like a huge shit-test. It sounds like you will not accept compromise. Why don't you take the kids with you? Can you drop them off at your parents for the duration of the visit? How about going after the holidays? Could you make it a family trip with your husband and kids after the holidays? There are a ton of options, but it sounds like you have one plan that you are insisting on; he, on the other hand, seems to be trying to think of alternate plans that might work. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Removed from RedPillWomen: Why I could never swallow the red pillWell bless your heart, isn't that special! Thank you so much for sharing that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | My name is Alex, pleased to meet you all!Oh good! I understand the desire to go all in and make your mark as quickly and thoroughly as possible, but it takes time to get to know people, so slow down, and enjoy the process :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:51 PM |
| 2 | My name is Alex, pleased to meet you all!I agree with everything /u/CoochQuarantine wrote here, but please think about this while you are participating in other threads on the sub. She is not saying to immediately go and make another post! She is giving you ideas for when you actually find something interesting to write about, in the future, after you have become an active part of the community for a few weeks. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:41 PM |
| 2 | My name is Alex, pleased to meet you all!Okay, here's the deal, no sub wants to be used for blog views. We are a very tight-knit community, and you come barrelling through it like a bull in a china shop, ignoring all of the people who have been RPW for years, and expecting to make a splash. Phantom wrote a bunch of long, detailed comments to you explaining this, and the ONLY thing you got from all of her words was the ONE thing that appealed to you - making a post all about yourself AGAIN. Third one. You are being opportunistic, and yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 08:04 PM |
| 2 | My name is Alex, pleased to meet you all!I believe that she was saying that you should put more of yourself into the low value posts you are making. Perhaps it would be best to lurk more and get used to how our sub works before making a fourth self-promoting post. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 07:47 PM |
| 3 | My name is Alex, pleased to meet you all!I think that the problem here is that you aren't joining the sub; you are wanting the sub to come to you. When joining an organization, you participate in the organization's activities, but you are not doing that. This is just another self promotion post. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Housewives! Any tips for younger, aspiring housewives?I will be removing any more low energy posts from you because, 1) We don't know you, 2) Those posts do not contribute anything to this sub, 3) You are only here to promote yourself and your blog. You don't read or comment on any posts except your own, and even your comments are low energy. Do you actually have anything to say? Also, it is really presumptuous to come here with this sort of post saying "Hey all! It's Alex again." when no one knows who the hell Alex is. Try coming up with something… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 12:33 PM |
| 3 | The rise of romance gaming: is the perfect boyfriend inside your phone?Everyone wants the perfect mate today, and humans aren't perfect. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 03:00 PM |
| 3 | The rise of romance gaming: is the perfect boyfriend inside your phone?I can absolutely see women buying the boyfriend experience in the US, too; the rise of the LDR, spurred on by online dating and meeting faraway men in online forums, is an indication of that. Women are content to be single and run their own lives how they see fit while having a platonic, virtual "boyfriend" to talk to every night and a vacation booty call every month or three. LDRs are popular because you only see the best of the other person: they are on their best behavior for the three days y… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 02:47 PM |
| 2 | The rise of romance gaming: is the perfect boyfriend inside your phone?The whole trend towards living most of your life online, including most of your social life, reminds me of The Naked Sun. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 02:31 PM |
| 2 | A week of Sex - resulted in a week of horror for meLOL, she went right back to her usual routine, and x-posted in /r/deadbedrooms. Why she is trolling those poor people, I have no clue! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 12:00 PM |
| 1 | A week of Sex - resulted in a week of horror for meHoly water is right out because, of course, they are heathens, LOL! This is the most dedicated troll I've ever experienced! I guess I'll add this alt to the ban list with her 13 other alts! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 11:55 AM |
| 2 | A week of Sex - resulted in a week of horror for meTrollololololololol. I see you have a new alt; how's that working out for you? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 11:48 AM |
| 3 | gifts for your manYeah, my husband and I quit doing presents for special occasions because we are constantly buying each other things on a day to day basis. Not big things, but little things we see that the other has mentioned, a really tasty-looking cookie, or a cool shirt they will love. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 04:50 PM |
| 3 | gifts for your manLOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 04:44 PM |
| 4 | gifts for your man:D | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 04:43 PM |
| 8 | gifts for your manIt's like you guys have never even read this sub, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 04:38 PM |
| 10 | gifts for your manThis is for a special occasion; why would we treat it as we do all of the other days of the year? All of the stuff you listed is already in action, and we are looking for ideas above and beyond those things :D | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Does your confidence level change and what do you do about it?I think women are just more interested in the finer details while men would rather look at the big picture and discuss from there. I think that you are correct. It goes along with the RP adage: Talk is a woman's frame and action is a man's. If I am relaying information to my husband, he likes it in one short sentence, and if I can get that done in two words, even better! With women, we can talk on and on and on about it and all be just fine with that, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - What's on your holiday wishlist??A friend of mine has a huge Jenga game made out of 2x4s; the dice made me think of it, hahahaha! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday - What's on your holiday wishlist??We don't do presents, but we are going to be taking a nice long vacation around Christmas and New Year's, so I think of that as an excellent present! Also, the Yard Dice are hilarious! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 01:59 PM |
| 3 | How can a wife be responsible for decision making while still giving her husband honor and respect?When I try to talk about it with my husband it never works out and always ends badly. I don't know how to communicate unhappy thoughts. I am really bad at it. It might come off as complaining or nagging instead of a serious talk about what is bothering you. Try writing out what you want to say and refining it to only the most important issues. Make it short and to the point and ask for his suggestions. Find a time when neither of you are doing other things, and you are both calm and reasonable. … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 12:41 PM |
| 5 | How can a wife be responsible for decision making while still giving her husband honor and respect?I am very practical and wise in financial matters and wish that I could make the financial decisions. But what do I even do? Do I just watch him make mistakes and do nothing? Or how do I get control of it without fighting him or undermining his authority? I suggest that you sweet talk him into letting you handle the finances; financial matters are much more important than all of the other things you mentioned, and they should be a priority. All of the other stuff you mentioned, except the basic … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Ivanka Trump: Loving Wife, Mother, and DaughterYAY! You found the new Pepe flair!!! I was so excited to see someone using it :) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 11:36 PM |
| 21 | How can a wife be responsible for decision making while still giving her husband honor and respect?what if one's husband has a life history of poor judgment and bad decision making? If a woman marries a man with a life history of poor judgment and bad decision making, then that shows poor judgment and bad decision making on the wife's part too. Chew on that one for a minute! So, since we have determined that both spouses have poor judgement and terrible decision making skills, the best thing to do is to figure out which spouse has which skills. The one more practical in money matters might wa… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 05:40 PM |
| 3 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?Yes, also Millennials were raised differently than the first wave Gen-X that had just graduated in the early 80s. We were latchkey kids, and Millennials were mostly helicopter parented. Gen-X had so much freedom, and Millennials weren't allowed to play outside because of stranger danger and sunburn. So, this swing to the right will look very different than the one I went through as a young adult. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 03:27 PM |
| 9 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?If you follow Strauss and Howe, I think that the Trump election is the climax of the Fourth Turning, and that, with this election, the pendulum has begun its swing to the right into a period of a new traditionalism. It reminds me very much of 1980's election, my first election as a voter, and the swing to the right we experienced with Reagan after the excesses of the 1970s. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 02:01 PM |
| 3 | The Lamentations of “Fun Single Girl” in the CityUgh, this troll really needs a life, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 06:06 PM |
| 4 | The Lamentations of “Fun Single Girl” in the CityWhat strikes me about this article is that there isn't a single jot of self reflection in it. Yes, this! It's all those cowardly men and their smothering mothers fault; not her fault, nope, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 04:42 PM |
| 3 | The Lamentations of “Fun Single Girl” in the CityHer comment makes absolutely no sense; you didn't mention femininity or the CC, so I'm not sure what she is arguing about here. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 04:35 PM |
| 3 | The Lamentations of “Fun Single Girl” in the CityRight up until she decides to be "fun" again and divorces him. Good plan! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 04:31 PM |
| 5 | The Lamentations of “Fun Single Girl” in the CityLOL!! "Oooo, I get to spend a lot of time and money on this woman! and in return I get... ???" | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!We had already bought a house together and were in the middle of starting a business together, and our attorney asked us why we didn't go ahead and get married. He said that we were already as good as married with all of our shared assets, but we didn't have the benefits of marriage. We hadn't really thought about it, and what he said made sense, so we hopped on a plane to Vegas and tied the knot. One thing that we hadn't expected was how much closer we felt after getting married, and how much f… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 02:49 PM |
| 6 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!We have been married for 20+ years and have been together 30+ years. I think that we do so well together because we are generally of one mind: we like the same things, we have the same goals, and we grew up the same way, at the same time, so we share the same values. I think that one of the most important things in a marriage is to present a united front and support each other; politeness also goes a long way towards a happy, drama-free marriage :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Advice please... I can't think of a solution.Like maybe you could try to be more touchy feely so that he doesn't feel neglected. I agree with this; if you are the one touching him a lot, then he won't feel so compelled to be the one doing all of the touching. It also works with texts: if he seems to be texting you too much, up your text game and he will reduce his. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!Police to be taught the mysteries of the menopause | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 12:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should have the right to "Legal Abortion" where they are signed off from all rights and responsibilities of their childThe smart ones are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/16 01:27 PM |
| 3 | How do I comfort my captain during a rough patch?Listen when he wants to talk, but if he doesn't want to talk, maybe distract him. Find things that you think might interest him, and mention them. Collect different stories or links or whatever; he might want to take his mind off of everything he is going through. They say the most effective vacations are where you are actively doing something you don't normally do, because it makes new pathways in your brain, yet it rests the pathways you use during a normal week. Be his vacation :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!You people are big meanies for wanting Hillary to be accountable for her actions! She already said that the lost deleted STOLEN BY THE RUSSIANS email thing was no big deal; why do people keep bringing it up? On another note, I heard last night that the emails were cached on Weiner's computer in a folder named "Life Insurance" hahahaha! Edited to link related article that is just as unbelievable. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 08:00 PM |
| 8 | Sushi disaster (a bit melodramatic, but whatever)I am at a loss on how to avoid this situation in the future Go at a less 'party' time; refuse to go on a Friday night, and go earlier in the evening. Don't sit at the bar; if you sit at a table for two you will be less likely to be bothered by guys wanting to pick women up. I shut them down quickly and would give short answers I told him firmly that I cannot accept his money and that he should take it back I put back on my cold/disinterested face and just sat there until waiting for our check. Y… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Just need to get something off my chest I guessOn your days off, while he's sleeping, maybe you can go run errands outside of your home. My husband and I have very different sleep hours, so after I'm done with my coffee weekend mornings I'll go to the farmer's market, check out some estate sales, grocery shop, go to the mall, and run any errands that might need to be run. It may not be what you want to do, but it gets you out and about, and you are active at least. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 01:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It's not gay if you're the one penetratingIt's not gay if you don't make eye contact :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/16 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Is my mindset too controlling here? Not sure I want to necessarily pick this battle but I thought I'd pick your brains to see if there is anything I can do other than bottling it upAh good, you figured out the answer all by yourself :D Just assume that when you hear that Ryan is coming into town that you have no permanent plans. If you plan on spending the rest of your life with your boyfriend, what is a holiday 'ruined for you' every once in a while? It's only ruined for you if you let it ruin your holiday. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/10/16 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadThat's awesome :D | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/16 10:05 AM |
| 13 | Talked to my friend about relationship issues and now she won't stop pestering meshe will talk to my husband about how I do everything for him and he doesn't do anything for me. You need to shut this down immediately. By talking about intimate details of your marriage, you effectively invited her into your relationship, and now she is making herself at home and wiping her muddy feet all over it. Next time she brings up your relationship, tell her that you appreciate the help, but you need to make you own decisions. Let her know that you do not want to discuss it any further.… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 05:10 PM |
| 4 | The Power of FemininityPerhaps anxiety of unknown is inherently feminine. It's worth thinking if feminine energy's risk aversion can cull some outlying masculine intensity like in this article and the study from above. This makes sense, and, in reverse, it explains what I have observed with women that I know raising fearful children. If the father is not in the child's life, the child's fear of risk doesn't get tempered by a masculine, risk-taking presence. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadOh, that's cool; how do you make it? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Weekly RPWi reflections: 10/24/16One year relationship - not married yet. Her many, many previous alts outline so many problems they have had for the year they have been together, including a dead bedroom for almost the entire relationship. They are both nuts, and the comments in her history are comically anti-RP in nature. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Seeking advice about how to change my reactions/mentality to better benefit my marriage (as is).Sometimes you have to take the reins. Yes, this is a sub for women who are married to good men, and just because he might have some difficulties, it doesn't mean he isn't a good man; it might mean that he isn't playing to his strong points. Here's the deal, if he isn't good with finances, and you think that he is endangering your financial future to the point of homelessness, then take them and do them yourself. Tell him that you have extra time, and think he would be better devoting himself to … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/16 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Congratulations! Great to have you aboard! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 11:58 PM |
| 2 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesHere's some of the early stuff I made :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 12:22 PM |
| 2 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesI'm into metalsmithing :) I make sterling jewelry using a torch to solder; it's really amazing and fun! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 02:21 PM |
| 5 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesI'm actually getting a little obsessive and weird and it's all I can think about so I have been reading. At least reading has been taking your time so that you have not been obsessing on him constantly :) I've been reading everything you written here and on one D/lg post linked, and I'd say your main problem is that all of your attention is focused on your man. He is responsible for your happiness. Even all this reading you are doing is in response to him. You really need to unleash your obsessi… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 01:21 PM |
| 3 | It feels impossible to NOT be swept up by my feelings.Usually we suggest using gratitude to combat those sort of feelings if they are persistent; think of all the wonderful things about him. For the short term flashes of emotion, I've found that stopping, taking a couple of deep breaths, and counting to 10 helps me not say something that I will regret. I was let down by my SO this afternoon Since you are dating, and dating is for vetting, you might want to examine this. Was it a big thing, or are you making a mountain out of a molehill? I don't kno… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Laundry QuestionI usually use Borax (20 mule team) in loads with items that might be stinky (towels, socks, underwear, etc.) and also in loads of my husband's work clothes; it really seems to work well with smell, general work stains, and dirt. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 11:06 AM |
| 2 | After DB he changedA friend of mine has a catering service where he exclusively works for pharma reps and caters high-end lunch to doctor's offices. So yes, incentives are still happening but probably on a smaller or sneakier scale. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 10:37 AM |
| 1 | After DB he changedLook /u/Freyaismygoddess, /u/Stockrose, /u/steigertochter1, /u/Babara123456789, /u/MinersSweetheart, /u/Steigertochter, quit posting here, and quit making new alts. We don't care about your fucked up problems with your fucked up husband; if you don't like him then leave him. You are not RPW, and you are probably a troll. Go away. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 04:19 PM |
| 12 | I need help talking to my cousin...First of all, there are no rules as to how our relationships are configured. Some RPW are SAHMs and some work. For instance, I'm an accountant, so she has that aspect of RPW wrong. We come from all walks of life and our relationship dynamics vary wildly. Secondly, unless she is actively asking you for advice, it really isn't your business, but since she calls "crying about once a week because she can't juggle working 60 hour weeks to pay the bills and keeping the house spotless", you should just… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/10/16 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Grooming Makes Little or no Difference to How Attractive You AreIt's easier to poo-poo other people's ideas and do nothing than it is to come up with your own ideas and follow through on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsThe thing is that men LIKE doing that sort of stuff, so by denying them that, you are removing a small pleasure. As long as you know the men and they seem trustworthy, I think it's fine to let them carry heavy stuff or allow them small gestures. Just thank them with a big smile, and they will have an extra bounce in their step for a while :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday!!Right, I've been reading about how dishes like Beef Wellington came from the same sort of thing; they used to wrap meat in dough and throw it in the fire to cook. It kept the meat moist, and then they would toss the crust. Before they had the means to use dough, they used clay for that purpose. I love reading about the history of making and eating food :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday!!Yeah I think they made it about five years or so, and now all of the buildings are gone. There was a Rainbow commune right outside of town when I was in college, and they had been there forever; last I've heard, it is still there. They would always come into town with a big truck during festivals to gather cans to recycle. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday!!Two things that caught my eye this week: Sushi was originally fish wrapped in fermented rice to preserve the fish; the rice was discarded as the fish was eaten. Drop City Colorado, a far out commune in the 60s. Artists bought the land and built a series of geodesic domes. The commune got its name from a particular form of art they invented called "drop art". “We had regular access to the roof of the building,” Richert explains. “We found all these rocks up there. We started painting the rocks. T… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:41 AM |
| 11 | What Makes A Woman Boring And How Not To Be BoringI saved the best one til last – a lack of passion. If you’re not passionate, you’re not alive. If you’re not alive, you’re not very engaging or energetic; you’re boring. Which means that less men will want to commit their life to you, and people will not find value in spending time with you. If you want your phone to be buzzing at least sometimes and if you want men to pursue you – get passionate. Like I have said a million times here: If you are bored, you are boring; if you have interests, you… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What's In Your Bag?!I carry a teeny Fossil purse, and very few items in it: Sunglasses, lipgloss, pocketknife, NAA .22 mag, keys, wallet, cigarillos, and a lighter. Edited to add my phone, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: The Female Dual Mating StrategyI was thinking about writing a post about this - it just really started jelling in my brain this morning, but I've been turning it over in my mind for weeks now. I think that in Camille's Relationship Dynamics post, 'excitement' can replace 'dominance' to a large extent. Women that have always sought excitement will find that they NEED excitement, and if that excitement isn't provided, they will find their own excitement. Good/positive excitement would be things like nice dates, surprises, vacat… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: The Female Dual Mating StrategyFrankly I never found "dread" to be exciting. It is a form of excitement that is negative, like a car wreck, LOL! It still gets your blood up and your heart pumping. I think that a lot of women start fights because they are bored and need excitement. Shit testing escalates into full blown fight, excitement ensues, then attraction follows, ending in makeup sex :) Basically, if the beta husband doesn't provide positive excitement, the wife will find her own excitement, and a lot of the excitement … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: The Female Dual Mating StrategyThis is an excellent post, and it touches on a lot of things that I have been mulling over lately after reading a lot of the recent posts and comments on PPD. To combine this post with my thoughts, the Alpha = sexual attraction/excitement, and Beta = social proof/comfort. I was thinking more along the excitement/comfort lines, but adding your sexual attraction/social proof to the mix really rounds everything out :) Women need excitement; they will seek it out, and they will accept it in many for… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 11:52 AM |
| 3 | What are women supposed to provide in a marriage? What are men supposed to provide in a marriage?Your list is awesome :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 12:48 AM |
| 12 | What are women supposed to provide in a marriage? What are men supposed to provide in a marriage?There isn't any 'supposed to provide' for any person/partner. There are good traits and bad traits, and we try to obtain and maintain good traits while minimizing bad ones. When seeking a partner, we try to find one with the best traits possible, and we vet for red flag bad traits. Each marriage is different, and the needs for each spouse vary. There is no 'supposed to provide' other than basic human decency and a desire to be together. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Supporting Your Husband's MissionAlso here is a pretty photo of a couple and fall colors so a picture will pop up with @redpillwives shares this post on twitter. LOL, I love this! Right now my husband has been on a mission to find a builder to build a house, that he has planned, on our extra lot. If we find a builder now, we can break ground in the Spring hopefully! I've supported him by listening to him plan things, but mostly I've supported him by not rushing in and taking over the project, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 11:50 AM |
| 7 | Stop Arguing With Your SOI'm glad that whoever made this emphasized that asking your SO to change a fundamental aspect of themselves is a red flag. This is what I came here to say! I liked how it was one of the first items, too. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 11:08 AM |
| 6 | Advice Request for religious ladies hereI need to make peace with the fact that BIL is not the guy I knew anymore. I think that he is just really gung-ho with his new religion and he will hopefully calm down a bit. In the meantime, you two might want to give him some space and avoid unnecessary contact with him. Let him find sins in all the other people he comes across for a while; eventually he will notice that everyone is avoiding him, and he will climb off of his high horse. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 11:22 AM |
| 3 | 5 Ways To Stop Being A Bitchy Wife - The Art of BetterYay! I was hoping you'd post this :) Hey everyone, don't forget to follow /u/Irisandoleander on twitter! A lot of RPW are on twitter, and there's even one for the RPW sub! If you have a twitter account, let us know and we will follow you too :D | /r/RedPillWives | 24/09/16 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Why I returned to work (the long version)<3 | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 03:45 AM |
| 7 | Why I returned to work (the long version)OMG, this made me all teary-eyed :) I love it; thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 02:39 AM |
| 2 | When your SO is being a jerk?My husband is very charming and funny, but he does get frustrated with slow moving objects, LOL! I smile, and sometimes I close my eyes when he drives, hahaha! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 02:33 AM |
| 3 | The Power of Nesting | Notes From a Red Pill GirlA good friend taught me a wonderful trick she used to get going — set the timer for 15 minutes per room, get as far as you can in 15 minutes, then either take a break, move on to another room, or spend another 15 minute burst in the same area. Somehow knowing I am only going to spend 15 minutes cleaning makes it seem less overwhelming and it is surprising just how far one can get in a 15 minute sprint. Before you know it, you’re done! We do this except we set the egg timer for 3 minutes - we cal… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 12:51 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men are entitled to sex from women.Oh yeah, the power of the mind! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 07:53 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Men are entitled to sex from women.How do you power the website? Like this? Because that's pretty impressive; your legs must be really toned! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Just spreading my wingsWhy aren't you meeting men while doing all of your outdoor activities? There are clubs for all of the hobbies you mentioned, and there should be plenty of men in those clubs. If you can share an interest, then you wouldn't have to carve out time for one or the other (the man or the hobby). | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: what do you find attractive about your significant other or your most recent one?Eh, I am INTJ and use emojis excessively; they reduce the edge on my cutting sarcasm :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Would you rather be hot and stupid or smart and unattractive?Absolutely! I would give almost anything to be blissfully ignorant for a few days, LOL! What an awesome vacation! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 02:48 AM |
| 6 | Would you rather be hot and stupid or smart and unattractive?twue love Holy cow, get it right; it's 'twue wuv'. Don't break character in the middle of a sentence :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 01:54 AM |
| 7 | Would you rather be hot and stupid or smart and unattractive?Interesting; I think i'd go for super hot and stupid. Ignorance is bliss, or so I've heard; I wouldn't know personally, hahaha :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 11:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: My 3 methods for equalizing the hookup culture and sex distribution without reducing female freedomAnd really, the incels only want the hottest women; they don't want the women that are their SMV equals. What about the poor ugly fat women who are also incels? But no the unfuckable men need to have access to the hottest women possible, and anything less than 11/10 is unacceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 11:07 PM |
| 5 | CMV: My 3 methods for equalizing the hookup culture and sex distribution without reducing female freedomIf your goal is to lower the standard of masculinity, then you need to also outlaw all of the flyover states full of good 'ole boys who do all sorts of masculine activities: hunting, hot rods, ranching, shooting, etc. Get rid of all masculine trades like electricians, plumbers, HVACs, construction, masonry, etc. Or do you think that only sorority girls should be shared? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 07:25 PM |
| 3 | How do you think freethenipple will impact women's ability to profit off of the male sex drive?I got a sudden, horrifying mental image of my neighbors as nudists. Yikes! They are scary enough when they are fully dressed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/16 11:15 AM |
