Why she doesn't care for him during sex...

Japanese_Lasagna · 2022-01-02T19:30:59+00:00

I’m surprised he hasn’t divorced her yet, frankly. I’m guessing he gets something out of this that he’s not saying here. He is fully capable of initiating a divorce himself.

ceramicunicorn · 2022-01-02T17:57:17+00:00

Um, as clueless as he may be, this woman also sounds LV. You don’t stick around and not go to couple’s therapy. She doesn’t seem to have a mature communication style and they’ve been at this for years. FDS always advocates for prioritizing securing the means to get out if you’re not happy, and you know therapy won’t fix it.

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-01-02T17:34:15+00:00

This sounds like a couple who needed to go to therapy a long time ago, and like a man who is reducing some huge f-cking issues to, “wah wah I don’t get laid.”

MsWriteNow07 · 2022-01-02T21:24:46+00:00

This story sounds so fake. This guy is either lying or leaving out major details to make himself sound like the victim.

europoor24 · 2022-01-02T20:43:37+00:00

Am I the only one that didn’t miss the bit about him being fine with women letting him « do what he needs to » 🧐?

MissouriBlue · 2022-01-02T18:52:09+00:00

This is a spoof… the roles are reversed, and this is what women experience on the daily. LOL!

millennialpink2000 · 2022-01-02T19:10:15+00:00

This one is really simple. He puts in no effort, she's got the ick and that's where they are. Guaranteed he does nothing sensual to seduce her or try to make her life easier 99% of the time, so she's turned off by him except when she has an itch. Once it's scratched—post nut clarity, if you will—she sees him clearly for the lazy, uninterested man he is. The cycle repeats.

FI-REfox · 2022-01-02T22:12:43+00:00

This woman wants out desperately and feels utterly trapped. Why does she feel like she can't leave when that's what she clearly wants more than anything else? Oh idk, maybe because she has no job, income and little kids to take care of.

This is why we do not rely on a man's money and stop working after having children. They call SAH wives "dependents" for a reason.

Squidwrd_Tortellini · 2022-01-02T19:19:44+00:00

okay but she's LV too and honestly sounds like she needs serious help from a therapist. sis is messy

Hhjjuuy · 2022-01-02T21:08:47+00:00

"Sex only happens when the person I want to have sex with wants to have sex."

Averyhvw · 2022-01-02T18:23:29+00:00

Couples therapy? So would the therapist start encouraging her to have sex with him more?

Why would she want to have more sex with him, when things are going well he decides that’s the time to sit down and ask for more intimacy? What a trash 🗑

SearchLightsInc · 2022-01-02T23:31:07+00:00

His wife isnt straight.

I know I might get downvoted for this but I am 100% sure that she's not into men. I wouldnt be surprised if she was raised super religious where gay people are the devil.

But I do know that:

1) She does like sex because she still engages in it

2) She's not bothered about being single because it seems she absolutely despises this guy and clearly does not love him - I dont think you get to that point when your straight because in the back of your mind you know you have "other options" - She doesnt see other options because she does not want him and does not want to replace him.

3) Everything she is doing is coming from a place of "duty"

Obviously will never find out if im right but that's what im reading.

Title	Why she doesn't care for him during sex...
Author	melympia
Upvotes	179
Comments	38
Date	January 2, 2022 5:23 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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