The internet used to make me feel like I had the world by the balls until reality hit at 300mph

loneliness-inc · 2021-02-07T00:24:11+00:00

Gentlemen, remember that responsibility is a tool of the patriarchy!!!

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-02-06T19:39:53+00:00

Lots of people virtue signal online. It is easy when you don't have to put your money where your mouth is

But I expect the sort of men who would overlook this are the sort of men she would not look at twice. Probably the sort of men who are utterly invisible to her (apart from when they give her money). Has no one every asked her to offer a date to one of her cam or escort customers. Even that is not guaranteed

An escort once told me she was really interested about the idea of speed dating. I really wanted to ask her "what would you tell people you do?". But I am not that bold

D45_B053 · 2021-02-06T20:39:34+00:00

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askmrcia · 2021-02-06T19:46:52+00:00

All the guys on the internet who claim they don't care about her past are most likely guys fishing for internet points or guys who know they will be banned for giving her the cold hard truth on subreddits like TwoXChromosomos or relationships.

If she really wants to know what guys think about her past then she can come to forums like this one. But we all know exactly how she will react. We're a bunch of virgin misogynistic incels.

So yea she can stay in her echo chamber and enjoy those cats. The internet hasn't mislead her. She chose to get her advice from places she know will just tell her what she wants to hear. It's everyone else's fault but herself.

RealMcGonzo · 2021-02-06T20:50:10+00:00

Weird how that gorgeous, young doctor who'd make an awesome dad isn't interested in wifing up a former prostitute. On one hand, you have a very large group of men who say they'd be OK with that - clearly men w/o options. On the other hand (on the other side of the entire fucking galaxy, even) you have a very tiny, select group of men that all women want to date. These men would rather date a hot young thing that doesn't have callouses on their vag.

But instead of realizing WTF the deal is, she's probably chatting up a lawyer right now, getting set for disappointment #76 in a never ending series.

Time for a Pretty Woman marathon and a box of Chardonnay.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-02-06T20:46:48+00:00

If she saw the guys who would date her without regard to her past she would cringe as she swiped left on them.

I can't speak for all us guys with our shit together, but for me.. I'm not interested in dating a former prostitute regardless of the medium where she plied her trade.

Why? Because I've worked hard to get where I am. I sacrificed a lot to become an expert in my field. I'm respected by my peers and I have an amazing opportunity to take my professional life in a whole new direction this year.

All she had to do was take her clothes off, take a few pics, and spread her legs for guys she wasn't attracted to. SeX wOrK is wOrK.. it's easy money for as long as it lasts. And, when it's over it's over because everyday younger, hotter, riskier women are logging on to make money while they're at their peak.

Me on the otherhand.. I have a solid financial foundation that's going to allow to stop working for at least the next 2 years while I pursue a new opportunity that will carry me into the latter half of my life on easy street.

So, tell me. Why the fuck should I share any of that with a woman who sells pics of her ass online?

nnnnawalt · 2021-02-06T20:47:59+00:00

I love the "what I am really like" comment. What you are really like is you are a whore. You whored yourself out for over a decade, and still occasionally whore yourself out online. What part of this is hard to understand?

Five years earlier, I could have had you for a Benjamin. Now, you want me to buy, after I could have leased?

The internet didn't lie to her. She went to some stupid "sex positive" sub Reddit, or message board, filled with losers, who all hoped they'd get laid. She filtered out anything that she didn't want to hear, and went to place where people who would tell her the truth got banned.

I got banned for /r/sex because of one incident. A "sex positive" girl was doing a three way with two guys. She suddenly realizes player four had entered the game, and their other roommate was inside her. No question about it, that is rape, pure and simple. But I did point out that on the stand, she would get shredded by a defense attorney, and would be traumatized all over again on the stand.

I never minimized her rape. I never said she wasn't violated. All I did was tell her the truth. On the stand, a lawyer would get her to tell 12 people she would sleep with anyone, and was in the middle of a three way when the event occurred. There was zero chance that guy got convicted. Zero.

And that was considered blaming her for the rape.

vtec__ · 2021-02-06T19:58:00+00:00

almost kind of feel bad for her, but she knew what she doing doing. actions have consequences. there ARE guys who would love to date/marry her but they arent "clean cut professional guys" in their 30s. most of these guys (im one of them) aren't stupid and we didn't get to where we are by making bad decisions, generally speaking.

asdf333aza · 2021-02-06T21:22:18+00:00

The MOST valuable thing a women can give a man, is her youth. Thats it. Not your vagina. Not kids. Not a second income. Not emotional sponging. It's your youth. Spending the most valuable years of your life with one guy, is what makes him want to spend the most valuable years of his life with you. Women, you have to go first on this one, cause time moves faster for you. You will never be hotter than you are at 18-28ish. But the man you want in his early 30s, is just getting started with his stride.