| 5 | How do you think freethenipple will impact women's ability to profit off of the male sex drive?Yes, nudists are never the people you want to see nude! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/16 10:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If RP/traditional views aee true. Why do almost all girls fetishize/look at/rate guy's butts?In my experience, the better the shoulder to butt ratio, the rounder and firmer the butt is. Generally, when a person is in good shape, everything is in good shape. I don't think I've ever seen a great butt on a fat person, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/16 08:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If RP/traditional views aee true. Why do almost all girls fetishize/look at/rate guy's butts?I bet it is more the shoulder to butt ratio that catches women's attention than women fetishizing the butt itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/16 01:41 PM |
| 4 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.And that 1% of the time they pop up? It's usually because you're too tired, hungry, busy, etc to see the big thing. Ugh, that's me right now; I'm sick, and the whole world is crumbling around me, hahaha! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 01:15 PM |
| 4 | 12 Reasons Why Conservative Women Have The Best SexDang, this is a treasure trove of new post links! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.LOL! Can't wait for the long version! I was absolutely miserable until reality kicked me in the ass and I became grateful instead of disappointed. This is so important; it is so easy to focus on little things that are not going well and ignoring the big wonderful life backing you up. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 09:07 AM |
| 4 | My SO sees me as Bridezilla!It has to be someone entertaining themselves doing the long troll. Their 'broken English' is unconvincing and their capitalization of nouns does not jive with German (according to the German women on the IRC). All in all, it's a bored person who isn't very good at trolling; I give them a C-. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Is Yellow a female or a male color?So, you are laughing at your husband; how sweet. This whole post screams of ridiculing your husband and trying to prove him wrong. Why are you doing this? Why do you feel compelled to compete with him and belittle him? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy Heinyou are letting your relationship tarnish just so you can pretend to shine it later. Brilliant! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 02:36 PM |
| 9 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinThis sounds like a covert contract; you do things for a certain reaction instead of selflessly doing things to make other people's lives better. How about doing things because you love your husband? Why does doing nice things for him have to be a special treat? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 02:34 PM |
| 9 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinI am not that strange women that quit here. Then you are a clone; you two write the same way, bitch about the same things, and have the same attitude. I will keep my thoughts to myself then. How about keeping your negative thoughts to yourself, or better yet, quit having negative thoughts completely. When you aren't being negative, bitching about everyone and everything, you actually have some good comments. Before posting a comment, read it over and remove the bitchy parts. Most of the time, th… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 02:26 PM |
| 7 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinWhy on earth are you on this sub? Every comment you make is incredibly bitter and very selfish. So far, in the two days since you flounced and changed your user name, you have bitched about your husband repeatedly and everyone else you have talked about as well. You are an extremely negative person. We are not that sort of sub, we don't engage in tit for tat, keeping score on doing things for our spouse, and we don't bitch constantly about our husbands! We are here to discuss making our lives mo… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 12:05 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?I don't know if it makes me interesting, but right now my main interests are bench jewelry making/silversmith and fermentation, when I'm not helping my husband with concrete work or home improvements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Psychological AttractionTruth is, you’re much better off asking them to do you a favour or letting them spoil you. This sounds contrary to what RPW usually suggests, but it might be effective in the sense of letting them be your hero. Men love feeling needed and useful, and they love rescuing the princess from the tower :) | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 12:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you ladies manage to stay cheerful with your men through PMS?I took/take zinc every night with magnesium to sleep. They are a part of the group of minerals (with calcium, potassium, and others) referred to as "calming minerals". I have a strong feeling that zinc helped with my menopause symptoms, also; I had very few symptoms at all, and only experienced mild hot flashes a few times a day. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 11:04 AM |
| 3 | How do you ladies manage to stay cheerful with your men through PMS?When I was getting near menopause, my periods got crazy and erratic, so I googled it, and zinc was suggested. I never had more than mild irritation for PMS, but that went away, and my periods settled down. Copper/zinc ratios are important. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 01:52 AM |
| 4 | How do you ladies manage to stay cheerful with your men through PMS?I took zinc; it helps with PMS and regularity. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you keep from getting discouraged while you search for your Captain?I don't remember which blog I saw this on, so someone please share the link, but every man I met, I would think as many nice things as I could about him. It might have been this post by The Private Man. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/09/16 11:02 AM |
| 2 | How much does penis size correlate with SMV?LOL, kids today! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Goodbye ?!LOL, all you do is bitch about your husband; you love being a martyr to his weirdness. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 03:44 AM |
| 3 | CMV: RPW and traditionalism represent female version of benevolent sexism towards menA similar pattern is seen when it comes to RPW and traditional women in general, they see men as natural leaders to whom women must submit and admire. No, we look for men who are natural leaders and to whom we want to submit and admire. We don't submit and admire any old bozo. Men who are unable or simply don't have any desire to fulfill the roles of providers or leaders are looked down upon. Yeah, I agree with this personally; I've never been attracted to weak sisters. I don't need a provider o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 02:46 AM |
| 1 | new here, looking for advice or other wives with similar experience, can my husband changeNo, no, this is a good workout using babies! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Inaugural Caption Challenge!!!!Live, love, laugh, and be happy! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Fall Fashion MegathreadOoo, I would love some Harley boots! I have a huge collection of boots, and in the Fall and Winter I'm always rocking the jeggings and boots look. My favorite pair, and the pair I have worn the longest (since 1991), are Durango Harness Boots, but I have pointy cowboy boots, riding boots, black combat boots (complete with military serial numbers), many more misc boots, and Minnetonka 3-layer fringe boots, which are quickly becoming my favorites; they are so comfortable and so much fun! One of my … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Fall Fashion MegathreadMy favorite one is a 1970s Brooks Cafe Racer; it's longer and slimmer fit than the cross-zip motorcycle jackets you usually see. My second favorite is a Steinmark from the 1960s; it is more of a bomber style motorcycle jacket. I have a few more, but I don't wear them as often. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Fall Fashion MegathreadI can't wait for Fall; I love the change of the seasons/clothing, LOL! I'm pretty casual, and I wear a uniform of sorts, so really the only thing that will change from Summer to Fall is moving from light summery shirts to hoodies and cardigans, and from sandals to boots. In colder weather I break out my collection of vintage motorcycle jackets :) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 03:59 PM |
| 8 | First-Reactions to RPWI didn't really find it; I had a RP blog, and was invited to be a founding moderator on the old RPW about 3.5 years ago. I had no idea what reddit was or how it functioned; I also had never come across trolls before (LOL, I was naive!). I was pretty much thrown into the deep end, and all of the other original moderators disappeared the first week that we were live, hahaha! Throughout the years RPW gained the current cast of awesome moderators and all of you excellent ladies, and the move to this… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadIs taking care of it time-consuming? Not at all. Once every week or two you make strong tea with sugar, slide the scoby in when it's cool, and cover with a coffee filter secured with a rubberband. You place it in a dark cabinet and wait a week or so until it is slightly fizzy. If you want to make a scoby of your own, you pour some raw kombucha into a shallow bowl, cover, and wait a week until a transparent rubbery scoby forms; use this for your fresh batch of sweet tea. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you carry any kind of self defense aids? Why or why not?LOL! My older siblings used to shoot competitively, but I was too young for the competitions. I did have a lot of training beginning when I was very young, and I have been shooting regularly with a wide range of guns since that time. I can pretty much hit anything at any distance :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Do you carry any kind of self defense aids? Why or why not?I have a cute teeny NorthAmerican Arms .22 mag revolver in my purse and a .38 in my glove compartment. My husband takes me shooting regularly, and I could absolutely (mentally and physically) kill anyone that decides to physically harm me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI haven't tried flavoring it yet; we take it more like a shot - 3 ounces twice a day. Do you make your own? It's super easy! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadDang, I haven't been doing much with my hobbies because there's always so much going on during summer here! I have kept up making kombucha and kvass, and I did take a nice butt portion ham apart (tons of ham lunch meat for $11!) last week. I take the ham and carve off the outside down to pink meat, find the largest parts between the different sections, and thinly slice those parts with a large, sharp knife. Once I get all of the easy sandwich meat off of the outside, and it gets more difficult t… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/08/16 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How to Get Hair So Shiny It Will Blind a BitchUsing henna is a commitment :) | /r/RedPillWives | 27/08/16 10:36 AM |
| 1 | How to Get Hair So Shiny It Will Blind a BitchI use henna, but I have curly hair; I'm not sure how it would work for straight hair. I use it to calm my curl and condition it somewhat because it coats the hair. This coating is permanent and will repel other hair color or highlights. If you use medium brown like I do, it is half henna and half indigo and if you try to bleach your hair the indigo part can turn green (I haven't done this personally). It really works well for me though, and i really like the subtle copper highlights | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/16 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How did you meet your significant other?I met my husband in college; we were in the same social group, same major, and dating other people. About a year after our other relationships broke up, we started dating. We had known each other a couple of years by that point. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/16 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What is an Alpha Male?Sure, a wise one would, but not all alphas are wise. I have no clue where the concept of Alpha = Good came from or why anyone would think that Alpha = Wise. Alpha is simply doing what you want when you want and not giving a damn about what people think; this can be done in a good way or a bad way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/16 02:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most women are more or less asexual, putting up with sex only to secure a good husband.Awww, twinsies :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 06:56 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most women are more or less asexual, putting up with sex only to secure a good husband.Chads, or the top 1% to 5% of males, are the only men that inspire sexual desire in women. TIL my husband is a Chad, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | What is an Alpha Male?Stupid people can be alpha too, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | What is an Alpha Male?Being who you are is a part of being fearless :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 03:16 PM |
| 4 | What is an Alpha Male?Alpha = fearless The more things you fear, the less alpha you are. My definition of an Alpha Male is someone who has almost fear about being who they are. Which can manifest itself very negatively.(I can go more indepth about this if you really want to know) :D I believe that I was the one in chat who first associated alpha with fearlessness, but you did add "about being who they are", so I'll give you that, hahaha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 02:54 PM |
| 7 | Where you do even find Alpha RedPill'd Men?Your personality is extremely bitchy, condescending, and 'superior'; no man worth a damn wants this sort of woman around. I suggest adjusting your attitude, developing a thicker skin, and concentrating on softening your approach instead of being offended, argumentative, and snippy. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 01:58 PM |
| 16 | Where you do even find Alpha RedPill'd Men?Also thanks for the insult. Ah, a prickly personality; how is that working out for you? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: RPWi is not "one size fits all"My toenails have been various shades of pink for years; I always let my husband pick out my nail polish colors, and he always chooses pink :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Why I'm not a red pill womanbut don't you ever feel like you have to censor your beliefs a little bit? Not really since I agree with the underlying concepts; I usually mostly skip commenting on the posts that don't apply to my situation, although I generally do read them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Why I'm not a red pill woman... and I would be well-received Heck, I don't know, LOL! It depends how people receive it :) I'm not one of the main mods there; I'm pretty much the useful idiot that does the CSS and removes any rude comments, hahaha! I give insight where I can, but I leave the tone and feel of the sub to the users and other mods. I don't personally direct the flow of the sub; I'm not sure that anyone does, really, it's pretty organic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Why I'm not a red pill womanIt's fine to be dominant so long as your MAN is more dominant. I agree with this statement as far as a lot of HHH relationships go, but then there are LHL relationships where the woman is dominant with a low tolerance for dominance in a man; a less dominant man is usually needed for a dominant woman with little tolerance for dominance in her man. There aren't any hard and fast rules for a relationship, and people are messy, so they and their relationships don't neatly fit in some cubbyhole. RPWi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Why I'm not a red pill womanThere is no RP or BP relationship; they are all just relationships. I personally am RP and my husband agrees with the tenets of RP also (not TRP, but old school RP), therefore we are both RP, but that doesn't make our relationship fit into some made up RP or BP mold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Why I'm not a red pill womanI just never gleaned the necessity for female submission from my reading. If you read /u/camille11325 Relationship Dynamics posts (there are 3 so far) there are different types of relationships depending on the dominance of each partner's personality. From what I understand, submission is mostly for the more submissive women (LL or LH women), which is what most younger RPW are. My relationship is HHH, which means that we both have very dominant personalities (the first 2 Hs) and I have a high to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Why I'm not a red pill womanwhat specifically about TRPWi made your relationship stronger? Letting my husband be the man of the relationship, hahaha! What does TRPWi advocate that blue pill relationships frown upon? Pretty much everything that I've seen so far. I'm not sure there is anything RPWi has said that they haven't mocked. They are pretty alarmist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Why I'm not a red pill womanRelationships are just relationships; RP helped mine. I've read tons of RP blogs, and I agree with a most of the different concepts. The things that most of them said rang true, and I could see a lot of truths there. These were RP blogs years ago that were mainly theory, and there were great discussions in the comments. I'm not a fan of the direction TRP has taken, and there are very few RP blogs that I read now. I'm more of a RP purist and agree with the basic tenets :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Why I'm not a red pill womanYou are supposed to take and use what works for your relationship; you don't have to abide with every aspect of RPW. My relationship is somewhat like yours because we like the same things, so making a decision is one of us saying "Let's do this!" and the other one saying "Oh yeah, that sounds fun!" I can't think of a decision that either of us have nixed. Mainly what I have learned is let him do his stuff and leave him alone when he's doing it, unless he asks for help, and then I help the way he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Women categorize men solely on looks, this is what either makes a guy "creepy" or not. Personality comes second.I don't think that it matters IRL, but on an app that relies on pictures, he would have an easier time being better looking and not wearing those ridiculous clothes. Online apps don't take into account personalities or charisma. He doesn't need an app or a dating site though, he gets plenty just walking around town, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Women categorize men solely on looks, this is what either makes a guy "creepy" or not. Personality comes second.I wasn't using him as an example of a successful ugly man; I was using him as an example of what my friend looks like. One of the natural alphas I know is about his size, looks a lot like him, and pulls hot women. I said nothing about Belushi being successful with women, but I bet that he was highly successful, and not because of his fame, but because of his charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Women categorize men solely on looks, this is what either makes a guy "creepy" or not. Personality comes second.Most of the natural alphas that I know are not especially attractive, usually overweight, dress funny, but they are extremely charismatic. I think that personality counts for a lot more than you think. Think of John Belushi and how charming and charismatic he was. In fact one of them looks a lot like him, and he can sweet talk women into just about anything and always has super hot girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 07:11 PM |
| 1 | In one or two sentences, what is the best relationship advice you have received?LOL, my husband sings it all the time! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 06:46 PM |
| 1 | In one or two sentences, what is the best relationship advice you have received?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J5Sn-A7D76o NSFW song lyrics :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Why We Must Discriminatemy fear is just that bra burning and nonsense started in response to women not having opportunity -- enter where we stand today, and the problems we are all discussing. Nah, the bra burning happened when I was a kid, and really, women had every opportunity at that point. I was never held back in anything that I wanted to do. Even my mother, before WWII, had as many opportunities as she wanted to pursue. Women have had plenty of opportunities for at least a century now, but the difference is that… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 12:47 PM |
| 1 | New Mods Nomination ThreadOooo yes, /u/madscientistlove would be great too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:48 PM |
| 1 | New Mods Nomination ThreadI nominate /u/susandeath and /u/drok007 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:25 PM |
| 1 | New Mods Nomination ThreadI like all of these users! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:23 PM |
| 3 | In The 1950s, Wives Were Expected To Do THIS For Their Husbands. This Is Crazy! (It's called respect! WOW!)LOL :) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 04:59 PM |
| 2 | What caused unrealistic weight expectations people today?In the 70s when I was in HS, it was shocking to see a truly overweight person, like 'circus sideshow freak' shocking. Of course you didn't say anything, and it was impolite to stare, but it was an anomaly and very rare. Even to have a young person 30 pounds overweight was rare, although it was more common in older people in their 70s and 80s. There were maybe 50 teens in my graduating class that were, what would considered mildly overweight by today's standards, 30 or more pounds overweight, in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/16 10:58 AM |
| 2 | What to do when you disagree about employment and living situation?Babies are super expensive little luxury items Not to mention that moving her job back to the city will be expensive with paying rent or commuting, daycare for the eventual child(ren), etc. Would her salary there be negated by the expense of these things? It seems like she would be trading her time at her job for the expense of having that job and basically working for nothing except her 'sanity'. She isn't going to find sanity in a job. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 01:54 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you disagree about employment and living situation?especially the part about her mistaking her former job and the buzz of the city as the only ways for her to feel happy. She thinks that returning to her old job in the city will finally make her happy ("If only I had this, I would finally be happy" the cry of a person relying on other people/situations for her own happiness instead of finding happiness within herself), but in reality, she wasn't happy with her city job. If she was happy with her city job, she would have never taken the rural job… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 01:38 PM |
| 5 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateOne thing that I have noticed in the past few years is how everyone in sports, on reality shows, etc., has a sob story. The announcers, when talking about a particular sportsperson, always tell those stories. It always is phrased as a 'rise above difficulties' story, but is a sob story just the same. Like the gymnast Simone Biles, she cannot compete without the announcers mentioning that she was raised by her grandparents; it wasn't even a difficulty that Simone had to overcome. She never knew a… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/16 11:31 AM |
| 13 | What to do when you disagree about employment and living situation?Having read all of your comments, especially replying to Phantom, I think that I see what is going on here. When he seems undecided by backtracking on his earlier statements, he is trying to please you and compromise while fighting what he truly wants: to raise kids in a smaller town, in rural surroundings. He thought that you wanted the same thing when you agreed to change jobs to the rural one, but then you did not invest in being rural by making friends, getting closer to his family, or picki… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 01:02 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you disagree about employment and living situation?Is there any way you could gear your degrees towards ground water/biology type career? Living in the country there are a lot of different jobs, jobs that people I personally know hold, sampling water from wells, creeks, rivers, etc. for contamination, waste and things like that. Is there any way you can use your degrees that way where you live? Maybe in a different way? Being in your field, living where you do, it seems like there might be a way to tweak it. Edited to say that my husband (geolog… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/08/16 01:20 AM |
| 5 | Thank You, and Good Luck /u/LifterofThings!We will miss you as part of the mod team, Lifter, but there are times where a person needs to clear their plate of extra obligations! I'll be seeing you around in chat :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/16 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Why housewifery isn't enough for so many womenIt's funny how all of the solutions to the SAHM vs. career rely on either companies giving special privileges to mothers (flexibility and shorter hours), hiring other people to raise their kids, or science intervening by extending a woman's natural fertility period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 01:23 PM |
| 9 | Why housewifery isn't enough for so many womenMost people find their fulfillment outside of work, through hobbies, social activities, etc. Exactly, why are people looking outside of themselves for fulfillment? People who are bored or unfulfilled are boring people with no imagination, no interests, and no passion. They won't be fulfilled by anything they do, be it SAHM or career. Even travel is a momentary respite from their boredom and lack of fulfillment because the person is looking for outside sources of entertainment, instead of being c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Why housewifery isn't enough for so many womenSince fertility declines in a woman's 30s, the best route might be to concentrate on a husband and kids first, and then go for the career when the kids are in school. That was what my mother and most of her friends did, and it worked well for them. A lot of the advice posts RPW has had over the years has been from women with careers trying to deal with time management and the stress of having small children while still trying to keep up with those careers. While no answer is perfect, it seems li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Question for ladiesI am certain that they are all as reliable as snopes :) Oh, and way to ruin a joke, LOL! "That joke doesn't fact check!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Question for ladiesYeah, LOL, wouldn't ever want to fact check snopes http://dailycaller.com/2016/06/17/fact-checking-snopes-websites-political-fact-checker-is-just-a-failed-liberal-blogger/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Question for ladiesHahahaha :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Question for ladiesIf you and baby momma don't get married and live in the US, then you can do this. ChaChing! $75K a year wealthier than those schlubs that get married. Heck, get a few baby mommas and think of all of the riches :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 03:01 PM |
| 10 | Question for ladiesa RP aware high SMV man Why would women limit themselves to the few men in the world that are RP aware? There are billions of men who are not RP aware, and maybe a few million men that are RP aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 02:17 PM |
| 3 | A Quick Reminder About User FlairYes, absolutely! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/16 01:44 PM |
| 4 | The road so far - or how embracing RPW philosophy got me back the man I fell in love withThis is so great! I'm so glad everything went well :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/16 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Advice neededBelieve me she doesn't have self hate, and the only thing she is unhappy about is that her husband wants to be a functional part of their relationship. Until now she has ruled the roost, made all of the decisions, and treated him like a henpecked assistant. She is fighting to retain complete control of the relationship. If mama ain't happy, ain't no one happy. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/08/16 03:39 PM |
| 4 | Advice neededWhat I hear you saying is that I should go along with my husband's decision, regardless of my feelings on the matter, because our relationship is more important than <insert item>. No, what I am saying is that you are not comfortable with him making decisions at all except extremely insignificant ones. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/08/16 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Advice neededThe commenter is telling you to continue on as you have been, and they leave your husband completely out of the equation. the idea that people deserve love is saying that they don't have to do anything to maintain that love, but that you deserve it no matter how you treat the other person. Like I told them, to get love, you have to give love. From what I have been reading in both of your histories is that you are unable to relax, you are overwhelmed, and that you want things your way: you want t… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/08/16 12:38 PM |
| 4 | Can Personality be Changed?however we did not test whether those accelerated changes would be maintained after the discontinuation of the intervention It's like dieting, a person can concentrate on it for a semester, and lose some weight, but they might backslide later and gain some back. If, after the semester is over, they continue to work on it despite a backslide here and there, they will continue to lose weight/maintain the weight loss. I think the longer they keep trying, the more successful they will be in the long… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/08/16 11:20 AM |
| 2 | What do I do now?Do you still recommend it? Yes, absolutely. Start removing and hiding all of the valuables now and record every drunken conversation. Maybe, if you choose your words correctly, you can trick him into calling you Mister again. I highly suggest a restraining order as soon as you get incriminating recordings of him calling you anything other than the honorific associated with your particular flowery gender. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/16 06:15 PM |
| 9 | What do I do now?You need to get out and save yourself now because everyone knows that calling you Mister is the first sign of abuse! He should use whatever honorific you choose to correctly refer to your chosen gender. Divorce is the only option due to his incredible lack of respect for you. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/16 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Can Personality be Changed?At what point do you consider yourself to have changed the personality trait? When you live your life without having to be conscious of fixing it? Ex: Reminding yourself not to nag your SO or is it more of you just don't do it anymore? Are our personalities just a bunch of habits that can be developed or broken? I do believe that our personalities are a bunch of habits that we can, over time, change. I also think that when you no longer have to consciously quit doing something you wanted to stop… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/16 04:52 PM |
| 3 | “Back Then...But Now”We have always been pretty laid back and chill in our relationship, but I did tend to nag a bit, not understanding that he didn't operate on my schedule, and my priories were not necessarily his priorities. I would also sometimes try to explain other people's motives and try to make him understand their point of view. In the process I basically stood up for them and gave excuses for them. I was taking their side, not his. Since finding RP, I quit doing both things, and he still gets whatever I w… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/16 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Small things you do for your significant other.LOL, I do that too! if one serving of lasagna comes apart and the other is beautiful, I'll take the tumbled one. I would probably do that for anyone because I always want the other person to see a pretty plate of food if I served it :) I'm not sure if he notices it or not, but it pleases me to serve him a nice looking plate. I'm selfish that way, hahaha! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/16 03:17 PM |
