"I ask men to show me their bank balance on the first date because I only want to go out with wealthy guys - I need to know if I'm wasting my time"

plumberack · 2023-09-02T13:25:47+00:00

Whatever happened to "Men should not follow their traditional gender role".

Salad_brawler9926 · 2023-09-02T13:45:21+00:00

“Is she good at BJs? I need to know if I’m wasting my time”

rarelyrightsometimes · 2023-09-02T13:34:52+00:00

"I ask women to show me their dowery on the first date because I only want to go out with wealthy guys daughters - I need to know if I'm wasting my time"..

Reverse that and it is what is that word they like to use?????? Starts with an S... lol

MennQ · 2023-09-02T13:44:18+00:00

And when I say I have a preference I'm a misogynist

ggleblanc2 · 2023-09-02T14:23:45+00:00

I ask women to show me their fertility test on the first date because I only want to go out with fertile women - I need to know if I'm wasting my time.

Fair is fair.

Sininenn · 2023-09-02T14:07:41+00:00

There's a simple response to gold diggers:

Get up, and leave. Let her pay for herself.

Baboon_Stew · 2023-09-02T14:03:52+00:00

Is that a quote from Kevin Costner’s ex wife? Or just greedy women in general.

JCgamerX · 2023-09-02T15:19:53+00:00

if someone asked me that on a first date I would get up and walk out without saying a word because it shows how little you value me as a person

DoctorStorm · 2023-09-02T15:27:12+00:00

Alright, I'll bite, let's play this out.

Ladies, ladies, hey, all the females actually here and reading and discussing with us - question for you all:

How many women have you known or do you currently know that employed this tactic AND ended up with a wealthy guy?

That's it, two parameters only - female employed tactic, male is wealthy, that's all that is required for the count.

Because I'm going to go with 0. Maybe 1. 2 or higher, and you're lying.

This shit does not attract wealth, and if you have to ask then he ain't wealthy. If a woman is out with a wealthy man, she fucking knows it, because it's fucking obvious, and she sure as shit isn't asking for bank balances.

Such drivel. Not that I doubt idiotic entitled women pull this crap, just that it sure as fuck isn't a winning strategy.

DutchOnionKnight · 2023-09-02T16:24:03+00:00

Every man dating her is wasting their time.

2023-09-02T13:53:57+00:00

Jokes on her. I only keep enough in my bank to cover my bills and I don’t keep access to my investments on my phone.

Ok_Night_7767 · 2023-09-02T16:39:57+00:00

The proper response to her request is "I was looking for a meaningful relationship based upon mutual attraction and compatibility. I am obviously wasting my time here." Immediately following this statement the man should depart.

ThePaulGoddard1234 · 2023-09-02T17:07:22+00:00

So how much does she charge for sexual services?

mcc9999 · 2023-09-02T15:13:42+00:00

Is she willing to show men her bank acct. too?

NoSpinach4025 · 2023-09-02T16:20:03+00:00

She's fugly.

Extraterrestrial1312 · 2023-09-02T17:35:07+00:00

An honest whore is a real treasure

cantwell660 · 2023-09-02T18:29:17+00:00

See im totally fine with stuff like this because it stops smart guys from wasting their time too. If a girl said that to me I'd laugh in her face and peace out. It's way easier when a date unveils their red flags on the first date.

PM_40 · 2023-09-02T15:55:12+00:00

This is what happens in Indian arranged marriages : the most backwards society.

michaelpaoli · 2023-09-02T16:49:29+00:00

ask men to show me their bank balance on the first date

Well, that makes it easy ... last date ... automatic rejection for gold diggers. Yeah, I don't want to waste my time ... or my hard earned money.

Punder_man · 2023-09-02T20:28:32+00:00

Imagine the outrage if a man said:
"I ask women to show me their Hymen on the first date because I only want to go out with virgin girls - I need to know if i'm wasting my time"

He would be lambasted and roasted as a filthy misogynist..