As an OLDER women, if you don't bring respect and grace to your man, when you're on his side you are worthless. Your youth is gone. Your money means nothing to him. Your company isnt anything special. At the very least, people should be able to look at your man when you're with him and say "he is a lucky guy". Instead, with a prostitute by his side other men will laugh at him. Clown him. They will Invision you kissing the her on the lips even though a few months prior she was sucking the nut out of their dick. Women will look at him with disgust, and think that he is only with you cause he couldn't do any better, which lowers his chances with other women. A man's reputation is his pride. And you being the girl who has fucked all of the town and maybe even some of his coworkers and friends, only stand to tarnish his reputation. You are essentially not an asset in a relationship. The things that men value in a women, you are missing all of them.

asdf333aza · 2021-02-06T21:12:05+00:00

Your sex work isn't a deal breaker FOR HOOK UPS.

Your sex work IS a deal breaker FOR LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP (including, long distance, cohabitation, engagements and most definitely marriage).

Guys will throw on a rubber and still plow you. But that's about it. They probably wouldn't even want to kiss you or hold your hand in public. Just absolutely disgusting thinking about it. Can't baby trap any of them, cause I doubt the guys you want are stupid enough to raw dog you after you tell them you was a prostitute. Your past tells him that if times get rough, you will relapses and go back to your garden tool (hoe) ways.

A recovering addict is still an addict. A recovering whore, is still a whore. You are a women who can be brought (assuming for a cheap price). Sex wise, none of that matters. Might even be a turn on for a few deviants.. But a normal guy or a serious guy looking to settle down would NEVER consider. Absolutely never! No chance at all.

That urge to settle down ia your biological clock screaming at you to have kids. And your mental fortitude wavering as your estrogen rapily declines and your body aches and you suddenly start to realize that there is no way in hell you can work A REAL 8-5 JOB that requires more than laying on your back. If you did sex work all through your twenties, there is no way you're prepared for the real world of competitive capitalistic business.

And let's be honest, you stil are a prostitute. Instead of getting your money for MUlTIPLE MEN, now you just want to get it from ONE man. Cause now that that the wall is coming and that estrogen is dropping, you can't continue the sex work. Your vagina is dry and cant take a pounding like it used to. Things don't strerch or accomodate like they used to. You can't satisfy multiple guys and have 10-20 dudes effing you in one day like you used to. But you can deal with one guy who you only have to put out for like once every 3 months. Now you're trying to sell it off to "OnE LuCkY MaN" for security and stability in life. as you know the future is rough up ahead for a women of your age and it only gets worse every year from here on.

Snoo33176 · 2021-02-06T22:14:14+00:00

I'm an older guy, and I've never met a man who said "You know I really want in life? To marry a prostitute!"

2021-02-06T21:16:08+00:00

"sO wHeRe ArE aLl tHeSe InTeRnEt MeN iN rEaL lIfE?"

Not on the internet, sugar buns. Men in real life want feminine, not femi-men. 😎

2021-02-06T21:24:16+00:00

When you're a young hot woman it must honestly seem like what men want doesn't matter at all. This one is just coming to the age where she is faced with the reality that men do have preferences and do get to act them.

fuzzy_brb · 2021-02-06T21:27:47+00:00

They will never understand that SMV is not the same as RMV or MMV. in today's simp epidemic, any decent woman already has a high SMV just for being born a woman. However they have to work hard for RMV or MMV.

If you ask her if it's cool that men reject her because of her past,she'll say it's not fair. But if you ask her how would she feel if she had a son and he asked her if it was ok to marry a sex worker, I'm sure she'd be pissed.

No one is judging you or telling you you can't do whatever you want to do be it a sex worker or an only fans "model". You just have to be willing to accept the consequences as well.

asdf333aza · 2021-02-06T21:24:17+00:00

Isn't it funny how girls want to date older guys when they're in their 20s. If you was her age or younger, you didn't stand a chance.

Then when they hit 30ish, suddenly the guys who are the same age as them are attractive enough to date. Yet, before they wouldn't give those guys the time of day.

nantucketghost · 2021-02-06T23:09:46+00:00

New Rule: Any guy in the internet that says they will be ok with a girl's past being sex work needs to post their photo.

