What makes you think of yourself a red pill woman

KombuchaEnema · 2022-01-01T15:42:58+00:00

Honestly I sometimes question if I am.

I believe, genuinely, that the vast majority of women are happier in traditional gender roles. I believe the whole “I’m a queen I don’t need no man” mentality is destroying women’s mental health.

I fundamentally believe that women need men (just as men need women). I think in general, humility is the road to happiness. This is the opposite of what modern women are being told.

We’re told not to “give a fuck” what anyone thinks. We’re told we don’t need anyone but ourselves. We’re told to prioritize ourselves always.

That sort of attitude is not the way to handle close intimate relationships (especially your relationship with your significant other). You should care what your significant other thinks. You should admit to needing them. You should sometimes prioritize them over yourself.

I think the breakdown of the nuclear family is a massive problem. I think it’s why so many people are mentally ill and dysfunctional. I think single motherhood is destroying young men and women, and I’m sick of people blaming men for being deadbeats while coddling the women who chose to sleep with a deadbeat.

I can’t say I’m 100% redpill in the sense that I’m not okay with my husband cheating on me. I don’t always support his goals - for example, if his goal was to take two months between jobs and just enjoy playing video games during that time, I would have to step in and tell him we can’t afford that. Obviously that’s an exaggerated example, but sometimes we do need to have those conversations.

Throwaway230306 · 2022-01-01T16:00:04+00:00

I think the red pill accurately (more or less) describes gender and sexual dynamics.

mannfan9292 · 2022-01-01T20:42:10+00:00

My manifesto has two parts:

The Practical: homemaking skills like cooking, cleaning, decorating, laundry. Frugal choices that benefit my household: gardening, couponing, composting, making things from scratch, etc. Wanting to take a supportive role in my man’s life. The desire to help my partner grow and realize his dreams. The desire to be involved in our community and make it better. Which segues into the second part:

The Philosophy: I have chosen to see the world as it is. I’m not trying to fool myself into thinking it’s something is not. I accept the nature of men. I do not change the nature of my partner. I choose accountability for my actions. I can only change myself. I conserve the energy I would’ve spent controlling others for changing myself for the better. And also, changing things in my community for the better.

HappilyMrs · 2022-01-03T14:36:10+00:00

I don't. I don't think of myself as blue pill either.

I like a traditional gender dynamic between me and my husband. For society as a whole, my views are very mixed. I dont 100% buy in to many of the RP views on things. I am generally very liberal, and think that we should be progressing towards everyone living happier lives better in keeping with treating the planet well.

RP to me should be a toolbox where you can utilise what works for making your relationship (and in turn, your life) happier. Aside from that, I'm not committed to it as an identity.

BlueCandyGumdrop · 2022-01-02T11:04:04+00:00

Not sure if I am but, I believe everyone is responsible for their own happiness.

I'm here because traditional gender roles fit me nicely and it's nice to find people who feel the same. (Doesn't mean I believe that's what's best for everyone tho.) Also discussions here are mostly pleasant and polite.

MuttonDressedAsGoose · 2022-01-01T17:33:13+00:00

I'm sure that my ideas aren't quite what is intended.

I believe that females exist to assist and nurture males.

Men build empires, explore, conquer, create...they also produce the art and philosophy that expresses all of the meaning of these endeavours.

Women assist in this mission. We are biologically constructed to gestate and lactate. We are made physically weaker - significantly so - for a reason. We are not the equal of men. Instead we are reliant on their provision and protection.

All we can do is to choose the man most likely to provide well and then assist him unreservedly with every ounce of our beings.

submissivehousewife1 · 2022-01-01T15:24:09+00:00

I’m a homemaker, soon to be stay at home mom, I also believe in gender roles, I believe men should lead, I really hate the whole feminism thing, especially now because it’s not even equality for all, it’s turned into how women are superior, and I just don’t like it. My husband makes all the final decisions, I’m just here for support and to make his home life easier. I’m submissive, I don’t nag, I try to be sexually available at all times (even though being pregnant has taken a toll on it but we’re getting back into the swing of things.) I try to make sure I’m always presentable, (ex; the house is clean if anyone were to stop by, I watch my weight, even while pregnant. I never talk over my husband, especially in front of other people, I make it known he’s in charge, especially when I’m with other women who talk shit about their husbands/boyfriends.)

Now, I’m all for people living how they want, I have no say in what anyone else does and I don’t care. But this is how I want my household. And I love it

chowchowfluff · 2022-01-02T06:34:47+00:00

I believe in the biological differences of men and women and what those entail when it comes to relationships.

I believe we should be true to our nature as women and embrace our femininity.

