The Will Smith-Chris Rock panzy fest from Sunday is everywhere and everyone and their brother or sister is chiming in with their two cents. But it's all about Will and maybe some side discussion about Chris. Occasionally, there is some discussion about Jada and her "entanglement."

This is blatant pussy pass coupled with "let's you and him fight over me" with the end goal of an alpha widowed woman intentionally destroying the beta partner she loathes because he's a beta.

I'm glad to see there is some discussion about how Jada's affair led to, or at least contributed to, Will's incredibly stupid actions. But that totally misses what happened. Jada set Will up because she despises him.

Sunday was Will's night. He was a black man who was going to win a best lead actor Oscar for headlining a black led movie about a successful black family. Sunday was decades in the making. It was the feather in the cap of Will's career--decades of work. It was to be something for the black community. It was not a nod to a black person who kowtowed to white culture--it was the arrival of black culture.

And Jada could not fucking stand it. It curdled her to her core that the weak ass man was was being elevated and celebrated--and most infuriatingly of all--he was being elevated and celebrated above her. She could not accept that. So she flexed. She could not let Will have his moment. On that stage--with all eyes looking she A) showed that he was her bitch, because that how she sees their relationship, and B) she felt a visceral desire to point out to the world the emperor had no clothes. The world might think Will was great--but she knew he was pathetic and had to make sure the world knew too.

The result is that although Will won the most coveted academy award--all anyone is talking about is the Will-Jada relationship, which means they are talking about Jada.

And NOONE is calling her out on it. Not one person has said Jada should have shut Will up (I've seen one commenter say Will should have left it Jada to defend herself) or otherwise intervene. No, as a woman she could not have any authority over that situation despite clearly being able to exert absolute control over the man with nothing more than a frown and an eye-roll. It is classic pussy pass.

It's also classic let's you and him fight over me. That's crack to women. And it is ensuring she's in the headlines instead of it being just Will in the headlines. Instead of doing the congratulatory rounds on all the shows where Will is deservedly being lauded for his career, instead he's in hiding and Jada is the center of all the discussions.

And it is all because she despises him because he's weak. Will loves her despite fully knowing her heart belongs solely to Tupac. Hell their daughter wrote a letter to the dead man saying how she's sure he's alive and he needs to come get her and her mother so they can all finally be happy together as a family. That alone makes him revolting to her. She fucked a relative child in his house, in his bed, then MADE him go on record for it. He cried--she didn't. She didn't apologize, why should she when he's there the whole time saying he's her ride or die bitch. Will intended it to be a show of his strength--the cap of his masculinity. Jada meant for it to elevate her dim star at the humiliating expense of her husband, she clearly got off parading him as a cuck, and showed that he was fully on her leash. It was one of the most pathetic spectacles I have ever witnessed. And, it set up Sunday night. If he would promise his undying loyalty to her in response to her publicly exposing him as a cuck, she knew she could do anything with him at any time. She has fully consumed him and through him--his family, his work and his legacy.

Denzel is supposed to have told Will afterwards that in your highest moment is when the Devil comes for you. And he was correct. In Will's highest moment, Jada attacked and laid him low. The devil in a green dress. I really wonder if that is what Denzel was trying to tell him.

Men, protect yourself. Remember, if she thinks you are weak, it doesn't matter what you do for her--she will despise you, she will consume you, and will do what she an to destroy you. And above all, avoid the alpha widows.