| 1 | It's Not a Power Struggle!P.S. I just gave you the heart flair but I'm not seeing it now, feel free to add it yourself if it's not showing up for you either! It takes a few minutes to show up, sometimes as much as five minutes or so. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/16 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Advice neededthat is just how desperate I am feeling about the situation and the status of our relationship. Hang in there! This problem didn't happen overnight and won't be resolved overnight either; baby steps towards improving your relationship will probably be the most successful :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/16 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Advice neededUgh, I just realized another sub is brigading us and downvoting everything. They are talking about PMing you and telling you to divorce, divorce, divorce. Please ignore them; they believe that the best way to handle any sort of problems in marriage is to dispose of the husband immediately because men are evil and the root of all problems. And please, if they summon you by mentioning your user name, don't go there; nothing good will come of it. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/16 01:48 PM |
| 5 | Advice neededAnother suggestion that I have is that both of you need to get off of the subreddits where you are venting. I see the appeal in venting: you want to get it all out and have people commiserate and support you, but venting only reinforces the negatives and gives you negative feedback. Right now for both of your sanity, you need to concentrate on the positives. I am writing this for both of you because I know that both of you are reading this. One of the big things we suggest here is to have a grat… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/16 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Advice neededI meant to mention before, please do not go to your family or friends with this problem for a while. The problem with going to them with a marital problem is that if you two work everything out, and all is forgiven between the two of you, those friends and family will still think less of him for pretty much forever. You will be shooting yourself and your relationship in the foot. Try to work it out here first, please! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | If a woman wants to fix some issues with herself, can she?Here is an article that says yes. I don't agree with the line that says that you can't become more agreeable, though; I just think it takes longer than one semester (the length of the trial) to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/16 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Advice neededAbsolutely, you can PM me anytime you want/need to. And, if you want a little more privacy, you can go to the IRC and there are a lot of ladies in there you can talk to in real time. https://www.irccloud.com/#!/irc.quakenet.org:6667/%23redpillwomen Ignore the money requests - it's free, just put your name in and give it a password. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 04:21 PM |
| 24 | Advice neededI'm assuming that your husband is MRP, and he found it recently, got super gung-ho about it, started dreading you before he got his shit together, and is now just like all of the other MRPers: confused as to why you hate him. They sort of act according to a playbook. I feel for you; you didn't ask to get thrown down the rabbit hole. We will help you the best we can, but generally women who are forced to come here aren't as accepting as women who come here willingly. I'm sorry that you are going … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Advice neededWhich RP subs have you been reading? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/16 03:50 PM |
| 2 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)There's a link on the sidebar or you can click here. IRCcloud will make you choose a name (choose lin333 so we know who you are) and a password; it will mention money, but ignore that because it is free and very few pay for it. When you come in, a mod will ask you to message her in reddit to verify that you are who you say you are. This is to assure that the IRC is secure, so that we can freely discuss things without interlopers watching. So, you might have to jump through a couple of hoops at t… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/16 10:46 AM |
| 4 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadYes, i always rinse/soak the rice 3 times because that's what I read in Asian cookbooks. I've heard that they do it because of the way the rice is processed, but when I buy rice from the US, I wash off the "enriched" coating. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/16 12:25 AM |
| 7 | My Husband Ignores Me: an excellent post by Laura DoyleYes, I think hobbies are important because then you are entertaining yourself and not relying on him for your happiness and entertainment. Plus, having interests makes you more interesting! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 07:17 PM |
| 3 | My Husband Ignores Me: an excellent post by Laura DoyleYes, that sentence hit me hard, too! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 07:08 PM |
| 1 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Thanks :D | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 06:15 PM |
| 4 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)I'm really excited for the adventure! That is such a great way of looking at things! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Welcome! I hope to see more of you around here! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 06:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you know if your standards are too high or low?Basically, it is adding value to his life: would he be worse off or less happy without you? SMV attracts the man, and RMV keeps him. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 05:58 PM |
| 3 | How do you know if your standards are too high or low?That is an excellent question, and searching through the archives, I don't believe that we have a post on that yet. This needs to change! RMV is relationship skills, and being the woman that men want to stay with. Things like always being on his side, putting him above all others, appreciating what he brings to a relationship, and enjoying him for who he is instead of trying to change him into what you want him to be. It is also home skills like keeping your home neat, being able and willing to … | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 04:37 PM |
| 7 | How do you know if your standards are too high or low?The man should meet or exceed (not too much) what you have to offer. If you are a couch potato, don't expect someone super active and industrious, but if you are super industrious, don't settle for a couch potato. If your SMV is high you are better able to get a man that meets all of your expectations, but then once you get him, you have to up your RMV (relationship market value) to keep him. What do you offer to a relationship? How do you know you're not settling? When he not only gives you but… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 01:27 PM |
| 5 | My SO made me melt today.That is so great; things like that just make you feel warm, safe, and loved :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 01:09 PM |
| 3 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Come to the IRC! We talk, chill, and complain there all the time, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 01:01 PM |
| 4 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)I'd really like to compile all the relationship advice I get from my mother in a post! That would be really great if you did; I bet she has a lot of excellent advice. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 12:57 PM |
| 3 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)I hope to come out of my shell and finally join the community as a member and not just a lurker. :) Please do! The more, the merrier :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Let's take a fun quiz!LOLOLOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Let's take a fun quiz!Yeah, evidently I'm a guy :) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?This can be difficult in a long relationship because in your 30s and 40s you were busy and had a ton of responsibilities, and people in relationships tend to fall into a team sort of pattern instead of a couple pattern. Then one day most of the responsibilities have moved out of the house (hahaha) and there you are alone with your husband, but still in team mode. It can be very difficult to break out of this mode, and frankly, he would look at you sideways if suddenly you started going full forc… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?One of the hardest things to realize is that you need to always outwardly express that you are on his side. A lot of times, women want to explain the motives of the person their man is ranting about, as a way of helping him understand the other person's point of view; it's a way of trying to calm or soothe the anger. The problem with this approach is that men see this as taking the other person's side and defending them instead of being on your man's team. Instead of helping him understand, the … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 11:52 AM |
| 5 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Lately I've been doing slow cooker ribs: you crockpot them (dry) for 3-4 hours and then put them on a sided cookie sheet under low broil for 30 minutes. I usually just put chili seasoning on them, but they taste nothing like chili. Crazy easy and fall off the bone delicious. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 01:08 AM |
| 2 | How to Stay Graceful When You're Giving It AllLOL, no we didn't have a shower, but we have a lot of family here, so we begged showers from everyone. The nice thing was that when we asked for a shower after work, they usually fed us too :) We did 100% of the labor on our house too! Our next door neighbor is an electrician and plumber, so we paid him to oversee our work and get all of the permits, but we wired and plumbed it ourselves. It is an adventure, and it really does help to see it as one. The few months you have left will pass quickly… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 11:00 AM |
| 4 | What is your daily mantra?"It just doesn't matter" when people annoy me, if I'm trying to be too perfectionist, if something I am counting on falls through. Sometimes I have to shake it off, "It just doesn't matter", and move on to the next thing. I also say "good enough" in the situations where I'm trying too hard to overdo a job, LOL. I get really busy with working a lot of overtime, taking care of things at home, and all of our different projects, so a lot of times it's best to get the job done instead of going for pe… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 02:33 AM |
| 3 | How to Stay Graceful When You're Giving It AllAs far as how busy you are, you seem to be doing pretty much all that you can do; this is just a time that you have to tough out! With being pressured to move in on a deadline, maybe I can help. We used to fix houses and then move in and live there while fixing the next one. At one point in time we moved into an apartment for a finite time while finishing up this last one. We did not make the deadline to have our house fully finished! We ended up fixing one room fully, the bedroom, and moved int… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 01:47 AM |
| 4 | "The Hypocrisy and Cruelty of the Leftist Feminist"These women were/are elites, living life as elites are expected to live, and enjoying their elite lives of comfort and privilege, while telling the under classes to live the opposite way. It was a means of solidifying the social stratification of society, eliminating the middle and upper middle classes, and returning the world to feudal lords and serfs. They've almost succeeded, and look at the world they have created! | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/16 11:03 AM |
| 4 | Don’t say yes to a dress, say yes to traditionWe eloped to Vegas with pawn shop bought rings, and had clothes all ready to wear for our wedding, but we got sidetracked and had to run to catch our limo (almost missed it!). We got married in the sweaty clothes we were running in, hahaha! 22+ years later we are still going strong :) It's not the wedding, the dress, or the ring that's important; it's the marriage and the life together that is important. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/16 10:34 AM |
| 5 | Beware 'Journalists' and 'ReportersLet me put it this way, if you want more information about a company, you go to the owners and management; if you want dirt on a company, you go to the employees and customers. You did the equivalent of asking the employees and customers. You did everything in the shadiest way possible, and that is why you are not trusted. Please leave our subreddit out of whatever article you decide to write. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Beware 'Journalists' and 'ReportersWhat is sketchy is that you have been PMing new members instead of mods, and that you have been doing so for a year and a half! The problem with this approach is that you are going to get some newbie who is not completely familiar with RP tenets, and then that person will be representing the entire subreddit when they are not clear on the concept themselves. This is what always happens in every hit piece. The author quotes the newbie and then proclaims all of RPW as believing what that one newbi… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Beware 'Journalists' and 'ReportersHere's the problem: We are a highly trolled subreddit. For some bizarre reason, hundreds of thousands of reddit users are very upset that we love and take care of our husbands. Someone nosing around asking questions is not going to be welcomed with open arms. If you want to see how we have been treated, go check out /r/TheBluePill. That is one of the smaller subreddits devoted to harassing us. It is full of SJWs, so when you have social justice plastered all over your website, it puts you in the… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Beware 'Journalists' and 'ReportersWhy have you been messaging newer members of our sub instead of simply messaging the moderators? I’m particularly interested in reporting on cases of social injustice and movements for social justice. This is what your website says. What does a group of women discussing their relationships have to do with social justice? Are you going to attempt to free us from the stifling confines of our happy marriages? And you did NOT message the moderators of this sub. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 07:53 PM |
| 6 | DONALD TRUMP AMA THIS WED @ 7 PM ON THE_DONALD!Oh my! I'm imagining Trump being flooded with hundreds of thousands of questions and comments saying: HIGH ENERGY!!! and things like that, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 08:16 PM |
| 8 | Beware 'Journalists' and 'ReportersOne of the main "journalists" that has been contacting RPW for years proudly proclaims that she is a SJW on her website. She wants to do a hit piece on us, and now she wants it to be on a radio show or podcast with your voice on there. If you are not an EC, or Mod - the face that a journalist is reaching out to you should be particularly alarming. What 'journalist' worth their salt only seeks out newcomers and non-established members for feedback while completely ignoring long standing members t… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 08:08 PM |
| 2 | How to Become More ConfidentIf you aren't having fun then you are RPWing wrong. Be responsible when needed, and have fun the rest of the time :) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 10:51 AM |
| 6 | Will this certain feeling of fakeness pass? Am I too far gone to ever be a RPW for him?It generally takes a while to fully internalize RP concepts, so just keep trying. I don't think it is a problem to voice concerns about things, but you have to think about the problem, and decide if it really is a concern or not. Is it just your anxiety or is there a real underlying problem? Are you afraid of change, or does he want to get a loan for $75K and put it all on red on the roulette table? After analyzing the problem, ignoring your emotional response to the problem, if you decide that … | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/16 02:27 PM |
| 3 | What is your favorite subreddit besides RedPillWives?Hahahaha I love the gonwild ones! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/16 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday!Make America Grate Again! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/16 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday!Special Snowflakes The Cost of Ambition A Harley for Her How to Know when You are Middle-Aged They are Playing Our Song I'm Free!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/16 10:51 AM |
| 1 | "Free Speech...unless you offend an actress from Ghostbusters" Media celebrates Milo's ban from Twitter.I didn't see the female version of Ghostbusters, but she was in it in one of the four main roles. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/07/16 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Crabs in a bucketI did have to downgrade a few friends into acquaintances when I first began my RP journey. Reading about the nature of women made me realize how destructive some of them were to my relationship, and I let them fade out of my life. I developed some good friends after the purge that are positive, open-minded, and supportive, and I think that if I hadn't have dropped the toxic ones, I wouldn't have had room in my life to find the new ones. Vetting friends is almost as important as vetting suitors! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/07/16 08:17 PM |
| 9 | "Free Speech...unless you offend an actress from Ghostbusters" Media celebrates Milo's ban from Twitter.It's strange because, from what I saw following Milo on twitter, he was only pointing out things about her that have made her famous. On SNL her whole shtick is being the big, scary, manlike, temperamental, black woman; everything Milo said was along those lines. It would be like trying to describe Melissa McCarthy without mentioning her weight; she is famous for being overweight, and her being overweight is incorporated into everything she does: she is funny because she is fat. Leslie Jones is … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/07/16 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Looking for practical advice on how to stop being a control freak/u/coochquarantine has a great post The STFU Method that might help. Basically, you think about what is about to come out of your mouth, and if it is disrespectful or nagging, you STFU instead. It is difficult at first, but gets easier with time. If you don't get it right at first, you keep trying; it usually takes about six months to a year to internalize it. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/07/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsYikes! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/07/16 11:26 AM |
| 1 | The Votes Are In - June Winners Announced + More Good News!Congratulations to everyone mentioned and to /u/LifterofThings for her baby girl! Everyone on the sub has been so great, making this the most interesting, thought provoking, and entertaining relationship sub on reddit! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/07/16 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsMy husband makes up and sings a lot of songs about/for me, but they are hilarious and usually naughty, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/07/16 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsWe haven't gone hunting, but I'd like to some day; I think it would be a good life skill to know first-hand how to field dress game. I've watched tons of videos, so I know how in theory, but there' just nothing like doing things yourself. I'm into old timely type guns. We have a nice Colt single action .22 with a gun belt; it was sold with the belt back probably in the 1940s - my FIL bought it after the war. It is fun to wear at the range to plink at targets :) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/16 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsOh yay! Shooting is so much fun! You would probably also like revolvers; my favorite is a .38 special police off duty model. We have a lot of unmanned ranges here maintained by the Fish and Wildlife Dept, and we will take fun targets out there like stuffed toys, 2 liter sodas, and melons (always policing the area afterwards, including our brass), and it is hilarious to shoot them and watch them explode :) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/16 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsYay! Someone finally used my snowflake flair <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/16 12:27 PM |
| 9 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsI am HH in a HHH relationship, and we would probably go under the "partners in crime" classification. In public we are a lean mean machine, extremely adventurous (we think we could be more, but compared to everyone we know, we far outpace absolutely everyone), and we are a tightly united front. We don't put up with crap unless it is very entertaining; we love to be entertained, so you can berate or be hostile to us if you amuse us at the same time, but if you aren't amusing, we will pulverize yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/16 11:48 AM |
| 2 | A heartwarming relationship story... the importance of tapping into the 'wife' and not just 'mom'This story is such a great reminder that no matter what is going on in your life, whatever is consuming you, don't forget about your husband; make sure to remain the woman he fell in love with! It just takes a little effort, a little paying attention to him, and a lot of flirting, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/16 11:24 AM |
| 7 | A heartwarming relationship story... the importance of tapping into the 'wife' and not just 'mom'Here is the 1st archive! Here is the [update] archive | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/16 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Advice/thoughts on signing a prenuptial agreementOne of the points that I was making is that the women were allowed to keep and save and money that they didn't spend from the household account, and they had their own account where they could keep that money. Will this be an option? That might solve the problem that you have with not having a savings account. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/16 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Advice/thoughts on signing a prenuptial agreementActually, a lot of households still operate this way :) There aren't usually vacation or Christmas accounts anymore, though; those were special promotions by banks back then, but I haven't heard of them lately. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/16 03:07 AM |
| 1 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsOh yeah mobile is almost impossible :) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsThe article didn't say it, the first comment that I replied to did, further up the thread. You replied to my reply to her. I do understand though; the threading on reddit can be confusing when there are a lot of large comments. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/16 02:30 AM |
| 1 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsNo, I'm good with simple answers, but spending time reasoning with small kids is something I don't understand; my mom would have never gotten a thing done if she allowed all seven of us to question her every move and require her to reason with all of us! It really never occurred to any of us to do anything except just get ready when she said so and go. She kept a very tight rein on us! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsI guess the problem I have is that everyone is so optimistic with theoretical knowledge and think they know everything because they read the experts, but when reality arrives, they realize they knew nothing at all. So, you will never know what will happen until it actually happens. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/16 04:00 PM |
| 9 | Advice/thoughts on signing a prenuptial agreementBack in the day, couples had a lot of different bank accounts: a joint savings account, Christmas account, vacation account, household account, separate accounts for each spouse, college accounts for the kids, etc. Each payday, different amounts were deposited into each account. The SAHM generally handled the household account and payed the bills, bought the groceries, etc. There was usually an amount to handle her personal expenses included in the household deposit or it was deposited straight … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/16 02:20 PM |
| 2 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsOh please, kids whine all the time, LOL! You can give them a simple answer without "reasoning" with them. "Why do we have to go?" is answered with "Because we will go hungry if we don't, now get ready, we are leaving." | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/16 11:54 AM |
| 3 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsOkay, I'm old and I've seen a lot of things. Here's how every woman's pregnancy and birth goes: They are pregnant, they study up on everything and figure everything out. They have it down; they know what is going to happen and how they are going to handle things. Then the baby comes along, and everything is thrown out the window. It is pure survival mode now. They weren't going to have the baby in their marital bad, but the kid won't sleep anywhere else, so the mother doesn't sleep unless they s… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/16 11:47 AM |
| 4 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsLOL, yes "experts" say all sorts of things today; can you really say that kids are better raised today than in the 50s, 60s, and 70s? Can you really say that Millennials think more critically than kids from earlier generations? Are Millennials more productive? More independent? All these so called experts have done is made money writing books and articles; society is no better off, and much worse off because parents raise their kids according to whatever quack expert they admire. What would I do… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 04:37 PM |
| 1 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsOkay, let's explore the bigger picture: you encourage your child to question you by reasoning with them, they go to school, question the teacher's decisions, and require the teacher to reason with them. All the other kids that were raised this way do the same. Soon all the teacher is doing is reasoning with six year olds. Skip ahead to the work environment; do you really think that a boss is going to put up with someone questioning their every decision? I get all the studies and sources that you… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 03:24 PM |
| 0 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsLOL, no, once the five year old knows that is is fine to question the way things are, then you will be expected to reason with them. Reasoning with a child is just another punishment like putting their nose in the corner. The kid has to sit through your explanation (lecture) and most likely will do what you want just to shut you up :) | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 03:02 PM |
| 0 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsJust the fact that they require "reasoning" with at five years old, means that they have already been conditioned to question the parent. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 02:41 PM |
| 3 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsThe idea of reasoning with a five year old is strange to me; it shows that the five year old is accustomed to questioning the parent, and to me that undermines the parent as an authority. Reasoning with a fifteen year old makes sense because as a child gets older, they are incrementally given more choice, more responsibility, and more freedom. Back when the Boomers and older Gen-X were being raised, there was expected behavior, and kids acted as expected. Everything was more routine, and those r… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 01:18 PM |
| 2 | How Gratitude Can Change Your Lifea gratitude charm bracelet :D I love that! Nice bracelet with a nice reminder, and you are reminded to count your blessings each time it rattles on your wrist. Or you could do the same with a floating charm necklace. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 01:28 AM |
| 6 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsThere are so many questionable articles like that out now like this article about initiating a talk to your child about pornography. Can't we allow kids to be kids anymore? | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 01:21 AM |
| 2 | How Gratitude Can Change Your LifeI know that we talk about gratitude a lot here, and I think that this post sums up a lot of the points made on this sub! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 12:23 AM |
| 2 | The first reviews for the all-female-led Ghostbusters reboot are in, and they’re not good.Related: Cringeworthy Facebook Stickers. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/07/16 11:22 PM |
| 5 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?True :( I guess I'll stick to tap water, then; sparkling water is for women who do things correctly. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 07:27 PM |
| 3 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?How about sparkling beer? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Caring for children shouldn’t be like carpentry, with a finished product in mind. We should grow our children, like gardeners.My family insists on sending my nephew to college when he has repeatedly clearly stated that he does NOT want a desk job or an office. I suggested a trade, and they thought that was a terrible job field. So, I suggested Geology or Biology dealing with ground water, lakes, streams, and water wells, because I know a few people who hike through woods and fields to test those sort of waters. He seemed to like that idea :) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Caring for children shouldn’t be like carpentry, with a finished product in mind. We should grow our children, like gardeners.I do think that, even as helicopter ing becomes the new normal, we are failing to protect kids' innocence. I don't think very small kids should know about twerking, or mass shootings, or much of the other stuff in our culture. And too many kids learn about that at an early age. Oh, good point! That is the complete opposite of growing up in the 60s and 70s, and it's the things we were sheltered from. We weren't really allowed to watch the news, but then again TV wasn't a huge presence in our live… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Caring for children shouldn’t be like carpentry, with a finished product in mind. We should grow our children, like gardeners.Yes, so many coddle and shelter their children for 18 years and then throw them to the wolves after high school. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Caring for children shouldn’t be like carpentry, with a finished product in mind. We should grow our children, like gardeners.It's an extension of the feminist mantra: You don't tell me (my child) what to do! I (my child) do what I want when I want to! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Caring for children shouldn’t be like carpentry, with a finished product in mind. We should grow our children, like gardeners.True, when I was a kid, pretty much any other adult in the neighborhood could come out and tell us to quit whatever mischief we were up to, and we obeyed them. Do something wrong? Your parents will be receiving a phone call in 3, 2, 1... Now neighbors don't know each others' names, much less their phone numbers. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions + An AnnouncementAwwww, love by Pokemon Go! See, you have to put yourself out there to meet people :) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Free With Purchase Pins Prove Too Sharp To HandleLOL, I own two button makers, one for tiny buttons and another for a bit larger ones. We used to make logo buttons for businesses around town to sell/hand out, and then some funny ones to sell in a few little novelty shops :) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Feminist Envy Of The BeautifulI remember seeing this years ago, and my first thought was that the smartest women are decorative. They realize that they will get much further in life by being the most attractive that they can given what they have to work with. Think about it, the woman can spend a few minutes fixing herself up and then wear a smile, or she can put on dowdy clothes, throw her dirty hair into a ponytail/bun and scowl all day at women who try to look nice. Who would you hire if you had the choice between a Hoote… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 12:27 PM |
| 1 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?Elephant in picture for scale. And yes, I have an elephant key ring; it is a symbol of my individuality and my belief in personal freedom. Its nose lights up and it makes a trumpeting sound :) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 03:11 AM |
| 4 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?Will do; great advice! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 02:08 AM |