Guarantee you any of those men whom claim they are ok with it are not the ones these women are imagining when they think of settling down.

throw-away-1709 · 2021-02-06T21:11:32+00:00

You can turn a housewife into a hoe.

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

DoTheSnoopyDance · 2021-02-06T22:18:18+00:00

I think she’s conflating random anonymous horny men from the internet for quality men.

No quality man was online telling her that her past didn’t matter. He was too busy improving his life to be sitting there cheering up a sex worker for bonus points.

MelkorHimself · 2021-02-06T19:44:26+00:00

Didn't Coltaine do a video on this post?

BlueLantern84 · 2021-02-07T03:35:46+00:00

It’s so funny to watch these Reddit people go “I’d love it if my girlfriend was a sex worker, I’m getting for free what others have to pay for.”

It’s SOOO obviously either a total loser or a liar. Anyone in a serious relationship with actual feelings despises the idea of their SO screwing someone else.

There’s a whole segment of women who are getting duped by this and are in for a very rude awakening. The OnlyFans boom is going to lead to such a social crisis like we’ve never seen

Tweapodok33 · 2021-02-07T01:28:00+00:00

“I’m financially independent, I own my home and I’m starting a small online business.”

Lady, no one cares! Why can’t they understand this? Your financially status will never mean much to a man who makes a decent income, because he’s not looking for an additional paycheck. As for the ones that don’t make a decent income, I suspect you have no interest in them.

yellomachine · 2021-02-06T21:10:30+00:00

"am I a lost cause?"

If the answer is yes, will you accept it? No. Of course you won't.

Silent-Gur-1418 · 2021-02-06T23:03:08+00:00

In answer to her question: those "internet men" telling her that are the 2/10 guys that she'd never in a million years considering even sitting next to, much less dating. If she could've actually seen the type of guys telling her that stuff she would've scrambled to do the opposite out of sheer disgust for who was saying it.

The men she actually wants were the ones buried in downvotes or flat-out banned and [removed] for telling her the truth about her dating prospects due to her choices - if they even bothered to participate in those discussions at all.

p3ngwin · 2021-02-07T04:45:02+00:00

"I haven't met a single (normalish) guy who's been ok with my past"

Interesting the way she tacitly admits she didn't care how "abnormal" the guys she was whoring with, until suddenly now she wants a "normal" guy, who just happens to be high-value, "professional, clean-cut", etc.

Problem is the high-value men she expects to be interested in her now, for long-term relationships, are the exact types who don't want her, because they've either already HAD her for simple fucking, or they never had her because they have standards.

Does she really expect a "professional, clean-cut" high-value man to take a whore for a wife ?

These girls really have swallowed the "reformed whore" bullshit that Hollywood (Pretty Woman, Sex in the City), and feminism (you can have it all!) fed them.

How would it work in her mind?

She finds a her high-value man, goes to a business dinner with the C-Level execs, hosted by the CEO, and the CEO's wife, at their Florida mansion:

CEO: "Oh hi Bob, glad you could make it! This must be your lovely wife ?"

Bob: "Yeah, after working at Evil-Corp for 15 years and reaching VP of marketing i finally found this beauty to accept me for the workaholic that i am!"

CEO : "Sounds delightful... <turns to Bob's wife> ... Bob's been a loyal soldier for years, how ever did you make an honest man out of him?"

Bob's wife: "oh when i transitioned from being a hooker, to cam-whoring, i decided i deserved someone like Bob!"

CEO: <blink...blink>

CEO's Wife: <chokes on Martini olive>

Bob's work buddies burst into the room, looking for the bar, obviously a very drunk: "HEY LOOK ! Bob RENTED THAT HOOKER WE ALL BANGED IN VEGAS A FEW YEARS AGO !"

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2021-02-06T19:36:07+00:00

I think this has been posted before.

D45_B053 · 2021-02-06T22:53:52+00:00

Her fatal flaw is in believing the men are telling her her past doesn't matter for commitment.

What they're telling her is that her past doesn't matter for sex. Her past isn't a dealbreaker when it comes to having sex with her.

When she's talking, she means commitment and marriage.

The men responding to her mean sex, and nothing more.

This always happens with men and women. We talk past each other about intersexual relationships. We do this especially with sex, marriage, and what "attractive" means.

Men, whenever you listen to what a woman is saying, depending on context, you have to fill in the blanks she is leaving. It's usually

--"right now I feel that"

--"and is also good looking to me and sexually attractive to me"

Observe.

