Men don't matter

TheresASneckNMyBoot · 2021-02-07T22:49:10+00:00

Having a subsitute father that's better than the real father is good, as long as the subsitute father knows that the kid isn't his and agrees to raise the kid anyways.

ASCIITable · 2021-02-07T22:28:45+00:00

me after paying 18 years of child support for someone else's cum:

redditorseattle91 · 2021-02-07T21:43:11+00:00

It should be treated as a fraud which should be a felony with mandatory imprisonment.

"It's good for the baby" - then why don't we legalize robbing a bank for a baby's college?

OliveBoobs · 2021-02-07T22:03:17+00:00

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sexytimeinseattle · 2021-02-07T22:52:58+00:00

if the real father is trash, you shouldn't have slept with him.

once again demonstrating that men are disposable commodities

AJcraig28 · 2021-02-07T21:30:45+00:00

He won’t corporate.... well he’s obviously not from step fathers incorporated

fruitmeme · 2021-02-07T22:54:59+00:00

“It’s for the good of the child” - the same bull sh*t logic that drives the sexist rulings against men in alimony, child support, and divorce proceedings.

camelry42 · 2021-02-07T23:15:44+00:00

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Luzzianne_man · 2021-02-07T22:37:47+00:00

It's literally genetics on both sides in play. Gentlemen, this is why we get paternity tests.

EDIT: I should've said gender specific nature instead of genetics.

DanteLivra · 2021-02-08T00:16:31+00:00

Women being manipulated for the sake of a kid -> oppression.

Men being manipulated for the sake of a kid -> ensured cooperation.

Lssniper · 2021-02-07T23:07:24+00:00

"Oh yea let me just dump this big ass responsibility you didnt ask for into ur life and exspect you to sacrifice time and money in my issues. THANKS."

LowkeyLoki44 · 2021-02-07T22:51:32+00:00

The reverse of this:

I have good genes so i go around fucking everyone so that their kid can be attractive. :)

2021-02-07T21:03:25+00:00

This bihhh wildin

omidoggo · 2021-02-07T23:12:11+00:00

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point5_ · 2021-02-07T23:53:56+00:00

Ah yes cause women should be the only ones deciding who else will raise their child

vwatchrepair · 2021-02-08T02:34:46+00:00

I've never heard of man getting a free pass for doing something stupid, by saying it was "fatherly instinct." 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Ok_Classroom_9286 · 2021-02-08T02:59:11+00:00

How is that not massively illegal.

george_reeves_ · 2021-02-07T23:50:40+00:00

This is horrible.

AutisticCyborg · 2021-02-07T23:17:24+00:00

So is she saying she doesn't wan't the responsibility of the kid ?

dtyler86 · 2021-02-07T23:58:23+00:00

He won’t corporate. Haa...

blueXcat · 2021-02-08T01:14:06+00:00

Her excuses are even worse

"I'll take good care of him" like she could do anything for it to be worthy

LuminescentSapphire · 2021-02-08T05:34:19+00:00

Fuck that. If the real father is that bad, she's be okay raising the kid herself because that's the better alternative. Nobody should be tricked into raising a child.

theInfiniteHammer · 2021-02-07T22:56:21+00:00

Don't you just hate it when your spouse doesn't corporate?

zeerust2000 · 2021-02-07T23:02:39+00:00

Yeah, "obviously".

CuloDeMuerte · 2021-02-08T05:42:20+00:00

The father isn't the only one who's trash in that "family".

Gamwell-Efect · 2021-02-08T04:15:52+00:00

She’s a cunt

AxalonNemesis · 2021-02-08T06:42:13+00:00

Why did you let a trashy person come in you, bitch?!

TruBlue · 2021-02-08T07:44:20+00:00

DNA testing should be mandatory at birth and before a birth certificate can be issued.

Silver_The_Bard · 2021-02-07T22:59:10+00:00

If he was a good father. He would cooperate.

