First of all plenty of women when they get babies take at least a huge career hit if not completely stop working, so all they earned before was just a fasade. It's just some theoretical ability if they would not want a family or would like that work would be able to earn. So why would a man have to compete with a earning that is likely not substainable.

I mean I just listen to a video that have high earnings requirements in men because they worked on only fans, like that would be a or will be a long career, they are 28 already, and are at their wall.

Meanwhile a young girl might be impressed by the guy having a car and or any job. So when what matters to men her looks, fertility and her feminity / body count is better, she has less expectations and when her sexual market value is already past the peak declining this absurd expectations comes in.

That makes absolutely no sense. If women can't accept that generally speaking the income of a women is not very important for especially well of men, they should been told that they should not make high earning careers. For women doors close with more income, it's not only the absurd requirement lists of this women but also that in career they usually have to be very assertive which is the opposite to being feminine. And in the case of the video her working at only fans matters way more to way more man in a negative way than her earning good money, especially 6 figure guys that are not wanting her income to pay for him.

But it's not limited to the onlyfans / porn girls, in most careers if the women has any way to do it, 9 out of 10 times she takes at least a big hit in her career if not goes full stay-at-home after getting babies, so her income before is just a short performance to then say because I can earn for 2 years good money while I hate my live more or less, the man must outearn this pretend income. It's such a stupid scam, probably mostly self deluting scam. but women can never go backward, ohh I am now older I can't attract the same kind of guys so I must go down on my requirement.... they are only fine to settle for cats. Probably a blessing, otherwise more sexless mariages would happen to guys.