| 4 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?Okay I'm on it! and off it and on it and off it... | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 01:56 AM |
| 5 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?Oh crap, he found my post and is upset the BJ hasn't happened! What do you do when your husband finds your post??? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 01:45 AM |
| 4 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?True, good thing I'm not completely at fault! It really does take two to tango! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 01:42 AM |
| 6 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?NO I DON'T!!! YOU DON'T KNOW ME AT ALL!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 01:41 AM |
| 6 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?I thought that going to the bar with my husband would be fine, but now I know my place, and i will remain in the kitchen like a good wife :( | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 01:38 AM |
| 4 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?Thank you, I do think an immediate BJ and then a rereading of TSW will probably help a lot. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 01:32 AM |
| 8 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?I think this is sage advice. I will do this and hopefully it will take care of my problem. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Simple Questions + An AnnouncementI send thank you notes all the time. You can buy these adorable tiny cards like birthday cards except they have cute designs/paintings on the front and the inside is blank. I write a short thank you note on the inside and send it off. Older people really appreciate them, and younger people like them but think you are a bit off :) | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Simple Questions + An AnnouncementSeems good to me; I added your blog to the resources list :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions + An AnnouncementOkay, I got off my lazy butt (not literally) and looked it up :) Where are all the Pokemon hiding? So, the premise of Pokemon Go is that these pocket monsters are hidden around our real world -- literally. You need to go look for them; when they get close enough, they'll appear on your in-game radar and then you can try to catch them. How do I move? You walk. Like, with your body. You walk around town, the park, the mall, your workplace, until you find a Pokemon. Then, you try to catch it. Why d… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions + An AnnouncementSo is it like a sexless pokemon tinder where you battle (etc) when you get near another player? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Free With Purchase Pins Prove Too Sharp To HandleHmmm, maybe. Like people who don't want to change because they want someone to "Love me for me!" | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions + An AnnouncementLOL, okay, but I still don't know what it is or anything about it :) ELI5 Disclaimer: never played pokemon; know nothing about it except that there were cards for some reason (I am old). | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions + An AnnouncementWhat is this new Pokémon thing all about? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Free With Purchase Pins Prove Too Sharp To HandleThe second comment was good: I know this is a make up hobbyist sub, so make up is viewed through an entirely different lens, but it's pretty annoying when this sub pretends like one of the salient purposes of the cosmetic industry isn't to make women appear more attractive to the general public and their preferred gender. If it wasn't, then why would most products and make up techniques be geared toward skin homogeneity, facial symmetry, youthfulness, and sexual arousal (all universal markers of… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/16 12:36 PM |
| 11 | How can an involuntarily celibate male like myself find love?The problem with incels is that women aren't attracted to men that are not attractive to women. It's a catch 22. The only way out of it is to start working on yourself. Your momma was wrong when she told you to "just be yourself". | /r/RedPillWives | 08/07/16 02:50 PM |
| 4 | How did you meet your husband/fiance??I met my husband in college; we ran in the same group of friends, and we had the same major. We didn't get married young though, we waited a decade and eloped to Vegas :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/07/16 11:47 AM |
| 4 | [Insanity] Barefoot Contessa's latest book focuses on cooking meals that her husband enjoys...apparently this undermines her career and reputationOne of my main goals with cooking is to make my husband go "Mmmm!" with every bite <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 08/07/16 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice on my relationship/manI can't imagine ever thinking that about my husband, much less saying it out loud or writing it on the internet. Why is she with someone she thinks of as an "insecure little bitch", and why would he put up with someone who thinks that he is one? This is a relationship forged in Hell. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Need some advice on my relationship/manIf I'm not mistaken, the emotional abuse was not letting her run wild with another man. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Little Question about Etiquette/boyfriend's preferences?My husband is much less introverted than me, so he is usually the one to speak up, LOL! I hate dealing with people, so I will usually just let it go rather than dealing with them further. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Urgent:Salary negotiations for women?I have never had any problems with salary negotiations because I am pleasant but firm in those negotiations. My time is worth a lot to me, so if they want me to spend my time with them, they need to meet my demands. When I go into interviews, I realize that whereas they are interviewing my for my suitability, I am also interviewing their suitability. Since i will be spending a good portion of my life at the job, it needs to fit into my life, just as they want me to fit into their company. Think … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Need some advice on my relationship/manYou don't have anything good to say about him, you call him an insecure bitch, and you fight him all the way about everything. Is this what you want for the rest of your life? You two are not compatible in your views on relationships, so why are you trying to make this work? If you aren't in a relationship looking towards being with him for the rest of your life, then you are wasting your time and youth. If you want a boyfriend that is more accepting of you running around partying with other men… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Need some advice on my relationship/manIf you look at her history, what he objects to is her going out with another man and doing drugs with him for DAYS. This means spending at least one night with the other man while on mind-altering drugs. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Not So 'Committed' After AllOh awesome; that's perfect. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Need some advice on my relationship/manHe won't let her go to a festival with another man and do drugs. Check out her history; I just did. She leaves out a LOT with this post. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Need some advice on my relationship/manActually his behavior sounds pretty in line with RP. Yours doesn't because you are fighting him every inch of the way. You say he is controlling and abusive, but in reality he has certain standards and you are not meeting them. I get it, you are in a LDR and you want to do whatever you want to do when you are not with him. The thing about LDRs is that you don't see each other very often, so it is like you are single most of the time. The LDR is also complicated by the fact that you aren't allowe… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Little Question about Etiquette/boyfriend's preferences?I don't want to be his mom and tell him to not be afraid to send back dishes (in a polite manner) when we specifically ordered dressing on the side or to let the server know beforehand that we don't eat mayo/dressing. But it seems like he appreciates it when I stand up for him? Or am I just trying to control the situation too much and should just let it go? This sounds like he is introverted to me and was probably peopled out; the reason I think that is because it doesn't sound like he is afraid… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/16 02:12 AM |
| 9 | Not So 'Committed' After AllFleeing, running, and seeking change are all things that seem to come naturally to Gilbert, so I'm not entirely shocked that she's now getting a second divorce. Some women think that it is their husband's duty to make them happy, and when their husbands fail to make them happy, they need to seek out another source of happiness. These women will never be happy because they never take responsibility for their own happiness. I think that her first book was popular because it was a fun read, and bec… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 07:51 PM |
| 12 | Insulting a Man while Cultivating AdorationI love this idea; the teasing, flirty comeback used to be so popular in the old movies before everyone became offended and combative. I think that it interjects a bit of humor into a potentially explosive situation, while reminding him that he isn't being nice. The main reason that I think teasing humor is good, is that women seem to take a lot of things as hurtful and nonconstructive that were not meant that way. Men are more about the realz and sometimes accidentally stomp on women's feelz. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Comfortable Friendship or a Steamy Sex LifeI would have to say that in my marriage we have different dynamics at different times of the day and week. Weekend mornings and afternoons are definitely all about the steamy sex life :) But weekday evenings after work, we are more in comfortable friendship/roommate mode, figuring out dinner, and what we will be doing after dinner, etc. Not that there can't be some steam, but it is more business-like after work for the first hour or so. Once we get our future plans/duties sorted out, then it is … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Let's Talk About Hair!I abandoned hair stylists/dressers about three years ago: the last time one butchered my hair. They are always great for two or three cuts, everything looks fabulous, and then one day they get distracted and POOF! your hair is gone. I don't need to pay someone to mess up my hair; I can do that myself for free! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Let's Talk About Hair!Try taking a porosity and density test to see if protein is right for your hair; using protein on healthier hair can dry it out and make it more brittle. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Women can do anything!Women can do anything! As long as they have a lot of help! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 12:57 PM |
| 8 | Fitness MegathreadHahahaha, when large ladies win at Bingo, scream "Bingo!!!", wave their arms in the air, and hit their neighbor with the loose skin/lax muscle drooping and swinging from their arms :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 12:40 PM |
| 3 | June 2016 Submission Contest - Time to Vote!So Many great posts in June! I can't wait to see the excellent ones in July! Thank you everyone for providing so many thought-provoking submissions <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 11:40 AM |
| 4 | Fitness MegathreadJust a tiny bit of exercise makes a huge difference, so if you aren't exercising at all, 5 minutes a day in the morning will really help. A lot of people say that they don't have time or can't afford to go to a gym, but buying a couple of 10lb dumbells and a 20lb kettlebell to use at home will help immensely. Body weight squats or kettlebell swings a little bit in the morning will provide noticeable results very quickly if you are already relatively thin. Five minutes in the morning before work … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Let's Talk About Hair!I knew that straightening my hair using a blowdryer, a hot iron, and then sometimes curling it with a ceramic infinity curler, was damaging my hair, but I had no idea how much until I decided to go curly. My hair was almost bra strap length wet, but the ends were brittle and would regularly break, leaving the ends ragged. Initially, I was horrified that my hair curled up to just above my shoulders (it's super curly in tight ringlets - maybe 3b or 3c)! I quit using sulfates and silicones, started… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/16 11:09 AM |
| 2 | What are your unpopular opinions?I have a friend who was mauled by an irish setter that escaped its yard/fence. She was walking down a bike path, the dog dug under the fence, leaped at her, and attacked. She had to have stitches on five different bites, and one scar is four inches long. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/07/16 11:23 AM |
| 5 | Did any of you struggle with being a surrendered single?You open up as you vet, and you don't surrender until you have a really good commitment. Each person's level of commitment will vary due to their individual comfort level, but I would say to become more vulnerable as the relationship progresses. When you both declare love is one level, after a year might be another level, engagement another, and definitely by marriage, you will want to be fully surrendered/vulnerable. There needs to be trust to be vulnerable, so wait until you trust that he has … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/07/16 10:09 PM |
| 9 | [update] Age gap and sex talk, red flags?This is a wonderful field report, and I am so glad you quit wasting time with the first man so that you could free yourself up for the current one! Only a good man deserves your endless dedication. Absolutely, and very well put. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/07/16 05:28 PM |
| 8 | Having trouble Surrendering, can I tailor the experience to suit our needs?As with most advice, take what you think will help, and leave the rest. Instead of doing everything the book says, do what you know will improve your relationship. After you internalize those things, go back, read it again, and pick a few more things to work on :) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/07/16 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Sex, Glorious SexPerhaps if you wrote a post about this, we might be able to help you change your mindset and get out of your rut. Sex and attraction are mainly a mental thing (except of course the actual physical act), and we can help you reset and find the joy again. The wonderful ladies here have so many good ideas, and I'm certain that some of those ideas will help! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/07/16 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Independence Day Megathread!Make sure to pack the potato salad in a cooler with a few blue ice packs; I'm sure you already know this, but just in case... :) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/07/16 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Sex, Glorious SexLOL, after sex I always say, "Thanks for making me a bit less insane" joking about how TRP talks about sex. But really, there are tons of different chemicals released during sex and many in semen as well, so it's not beyond the realm of possibilities :) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/07/16 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I need some advice on my boyfriend being in a wedding.You have been worrying about something that hasn't happened and may never happen; you are driving yourself nuts. The reason it's difficult to find someone else with the same problem is because most women don't torture themselves like this for absolutely no reason. Believe me, if you keep this up, there will be no walking down the aisle with him. What should you do? You should calm down and get over it.This isn't your call, and if you can't handle it, you need to stay home. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/07/16 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Independence Day Megathread!This weekend, I plan on eating with my family tonight, and avoiding all fireworks crowds tomorrow! This will be difficult because there are three professional fireworks displays within two miles of my house, LOL! We will sit up on top of our hill and watch them all like we do every year :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/07/16 03:28 PM |
| 1 | What are your unpopular opinions?I am extremely pro-gun and carry daily. I have one in my car, one I carry on me, and we each have one next to our side of the bed. LOL, me too! My favorites are the older police off duty .38 special snubbies (no hot flying brass), and I have one in my desk at work, one in my car, and one by my bed. I carry teeny purses, so my purse gun is a North American Arms .22 magnum. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/07/16 12:09 PM |
| 4 | What are your unpopular opinions?I love this whole post and all of the comments! I have been laughing the whole time I have been reading; you people are hilarious :) I guess the answer to the question "What are your unpopular opinions?" is ALL OF THEM, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/07/16 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Thank you :)I don't even know what is best anymore. Follow his lead. You don't have to know what is best for him because he probably already knows what is best for him. If he seems like he needs space, just ask him nicely, "Would you like a little alone time?". Same if you think that he might want to stay longer. A lot of us have learned that the best thing to do for our marriages is to step back and quit making decisions for our husbands. Get out of their way, perhaps not physically but mentally, and allow… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/07/16 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Join us on Twitter and Pinterest!Yay! This is going to be so much fun! Here's the link to our Twitter feed; come play! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/16 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Dynamics Part II: All About Men!Oh awesome! I've been looking forward to this post! It's funny because as I read each trait and archetype, men I know come to mind as fitting that type. Before I met my husband, I always dated the Lover archetype, and that was never a good fit for me. My husband is more Renegade/Sigma with Warrior/Magician archetypes, which suits me perfectly. Stays aloof but can talk anyone into anything if needed, yet he can also kick their asses if that is needed. He would rather sit back, watch others, and c… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/16 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Fascinating Womanhood Discussion!Welcome to our sub! It's always great to see new women :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/16 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Thank you :)This post kind of made me weepy :) I'm so glad you found us, and I sincerely hope that you two are able to turn this around! Please keep in mind that your journey will be a long one, and it will be difficult, but eventually you will internalize our concepts and everything will become second nature. You will do well at first, then you will backslide, and then you will try harder, and backslide again. Sometimes you will feel like you are taking two steps backward for every step forward, but as lon… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/16 11:05 AM |
| 3 | TradLife: More Than Just Dinner on the TableMe too! I loved this post! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/16 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Do you believes SOs who want control over your activities/company are abusive?LOL, I was sooooooooooooooo confused until I read your second paragraph :) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/16 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Do you believes SOs who want control over your activities/company are abusive?LOL, you might want to quote the line you are responding to at the top :) I thought you were defending the OP of the relationships post and calling the BF insecure! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/16 07:14 PM |
| 10 | Do you believes SOs who want control over your activities/company are abusive?A lot of women confuse genuine care and worry for abuse and control. My husband likes for me to text him when I get to work or any other place that I am going without him. Is that him being controlling? It sounds like he is keeping tabs on me, and he might not trust me to go where I say that I'm going. Hmmm, should I worry that he's about to become abusive, or is him wanting to know where I am already abusive? I happily do what he wants because I know that it is care and concern that motivates h… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | RPWi weekly reflection 6/27/16Yay! They are such a good idea and have saved us from misery a few times. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Together for a year ... and finding out things that alter my perception of my SOI think she got confused with the threading of replies and thought that she was replying to the OP's reply to her comment :) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/16 11:36 AM |
| 1 | RPWi weekly reflection 6/27/16I'm a big believer in checklists because I do tend to forget things (in every area if life, not just packing!), so at work I have checklists for various things that I do, and in our luggage you will find a simple checklist that I use to remind myself not to forget basic items like underwear, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/16 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Cookers vs. CleanersCooking is one of the ways I look inwards and center myself. Cooking after coming home from work is the best way I have found to de-stress and relax into home mode; I think that it is the act of concentrating on something completely different than what I do all day long, and in the process, create something from start to finish. Then I get to relax more and enjoy a great meal with my husband :) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/16 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Finding out things that alter my perception of my SO [UPDATE]Oh good! I was so hoping that it was nothing, and I'm very glad there was a happy ending to your story :) Now, try not to let these sort of things build up again; our hamsters do seem to go into overdrive when there are unanswered questions! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/16 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Together for a year ... and finding out things that alter my perception of my SOHahahahahaha! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/06/16 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Proprietary software shows how Hollywood's idea of female-face beauty changed over decadesI thought it was interesting how, from the shadows on the forehead, you can see a lessening in bangs or hair covering the forehead. Exposing it would also make the face appear longer and more horizontal. Also, the looks on the faces is interesting: the composite from the 20s is very sultry and coy showing that sexuality back then was more covert, the 60s composite shows more overt sexuality, probably due to the start of the sexual revolution around that time, and the 2010 composite is more "cute… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/06/16 11:49 AM |
| 7 | Together for a year ... and finding out things that alter my perception of my SOIs he familiar with RP or the manosphere? The reason I ask is because they are frequently looking at different profiles, usually really awful ones, on dating sites to talk about them. Fretting about it and letting your imagination go wild is not a good idea; I would probably ask about it. I wouldn't make a big deal about it either, but a casual, "I saw OKC come up on your computer the other day; what it up with that?" and then study his reaction to the question. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/06/16 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Proprietary software shows how Hollywood's idea of female-face beauty changed over decades/u/Camille11325's post, Characteristics Of Feminine Beauty spells out feminine and masculine characteristics; can you spot how Hollywood has changed its preferences through the years? Look at the different features, and put your thoughts in the comments! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/06/16 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Man leads...woman follows, everyone winsIt's a great list of how to show and keep respect for your man! Heck, it's a great list of how to treat people you love, in general :) | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/16 03:25 PM |
| 8 | Is Obesity the reason for the warped SMP in America?Yes, I'm so thankful that when I was a kid, kids were kicked out of the house during the day during summer until dinnertime and ran around in packs socializing all day. Likewise in high school and college, you had to leave the house to socialize, and if you were at home there was only a phone and it was attached to the wall immobilizing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/16 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Why Are Feminist Women So Fucking Pathetic?Feelz over realz :) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/06/16 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadJust watched the video also, that is amazing. Yes, I loved that video; I learned so much! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/16 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Problems with Husband's DesirePointing out your bad behavior is not bashing you; no one here was out of line or rude. Your behavior on both askMRP and here is one of the main reasons that your marriage is in the shape it is. You get defensive, and when people spell out why your behavior is bad, you call it "bashing" you and you call them "vicious". Ten to one, you act this same exact way at home, and that is the reason your husband treats you like a sex doll. He shows no affection because you bristle and get defensive at eve… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/16 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Problems with Husband's DesireI miss vampiresquidina. LOL! There's a lot more to the story that she isn't telling us; her posts and all of her comments are extremely vague. I've rarely seen this level of hedging details; she's keeping something back that is pivotal to her situation. Most likely it's something that would cause everyone to jump all over her ass. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/16 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadThis is really interesting; I love maps of all kinds! I watched a video on NOVA discussing how the Sahara feeds necessary nutrients to the Amazon Rain Forest, without which it would not survive. The deserts might need to be far enough from rain forests for the dust to reach higher wind streams. I don't believe that rain forests are self-sustaining since they basically just leach nutrients and without those nutrients it dies, and you are left with Laterite. Just a thought :) Disclaimer: I was a G… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/16 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Problems with Husband's Desire:) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/16 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Problems with Husband's DesireI suggest putting him first, STFUing if you want to snap at him, and reducing your expectations for a while. Treat him the way you want him to treat you: kiss him, snuggle, be cheerful and loving. It will take a while before he trusts that you have changed, and it will take as long for you to actually change. You will slip up, and it will seem like you take two steps backwards for every step forward, but if you treat him in a very loving way, he will likely return the affection. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/16 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Problems with Husband's DesireWhen couples are in a long relationship, the man doesn't really notice the wife aging or her physical faults mainly due to the fact of seeing her every day and the difference being very gradual. Think about how when you haven't seen someone in a while, their aging is much more noticeable, but when you see them regularly it's not as readily apparent. When wife goggles are smashed by being a shrew or by bad behavior then the man takes a good hard look at the wife and suddenly notices the aging and… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/16 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Problems with Husband's DesireWe give up on OPs that don't respond; there's no reason to keep giving advice to someone who isn't there. The men on MRP are always eager to talk to women though. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/16 09:11 PM |
| 8 | Problems with Husband's DesireOP are you going to respond to us or are you just going to flirt and seek validation with the men at askMRP? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/16 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Problems with Husband's DesireI think she smashed his wife goggles to bits. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/16 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Ask RPW: How Important Is Sexual Experience?Both :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/16 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Ask RPW: How Important Is Sexual Experience?Dating purposely is what I suggest; start looking for a good man, gain a commitment of at least exclusivity (neither dates others while in this relationship) and have at it! Here's an excellent guide to vetting a man and there are a bunch of other excellent essential posts in our wiki. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/16 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Ask RPW: How Important Is Sexual Experience?I think 21 and still a virgin is fine, but much longer than 21 and it will become a part of her identity and will hinder her dating abilities. The reasons she is still a virgin matters, also; is it from lack of interest? Is she saving herself? Religious? I suggest she immediately start purposely dating to find a good man. Sexual experience for a woman isn't that important IMO. Enthusiasm will make up for experience most of the time. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/16 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Gamma Males from the Drama Club Make Bad ArtThey know that this is not how it works and that men in real life are not like that I agree with everything except for the fact that we don't know whether or not the authors really do know how people are in real life. There are a lot of incredibly clueless people :) From my experience, unpopular/ not social/ unattractive people don't know how popular people act or what makes those people popular. If they did know, most of them would act accordingly and be popular; there are of course always the … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/16 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Gamma Males from the Drama Club Make Bad ArtHe's talking about people with high value trappings (high paying job, social status, power, etc.) that still retain their low value mindset (oneitis, socially awkward, inexperience with women, etc.) from high school; if you want to see examples of that, then go to MRP and look at posts by men who make a lot of money, work out, dress well, and yet cannot successfully maintain their relationships. The band members may or may not have high value trappings, but the reason they get women is because t… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/16 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Gamma Males from the Drama Club Make Bad ArtI have a hard time taking anyone seriously who continuously references Twilight as examples to prove his point. Examples like: "the book doesn’t reflect how the real world is." Did you even read the article, LOL? And other examples from Twilight are about the real life actors in the movie, and how they fit into his concept. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/16 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI've already posted about my other hobbies, so I thought I'd put my kombucha recipe here. I'm into fermenting and all things gut flora related, and besides kombucha, I make rice beer, beet kvass (my husband is addicted LOL!), and various other fermented items. Kombucha: With a scoby (ordered online or received from a friend): Heat a little less than ½ gallon filtered water (I use gallon spring water from the grocery store) to almost boiling and add a heaping ½ cup sugar. Stir until dissolved. Ad… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/16 12:56 PM |
