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Yes ‘turn the other cheek’
That isn’t going to work with a sociopath who doesn’t play ball
A hard lesson I learned is some people will never change and you cannot project your values onto them otherwise it’s endless self harm.
This is why I hate the toxic positivity types in religious / spiritual circles - grooming women into becoming softer targets.
Endless empathy isn’t noble. It’s a danger magnet. Truly.
Anger, fear and hurt is your natural alarm system not to be ignored.
Even some therapists are way too forgiveness heavy and send women straight into the arms of abusers forgetting...sociopaths and narcs DO NOT play ball or speak the language of empathy.
All they’re doing is going back for more.
I feel men defined femininity as passivity and endless forgiving so they can better manipulate and use us - deliberate and it’s not even natural. Women die if they don’t have boundaries.
I have a Christian family member who’s like that- very sweet but very depressed in her (slavery sentence) marriage. She stays ‘in the name of Jesus our lord’
Probably going to die from her drinking problem soon
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Let’s just ship all the incels to Afghanistan in exchange for women and children that wanted to leave but were abandoned by their men to be raped and killed.
Let them enjoy a society of their dreams
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