Men want women who look promiscuous but don't actually act promiscous

Popular_Accountant60 · 2023-03-29T22:19:03+00:00

I don’t know what the point of this post is, but my husband and all his friends prefer more glamorous looking women who also know how to dress seductively when they want to. And that’s exactly what they all got. Now each of our “body counts” vary greatly from 1 to closing in on triple digits. And guess what no one cares because each person is with their respective partner simply because they love them as a person. (Of course the initial attraction started because of looks but the attraction stayed due to personality)

ChadChasingB · 2023-03-29T21:56:06+00:00

Women don’t need to justify or defend their sexual choices to anyone, because no one is being forced to date them. Men don’t need to justify their choices either. You have your personal opinions that can be applied to your future partner, but they don't apply to the girl that doesn't want you.

RatchedAngle · 2023-03-29T22:15:30+00:00

It would appear that men want women who are promiscuous for easy sex and women who aren’t promiscuous for marriage.

The problem occurs when married women realize that the promiscuous women will always have some measure of power over their husbands. Whether it be through porn (and subsequent unrealistic expectations), actual infidelity with a mistress, visits to the strip club while the wife’s at home breastfeeding…non-promiscuous women do notice the sway that promiscuous women have over men.

And every woman, even wholesome good virginal women, wants to feel like a sex goddess in her husband’s eyes. It’s hard to feel like a sex goddess when you have pregnancy stretch marks and leaky breasts from feeding the baby and you’re still recovering from a vaginal birth or a c-section. Meanwhile you see the women in porn and think, “Gosh, I’ll never be able to compete.”

And it hurts.

Plus, if we dress slutty, men will assume we’re slutty. No good redpiller believes a woman when she says she’s a virgin, anyway. Even a trad girl dressed head-to-toe in frumpy nun clothes will be accused of lying about her virginity. So there’s no point in being a virgin if no man will believe you anyway.

Also, to add:

For women, it’s actually quite difficult to learn what gets us off. It took me until I was 26 to become fully in-tune with my body, and I lost my virginity to my husband when I was 19.

If the answer to that is, “A woman doesn’t have to know how to get herself off…that’s the man’s job,” I’m sorry but that’s laughable. Even Johnny Sins probably couldn’t teach most women how to get themselves off. That’s porn fantasy. Men will be infinitely better in bed when they start relying on women to tell them, “Hey, this is what gets me off.”

In order to do that, we have to encourage women to first figure out what gets them off. Which is hard because most porn gives women waaaayyy wrong ideas about what feels good (to a female).

Also, I wouldn’t really rely on women bragging as accurate information. Women like to tease and titillate men by bragging about the shit we’re into. I remember bragging to my husband about how crazy good my orgasms were (I thought I had it all figured out then), but I still had so much to learn.

And there are plenty of attractive women whose husbands still take every opportunity possible to look at porn or thirst traps of other women. The idea that all we have to do is just be hot and sexually available to have a happy husband is so false it’s not even funny.

Existing-Sign4804 · 2023-03-30T01:43:51+00:00

That was a lot of words to say, men want super hot virgins. I’m waiting for the part where women are incentivized to be super hot virgins?

ChadChasingB · 2023-03-29T22:01:11+00:00

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woahisme111 · 2023-03-30T00:14:00+00:00

Modern men asking for things they cannot offer or reciprocate, the usual

SoldierExcelsior · 2023-03-30T00:42:18+00:00

What's your idea of looking promiscuous?

Personally I don't judge a book by the cover...A cam girl could have an N count of Zero and and the Ivy league Dr could be at 500

nemma88 · 2023-03-29T22:34:31+00:00

Sex is as much of a skill as anything else - but it wouldn't require many men, multiple times with one is as good.

I was pretty starfishy until 22-23ish when I became more in tune with my sexuality, partially from experiencing and exploring sex. Sex after which was certainly better for me, and probably for guys because guys like enthusiasm, and there's a certain confidence that comes with knowing you know how to have a good time.

I've never fractured a penis. Once one bled, and you know, important learning moment.

I mean yes for the title though, men want women who are in to them and sexually only in to them. Thing is, women want this too.

Camera_Dizzy · 2023-03-29T22:42:15+00:00

Men do not want a woman who looks promiscuous, why do you think so many men don’t like the idea of their girl going out in revealing clothing?

You are right about men wanting women to not act promiscuous but that only applies to when it is towards anyone other than themselves. If a women acts promiscuous towards anyone other than their partner then that is just a big red flag and it definitely warrants a break up

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Asatmaya · 2023-03-29T21:55:47+00:00

No, we want women who will be promiscuous WITH US!! (and maybe their cute girlfriends)

We don't want a woman who just sleeps with anyone, but we don't want a prude, either, however hot they dress.

babastart · 2023-03-29T22:00:04+00:00

Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets.

fantabroo · 2023-03-30T10:23:50+00:00

Sure. Guys want someone who's a slut but only for them. Extremely basic take.

Bioslack · 2023-03-30T15:41:52+00:00

Correct. Men want a woman who looks desirable by every man but only desires them.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-03-29T23:19:34+00:00

what do you mean by looks promiscuous? because that is such a vague statement that can mean anything, did you mean dresses like a promiscuous woman? well i know many men want to fuck them but to date them thats another story

ComfortableOk5003 · 2023-03-30T03:41:22+00:00

I don’t know to many guys who wife up chicks who dress like hoes…

Do men like women with tits and ass and a flat tummy yes…does it have to be out on display for everyone…no and I’d say more men agree with that. So I don’t agree with men wanting women who look like hoes

AristedesAllow · 2023-03-30T12:02:56+00:00

In so many words: we want an attractive woman who can tolerate sex, but doesn’t fuck the neighbors.

thisreallyisnotok · 2023-03-30T19:12:36+00:00

No one wants anybody who acts promiscuous. Promiscuity is bad

Also having a high n count doesn’t make you promiscuous by definition. Promiscuous means that you’re easy. No one wants to date someone who fucks someone when black out drunk without learning their name.

harmonica2 · 2023-03-30T21:22:09+00:00

I'm a guy and I also like it when a woman is passionate in bed. Why would a guy want a woman who just lays there?

harmonica2 · 2023-03-31T01:39:07+00:00

What if a guy had a high count because a lot of women only wanted him for ONSs but not for dating. That would make him involuntarily promiscuous in a way if that's all I could get mostly?

begayallday · 2023-03-31T01:40:21+00:00

Shit like this is why I’m so glad I switched to women. You can want what you want all you like, but that doesn’t mean there are an abundance of chaste women who look like Instagram models out there. And those who meet this description can 100% find a better dude than people like yourself.

Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2023-03-31T05:12:35+00:00

Men want a virgin, who is a slut in the bedroom. Men want a woman who dresses like a slut when they are with her, but she dresses modestly when they are not with her.

Title	Men want women who look promiscuous but don't actually act promiscous
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Date	March 29, 2023 8:45 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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