| 1 | RPWi Weekly Self Reflections: 06/21/2016When I quit smoking, the best weapons I had were cough lozenges called Fisherman's Friends. They are super strong, take your mind off of any cravings, and if you take a deep breath through your mouth, the menthol fumes feel kind of like smoke :) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/16 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Gamma Males from the Drama Club Make Bad ArtLOL, yes :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/16 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Gamma Males from the Drama Club Make Bad Artsimple high school hierarchy no longer applies in many situations. True, but I don't believe that peoples' basic personalities change, and I bet that former cheerleader was always a bit depressive and kind of chubby, and the nerd was always somewhat socially adept, but was too busy studying to bother being social :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/16 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Gamma Males from the Drama Club Make Bad ArtAnother telling sign that so many of the writers were of lower value in school is how they portray anyone who is or was popular as being either evil or redeemable only because of their friendships with someone less popular. Yes, this is a very popular story line Fairy Tale that goes back as far as I can remember, and I never understood it. I never had the experience of popular people being mean girls or evil; some were of course, but there are mean and evil people of all hierarchies. I believe t… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/16 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Gamma Males from the Drama Club Make Bad ArtSocial hierarchy in high school roughly reflects a person's SMV; there are (or were, when I was in HS; things may have changed) very few unattractive and socially inept people in the popular crowd in HS. I think that most people retain that same place in the hierarchy outside of HS, also. I do not believe that their after HS life is much different than their HS life. They retain their social abilities (they don't turn dork the second they graduate), they retain their physical looks unless they g… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/16 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Gamma Males from the Drama Club Make Bad ArtLOL, agree and amplify is mostly teasing, like negging and amused mastery, and teasing does contribute to the push/pull of attraction. It causes a little bit of drama, maybe some blushing, definitely some emotions getting involved :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/16 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Gamma Males from the Drama Club Make Bad ArtWith the girls from the drama classes it was the same. They never got pursued by the football players. They didn’t experience attention from actual desirable men. They never felt the feeling of desiring and being desired in a pure animalistic manner. They never felt the pull that often times guides our actions. They never dealt with the experience of being luke-warm to a desirable man and watching him leave to pursue a different girl and seeing that girl desire him. These mid level girls never h… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/16 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Shit Post Saturday!Feminism and the military draft | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/16 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Monk Mode and RPW"Any minute now he will ride up on his white horse and sweep me away! All of my problems will finally be over!" | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/16 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Monk Mode and RPWWe do seem to have women who say they are in Monk Mode, but really they are just not dating or looking for a boyfriend. They take comfort in not having to actively do anything about their love life. It is fine to not date or look for a good man; they just need to know the consequence of this, which is remaining single and wasting their best childbearing years, if kids are desired. This isn't called Monk Mode though, it is called Actively Remaining Single. Monk Mode is for un-datable women to imp… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/16 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Checklist: Needs vs. WantsNeeds: Adores me Is a man not a mouse Is super hot :) | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/16 04:19 PM |
| 3 | New York Times Article on "Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person" Very insightful opinion piece.From the comments: I once asked a gay male couple about the secret to their longevity: thirty-five years as boyfriends and then husbands when the laws changed. They told me the key was "ignore-ance." Pay attention to the things you love in the other person, and ignore the stuff that makes you want to poison their oatmeal. Perfect! I like to spin them as endearing <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/16 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Does/did the pill influence your behaviour?Oh right, I have read a lot of links between zinc and B6 and how they need each other for absorption. Zinc is required for your body to utilize vitamin B6. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/16 01:28 PM |
| 5 | Does/did the pill influence your behaviour?I don't know about the pill, but I might be able to help with the PMS :) I replaced the pill with a copper IUD I stopped taking the pill I started having severe PMS... Try taking some zinc. The copper IUD might have contributed to an imbalance in your copper/zinc ratio, and zinc is very important for cycle regularity and PMS. This, coupled with either eating high copper foods like potatoes, kale, nuts, and beans, or zinc depleting activities like drinking alcohol, can cause copper toxicity/zinc … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/16 12:57 PM |
| 5 | Need advice on delicate financial situation. I'm having trouble being a good first mate!Do not dip into savings again. Save everything you can now; save up as much as possible. Look for a tiny inexpensive place in a good neighborhood instead of a bigger place in a bad neighborhood. If you can find something in a walkable neighborhood with a grocery store and other retail nearby, even better. Find the least expensive housing possible, forego cable or expensive phone plans (he will probably have a work phone anyway), and keep your monthly bills as low as possible. If you aren't going… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/16 01:59 AM |
| 2 | MAY 2016 SUBMISSION CONTEST WINNERS!!Congratulations everyone! Great job all around :) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/16 01:15 PM |
| 7 | What does your social life consist of?When I'm not at work I'm almost always with my husband, and we run around a lot. In spite of both being INTJ, we like to go out to Happy Hour, and we have found that introverts hang out early after work at neighborhood bars where they know all of the regulars. My family is in town, so we visit them too. The few times I'm not with him, I'm out with friends from high school at a restaurant catching up, or I'm taking classes at an art center nearby. Most of the time, however, we are chilling at hom… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/16 11:14 AM |
| 4 | Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen)you're re simply making up things and coming up with assumptions. I'm not making anything up, I have come to these assumptions based on the information given by you. It is a huge red flag that he initiated this relationship on a kink forum; there is a big chance that he does this often with many women because predators tend to hang out where they have access to a lot of vulnerable women. This coupled with the fact that you are the perfect target for this sort of man, having little to no experien… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/16 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen)I don't believe that anyone is saying to stop being into kink; they are saying that for a healthy relationship, kink cannot be the biggest part of a relationship and a committed relationship as a distant second in priority. This subreddit seems to think that kinky men aren't ltr material. No, we are saying that this one particular man is most likely not good LTR material; we are not lumping all kinky men together, but saying that this man you are seeing is not upholding his end of the relationsh… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/16 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen)I've noticed that you do not like what you're hearing in this sub. She wanted us to either tell her that it was okay to pursue this relationship or tell her how to get commitment from a man who messaged her on a kink forum. I have nothing against kink; to each their own, and whatever two consenting adults do in privacy is no one's business but their own. Still, I do believe he is a predator and he is telling her what she wants to hear when she wants to hear it to string her along. Now she wants … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/16 12:34 PM |
| 6 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldThat is why we say to get a good man and to vet thoroughly. You seem to have forgotten our basic premise for relationships. Is my husband a good man? Yes. Is my husband physically capable of making a fist and delivering a blow (can he hit)? Yes, his arms and hands work, so he is able to make a punching motion. Will he hit me? I'm certain that I know him well enough to push the right buttons that would make him want to hit me, but I am also certain, based on over 30 years worth of experience with… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 04:31 PM |
| 19 | Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen)What I think is happening is that he is/was grooming you for a role in his life, and that role is not of a wife, mother, or even a committed, exclusive relationship. He was grooming you for his fetish, for you two to share that fetish while you are together, and this would probably not be a 24/7 thing but a once or twice a week thing. We used to have 4 hour phone calls, but now we go days without talking on the phone at all. He texts me every day, though. He started off talking to you for hours … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/06/16 11:24 AM |
| 11 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldpeople are triggered now by REALITY or stuff that's not about them at all Yes! They are triggered by cold, hard truth because they have never had to face the truth growing up. "You are a beautiful girl no matter what your size." "You have all the time in the world; enjoy yourself while you are young and you can settle down later!" Their parents/school/media have placated them with platitudes for so long, telling them that everything will be fine, they are doing great, gold stars for everyone, th… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/16 01:56 PM |
| 13 | Young women can't cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right view of the worldGeneration Snowflake, I love it! I think there are a few factors in why kids today are so fragile, and I think that a lot of it is due to the divorce culture that is abundant today. Kids have fewer siblings today than Gen-X, most likely due to families not staying together, or they may have siblings, but half siblings that don't live under the same roof. Kids tease each other and help each other develop thicker skins. If I were fragile as a child, with all of my boisterous siblings, I wouldn't h… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/16 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Keeping Score in Your a RelationshipWomen seem to think that they are the ones doing more in a relationship. All the time. It's because women only see what THEY are doing and don't notice what their husband is doing towards the relationship/household. The stuff that their husbands do just magically gets done, but the wives have to work at doing their stuff. Equal duties to women means that their husbands do all of the husband's chores and then half of the wife's. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/16 11:38 AM |
| 9 | Why do we loose attraction?The problem wasn't completely unsolvable, and she could have told him, but she chose the easier route of branch swinging. The problem here is that in a matter of six short months he had completely quit trying; if he really were the person that she had initially been attracted to, he wouldn't have let himself go the instant she moved in with him. I can see letting yourself go somewhat over the years/decades as you age and your other responsibilities grow, but this guy was fresh out of college and… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/06/16 01:29 PM |
| 12 | Why do we loose attraction?My habits got poorer and poorer, I cleaned my place less and went to the gym less, where I used to keep my place minimalistic and worked out every day. I didn't gain weight, but I definitely lost muscle mass and stopped working on myself. I was content and stupid. Sex had been slowly getting more and more periodic. He had his shit together when he met her, and she was attracted to that, then he got comfortable and let his shit go. She was not attracted to that. He was on his best behavior attrac… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/06/16 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday!Related. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/06/16 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Characteristics Of Feminine BeautyWill do! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/06/16 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Characteristics Of Feminine BeautyOn the IRC, /u/wingnut described masculine features as vertical and feminine features as horizontal, which goes with your neoteny description: short and wide face (usually heart shaped or round), large eyes, wide set eyes, small and rounded nose, smooth, and bright skin, small chin, and large cheeks. I think that there are quite a few things that can be done to appear more feminine, such as smiling more (pulls your face to a shorter, more horizontal plane; this is why men look goofy and should n… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/06/16 01:38 PM |
| 4 | Keep This In Mindif people want to run a space where they accept everything any RP man says as law, that's fine by me Where have we taken "everything any RP man says as law"? You are exaggerating for effect and twisting us agreeing with one man, a respected RP contributor and a mainstay of the manosphere, into all RP men everywhere. I get it though, you didn't like what you read, so you are being petulant and resorting to childish non-arguments. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/05/16 06:08 PM |
| 4 | What would be your reaction if 90% of men in society absolutely refused to get married?We were never big on marriage and were together for a decade, bought a house together, opened a music venue together, when our attorney said we were as good as married without the benefits, so we caught a plane to Vegas. I say if you don't know or if you have questions, consult an attorney, not TRP, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/16 10:47 PM |
| 3 | What are your SOs quirks?Men love controlling fire too, LOL! If there is a fire in a fireplace, no matter where it is, they almost have to poke at it with fireplace pokers. Our neighborhood bar has a fireplace near the men's restroom, and as men pass it, they seem compelled to rearrange it to make it burn better. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/16 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Is PMS Just Another Excuse to be a Bitch?there are some cycles where I get extremely fatigued, terrible aches, and and just all around feel like crap Try taking zinc on those cycles where you feel like this, and see if it helps. I've read that at the start of our cycle, women's blood goes high in copper and low in zinc, so if you are also eating high copper foods like potatoes or if you have a copper IUD, the copper imbalance might be fighting the zinc in your system. Magnesium glycinate might be another good supplement to try. They ar… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/16 11:14 AM |
| 5 | What are your SOs quirks?My husband is addicted to masonry; I swear his goal is to eventually pave or build walls on our entire yard. He has been doing this since a neighbor helped him with a project in the early 90s, and he has paved/built patios and walls on two other houses before this one. Right now he is in the middle of a huge patio in the back yard, which he plans to build a tall wall on the South side with and outdoor fireplace, and then a short wall around the rest of it and put a pergola on top to shade it a l… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/16 11:30 AM |
| 11 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes Megathread + An Announcement!Here is some of the jewelry that I have finished lately; I'm still a beginner and learning a lot, but I'm having tons of fun wearing them around! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/16 11:20 AM |
| 4 | [Theory] The complete guide to Sparkling Water.My water isn't very sparkly; how can I make it more sparkly without outright telling it to sparkle more? I don't want to top my water from the bottom, but I want it to sparkle more thinking that it was its own idea to sparkle. Can I buy it a book or provide it a website that will give it a sparkly idea of what I want? I know that you can only change your own sparkles, and not the sparkles of your water; your water has to want to sparkle more to change itself. How do I make my water want to be mo… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/16 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Avoid Overthinking a SituationLOL, I think the point of this meme is that he has no clue that she is building his silence, while he's thinking about his own stuff, into this huge monster problem. If she asked him why he was quiet, I'm certain that he would have told her. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/05/16 05:15 PM |
| 7 | I trusted him, He let me down, We salvaged things, It was awesome!So you are saying that he owes you, otherwise why would you bring up this unrelated sacrifice you made for him. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/16 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Guidelines for RPW dating?BSC has a great list; perhaps after you tackle those, you can check out Phantom's guide to Online Dating and Camille's Psychological Feminity. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/16 10:25 PM |
| 1 | another chair situationMen have much different ideas on things than women; they are so much more utilitarian and we are so much more design and comfort. We have been looking around at small travel trailers, and he wants function, and I want something adorable or something super cool. We will probably end up outfitting a van or something, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/16 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions!It's an old saying that basically means that the more you know a person, the more you can see their faults. If a person concentrates too hard on the faults and refuses to see the good things that they love about a person, that is when the relationship is lost. People tend to see idiosyncrasies as faults after some time, when all they really are is someone doing things a different way than you would. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/16 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions!I think the 7 year itch is that it takes about that amount of time to get comfortable enough around your spouse that you take them for granted. Familiarity breeds contempt a lot of times, and relationships are not an exception to this rule. As far as menopause, you just continue living your life and having a healthy sexual relationship. Nothing really changes except you trade your period for some hot flashes for a few years. There might be some other things that will change, like your metabolism… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/16 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Simple Questions!I have a sort of self-imposed uniform, which makes my life a lot easier. I'm older and have been married a long time, so you probably don't want to take it to the same extreme as I did! You find a shape that flatters your body (like Anna Wintour and her A-Line dresses)and then buy a variation on that in small amounts and different complementary colors. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/16 01:12 PM |
| 8 | In need of advice: single 19 y/o can't attract a confident, competant guyBingo! OP, you have to be healthy to attract healthy men; the reason you are attracting low value (unhealthy) men is because you are also unhealthy. Please seek help with the ED you embrace and get fit (mentally) for a fit man. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/05/16 03:33 PM |
| 7 | There is no such thing as PerfectGreat post and an important thing to remember. I think one of the quotes goes like: Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good, or completing the project well is made impossible by striving to complete it perfectly. Often, good enough is better than trying for perfection, and our husbands probably aren't looking for or requiring perfection, anyway. Perfection is a huge pain in the butt and can add stress for both partners, LOL! Personally, in many areas of my life, I declare "Good Enough" an… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 10:00 PM |
| 3 | How to Handle a Depressed HusbandDreamy, really? You are extremely condescending and rude. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 09:26 PM |
| 4 | How to Handle a Depressed HusbandHi Bakerofpie! We've missed you! I'm so sorry about all of the troubles you are going through with your health and well-being; that is so difficult to deal with, for you and your husband. I don't really have any good suggestions about the depression; I have struggles myself when my husband is down (he lost a good friend recently, so I have been dealing with sort of a similar but very temporary situation), and I feel helpless trying to help him through this situation. What might help, if you feel… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 11:34 AM |
| 2 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!You are like the opposite of a Zika baby" LOLOLOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/16 12:53 PM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Whatever it is; it's genetic. Origin of Bronys discovered? Read the comments, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/16 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Is being a perfect fit with his family just a fairytale?Your post and all of your comments are dripping with disdain for his family; you hint around but skirt the fact that you find them all loutish simpletons. You aren't upset that you aren't fitting in; you are upset that they aren't fitting YOU. That's not how life works, and the sooner you learn to enjoy people the way they ARE (not the way you want them to be), the sooner you will fit in. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/16 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Is being a perfect fit with his family just a fairytale?Well, if you only enjoy hanging out with one type of person doing only very intellectual and spiritual things then you are probably boring the crap out of his family and they are probably well aware that you look down your nose at them. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/16 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Is being a perfect fit with his family just a fairytale?they are all verrry extroverted Yeah, extroverts don't wax philosophical in group settings very often, LOL! Group settings are like party time; you don't sit and quietly discuss The Origin of Consciousness in the Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind; you small talk, catch up on everyone, gossip a little, etc. The main thing is to interact in a pleasant way with everyone and keep things light, so you thinking that they are not capable of "intellectual, or witty/humorous conversations" is an end result… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/16 04:14 PM |
| 5 | New here and so glad to have found this community! Hoping a female perspective can clarify the notion of conditioning?Conditioning would only be needed if you were someone who had no self awareness and acted accordingly. I suspect that the reason TRP is so into things like conditioning is because they are looking for a different sort of woman than we strive to be here. They are looking for women who have sex immediately, who don't vet thoroughly, and who won't be bugging them for any sort of commitment. TRP, in looking for the sort of woman that has no self awareness or future time orientation, will have a need… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/16 01:54 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with the worry?My husband is the same, he likes dangerous hobbies, and he used to have dangerous jobs because he enjoyed them. To deal with this I have to remind myself that he is doing what he loves, and that he was this way before I met him. To tone him down and urge cautious behavior would be to tell him to not be him; besides, as a bit of an adrenaline junkie myself, his attraction to danger was one of the main ways he attracted me. So, you can have a nice docile non-risk taking husband that you are less a… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/16 01:35 PM |
| 9 | New here and so glad to have found this community! Hoping a female perspective can clarify the notion of conditioning?Luckily, not many men (~150K out of ~3.6 Billion men in the world) adhere to the new and increasingly bizarre concepts that TRP is now claiming as RP, so your chances of running into one will be very low! Yes, we "discuss issues and come up with adequate solutions" in our marriages, and we don't do mind games. Mind games are a way of getting and maintaining control of your relationship, and a lot of women here are fighting their need for control. In fact, you will see a lot of posts on that very… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/05/16 11:26 AM |
| 4 | [Hamster, Hamster, Where's the Hamster?] The Things I Missed Out On Because I Got Married As A Teenagermarrying young does have sacrifices Well, really, every decision has sacrifices; when a person decides to take one road, they sacrifice the road(s) not taken. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/16 09:35 AM |
| 5 | [Hamster, Hamster, Where's the Hamster?] The Things I Missed Out On Because I Got Married As A TeenagerI didn’t make the usual mistakes Didn't hop onto the CC... didn’t cry on the shoulders of my friends About the guys that didn't call the next day... | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/16 03:48 PM |
| 10 | [Hamster, Hamster, Where's the Hamster?] The Things I Missed Out On Because I Got Married As A TeenagerYou know what they are crying about? MEN. Yes, exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/16 03:29 PM |
| 14 | [Hamster, Hamster, Where's the Hamster?] The Things I Missed Out On Because I Got Married As A TeenagerNo telling; it's like she is blaming marriage for her inability to make friends. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/16 02:43 PM |
| 7 | [Hamster, Hamster, Where's the Hamster?] The Things I Missed Out On Because I Got Married As A Teenageronce everyone started getting into serious relationships I lost touch with most everyone I knew in my twenties Yes, this happened to me too; after college most people moved away across the nation, and then the rest grew away from each other as they reached certain relationship, family, and career goals. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/16 02:42 PM |
| 1 | [Hamster, Hamster, Where's the Hamster?] The Things I Missed Out On Because I Got Married As A TeenagerPoint out the rationalizations the author used in this article! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/16 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Smash it Down vs AcceptanceFacing these things head on, accepting that you are feeling fear, anger, frustration, etc. will give you the time and the reason to mull these things over and figure out why you are feeling them. Very helpful advice! I noticed myself doing this early on because it was difficult to stop my recurring feelings until I took them out and examined them in detail.When I realized that most of the things that I found annoying were just me being annoyed (he didn't do things exactly like I would, he had a … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/05/16 01:27 PM |
| 5 | Please help me sort out my hamster brain and do the right thingGood question! It sounds like they dated for a little while, have been LDR for a year, and will continue to be LDR for another year or so before the end date of the LDR. So, dating a few months, and then rarely seeing of talking to each other for two years before moving in with each other, and there is already dissatisfaction in the relationship. OP, do you/can you really know him? Are you willing to spend another year in a relationship as it is today, in the hopes that it will become better in … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/05/16 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to husband about red pillYou never know until you try :) But yeah, if they are here for attention and validation, then we definitely want them to stay here instead! | /r/askMRP | 08/05/16 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Are these "toxic behaviours really toxic?Yes, exactly! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/16 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Are these "toxic behaviours really toxic?True! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/16 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Are these "toxic behaviours really toxic?Every person has flaws and imperfections. You can’t ever force a person to change. Therefore: You must date somebody who has flaws you can live with or even appreciate. There are flaws that are real and detrimental to a relationship, and then there are "flaws" like the way he dresses or folds towels. The former flaws are deal breakers, and the latter "flaws" are something you need to either ignore or enjoy because they are YOUR perception of what YOU find to be a flaw. The more you try to change… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/16 02:23 PM |
| 2 | The CTFO MethodI love this! More women do need to CTFU! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/16 02:16 AM |
| 6 | Dating stories! The good, the bad, and the hilarious!Hilarious: Once i went out with this guy - total sweetheart, star of the wrestling and football teams; he picked me up and then stopped at a convenience store and bought a CASE of Stag beer. I gave it the side-eye and then we both laughed: I don't think he had bad intentions, I think it was just how he partied. Funny thing was that we were on our way to a keg party, LOL! Bringing beer to a keg party :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/05/16 02:10 PM |
| 5 | TRP on Border ErosionYou are adorable when you are grumpy! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/16 01:09 PM |
| 4 | TRP on Border ErosionNo love for me :'( | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/16 01:36 AM |
| 3 | 5 Baby Steps to De-Shrewing: Things You Can Employ Right Now to Be a Better WifeI was so excited to see it! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Mother's Day Megathread!Awwww :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 04:36 PM |
| 7 | Difference between following and being lead?Ah, RPW six weeks. You have just begun your journey, so give yourself some time to adjust. This doesn't mean to slack off on your improvement, but it means that it will take some time and a lot of hard work, so realize that everything will not sink in immediately, and you probably will have an "aha" moment some time in the near future where things will suddenly make sense. Usually it takes between six months to a year; the equation is usually at least one month for every year together. So, just … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 01:02 PM |
| 1 | I really just need some outside perspective, I think I'm too close to the problem to see it clearly.Like, did this ship sink and I just didn't notice? I really have no clue what happened. If it's his job, and being on a layoff is stressful, it has nothing to do with you, but can you handle this every year this season? Could it be that the honeymoon period wore off and you two have settled into a routine? It might be a routine that suits him and matches his libido but leaves you wondering what happened. The best I can do is to say to maybe get a hobby that interests you, and give him more space… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 12:54 PM |