But of course this woman will be considered 'bold' or 'brave' or "Yass Kween Slay!" etc...

dJ_86 · 2023-09-02T18:20:04+00:00

I want to see a picture of her mother first.

401kisfun · 2023-09-02T15:28:16+00:00

The beauty of women this particular is that you know they never look that good naked, don’t perform well in the sack, nor are giving, nurturing when in a relationship, just off them opening their mouth

Bland-fantasie · 2023-09-02T14:25:50+00:00

I read a great piece yesterday about how women are mercenary capitalists in dating, where they will not personally date down socioeconomically, meaning sharing her resources. But they vote like socialists, for politicians promising to redistribute other people’s money.

Maybe we should start reconsidering some changes made in the past 170 years. Not all. Not even most. Just some.

miju-irl · 2023-09-02T18:29:46+00:00

Any woman who asks a question like that on a first date is nowhere near the high enough quality that she thinks she is "worth"

I absolutely spoil my wife these days but we started with nothing and she helped build me up to success I am today. That's a true woman of worth in my book

Current_Finding_4066 · 2023-09-02T21:18:41+00:00

If she at least was hot as fuck, but she is not.

At least she does guys a favor and shows them that she is not useful for anything but fucking.

roseffin · 2023-09-02T22:22:22+00:00

Sure. But first show me your nudes.

balamshir · 2023-09-02T22:43:43+00:00

Big talk for a 6

nsbbeachguy · 2023-09-03T01:42:03+00:00

I want to see a psychiatric evaluation, a health clearance, and a financial statement. Just don’t want to waste my time.

madman47 · 2023-09-03T02:00:13+00:00

Show me your tits on the first date, because I don't date women with fake tits. Or show me how well you can suck a dick. Then we'll talk. (She's gonna be disappointed, I only keep a few grand in the bank, the rest is with my broker)

Zestfully9398 · 2023-09-02T21:04:30+00:00

If I were dating that woman, I would show her my bank account and yet ask to split the bills just to show that she's not worth that much.

Yepitsme2020 · 2023-09-02T21:05:51+00:00

Who the fuck shows anyone their bank balance?!?

This is satire, it HAD to be…

BillieBoJangers · 2023-09-02T22:48:31+00:00

Easy way to filter out that that gold digger.

runner557 · 2023-09-03T03:15:13+00:00

Not a surprise at all that she's 30, been on probably a million dates, and still single.

Tallguystrongman · 2023-09-03T03:24:17+00:00

Ok. Fair. *pulls out a scale “Step on this please.”

Ronniebbb · 2023-09-02T18:58:47+00:00

I mean at.least she's telling us who she is. She has low morals and values, so men remember her face and this statement and stay clear unless you want a gold digger.

DiversityIsDivisive · 2023-09-02T20:03:56+00:00

Sure sure, and I ask women to show me their intact hymens on the first date because I only want to go out with virgins -- I need to know if I'm wasting my time.

The influencer stressed she wants to know the bank account details 'especially if they're under 5ft 10"'.

Mmmm, yes. I can relate. If she's anything less than 38 EE I especially want to know her gynological records and physician measurement of vaginal elasticity. Totally understandable.

Don't knock this gurl, fellas. I sense a kindred spirit in her. We're just two very conservative, traditional old souls!

ducayneAu · 2023-09-03T00:41:41+00:00

I too like to be scammed.

Normal-Yogurtcloset5 · 2023-09-03T01:52:37+00:00

I would ask for a sample of her oral skills first because I need to know if I’m wasting my time.

Buckowski66 · 2023-09-03T02:23:54+00:00

Wasting her time? Exactly how much does she charge by the hour?

SuperGreggJr · 2023-09-03T02:57:49+00:00

It a woman asked to see my bank account balance i would just get up and leave. She told me what kind of person she is and made all the guess work of seeing if she is a good partner extremely easy.

Plus she is asking when she goes on the first date and not before so she is wasting her own time lmao. People like this shot themselves in the foot and will die alone or with someone they will end up hating.