That is the logic she is missing here.

uselessuser2 · 2021-02-08T00:15:38+00:00

Rubychan11 · 2021-02-08T00:13:40+00:00

LMAO but your motherly instincts couldn't tell you to keep your legs closed to that trash, right? Too trash to raise a kid with but the D was good 🙄

MRRamming · 2021-02-08T03:11:16+00:00

Maybe the father should have full custody since you're a lying bitch

bigmantomm · 2021-02-08T01:50:13+00:00

Good that that post ain’t rising rn

LapsusDemon · 2021-02-08T04:15:25+00:00

I had to leave that sub. Especially since like July it’s become so much virtue signaling and white guilt instead of funny tweets

G33kFiish · 2021-02-08T06:24:18+00:00

then I think it's time for men finding out a better mother to have her giving birth a better child than from a trashy mother 🤣

ZaxLofful · 2021-02-08T06:50:30+00:00

Then don’t fuck the real father...

ZenSanchez119 · 2021-02-08T08:32:51+00:00

That bitch dumb af, fuck around with fuck boys, then that’s what you get. Play stupid game win stupid prize. Want someone to settle down with and build a family then don’t go for a fuck boy simple as fuck.

Derpalator · 2021-02-08T12:18:03+00:00

Wifey gives birth (yes it is yours). You exchange babies in nursery, the current one for one you just had with a drug addict whore. Don't tell wifey. You also arrange for the first baby to be well taken care of. Are you justified in that now TWO babies will be well-raised? Does she have to know?

yoitsericc · 2021-02-07T23:10:37+00:00

Alpha seed, beta need.

diddle_fruit · 2021-02-08T07:21:22+00:00

"motherly instincts" lmao just don't be a whore.

EastEndMontrealer1 · 2021-02-08T02:08:51+00:00

I literally just saw this on Where Are All The Good Men. Unfortunately, this is a trend becoming all too common in society. You've all probably heard this phrase: Hard Times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times. In my opinion, based on this and other stuff we've seen we are ending the third step, and starting the fourth step

Atilla942 · 2021-02-08T12:40:13+00:00

Maybe these type of ladies should stop sleeping with trash men but the monkey brain can't help but sleep with such men lol.

bullstar4806 · 2021-02-07T23:50:21+00:00

And yet they will make the real father pay for child support

djc_tech · 2021-02-08T00:18:07+00:00

In my case I am the real father and a good father and I get shafted even though I want more time with my kid by my ex and the system.

WTF? I feel a woman’s voice fictive personality trumps their ability to be good mothers

Puzzleheaded-Dare384 · 2021-02-08T08:26:15+00:00

"Sometimes our motherly instincts tell us..." ...whether a man is, as you say, a "trash" father or not? Oh wait, maybe not...

"...that it is better for our child to be raised by a good father..." Then maybe wait till you meet and get to know a good man you really trust and want to make a family with? Or are the demands of the nagging biological clock too strong that you can't wait?

"...rather than the real Father." Then, again, maybe don't procreate with the real father and become impregnated by him? (Also, unimportant, but why is "Father" capitalized this time? Is she referring to her deity?)

"If the real father is trash..." ..."then apparently, I sleep with trash."

"...I rope in a better substitute daddy. Its for the good of the child." (I doubt anyone cares about the missing apostrophe, so never mind it.) And you can state it publicly because you'll be backed and protected from accusations of paternity fraud. Immoral, virtueless and repulsive beyond words. Gentlemen, develop the bull's instincts and train yourself to spot the crimson flags.

"And obviously I can't tell him, he won't corporate." ...Hm. The real dad may be trash, but I bet he can at least spell.

—RedditGaveMeThisName

omidoggo · 2021-02-08T01:02:54+00:00

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KingOluAyo · 2021-02-08T10:35:36+00:00

Well that’s bullshit, if you feel or know he won’t corporate then why be with him? Then when man in future, abuses or abandons you, you’ll be first to say “Men are trash” when you just pick trash men. Why should you even be married or dating this guy, cheat on him and then force him to take care of the child of the so called trashy father you chose to sleep with. Legit the way women use “motherly instinct” and all that jazz to justify their irresponsible behaviour is ridiculous. As if men don’t have fatherly or protective instincts and behaviour.