| 6 | I really just need some outside perspective, I think I'm too close to the problem to see it clearly.You say that this progression started about a year ago and has become more noticeable in the past six months; how long ago did you discover RPW? It sounds to be like the flame went out of your relationship, but there could be any number of factors at play here. I'm just going to throw some ideas out there. How is his job? Sometimes if a job is going poorly, it can affect people's mood, and they can become more withdrawn. Maybe he likes you feisty! Did his withdrawal happen before or after you qu… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingThey work for me, so maybe it's your phone :) Check them out next time you are on a computer, and Welcome to RPW! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Simple Homemaking Hacks - SHHput on a podcast or audiobook while you work/clean Or loud high-energy music! We do what we call 3 Minute Miracles: jump up, set the egg timer, dash around like a mad person, and clean a much as possible in 3 minutes. Also works for the duration of commercial time on TV, etc. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Simple Homemaking Hacks - SHHI was doing laundry yesterday and had the tedious task of dealing with mass amount of dog/cat hair on my clothes. Where the dryer would normally take care of this, these clothes were hung up outside to dry. After drying them outside, could you pop them in the dryer for a couple of minutes with a dryer sheet (or something anti-static) to get the hair off? Or would that defeat the purpose of air-drying? | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Can a plate earn commitment? What must they do to get the upgrade?I think that women that don't know for certain that their man is with other women still instinctively know and have turned a blind eye to the situation. Sort of putting your hands over you ears and loudly singing "Lalalalalalalalala". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Can a plate earn commitment? What must they do to get the upgrade?Personally, no, I have never studied the proper usage of the term; I'm using it the way I've seen it referred to by manosphere writers for years. I think that when you are speaking of one aspect of time orientation (future), and you agree that these orientations can be applied to people on a sliding scale (no one is 100% future oriented), then you can talk about whether a person is high (more FTO) or low (less FTO) on that certain time orientation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Can a plate earn commitment? What must they do to get the upgrade?There are four basic psychological time orientations: Past Time-line Present Future So, I guess according to those authors, low FTO = present time orientation: not considering future repercussions, and high FTO = FTO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Can a plate earn commitment? What must they do to get the upgrade?in his mind you're just not fucking him and are more likely to be forgotten If their lifestyles and relationship goals aren't compatible, then why would a woman care if he forgets her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 03:44 PM |
| 7 | Can a plate earn commitment? What must they do to get the upgrade?You can generally tell by spending a little time with him and seeing if his goals and lifestyle is compatible with yours; if a man can't wait a couple of dates to be vetted before sex, then his goals are probably not compatible with the high FTO woman. Don't worry though, there are tons and tons of low FTO women who will not vet or date purposefully :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 02:38 PM |
| 12 | Can a plate earn commitment? What must they do to get the upgrade?If she ain't fucking you, she probably isn't attracted (or attracted enough). If she is, then she's already a plate. Some women have low future time orientation and will have sex indiscriminately with attractive men without thought to the future, but women with high FTO will delay or forgo gratification that is not in their best interests. It doesn't mean that the woman thinks the man is unattractive or less attractive, it means that she knows what she wants from a relationship and will not sett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 02:21 PM |
| 9 | Can a plate earn commitment? What must they do to get the upgrade?Absolutely. They have already demonstrated that it is acceptable to them for their man to have other women, so why would he quit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 01:39 PM |
| 11 | Can a plate earn commitment? What must they do to get the upgrade?I think the highest commitment a plate will ever get is Top Plate because once one of his many women, always one of his many women. I've known plates to move in and be in a committed living arrangement, but I haven't yet seen the man drop other women from his routine for a woman who plated herself. I have seen men drop all of his other women for a woman who refuses to be plated and is of high enough quality (adds a lot of value to his life) that the man decides that an exclusive relationship wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 01:09 PM |
| 3 | What is your before bed routine?I do simple things on most nights like most women here, but as I've gotten older, I take magnesium glycinate (best kind) and zinc before bed to help me sleep. It's Sundays where I make sure I'm ready for the week, and if I'm ready for the week, I'm ready for each morning. I make sure that for the coming work week I have clean clothes, food for lunch at work, and simple but necessary things like that. I don't really do a whole lot of planning because my life is pretty routine at the moment. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 11:03 AM |
| 1 | A Captain trying to help his first mateHahaha, good luck with that! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 10:23 AM |
| 2 | "Spring Cleaning" the RP Woman and MarriageI actually want to write a thread about it and give some easy tips for how to be prepared both at home, on the go, and create a good car kit. This would be great! We have been culling our stuff and donating lots of stuff; the problem is that we then go into the store and buy more stuff :) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 11:48 PM |
| 2 | "Spring Cleaning" the RP Woman and MarriageAfter whatever it was that took all my time goes away I open my eyes and go "ACK!" and just buckle down and do whatever I've been neglecting. I don't really have any tools except that I love Clorox Wipes; they are magic. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 11:34 PM |
| 2 | "Spring Cleaning" the RP Woman and MarriageMargery! So great to hear from you again! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Repost - sex is important, k?Here is the link to the comment. Great post, and this woman really spells it out in plain English. It's awful to lock a person into an exclusive sexual relationship and then deny them sex; it's a large part of what holds a couple together. You get to decide. Do you want a full life and a stronger marriage and happier family? Or do you just want to neglect him and bleed him dry until he cheats or leaves you to be with a passionate woman who will love him and your kids? | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 01:34 PM |
| 2 | A Captain trying to help his first mateWell, we aren't with members of TRP, mostly; whoever finds it first does what they need to do to improve their lives. My husband didn't learn about the manosphere (this was before TRP, and since then my husband thinks TRP is childish) until about six months after. they shouldn't be critiquing the women they should be coming up with guidelines to change themselves. Absolutely. They are so concentrated on blaming women for all of their problems that they can't see that they themselves are the prob… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 11:44 PM |
| 3 | There are only three ways to meet anyone anymoreLOL, we met on the way to a bar :) | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 12:37 AM |
| 13 | In light of the RPWives/RPWomen split, what is the role of trad-con and marriage in relation to TRP?Dang, I'm missing out! I've only had one man for 30+ years! I have at least 360 alphas to screw to catch up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/16 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Beware "reporters" and People with *NO* history interacting with this community"Reporters" hahaha Bloggers that are trying very hard to become paid bloggers by throwing entire polite and cohesive communities under the bus. Bloggers that get paid to write hit articles like these two. This is what they will do to your words; they will turn your words against you. Screaming yellow journalism at it's finest :) | /r/RedPillWives | 28/04/16 10:00 AM |
| 5 | An invitation to older women to get your feet wet.I don't believe that there was a forum for women before reddit, but a lot of the women bloggers did email each other and we commented on each other's blogs. There used to be a lot of women in the manosphere a few years ago. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/04/16 09:51 AM |
| 3 | There are only three ways to meet anyone anymoreBe sure to check out the link in the article that has a lot of other interesting charts! | /r/RedPillWives | 27/04/16 07:04 PM |
| 5 | In light of the RPWives/RPWomen split, what is the role of trad-con and marriage in relation to TRP?Ewwww, TMI! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/16 04:34 PM |
| 9 | In light of the RPWives/RPWomen split, what is the role of trad-con and marriage in relation to TRP?I wasn't making a sales pitch; I was replying in the same vein as your original comment. If you are sub-optimal, you will have a sub-optimal marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/16 03:21 PM |
| 5 | A Captain trying to help his first mateThere have been plenty of women who have followed our advice and have seen their husband/SOs step up with no prodding and no covert contracts. I just think, from what I've read of yours, that you seem pretty down on him, and you keep mentioning you improving and him not improving in the same sentence. Usually it will take at least six months before husbands/SOs realize that you are going to keep up with your improvements, and maybe as long as a year; if it hasn't been that long, just be patient,… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 10:11 PM |
| 9 | A Captain trying to help his first mateI've seen you say this same basic thing in a few different places, and you sound frustrated that your husband isn't doing what you want him to do in response to you improving. This is called a covert contract when you do a certain thing in hopes that another person will do what you want. It is a contract that you made in your head, and he isn't fulfilling his part of the bargain that he doesn't know about. Improve yourself and become a better person for you. Since he isn't shaping up the way you… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 09:21 PM |
| 9 | A Captain trying to help his first mateLead by example, not by telling her what to do. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 08:03 PM |
| 13 | A Captain trying to help his first mateWe aren't Stepford Wives, doormats, and no Kool-Aid is involved :) We are normal women with normal lives; some have careers, some are SAHMs, some are still in college. Our husbands don't run our lives, and many SOs don't even know that we are RPW; they wonder how we suddenly got nice! RPW is basically an exercise in viewing and treating your husband with respect, making your relationship more harmonious, and reaping the rewards of thinking more of others than of yourself. The main focus here is … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 07:06 PM |
| 5 | The Lost Art of the Handwritten CardThey are so cute, and nice and small, so you can't write more than a note. It makes communication so much more personal, and now that everyone communicates by text, all anyone gets in the mail are bills and junk mail; I like to think that the surprise brightens people's day! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 05:36 PM |
| 5 | The Lost Art of the Handwritten CardGreat post! I have a lot of different little note cards with drawings on the front that open up to a blank page where you can write your note. They are small, about 3" x 4" and come with cute colored envelopes, and I use them all of the time for thank you notes, etc. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 05:28 PM |
| 2 | An invitation to older women to get your feet wet.I did try the IRC. Twenty minutes in I thought my head would explode. I could not begin to keep up. Yeah, you have to be fast and not worry about capitalization or punctuation to jump in sometimes, but other times, earlier in the morning US time, we are a lot quieter :) | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 11:13 AM |
| 4 | What is your favourite quote?"To be completely woman you need a master, and in him a compass for your life. You need a man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone him it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long." I love this <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.I think she's the ideal candidate for learning a great deal from RPW. I think the community could really change her life. Unfortunately, if it doesn't align with her outlook, she rejects it like oil to water. I'm not sure what if any granules of truth she has absorbed. True! Unfortunately she wants a magic spell to make the perfect boyfriend appear out of nowhere without her lifting a finger or leaving her job/house. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.If I didn't know better, I would think that we were being trolled by one of those AI bots that tries to interact in a social environment without getting identified as such... This is her 3rd post just like this in 26 days; one before we left old RPW and two on the current sub. It is getting tiresome :) | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.The thing is about the woodworking scenario isn't that she doesn't like woodworking, but that she doesn't like doing ANYTHING, so no matter what date she goes on, and whatever he asks her, her reply will be negative. Look at her comment history; hardly any positive comments in the bunch: she is a Negative Nancy. Imagine taking her out, and her saying things to you like she has in her comments; not great. She has had a lot of first dates, but no second dates, so she can attract men, but then her … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 07:05 PM |
| 5 | How many times have you heard a TRPer say, "It's no offense to you, but I'm never going to get married."?What you are describing here is a situation where you will be working to help him build his assets with no safety net of your own. This may be fine while you are in school, but when you are out of school, working for him (because you two will not be working together towards a common goal if everything is solely in his name), "doing all of the chores, raising chickens for meat/eggs, growing vegetables", with no job, no job history (I assume), no marriage, and no way of protecting yourself if he b… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.Look around, maybe there is another activity you might be interested in that men will also be interested in. I think the best thing you can do is keep an open mind, which you don't seem to have right now, and try some new things. Having the "nothing is going to work" attitude isn't going to help, and might be the very thing that is holding you back and turning good men away from you. A positive attitude is key, so you might want to develop one. Always look on the briiiiiight side of life... | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.I have always heard that when we are actively looking for love we usually don't find it... That's a "feel good" thing that people say to make single people feel better about their situation. Doesn't sound genuine. I wanted to meet a guy spontaneously, unexpectedly Prince Charming is a fairy tale; no one is going to ride in on a white horse and sweep you away. It hasn't worked for the decade or so that you have been dating/available, so chances are that it will not work now either. If you want a … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.Monk mode is generally for people in bad breakups where they need to take time and reassess their goals, not for people who have basically spent 29 years in a similar mode. Why not, instead of going as many places as possible to meet men, go to where the men are? Get involved in groups and classes where the male population is larger than the female population. Some suggestions might be to take competitive sharp shooting classes, learn skydiving or take lessons to be a pilot, take woodworking cla… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 11:40 AM |
| 4 | Tootle time!We are both from large families, and really in large families, farts are generally something that you get used to from an early age, especially if you have brothers, LOL! I try to not fart around him just because of the smell factor, but I'm not getting out of bed if I wake up and feel the need in the middle of the night. Generally if we fart audibly around each other would we blame it on the dogs (when we used to have them) or on one of the plush toys we have on a shelf. Then we laugh about it … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 11:31 AM |
| 3 | A case for discussing exclusivity before entering a relationshipI think the most important thing is to make sure neither of you are in another sexual relationship, and you are both open to having a relationship with each other (not FWB, not ONS, etc.), and if it is within your comfort level, you can see how it goes. Keep in mind though that I'm older and started dating in the 70s back when there wasn't all this game playing and weird stuff going on. Back when I first started dating, most people wanted relationships that lasted, so this approach usually worke… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 11:18 AM |
| 2 | A case for discussing exclusivity before entering a relationshipI've never had a bad or even lukewarm experience sexually with a man that I was wildly attracted to, so I don't know about trying them out before starting a relationship; back in those days ONSs weren't really expected or common. I guess if I had specific kinks that I needed to make it enjoyable, then sex before vetting would be the way to go about it, though. It's not like anyone is saying wait until marriage or months or anything, but maybe talk to them for a couple of dates, LOL! One conversa… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanHow many times does a person have to explain something to a person who chooses to not understand? I've explained it to you repeatedly and your answers are: "But, but, but, whisper!" "But, but, but, censorship!" "But, but, but dissenting perspectives!" You choose to pretend to not understand, and all of your replies are exactly the same refrain. Go ahead, reply again with "whisper, censorship, dissenting perspectives!" since that seems to be your mantra right now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/16 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanDespite your huge hard-on for whisper, we will not be changing our sub to cater to you, whisper, or anyone else. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/16 01:04 PM |
| 6 | Moving cross country for boyfriend (not fiancé/husband)You have to decide for yourself what your relationship limits are, and what is acceptable to you. Saying that, it sounds like you are subtly pressuring him for more commitment: I've hinted at needing a longer term commitment Personally, I think that moving across the country to live apart, in separate places, is economically a bad decision, but that is for you to decide. You need to decide if he is worth the move. There is risk involved in every decision; is he worth the risk? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanDissenting opinions in this case = a bunch of reddit dweebs wanting to further their agenda by infiltrating a sub full of like-minded women. Look what happened to the old RPW when those men were let back in; the women who were left in the sub have gone silent, and now it is overwhelmingly men in there chatting among themselves. In our sub we do discuss the issues, and there are dissenting perspectives that we discuss. There's no reason in the world why we have to cater to whisper, or men in gene… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/16 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanWhisper's post is not the reason we banned him; if you are that interested in what he said to get banned, look in his history back a couple of years ago and see for yourself. It's our sub and we can do what we want with it. There are tons of other subs that do exactly what you wish, so you can go to any of those, including the old RPW, and be happy as a clam there. No one is forcing anyone to be at /r/RedPillWives, but since we are a sub for like-minded women, and all the best and brightest RPW … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/16 11:54 AM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!These were on my twitter feed this morning: This explains a LOT about trolls Reincarnation gone horribly wrong | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill Woman"Be more masculine dammit!" cracks whip | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/16 12:56 AM |
| 12 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanI'm happy with the final arrangement :) We took all of the best and brightest women with us, men don't bother us, TBP leaves us alone now: it's win win win all the way! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/16 12:27 AM |
| 7 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanI wasn't picking a fight; I was pointing out a fact. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/16 12:23 AM |
| 7 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanNot enough people in RP to start carving territory IMHO. Said on a sub that carved a new territory :) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/16 12:08 AM |
| 12 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanRedPillWives is a sub for women not men, and we are not a debate sub. We are a sub for like-minded women to discuss our lives, exchange ideas that are important to us, and we help women with their problems; TRP are not women. If they want to debate this subject, they can go on a debate sub like /r/PurplePillDebate. You don't go on /r/Christianity and extol the virtues of the devil, LOL. We are here for the women on our sub, not for the men on TRP. Edited to say that you would probably like the o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/04/16 11:45 PM |
| 15 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanLet's put it this way, TRP says horrible things about sluts, except the plates slutting it up for them personally, yet they come to our sub and tell our women to be sluts. They say to have sex with men immediately in hopes of getting a man. Basically they suggest throwing your genitals at every man in hopes that it eventually sticks to one. In reality, there are plenty of high value men who will wait a few dates for sex. At /r/RedPillWives we suggest vetting a man before sex to make sure he want… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/04/16 10:00 PM |
| 10 | Slight Rule Change Regarding Red Pill WomanActually whisper was banned at old RPW years ago for repeatedly telling our women to have sex with men immediately (men won't wait a date or two) and be plates for a while to get a man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/04/16 09:24 PM |
| 8 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!LOL, it's funny, my husband LOVES home cooked meals! I guess she only dates fast food eating ingrates; sucks to be her then :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 04:43 PM |
| 5 | An invitation to older women to get your feet wet.what is the goal of redpillwives? We don't really have a goal except doing our best to maintain harmonious relationships; we aren't out to save the world or anything :) This is a space for like-minded women to get together, compare notes, and make our lives better. I'm not sure I know what redpill even means, exactly. It's basically recognizing that men and women are different and acting on those differences in the most positive way possible to enhance our relationships with our husbands/SOs, an… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 04:38 PM |
| 5 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Let’s Stop Idealizing the Home-Cooked Family Dinner, LOL! and The Federalist's rebuttal. Wisdom worth sharing | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 03:39 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to husband about red pillCome play with us at /r/RedPillWives! We are a group of women that understand the principles and truths of RP, but we approach those from the woman's view, and discuss how to be more supporting and encouraging of our husbands/SOs while taming the beasts (nagging and bitchiness) inside us :) Oh, and we share recipes and talk about girly stuff too, LOL! | /r/askMRP | 23/04/16 01:07 PM |
| 10 | Do redpill ideas translate to parenting?In the olden days when I was a kid, there was a refrain heard a lot, "Wait until your father comes home!", and then we were given chores to do immediately, like raking the yard, and my mother would say, "I want you to think about what you have done while you are working." Even on TV shows back then used those same words that my mother used. If we were getting rowdy, we would be sent out to run around the block a few times to use up some of our excess energy, LOL! I think the threat of punishment… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 12:51 PM |
| 6 | Do redpill ideas translate to parenting?It is that fear that we put on our sons that can make them beta. Excellently put! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 12:41 PM |
| 7 | An invitation to older women to get your feet wet.I'm a couple of years younger than you and with my husband for a few less years, and had never even heard of reddit when I was asked to moderate the old sub almost three years ago. OMG I made so many mistakes! I didn't even know there was such a thing as a troll, and had no idea that there was a sub out there made purely to mock and ridicule us. Pretty much our first 20 or so posts were from TBP with users making up crazy stories so that they could post them to their sub and laugh at us, LOL! I … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Etiquette: Chapters 1-3Great post! I've loved reading old etiquette books since I was a kid; there were always a bunch around the house, a lot of my Mother's and Grandmother's. One book suggested walking around with a book on your head for better posture, and my sisters and I started walking around the house with books on our heads, LOL! I really need to see if my parents still have some of those. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/16 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsHave you done a thread on all of this stuff at any point? I really should; I have about 10000000 links on it bookmarked, LOL! I think the main reason that I haven't is because pretty much every day I discover a new extremely important piece of the gut flora puzzle! Lately I have discovered a lot of evidence that iron overload is one of the main causes of aging, Alzheimers, and a lot of other autoimmune symptoms. Researchers are pointing to iron overload as the reason that men tend to die before … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/16 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Guide to Healthy Eating Habitsit can be useful for inhibiting the kind of inflammation that causes this pain. Please see my response to Phantom; gut flora and inflammation are directly linked, and you will probably benefit from using the Weed, Feed, and Seed protocol since keto (falls into the Weed part of the protocol) seems to help with your symptoms :) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/16 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsI can explain the connection between keto and allergies; it all comes down to gut flora, LOL! :) There is a connection between gut flora and allergies and taking soil-based probiotics is very effective in treating allergies. Another way you can relieve allergy symptoms is by starving pathogenic bacteria by cutting sugar and carbs in a ketogenic diet. The reason the allergies come back if you eat sugar and carbs is because: a change in diet from plant based to meat based will significantly change… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/16 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsIt would be awesome if you did :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsO, I forgot one important thing that I read a while back: when you are the one cooking, you get a lot of the smells of the spices, and that dulls your taste, so you eat less. Since reading that I have really noticed that the spicier foods like chili seem pretty bland to me, and I am less likely to wolf down blander food. When you eat out, you don't get that effect, so you are more likely to eat more. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/16 11:08 AM |
| 6 | An Update on /u/Camille11325 and How To HelpJust now thought to tweet the link to the donation page and my husband RT'd; Maybe some of our followers can help too! Hopefully some of my RPW followers and friends will also RT :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/16 03:33 AM |
| 9 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsI was a kid in the 60s and a teen in the 70s. There were very few fast food restaurants, and those were rarely used except for lunch; same with the cafeterias and buffeterias. There were nice restaurants, but not to the extent that there are now, and going to one of those was a big treat: people didn't eat out a lot. Most people ate at home, even if it was a simple meal, and this made sense because for the most part, families had a lot more kids. Imagine instead of taking Mom, Dad, and a kid out… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 05:38 PM |
| 6 | An Update on /u/Camille11325 and How To HelpTrue; it would be so much easier to go to pieces in this sort of situation! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 04:13 PM |
| 8 | An Update on /u/Camille11325 and How To HelpOh great; I'm so glad this was set up; it's a terrible thing to be wiped out by a natural disaster and have to rebuild your lives. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 03:54 PM |
| 11 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsSumming this up in one sentence: Eat how people used to eat 40+ years ago. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 03:27 PM |
| 4 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageLOL, it's worked for the 30+ years I've been with my husband, and I don't see it changing any time soon. All of my friends from high school are still with their husbands (also 30+ years together) and haven't succumbed to hypergamy; my parents and my aunts and uncles that are still surviving are still together and married happily. Most of my IRL friends that are younger are still with their husbands and are happily married (although younger people tend to break up more frivolously). Do you think … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageNot everything is so either/or, black or white. Humans are messy and don't always adhere to the extreme sides of the argument. There is a lot of gray between black and white, and most women fall in the middle shades of gray on the subject. I don't believe that all women that stay with their man "have a false sense of devotion", but rather they consider themselves lucky to be with a man that complements their personality and adds value to their lives. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingWe are not affiliated with TheRedPill, we are more attuned to the manosphere, especially the old school manosphere writers. The mods here were originally affiliated before TheRedPill became virolently anti-marriage and decided to take over our old sub to encourage our readers, mostly wives or in LTRs, to become plates and sluts. We mutinied and built this new sub that is so much better than our old sub! All of the best contributors from the old sub followed us here to help us create this place :… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageI have no desire to "listen harder" to you, and you are not my husband, so I have no reason to obey your command :) You let me decide what kind of man I am. You can decide what kind of man you are, but you cannot control what others think of you due to your unhinged emotional outbursts. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 02:29 PM |
| 6 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageThey trap themselves in a cycle where their dating style largely filters out quality women, and then they get upset when the less than ideal women they do interact with fail to display more admirable traits. Exactly. And after dating/plating women that are less than desirable for a relationship, TRP paints ALL women with that same brush. Sometimes I suspect that when TRP says AWALT, they don't use it like we do in that all women have certain tendencies in varying degrees, but they use it like "a… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageInstead of being cryptic and hoping people get your message, perhaps you might try being concise and getting your message through. No one wants to try to unravel whatever puzzle you are presenting because you are not a known member of this community and your comment history proves that you are exceptionally rude and frankly hysterical (not in the funny way). Get a grip man. No one wants a man who is not in control of his emotions; you are the antithesis of a RP man. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 12:21 PM |
