CMV: The real purple pill is that Wife + Mistress is the most trad arrangement for any kind of achieving man.

Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2022-12-30T01:36:34+00:00

I mean at that point you can skip the wife all together and have kids outside of marriage with one of the mistresses.

rippurplepill · 2022-12-30T00:54:10+00:00

The real red pill is women are making the money now and we ain’t having that shit. Game over.

Sorry not sorry, boys.

Ok-Championship-4317 · 2022-12-30T01:00:34+00:00

Whenever I hear opinions like these, it makes me wonder how the wife at home is supposed to get her sexual needs met, if the husband is sleeping with the mistress

Situations like these are where the pool boy or the gardener trope come from

1Here4Bach · 2022-12-30T01:00:22+00:00

Madonna/Whore complex ladies and males.

JDWhiz96 · 2022-12-30T00:52:18+00:00

Perhaps, but it was always taboo to have a mistress and, especially in the 20th century, considered of poor character.

This is where I differentiate from TRP. Men should be sexually loyal to one woman unless explicitly stated otherwise.

spicyelgato · 2022-12-30T02:15:35+00:00

AylaDoesntLikeYou · 2022-12-30T01:38:52+00:00

Andrew Taint seems to be posting from prison.

bluestjuice · 2022-12-30T00:43:38+00:00

You make a validish point but these historically-minded posts always annoy me because they’re incredibly vague about the when and where, and history pre-1970 is not a monolith. “Traditional” is too broad a moniker to be meaningful.

Can you be a little more specific about exactly what culture(s) and time period(s) you’re looking at to support your argument, so we can all be on the same page?

Lanzienator · 2022-12-30T01:03:55+00:00

Having a family is blue pill? God I swear sometimes I think I have the lingo down and then a comment or post says something that utterly confuses me.

therealcosmicnebula · 2022-12-30T01:11:51+00:00

Having a Nuclear family with a romantic loving sexually pleasing wife is a modern invention.

Yeah.

This is something a bunch of men in the Manosphere are delusional about.

Throughout the entirety of history you will be hard pressed to find a truly worthy male role model that doesn’t have some type of mistress arrangement.

MLK, every president, fucking Ghandi literally every man worth his weight in salt has a wife that he loves familial (blue pill) and a mistress(es) where he gets his passion (red pill)

Yes. But for average Joe's (which most men are) this wasn't true.

The vast majority of men only had the ability to have sex with their wives. As up until the 20th century most people lived in small farming communities that had a limited number of women, and no whorehouses.

Even up until the idealistic 50s, people were often unhappy, but keep up appearances and stayed married despite their personal feelings on the issue.

So I always laugh when men talk about the past as if everyone was happy with what they got.

They weren't.

But divorce wasn't an option, so people mostly got on with it. And made a life together anyway. And found the good parts and the small joys of a relationship.

But men and women these days want happiness, love, and good sex.

The people of the past are laughing at your naive ass.

nastyfella · 2022-12-30T01:57:30+00:00

What if u don’t have kids

hari_hbp · 2022-12-30T02:56:20+00:00

And being a hotwife is probably the best life a woman can get as well (sexually atleast).

despisedlove2 · 2022-12-30T01:55:51+00:00

Indian-American here.

For the millionth time, it is not "Ghandi". It is "Gandhi". Can't you guys spell?

I fail to see what sexual arrangements have to do with accomplishments. A truly accomplished man needs as much attention as possible on his work. Dealing with even one woman and her endless emotional states is a full time job. Are you suggesting that a busy man make time for two?

Are you for real?

Old-Appointment7870 · 2022-12-30T04:25:38+00:00

I just found this Wiki article - Read the History section: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mistress_(lover)

"In 1736, when George II was newly ascendant, Henry Fielding (in Pasquin) has his Lord Place say, "[...] but, miss, every one now keeps and is kept; there are no such things as marriages now-a-days, unless merely Smithfield contracts, and that for the support of families; but then the husband and wife both take into keeping within a fortnight"

OMG same exact shit in 1736 - none of this shit is new.

alphasupremacy5555 · 2022-12-30T02:31:19+00:00

You basically saying that polygamy and polyamory is the true purple pill.

The only reason monogamy existed in the first place originally as enforced monogamy was, to encourage average men to prevent nations from being torn down by outside invading barbaric groups historically. Polygamy and polyamory doesn't work for the average Joe Schmoo Normal Neil, Regular Ryan etc due to women's natural hypergamy which goes hand in hand with polyamory and polygamy.

If a man is 5'9 with a regular average build making 40 to 50 Grand a year with average looks he's still going to be entirely cropped out of the current sexual marketplace.

spicyelgato · 2022-12-30T01:33:47+00:00

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Kobe_curry24 · 2022-12-30T03:00:26+00:00

I’m soo down for this it’s the only way to combat the unfair marriage system for men , tbh it wouldn’t make sense to marry two women financially, but as far as this for dating why not all for it

LupeDyCazari · 2022-12-30T01:57:49+00:00

True. Only unattractive men/poor men care that much about monogamy, because that is the only way they have of getting some pussy.

I was reading this book by an eighty-something British novelist called Bernard Cornwell, about a dude who lived in Great Britain some 1200 years ago, and the dude despite being old af in his 40s, still goes on a bender killing valorous warriors and taking their wives, and daughters and sisters for his own, it's just lovely.

Dude is like 50 or something in the volume in the book series that I'm reading( The Last Kingdom) and he's banging a woman who is 30 years younger than him, after he's done killing her brother who was whoring her out to a mentally crippled old dude.

I love it.

Anyway, any man who is a real man will fuck other women on the side despite being in a romantic relationship that he is happy with.

I got me a girlfriend that is ''wife material,'' hot, good job, college-educated from a prestigious college, wealthy family, and here I am, ''cheating'' on her whenever she is on her period or is feeling sick and doesn't feel like putting out( not that I care that she is sick, my cock won't stop getting hard because of it now will it) so I visit brothels, hire escorts, or meet random women.

I ain't doing anything wrong, so I don't feel bad about it.

Actually, she bores me to tears. Other than fucking her, I can't really relate to her. Wifey material, but good grief, I have more fun getting my head punched-in by boxers than I do talking to her.

Eh, it would be funny though, if she was to find out that I have another girlfriend that she doesn't know about, and that I'm more serious about this other woman than I am about her, and if her parents were to ever find out that the woman in question is a soapland prostitute who has slept with more than 1000 dudes despite being only in her mid-20s... hehehe, and no, I wasn't her client and I am not her client.

I was introduced to her by another prostitute from the brothel both of them work at.

As this prostitute was talking to me post-coitus, she realized that I have a lot in common with the woman I am in love with, her best friend. We are both nude models for college art students.

We both traveled the world, she on the dime of rich old dudes who paid for her pussy in gold, me because I got bored growing up in a religious family with a pastor for a father, and salvation from eternal damnation as my daily bread, eww, and so on and so on.

Isn't it hilarious that the woman I connect the most with, emotionally, spiritually, romantically, sexually, is a woman nearly every red piller and black piller would never touch with a 100 feet pole despite of how attractive she is, because of her job as a prostitute?

Huh. What if I introduced her to my parents and told my dad what she does for a living, next Christmas get-together party?

Eh, maybe getting married wouldn't be a bad idea.

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sparklyyblueberryy · 2022-12-30T04:10:11+00:00

Adultery was generally illegal…

Title	CMV: The real purple pill is that Wife + Mistress is the most trad arrangement for any kind of achieving man.
Author	Old-Appointment7870
Upvotes	9
Comments	107
Date	December 30, 2022 12:35 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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