I believe we should respect men and masculinity.

I believe my man should be the captain of our life and I will gladly stand by and support his lead as his first mate. While at the same time make sure I am intellectually and emotionally equipped to assist and manage whatever is required of me as a feminine woman in our relationship.

You could say I’m a homemaker in the sense that I am the primary person that does the homemaking tasks. I find great satisfaction serving my man by cooking, cleaning, taking care of myself as a way of showing respect for him, and in general taking care of his needs as a whole.

However, I also serve my SO by playing an integral role in his business and entrepreneurial ventures. As an individual, I need to be stimulated intellectually or I will get bored so I’m grateful that my SO also values my willingness to provide the support I do with his business. He takes great pride in knowing that I have the capacity to manage challenges with dignity and respect and in client facing situations he gets a lot of “wow, she’s great to work with!” feedback so that always gives a good boost to his ego.

In particular, being a red pill women as a means of optimizing a harmonious long term partnership within the confines of a heterosexual relationship is what I value from it most. But also in society, I think both women and men have biological advantages and differences that should be celebrated and cherished respectively and I subscribe to the aspect of the red pill that does that.

bdaydragon32 · 2022-01-01T14:49:19+00:00

-First, I believe in the basic concept of the red pill, accepting life as is, not as everyone pretends it is, avoid sugarcoated lies. I change what I can change in my life, I believe there are solutions to problems but I am very much aware that reallity can't be vent according to our perceptions and desires, and thus, I protect and work on my individuality.

-I planned all my life since I started highschool so I could have a traditional life and get married young.

-I focused on getting better as a woman, taking care of my physical apperance and attitude, values, etc to be a high value female in every way possible and deserve respect and love.

-I also believe in gender roles.

-I don't believe in feminism (in any way, not the first wave, not the second, nothing).

-I will always put my partner's goals as my priority and help him achieve them without feeling any resentment.

biitchstix · 2022-01-05T06:19:14+00:00

I really just reject modern relationship dynamics, feminism, and I have a positive view of gender roles.

I believe in monogamy and think casual sex/hookup culture/onlyfans and such is horribly detrimental.

I believe in men being the financial providers but I also reject the whole 'sugar baby' mentality. I am perfectly happy to take on the traditional female role and take care of cleaning, cooking, errands, budgeting, etc etc. I think relationships work best when each person plays to their natural strengths instead of aggressively trying to split everything down the middle 50/50. That's just not realistic and it seems honestly exhausting.

I personally don't have a maternal instinct, I'm not sure why or whats caused that issue but it just is what it is so I personally don't plan on having kids but I also HATE the way SAHMs and families in general get almost spoken down to? these days. It's gross. Families are important, traditional family structures are incredibly beneficial to children and as a result to society as a whole.

Because I don't want kids I of course plan on continuing to work but I feel no need to exhaust and damage my mental health by trying to climb a corporate ladder for the next 30 years. I don't need to compete with men to feel validated or be a 'girlboss'. I own a small clothing store with my family and do makeup. I'm perfectly happy in a relaxed and stereotypically 'female' career.

I'm a lil bit of an MRA especially when it comes to modern relationships. I see so many men being in, quite frankly, abusive relationships. It's considered 'cute' and 'quirky' to be the crazy girlfriend and so many horrible behaviours are encouraged and so ingrained in society that I had to put a conscious effort into unlearning some of them (something as simple as running off to your girlfriends to complain about him after every argument, so normalized, but so unhealthy and horrible).

Drazer_Pride · 2022-01-02T13:33:56+00:00

I am antifeminist.

I regard that men's emotions matter.

I believe in stable trustful romance.

Chivalry and healthy patriarchy are blessing.

Dominance and authority of my boyfriend excite me and thrill me.

I am surprisingly submissive to my boyfriend and have an urge to serve him selflessly. I love being his slave.

I hate when custody are granted to women that don't deserve. And I think that their parental rights should be restricted.

I hate arrogance in general.

Two genders are created for partnership and union and teamwork, not toxic race, war and fighting.