| 4 | Houston FloodI was watching this in horror on the news last night; my well-wishes go out to everyone involved. Natural disasters of this magnitude are so scary, especially with flash flooding, which happens without warning and is so destructive. I hope everyone makes it out safely! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 11:02 AM |
| 4 | [Oldie but Goodie] 13 Ways to Keep Your Husband HappyIf you still can't manage it, you better make up for it by being super awesome at all the other points on this list! True, if you are lacking in one area, make up for it in another area! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 11:09 PM |
| 5 | [Oldie but Goodie] 13 Ways to Keep Your Husband HappyOh, I didn't read the comments! They seem to either love the article or think she is some kind of "stepford wife" under his "lock and key" because putting your husband first is "pathetic" and you are a "door-mat", hahahaha. Well color me a pathetic stepford wife doormat under my husband's lock and key then :) | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 10:00 PM |
| 2 | [Oldie but Goodie] 13 Ways to Keep Your Husband HappySorry, I misread what you were saying, and I agree to not get pushy with hanging out with his friends. Some husbands like for their wives to be there when he goes out, and some like it to be men only. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 09:50 PM |
| 2 | [Oldie but Goodie] 13 Ways to Keep Your Husband HappyYes! Not all husbands would appreciate dick jokes! I think the fact that this was posted on a sports site means it is meant for a much rowdier crowd than normal. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 08:56 PM |
| 2 | [Oldie but Goodie] 13 Ways to Keep Your Husband HappyRight, I don't take it as "tell dick jokes" but as "blend in with the crowd and be fun in the crowd's way", so if it is a straight-laced crowd you act one way, and if it's a dick joke type of crowd, then go for it :) | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 08:39 PM |
| 3 | [Oldie but Goodie] 13 Ways to Keep Your Husband HappyLOL, my husband claims that Milla Jovovich is his "gimme" celebrity exception; I'm fine with that :) Chances that he will be able to have sex (or even see her IRL) with her is about 0.0000000000000001%. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | [Oldie but Goodie] 13 Ways to Keep Your Husband HappyLOL, I have no idea! It's not exactly the place I'd go for relationship advice :) | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 05:57 PM |
| 4 | What joint financial assets do you and your SO have? When and how did you decide the right time was to join assets?We were together for a decade before we got married, and weren't really in any hurry to get married (it was the 80s LOL), but we bought a house together and opened a business together. Our attorney mentioned that we were as good as married since we shared major assets, but that we weren't getting any of the married benefits, so we hopped on a plane to Vegas :) Until then, our finances and bank accounts were separate, but when we got home, we combined them. He runs the finances and investments; h… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Let's Share Fun Quizzes and Tests!Then you make me feel better about only checking 4 :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 05:17 PM |
| 19 | Introduction from a Literal Alpha WidowYou wouldn't be classified as single, you would be classified as a widow. I realize that you are single of course, in that you are not with someone now, but that isn't due to never being married or due to you being unmarriagable; it is due to a tragic accident that took you husband from you. Four years ago you experienced two traumatic deaths, and it takes a lot of time to recover from that. It sounds like you have finally recovered and are ready to start looking again. I think that is great, an… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Let's Share Fun Quizzes and Tests!I didn't like the way it was written either. I agreed with a lot of the stuff, but it seemed to equate right-wing with trusting the government and authorities. The government sucks, and authorities are easily corrupted, LOL!! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Let's Share Fun Quizzes and Tests!I got 55 on the nerd test; I'm just nerdy enough but not overwhelmingly so :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Let's Share Fun Quizzes and Tests!Holy cow, I only checked 4 boxes! I guess I'm not very sensitive, and ain't got no feelers :'( | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Let's Share Fun Quizzes and Tests!Hahaha, I got "The Free Spirit" :) Non-conformist, loves adventure, and ready to take on what life gives me. That's hugely accurate, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Severely diminished productivity when SO is aroundI have the same problem of diminished productivity when I'm home with my husband, but not the problem of being aggravated by him resting while I'm getting my things done. He does so much around the house, and the stuff he does is much more physical in nature. The way I get my stuff done and still have time to spend with him is that I do it when I first get home, and then I have the rest of the evening to lounge around with him. It helps that I find cooking very stress-relieving and it takes my m… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 12:20 PM |
| 2 | The “Women are Wonderful” EffectLOL, I read about 1/3 of those :) I also enjoy hbd chick and especially her twitter; she retweets a lot of really interesting people and a lot of different ideas and studies. Her retweets showcase a lot of the people on your list. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 07:38 PM |
| 6 | The nagging snowballFrankly, I would go the route of least resistance and just clean up after him. It would be quicker, more positive, and will make you happier in the long run. You obviously care more about your knives and counter tops than he does, so please yourself by taking care of it. There's an old saying that goes: Never teach a pig to sing; it wastes your time and annoys the pig :) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageYeah, I've read your comments a few times each and am unable to decipher them to get to the nut of what you are saying. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 05:48 PM |
| 12 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsThe whole idea behind having plates is that each ‘plate’ knows (either specifically or in a more general sense) that there are other ‘plates’ that get the spinner’s attention/time/affection. It’s a handy-dandy version of insta-dread. The idea being that the plate will put that much more effort into trying to please, satisfy, and earn more time with the spinner. Working the jealousy angle for the sake of creating and maintaining sexual tension is a good move, tried and true. Yes, exactly. It is a… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 03:33 PM |
| 2 | The “Women are Wonderful” Effectit takes a while to find the core ideas within the morass of hyperbole and sarcasm. Yes, absolutely! Under all of that there is a kernel of truth. Even what I quoted sounds crass, but makes a good point. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 03:02 PM |
| 2 | The “Women are Wonderful” EffectWell, I didn't say that we always agreed with him, but we link a lot of blogs to use as a topic of conversation :) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 02:42 PM |
| 3 | The “Women are Wonderful” EffectLOL, we link him all the time in the IRC :) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 02:21 PM |
| 4 | Being WomanBelieving women are all good, sugar and spice and everything nice, is a large part of the problem today. It's the 'women are wonderful' effect. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 11:45 AM |
| 11 | Clearing Up Some Myths About MarriageMyth: High value men are eschewing marriage I don't see this happening IRL; The men I see who are still bachelors later in life are not high value at all, they are the dregs. Even most of the most esteemed PUAs of the manosphere have gone on to find a woman they want enough to marry. I guess it all depends on the type of man you find to be "high value" since that sub seems to revere men like Dan Bilzerian that have sex with a lot of strippers and prostitutes. If that is their idea of high value,… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 11:04 AM |
| 4 | Are we all just pre-wall prancers?It's a victim mentality. Someone did me wrong (or did someone I know wrong, did someone I read about wrong), so I must be right. They gain strength of their convictions through their perceived victimhood. It's the same mindset SJWs have. The biggest victim wins! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 10:41 AM |
| 4 | Relationship Dynamics Part One (Updated + Expanded!)This is excellent and will be of great use to everyone in identifying where the stand on the dominance continuum. I can't wait to see the next installment! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/16 04:08 PM |
| 20 | Are we all just pre-wall prancers?It's just the same complaint that TRP has about women's attraction but turned around. They are constantly complaining about how women don't want an improved man who has learned how to handle women; women want a naturally masculine man who was born and raised knowing how to handle women. They are now complaining that they don't want an improved woman who has learned how to be feminine; they want a naturally feminine woman who was born and raised knowing how to be feminine. It's hypocritical becau… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/16 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingYes, come play with us again! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/04/16 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Men Don't Fight like Women: How to Avoid Physical Aggression in your RelationshipThat bar had a really bad reputation for their bouncers being fight-happy and out of control; it wasn't a big bar, but they always had 10-15 bouncers working on any given night. Luckily he didn't hurt her, she was just stunned for a second or so and probably more stunned at his reaction than the weak punch he threw. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadI like it; I'm not sure I'd want to drink a pint of it at a sitting, but we use it as a probiotic tonic, so now if my husband's allergies act up ('tis the season!) I give him a small glass (3-4 ounces) of either kombucha or kvass, and that usually makes the allergy symptoms go away. It's much more cost effective than expensive store bought probiotics. Kombucha is super easy to start yourself: go to a farmer's market and get a raw unflavored kombucha (most store bought are pasteurized and not goo… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/16 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Men Don't Fight like Women: How to Avoid Physical Aggression in your RelationshipWe got into a melee with a bunch of bouncers at a club as a group of us were walking past to the bar on the corner, and it was pretty funny. My husband grabbed each one as they boiled out the door and threw them on the ground, knocking the wind out of them, and then I taunted them while they were gasping for breath, LOL! The way it all started was that a woman in our group went to high school with one of the bouncers, said Hi, and he punched her (I don't know the history there). Her husband took… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadHere are some of the things I'm making from jewelry classes and on my own. On the left is a choker I made; it started out as a piece of wire and a little silver solder. The turquoise one will be a ring and I will solder the silver balls around the bezel of the stone and cut around those balls, file, and set the stone. The Carnelian one will be a pendant as soon as I make the bail Wednesday. I also make my own rice beer, kombucha, and kvass. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/04/16 09:54 PM |
| 2 | The Double Standard at Sexual Debut: Gender, Sexual Behavior and Adolescent Peer AcceptanceGirls who sleep around don't really get a bad reputation with guys per se, in fact most guys actually like them quite a bit. Yeah, LOL! The guys want to get laid :) I wish we had access to the entire study; it would fill in a lot of the gaps. It's funny that the girl who has a reputation for making out would gain acceptance (popularity) because she's seen as wanted yet has limits, but it also seems like she would be most likely to be the girl who has sex. Who is sluttier: the girl who has sex wi… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/16 12:37 PM |
| 11 | How much do you tailor your appearance/dress to suit your spouse?We are both very casual, and we do a lot of physically active things, so our tastes match well. For a while there I was trying to wear more dresses because I kept reading that's what men like, but it kind of irritated my husband because I wasn't as able to do a lot of our activities. I was pretty happy to drop that experiment :) Basically, I wear whatever makes him go "rawr!" | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/16 02:19 AM |
| 4 | Some observations/questions about what men value in women vs. what women value in men.Here is an interactive chart showing which occupations marry other occupations by gender. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/16 01:11 AM |
| 5 | Amoris Laetitia - The Joy of Love, written by Pope Francis. Thoughts?if anyone wants to rant about the post Vatican II Church When I was a kid in a smaller city, our church didn't switch to Vatican II, and we still covered our heads, fasted 12* hours before Eucharist, nuns were in full habits, Mass before class each day (6am!) with Stations of the Cross on Fridays, Latin Mass, etc. Then in 1970 we moved to a bigger city and it was all hippies, guitars, nuns in short skirts, etc. My family left the church a few years after moving; it just wasn't the same at all. I… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 07:48 PM |
| 2 | What are the little things you love about your husband (or SO)?These aren't little things, but the thing I love most about my husband is that he adores me and will do anything in his power to keep me safe and make me happy. He's always the hottest man in any setting :) He supports all of my various obsessions, and gets excited about everything I produce from them. He's incredibly funny and keeps me laughing around the clock. He builds stuff and does a lot of masonry, so he is always improving our assets and the masonry keeps his hands and forearms strong; t… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 06:38 PM |
| 5 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!I adore boots of every variety, but since I wear mainly jeggings, they are always inside my boots. I haven't found any boot cut jeans that both fit well and aren't 3 inches too short, so unless I wear the boots with shorts, skirts, or dresses, my jeans are tucked :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 06:11 PM |
| 4 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Me too, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 03:41 PM |
| 6 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Why to find a man in your 20s Change Just for giggles | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 12:54 PM |
| 5 | There Can Only Be One CaptainAs I get older, I've found that all the old sayings my grandmother used to say are true; I guess that is why they are repeated down through the generations :) | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 12:04 PM |
| 4 | The cup incidentLOL :) | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 06:49 PM |
| 4 | The cup incidentShutting up has been the hardest part of this process for me I think it is the hardest part for all of us :) The problem is that talk is women's frame, and action is men's frame, so we talk talk talk to get him into our frame, until he finally does what we want/need. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 04:35 PM |
| 9 | There Can Only Be One CaptainFrom our very own /u/irisandoleander!! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 02:32 PM |
| 1 | 12 Types of Humor and How it Affects RelationshipsThis article is interesting, but can be summed up as: laugh with him, not at him. What do you think about the different types of humor listed? | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/16 01:18 PM |
| 3 | How can I encourage my man to be more ALPHA in bed?There are side-effects to the copper IUD; a lot of women have gotten copper toxicity: google it. It's easily taken care of by taking zinc for most, but for some reason a lot of doctors don't realize this. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 10:28 PM |
| 3 | WE'VE REACHED 500 SUBSCRIBERS!!!!It's a lot of fun, but very difficult to get used to; there is a huge amount of fine-tuned muscle memory involved! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.another poster who was actually arguing the validity of the original post No, that poster was inserting "but what about women?" into a post about men. She was changing the parameters of the conversation. Next it will be, "But what about Oak Trees? They give up something when they grow acorns and shade saplings!!!" | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 03:45 PM |
| 11 | WE'VE REACHED 500 SUBSCRIBERS!!!!Hi everyone! I'm old and have been with my wonderful husband for 30+ years :) I'm an accountant and I have various obsessions including fermenting, bench jewelry metalworking, etc. I'm so excited to see you all and watch this sub grow and thrive! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 03:10 PM |
| 8 | It's Not About the NailI love that video; it never gets old! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 02:02 PM |
| 3 | The case against being a plateI thought the idea of spinning plates was that a man could get younger, hotter women, and a variety of them. Yes, if the man is extremely high value, this is completely true, but the average man can't pull off high SMV plates often. The average man can get hotter sluttier women, but those women would probably be having sex with a lot of other men at the same time. I tend to put people with a casual sexual relationship where they both have other casual partners into the FWB category. Is it that a… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 01:59 PM |
| 7 | The case against being a plateThey aren't nearly as lacking in self-respect as someone who actually wants commitment but plates herself. Women willing to plate themselves in hopes of commitment are generally women who are either shooting way above their mark or women with no options of her own. The woman who is high SMV with many men wanting to date her will rarely put herself in this position. The woman who is low SMV but wants a high SMV man will be willing to be plated due to lack of other, better options. Basically, the … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 11:44 AM |
| 2 | SteaksYeah, mine is a griddle, and is nonstick with eggs only if I use coconut oil, which is super slippery. I use it for grilled cheese and things like that, that don't stick. My other Lodge is a dutch oven, which I use for things like roasts. Otherwise I use my vintage pans for almost everything | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:58 PM |
| 2 | LMR in an LTRI think that shit-test depends on her intent not his reaction. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:43 PM |
| 3 | LMR in an LTRIf it was nasty it would be called a Nuclear Rejection :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:39 PM |
| 6 | LMR in an LTRRight! I doubt if the OP means to shoot him down savagely, but to make him work for it in a fun manner. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:35 PM |
| 6 | LMR in an LTRSo, if you got a teasing look on your face when he's getting sexy, run from him, and made him catch you, would that be a shit-test, or would that be a playful act? | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:24 PM |
| 3 | SteaksThe ones i have are old but you can get them from flea markets, ebay, etsy, etc. Unless you get a slant griswold they should be about the price of new cast iron. Just look for the smooth milled surface. But really, I have some newer Lodge with the pebbly surface and they seem fine and non-stick as long as you use plenty of butter, bacon fat, or coconut oil. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 04:41 PM |
| 3 | SteaksOr you can not pre-season, not have to take any special care for it, and cook with saturated fats instead of vegetable oils. I am completely against seasoning cast iron! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 04:12 PM |
| 5 | SteaksI am completely against their way of seasoning, LOL! It forms a crust of old food and industrial seed oils - YUCK! I only use saturated fats in my cast iron and I never season the pan; that's the way people used to use them before all of the vegetable oils gained popularity. If you do it my way (the traditional way lol) you can wash with dish soap and everything. Here's a post I wrote on the subject :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 04:04 PM |
| 4 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingLOL @ your flair :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 12:46 PM |
| 7 | How to spice upHe wants you to walk through life with him, not to walk through life with you on his back. Excellently put! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 11:38 AM |
| 5 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingIt makes me laugh every time I see it! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 02:21 AM |
| 6 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.Learn it, know it, live it :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.Dang, it's been so long; I really need to see that movie again soon! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 01:35 AM |
| 3 | The Epiphany Phaseself-doubt, or self-pity in dealing with the hypergamic uncertainty of her choice I think a lot of this is due to the overwhelming amount of choice in today's society, so there is a quandary of choice. This happens in all areas of life and usually happens to women before men due to, well...the best term I could think of is the wall. You see lines forming around your eyes, and realize that you are in your last years of youth; you look at your career and realize that it's close to the last time yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingSure, we don't have any demands :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 01:10 AM |
| 2 | The Lost Art of Self Preservation (for Women) - A Guideshe ran out of anger Ah, the muse :) I ran out of "aha" moments, internalized, and I guess that was my muse, LOL! I moved onto other obsessions. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 12:36 AM |
| 2 | The Lost Art of Self Preservation (for Women) - A GuideI love Grerp; I've been following her for years! I was sad when she quit writing as much, and I haven't seen anything new from her in a while. I guess she said all that she had to say, and I completely understand that! Thank you for compiling all of this! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 12:26 AM |
| 4 | Hil*scary*ous: Tumblr Argument GeneratorHahaha, I love the random emoji thrown in too. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 05:11 PM |
| 5 | Recommended book – How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About it, by Drs. Love and StosnyWe break from the routine regularly, but it's nice to have it as a fallback. Our routine will change here and there and evolve as it goes; we find new places to go, or like now, I'm taking a class on one of the nights that we regularly do something. It's a very flexible routine :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Recommended book – How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About it, by Drs. Love and StosnyI found the section on “why men need routine” fascinating and enlightening. This is one of the main things I discovered when I started asking my husband what he liked in regards to food, going places, etc. He really likes routine! Now we have settled down into a regular schedule according to a routine that developed over the course of around a year, a few years ago. Much to my surprise, I am really enjoying his preferred routine and knowing what we will most likely be doing/eating on a particula… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 11:32 AM |
| 4 | The Ban List is Empty--Come Get a Fresh Start!Thanks! It looks like a party :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 03:06 AM |
| 4 | 5 Mistakes I Continue To Make in My Marriage. A reminder!This is a great post; These were the big things that I really try to do (mostly succeed). Not realizing what your husband contributes is a big problem that women have; his stuff just gets done as if by magic :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 02:51 AM |
| 7 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingAwesome! It looks like a party/carnival doesn't it? I love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 12:38 AM |
| 4 | [META](RPW purge... ouch!)As long as they aren't rude or trolling we are fine with blue pill. We actually have had quite a few converts in the last ~3 years, and there are a lot on the #purplepilldebate IRC that are friendly with us. At the moment we are keeping an open mind. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/04/16 10:35 PM |
| 3 | [META](RPW purge... ouch!)Thank you! I appreciate that :) Camille is almost finished with the second installment of that series, so check us out occasionally to find it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/04/16 09:49 PM |
| 6 | [META](RPW purge... ouch!)Good talk :) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/04/16 09:01 PM |
| 10 | [META](RPW purge... ouch!)RPS didn't kick us out; we blindsided him, made a new sub, populated it, and then invited all the best RPW from the sub to join us. We then all un-modded from the old RPW at once. We are all now at /r/RedPillWives Rps did ban us all, but that was about 12 hours after we quit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/04/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Avoid Overthinking a SituationHahahaha! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Avoid Overthinking a SituationOMG, it is so true, LOL! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Are You Giving Him Space to Say "No"?When my husband traveled for work, I always forgot that he needed to rest and recharge from the trip home. I was always so excited to see him and tell him everything that happened while he was gone that I neglected his needs and concentrated on my own. After I finally realized that he was happy to see me but needed that time to relax and not be jabbered at, he could recharge, and then he would always spend time with me, relax into home life, and hear all the funny things the dogs did etc. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 11:32 AM |
| 5 | Love is LaborYou get back what you give. If you aren't working on your relationship, then he will work less on it; you work hard making sure your relationship and his needs are your first priorities, and he will do the same for you. What goes around comes around :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 11:21 AM |
| 4 | Husband Not Affectionate | Laura DoyleBeing around RPW and reading hundreds of advice posts from women, it's apparent that people don't see that the other person is responding to the way you are acting. Being more distant and standoffish yourself makes your husband more distant and standoffish. Being disrespectful to your husband (he can't see your eyes roll when you turn away but he can sense it) results in dismissal from him. If you want closeness and affection, then you give closeness and affection, and you will receive it back t… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Remember to make the effort for the one guy who matters MOST! This image is not a "teehee cute and funny" way to live.It's so easy for me to lean towards frump in the winter! It's chilly so you put on that over-sized thick flannel shirt, and then his flannel sleep pants look so comfy and he has enough pairs to share... I've found dressing comfortable but cute (leggings and a stretchy top) and then having a lap blanket for warmth when we are watching TV or playing on the internet is a good compromise. Summer is easy though because you can run around in a little strappy shift or a tank and either cute panties or … | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 10:55 AM |
| 7 | Avoid transactional thinking, focus on character.My husband does a lot of things behind the scenes that I don't realize until he's gone. Exactly. I've noticed that most women never notice the chores that their husband does; they only notice what they themselves do. So, when they talk about equal responsibilities or fairness, they only think of their chores and "fair" ends op meaning that the man does all of his chores and also half of hers. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 10:40 AM |
| 2 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesWell, it's not the prettiest woman that needs to learn how to pick up men. Generally, women have no problem getting sex if they are a 4 or above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Important NotificationThank you, I appreciate that :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/16 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Important NotificationWe may expound on this further in the future, but right now let's say that there was a difference of opinion about the basic tenets of the women's sexual strategy that we practiced here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/16 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingThanks! I look forward to seeing you here <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingI'm looking forward to your contributions :) Thank you for supporting us in this move! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 02:41 PM |
| 6 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingThe top mod, the creator of RedPillWomen sub, made unreasonable demands that rocked the core of the basic RP tenets as they apply to women's sexual strategy. We can not and will not comply with his unique vision of RP. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 02:17 PM |
| 0 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesPhantomDream09 spells it all out here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 01:41 PM |
| 2 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesYou are correct, the TRP mods weren't going to follow us since we broke away from TRP, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 01:34 PM |
| 6 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingThank you for being here supporting us :) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 01:25 PM |
| 9 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingWe were denied autonomy, and were unable to remove TRP's top mod from our mod team, which means that he could overrule our mod capabilities. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 01:13 PM |
| 4 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingMostly just like the old sub but no longer affiliated with TRP or any of that network. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingBugs in the system :) I'll work on it! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 11:43 AM |
| 1 | I am a 29-year old virgin woman. Is it too late to search for a LTR?I'm curious about the IRC chat so I'll definitely be there. Awesome! If no one is talking, say hello, and usually someone will be there wanting to chat :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsThe little hearts are our new baby flair :) I <3ed you, LOL! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsJust having a little fun :) Sometimes this place gets kind of serious; it's good to laugh at yourself every once in a while. i took common RP memes (unicorns, skittles, hamsters) and made flair, LOL! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/16 08:28 PM |
| 6 | Lady never tells her age?When I was a kid, my grandmother always told us that she was 250yo, and we bought it :) We never even questioned why she didn't get older every year, LOL! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/16 04:33 PM |
| 9 | [Q4All] What is the female equivalent of a manchild?Womanchild? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/16 03:04 PM |
