Equality , until I have to pay!

RetMilRob · 2022-09-15T00:10:32+00:00

Of the 400,000 people in the United States receiving post-divorce spousal maintenance, just 3 percent were men, according to Census figures. Yet 40 percent of households are headed by female breadwinners -- suggesting that hundreds of thousands of men are eligible for alimony, yet don't receive it. I says this to appreciate that this lady’s husband receives what he has earned.

donkey_doug665 · 2022-09-14T23:27:25+00:00

Haha. "He knocked me up".

It was all him, she had nothing to do with that right?

Walt-Kowalski78 · 2022-09-15T01:51:08+00:00

“2015 He knocked me up.” LMAO Yup, you had no part or say in that matter.

professorjaytee · 2022-09-15T00:09:15+00:00

"He knocked me up" stands the fuck out over anything else. (Like SHE didn't have anything to do with that?)

henrysmyagent · 2022-09-15T00:37:23+00:00

Switch the sexes and nobody gives a shit.

Some clever politician should title a fair divorce bill "The Save Women From Their Poor Decisions Act" and fill it with language about how each party leaves the marriage with ONLY what they put into it.

We will NEVER have fair divorce laws in the USA unless they are framed as saving hard working women from parasitic men.

Napkinpope · 2022-09-15T03:13:47+00:00

“I believe in karma…” No, you don’t. You want your husband to be punished for screwing you over, but if you really believed in karma, then you would also have to believe that your current shitty situation was earned by your own shitty actions.

MrMelbourne · 2022-09-15T00:21:01+00:00

From Melbourne, Australia here. I have only ever met ONE woman (at work) that was in such a situation and boy was she angry and bitter about the whole thing. In Australia, men routinely get reamed in the family law courts.

LetsTry2GetAlong · 2022-09-15T00:55:49+00:00

HE KNOCKED ME UP....?

Just think Babe, all he wanted was just a blow job not a kid.

And she had to " go back to work". So, with you not working, who was paying the bills?

To declare zero on taxes doesn't mean much. What type of Corporation did he file under?

He can still take out money, have it taxed once and through depreciation still show zero income.

She says he filed zero as to belittle him. But it was enough to pay for The house, so that she has to go back to work.

This is sweet.

Slapnuts711 · 2022-09-15T00:16:59+00:00

After about a decade and a half of paying child support and the indignities I suffered at the hands of the court system I just love, LOVE, reading stories about when it happens to women.

Their tears give me a boner.

ArthurHaroldKaneJnr · 2022-09-15T01:36:52+00:00

"He knocked me up"

So you as a supposedly strong and independent woman had no say or part in this?

adamrocks71 · 2022-09-15T11:09:11+00:00

I kinda smiled reading this.. pay 50k ? Amateur.. That was more than half my legal fees alone.. I lost $750k cash in my divorce. Welcome to the real world..

mystarkfuture · 2022-09-15T00:40:22+00:00

“I think my next move will be to take him to trial”

And he can probably get the best trial lawyer in the state, using your dime missy. Enjoy the equal lefts.

SideTraKd · 2022-09-15T02:31:48+00:00

The fucked up system will only get changed once women start getting the short end of the stick in it.

That's just the reality.

Men getting fucked has always been fine.

WornBlueCarpet · 2022-09-15T05:58:57+00:00

2015 He knocked me up

Well, that's rape then...

Unless she was a willing participant of course. Then "he" didn't do anything that she didn't also do.

It's funny how (in most places still) women have 100% autonomy and power over their bodies and what should happen with their pregnancy, while men have exactly 0% power or say in the matter - yet the narrative is still "he knocked me up".

Women have a wide range of options when it comes to contraceptives, yet it is still the man who knocks up the woman.

Try taking some goddam responsibility. Women are either adults who can take care of themselves and can be trusted to handle their own bodies autonomously, or they are like children who are unable to make informed medical decisions.

MrStruggleSnuggle · 2022-09-15T05:47:34+00:00

So was she thinking that she'd never have to work again, and have her ex husband fund her entire life for eternity?

