This is how "decent" men contribute to the bar being so LOW

ferociouslycurious · 2022-02-16T00:16:22+00:00

Screw telling her. This dude SHOULD make his coworker tell her himself.

sherrybby · 2022-02-15T20:01:19+00:00

the title is not mine - copied from a highly upvoted comment on this post under a certain subreddit. Would've loved to attach it here if I knew how to upload multiple images in one post

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2022-02-15T20:55:03+00:00

It drives me nuts when people realize that a man is a rotten liar who can't be trusted, but then they still believe his stories about his wife/gf being a bad person. Of course he says that stuff, he knows his behavior can't be justified any other way. He'll say equally bad things about anybody else if it serves his interests.

Averyhvw · 2022-02-15T20:36:51+00:00

If we had an all-female police force, warning this woman of her impending STD would be perfectly legal.

adeecomeforth · 2022-02-16T00:52:16+00:00

Are they really just coworkers and work friends? Seems like they're closer friends than he is letting on, but doesn't want to admit it.

MsWriteNow07 · 2022-02-16T06:21:52+00:00

I think this guy said the friend is an essential stranger to make him sound better/more distant than he is. Do your work acquaintances drop by your house? Do they just tell you their deep dark secrets with no preamble? His coworker, who has no reason to lie about that, said he hasn’t said a word to anyone else. He must feel close to this guy. I have a feeling they’re a lot better friends than he’s letting on. He’s met this guy’s wife, knows quite a bit about their marriage. Either way. He could easily leave an anonymous note in the mail for this guy’s wife. He’s just being a jerk

lansburysoda · 2022-02-15T21:12:46+00:00

How to Protect a Sociopath 101

West-Cook · 2022-02-16T00:23:00+00:00

If I found out my husband was hiding some scrote’s secret affair/child for him, it’d be grounds for divorce. I hope this guy’s wife gets wind of what he’s willing to hide for some rando at work.

Catz10000 · 2022-02-15T20:50:06+00:00

This is so deceptive. Of course the OP scrote knows what he should do. He's just making excuses as to why he won't.

I personally believe if all men truly wanted the world to be a better place, it would be. They do what they want when they want - ALL of them. All of them benefit.

People know right from wrong very early on. People also don't have the stones to do the right thing consistently.

KateJ1982 · 2022-02-15T22:48:01+00:00

What a coward - he could at least send her an anonymous note.

millennialpink2000 · 2022-02-15T23:41:22+00:00

Personal integrity. This is a man with zero personal integrity.

KetoKittenAround · 2022-02-16T07:48:19+00:00

Ladies if you find your partner is hiding these types of thing BEST BELIEVE they are fully callable and likely will do the SAME things to you.

My ex’s best friend would cheat and my ex would talk down about it all the time. I was of course a pick me and told not to say anything and I didn’t .

Well.

Karma huh?

Guess who also was getting cheated on all over the damn town?

Me.

I won’t have it. If you cover up for a cheater then you are a cheater to me. Better believe I’ll blow up a cheaters whole life when I catch the news.

I was so stupid stupid stupid. I am going to do whatever I can to make it right. Women need to know no matter how much it hurts.

frostedgemstone · 2022-02-16T01:54:21+00:00

He’s making so many excuses. So much abuse has happened to individuals not because no one knew, but because the people that do know don’t speak up about it. This is the easiest way out possible and he’s not even man enough to admit he’s just afraid of his friend

derpinat_butter · 2022-02-16T10:25:40+00:00

"Oh no the baby could get STD - there's still a chance it's a boy so I should warn her! Forget about the woman though."

Vaahla · 2022-02-16T01:06:37+00:00

I won’t tell on a cheater I work with either to be honest, their drama isn’t worth my career.

It’s not my problem, and I’m not going to risk my job for essential strangers. So I can’t blame this guy for not risking his future either.

Title	This is how "decent" men contribute to the bar being so LOW
Author	sherrybby
Upvotes	319
Comments	26
Date	February 15, 2022 8:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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