If you have gold digging tendencies you deserved to be pumped and dumped

I understand that dating is a means to an end, and usually the end goal is marriage or companionship.

However there would be times where both genders are being used (guys are usually financially used; girls are sexually used).

That said, if you have attraction to a man (and sometimes woman, but usually having both sex and money is a win win for men if they can even find such rarity) due to how rich he or his family is and only that, it is only fair that he objectify you back as a sexual means to an end.

And once that transaction no longer works and he leaves after pumping you (having sex). You should not complain because all this time you have been attempting to use him as a financial means to an end.