r/Divorce really is basically all women who excommunicate and ridicule men, or any suggestions we may give.

Thaniii · 2022-04-25T00:33:38+00:00

My old man once told me "Women are big children".

He was a quote connoisseur.

sicrm · 2022-04-24T23:41:34+00:00

imagine rather wanting to save money you could use on a cleaner on a lawyer instead.

a cleaner somehow isn’t cheaper than a divorce and two separate homes...

TP_Crisis_2020 · 2022-04-24T22:48:59+00:00

Pretty much every sub involving relationships, marriage, or divorce in general is overrun and controlled by angry manhating women. Even AITA is like that now also, and askmen is on the cusp of being overran by women.

WartimeDad · 2022-04-24T22:31:49+00:00

Fuck that sub. I got banned the other day for pointing out that the mod made a CLEARLY sexist remark about how “all men generalize women.”

The sexism on that sub makes me sick. The way they immediately jump to assume the man is abusive. The way they are incapable of seeing that there is likely another side to the story. The way they don’t just want to see the woman blind side and divorce the man, but actually want to see her ruin his life. Label him an abuser. Take his children. Ruin his livelihood. It’s amongst the most toxic subs and awful for the poor men that wander in there in a time of need. Hope they find their way here.

Seriously. Keep pointing it out and you’ll be banned in no time. Which, is truly a badge of honor.

Idratherhikeout · 2022-04-25T00:43:17+00:00

I'm not defending the person replying or the subreddit. I'm nearly fifty and have dated, and lived with, a number of women through my life. They were all largely awesome.

That said, I've never had a more consistent disagreement, or argument, when it comes to house cleaning. I've found inexpensive housekeepers and when I've lived on my own, they've been *fantastic* and save me tons of time.

When I've lived with someone romantically, I've repeatedly had resistance to a housekeeper for reasons I don't understand. If I pushed the issue and basically forced a housekeeper, all sorts of weird behavior would ensue. One SO would thoroughly clean the house before the housekeeper showed up. It was weird. I've seen arguments, defensive behavior and then passive aggressive efforts to prove we don't need a housecleaner. It saved me time, but it never saved my SO time.

I don't want to stereotype and I'm just making an observation based on my experience. Housecleaners have been a very sensitive topic in my past when I've romantically lived with someone. Maybe someone can explain it to me.

dday_throwaway3 · 2022-04-25T09:58:09+00:00

/r/divorce is a feminist cuckfest. The sooner men realize that, the sooner they can ditch their societal programming of putting women on a pedestal. That's the number one reason why men end up here: They operate within the frame of their spouse, instead of their spouse operating within theirs.

Basic_Advance7627 · 2022-04-25T00:57:46+00:00

I’ve seen a lot of men do crappy things but I’ve seen a lot of women take it to a whole other level in absolutely destroying their husband especially if she’s cheating and the husband loves her enough to let her ruin him. Pure evil.

fixingmedaybyday · 2022-04-24T23:54:17+00:00

They feel like they have to avenge their grandmothers for the way the times were back then or something.

pegleg_legal · 2022-04-25T01:48:38+00:00

Fuck that place. I do not post there, except accidentally when I don't notice there's been a cross post. Then delete immediately. Don't get me wrong, it's can be extremely valuable to get a female perspective on things - so long as it's objective. Not the case there.

velesxrxe · 2022-04-24T23:24:13+00:00

Confession through projection gentlemen, confession though projection.

RedditAzania · 2022-04-25T03:50:43+00:00

I'm a man and this subreddit isn't any better, in fact it's even worse than /r/divorce.

Eve-3 · 2022-04-25T07:35:05+00:00

The thread you are talking about, the person who started it and you jumped in to agree is a female. Sounds like it isn't all women or even all women who are in that sub. It's not even all women in commenting in that particular topic. It is all women who are disagreeing with you in that topic. That's a pretty small group of people, about 4 maybe.

I'm not saying that sub isn't biased in favor of women, because I agree that it is. I'm saying that's a poor example to show it. Especially since your comment is being upvoted. Though that may be due to the link here. Nobody is attacking you, they're just disagreeing.

Masypha · 2022-04-25T09:28:43+00:00

A lot of panties in a bunch, OP, lol.

playerknowmore · 2022-04-25T16:44:45+00:00

If women initiate eighty percent of divorces what do you expect them to say. They call themselves equal, but everything about a relationship with them is totally runs contrary to this. Men do help around the house; men who wives bring financial gains to the relationship. Sorry SAHP is a dated archetype. My mother was a house wife and it was fine for that generation. The time for princesses is over.

Title	r/Divorce really is basically all women who excommunicate and ridicule men, or any suggestions we may give.
Author	NLP_Onyx
Upvotes	25
Comments	47
Date	April 24, 2022 9:53 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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