As I've been examining some of the more extreme feminist subreddits and blogs lately, I've noticed that the new (as in, didn't see much of it before this year really) way of excusing double standards which they approve of is "Oh, if you're part of the oppressing group you can't complain about individual cases in which you are discriminated against, the big picture is all that matters". It's obviously a ridiculous argument because in reverse, it's the minute details and not the big picture that they insist on focusing on (whenever someone brings up young male suicide, young men being left behind by the education system, etc etc etc)

How the hell did this ridiculous logical fallacy garner so much support and legitimacy? It reminds me of a line in a political comedy sketch I used to watch: "Well he's controversial, y'know... He opposes racial discrimination in South Africa for a start" "Sounds like a good man..." "No you don't understand, he opposes it when practiced by black governments as well as white ones" "Oh... You mean he's a RACIST?!"

Funny thing is, this was obviously meant purely as a comedic moment in a sketch which relies on unbelievable cynicism as the punchline of every joke. In that context it's hilarious. But recently it seems like this argument is starting to be taken seriously more and more, and I find that a little bit alarming.

It shouldn't matter whether you belong the "privileged" or "oppressed" group, discrimination and double standards should (in my opinion) never be tolerated regardless of what alleged social position or class the subject of it belongs to. It doesn't surprise me that radicals hold such views, but how have phrases like "check your privilege" seeped into the mainstream? I'm noticing them more and more in places where you would expect more rational conversation and that worries me just a little...