Out of curiosity, I went through the bluepill, redpill and blackpill arguments. While they have some degree of truth to them, I can't wrap my head around why anyone would wanna stick to one and consider it the ultimate truth. I'll go over some of them off the top of my head, correct me if I'm wrong:

First off, the blue pill. I'm not exactly sure if they believe in anything specific or as aggressively as red and black pills. But I know that the blue pillers get a lot of shit by red and black for turning their back on the so called "truth".

As for the red pill, there seems to be a vague line between normal people and incel territories within. Where the "Just be confident" motto doesn't seem to be enough, they go on to rate people out of 10 based on looks to decide if they would "survive" in the dating scene. That could be a black pill thing actually. Either they overlap a lot or I don't know what I'm talking about.

Anyway, where I'm getting is that none of the calculations these pill swallowing people make seem to apply much to real life settings. At most, they apply to online dating as it's naturally more superficial. When people go through Tinder, all they consider is whether the person is attractive at first glance and nothing else. And women are obviously more picky than men considering the much larger amount of men willing to fuck anything that breathes.

That's where things differ in real life. Ideally, you're able to have a decent talk and see if you can connect with other people. That's also where the incel conspiracy theories about "genetic lottery" become less important. Looks certainly help but not as much as incels make it out to be. I really don't know how black pill people think human interactions work but it really doesn't involve a "chad" stepping out of their home, make a mating call, get surrounded by women and live happily ever after.

I'd probably get shit on for being "blue pilled" but this is how I see things honestly. No one should reach a point of derangement where they have to make up theories about sex and human behavior, especially if the only data they have is what they see on mainstream social media. It's sad that people lack intimacy so badly that they resort to such mental gymnastics.

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EDIT: Yes, I'm referring to dating/fucking on "That's where things differ" paragraph. I didn't think anyone would assume I was talking about making friends. And yes, physical attraction does matter a lot. I'm just saying that unless you're hard to look at, you can find something that works for you if you know where to look. Just don't go around hitting on people "too attractive" for you if you're going to complain about not being able to find someone. No one is supposed to be able to get anyone they want. Not you or that one hot celebrity you wish you were. Some people will have a smaller pool, that's only natural.