I love you. (Right now I feel that I love you.)

I just want a nice guy who treats me right. (Right now I feel that I just want a guy who is nice to me and an asshole to everyone else, who treats me right, and is also good looking to me and sexually attractive to me.)

You're such an asshole! (Right now I feel that you're such an asshole!)

We love nice guys! (We love nice guys who are also good looking and sexually attractive!)

We men do the same thing. Pretty much every interaction we have with women translates to

"Want some dick?" or "Want my dick?"

"I want to have sex with you."

"And have sex"

Observe.

Hey. ("Want some dick?")

I'd love to get to know you. Let's get some drinks. ("I want to have sex with you.")

Will you marry me? ("Will you marry me so I can have lots of sex that will no longer be difficult for me to get?.)

What's new, Vicki? ("Want my dick, Vicki?")

I had a great time getting drinks. Let's do this again. ("I did not get to have sex with you yet. I still want to have sex with you.")

Post sex text: I had a great time. Hope you did too. Let's do it again soon! ("I liked having sex with you. Hope you liked having sex with me too. Let's have sex again soon!")

Dragonman369 · 2021-02-06T23:48:36+00:00

the real world is a lot more Conservative and Traditional than it lets on.

2021-02-07T04:48:40+00:00

I dated a 19 year old escort back in my day. I was in college and a bit older: it lasted two weeks before I was so grossed out by the concept that I dumped her. She freaked out and ran out of my apartment, it was a big scene. If this is what happens to a teenage girl, imagine the reaction to a 35 year old woman who has been doing this for years? The only hope would be an older Chad who wants to live off her.

mohd_sm81 · 2021-02-06T20:51:25+00:00

She is better of continuing living the lie 😂

no one truthful man has time to go out of his way to give her the "dose of truth"... we busy here ma'am.

Texan2116 · 2021-02-07T01:15:42+00:00

I have been kicked out of a couple of subreddits, for essentially suggesting the negatives of high body counts.

huzaa · 2021-02-07T02:15:52+00:00

We all know what will happen most likely. She will just never tell it to the "right guy". They marry, maybe have kids, but her secret will eventually surface. The guy couldn't handle it, they divorce and the kids will be punished at the end. The guy might have a new marriage, but she will be left with the kids and cats. One more family ruined.

FugginAye · 2021-02-07T00:37:34+00:00

How long until she stops telling her dates the truth about being a whore and she starts lying to them about her past?

2021-02-06T22:19:18+00:00

Please dont be a larp

"After which I felt a SUDDEN, DESPERATE URGE to settle down"

Now those words of hers REALLY stand out to me.

Could it mean that no matter how much a woman enjoys promiscuity, that her body clock will ring and her sense of self worth will drop at a SPECIFIC POINT in time, like clockwork, compelling her to change her mating strategy?

Captainbuttman · 2021-02-07T00:33:08+00:00

So did none of these women have their mom tell them "Sweetie you are young and beautiful and men will offer you the world, but you won't be young forever, so pick a man that will love you not just now but also when you are old and grey."

i_accidently_reddit · 2021-02-07T00:44:20+00:00

She is likely looking for an above average man, likely top 20%. This is likely what she means when saying "normalish". The problem is those are not the same guys who told her online they'd still bang her. Those were likely below average looking men, hence the willingness to jump just about anything.

This discrepancy however blows up and short circuits her mind

faaaack · 2021-02-07T01:29:13+00:00

These internet men are in their parents basements.

iamrivensky · 2021-02-07T04:32:21+00:00

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JakeDC · 2021-02-06T21:30:37+00:00

Ha, ha! (In Nelson Muntz voice)

RoleplayPete · 2021-02-06T23:07:29+00:00

They do see you for who you are. A prostitute. Tigers are still tigers even if they stop eating children and are put into a zoo.

And yes. All those guys online were larping when they said those things. Just hoping for a shred of your attention.

And even those that truly wouldnt care, you wouldnt give the time to.

You played yourself and are now reaping the winnings.

2021-02-07T01:24:21+00:00

Whores like her deserve to be alone forever.

stingadingding17 · 2021-02-07T01:58:40+00:00

You know there are a bunch of women and soys in the comments like “Of course they exist! Any man would be lucky to have you, and if they can’t look by your past then they are a loser misogynist who has never been laid” lmao

me_grimmlock · 2021-02-07T02:43:26+00:00

“I don’t care about your past, being a sex worker is no big deal to me” is the most simp/bitch/pussy/punk/wimp and sucker shit I’ve ever read.
No real man would touch this whore much less date/wife her.

hazelxnutz · 2021-02-07T03:31:34+00:00

She got shredded on the comments lmao.