Also lol at her being upset that her house has increased 100k in value. oh the horror!

Hethatwatches · 2022-09-15T02:59:55+00:00

She didn't know that when she married him he automatically got half her stuff? Did she think she only got half of his?

My ex-wife owes me about thirty grand in back child support, hasn't paid a cent, and the courts aren't even looking for her in Floriduh. I'm glad as hell this dude is getting something.

aimgamingyt · 2022-09-15T09:03:46+00:00

I don't care if women are more emotional than men, seeing them react this way when they experience what unfair justice men have been experiencing for years annoys me.

p3ngwin · 2022-09-15T09:41:20+00:00

I hate when a woman says "he knocked me up", no you BOTH had a baby, unless you want to suggest you were sexually assaulted ?

Also gotta love the way she says her house appreciated $100,000, but laments she has to give him half lol

okielawyerdude · 2022-09-15T12:40:13+00:00

This happens every time the woman has to pay. I’ve done a lot of divorces and the women that make more always whine how unfair everything is. Even if they get the kids, he’s not paying enough, why does he get home equity (this post), blah blah blah. They really think marriage is a one way partnership.

These_Invite · 2022-09-15T00:33:18+00:00

I just wonder what his side of the story is.

TheZanyVB · 2022-09-15T06:39:49+00:00

But isnt thats how its supposed to work? I've read multiple scenarios where a guy had to pay his ex-wife, even when she might have been in a same or better situation financially.

I'm sure she wouldn't have made the post, if she was at the receiving end

thebarberstylist · 2022-09-15T13:16:41+00:00

"He knocked me up" Dear God woman, take some fucking responsibility. How are your children going to feel when they learn that what you think about them, that they were just something thrust upon you you didn't want...

Professional_Deal565 · 2022-09-15T16:46:24+00:00

Her story is the same as about 8 of my male friends. Cry me a river, toots.

Dacka_Dacka · 2022-09-14T23:55:04+00:00

Here, have some equality.

Chanchees · 2022-09-15T00:17:18+00:00

Her suffering warms the cockles of my heart.

EpikHigh420 · 2022-09-15T00:23:11+00:00

It's stories like these that get me through the day.

Darksun52 · 2022-09-15T11:26:55+00:00

I love that she didn’t do a TLDR because it would’ve been “we got divorced now I have to pay my ex husband, and I think it’s unfair”

AaM_S · 2022-09-15T11:51:59+00:00

Reading this brings me JOY !

Congrats to her husband, he's really smart, you go boy!

MotorCityTrucker · 2022-09-19T15:00:57+00:00

After fifty years of attacking masculine behavior, it sounds like we’ve successfully created a man who acts just like a woman.

Embarrassed-Brother7 · 2022-09-15T01:28:04+00:00

I love how she put “tldr” but didn’t bother with making it useful

VampireFrown · 2022-09-14T23:55:19+00:00

This isn't good. I feel for her. It's not right.

BUT this shit shouldn't be happening to men either. And nobody seemingly has a problem with it.

crap4brains4eva · 2022-09-15T07:52:17+00:00

“I believe in karma and this feels so unjust.” …Sound like someone is confused.

YunngAssumedGender · 2022-09-15T11:07:33+00:00

Harassment and gas lighting have the same effect on me as words that are overused.

buppyu · 2022-09-16T21:03:41+00:00

Honestly, the vast majority of women genuinely seem sociopath to me, at least with regards to men. They don't care about what is fair or right. They don't demonstrate anything resembling empathy toward us. They hypocritically protest the fair application of any rule when it doesn't work to their advantage.

I've never been in the mind of a woman but, from their displayed behavior, I don't see anything that would indicate any motivation but pure self-interest. That is the defining trait of a psychopath.

Go try to have a good faith conversation about laws that are unfair to men with any nice woman you know. She will suddenly not care so much about fairness or equality. She will demonstrate no empathy and will almost certainly attack you.

I don't think many of us understand who we are dealing with. We think women are nice. I don't see anything nice when being nice might have a cost.

