Women should be allowed to have unrealistic expectations of men

Remote-Classic-3532 · 2023-08-17T21:35:53+00:00

Anyone should be allowed to have whatever expectations they want of anybody. They just also shouldn’t complain when those expectations make everyone around them miserable and they get called out for it.

Steakman1 · 2023-08-17T22:11:48+00:00

Women can have whatever unrealistic expectations they want. And if they are fine with being alone forever if their expectations aren’t met, then who am I to tell them what to do? But if I know their expectations are mostly centered around materialistic things, then I know I should probably avoid them.

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-08-17T21:42:08+00:00

Women ~~should be~~

Are allowed to have unrealistic expectations. I however, am not marrying a bum.

Godspeed and good luck!

operation-spot · 2023-08-17T22:40:57+00:00

It’s sad to see that men only improve for the sake of getting the “reward” of a woman and not for the sake of improving because it’s fun. Sex is not a reward, sex is not a guarantee for improving, and no woman is coming to nurture or be your mother.

This reads like the definition of benevolent sexism.

Sensitive_Bluebird22 · 2023-08-17T21:58:53+00:00

Username checks out 👍🏾

Kaeserface1 · 2023-08-17T22:16:23+00:00

Women should be allowed nothing and like it!

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-18T00:55:20+00:00

Womens high expectations have created a generation of learned helpless among men. If you are never given idea I’d what it means or looks like to meet a woman’s expectations, why bother? And indeed we are seeing record levels of suicide and men dropping out of society at younger and younger ages.

Have the expectations you want, but your gambling in believing men will just be better. In reality, you’ve coerced them into giving up. I was in a marriage like this. It’s not fun being with someone who cannot express being satisfied with you.

SlowEffective8146 · 2023-08-17T21:59:35+00:00

nah fuck that, women have higher college graduation rates. It's time for them to compete for us.

Purple_Cruncher_123 · 2023-08-17T22:43:04+00:00

Expectations? Sure. Unrealistic expectations? Best of luck.

$35/hr job requiring either job experience and/or higher education? Expectations.

$15/hr job requiring both job experience and higher education, as well as extra unpaid overtime and no vacation benefits? Unrealistic expectations.

People can have whatever expectations or demands they want. I just have a lot less sympathy for the ones who ask for much, offer little, and then lament ‘why does nobody want to work anymore?’

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-08-17T21:51:10+00:00

What? No. Flat no. Ladies, we too can always better ourselves, so we need to get cracking. Just existing is NOT enough.

yusuf1029 · 2023-08-17T22:10:27+00:00

This is why we need to make advancements in artificial wombs and robotics. The main contention between the genders stems from reproduction and intercourse. If men could invent a libido killing drug that doesn't ruin your body or some kind of artificial womb, I think that's the closest we could get to equality between the genders. Men are always going to suffer and be at a disadvantage in today's hypegamous society. I'm interested in what the future holds for men.

Lovemelikeareptile1 · 2023-08-17T22:35:31+00:00

Honestly, I see the opposite. Women injecting stuff in their lips, faces, rubber in their asses, silicone in their boobs, sucking fat out of their tummies. All just to be sexier and more appealing to men. Men just exist and live their lives enjoying them and women want to attach themselves to a guy like this.

Suspicious-Bed-2717 · 2023-08-19T20:34:43+00:00

If a woman's expectation was healthy, lean and had his shit together. Then sure but guess what women's expectations are all genetic one you have no control over. Their expectation is for you to be a TALL,HANDSOME WHITE DUDE

Opening_Tell9388 · 2023-08-17T21:31:24+00:00

Based.

CMV that this is not a troll post lol.

I can't tell if you guys really fw feminism or you want women to be "A woman has every right to be a bum and be nothing but attractive and kind and expect a man who is rich, handsome, tall, works out, confident, funny, full head of hair, etc. etc."

Like you don't like when they are ambitious and make money and get independence, but you also don't want them to sit at home and want things from you? Shouldn't we pick one?

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wtknight · 2023-08-17T21:46:05+00:00

A woman has every right to be a bum and be nothing but attractive and kind and expect a man who is rich, handsome, tall, works out, confident, funny, full head of hair, etc. etc.

Women can't do this because they will be outcompeted by other women for higher value men. I agree with the concept of your post, but I think that your arguments justifying it go overboard. Women police themselves to be attractive to men through internal competition, so there will never be a world where every woman is a slob and still feel entitled to high value men. Some women out there will be making themselves more attractive, even if these women claim that they are "doing it for themselves and not to attract men".

Safinated · 2023-08-17T23:43:36+00:00

Everyone should be

As long as nobody has to meet them

eye_of_gnon · 2023-08-18T00:02:42+00:00

sure but dont expect to find anyone tho

2023-08-18T02:22:11+00:00

Have your expectations.

When they aren't met, blame yourself

One-Store2972 · 2023-08-18T09:04:30+00:00

1) if women can do it, men should be allowed to have a perfect 8 shaped women with anime sized boobs and ass and an actual personality.

OR

2) the more people in general crave these unrealistic standards the more people will be disillusioned into believing that these are real standards. If more and more women wanted a 7ft tall man, guess what? Eventually they’d start becoming more wanted and anything under that becomes unwanted

Uglypostwall · 2023-08-18T10:08:04+00:00

> On the flip side, as a woman there’s always a man who needs to improve for you. Even if that means you’re fat and ugly and got impregnated by a drunk guy. You still challenge him to do better by going after child support to teach him a lesson, or forcing him to become a good father

That's literally a way to get dumped lol.

IHaveABigDuvet · 2023-08-18T13:37:54+00:00

Women are socialised to nurture not just by nature. I think the differences between genders would be much much less without socialisation and is greatly overstated.

And this nurturing is evolutionarily towards CHILDREN not grown men .

Women since childhood have to do the lion-share of taking care of everyone else in the household.

We required to put in so much effort to look nice for men, to look slim enough but thick enough for men. We are required to listen to men when they talk ad nauseum, and massage their ego, and make them feel like BiG sTrOnG alphas so they don’t get upset and throw a tantrum. We are trained to cook and clean and fuck and pander.

If it was in “women’s nature” to nuture men, then why are so many women choosing the workforce, and singledom, instead of begging to be domestic servants for men? Why are so many women choosing to be child free?

harmonica2 · 2023-08-19T14:50:21+00:00

What's wrong with sex being the main motivation for guys to improve themselves? Sex is a great motivator in my opinion.

EcoFin101 · 2023-08-19T20:02:08+00:00

This is how you end up with 3 cats and depression.

Proudvow · 2023-08-20T03:24:56+00:00

A woman has every right to be a bum and be nothing but attractive and kind and expect a man who is rich, handsome, tall, works out, confident, funny, full head of hair, etc. etc.

Cool. But then don't pretend women are at all equal to or superior to men. A leech is an inferior.

Title	Women should be allowed to have unrealistic expectations of men
Author	this_isnotatroll
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Date	August 17, 2023 9:25 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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