Tracynmega · 2021-02-07T05:42:27+00:00

People lie on the internet !? NO WAY!

Blogginginvicecity · 2021-02-07T07:12:01+00:00

That title LOL

georeddit2018 · 2021-02-06T23:52:58+00:00

"Why are you men holding me accountable for my past. I had no choice. And I now want to wait to be married before sex".

Probably what she is thinking.

2021-02-07T00:20:02+00:00

TOLL STATUS: PAID

2021-02-07T01:20:25+00:00

They don't care about your past to hook up. Being a sex worker is not a deal breaker if you are only trying to break your dick off in her.

For a relationship though, no. It is a deal breaker that you allowed hundreds of men to spray your insides.

JayMeadows · 2021-02-07T03:14:11+00:00

So, suddenly it's us Men and the Internet's fault for her romantic shortcomings???

zeepbar · 2021-02-07T03:17:38+00:00

Does she not understand that the men who said that online are not of the caliber that she wants to meet irl?

brandinho5 · 2021-02-07T03:52:44+00:00

Easy answer: the guys YOU want have options and don’t wanna be with a chick who fucked for money.

The guys on the internet are probably ugly dudes who are just trying to get some pussy so they “don’t care about your past.” But don’t for a second think they’re gonna bring up your past to mom.

Sumfuc · 2021-02-07T04:41:32+00:00

“.”

downzeitor · 2021-02-07T05:40:21+00:00

if she failed the D*ck Stacking Test (as formulated or cited by Terrence Popp), which she surely failed, that's more red flags than a chinese comunist party parade.

Now nobody wants to try to turn a 'hoe' into a housewife, in these days that can't be done.

GrannyLesbian · 2021-02-07T09:52:10+00:00

so what "is a lot" of escorting in your 20's vs a "little bit" in your 30's....?

Sounds like she JUST stopped escorting.

2021-02-06T23:36:34+00:00

Its ok with me if I only want to get laid. A sex worker is likely to give it up quicker for less effort. "I dont care what your past is like" Because I only care about gettin this d fixed. After that you're for the streeets.

LeomusShoes · 2021-02-07T01:04:35+00:00

What a fucking shame. Coming to the internet for bloodclot guidance end burned

thedukeinc · 2021-02-07T01:46:43+00:00

She is looking for professional clean cut men and they aren’t touching this ex-sex worker (big-if) with a 20 ft pole

Economy-Regret1353 · 2021-02-07T11:18:19+00:00

Too bad she isn't an unprofessional clean women. We all know what "professional" woman are nowadays

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2021-02-07T13:30:13+00:00

There are plenty of men that would overlook her past, we call them cucks and women don't like cucks really. No guy she is gonna be interested in is going to want to spend their life with someone who has had miles of dick run through her. Just the truth, get used to weak men would be my advice.

2021-02-07T17:20:21+00:00

All it does is give ammo the FDS narrative of not revealing your past. So she'll trick a dude into falling in love and then paint him as the bad guy when he finds out the hard way.

Buchwild · 2021-02-08T09:56:12+00:00

A good lesson for all of us, reddit is a series of echo chambers. Most of the subs here are not a good representation of the general population.

ronoda12 · 2021-02-06T21:58:35+00:00

🤣

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-02-06T22:46:28+00:00

I never said I'd accept it. Maybe youve been asking the wrong people?

2021-02-06T23:22:08+00:00

😆😆😆😆😆😆😆!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-02-07T01:06:23+00:00

Actions have consequences, dear.

Noogisms · 2021-02-07T02:40:21+00:00

The method /r/ stripper and /r/ strippers choose is to just ban all men / antiSWer advice. I guess to each their own...

This scene from As Good As It Gets always makes me chuckle (reason and accountability).

iamrivensky · 2021-02-07T03:28:45+00:00

Slightly irrelevant, but I'm curious would men care about n number if she fucked you real good each night?

inkbro · 2021-02-07T03:57:18+00:00

Anyone here man enough to marry this prostitute cam whore? lmfao

Natriumzyanid · 2021-02-07T04:10:07+00:00

"professional, clean - cut" men dont hang out in the forum she does

pablosito · 2021-02-07T06:01:44+00:00

No self respecting man will be okay marrrying/ seriously dating a sex worker. You don’t get to devalue yourself and also demand a man of quality. You took an easy path and made yourself a commodity. Why would someone commit to you when they can get what they want (Atleast initially) for fee hundred dollars. Even if you’re top quality. Thousands. Either way if men all over tell you “I don’t like whites beyond a fuck” how do you expect to become a whore and expect commitment beyond a fuck?

