In my time as a redpilled/purple pilled individual I have noticed the amount of well fit men dating/ and or marrying women that are quite simply not taking care of themselves which if that works for you "fist bump". I personally can't imagine a world where I'm with a partner while simultaneously not being attracted to them. If you are one of those people it's not to demean you but I would like to know your coping strategies, because it seems like these days if you don't make a shit tone of money...you're probably gonna marry a big girl.

What I'm wondering is if anyone in this forum has tried to develop a more healthy lifestyle with a woman who is overweight and of who'm you see potential with. Try to get her to work out with you, take a run with you ect ect.

I am simply asking this community about your experiences, personal or not , whether the idea of helping fat women get into shape is going to ultimately be your undoing due to the nature of hypergamy.

Do you think it is worth the work and effort to turn a cute fat chick into a hottie knowing that with the increased male attention that your partner may leave you for a "better man"? Thoughts?