2022-09-20T04:45:22+00:00

Ever since Adele had to pay alimony as well, lot of women be seething at shit like that nowadays

buppyu · 2022-09-25T09:57:58+00:00

How does it feel to live as a court ordered slave, ladies?

No_Explanation1714 · 2022-09-15T01:36:14+00:00

Link to wife’s original post?

Nukedogger86 · 2022-09-14T23:54:32+00:00

This made me smile.

silklighting · 2022-09-15T04:44:17+00:00

Pulls out the victim card and refuses to hold herself accountable for her previous actions, sounds about right. Good on the ex husband though!

CosmicGut · 2022-09-15T04:46:58+00:00

In home seperation sound like hell tbf

Ipride362 · 2022-09-15T06:55:23+00:00

LOL, lazy bitch has to go back to work!

spikecurt · 2022-09-15T07:07:59+00:00

This chick sounds like she was a 90 Day Fiancé 😂

DarksideAuditor · 2022-09-15T09:53:22+00:00

I wish I could upvote this more than once. Beautiful.

EeAreEyeSea · 2022-09-15T10:39:54+00:00

That’s so awesome. I hope he gets custody and child support also lol yay equality 🟰

Youknowit1092 · 2022-09-15T11:50:10+00:00

Equality at its finest.

Lonzo58 · 2022-09-15T13:35:12+00:00

Who's going to tell her that if she does go to trial she's going to have to pay his legal fees since he shows no income?

Nitr0Sage · 2022-09-15T14:58:46+00:00

r/AgainstMatrimony

eustrabirbeonne · 2022-09-15T17:28:03+00:00

This is a weird way to look at it. Why is a woman getting unfair treatment from a shitty justice system a revenge from all the men that were treated unfairly?

You need to question the system or you're not better than those crazy feminists who say a man wrongfully convicted and sentenced for rape allegations is fair game considering the amount of of women who did not get justice after being actually raped.

I hate double standards.

mesmashyes · 2022-09-15T20:02:42+00:00

My current wife won't divorce me literally because of this.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2022-09-15T23:02:42+00:00

How do you feel about divorce court now? 😁

SirSpegeta · 2022-09-15T00:32:15+00:00

“Fuck that bitch. Man forget that hoe. We about to get this money, and that chick don’t even know” -DiAmond Miller

LeakyAssFire · 2022-09-15T00:24:31+00:00

If she's telling the truth, then this is not a PPD. she cashed out her 401k to buy the house she was renting. She never mentioned anything about him throwing in.

However... it sounds like that is not the truth and she's propped herself up as the victim here. If 50k is what the lawyers aggred in mediation that means he did kick in or they bought the house together.

Hard to say for sure.

biergarten · 2022-09-15T03:13:22+00:00

Cashed out 401k to buy house lol!

EndTimesRadio · 2022-09-15T03:32:13+00:00

I think that her situation is bullshit, sure.

But have guys been getting screwed just the same way?

Sure.

And I doubt she had any issue with it then.

jmac323 · 2022-09-15T19:37:25+00:00

Hahahahahahaahah.

Grumpy-Miner · 2022-09-15T21:12:08+00:00

They all want everything

Th3L45tBroth3r · 2022-10-03T06:47:59+00:00

Basically to sum it up; if the man makes equal or more than the female, then he is "desirable." If he makes less than her, then he is not.

AkaSpaceCowboy · 2022-10-13T14:12:24+00:00

Raised my whole life being told ill have to support my wife and kids because that's what men do.

AkaSpaceCowboy · 2022-10-13T14:20:51+00:00

Men just pack their bags and go and don't expect someone to pay for them because nobody ever has before. Men pay for everything in relationships and dating that way you know hes not a broke ass and can support a family. Its conditioned into us and women are the opposite. They are conditioned to not give it up easy and to make them work for it otherwise your s slut. So when the split happens your conditioned to deal witb your own issues and use to supporting yourself plus more and women are conditioned to rely on you and spend your money first.

neufi1981 · 2022-09-15T00:05:26+00:00

Oh my! That poor, poor woman…

But seriously, this happens all the time to men and women both. The sense of entitlement in this post smells of rotten ball sack…

GentlemanJugg · 2022-09-14T23:45:43+00:00

The Rock wipes a monkeys ass with how she FEELS!!