Edit: Hold on ... why would any man be expected to accept the child his wife/girlfriend cheated on him with another man to have? So he should be like “oh yes honey, it’s okay that you slept with another man and lied to me that the child that spent 9 months in your stomach that I invested emotionally in and mentally in to love as my child is another mans child who you lied to me about and expect me to accept.” Nah! You didn’t think about how crap of a father he was when you slept with him and how it would hurt your relationship with the good man, go back to crappy man.

A-sop-D · 2021-02-08T11:33:25+00:00

This is literally written into family law in Germany. The husband is responsible for all children out of the marriage, be they his or not.

2021-02-08T05:38:43+00:00

What kind of motherly instincts are girls gonna have at 16?

V3N0M3 · 2021-02-08T10:47:02+00:00

Ohh so consent is consent when I shove my dick down your throat but consent isn’t consent when a child that isn’t mine is being shoved down my throat.

gamessuck00 · 2021-02-08T01:32:48+00:00

Never take personal responsibility do they...

2021-02-08T01:14:09+00:00

"Corporate" kinda takes away the sting of her argument

Lui_Le_Diamond · 2021-02-08T01:30:51+00:00

Yeah, I can attest to the fact that a good father isn't always a biological father, but a good father is almost always a willing one. Especially if they aren't the biological father.

loucos3 · 2021-02-08T04:27:48+00:00

What a pitifully low amount of likes this got. We really don't matter to women, but you know... I've given up on mattering to women. It's not like they're going to just magically understand the significance of a biological father, we're just going to have idiocracy, especially if women outnumber us, if female "intellectuals" consist of women who cannot solve their needs vs. wants problems, and if the status quo continues punishing men who try to make a place in the child's life, only to be carved out by some feckless, dim-witted, cuckolding, stray cats. You can only read so much of this filth without souring, and I believe that I just reached my limit.

defnotgrady · 2021-02-08T01:02:21+00:00

This is why i prefer women believe im trash

MikiSayaka33 · 2021-02-08T02:30:57+00:00

White People Twitter (Reddit/archive)

MikiSayaka33 · 2021-02-08T02:33:42+00:00

White People Twitter (Reddit/archive)

Lighthuro · 2021-02-08T06:54:58+00:00

We have to stop being tools.

PaidHack · 2021-02-08T07:19:56+00:00

No self-respecting man will ‘corporate’ FML why does it seems English is a second language for native speakers?

2021-02-08T08:14:39+00:00

Lol corporate

Hvies · 2021-02-08T02:28:48+00:00

Thats my story. I always felt that growing without father. If i got father figure in my life, we didnt got money problem, i could speak with same sex and over experienced person so couldnt do some wrong things. In case of my mother wouldnt have to take all responsiblity.

Some parts of your life you really need a dad. Its not easy

BluesFireDragon · 2021-02-08T06:36:19+00:00

I LOVE YOU DEGENERATES!

VulgarGenes · 2021-02-08T09:41:37+00:00

Then they shouldn’t be crying foul when a guy has an affair with a younger woman because their wife isn’t attractive anymore

TAKEITBACK2024 · 2021-02-08T04:29:23+00:00

This happens because men let it. Stand up for yourself.

-KishaN- · 2021-02-08T07:05:17+00:00

Getting poked by a man who is trash.. you didn't release until you got baby in your hand and putting that burden on someone else isnt that a crime.. that someone else has pay for the mistake that women has done.. women thinking " let world thinks it was a mistake but that was fun still remember that night.. fucked by a trash in a trash.." then stay in trash dont think you have a become a god by giving birth to baby.. have some pride to take on responsibility for your sin..

Nermane_yizzee · 2021-02-08T11:24:52+00:00

Women and their BS. For the good of the child? What about the dude that you baby trapped? Just like that They legitimate paternity fraud. No thoughts about the poor bastard getting lied to and potential trauma he will face discovering that the child isn't his.

Nothing but selfishness and manipulation. That's Their game nowadays.

Flashy_Bother_5900 · 2021-02-07T21:33:48+00:00

Bruh she is raising a good point tho. Deadbeat dad's do exist I'd rather have a stepdad. I am speaking from experience.