LazerDaighzer · 2023-09-03T05:19:48+00:00

No you fucking don’t!

smeeti · 2023-09-02T15:13:07+00:00

At least she’s being honest about it

namayake · 2023-09-02T20:02:19+00:00

I'd say a good way to know if a guy is wasting his time with a lady is if she asks to see his bank balance.

mrsclaw89 · 2023-09-02T20:08:11+00:00

Imagine if a man asked a woman her income to know if he's wasting his time or not. This is the kinda fuckery women do s9metimes. I asked men this before, but it was never a deterrent. He can make whatever as long as he loves me, we build together. My husband and I weren't shit when we got married, but we built a happy love filled home we protect.

saito200 · 2023-09-02T20:15:07+00:00

Makes sense. People are a number. Their worth as a human is equal to the number in their bank account /s

Jokes aside, she does she. I don't care. And I don't know why that is an article

LazerDaighzer · 2023-09-02T23:08:44+00:00

Sure you fucking do! I couldn’t think of one guy I’ve met in my life that would that. This is bullshit to provoke a reaction,

Normal_Machine4548 · 2023-09-03T01:01:34+00:00

Ill call her .......Screenshot Sally.....

pikapalooza · 2023-09-03T04:31:57+00:00

Wonder how much she's worth....

Gucciglaze27 · 2023-09-03T13:00:13+00:00

She might as well check my bank. Let her see what she’s going to miss out on. Was going to dog her either way 🤷‍♂️

LittleHamNerd · 2023-09-03T20:15:00+00:00

All these “pretty” women think they own the world. They need to realise men have feelings too and it depends on the character not money or other bullshit. I’d rather date a royal woman that uses no makeup and has a few flaws. I find anyone pretty.

McGauth925 · 2023-09-05T21:13:19+00:00

Well, that would save time for both parties. I'd get up and walk out on a woman who asked that on a first date.

Top-Chart-663 · 2023-09-02T23:02:53+00:00

Men keep on entertaining gold diggers so they are getting bolder. Stay away from the pretty ones. It's usually not worth it. Unless you absolutely need a trophy wife.

MrSaturn33 · 2023-09-02T17:45:45+00:00

'Does love and genuine connection just not exist anymore?' one questioned.

Correct, it doesn't. At least not in ameriKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKa

2023-09-03T03:12:43+00:00

My version of first date is hiking, sweety, he and I ain’t spending any money on the first dang date! You don’t even know if you are gonna like the person yet!

TenuousOgre · 2023-09-03T08:47:37+00:00

Those wealthy guys probably only want to go with 8-10s who are either low body count, or very skilled sexually and submissive and know how to cook, clear and take care of a man doing the providing, can she demonstrate any of those traits on a first date to see if she qualifies?

NatGasKing · 2023-09-03T11:28:06+00:00

I’d probably show them one of my accounts I have like $100 in to see the reaction. Then ask to inspect her naked and talk to her therapist.

SlowDullCracking · 2023-09-03T12:30:56+00:00

Clearly I'd be wasting MY time. NEXT.

WellActuallyUmm · 2023-09-04T21:35:16+00:00

I saw her on TikTok. The way she contorts her voice is a dealbreaker alone. So affected. So trying to put on a persona. She could have said anything and you can already realize she is a nightmare.

deptacon · 2023-09-14T19:46:13+00:00

The streets are calling - she went missing and needs to return home

Neil_LP · 2023-11-03T05:01:30+00:00

She took a lot of heat from men for that statement, but I wish all gold diggers did that even before the first date. It truly would save both of us a lot of time (and money).

Affectionate_Low5538 · 2024-01-08T14:43:23+00:00

If she was only looking to date wealthy guys, she wouldn't need to ask for their bank accounts. It would just be obvious she's dating someone wealthy, because that's not something hard to look for. How successful she would be at getting a wealthy guy is another story though.

Title	"I ask men to show me their bank balance on the first date because I only want to go out with wealthy guys - I need to know if I'm wasting my time"
Author	KrazyJazz
Upvotes	408
Comments	108
Date	September 2, 2023 12:46 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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