MR_Shigitoshi · 2022-09-15T04:13:56+00:00

In fairness to this guy, he probably has a big cock and is a bad boy tough guy

Women love that

CharlieAlright · 2022-09-15T16:52:05+00:00

She had me going until she said "Now I may have to go back to working full time". MAY have to go Back?? So she's not working full time, and still may not have to? FOH, I'm a 45 year old woman who has worked 1, sometimes 2 full time jobs my whole life. Never had a man to take care of me and have zero respect for women who leech off of men and don't even appreciate any of it. They seem to have no idea how hard it is because they don't, and never have, worked like that themselves.

BowtiepastaMasta · 2022-09-15T01:16:18+00:00

BIG_H0SS · 2022-09-15T03:28:32+00:00

I_WANT_TO_BELIEVE_UFO.jpg

R3XM · 2022-09-15T07:12:47+00:00

Acting like a leech is wrong, no matter the sexes

FreeBetBlackJack · 2022-09-15T05:34:16+00:00

Fuck her! 😂

Waterhobit · 2022-09-15T09:49:03+00:00

There is no pussy pass here. It’s a shitty thing whether it happens to a man or a woman, but that doesn’t make any thing in this story pussy pass related.

Daewonshaun · 2022-09-15T02:26:58+00:00

Go cry in your Tesla

MediocreTwo · 2022-09-15T16:46:30+00:00

Idk why you guys post this here. She’s complaining about her situation. Men can do it too, it actually feels her situation is legit from reading her post. Maybe some men should learn to express like this instead of fuming inside but keeping a straight face. Then you will be taken seriously too.

KiteLighter · 2022-09-15T02:18:07+00:00

I mean, the husband does kinda sound like a douchebag. "Owns a business" that he doesn't, and claims $0 income from that business? That's shady as hell.

LurkersGoneLurk · 2022-09-15T02:50:49+00:00

I get the premise, but this guy sounds like an assbag.

CSA-Joe · 2022-09-15T03:06:04+00:00

Sounds like the guy is committing tax fraud and mooching off his wife’s pre marriage investments. Get yourself a prenup for scumlords like this man.

justbaby_blue1234 · 2022-09-15T00:07:01+00:00

Everyone in this comment section at the time of this comment is a fucking incel you think all women are the types of feminist to want all men dead and only don't want equality when something happens to them but that's not the case you all just want innocent people to suffer because they didn't give you their bodies you are all enjoying the suffering of this girl because you're a virgin

Go to hell and don't come back

jetamayo769 · 2022-09-15T12:34:15+00:00

The users of this sun are such infathomable losers that I am honestly shocked. The husband sounds like a deadbeat, they went to couples therapy, but all you literally kissless virgins can see if “hurr womyn get rekt heehee”. Like, homie, PLEASE feel the touch of a woman sometime before you die.

cplJimminy · 2022-09-15T04:24:49+00:00

awwww!!! So cute!

superuser918 · 2022-09-28T22:47:29+00:00

I love Reddit 😂😂

nonoriginal85 · 2022-10-01T08:57:06+00:00

r/againstmatrimony

Gazelle-Dull · 2022-10-02T18:25:17+00:00

"He knocked me up.". " We have 2 kids". Not big on self responsibility I see.

sexyfrikinllama · 2022-10-03T06:25:28+00:00

Why is everyone in these comments so retarded? Just because men are treated like shit doesn't mean a woman can't also be wronged.

2022-10-21T02:17:47+00:00

With more women having to pay alimony/child support...well see these laws changing fairly quickly in the next few years.

Same with all these female teachers and prisons guards raping kids/inmates...they'll change those laws to help them too.

Title	Equality , until I have to pay!
Author	Rustyrockets9
Upvotes	2802
Comments	233
Date	September 14, 2022 11:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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