Modesty beautifies a person. (Balkan moral. I am from East Europe)

Dominance and submission relationships are sturdy and strong.

raddikicks · 2022-01-01T17:53:31+00:00

i'm actually a socialist but the onlyfans normalization in 2018 radicalized me about gender politics, and every experience i have socializing with other women in real life makes me feel further and further disconnected from the current social role i was expected to assume as an 18 year old zoomer middle class girl. i'd rather die that go to four year and guzzle a cocktail of birth control and zoloft downed with binge drinking at parties and casual sex that will leave me as emotionally numb when i graduate as i'd be physically if i spent the whole time death gripping myself 2 hours a day.

the same thing that makes me not consider myself part of the right - scientific facts like social psychology and biology, are the things that make me want to completely avoid the culturally pornsick lifestyle offered to me and my female peers just because we were born with vaginas. i know how much the commodification of my body, autonomy and humanity would hurt me emotionally, let alone the degree of damage it does to the other women i'm dragging down.

there's also a reactionary tinge to it as well. people (specifically my white middle class female peers going to college to pursue a "career,,) seem to get superfluously and bafflingly pissy over stay at home wives and moms. i'm assuming it's some kind of subconscious envy or resentment but i love starting debates with people i know i can walk circles around with my actual arguments and prepared debunking off all their preprogrammed responses lmaooo

thepretendchristian · 2022-01-01T22:06:19+00:00

I’ve accepted some cold truths of life.

Sex and reproduction are the apex to our existence.

Men and women are different and that’s ok.

The family unit is the strongest foundation to build on.

People aren’t necessarily inherently evil, they just look after themselves and their people first.

If it isn’t broke, don’t fix it and don’t find reasons to break it for the sake of fixing it.

Just because a majority of people are doing something or believes in something, doesn’t mean it’s good.

Most of your problems are your own fault and only you can fix them.

SilverAndAlgorand · 2022-01-01T15:12:01+00:00

I believe in biological differences between men and women and biblical roles for men and women.

XxPorcelainDollxX · 2022-01-02T06:37:06+00:00

I am anti feminist that also believes in traditional gender roles. I think being a housewife is better than career. I’m planning to work less hours so I can have more time looking after kids and the home when I get married (I already have a bachelors degree)

PippeliPaavo · 2022-01-05T03:48:24+00:00

Red pill woman for me would be comfortable being lead by a man and specifically be below a man. If that's true then I can teach everything there's no need for the woman to have experience in red pill.

Arguing is the best indicator that immediately shows if a woman is masculine or feminine. If she has to be right that will most likely make her a masculine female. Can you exchange ideas in a civilized manner or do you just reject ideas. Having an argument over perspective will pretty quickly tell if the woman is fit for a relationship. If she can't even entertain an idea she is definitely not going to grow into anything or learn from you. Are you trying to be right or be in a relationship? Pick one.

As an example some fractionary basic principle of Red Pill such as who do you think is the leader in a relationship. Usual answer will be something about equality and both being leaders. Trying to talk of the red pill as a subject would be a bad idea. Both from the associations people have but also from the perspective of do you have your own ideas or are you just repeating something someone else said.

Jikira · 2022-01-06T11:57:19+00:00

I don’t identify with RP anymore. I used too, but I realize that a lot of people on this sub are just projecting their inabilities onto other. I am the antithesis of RP, I am the breadwinner, I don’t want kids, I believe in equality. I am not conservative.

I feel RP has good relationships advice though. I am glad that I found it at a young age. Hence why I come back from time to time. As I get older I see that it becomes less and less relevant for my life.

I find myself exhausted with the constant projection saying that women need A,B,C to be happy in this sub and in my everyday life. Just because you feel purpose being a mom doesn’t mean all women feel the same way and vice versa. Just because you are incapable of handling a career doesn’t mean, so are other women. I care nothing for mother hood, but I understand that for some people that is what they want to dedicate there life too. I respect that.

My fiancé and I have the best relationship for us. He sees me as an equal partner working to make the best life possible. I am the current breadwinner as he is in school right now to increase his lifetime earnings. We have a plan to be financially independent as soon as possible. Why only have one income, when we can get there at half the time if we both work. We take on roles and responsibilities as needed to build a life together. We have goals and we work together to meet them.

I believe as social animals, nurturing one another is apart of both genders. It just a human thing.

I feel I am very lucky to have such a supportive partner and I personally think using the vetting advice I got from here helped a lot.

VioletSongjatShariff · 2022-01-10T00:06:51+00:00

I don't know if I would call myself so but I share some values with this community like living and liking the traditional gender roles. I don't think they should be forced on people who choose a different life style because deviation from a social norm is as much a part of it as the norm itself but I think the modern feministic urge to destroy these norms is highly critical and won't make the majority of women and men happier.

Also I think it's important to accept and embrace femininity because femininity and masculinity complement each other and are both very important. Women shouldn't want to be or feel they have to be the new men but just the authentic versions of herselves.

Besides I'm a very liberal person who thinks people have to find their own best way to live and get happy.

Title	What makes you think of yourself a red pill woman
Author	MinuteAble
Upvotes	89
Comments	97
Date	January 1, 2022 2:32 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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