| 6 | I am a 29-year old virgin woman. Is it too late to search for a LTR?Good for you! This guy's advice is to throw yourself against as many dicks as possible to see if one sticks, and whereas that might work, it will most likely backfire. We suggest dating with a purpose, and it looks like that is what you are intending to do. If you go the internet dating route, come to the IRC (link on the sidebar - it's free, just use your user name so we know who you are, and come on in) and we can help you write your profile to maximize your chances of finding a good man. We c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/16 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Husband [32M] of 6 years moved out of our (me 36F) house in the middle of the night (X-post to r/marriage)Reading your history, you really have a lot of disdain for your husband. Over the 3-4 posts about him that I read, you had NOTHING good to say about him at all - not one thing. You bitch and fume and bitch and fume constantly. Maybe while he was reading your posts on reddit he decided that if you hated him that much, he could do better elsewhere. Probably the only reason he read all of your reddit stuff was to see the depths of your disrespect for him. And why do you want him back? You said your… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | New to red pillPlease read the sidebar and wiki, and then please answer these questions in detail. The more we know, the better we can help! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/16 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Boyfriend's female friendsWe've been together for half a year This is an extremely new relationship; think about if you want to share him with other women for the next 30+ years. Date with a purpose, and date to weed out men with gigantic red flags waving above their heads. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/16 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Questions From A Guy For RPWWe don't really do questions from men, but this subject has been hashed over many, many times at /r/purplepilldebate and the times it has been mentioned on RPW, low partner count for men doesn't seem to be an issue. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/16 11:30 AM |
| 2 | "Seven Rules For Making Your Home Life Happier" from "How to Win Friends and Influence People", originally in the 1936 edition and removed later in the 1981 editionI sent her to /r/shadowban and it gave her this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/16 11:00 AM |
| 4 | "Seven Rules For Making Your Home Life Happier" from "How to Win Friends and Influence People", originally in the 1936 edition and removed later in the 1981 editionI think so. Sorry, the OP was shadowbanned (we discovered this in modmail a few minutes ago) so she can't answer :/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/16 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsI've been taking jewelry classes at a local parks department; maybe there are some sort of classes you can take locally that you might be interested in. My jewelry classes are all women (not intentionally), and I bet that there are a lot of different classes that would appeal mostly to women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/16 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How to navigate social settings with SO?There will almost always be the opposite sex in a group of friends, but hanging out in a group of friends is very different than hanging out one on one with them. In this case, the group of friends are all in the same major, have shows, work in class together, etc. Now if you are in a relationship with Joe and say, "I'm meeting Tom tonight", Joe might get different ideas than "I'm meeting a group of classmates". Plus, with a group, you probably are keeping the conversation in a more general them… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Is this "mockery" and "satire"? or witchhunting and "bullying"?LOL, maybe half of what you said was true; good thing you aren't in the doxxing business :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/16 06:10 PM |
| 2 | I'm having trouble "receiving graciously" offers from my bf to do things if it's apparent he really doesn't want to do themThat is kind of unusual; I'm sort of like that myself. I think of things I'd like to do, and they sound super fun thinking about them, but when it comes time to do them, I get a lot less enthused and a lot of times dump the plans unless there is someone else depending on me. He might be extremely introverted. Has he ever taken the MBTI? I score really high on the introversion scale, and he might too. Maybe start suggesting things like a picnic and then walking around in a park: things that are m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/16 11:30 AM |
| 3 | A little re-introductionAcquiesces isn't a great word to use since it has a negative connotation "submit or comply silently or without protest" LOL; maybe deference would be better. My husband and I pretty much do our own things and make our own decisions, but if he feels strongly about something, then we do it his way. It's a form of respect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Science of Love and MonogamyAh, I've seen some of her stuff before - I'll try to look her up again. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/16 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Men want us to embrace traditional femininity AND pay for dates? Confused.but I can't stand entitled bitches who think it's the man's duty to pay for everything from the start. Why are you going out with these women? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | On The Brink of DivorceFor the long periods, have her try taking zinc, especially if she has a copper IUD. Zinc to copper ratio is extremely important for cycle regularity. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/03/16 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Men want us to embrace traditional femininity AND pay for dates? Confused.The man has to provide enough value for the woman to accept the proposition HAHAHAHA! Seriously, you are delusional. The woman has to "provide enough value" for you to ask her out. See, we can both do that :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/16 04:23 PM |
| 6 | I'm having trouble "receiving graciously" offers from my bf to do things if it's apparent he really doesn't want to do themHave you ever thought that maybe your anxiousness is making him not enjoy the outings? It's almost like you are setting him up for failure. I say relax, enjoy yourself, and if he's not having a good time, then that's on him. You can't control his enjoyment of activities, so please quit trying. Here's the deal, you are in a new relationship, and instead of enjoying it, you are stressing out. This is not good. What you need to do is have fun, enjoy wherever you are, and take an over-sized chill pi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Advice: How to 'nag' without 'nagging'Oh good! Thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/16 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Advice: How to 'nag' without 'nagging'I can't find the upload button on my iPad Just curious, I'm the one who does most of the formatting here, and if you can't find the up arrow, are you subscribed? We use a code to hide the vote arrows from non-subscribers. If you are subscribed, and you still can't see the up arrow on your iPad, I need to fix that. The down arrow has a different code to hide it at all times unless you unclick "Use subreddit style" so you probably won't see those :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 03/21/2016Since he is already RP, you might want to show him this post and explain that you are probably low tolerance for dominance/dark triad. Then, as my grandmother used to say, "If you are worried about something, do whatever you can to avoid or prepare for it, and then quit worrying about it." Also remember what FDR said, "Only Thing We Have to Fear Is Fear Itself". You worrying isn't going to do anything except worry you. Men look; that's what they do. If he's RP then he knows the dangers of foolin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 10:25 PM |
| 6 | Is this "mockery" and "satire"? or witchhunting and "bullying"?She is unable to link because most of it is blatant fabrication and twisting the facts. The big thing that OP is outraged about, the woman who learned that her husband was cheating, is a whopper of a lie, LOL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/16 05:45 PM |
| 19 | Is this "mockery" and "satire"? or witchhunting and "bullying"?LOL, my boss will be ecstatic to learn that his business made the Fortune 500! Unfortunately, when a woman was cheated on and came to RPW begging for help, Tempest and wingnut both teamed up to, 1) blame the woman and 2) tell the woman strategies to get the man to come back. If I recall correctly, I told her to get a lawyer. That is hardly blaming her, or encouraging her to get him back. And this gem: TempestTcup, while purporting to support a sub that tells women being a breadwinner is "bad", i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/16 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Help with guyLOL, no. Just continue flirting with him if you like him, and don't have sex until you are sure he likes you for more than a fling. We suggest at least making sure that both of you will be exclusive during your sexual relationship. If you really want to go the whole route, then go on a few dates and make sure you both have the same goals for a relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Guy has been a real jerk to meDon't have sex with a guy that is a jerk to you, but if you do, do it realizing that it might just be sex. Flirt with him some more but hold off on sex until you are sure that he likes you for more than that. We suggest here that you at least make sure that you two are exclusive before sex, but some women like to take more chances than others. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 04:12 PM |
| 0 | How do you ladies stay slim, what are your tips for self-discipline and weight loss...I haven't read the book but I bet it's good. I mostly study things online until I am saturated with the subject :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 02:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you ladies stay slim, what are your tips for self-discipline and weight loss...gelatin (make stock by boiling bones for a long time, add this to soups and sauces) Try to not boil it for more than 8-12 hours for maximum gelatin; cooking too long tends to destroy gelatin. Once you cook for 8-12 hours, harvest it and reload the pot with water and a splash of vinegar if you want more minerals. After your harvested broth has chilled, you want it to be really solid; if you shake the closed jar of broth, it should shake back :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Feminine vs Masculine Bone StructureI'm not saying that media isn't pushing for slim boyish figures, but really, I only see that look in fashion magazines; I don't see it on TV much. And pretty much all celebrities get plastic surgery, so that is assumed on Brooke's part, but women do get a heavier, more masculine look as they age due to sagging, especially along the jaw line. I thought that it was funny that the author put a picture of a ~50yo comparing it to two women in their 20s as "masculine bone structure". Could he not find… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Feminine vs Masculine Bone StructureI read the site a few years ago and was fascinated but forgot all about it :) Thanks for bringing it back; it will be interesting to see how reading it again will tie into what I've learned/read since then. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a clean car?Holy cow, my car needs vacuuming so badly! The windshield could use some elbow grease too. It get so bad because I'm always speeding out to work or home, and I only think about it when I'm headed somewhere. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Feminine vs Masculine Bone StructureYeah, there are plenty of families that do, but where I am is overwhelmingly the way I described. Maybe they came from different areas/towns? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 01:53 AM |
| – | I need help coping with my husband being a new father.Hi /r/TheBluePill! We know that you are brigading this post! Perhaps what you really want will come true and she will become a single mother of two kids from two fathers soon. She is certainly well on her way! archive | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 12:14 AM |
| -2 | I need help coping with my husband being a new father.You are looking for reasons to boot him out of your life. Almost everything you have said about him in the comments have been extremely negative and all the adjectives you have used add to that negativity. ugly name calling Did he yell this in anger? Did he say it in passing? If you are looking for excuses to ditch your husband, then a "that little fucker" said in jest is a good thing to latch onto as an "ugly name". You didn't specify how he said these things, only that he used words that you d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/16 12:10 AM |
| -2 | I need help coping with my husband being a new father.I think that she is doing this (edited: protecting their son) to the detriment of her marriage; she seems to be protecting their baby from his father, and as a result the father feels left out and not a part of their son's upbringing. She seems distant and resentful of any action he has taken to be a part of it. There may not be harm done to the baby, but there is great harm being done to her marriage. She may well end up single again with two children of two fathers if she keeps her husband fro… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/16 11:37 PM |
| 14 | Feminine vs Masculine Bone StructureI wonder how many body shapes are due to genetic heritage; I live in an area with a large percentage of Native Americans and they largely have sturdy trunks (even when young and thin), small hips, and thin legs. We also have a large percent of people with ancestors from Germany, very light haired/light eyed people and they are mostly tall, thin, large shouldered, larger rib cage, slender hips, etc. The population from South America and the African American population are more hourglass shaped. W… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/16 11:15 PM |
| 2 | What are the thoughts and opinions of RPW on cultivating/maintaining male friends as individuals and groups?Sure, that would be fine! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/16 12:45 PM |
| 10 | What are the thoughts and opinions of RPW on cultivating/maintaining male friends as individuals and groups?If your husband/SO is hanging out and spending time one on one with another woman then I would say that there is either something going on or at least one of the two wants something to be going on, whether subconsciously or consciously. Spending a lot of time together alone opens opportunity for sharing personal details and sharing emotional stories. It is difficult to separate feelings when there is emotional closeness between members of the opposite sex, especially when they are around the sam… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/16 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Be LightNo one says that you can't; go for it! It's good advice for life in general. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/16 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Be LightIt's our new baby flair :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/16 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Are RP guys "traditional" good men venting, or is the RP movement more similar to PUA-style philosophy?We don't allow husband/SO/man bashing here. We will warn against some men's intentions such as plate spinning, FWB, pump and dump, etc., but we don't get angry about that behavior: some men are not at a point in their lives where they want a committed relationship. The single RPW look for the men that are ready. We mainly talk about our relationships, self improvement, hobbies, girl stuff, RP theory, etc. There are also a lot of new women asking for advice. If you are interested in a specific as… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/16 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 03/14/2016I'm having trouble accepting/not getting annoyed by some of my SO's acquired alpha behaviour. I read the manosphere long before my husband, so when he did some of the things they suggest, I knew why he was doing it and started recognizing my behavior that resulted in his response. He is likely just responding to your behavior, but even then, it should even out once he has internalized RP; sometimes they get a bit gung-ho when they find a new toy :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Are RP guys "traditional" good men venting, or is the RP movement more similar to PUA-style philosophy?Oh, and as far as automoderator removing your comments, that will end after a day or so, but we will try to fish them out of moderation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Are RP guys "traditional" good men venting, or is the RP movement more similar to PUA-style philosophy?A lot of them are very young, inexperienced, and they have no knowledge of women except what they read there and they have taken the bait hook, line, and sinker. Some are in the angry stage of acceptance of the RP tenets, and some have been screwed over royally. Most of the men who get it and have internalized RP tenets usually move on from reddit and live their happy lives. Maybe he could stick to manosphere readings. TRP and RPW have different goals, but we both agree that there are difference… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/16 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Compatibility with BetasGo for it! I stole it myself :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/16 11:44 AM |
| 28 | Are there any smart female celebrities that are good role models?Why don't you just do dad things with her? Have some good father/daughter bonding moments: take her go-karting, fishing, etc. You don't have to find a famous role model; be her role model. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/16 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Men want us to embrace traditional femininity AND pay for dates? Confused.LOL, it might have evolved into that, but back then it was in case the guy got fresh with her :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/16 11:53 AM |
| 7 | Men want us to embrace traditional femininity AND pay for dates? Confused.Even when my mom started dating in the 40s, she never left home without enough money to cover expenses and a taxi home. She said this was standard practice for women; they called it pin money, or mad money in case they got mad and had to walk out, LOL. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/16 11:26 AM |
| 7 | The True Story of a Carousel-Riding Military WifeWhy would she let him drag down her and her five children if she can step away? Oh, were they not his children too? I didn't see the part where he wasn't their father. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/16 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Trust in a new relationshipReally though, enjoy it! This is the exciting part of the relationship, and anticipation is delicious! Let your heart beat faster; he sounds like a great guy :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/16 03:21 AM |
| 7 | Trust in a new relationshipOkay, what you are feeling is anticipation, but you have turned it into an anxiety instead. If I'm not mistaken, this is generally called "butterflies". All new relationships are like this. Calm down and give yourself over to it; enjoy the new relationship high. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/16 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Questions for Red Pill WomenAh, you changed all of the questions. Not so massively focused on alpha this alpha that. 4) Yes, it was easy and very obvious once I witnessed women acting that way in public after reading about it. 5) Yes, I believe in hypergamy; I've seen it in action many times. No, I have never had an urge to go after another man; my husband is generally, if not the highest SMV where we are, at least even with others but with more alpha traits. My known is 10x more attractive to me than some unknown quality … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/16 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Questions for Red Pill WomenYou are awfully preoccupied by this whole Alpha thing, LOL! My husband follows a lot of manosphere blogs, but he doesn't reddit. And LOL@ question #5 :) Who gives a flying fuck about people they don't know? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/16 09:11 PM |
| 9 | Women's "Ideal" Body Types Throughout HistoryWell, you might start by looking at the women from the 1920s; you can look at the background photo and the model used. Now, go to google images and look at pictures of women from the 20s. Do the same for the 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s, etc. The women don't change and the bodies don't change; what does change is the fashion. Sure, some bodies fit the fashion more in a particular decade, but until this obesity epidemic, people weren't obsessed with body type because the overwhelming body ty… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/16 05:50 PM |
| 22 | Women's "Ideal" Body Types Throughout HistoryThe main thing that I noticed was that the portrayals of body types were only overweight and underweight women except the first one and the last one, and the last one was obviously "bad" with the disclaimer about plastic surgery. What was considered a "normal" body type in 1970, is now considered unobtainable without surgery. In reality, that is how a woman looks when she eats with a little control and exercises regularly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/16 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Compatibility with BetasThe scenario in that article is that this woman was plated and alpha widowed and was so desperate to hang onto him that he convinced her to "understand" that in order to keep him she must share him. This is a regular occurrence with plates that I have seen a number of times, and there is a process these women go through that looks a lot like this: he dates her and there is a lot of push, pull, and drama; she gets hooked on the rollercoaster of emotions. At first she kind of suspects that he has … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/16 11:23 AM |
| 13 | Many of our relationship problems have been solved by having separate bedrooms.We sleep really well together, and sleep a lot better together than apart. We are generally spooned in both directions throughout the night, and it's like a long intimate hug. We slept for years together on a twin bed with no problems except for the fact that the bed was too short :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/16 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Plan Bwhat would you suggest that I do? Ignore everybody else around me She never suggested being rude or ignoring your co-workers. am I supposed to turn round to them and say "sorry I can't talk to you, I have a boyfriend"? No one suggested this either. You are being very defensive here; The lady doth protest too much, methinks :) [edited] As /u/littlered quoted below: when an opposite-sex friend meets the most important emotional needs of affection (expressions of care and concern), intimate convers… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/16 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Feminist says that submissive wives are "going to be domestically abused."I also sometimes struggle with the 'it's always your fault' mentality when something goes wrong in the relationship You can only change yourself, so we try to see what the OP did to contribute to the problem and then they can take measures to correct that. Since you are not able to change your SO, it doesn't do any good to list his flaws and watch as women bad mouth him, as happens on most of the other subs. It takes two to tango, and it is very rarely just one person's fault. Women always frame… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/16 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Feminist says that submissive wives are "going to be domestically abused."It wasn't until the GI Bill in the 1940s that the general population went to college wide-scale; before that it was for the upper class and the extremely intelligent and driven. So maybe you should thank War for your PHD instead of feminism :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Compatibility with BetasLOL, I was playing around with flair yesterday - I'm going to make a hamster one too :) I'm sure after we mess with it for a while we will decide what to do with the flair; do you need Skittles flair? Hamster flair? LOL! There's also a red banner one like wingnut has (scroll down the sidebar). | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/16 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Compatibility with Betasthe ultimate female fantasy is still a man who plates them No, that is the male fantasy. Look through /r/askTRP or /r/TheRedPill and see all of the difficulties the men have when their plate finds out she's plated. Also, the lack of attention she generally gets makes her difficult to deal with. I've read around the male subs and the consensus is that when they were spinning plates they were with women of a much lower SMV and RMV than they could get for a monogamous LTR. The reason, I believe, is… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/16 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I need some advice! How do you fall asleep when your SO likes to sleep with background noise?Melatonin always gave me crazy dreams and made me wake up a lot at night, but I've found that taking magnesium glycinate about an hour before bed really puts me in a deep sleep. I take it with zinc, which is another "calming mineral". It's only the mg glycinate though; mg oxide or citrate have a laxative effect on me, and they don't seem to work as well for sleep. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/16 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Long awaited suggestions from a RPW ModLOL! Yeah, I'm heartbroken :) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/16 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Long awaited suggestions from a RPW ModThis is true; I regularly commented here, and generally had the top comments, until MRP had a post telling women (RPW specifically) to cease and desist. Later, that post was completely rewritten with the "Council of Captains" part, and all the comments were removed. A couple of weeks after that post, they had a post that welcomed TBP into the fold. That was when I gave up on this sub. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/16 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Compatibility with BetasFor one thing, there really aren't that many men who know about RP, and finding one IRL would be difficult at best. RPW don't hate TRP, and TRP aren't playing with a stacked deck; read around the various RP subs and you will see that there is more uncertainty than anything. If what you consider BP is simply the lack of knowledge of RP, then yes, most likely the single RPW will be dating men with no knowledge of RP. As far as a man "who displays natural alpha characteristics", we look for a good … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/16 01:25 PM |
| 18 | Compatibility with Betasit seems curious that RPW and TRP claim to be partners, RPW and TRP both recognize the same basic differences in men and women. RPW uses those to secure commitment, and TRP uses those to secure sex; RPW and TRP have different end games. RPW is all about finding a good man with a vision of the future and the determination to achieve that vision. The ideal man will have a mixture of alpha and beta traits; what you have listed is all beta, and no alpha traits. The reason BP women settle for these m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/16 11:42 AM |
| 1 | He doesn't believe I'm a virgin because I got an STD test:) You've been doing a great job! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest? Should I show interest?You can also use the search feature; we have had quite a few of these sorts of posts lately. You could also click on the "advice" button and sift through those posts. The best way I know of to indicate interest is to smile at him a lot, get caught looking at him (and smile when you get caught), lightly touching his arm if he says anything funny, stand a little closer (not much), and maybe play with your hair a little. He obviously is not aggressive, so any IOI will have to be subtle. The goal he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/16 02:27 PM |
| 3 | So Who Does the Dishes?Even when we had a dishwasher, we usually hand washed everything. Hand washed dishes feel better and look better longer than machine washed ones. We also have a lot of vintage pyrex and revereware items, and machine washing is not good for them either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/16 02:39 AM |
| 3 | So Who Does the Dishes?LOL, my husband likes vacuuming and prefers doing the dishes (although I do try to empty the drainer and do dishes when I use a lot). It's funny how many SOs like vacuuming - we had a conversation here a while back about it :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/16 02:29 AM |
| 1 | This is now the third time my relationship has gotten ultimatum-y (similar reason each time) and I'm not sure if I should just cut my lossesthere'd be a 2 hour block without any snapchats Dang - I'd say that he is excessively into social media; if he is that social, then I wouldn't worry about the other women. He probably responds to everyone constantly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | This is now the third time my relationship has gotten ultimatum-y (similar reason each time) and I'm not sure if I should just cut my lossesThis is very difficult to read; maybe if you reduced a little of the feelz and used more paragraphs. It sounds to me like he has a lot of women and only pretends to drop them when you threaten to break up with him. My best guess is that you are main plate, and he likes you best, but he isn't willing to completely drop the others. I was trying to figure out how long you have been with him, and I'm guessing 6 months. Even if it were a year, that is a very short relationship, and you have been havi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | What kinds of hobbies and interests do you ladies have outside of work or school? What do you do in your free time, and what interests you?True, LOL! Much easier to come here, where the women are, and interview them for the position of M'Lady! Tips fedora | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What kinds of hobbies and interests do you ladies have outside of work or school? What do you do in your free time, and what interests you?Reading everything posted so far, it seems like you are more likely doing a little fishing for unicorns and flirting than being truly interested in our hobbies. If you really did want to know about hobbies, maybe you should have clicked on the green "HOBBIES" button on the sidebar to see the most recent posts. All throughout your comments, you mention things that really aren't hobbies like: I just don't count netflix or drinking wine as hobbies. watching keeping up with the kardashians and endle… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/16 04:48 PM |
| 2 | In my 20s, angry, and mainly obsessed with validation, getting a fulfilling social life, and sex with lots of different women in the future because I was denied that growing up. Solution?First, quit blaming everyone else for your problems. What is the common denominator in all the situations listed above? You. You went along with what everyone expected and after high school you followed their life plan for you. I get it, you are mad about the past, but the past is in the past, and there's nothing that can change it. Take a little hint from a 70s motivational poster: Today is the First day of the Rest of Your Life. If you want to succeed, start today. Next, lose the anger or use … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Mic.com: Inside the Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen, the Community for Female Men's Rights ActivistsYes we saw this article first thing this morning and it has been posted all day on the IRC. I suspect that we have given the article much more traffic than it would have seen without it being posted here and on the IRC. We haven't gotten an increase in traffic from it at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/16 12:23 AM |
| 8 | Mic.com: Inside the Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen, the Community for Female Men's Rights ActivistsUntil the last hour or so we have not had any sort of traffic from that article and it has been out for at least 24 hours. We don't need to step up our game, we get tons of trolls constantly; we are used to removing posts, comments, and banning at all hours of day and night. I still don't think we have gotten traffic from that article; the recent traffic has most likely come from another post here on reddit. *yep, at least two other subs have linked this article recently, and one is here now lur… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/16 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Is this goodbye to red pill?...please help.he tends to procrastinate. Where as , I with anxiety tend to plan and leave time for possible mistakes. It gets so hard to be sweet and understanding when he allows things that could have been easily prevented by a little preplanning to happen. It seems like things were easier when I made them happen, as bad as that sounds. How important are those things that he is "procrastinating"? How important are they to you, and how important are they to him? I would be willing to bet that they are much mo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/16 02:10 PM |
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