Edit: guys I got it I made a mistake in reading. Yet nobody cares lol

EchtJetzt2 · 2021-02-08T04:42:06+00:00

She's just honest. Is it fair? Hell no!

But this is not about men not mattering, it's about the child mattering more. A lot of women would pick the better father over the man they prefer, to ensure the well being of their child.

This is really core evolution. The state doesn't want to pay too, so they don't care about it, and in some countries they force you to keep on paying even if you find out later it's not yours.

Question is... If men could do this, would they do the same?

2021-02-08T05:21:15+00:00

Haha, she makes it sound like it's something she does a lot

Reaper621 · 2021-02-08T07:15:05+00:00

I like how this is posted on white people Twitter, and it's two black people.

RandyRenegade · 2021-02-08T07:15:12+00:00

Motherly Instinct: My life would probably be easier if I had another income

ob_mon · 2021-02-08T08:37:52+00:00

Cooperate.

TheLegendaryWiggs · 2021-02-08T08:51:06+00:00

Get a DNA test men. Married or not. It really is that simple. She'll just have to be offended..

1mi_K · 2021-02-08T10:29:55+00:00

I’m sorry but corporate? Bitch please don’t have a child

SF1NX_CZ · 2021-02-08T10:54:32+00:00

If you want your kid raised by a good father then why did you need to make one with the bad father guy from Tinder in the first place?

OctaviaPinfold · 2021-02-08T11:10:04+00:00

Motherly instincts, more like not being able to not fuck around and not being a grown ass person to take responsibility for the consequences.

Rashidal1 · 2021-02-08T14:21:31+00:00

I mean depending on the context, it’s either extremely reasonable or extremely stupid

Ozzy_Cortes · 2021-02-08T14:24:51+00:00

Single Mom = 🚩

Men should never be a subsitute daddy for a child that’s not his.

InformalCriticism · 2021-02-08T14:32:45+00:00

It's so great that courts encourage and reward this type of behavior, too.

jackson9921 · 2021-02-08T14:46:25+00:00

Look i would gladly raise some other guys kid as my own if I love his mother but It would crush me to find out later down the road that he isn't even mine.

TheSAXMAN151 · 2021-02-08T15:06:19+00:00

“He roped me into this” “Well he roped me into this” “And he roped me into this”...

EmeraldCharm · 2021-02-08T15:28:17+00:00

Disgusting

TAPriceCTR · 2021-02-08T16:14:24+00:00

If the real father is trash. Why (did) you sleep with him? Those motherly need to kick in BEFORE you decide to be a dirty ho.

UberHuber816 · 2021-02-08T18:21:39+00:00

Down with all Corpo scum! I hate it when corporate won't corporate.

michaelbleu · 2021-02-08T19:44:10+00:00

Thank god I’m gay and don’t have to worry about this happening to me. Just from my perspective it seems like its a lot harder to be a straight male in today’s world

Wink3319 · 2021-02-08T21:26:37+00:00

There is no point in getting angry about it. What the woman said makes perfect sense from her perspective. Of course, it also means that the cuck father gets cheated. Also: The child gets cheated because it will not have a chance to meet the real father.

The question is: what to do about it? And the right answer has to be: make sure that men get the right to do a DNA test and step away from the responsibilities toward the child if he is not the father. I wouldn't get into the this-was-fraud business. But the right to know and the right not to provide child support for a child that is not one's own child should be granted. It is also in the interest of the child to know the real father.

short_dude5ft3in · 2021-02-09T01:13:23+00:00

She opened her legs for a trash and deceive a “good father” to pay/support the child.

Not sure which State requires court order for DNA/paternity test. If you live in that State, get out as soon as you afford to leave.

It’ll will cost quarter of a million dollars on average to raise a child and put them though college.

To be deceived and no consequences for women to do so is a proof that men are treated as wallet and second class citizens in the US.

Greg_W_Allan · 2021-02-09T06:44:30+00:00

Madam, if you are willing to lie about something like this nothing you say should ever be trusted.

Interesting_Strike85 · 2021-02-12T01:39:46+00:00

This should be put in jail, this is sick

Men don't matter

Crosspost "Motherly instincts" from /r/WhitePeopleTwitter:

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