Long time no see! I've been busy in my personal life but I'm coming here to talk about a vetting strategy I use to vet out self-declated childfree men.

It comes in two steps:

Step One: Gynecologist appointment

When the conversation is going on so well, I try to insert how I'm quite excited for my upcoming gynecologist appointment for my upcoming sterilization surgery, to self-declated childfree dates. The thing is, I still don't have a date, but I don't have to mention that specific detail, it can be within the next few years but I still say it's "upcoming".

The looks in their faces can say lots and lots and LOTS. Either they go all horrified, because they secretely hoped they could make me flip and accept to be a mother (stupid shit, I know), or they stay unmoved or are happy that I am confirming that I'm childfree to them.

Those that become horrified or attempt to make me change my idea, they're nexted. They're frequently fence-sitters, or secret non-childfree that hope to convert me. So they're NEXTED.

Those that give a neutral or positive reaction to my statement... I proceed to Step Two:

Step Two: The Snip Snipping

I then ask those remaining men if they want or have a vasectomy. I know, I just ask that with an innocent face, like it's litterally no biggie I don't give a single fuck about their answer. Makes them more likely to spill.

Those that act all horrified about their MaNhOoD (as if it resided in the integrity of their sperm canals lol), refuse vehemently the idea, are offended to the suggestion, are either immature childfree men that don't want to take their responsibility too, or actual fakers.

Those that act enthuastic about vasectomy, share about the difficulties of obtaining one, are positive about the whole thing are great candidates that pass this specific vetting point. I am active in childfree circles and most CF men are very enthusiastic about vasectomy so I don't think you'll lose any potentials by eliminating those that are negative about that.