SuperVeryDumbPerson · 2021-02-07T09:00:26+00:00

Well, most of those enabling sex workers are women and soyboys who'd sell their mom for a crumble of pussy. Those might still be available for dating, but she's probably looking for an ultra Chad that is obviously not interested in those kind of girls if not for a one night adventure.

I personally don't have anything against sex workers, whores have been around forever and it's a job that will cease to exist when humanity itself will cease to exist, but you must understand that choices lead to consequences. Those people can't seem to understand that different men have different requirements, even tho they are the first ones to set incredibly unrealistic standards

JustArtist8 · 2021-02-07T10:22:36+00:00

The Internet is not real life, as much as TV/radio do not depict real life darling.

One-Move · 2021-02-07T10:43:35+00:00

Yes.

y33tasaurus-rex · 2021-02-07T10:59:53+00:00

Most men who are actually want women who work in porn are men who can’t get anyone else, it pays to know your audience 🤷🏾‍♂️😂

uberduger · 2021-02-07T12:06:30+00:00

Lol, what sort of "professional, clean-cut man" is going to want someone that's probably taken thousands of cocks inside her?

If I want that, I'll pay for it on a one time use rental basis, but I don't want it out of a long term partner with whom I might want to raise kids. Jesus.

Sorry, love, you have very much been lied to. Go find one of those 80% of male simps who all said they wouldn't care.

folouk · 2021-02-07T14:10:00+00:00

Did anyone give her a dose of truth? Honestly i kinda feel sorry for women like that, they've been told lies all their lives and the lies were too sweet to get away from.

dachengchuan · 2021-02-07T16:30:53+00:00

Oh ... what a pity ... men learned to lie since sexual liberation ... just like women did lie for centuries ... equality ... sorry mam ... going to meet my 20 yo gf, she is virgin, we will marry soon ... oh by the way thank you for sex lessons with you, i will be able to train my wife in being MY perfect slut.

DrDog09 · 2021-02-07T17:26:34+00:00

Being unaware is strong in this one. The farce shall be with her forever.

drchadick · 2021-02-07T23:35:20+00:00

How many dicks that must have been? I mean she got a house and enough cash to be financially independent and start an (probably bullshit) online business out of it. Honestly? Why not? Lot´s of people work their whole life, to even get close to that. Can´t have it all.

NotLuceBree · 2021-02-08T11:21:48+00:00

...yes.

bisturi11 · 2021-02-08T20:31:54+00:00

and see me for who I am

they see you for exactly what you are. a whore.

OutsideTechnical2475 · 2021-02-11T08:43:40+00:00

A former whore believes she can get a "professional, clean cut man" lmao. gonna be a hard pass. shes going to take that secret to the grave if she wants to have a chance at all

slycyboi · 2021-02-12T11:16:30+00:00

I wonder how many of these sex workers would find the relationships remained if they didn’t withhold sex like women normally do in relationships. They want to do the whole “sex doesn’t mean anything” line until they actually want someone and then suddenly it actually does mean a lot. Women who are incredibly slutty but then actually have a lot of sex with their partners don’t have this problem to the same extent.

They just don’t have anything to offer, and when they let on they used to offer at least something for money, dude feels cheated.

Lameador · 2021-02-06T23:28:08+00:00

I don't feel the usual schadenfreude. Methinks she got genuinly lied to and drank some kool aid. The reality of sex work is that many the men who paid her serious money for a"no questions asked, no tomorrow" moment of intimacy would not date/wife her for free.

If she keeps looking, she can find an excentric guy who is reasonnably attractive and acepts her with her history. Like a 4 leaf clover, those aren't easy to find. On the other hand, if you can approach her and stand for a few truth bombs sush as "as a former escort, you can go far beyonf starfish" or "as the man you love, in bed, I do not expect less from you than what your johns got", she could be a golden pportunity.

nyaisagod · 2021-02-07T08:48:46+00:00

I mean I kinda feel bad for her. Feels like she would've made different decisions were it not for people telling her otherwise.

Title	The internet used to make me feel like I had the world by the balls until reality hit at 300mph
Author	iamrivensky
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Date	February 6, 2021 7:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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